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Pick-up lines work

I did something I haven’t done in ages the other day.  I used a pick-up line on a man! I couldn’t let the opportunity to flirt slip away so I had to act fast.  I was at the opening gala for the Atlanta Film Festival last week when I noticed a very handsome guy.  Once I saw no ring (or tan line for one!), I shimmied his way after grabbing a second glass of Pinot aka liquid courage.   I said something about how he looked like a good challenge I could get into. I can’t even remember the exact words.  It didn’t matter that much!

It was enough to make him chuckle and say something like, “Oh really” and we spent the next couple of minutes chatting it up. I really should pick men up more often, it’s scary at first but getting a great response is an adrenaline rush! Ladies, do you use pick up lines on men? What has worked for you? Does it bother you when men approach you with a pick up line? What if it’s a really great one?

Guys, do you ever get approached by women in public? Do they use pick up lines on you? What is the best line a woman has used on you?

244 comments Add your comment

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
1:56 pm

SCool – How did the party you had to work at go? Did all the activities going on affect it? How did you & Melo’s daisy dukes fit? I understand it had been since the last Freaknic that you all wore them!LOL!!j/k!!!

We went ahead with our plans to hit Atlantic Station and had no trouble.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:58 pm

Gouda, I guess you are right. Like groupies chasing the all star, platinum record, million dollar dizzles. I guess they feel for some reason the dizzle with the most money and status feel better. Like a dog chasing it’s tail they are. Once they catch it, then what?

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:00 pm

First 3-way… check

First cougar… check

First midget… check

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
2:01 pm

Raqi

your 1:58, has anyone been watching basketball wives on VH1?

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:01 pm

Oh d@mn… did I type that in the wrong place? :lol:

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
2:01 pm

First midget… check

i feel light-headed, please grab deac. thornton’s shoe in case i pass out!

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
2:03 pm

The party actually came together really well. Unfortunately, the Freaknic…NotNic hype kept people away. Attendance was not what was expected. But…I had BIG fun and free drinks, so, I was gooooooood.

My dukes were too dusty (and probably about two sizes too small) for me to pull out the closet. Melo on the other hand – with his *nuthuggers*…um…eeewww…let me retract that. The visual on that is just too awful. LOL!

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
2:08 pm

I have a teammate on my Tuesday night softball team that is looking for females to play on a Monday night co-ed team in Hapeville. They are short girls. Cost to play $30. League starts tonight.

If you are interested, email me – cscfromajc@yahoo.com

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:09 pm

Swiss, I am not going to post my checklist. :) I am still looking for a female body builder who is not manly looking. I want her to be strong enough to do push ups while I am in her from the back, lifting me off of the ground like I am flying. All the while, I am saying “up up and away”, just like superman.LOL

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:10 pm

*nuthuggers*

That statement made me think about the song in “Beaches” when she is singing about the t!t slings. LOL

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
2:11 pm

Carlito, Carlito, Carlito

wow

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:11 pm

Well, d@mn. It’s official. I am no longer the freakiest whiteboy on this blog. :lol:

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:14 pm

Carlito, I thought I read you say your girlfriend read this forum.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:15 pm

Why am I the freakiest because I am helping her with her fitness. :) I was never white until I moved to Georgia. :) LOL

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
2:17 pm

Rock – I thought Carl was bs’ing with the bodybuilder thing.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:17 pm

Raqi, she does and she knows about the fat girl dreams and that one I just typed. She also knows some stuff I will not type. I know about her lusts and dream f*cks as well. :)

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:18 pm

Danggit, my age is showing again.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:19 pm

SexyCool, the flying part was a joke. The muscle bound, abs, thighs chest and back in a womanly way I was not. Most of those women get to big and start looking like a man. If she looka likah man, I can not do it.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:21 pm

I will never be, Brad Pitt, Jay Z, George Clooney, Vin Diesel or John Cena. But to her I bet I have. LOL

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:22 pm

Carlito, so that is an “experiment/fantasy” that the two of you will engage in together? Being that you are talking about the woman you are still looking for right here in her face.

I was kinda hoping what SexyCool said was true. It being a joke and all.

But don’t mind me. I will better tomorrow. Promise.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
2:23 pm

I’m sorry but I have no interest in marking a plus-size guy off a checklist or a midget aka little person.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:24 pm

“The muscle bound, abs, thighs chest and back in a womanly way…”

Ah, I see, Carlito — muscular, but feminine. In that case, I’m with you 100% on that one, although, I’ve never seen an actual female body builder who wasn’t too muscular. But I do love a woman with some good muscle definition in addition to the womanly curves. Matter of fact, that’s exactly who I married… :-D

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:26 pm

Raqi, it is just talk we both know that it is not going to happen. Just somethings that were on the “to do” list before getting a steady girlfriend. Stuff happens, goals change. I know her well enough that if we ran into John Cena or Brad Pitt she will not be getting with them. If she wanted to take a picture or get an autograph I would not mine, she likes they way they look. She knows me well enough that I would not cheat on her as well.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:28 pm

Carlito, thanks. :smile:

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:28 pm

Swiss, kudos :) you know what I mean. Mine has nice abs and is toned.(lacking nothing just in case she reads this) I am attracted to a runners or swimmers shape as well.

Slim, I would imagine a fat sloppy guy on you would be messy. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
2:31 pm

Like a dog chasing it’s tail they are.
I’ve been this dog before. But what you misunderstand is that the thrill is not in the capturing, but in the hunt. So, once you catch what you’ve been chasing, you put a check and move on to the next item on the list. Eventually, you either exhaust the list or it gets old. That’s when something meaningful will come to you, and you will be ready to receive it.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
2:31 pm

“I would imagine a fat sloppy guy on you would be messy”…um let’s try EWWWWWWWW YUCK YUCK YUCK…cough cough, can’t breathe…need air…please…feeling….faint………….(flatline)________________

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
2:34 pm

CARLITO….. :lol: OMG! I swear you and Swiss crack me the hell up! Oh and BTW…you are not White…you are tan! :lol: That is what my Italian homegirl says about her color.

