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Scaring her off

I don’t worship at the Church of Oprah or anything, but sometimes her shows really fascinate me.  For example, yesterday she had a security expert on to talk about ways women could look for signs of potentially dangerous men.   He even developed an assessment tool that can be used to determine “how much of a threat” an abusive person could be, called MOSAIC:

I can understand the need to find out this kind of thing.  Especially if domestic violence is involved.  It made me think about how a lot of us don’t listen to our instincts and intuition.  Sometimes we are oblivious to what we project in our behavior.

In my experiences, some men don’t always know how they come across to women.  There are many ways that a guy can scare a woman off when he is trying to do the opposite.  Ladies, what type of behaviors do some men have that tend to scare you away? Have you ever told a guy why he torpedoed any chances of dating you because of something that really bothered you?

Guys, have you ever met a great woman and scared her off with something you did? Was it intentional? Can you tell when your behavior has been perceived in a negative way by a woman?  Do you try to explain it or do you cut your losses and keep it moving?

Happy Friday!

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Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
8:48 am

Happy Friday!!!!!

This makes me think of I guy I met a few years back and I suspected he was an recovering addict…..didn’t have the balls to ask it was just something weird about him…..it never went anywhere I kept it moving….I know assuming is wrong but that gut feeling was there….he was good people though through conversation…..

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:15 am

Hola!

Ladies, what type of behaviors do some men have that tend to scare you away?

I will say this guys that try to rush into a relationship or the bedroom scare me away. Plus I do not like it when I tell a man that we can meet and he insist on trying to De-bo his way to my home.

SlimCoo-Coo

April 16th, 2010
9:16 am

Good morning! HAPPY FREAKY-LESS FRIDAY (I think yall pretty much covered all that yesterday) ;-)

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
9:18 am

Professor

I agree with you

Lady J
but that gut feeling was there

^^^^^^^that feeling is usually on point

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:22 am

you got it PK!!!!!!! LOL

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
9:23 am

As far as the topic goes, I don’t like men that are overly emotional, short-tempered, or extremely judgemental. I met a guy once and he was just too over the top. We met on a Friday. He asked me what I had going on that weekend, which I told him I had plans. The very next day he starts sending me all these crazy text messages basically saying since I met him, that I should’ve cancelled all my plans especially if I claimed to want a life with someone I loved etc. Even later on that night or should i say morning (3am) he starts blowing up my phone with messages calling me a liar and that i said I wanted to build a future with someone and I wasn’t acting like it..said I was playing games. WTF whoa dude! Scary… We never even made it out to hang out together and he was already acting like we had slept together. Glad he never saw the CT lol

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:28 am

Slim I met this west indies dude once and I must say I agree with what has been said about them he was very much controlling from the start and felt I should fall in line to his plan of action set up shop move him in and support him and his truck driving business all in a 2 week meet n greet period….even went off a few times bc Iam fiesty and I shouted back have you lost your damn mind….I am not desperate for a man, not looking for a baby daddy, and you are not bout to move in here and beat my when I get out of line…..hmmmmmm no thank you…..too damn possessive and that ain’t cute…..from an abusive childhood he would have been dead in his sleep and me locked up for life! Homie don’t play that! HA!

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:29 am

List of behaviors that scare me away

1. Coming on too strong. Dude, I don’t want to be your wife, freak or BM especially when I don’t know your last name. Keep your nasty comments and lip licking to yourself.

2. Spending habits. Ok, this is a tricky one, but I met this guy that was an owner/operator of his business. Every night he was call me and say I made 10K today or I made 8K today. So finally I asked him why he did that and he did not have an answer. The funniest thing about his situation to me was he needed a rental car and did not have means to get one. :shock: I was like go to carmax and buy a cheap car off your daily salary.

3. Nasty car…filthy house. It is one thing to be junky, but I cannot stand filth.

4. Controlling behavior. I ain’t Anna Mae, and you damn sho ain’t gone Ike me, so when I see that controlling behavior it is time to GET!

5. Condescending behavior. I think you are trying to tear down my self esteem or something so you can become abusive.

6. Know it all. If you know that damn much go write a dictionary or do something more productive than talk to me.

7. Lying. That is a red flag of the red flags it makes me think you are trying to paint a perfect picture while coloring outside the lines. I cannot stand a liar.

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:31 am

Professor 4 & 5 a sistah will get GHOST!!!!!!! That ish ain’t cute!

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
9:32 am

Professor

^5

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:32 am

Hey Lady J,

I can spot those recovering addicts a mile away especially if they are not firmly grounded in their recovery and don’t say anything about it. Now, if they tell me I have been clean and sober for three years and they attend their meetings and maybe sponsor someone that is a different story, but the ones that hide it…poof be gone!

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:34 am

you are right Professor bc I am a supportive person but it wasn’t like that and although I feel he was clean I just didn’t want to take the ride…..just like some men prefer not to date women with kids that is how I felt about that situation……

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:38 am

one thing I have come to appreciate about dating that wasn’t so clear in my late 20s is it feels GREAT to have options and not be an option!!!!!!!!!! LOL

Everyone has a story and a closet and no one story is better or worse but when you are not interested don’t waste time….keep it lite and keep it moving!!!!

yellow is the color of sun ray!!!!!!! :)

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:38 am

Lady J,

I have met guys that were 4 and 5 put together :shock:

Behaviors I like in a Man that makes me want to stay around

1. Positive attitude- something about someone being positive when everything else is going bad is a good sign to me.

2. Encouraging- I love it when a man say I know you can do that, or even help me master my plan or ideas.

3. Gentle- something about men with daughters or sisters have this gentleness about them…its like they get it with their warm and caring behavior.

4. Respectful- a man that knows how to disagree and argue without talking about my momma or my weave. He knows how to stay on the issue, and not make it personal.

5. Gentleman- I love it when he opens doors or walk on the outside when we are taking a walk…stuff like that melts my little achy breaky heart.

6. Thinker/Reader- what can I say I have a thing for intelligent men.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
9:38 am

I know i scared a few chicks off right after my divorce cause I was a wreck.. Not in the Im gonna choke you kinda way but just real stand off-ish. I was looking for the faults instead of the beauty. Looking for the lies instead of the truth.

Speaking off dates.. Ms Flip Flops came out last night on our coffee date with some more flops on.. I met her in the parking lot and didnt say anything but I was let down.. She got out the car and gave me a hug and laughed.. She said “Youre sweet I know you dont like flops but I wore them just to see what you would say”. She then proceeded to sit back down in the car and bust out the heels with her jeans and I was gone.. She still looked amazing with her flops on and we had a great time shutting borders down, talking.. We ended up at Intermezzos and it was a good night. i didnt even go for a smooch but when I walked her to her car she pecked me on the cheek and gave me a goooood hug.. I like her.. Feels like ive known her forever.. We talked on the phone until my battery went dead last night and again this morning.. So date two is this evening.. Any ideas where I should take her?

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
9:39 am

I ain’t Anna Mae, and you damn sho ain’t gone Ike me,

:lol:

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:40 am

hmmmmm yall I may have to do this Cedric the Entertainer Comedy show……hmmmmm

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:41 am

one thing I have come to appreciate about dating that wasn’t so clear in my late 20s is it feels GREAT to have options and not be an option!!!!!!!!!!

Amen sista In my 20s I would go out because I was asked, now I DECLINE in a nice respectful manner. Sometimes I wish I knew then what I know now…hell that is useless thinking because I would not know it now if I didn’t go through it then.

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
9:41 am

Professor you are on it today!

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:41 am

awwww dk!!!!!! too cute!

julian

April 16th, 2010
9:42 am

i’d never date a recovering addict. There is something fundamentally wrong that caused them to take that first hit/drink/whatever, and i’m not dealing with that.

if you gotta talk about how much money you have, something is wrong, i’m out.

if you talk crazy about your ex that’s disrepectful, plus if that person was so crazy, why were you with them, i’m out.

if you don’t fight fair, step. by that i mean, if you use something i’ve revealed about myself against me in an argument, you have no character, i’m out.

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
9:43 am

Awww DK, that’s sweet…I LOVE Intermezzo’s by the way. That cherry pie with the crystallized sugar on top is to die for. Hmmmmm As far as plans for tonight, you may want to stay outside the perimeter to avoid any traffic woes…there’s just too much going on within the city unless you all are going the Marta route. Think of something interactive…bowling skills or something….miniature golf…a cooking class…tango lesson…i’ll keep my thinking cap on though

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:44 am

professor your 9:38 is the reason I can’t STOP smiling today!!!!!! Boy that dude that brings all that gives me a natrual high like no other!!!!! May be the best I EVER had!!!!! Girl don’t make me start my happy dance so early!!!!!!! LOL

A down to earth with common sense with intelligence out the waters with gace and manners whew chile!!!!!! Good men are out that when you change self you attract better!!!!!!

Shouting!!!!! LOL

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
9:45 am

She said “Youre sweet I know you dont like flops but I wore them just to see what you would say”. She then proceeded to sit back down in the car and bust out the heels with her jeans and I was gone

DK that is cute LOL

M. (pronouced M dot)

April 16th, 2010
9:47 am

Good day.

I think the things that I do that scare women off is that I am just too:

1. Blunt and dont always agree with them.
2. Lackadaisical when I deal with them.
3. That I am not interested and dont really care. Maybe I was just bored? I need to be better but it seems like every female was talking the same thing. Am I the only guy that experienced that?

I think guys need to watch out to because there are instances when women are dangerous. This is a 2 way street. I dated a girl who was on Lexipro. If you dont know what its for, google it. She was crazy and I really didnt feel safe being around her or even riding in the car with her.

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:47 am

Lady J,

Let me know if you decide to go. When is it, because I say Cedric back in the 90s, in fact I won the tickets off the radio and he had me feeling like I had done an ab workout I laughed so hard.

Lady Eze-Z

April 16th, 2010
9:50 am

Aww, yeah. You know what Im talkin bout, got that man, speaking the gheto, cant even string no sentence together, he be all like “I’m posting on the blog here,got my stuff al set up rel strait an everythang”, know what Im sayin. Make me be gone like that, yo!

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:50 am

Professor I will confirm next week!!!! It is looking like that is going to be my treat to myself….I will be on my 2 week off period from classes!!!!! My last week is approaching!!!! whew a minor accomplishment almost made! Get it J!!!!!1 LOL

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:51 am

@ Princess thanks lady!

@ DK now that is cool…I was smiling the entire time I read your post.

@Lady J, whew chile on your 9:44 I could smell his colonge. :grin:

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:52 am

it is a blog (INFORMAL @ BEST) geesh skeptics amuse me!

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:52 am

Professor it feels good!

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:53 am

@Lady Eze-Z, YES that is scary especially to me because I cannot decipher all that mess, or I will start talking like them :grin: which is worst :shock:

Professor

April 16th, 2010
9:56 am

Lady J,

I am so PROUD of you. You are finishing up classes, and you make some good points on the blog that are realistic and practical. Girl you are doing the damn thang!

@M. dot–Was that you on the blog that joned that lady out that time? I am bad with names, but I just remember you, Dan or someone shutting it down with the jokes.

Kym

April 16th, 2010
9:57 am

Good Morning All,

I agree with Professor’s list.

@DK I am glad you meet a nice girl..nothing wrong IMO..with taking Marta to the Dogwood festival..I thought I saw they were doing screen on the green..but that might be tomorrow night..hmmm I am thinking of something else different…

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
9:57 am

Good morning!

@SlimCoo-Coo ~ I thought the “milkshake” brings all the boys to the yard!

@Professor ~ great posts and on point on every level.

@InfamousD ~ that is too endearing. Glad you both are hitting it off and your excited about the second date. That’s sweet!

What do I do that may scare guys off:

1. Call them on their BS right off the back
2. Ask questions and then call them on their BS answers (lol)
3. Too much time at track meets
4. They don’t seem to understand why I won’t invite them over within a week of talking with them.
5. Like to spend the little time I do have sometimes by myself
5. Back to #1

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
9:58 am

Thanks Professor!!!!!!!!! Just finding me and having a party with me!!!! Who knew it would feel good!!!!! Dealing with self is not all that bad as I once thought!

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
9:58 am

Ya’ll she had a mean walk in them heels too.. Claude Ham Mercy.. I kept trying to be cool but we just kept laughing and had the best time. I was totally me last night because the guard was down, disarmed by her smile and beautiful chocolatte skin… I wanted to bite her but… I chilled.. It was funny cause her girl called her twice while we were out and was like ya’ll still on a date? Girl you didnt tell me you gotta a boyfriend, she blushed and quickly got off the phone.. Although I would not the stuffing outta her egg mcmuffin, Im not immediately after that.. I actually like talking to her.. Is that possible after 1 date? I done bumped my d@mn head somewhere.

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
10:00 am

leggs your #1 is on it when you call that crap and keep it moving it is a priceless moment of self security!!!!!!

abc

April 16th, 2010
10:00 am

I’ve never ’scared a woman off’. I see that in my kids, too. Young as they are, every time we’re out golfing or whatever, the little chickies hit on them constantly! And on me! It’s funny after awhile. I advise them to be VERY choosy about responding to chicks that are like that.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
10:01 am

Kym – thats what I was thinking.. A blanky, some fruit, wine and off.. Oh and my Zyrtek.. She mentioned she like Reisling last night so I made a mental note.. We didnt even get drinks last night just tea.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
10:01 am

In my experiences, some women don’t always know how they come across to men!!

Yeah,i flipped it coz it was sounding like Scare Men Off This Freaky Friday already!! :lol:

A woman that curses at every turn,like a sailor is a No No and i wld think shes is more suitable for men that spend their day doing hard labor type jobs…u know,the auto workshop,truck driver,warehouse loading dock types etc.

biatch this,and biatch that and phluck here and my phlcucking Damn goodness there!..No, i aint having that in a woman,Really!

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
10:01 am

lmao I didn’t see back to #1 Leggs too daggit funny!!!!!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:02 am

DK- mayne don’t sweat it…you are just enjoying the chemistry that you two have at the moment. Just roll with the tide and see what happens. It’s sort of hard to truly enjoy someone when you have barbed wire, a 46 mile trench and a 8 mile long lake guarding yourself. This is the show starring Infamous DK…I’m happy for you. I’m sure if that doesn’t work out, there will still be some CoCo puffs left for you to come back to. :mrgreen:

M. (pronouced M dot)

April 16th, 2010
10:03 am

@Professor

Nope. Wasnt me.

Professor

April 16th, 2010
10:05 am

Leggs,

You know how to call them on that BS! I had a flashback on how you tore dude’s number up in his face. BAM

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
10:05 am

hmmmmmm pondering away……lol

lurker

April 16th, 2010
10:07 am

DK – It’s refreshing to see a dude bit so early on and ain’t scared to say so.

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:08 am

Leggs, what do you normally tell dudes that approach you, that you arent interested in if they ask for you number?

Willie Dynamite

April 16th, 2010
10:09 am

Bookem Dano uhh meant DK – Thats real cool, Chick seems down to earth. Stick to the plan and stay away from Date type scenarios. Find a nice park and just chill or take a walk. Anything that gets you 1 on 1 in a disarming manner whilst you continue digging in that mental.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
10:12 am

Slim – its still Infamous now.. Im playing it day by day cause next week she might do something that might make me dip or i could do something to make her dip.. Its just the intial getting to know each other phase. Now eventually we are gonna have to exchange O faces and see if we are really good for each other.. Oh yes she is gonna get a 9:15 and with her petite frame shes gonna get baby boy-ed. Bounced all around the room, excuse me, the house..

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
10:13 am

willie d those alternative settings are so cool routine is just that…it sets the tone for quality substance! Good post!

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
10:13 am

Good Happy Almost Weekend Gang!

Professor, love your list! Like yours too Leggs!

DK – That was FABULOUS!! I love it! That sounds almost like me & my SO’s first date. It is wonderful having someone you can TALK to & be attracted to at the same time! Love that little shoe switchup, by the way!LOL!! Yeah, the festival & picnic sound perfect for you two!

On topic – Other than the usual signs & red flags, I have learned to really trust my instincts. There have been times when my instincts did not seem logical so I tried to dismiss them, only to regret it later. There have been some guys that didn’t do anything wrong – they just had that unexplainable creepyness about them that scared me away. Could have been nice guys, but I don’t miss what I never had.

Lady J-PYT-I wanna dance!!!!! TGIF

April 16th, 2010
10:16 am

kimmie that is a great way to put it…..unexplainable creepyness….lol….and I know there are plenty of men that feel the same way about some women they meet….lol it is ok to meet n greet and keep it moving….lol

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:19 am

@SlimCoo-Coo ~ No. If a man asks for my number or wants to give me his and I want to get to know him more, we’ll exchange numbers.

However, if a man starts talking crap as soon as I step out the car I keep on walking.

As I’m talking with the one I gave my number to and he starts talking out the side of his mouth, I will call him on it. Depending on what it is I may laugh and ask why he said what he said. But no, I don’t immediately shoot people out the water if that’s what you’re asking.

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:21 am

DK – I hope to exchange some O faces pretty soon…it’s spring dayumit :mrgreen: Well just enjoy, I love the initial long conversations and excitement with someone you really feel you have a vibe with. Either way, hope all goes well…the picnic idea sounds cool. I’ve been thinking about planning one myself. What’s a good park to do it at though? Piedmont? Centennial?

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
10:22 am

Willie – Mayne this chick is ferocious.. But shes got the demeanor that she doesnt get how cute she is.. Got out the car with nothing but lip gloss and glasses. When she took her glasses of and the sun hit them brown eyes, I had to pull a toastmasters move and focus on the top of her head..

Willie Dynamite

April 16th, 2010
10:23 am

On Topic – I dont think I’ve ever just scared a woman off. I’ve never been the overly aggressive type trying to have my way. A few I prolly slept on because I didn’t want it if it was that easy. That in itself is a turn-off. If I know I can get it like that then I dont want it. I am also turned off by the cursing like a Sailor. I dont mind you cursing as a part of normal ADULT conversation but every other word gets me ghost fast. One other thing is dont bust out the hurdle list on me. I’d rather not deal with the 3.5 dates to a kiss, 6.7 dinners before you get the tip, 90 days before the do type Chicks. At least dont verbalize it. If I feel like a Dog doing tricks for treats then I’m ghost. Either you feeling me or not.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
10:24 am

@Proff!

ur number 3,Nasty car on a phine looking female is also kinda scary too.

why not get urself a cheap and reasonalble car thats claen and reliable??

Reg flag!

Respectful- a man that knows how to disagree and argue without talking about my momma or my weave. He knows how to stay on the issue, and not make it personal

This is a good one!

Ive seen it, even on the blog, a party loses an argument on points and they belittle u by calling u a derog name! :lol:

There is smething to be admired about a person who says,”u right” or “i disagree” without taking it to the left field!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:28 am

Leggs No I wasnt asking if you shoot brothers down off the rip. Just wanted to know how you let dudes down when you aren’t interested. That’s all. Seems like if a dudes asks you if you’re in a relationship and you tell them no, but also express that you aren’t interested in exchanging numbers that they keep trying to find a way to get you to give up the digits. I don’t want to start lying telling folks I’m married or something LOL!

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
10:28 am

Slim – Im still Sangle now and until things change Im not shutting down the world off of one date..

There is a park in the heart of Buckhead thats real cool.. OR.. They just opened up the beginning of the Beltline so you can check that out..

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:28 am

@SlimCoo-Coo just remember, there aren’t a lot of trees at Centennial to sit under (not that you have to have a tree). But, it show helps block out some of the sunrays!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:40 am

Maybe one day I’ll take a Sunday drive around the city to check out potential picnic date areas….

Mo (aka Moeisha )

April 16th, 2010
10:40 am

Hey Err’body, TGIF!!

Im speed reading to catch up so give me a sec….