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
2:35 pm

But I do love a woman with some good muscle definition in addition to the womanly curves.
Kicked it with a Nigerian chick with a body like this…loved it. Gotta admit that Dominique Dawes had me wanting the professional gymnast for a while.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:36 pm

DreamsM — Let me get my pen… I need to cosign that 2:31.

“Eventually, you either exhaust the list or it gets old. That’s when something meaningful will come to you, and you will be ready to receive it.”

Exactly. Which is why former man-wh@res can actually be some of the most faithful partners you ladies can find. It’s tha same reason Keith Richards can honestly tell kids to “say no to drugs” — ‘cos he’s already done them all… :lol:

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
2:40 pm

About the whole body tone topic…the guys I’ve recently dated are blessed with 6 packs and all that. Even though I’m slim, I don’t have that packs going on…so I asked both of them it they also wanted me to get my tone on…they both said nope. Didn’t want to be rubbing on some hard muscles on a woman. Said they enjoy that softness. Guess different strokes for different folks

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:40 pm

Swiss, I agree :)

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:42 pm

Dreams — I am one lucky mofo… Mrs. Swiss was already very toned & flexible when we met — now she’s really getting into yoga. Sweet Jesus! She drug me to the class with her once, but I can’t hang. Not only because I’m too inflexible, but seeing her get in all those positions makes the Matterhorn want to come out & play… Not a good look in gym shorts w/ a room full of soccer moms… :lol:

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:56 pm

On a completely different note… It looks like there may soon be a computer that even Sarah Palin can use

Professor

April 19th, 2010
2:58 pm

@DreamsM,

I remember hitting my brother with a pillow, because he could not hear or see anyone when Dominique Dawes came on. He only watched her…when she left the mat he left the room. I guess he was about 13 or 14 at that time.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:58 pm

Swiss, did you read that recent article about her and her over the top request for speaking engagements and such?

lurker_1

April 19th, 2010
3:00 pm

Depends on your status, fortunate or unfortunate, ATL has a national perception for having promiscuous females. That’s not my opinion but just from reading articles and listening to the Stews show :-) . I am married but I have been told by a couple of females that the fact I have on a ring doesn’t mean a thing to alot of women. My wife and daughter are hit on all the time. Just this past Sat, my wife come from kroger and she tells me this midget comes up to her tell she gorgeous. I asked her what race was he and she said I don’t know. She just kept walking. She finds it annoying but I tell her the reasons guys do this is because apparently it works some of the times. They be asking my daughter to go out to dinner. She tells them she can pay for her own dinner and you are as old as my dad :-) .

Professor

April 19th, 2010
3:01 pm

so I asked both of them it they also wanted me to get my tone on…

@Slim, Were you serious about getting your tone on if they would have said yes, or were you just testing the water?

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
3:01 pm

No, I missed that one, Carlito. What did she ask for? A complimentary brain?

Professor

April 19th, 2010
3:05 pm

They be asking my daughter to go out to dinner.

IMO, that is going too far and they are perverts!!! If I had a daughter and some jerk did that I would be outraged it is not cute.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
3:08 pm

Professor – well I used to work out before I got laid off, then when I did, I cut my membership off because it was a matter of needs & survival at that time. So i plan to revisit a gym anyway for personal reasons. So my question to them was two-fold. I wanted their honest opinion on the whole workout deal especially since they are definitely disciplined when it comes to working out…and also to ‘test the water’ :evil:

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
3:09 pm

Professor

April 19th, 2010
3:11 pm

@Slim “gotcha”

lurker_1

April 19th, 2010
3:13 pm

Professor: She’s 25 but I see your point. Not only is they my age, they’re probably married.

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
3:15 pm

This old ass white dude asked me out at the airport a few weeks ago. I wanted to say, “Dude, are you serious? You got wrinkles that are older than me.”

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:16 pm

They be asking my daughter to go out to dinner.

lurker-1, I was listening to the news and they were talking this male teacher that had an intimate relationship with a 17 year old student. The guy was not prosecuted because of the new law passed in the state that he lives. I was sitting there while watching that thinking if a teacher had a relationship with my child the law would be his least of worries.

I have heard the story twice and I have not yet heard what the parents have to say about it.

I know if my husband was the father of that child he would be the one standing before the court not some child molesting teacher. The teacher would have been taken care of already.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:17 pm

She’s 25 but I see your point.

lurker_1, nevermind about my comment then. I thought she was under age from your comment.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:21 pm

SexyCool, did you see the episode of Sex and The City when Samantha attempted a relationship with the old dude? She was okay until she saw him naked in the light. LOL

Old is okay when our wrinkles are about the same age. When Mase gets 80 I’ll be 79. LOL

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
3:23 pm

“This old ass white dude asked me out at the airport a few weeks ago…”

@ SexyCool — This girl I dated in high school (who grew up to be a capital-H HO, incidentally), let me in on a little gold-digger secret when I saw her years later: She said that one of the best places to find a sugar daddy was in airport bars — lot’s of horny, old business men, away from home & looking for some play. Had ol’ dude stumbled across this chick, I’m sure she would have happily shown him a good time in return for a few gifts… :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
3:34 pm

The teacher would have been taken care of already.
Does the 17 year old bear any responsibility in this, or do we assume she doesn’t know any better? I’m not siding with the teacher, I’m just asking a question. What if she were a 19 year old having an affair with a college professor? Is it different then (philosophically, not legally)?