Its supposed to rain tomorrow and I am glad!! WHEW!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:42 am

@SlimCoo-Coo ~ ok, gotcha! I get quite a few guys asking if I’m married. Depending what I see standing in front of me and how they speak, I more often say “yes, my husband wouldn’t appreciate me exchanging phone numbers.” Most smile and say ok. I have gotten a few who said something as dumb as “I don’t want to see your husband, I like to see more of you.” I SMDH and walk either in the store or to my car. Glib answers like that are just that glib and need to fall at my feet and stomped on as I shashshay away. So, yes there have been times I have lied just to stop any further conversation.

For others I don’t want to continue talking to or just tired of straining to understand “what is coming out of their moufs” I say I’m recently divorced and not ready for potential dating. Most understand this (LOL).

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:42 am

Anyone ever done the Sky Walk (adventure course) at Stone Mountain park?

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:44 am

“I’m recently divorced and not ready for potential dating”

Yeah I told a dude the other day that I just got out of a long term relationship and I’m not ready to meet anyone new…that went in one ear and out the other. He told me not to sleep on him or else I could miss out. lol

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
10:44 am

If you have a wife or a live in or a girlfriend or someone who thinks they’re your girlfriend, or three baby mommas or tat on your face or grubby paws (short stubby, ugly fingers) that scares the sht outta me. NEXT!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:45 am

I’m sorry, I know I’m coming across as if I only meet “indigent” type folk (LOLOL), but that’s not the case. I don’t go out and party a lot so those I meet at stores, gas stations, etc sometimes leaves me scratching my head.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
10:46 am

Leggs – I can’t stand those glib comments either! Plenty times I have responded that I’m seeing someone, only to have them reply “You don’t know whatcha missin”!

kinderbabe--29 days and counting! woohoo!

April 16th, 2010
10:47 am

hey everybody…happy friday!!:)

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:47 am

@SlimCoco ~ just realized I’ve been spelling Coo Coo wrong. Anyway, my smart mouth would more than likely say “well, guess I have to miss out!”

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
10:49 am

You know thats one thing I never do.. If babe tells me shes in a relationship or whatever I just reply “Well it was still nice to meet you” and keep it pushing.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
10:49 am

Leggs/Slim – Sometimes I just keep saying no thank you as I smile & quickly walk away. Even if it’s not a “no thank you” type question. They look at me like I’m crazy & usually leave me alone!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:50 am

You know, we all think we’re the “cat’s meow.” Nothing wrong there. What’s wrong is when you come across so smug and so conceited that there must be cotton in your ears because you can’t anything I’m saying and you keep talking, walking behind me, trying to lean in my car window….GTFAFM!

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
10:50 am

Sometimes I just keep saying no thank you as I smile & quickly walk away

Kimmie, me too!!! or i’ll say i’m good and keep it moving.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
10:51 am

@@IDK??

She seems to be on point so far!

I suggest u take her to a pool place,where they also serve liqor and see how the interaction is with other pple and also how she handles liqor,if at all! :lol:

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:51 am

@InfamousD ~ that’s a response most ladies are looking for. Unfortunately, not many speak that language.

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
10:52 am

ohhhh a major turn off for me is a dude getting slick out the mouth in his approach while my daughter is standing there.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
10:52 am

Whip that trick! I’m on a horse.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
10:53 am

Princess & Kimmie – Ya’ll bet not say that I’m good or No thank you to me like that or Imma grab ya biscuits and say now you are truly good… Imma be licking my fingers too after I do it so ya’ll will think Im pure D crazy..

abc

April 16th, 2010
10:53 am

Basic approach makes a big difference. Regardless if you’re male or female, if you’re bringing it because you like the looks, want some physical attention, and want the control that sort of thing can bring, then you’re likely to come off as scary or creepy. If, on the other hand, you have a genuine interest in the other as a person, and want to do things with them to get to know them better, you’ll have much more success in meeting them from the start.

Now, that certainly flies in the face of what’s typically discussed on this blog, but then, most of the discussion on the blog is about relationship failure, rather than relationship success. Hence the name, ‘Misadventures’.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
10:54 am

Infamous, good stuff to read. Is the new lady from the south?

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
10:54 am

Being too forthcoming in the beginning always scared me. Guys thinking they can stake claim after one date were clear signs of being possessive.

I know I scared many off just being a mother. But that’s the way the cookie crumbles.

I am a somewhat quirky person and some may have found that to be not to their liking and were scared off.

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
10:54 am

Mr. Buck

you are foolish LOL

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
10:54 am

“just realized I’ve been spelling Coo Coo wrong”

@Leggs – well I was SlimCoo-Coo up until this morning…Now I’m Slim Co-Co :-D You know I’m a Gemini and all my personalities like to get a chance to blog. LOL!

I also hate when you tell a dude you’re with someone, that they then go to We Can be friends can’t we. DUDE you don’t want to be my Friend…CUT FRIEND maybe, but my friend….naw.

abc

April 16th, 2010
10:55 am

Leggs, there’s a big problem with people that think they’re the “cat’s meow”, all that plus dessert. The quote goes along the lines of the challenge of reconciling the glowing opinion we have of ourselves with the appalling things that other people think of us.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
10:56 am

Guys that offer way too many compliments to the point of being…dang what’s the word I am looking for?

Whatever that word is, yeah that always scared me off.

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
10:56 am

I know I scared many off just being a mother. But that’s the way the cookie crumbles.

Raqi, same here, but that surely doesnt’ bother me cause that just confirms it wasnt’ meant to be.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:56 am

@abc ~ I agree with you, but it’s amazing how that “basic approach” has been forgotten by many.

You funny pointing out most of the discussions here are about dating failure hence the name Misadventures….We know, we know (guess that’s better than a DUH!) :wink:

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:58 am

@abc ~ thank you. I know what the premise of the quote means. On a softer side of that quote, I’m saying nothing wrong with being self-confident, just don’t be so damn cocky with it!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
10:59 am

Infamous , So she got you like that huh? LOL I sense a little virtual spring in your step this morning.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
10:59 am

Wow, after hitting send, thought “cocky” would be banned!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:00 am

Mornting blog

Professor your 9:29 and 9:38 says it all for me,too….good posts.

Awww DK that’s soo soo sweet. I’m glad you had fun and hope the 2nd date is even better. That’s what’s up.

Side note: What makes a woman a cougar/puma/jaguar?…are those terms valid or just a fad? I ask b/c I’ve got this “friend” who’s younger than I am(12 yrs actually) that’s been sweatin me for a while but I’ve been slow to respond b/c of the age difference. He’s a nice guy and physically he’s everything I like(6″7′,chocolatey brown and foine) and currently out of the country playing basketball.

He called me last night and instantly the time came to mind…..he said he’ll be home in a few weeks and I’m on the menu….WHAT TO DO? That other Sassy wants to work him over but I’m tryna be good but it’s soo soo hard when I see him….I wanna climb him but I’m trying to take it slooow.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
11:01 am

Yeah, Princess those were the ones not meant for me.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:01 am

Turn off to me is a woman with a foul mouth, okay to let some slip sometimes but not as everyday conversation. Or a woman who does not know ow to communicate without being harsh. Teeth, dirty or with gaps is a turn off. A woman who does not have proper dining etiquette, she has to know which fork to use. That really bothers me when at a dinner date. She already has a strike against her. A woman who sits with her legs open no matter what she is wearing is a turn off.

Have I ever ran a woman off? Plenty of times. :) It used to be kind of fun doing that.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:03 am

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:03 am

Lito – Yeah shes from the south.. New D@mn Orleans.. A d@mn Aints fan.. Thats bout the only issue I have with her so far..

Lurking

April 16th, 2010
11:03 am

Carlito reads like w8 sometimes.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
11:04 am

Hello Carlito. How are you this morning?

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:05 am

Lito – She told me she cant ever introduce me to her dad cause Im a Falcon fan. I told her likewise for my Mom..

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
11:05 am

Guys that offer way too many compliments

Raqi – It was an episode of Millionaire Matchmaker last year where a guy did that. He was a nice-looking brother and I think basically nice, but he creeped the poor girl out with “you’re so beautiful” every 2 minutes and staring her down like he could sop her up with a biscuit!LOL!

Needless to say, she did’nt want to go on another date with him, millionaire or not!

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:06 am

Ya’ll i wanna get out of this office so badly. It’s too pretty to be cooped up.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:07 am

Infamous, I hear they are great women. I am going to break out my purple for the draft next weekend. Go Vikings!

Raqi, I am fine. How was your trip?

Lurking, who is w8?

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
11:07 am

“It used to be kind of fun doing that.”

And that’s how we learned to play the game as well!

LL411... Smiling On The Inside Too!

April 16th, 2010
11:07 am

DK…I actually like talking to her.. Is that possible after 1 date?

Yes, very possible. I talked to my s/o on the phone seven days (met online) straight before we met face to face. He liked me and I liked him… still 4 years later.

Truth be told we still talk on the phone everyday… and to have some folks tell it all day :)

I wouldn’t say we are chatterboxes (LOL), we are best friends. It’s a twist from talking to your girls all the time to talking to your man.

Enjoy yourself man!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:08 am

Interesting analysis Lurking…let’s see if anyone else agrees.

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:08 am

DK, the Saints/Falcons thing

I have a similar issue with the newbie, he is a huge Miami fan and I am a huge Auburn fan, but we agreed to disagree since its different conferences. We both however have a strong dislike for UGA LOL.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:08 am

I read that report on Ben this morning. He likes to pull it out and show young girls. Isn’t that like a pervert?

Timeless

April 16th, 2010
11:09 am

Women who have a sense of entitlement turn me off. It’s one thing if you bring something to the table, but don’t expect the world (or men in particular) to jump at your feet just because you show up to a date…

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
11:09 am

DK – Reading you today is making me smile. I heart the first blush of infatuation. LOL!

Oh…forgot…

Three Words Daily – Love conquers all.
(Have not been inspired to do the blog entry yet. The inspiration may not come.)

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:10 am

Raqi – After the relaxed time we had last night with no forcing anything.. Yeah shes cool but i gotta scope her out though cause the devil is always in the details.. I gotta listen to her and see what she slips and say bout other dudes and if she is responsible for her issues in her last relationship.. You know I gotta see that growth in a chick before I got to defcon 6 with her..

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:11 am

You know I gotta see that growth in a chick before I got to defcon 6 with her

cute

Melo

April 16th, 2010
11:13 am

A woman who sits with her legs open

@Carlito!!

lawd, ive seen those types..just blah..knees wide apart.

Another is a woman wearing a skirt and when she sits,no paying attn,she just sits,her dress not tucked under her and just goes ahead making an imprint with her panties or commando butt!(whatever)

Come On Maaaam!! Tuck that skirt under!

I saw Michelle Obama on Tv last nite, in Mexico, making that tuck-in as she sat down,talking to some journalist…First Lady impressed me with that move there..real classy lady!

:lol: :lol:

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
11:13 am

Yeah kimmie it is very creepy. You start to feel dirty after while the way some guys just start salivating. I mean, yeah every woman likes a compliment but don’t over do it.

I love when my husband tells me I am beautiful and even better when he can’t keep his hands off of me, but for a guy that I had just met to keep throwing them out there and getting sleazier by the minute…just creepy.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:13 am

Nik – Well you and I are officially done cause Im a Bulldog Fan and I root for Alabamy when Auburn plays them.. Now what.. And you know a Bulldog fan dont root for nothing in Alabamy.. Its the lesser of two evils in that case..

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:14 am

staring her down like he could sop her up with a biscuit!LOL!

:shock:

That’s probably what he was thinking,too…..yep just wanted to eat her up. What makes a guy think that that isn’t super obvious to a woman? Especially when they come on extra, extra thick with the compliments….don’t gas me up :(

Melo

April 16th, 2010
11:18 am

Lurking??

i kinda disagree tho.

W8 was smoove with female comps,not like Elijah but sublime with it.

Carlito lets it rip,he dont care where it falls…

Unless W8 has undergone a metamophosis…..switching it differently.

I bet with an 007,anything is possible! :lol:

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
11:18 am

staring her down like he could sop her up with a biscuit

The worst are the ones that are literally making the lip smacking sounds while complimenting you over and over and over again. Just disgusting I tell ya.

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:19 am

Mr. Buck

you aint hurting me, both of my brothers are die-hard UGA fans, so I know the drill LOL, we go at it every year from spring practice til the championship game. Not to menton i work with a truck load of bama fans.

But its still War Eagle! for me.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
11:22 am

Princess, I’m extremely disappointed in your “Anti-Dawg” stance!!!

DK – I knew I liked you for some reason – Im a Bulldog Fan

I’m not only a fan, but I’m an alum, so gotta represent at all times!LOL!!

Melo – What you saw was a real lady. Smoothing the skirt under is what all ladies are taught, though that is missing in a lot of the younger generation.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
11:22 am

#Random Thoughts – If you’re trying to read my mind, you should know that I write in cursive.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:23 am

Nik – Just like a War Chicken Fan.. Ya’ll dont even know what the mascot is but anyway.. I like the Bulldogs and got a bill that say we beat Auburn this year.. And with your money Im gonna buy some tiger rags and have a bonfire..

Tell ya Bros I said wass upper and to you.. 4 thumbs down.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:23 am

The worst are the ones that are literally making the lip smacking sounds while complimenting you over and over and over again

Yeah while they’re looking you up and down…..like they’d do you right there if they could…such a turn OFF.

THE NBA PLAYOFFS START SUNDAY!!!!!! I like it cause I get to watch 40 games in 40 nights but it’s easy for me to get spoiled with that. But I’m ready,though.

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
11:23 am

“Coming on too strong. Dude, I don’t want to be your wife, freak or BM especially when I don’t know your last name. Keep your nasty comments and lip licking to yourself.”

PROFESSOR…girl that is the problem I have! These dudes have this sense of entitlement to you. I mean seriously..we just met. Why are you trying to kiss or touch me? I should hope you are intelligent. Haven’t you ever heard of personal space? NoW BACK UP out of mine! :lol:

I do not like the dude who is a ho! But if he is upfront about his ho-ing..I will respect him and we can be friends. But it’s the game players that get me!

I don’t like the male chauvenists. Don’t come with the I am man crap. It will get you shut down with the quickness.

I am turned off by an out of shape man. Pregnant guts are nasty. If I have to work out…so do you daddy chunky trunks!

I do not like a man who can not speak proper English….if it is your first and only language. I mean… you’ve had your whole life to learn it. Now I can speak slang just liek anyone else. But I also know how to flip it. Speak English…not American! :lol:

A dirty crib is just digusting. And it could be because I am OCD on cleanliness. But dayum man..come on!

KIDS…I do not wish to deal with your baby mama drama. Don’t get me wrong..I have nothing against kids (except I don’t want any)…but SOME men don’t know how to handle busines so that drama does not arise. First step of that is know who the hell you are having a baby with! You didn’t know that chick was trife when you got with her? Oh that’s right…you were led by the wrong head and did not take the time to find out if this chick was crazy, drama filled, etc….bad judgement!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
11:23 am

SexyCool, and I think a Spanish. LOL Seriously.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:25 am

Smoothing the skirt under is what all ladies are taught, though that is missing in a lot of the younger generation.

That’s cause alot of their skirts aren’t long enough for that…lol

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
11:26 am

@SassyMe/Lurking ~ it’s been stated a few times about the similarities in their posting. Carlito has denied everything and W8 isn’t here to say otherwise. :lol: :lol:

LL411... Smiling On The Inside Too!

April 16th, 2010
11:26 am

You know I’m a Gemini and all my personalities like to get a chance to blog. LOL!

You are a fool! LOL :)

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
11:26 am

That’s cause alot of their skirts aren’t long enough for that…lol

Sassy, well you right about that!LOL!!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
11:27 am

Just had a sudden urge for Garlic bread and marinara sauce :mrgreen:

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:27 am

Kimmie

I just can’t do it, having grown up with something tossed in your face one of two things will happen, you will love it or hate it. I HATE it. my brother who grew up in Columbia, SC is the same way, he can’t stand the Gamecocks.

DK, nothing you can say bud, i’ve heard it all…….. :lol: but i am die hard win, lose, or draw.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:28 am

^^^^^5 BlackMagic….let ‘em know what it is and ain’t gone be,chica.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
11:29 am

@SassyMe ~ it’s called the “panty swipe”

i'm swiss

April 16th, 2010
11:30 am

“He’s a nice guy and physically he’s everything I like(6″7′,chocolatey brown and foine) and currently out of the country playing basketball.”

@ Sassy — Don’t worry about the age difference… You go on ahead, lil’ mama. Give Josh Childress some luvin’… ;-) :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:31 am

BlackMagicWoman, you bring it whenever you post. LOL I think that is why guys down here wear their shirt not tucked in down here. Big Bellies on both men and women. :)

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
11:31 am

Princess – I’ll let you slide, just keep it to yourself!LOL!!!

CoolShadow

April 16th, 2010
11:31 am

Can’t say I’ve scared a woman off, but if I did it was unintentional. I can appreciate a woman being cautious for her safety and well-being but being overly cautious is a turn-off as well.

One lady I met for an initial date acted this way. I met up with her at a restaurant and her demeanor was totally hyper-paranoid and it turned what was supposed a get-to-know-you session into an uncomfortable interrogation. I’d ask general questions you might normally pose to people when you first meet them and each of her responses were carefully measured; I mean, why does it take 12 seconds to respond to how many siblings you have? It made the conversation raggedy and forced me to think too hard for a simple exchange. After we finished, I offered to walk her to her car but she refused, presumably so I couldn’t know what type of car she drove. I guess she would’ve preferred if I had put my hands over my eyes and counted to 100 while she made her getaway.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
11:33 am

I think that is why guys down here wear their shirt not tucked in

Carlito – Tucked or not tucked, a pregnant man is unattractive.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
11:33 am

I think that is why guys down here wear their shirt not tucked in down here. Big Bellies on both men and women

@Carliot!!

boy u kill me with that!

:lol: :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:34 am

I just got the overview on w8 per email, that is funny and sad at the same time. Not me, one person on here has pictures of me. She can share them if she likes. :)

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:35 am

Don’t worry about the age difference… You go on ahead, lil’ mama. Give Josh Childress some luvin’…

Eeeeewwww Swissie Josh ain’t even much cute….you wrong for that :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:36 am

Kimmie and Melo, I am not gay or anything but I wonder how some men do not care to stay in shape. Some women have babies and stuff so that is understandable. A guy needs to be in shape. IMO

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:38 am

Carlito

LOL, dudes don’t have to necessarily look like they live at the gym cause sometimes thats unattractive also, but no need to have your belly haning to your thighs or even worse your knees.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:38 am

Not me, one person on here has pictures of me. She can share them if she likes.

I wanna see studd muffin…why you playing favorites…is it b/c I didn’t send you that ** shot you wanted?…don’t act like that now ;)

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:38 am

Cool – I grew up wit a chick like that.. Used to date every dope boy in Decatur.. Used to dance and now when I talk to her shes afraid to go on Wesley Chapel where her Mom lives. She’s always talking bout how she has to lock her doors and I may have to call 911 if this guy gets any closer to my truck and such.. Shes scary now but she wasnt when she was holding a few birds for buddy or getting greyhound..

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
11:41 am

I gave notice on Tuesday. Anybody care to meet after work at O’Charley’s off LaVista?

Whoever has a pic, I would like to see it. He’s given permission so pls send to me…thank you.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:41 am

Shes scary now but she wasnt when she was holding a few birds for buddy or getting greyhound..

:lol: :mrgreen:

You know you wrong….you know it…lol

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:42 am

PrincessNIk, I am not talking about all muscles, just healthy. :)

Sassy, I did not get any CT pictures at all, but I did get some pictures that were “jokes”. Then we exchanged nice photos. It is only a picture of me and one of my younger sisters. :)

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
11:43 am

Carlito – The wild thing is that those guys are the very ones that have the audacity to put down a woman if she’s got a little weight on her! Or think that just because they might have a little money or have a powerful job that you should just overlook that 12 month pregnancy!

I make the effort to keep myself up & I want someone who will at least try to do the same. Plus, I’m attracted to good health too.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:45 am

kimmie, back home my dad would give disapproval on guys, (my sisters brought home) that looked out of shape by saying. “It does not look like he can bale that much hay” LOL

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:46 am

“It does not look like he can bale that much hay”

now that was funny

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
11:47 am

@Carlito ~ let me go straight to the source…if you don’t mind, send me the pic pls.

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:49 am

I am not talking about all muscles, just healthy

you mean just not sloppy fat right Carlito?

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
11:49 am

Anybody care to meet after work at O’Charley’s off LaVista?

If you for real I work right around the corner off of Clifton road….I’m jus sayin’.

So Lito you sharin’?

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
11:49 am

“It does not look like he can bale that much hay”

I love it!!!

Carlito, sounds like my mother’s solution to everything – If we were getting out-of-shape or said we were bored, her answer was “Go outside and rake some leaves”! And yeah, we had a lot to rake!LOL!!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
11:53 am

It is very hard to bale hay. :)

Leggs, Sassy sure on a friend level only :) , you do not have to send me naked pictures of Stacy Dash either. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:54 am

Ok just got a call to Ref a scrimage game, cash on the spot at Toby Grant between…. Wait for it.. The Scottdale Boys and The OG Kirkwood Boys.

Aint nothin.. Them cats aint gonna let me carry a pistol and I refuse to ref a game that one call could lead to my body being injured..

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:54 am

DK

oh yeah, since you are done with me, guess i can go ahead and order the auburn flip flops i been wanting (j/k)

:mrgreen:

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
11:56 am

Carlito….is someone insulting you by calling you a sucubus? :shock: I would be very offended if someone thought I was that thing who should be dead under a rock somewhere! :lol:

Yeah some men think they can let themselves go and we are still supposed to be attracted to them….12 month pregnant bellies and all! EWWW! Been there..done that. Almost barfed everytime I saw it! Oh gosh I think I just barfed a bit just thinking about it. :lol: Stop lifting steaks and start lifting weights! Oh and add cardio. Just because you have big muscles….does not mean your guy looks any better! :roll:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR BUCK

April 16th, 2010
11:57 am

Nik – Yeah your last name has to be Focker. Nik Focker.. ;-)

PrincessNik.....AKA Candy Girl

April 16th, 2010
11:59 am

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:00 pm

BlackMagicWoman, I do not know enough to be offended. I have been through worse in life. So it does not bother me. :) I have my Julia, but I still do not want kids. LOL.

czBrat

April 16th, 2010
12:00 pm

HiYas!!

what have i missed?

on topic: i’m sure i scare most guys off because i don’t melt and drool just for the fact that they’ve approached me. and that suits me just fine. also, i am fiercely independent, so only the strong survive around me.

what scares me off? poor grammar and hygiene. inability to discuss anything other than what you want from me or what you’d like to do to me. UGH!

DK what a cute first date. i’m now waving pom-poms and doing high kicks for ya dude!

Leggs, don’t tempt me on the get out after work thing cuz i soooo need it. (and that’s on my way home).

fridays should not, i repeat NOT be this busy! :mad:

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:01 pm

Anybody here with a hook up on hawks game tickets this saturday?? or coupon..anything??

need 2 tickets for “my goodies” and mwa!

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
12:02 pm

Melo – one of my folk was saying that he can get some upper level seats for $15.

I will ask him if he can still get them if you don’t mind sitting up that high.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:03 pm

after paying less than a thousand$$$ for a 2 way international trip costing about 6 grand 4 3, full price..full price just kinda sucks now! :lol:

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
12:04 pm

kimmie one of my friend girls brought me some flavored tortillas early last week. I made a turkey wrap yesterday with one and they are delicious. The one I had yesterday was cilantro and jalapeno. Today I am trying the spinach and garden vegetable. Have you made dishes with the flavored tortillas before?

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:05 pm

Sexxycool??
what wld be the normal retail on those…??

I guess i dont mind…

I be saying, we was there…! :lol:

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
12:06 pm

sure on a friend level only

That’s all I was talkin’ bout,too. I don’t want Julia gettin mad at me so umm if you for real gyz3@cdc.gov….don’t send me any smut..lol.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
12:07 pm

@SassyMe ~ I’m serious. I will be there after work if you like to join me, please come on through. I’m going straight after work so I’ll be there by 5:35-5:40 the latest.

@czBrat ~ you see, I need it to and that’s why I’m stopping after work. Lil leggs father is picking her up from track practice, and I’m going to do some grown folk stuff!

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 16th, 2010
12:07 pm

Good Afternoon superstar bloggers!

Melo I am disappointed in you, comparing me to W8. If dated anyone of those ladies they would have been posting happy satisfied comments on MIA? I only lady at a time!

Stacey would have stated Eli cooked, cleaned and made my pipes exploded!
:smile: and he does not sweat me!

Carlito is not from w8!

I have never scared off any ladies, because I am like Infamous I take my time to get to know you!

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
12:07 pm

I have no idea, Melo. He just texted me last night and asked me if I wanted some tix.

I will text him and see if he still has them.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
12:07 pm

So, pls come and join me, czBrat!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
12:09 pm

Awww snap, they got the freaknic party mix going on…Do da A-town Drooooopppp! LOL

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:11 pm

Melo I am disappointed in you, comparing me to W8

@Elijah??

comeon Eli!

u are a very female-complimentary guy(a lil over the top may be),not an entirely bad thing and not like W8 fo sho!…i thoght i made that distinction clear.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:15 pm

Sexxycool??

u know all the boogie tickets are gone too.i cant get any where im sit next to my goodies,shlder to shlder…

thats what u get for beeing “just a play-offs flip flopper fan”!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
12:16 pm

Awww snap, they got the freaknic party mix going on…Do da A-town Drooooopppp!

Whatcu know ’bout dat Slim…lol? They were jamming so hard this morning I just knew somebody, somewhere was goin’ YEEK!….YEEK!

Leggs…I’m there mami.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
12:16 pm

Melo – he is having his person check on it now. May be a while cause they are at work.

Send me an email to my *government name* yahoo account in case I leave work early and can still contact you.

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
12:16 pm

Here’s my pinky, here’s my thumb…bankhead bounce, donkey kong!

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
12:18 pm

Raqi – Yes, I love the spinach ones! I love to use them with tuna salad or shrimp & lettuce & other veggies. Very tasty!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
12:19 pm

Sassy – I got my chair dancing going hard right now…my co-worker is like, Slim bout to get up and start shaking a lil summin summin in a min. LOL! I might have to roll my pants leg up so I can drop it one good time while no one is looking…..LOOK AT DAT GURL WIT DEM DAISY DUKES ON!

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
12:19 pm

MELO….I gave out the last of Hawks vouchers. Sorry Boobie! :sad:

ELIJAH…you crazy man! How’s it goin’? :lol:

CARLITO….you don’t want to be that ph*cktard! That is lower than low on the totem pole of all things living! :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:20 pm

All horse pictures have been sent. LOL

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:21 pm

Send me an email to my *government name* yahoo

Scool??

thanx, i will!

Now dont let TheDude see my email coz i dont want him responding to me and challenging me saying “who are u playa?”..otherwise im gon tell him str8 up,”Now look here big boy,that was my girl back in the day..Now what??” :lol: :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:23 pm

To funny, the whole story as told to me is comical and terrible. You have to be careful out there and very choosey .

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
12:23 pm

You nutcase.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
12:25 pm

Lito…nice.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:26 pm

Sassy, thank you :) That is my younger sister

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:28 pm

J-E-L-L-O

Sassy that is stuck in my head now. LOL

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
12:30 pm

Ok Carlito….since you are sharing….what about me? LOL

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:31 pm

@Carlito??

do u grow pumpkimns on ur farm over there in minny??

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
12:33 pm

That is my younger sister

You two look nothing alike..not saying you should look like twins but I wouldn’t have guessed you two were related…either way nice pic…how tall are you?

that is stuck in my head now.

Who doesn’t like j-e-l-l-o,right? The next time(when you’re alone of course) and the commercial comes on,don’t laugh at me…OTAY ;)

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
12:33 pm

SexyCool, you know they be looking.

I knew one night that Mase was reading my blog when he yelled to me in the bathroom “Hey babe who’s tazzee?” LOL

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:35 pm

I gave out the last of Hawks vouchers

@BlacksMagicwirly woman! :lol:

I plan on going to more games as long as they are in the playoffs..can u get me some more hook ups,if u have access??

thanx!

my brother aint married yet(rember thim?),he still pimping and in case u change ur mind down the road..that phine zulu,u can have him… :lol:

I be honored to have u as my sis in law!

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
12:35 pm

I don’t think TheDude has any interest in my blog. I can’t even recall mentioning it to him. (I might have.) But I know he doesn’t read it. I keep him busy enough just texting me off FB about what I post on FB.

He’d really look at me sideways if he saw my blog, or hell, even my Twitter account.

Jeff

April 16th, 2010
12:36 pm

Discovering how a woman handles disappointment: Did she call her ex out on facebook during a fight or breakup? Does she justify say what she would do to Tiger if she were Elin? Is every man she recently met “stalking” HER (in her opinion). Does she have an “everyone’s doing me wrong” attitude? You get the picture. Basically, we’re looking to see if you’re going to go ape-sh*t crazy when any drama comes up.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:37 pm

Melo, no. Mostly livestock and grain.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:40 pm

Sassy, I am right at 6′6. I look like dad, she looks like mom. I will see if I can find a family portrait. We have looks from black to white. :)

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
12:42 pm

#Random Thought – I know God is in charge. I did get the memo that He would be handling things for me today. But, er, um, God, just for today, do you think you could send me a real person?

Mo (aka Moeisha )

April 16th, 2010
12:44 pm

Infamous – gwine on and ref that game man! LOL! Seriously though I dont blame you!

Sassy – that 40 days and 40 nights is the BEST!! I am sooo excited!

Slim – you’se a fool chica!! LOL @ you getting ya bankhead bounce on!! :smile:

Melo

April 16th, 2010
12:44 pm

Scool??

I hope u get to me be4 3.00 this afternoon.

I was planning to surprise my lady with the anncement around 3.30 right be4 she goes home at 4.00 pm.

That way,all the way home,shes thinking about taking that soaking shower/bubble bath,lotioning up and fragrancing herself and staying upstairs,waiting on me this friday nite……

and im gon hang on, and on and on with Leggs and them tonite..just to build her anticipation..by the time i get there round 10.00 pm..my lady is just melting and juicing up down there! :lol: :lol:

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
12:45 pm

Melo – I will let dude know that I’m trying to get a response by that time.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
12:51 pm

I am right at 6′6.

Uhh huh…good for Julia…hope she knows what time it is…lol. Exotic…you think? That’s a first but that’s what’s up.

that 40 days and 40 nights is the BEST!! I am sooo excited!

I know rightMo…I feel like Pookie from New Jack City….it jus be callin me and I gotta go to it..
All of that basketball is too much.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
12:52 pm

Last evening the marido and I were talking about getting a hammock. That’s going to be a nice addition. Lying out in the back under the moonlight on a warm spring/summer night. I am looking at some now online.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
12:58 pm

Sassy, it is her clock. LOL :)

Raqi, those hammocks are so comfortable, easy to fall asleep in them :)

Mo (aka Moeisha )

April 16th, 2010
1:02 pm

Sassy – the best!! LOL @ Pookie! funny!

Raqi – I love hammocks! You all should really enjoy it once the pollen is gone!

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
1:04 pm

OMG – A hammock under a shade tree in the summer. Or my favorite reclining lawn chair on my balcony with a glass of muscato.

May have to leave work early just to go lay on my balcony, blast some Chris Botti and drink a whole damn bottle by myself.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:04 pm

Mo / Carlito, I would like to get one of the weaved ones but they don’t come as big as the regular roped kind. We need on big enough so the marido, the baby and myself can lay it together.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:05 pm

Lying out in the back under the moonlight on a warm spring/summer night.

That sounds soo nice..especially right now as I try to fight the impulse to leave work early so I can get my toes done.

So umm lito you still don’t want to share your blog chocolate with your brother ;)

Mo (aka Moeisha )

April 16th, 2010
1:07 pm

SCool – I love Chris Botti, great with some wine and a relaxing atmosphere!!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:07 pm

Come Sunday Mo I’m going to be grilling and watchin’ the games and THAT’S IT…might need to go to the gorcery store and get some fresh veggies to go with that….lol

Professor

April 16th, 2010
1:08 pm

…stepping back in.

Melo…the Hawks sent me an email yesterday about some $25 tickets. I will forward it to you.

@Lurking I totally agree with your conclusion!

I need to find some lunch

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:14 pm

The only thing is after the pollen then you have deal with the mosquitoes. But yeah I can see us waking up at 4 in the morning realizing we have slept outside for the most of the night. Our neighborhood is pretty quiet so falling asleep under the stars will not be hard to come by.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
1:14 pm

Raqi, you have me wanting a hammock now , as well. Be careful it is easy to flip out of them, even the larger ones. Are you looking for a stand alone or the kind that hooks in between trees?

Sassy, my brother is about 6′2 and his hair is nowhere near as long as mine. Other wise we look the same. He is here until tomorrow. He is more than a commit-a-phobe than I am. But he will party. LOL

Melo

April 16th, 2010
1:14 pm

@Proff!

thnx

Professor

April 16th, 2010
1:14 pm

and im gon hang on, and on and on with Leggs and them tonite..just to build her anticipation..by the time i get there round 10.00 pm..my lady is just melting and juicing up down there!

Leggs, don’t let melo hang with y’all tonight he is trying to use y’all as 4play

:mrgreen:

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:17 pm

Carlito, I have had my fair share of hammock rocking so I know how to properly enter, exit, lie down and lay in them. Yes I said lay. LOL

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
1:17 pm

Speaking of party, my gf is promoting a party downtown on the corner of Boulevard and Monroe tomorrow night. $5 cover. $5 drinks. $3 beer. Grown folks. Over 30 crowd.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:18 pm

Leggs send me an email of that picture of Carlito.

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
1:19 pm

MELO….I will see if I can get some more for you.

CARLITO…bring your brother out….he would have lots of fun with me…I know how to party till the sun comes up! My crew and I have been know to liven up a party! BTW…. I likes ‘em tall..and exotic! :lol:

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:20 pm

He is more than a commit-a-phobe than I am. But he will party.

Shyt lito I’m not tryna join your family… I just wanted to know….never got my swirl on…thought about it but have yet to try.

czBrat

April 16th, 2010
1:22 pm

ok. i know i’m late popping in on the convo again, but yeah … s/o knows my two requirements in a home are a screened porch and a hammock.

are we trading pics?? i wanna see!!! c’mon ya’ll. give up the anonimity already :lol:

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
1:22 pm

SCool – I thought you were going to Freaknic

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:24 pm

Sassy, don’t do it girl. Them Italyurns are some deceitful lying sonnamabyches. LOL

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
1:26 pm

LOL! Who me?
Girl – I’m hoping that I can get down to the party without running into any of the Freaknic-ers or any of their traffic.
Since I’m the event photographer, I need to get there early. (Keeping my fingers crossed.)

Melo

April 16th, 2010
1:29 pm

@Czbrat??

yeah,u one of the few I dont have pics of!

ur new boy is that good that u have to be so incognito??

:lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
1:31 pm

Raqi, I just said something very nice about you then you go say that. LOL

BlackMagicWoman and Sassy, I am trying to be nice. If he tries to sleep with you do not hold that against me. He just has a one track mind. School, Party and Sex, in no particular order. I do not know what his plans are tonight. I will see if Julia and I can just so happen to be at the same place you all are this evening. :) I can say hey these are my “Atlanta friends” and she will know exactly who you all are. She always says “Are you working or talking to your Atlanta friends?”

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
1:31 pm

@SassyMe ~ see you there.

@Melo ~ doubt I’ll be there 10:30 this evening.

@Carlito ~ my true Italian Studmuffin….I had to bite my own hand! Thanks for sharing.

@Raqi ~ you got mail!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:32 pm

Them Italyurns are some deceitful lying sonnamabyches.

:lol: :lol:

but they’re sexxy,though…..Imma go to New York and see what happens

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
1:34 pm

My brother said “What do they look like?” and some other stuff, that I am sure the blog will not let show.

Julia said “hell no don’t you introduce him to anyone” we all laughed

My brother is wild and just him. He is I hate to say it, fits the stereotype to spec. He is a one man circus. LOL

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
1:34 pm

I was watching Junior.Gotti on 60 minutes Sunday, thinking “Oooo, Junior got mad swagga.”
LOL!

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 16th, 2010
1:36 pm

Sassy are you talking about 40 nights of 9:15 to 10:20 sex? You are something else Ms. Sassy! :smile:

czBrat

April 16th, 2010
1:38 pm

umm. Melo, he’s not new. he’s been around longer than i’ve been on the blog. i sent out an invite to meet me on fb last week, so i’m not trying to be incognothing. that reminds me, i had two friend requests from folk i didn’t recognize and deleted them before i realized they might have been fellow bloggers. sowwy :oops: feel free to re-send.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
1:41 pm

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:41 pm

I was watching Junior.Gotti on 60 minutes Sunday, thinking “Oooo, Junior got mad swagga.”

I saw that interview,too….whenever he winked his eye or smiled I blushed like he was talking to me. Then as I kept watching the interview that wink started looking like a nervous twitch/tic or something… :lol:

are you talking about 40 nights of 9:15 to 10:20 sex?

Eli You know good and well I’m talkin’ about the NBA playoffs…with your nasty self ;)

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
1:42 pm

BTW, Raqi, you didn’t even say Plese…..phooey!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
1:43 pm

He can not connect to the internet on his laptop.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:44 pm

Carlito, I have seen a picture of you it’s only fair that I let you one of me. http://bittersweet-rose.blogspot.com/2010/04/just-chillin.html

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:44 pm

my true Italian Studmuffin….I had to bite my own hand! Thanks for sharing.

I hear you Leggs!! And yes I will see you there next week.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
1:45 pm

That would be….Please!

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
1:46 pm

Rock – you stoooooopid…

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
1:47 pm

@SassyMe ~ whatcha talking about next week….I’m talking about TONIGHT after work. I can do it next week to, but talking about TONIGHT!

That’s not nice Raqi…guess you forgot about those with toe fetishes on this blog…yous in trouble now!!!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:48 pm

LOL SexyCool. I just sent a copy to my husband. He sent me a picture of his lips one day…gurl I tell you…

str8

April 16th, 2010
1:48 pm

Hey Wise… it’s been a while since I was up here… good to see it still going strong… had to come up here and appreciate you. Thanks for coming to the Nuru Center (www.nurucenter.org) gala last weekend and supporting. You are the best! have a great weekend!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:48 pm

Sorry Leggs. Plese (lol) and Thank you.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
1:50 pm

Raqi, nice feet. :) LOL

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
1:51 pm

As my sons were growing up a scolded them all the time about putting their feet on the wall…okay imma take mine down now. LOL

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
1:52 pm

Raqi, taking pictures with her feet in the air :O

SexyCool, I see those shades FTW :)

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:53 pm

I’m talking about TONIGHT after work.

My bad I don’t know how I got Tuesday out of today :oops:

I’ll be long gone to the southside by 5:30. I’m sorry.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
1:55 pm

Something ain’t right…

Harpo who dis hea woman?

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
1:58 pm

Just passed by this uberSexy dude upstairs by baggage claim. He smiled. I shrieked to myself, out loud, but real quiet.

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
1:59 pm

CARLITO….I am used to Italian Stallions! I dated a few…of of my closest girls is Italian and her family is a funny mess! Her wedding was off the chain. Let’s just say….Jesey Shore has NADA on some of the Italians I know! :lol:

Arturo would not know what to do with me! :lol:

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:00 pm

PHOOEY!

You cool, Raqi!

Class, there are 7 days in the week. The last work day for most Americans is FRIDAY…SassyMe, read this sentence on the blackboard….FRIDAY IS THE END OF THE WEEK AND THE LAST DAY, SO WHATCHA GONNA DO. FRIDAY IS NOT TUESDAY!!! Recite that 20x standing in the corner before returning to your seat…hell, just stand right there for the rest of the afternoon!

czBrat

April 16th, 2010
2:00 pm

hey, where’d DK go? is he on another battery-bustin’ phone call??

LOL @ SexyC. i love that we can still have those shrieking moments and still be blissfully secure in our relationships. don’t you?

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
2:02 pm

Awww Leggs….

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:02 pm

czB – Yes Ma’am!!!!

Poppa Grande

April 16th, 2010
2:05 pm

Well, good for DK!

Well, for those of you planning to come over this way (Washington Park) for Freaknik. Be careful. I’ve seen more cops today than I can remember. I seen at least 8 on motorcycle. More than a few cruisers and even the APD van was sitting at the intersection of MLK and Lowery.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:06 pm

BlackMagicWoman, the three of us are going to The Tavern. Then to the Havana Club tonight, I think.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:07 pm

Bijoux Terner has some of the *cutest* jewelry for $10. (And I’m not even into jewelry like that.)

I’m going to have to stop going by there.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:08 pm

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

Recent news reports *allege* that The Tavern is not for Negroes.

Although, I’ve never had any issues when I went in there.

But – whatdahell do they mean they ask male patrons to get up from the bar for females? For REAL!?!?!? Whey dey do dat at?

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

Poppa – SCool & Melo will be there. Both will be in Daisy Dukes.

Be there or be square!

LOL!!!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

Be careful. I’ve seen more cops today than I can remember.

Man they’re already talking about what streets are going to be shut down and what park folk aren’t allowed to go to…that’s crazy. What they’ve failed to mention is all of the other stuff going on this weekend and how they’re NOT actin a fool over that.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

It is kind of sad, I have had them both here for almost two weeks now. After Sunday they both will be gone. :( I have gotten used to people being here. I think I am going to send for my mom and poppa next. Then we are eating good.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:11 pm

Rock – you super stoopid.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:16 pm

Red red wine, I love you right from the start.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:19 pm

kimmie – we gone fight. I will give anyone my whole payroll deposit for the next three weeks if they can produce a picture of me in daisies from this weekend.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:21 pm

Are you guys ready for a doosey….a co-worker just left my work area and told me why I’m always cold, but then said something that made my ears stand at attention. I so wanted to type why she was talking so I wouldn’t forget anything, but that would have been tacky.

Prime example of truly “hearing what he just said.”

She’s been friends for 6 years with her friend. They go out on dates, a little smooching and touching here and there, but haven’t gone all the way. She came close to giving in a few days ago but didn’t because she can’t get these words out of her head. He said to her: “I love you and I enjoy your company. I just feel that you’re not the one for and that God has someone better in store for me.”

If I could have done the exorcist move with my head I would have. What, are you kidding me. He actually said that and you’re wanting to go all the way, but feel he would walk if you did.” Makes my heart heavy when women stick around for all the wrong reasons. He has already told her he’s biding his time with her and she will be dumped as soon as God shows him the “better” woman. What’s the NY phrase I so love….ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST because I’m otta hear!!!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:22 pm

I was downstairs laying on the bed in the guest wasting time chatting with you all and the doorbell rung. I have expecting a packet from FedEx all day. I figured the package had arrived when the bell rung. I jumped up, pulled the duvet off the bed, slipped the one the straps to my tank under one arm baring one shoulder, frizzled my hair really messy on the way up the stairs, wrapped the duvet around me with the shoulder and one leg showing and opened the door. You all should have seen the look on that dude’s face when I said frantically “hurry up man give me the thing to sign before he finishes with me”.

I so need to go back to work. Imma leave to go pick up the little one in about an hour before yall make me get into some serious trouble. LOL

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:25 pm

Raqi, I wonder if FedEx, or any other type of delivery man gets action on the job? Like they do in the movies.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
2:25 pm

@CzBrat.. i wasnt here when u send the invite, i guess..i aint no friend to blog pple on facebook.

somebody is trying to holla friend u on face book..u rated them ha..they wont be brave enough to confess! :lol:

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:25 pm

LMBO kimmie. Melo in daisy dukes. I ’bout to choke. Got me spitting water all over the place and coming out my nose.

And that email you sent me I forwarded it to my husband. He called me dying laughing saying he burst out laughing while on the phone with a very important client.

Lady J-Sunshine

April 16th, 2010
2:28 pm

what is poopin’ blog…..

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
2:28 pm

SCool – LOL!

Raqi – LOL!

Leggs – SMH! That he would have the nerve & the tackiness to say it & still be able to walk after I kicked him where the sun don’t shine is beyond me!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:28 pm

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:29 pm

Leggs, girl please. That woman just need some and he is Mr. Right Now.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:30 pm

SIX YEARS?!?!?
Kiss my grits.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
2:31 pm

I can’t stands no more…have a nice weekend y’all.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
2:32 pm

Poppa – SCool & Melo will be there. Both will be in Daisy Dukes

@Kimmie!!

I get grown folkjs freaknick on the east side at Harristons every damn time..i canty stand the urine smelling college kids freaknick.

I prefer them grown folks who know how to work their soaps,bubble baths and moisturizures! :lol: :lol:

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 16th, 2010
2:32 pm

He has already told her he’s biding his time with her and she will be dumped as soon as God shows him the “better” woman.</em?

:shock:

And she still talks to him…..and wants to give him the cookie….AW HELLZ NAW!!!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:34 pm

Carlito, I wouldn’t doubt if they do. Just like the milkmen and post men from way make when. I bet there are more “special deliveries” than many would imagine. LOL

I have actually heard that cops are the biggest perps when it comes to getting it while on duty. So the delivery guys are probably the same.

abc

April 16th, 2010
2:35 pm

Freaknik is ridiculous. If it isn’t obvious that NOBODY wants it here, then I don’t know what’s going to get through to people. You want Spring Break party, go to the beach or something, don’t bring it here. The history of Freaknik speaks for itself, what a tawdry tale.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:35 pm

Heck, we all need some but do you get some just because you need some after someone told you that! Lightbulb moment…..guess that’s my problem. I ain’t knocking the cobwebs off “just because” after someone told me that crap. You looking for someone better why trying to get to this “better for the moment coochie?” Nope!

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
2:35 pm

Carlito – I had a postman try to come on strong once a few years ago while I was out working in my front yard. I chatted with him a bit when he stopped to be nice. He kept wondering why I was working in the yard & not my man. I didn’t explain anything to him one way or the other because it was not his bizness(honey was out of town, but my dad was over). Anyway, he delivered the rest of the mail on the block and came back by my house. I had a cooler of bottled water out & he asked me for one. Took it and left, but came back AGAIN. I kept on working. He stopped and said “can I ask you something”? I said “ookaaayyy”?

He said “are ya lonely?”

I cracked up & just shook my head and went back to work!

abc

April 16th, 2010
2:37 pm

Freaknick sucks!

abc

April 16th, 2010
2:38 pm

Hm, the filter detected freaknick spelled correctly and quarantined it, I guess.

The tawdry history of Freaknick speaks for itself. NOBODY wants it here, I think that must be more than obvious by now. For a Spring Break Party, go to the beach!

Lady J-Sunshine

April 16th, 2010
2:39 pm

what is the topic leggs i can’t catch up….smh lol

Melo

April 16th, 2010
2:39 pm

after someone told me that crap

@Leggs!!??

u females dont know what u want!

u say u want honesty,u get it,u still mugg..whats the problem??

the bro has enjoyed the lady’s company to a point..thats dating..but resulting from that interraction,he realizes,it will be gross if he smashes then tells ol girl she aint the one.

Why not give props to him for putting his cards on the table.??

Now if it had been me back in the day,iIsmash then tell her my position after I wiped..uall prefer that mo??

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
2:39 pm

Leggs – You can get a FWB that can handle things and not insult you at the same time.

She should have said – “You know, you right about that, cause I’m sho nuff looking for something better too” Got up & left him with his mouth wide open.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:39 pm

Just had a police officer compliment me upstairs and ask me if I was single.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:40 pm

kimmie – Forecast for tonight: DARK

I hollered!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:40 pm

Leggs, they have touched, they have kissed, she is primed and waiting. She don’t hear or don’t care about what he is saying, he has her wanting.

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:41 pm

I really hope no one over the age of 25 actually plan on being a part of Freak nik.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
2:42 pm

SCool – I was rolling!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:44 pm

@Lady J ~ there really isn’t a topic…most recent posts are

1. The Tavern really don’t want to serve black folk and black men have to give up their seat for the white man/woman

2. Trying to teach the 7 days of the week…one students is having a hard time understanding the Friday and Tuesday are not the same.

3. Freaknick is not welcome here anymore…it’s time is over.

4. Too many women out there dismissing what guys are straight up telling them. Seems they’re laughing it off only to find themselves crying by themselves at night!

Something like that.

abc

April 16th, 2010
2:44 pm

And the ones under 25 can kindly not jack up traffic any worse than it already is. Freaknick my foot, it ain’t welcome!

That’s a George Carlin routine from the early 60’s, Al Sleet, your hippy-dippy weatherman. Tonights forecast: dark! Continued mostly dark tonight, with widely scattered light toward morning. You can see a Canadian low on our weather map, not to be confused with a Mexican High.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
2:44 pm

I know, kimmie. GNR for real!!!

When my gf started putting this party together three months ago, she had no idea that all this freakmess was going to be going on. I kinda hate that I’ve got to go, but since she is one of my besties, I gotta support her cause. Dammittttt!!!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:46 pm

@Melo ~ let me see if I can answer that honesty issue.

Nothing wrong with honesty. What is wrong is when you think you can demean me to my face and then still want to get between my legs. Honesty is cool, but don’t try to openly play me for a fool…there’s a big difference.

@Raqi ~ I understand, but something is making her not go all the way. Hell, you couldn’t even touch me after I received all of that Honesty!

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:47 pm

abc, I am just glad it will not be any where near me. I hate that they allowed it back here.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:48 pm

What human is going to wait for six years?

Raqi and kimmie, I wonder if that stuff works on some?

Now if UPS delivered like this, I would use them all of the time. :)

http://www.nexwarecorp.com/images/ups-girl.jpg

http://www.lemonzoo.com/content/P/13611-content.jpg

http://www.musicalley.com/music/artists/photos/00006939/UPS_Girl2.jpg

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:49 pm

but something is making her not go all the way

Yeah, Leggs but something has her still entertaining it also. She needs to cut it cold turkey. She should lose the friendship ’cause it ain’t worth it.

Lady J-Sunshine

April 16th, 2010
2:49 pm

thanks sitah #4 is the truth too!!!!! LMBAO!!!! Yall just saw the breaking news…..my lord! smh!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:50 pm

Does he want to get between her legs or does she want him between her legs?

Lady J-Sunshine

April 16th, 2010
2:50 pm

My evening is so busy but I won’t complain! LOL

Lady J-Sunshine

April 16th, 2010
2:50 pm

carlito you are so nasty lol!!!!!!

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
2:51 pm

SCool – Me & some college friends, one of whom I have not seen for years even though she lives here, are suppose to meet at Atlantic Station tomorrow. We were going to see Tyler’s movie & get dinner & shop around. One of the ladies just moved back to the ATL & has never been to AS. We’ve been planning this for weeks.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:51 pm

@Raqi ~ Yeah, Leggs but something has her still entertaining it”

EXACTLY, and I wonder why. To me, women get their just desserts when the man has placed his cards on the table and you got nothing to trump him with. I don’t get why she’s entertaining it and to be frank, it really isn’t any of my business.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:53 pm

Lady J, what did I do? LOL

I see comment awaiting moderation beside one of my post, does that mean I am in trouble? Usually my post just do not make it to print.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
2:55 pm

@Carlito ~ the way this nimp told me the story and the smile and yearning in her eyes….both. She wants him there and he wants to be there. But she wants to save face by not going all the way since he KNOWS God is going to send him something better…WTH says that to another. Unfortunately, what she doesn’t seem to realize is he has the upper hand because she’s letting him get around the bases without having a homerun. She played herself by not ending it after that “slur.”

Melo

April 16th, 2010
2:56 pm

what is when you think you can demean me to my face and then still want to get between my legs

@Leggs!!

it aint demeaning if im reading ur body lingo after i say that, and im getting that u still wanting to be around me.
In my over 35+ years of smashing,no girl that likes u will give u any goods unless u make a go for it,showing u do want to smash..either she says yes, or no….

If ur girl sticks around him,regardless of fact that she dont like what he said about them being tgether,in his mind,shes sticking for play,untill the Godly one shows up!

U cant fault a man for asking for some..we aint get no yams,just balls dwn there! :lol:

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
2:56 pm

Leggs, The suspense is there. She has been primed for the picking.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
2:56 pm

Leggs, I think they have already done it. She is just putting a line in the water to see what you might say. Six years no way.

Lady J-Sunshine

April 16th, 2010
2:59 pm

have a great weekend folks!!!! peace out!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
3:00 pm

Carlito – I was wondering the same thing.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
3:00 pm

If I had known I would have actively planned to avoid leaving my little part of the A all weekend.

♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪
How can the same man that makes me so mad
Do you *know* what he did?!?!?
Turn right around and kiss me so soft
Giiiiirrrrrrlllll, do you know what he did?

(I’m having this kinda day with TheDude – LOL)

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
3:02 pm

Yeah, basically, dude just told her he wasn’t good enough.

Poppa Grade

April 16th, 2010
3:02 pm

Kimmie

Good for SCool and Melo.

The wife and I are going to Asheville, NC. We will take in a springtime Biltmore Estates weekend. So, we will miss the festivities in ATL.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
3:02 pm

SHE wasn’t good enough for him.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:02 pm

Carlito – I agree.

Part of her feels like a fool for dealing with him this long & have nothing to show for it & find out she ain’t the one for him on top of all that. She’s lying to herself, poor thing, and to Leggs or anyone that will listen.

Just yesterday, I heard Luther’s song Don’t Be A Fool.

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
3:04 pm

Apparently, the desire for physical as well as something more was probably there. But after they smashed and he got rid of that super sexual tension, he’s able to see more clearly that what he thought he wanted with her, went away in the same warm wash cloth he used to wipe his pee pee with. SHE SMASHED DA HOMIES…LOL

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:05 pm

@Melo ~ ok, you got a point there. He didn’t demean her, she demeaned herself by remaining in his lane…yep, definitely gotcha on that one.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:07 pm

@kimmie ~ I told myself she was already sleeping with him while she was talking to me. Because for the life of me I can’t imagine anyone staying around after.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
3:09 pm

They had sex, and he used that as an excuse to cut her loose.

Slim, you are funny. :)

Raqi

April 16th, 2010
3:09 pm

Alright good people you all have a nice weekend.

Imma go pick up my little darling and come back and get my dinner started.

We are going to go look at some hammocks tomorrow. I am so ready to be laying outside relaxing in it.

Good Night.

abc

April 16th, 2010
3:10 pm

I’d say that a guy who’s cruising for a long time to get into some girls pants, but then declares he’s holding out for the woman that God is going to send his way, is a hypocrite, plainly. This doesn’t sound like Christian behavior to me.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:11 pm

Yeah, I do blame her for it all. A guy is just going to do what you let them do.

After 6 years, he knows her & knows he could get away with saying some mess like that to her & she won’t go anywhere cause she’s hard up. He does not have any respect for her. So yeah, in his head he feels he can do better.

It would tear me up to have someone I truly cared for for 6 years not want me, but I would be hurt even more that he didn’t at least respect me & my feelings.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:15 pm

Thanks, abc! Just wrong on every level!

Melo

April 16th, 2010
3:15 pm

who’s cruising for a long time to get into some girls pants

@abc that part of ulterior cruising has not been established!

If shes hanging around after being told plain and simple that he aint the one,who is cruising,him or her.

Shes a good girl,he admits that.Thats no reason for him to forsake her friendship if she wants to be close.

Most chics wld just step!

If u keeping close,then we bound to swap fluids and still be cool!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:17 pm

You too, kimmie! Good post! No wonder I walk with my antenna way up trying to keep the bs to a minimum and the fakery away from my door!

mytw♥cents... such a sweeet deliiight

April 16th, 2010
3:17 pm

Hey Sunshines!

I got antz in my pants, a dance in pants & ready to have a reckless weekend… why won’t they give us free?!?

What y’all up to in here?

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
3:19 pm

If he has been around for six years and nothing, he has to be some kind of good. And in fact he is telling her no I can not have sex with you because God said you are not the one. how is he the bad guy in the equation?

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
3:20 pm

Paira’Pennies – you been watching Amistad?

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:22 pm

Carlito, that was a sweet way to twist it, but umm, no. Like I said I put the blame on her.

Melo

April 16th, 2010
3:23 pm

I think what u Leggs and other ladies out there need to understand is that there are chics out there who wont accept a rabbit to be on stand by untill the real wood comes along.

They wld rather have a real live throbbing one,it dont matter its theirs for the long haul or its there on a temporary basis.

I think if uall come to terms with that,then uall be kind in ur analysis of her.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:23 pm

Haaa, haaa, haaa. Just received an email. Someone told me I need to let my antenna down just a little, it’s encountering too much interference! I hollered!

Willie Dynamite

April 16th, 2010
3:24 pm

6 yrs and nobody aint hit nothing. Either thats a lie or they both fools.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:24 pm

@Carlito ~ you put a nice spin on what was said. No, he said he wants to have sex with her while he waits for the better woman to come along because she’s not the one he’s going to settle down with!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:26 pm

Whoever said most women would step is right. Only desperate, hardup, low self-esteem characters would stay after hearing that mess.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:29 pm

Melo – I’m not being unkind, just frustrated & sad to hear it. Because it would not be a discussion if she was cool with just a FWB with dude. But obviously it bothers her because he said that to her, yet she’s all hot for him.

I can deal with it that sometimes some women are cool with Mr. Right Now. But this does not seem like the case.

Even if a guy felt that way, that she was cool to hang with & smash, but not the one he wants to take home to Mama, there’s a better way to handle it. Nothing wrong with how he feels, everybody is not going to be wifey. It’s just not classy, what he said. And don’t bring God into it, I would say to him. Cause God ain’t got nothing to do with that situation.

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
3:29 pm

Well sounds like he’s proposing a FWB type situation. Either she wants to get smashed by someone she’s known for 6yrs with no hopes for a relationship, rather wait for God to send her the man that will fulfill her physical & relationship needs, or she’ll get smashed by some random dude. Take your pick. ;-)

Willie Dynamite

April 16th, 2010
3:31 pm

Ladies, Ya’ll always ask Men where we find Women that put up with this/that. Exhibit A your honor!!! They are everywhere, look in the next cubicle, look in the car besides you on the way home.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
3:31 pm

I missed the part with him saying he wants to have sex with her, still. Yes he is crazy for even trying LOL, she is stupid for even entertaining him after that convo. She gave it up. I mean for her to stay around he has to have had a peace of her or she is really just that stupid.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:32 pm

Slim – The pickins look slim right now! She’s blocking her blessings, so that option is out right there.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
3:32 pm

Smashed, LOL I like that.

czBrat

April 16th, 2010
3:35 pm

ok. popping in all late on the convo again …. but as for the lil story from Leggs, i was thinking the same thing Carlito said. she’s already gone there but too ashamed to admit it. she wanted to get your thoughts on it so maybe she wouldnt feel like such a garden tool. guess that didn’t work out the way she hoped huh?

Melo

April 16th, 2010
3:36 pm

And don’t bring God into it, I would say to him. Cause God ain’t got nothing to do with that situation.

@Kimmie(and this is priving to be an interesting discsion)

I think he invoked God,just kinda like to lighten the heavy rejection blow!

my thing is if this guy had not be honest,he wld have lived with a lie…and thats not cool either..a real heavy burden.

Theee is no real “good” way to dump somebody who u know is feeling u..bottom line. however way u do it,it hurts.

Thats why cowards like myself usually hit and ran! :lol:

But bro here is a champ and honest in my view…i aint going to blame him for being nice and cool around a chic that he says he aint handled yet in 6 yrs, coz guys will phluck if they get an opening….

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
3:41 pm

God told me to hit it and quit it.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:42 pm

Melo – I could have taken it if he just said he wasn’t feeling her like that. That’s upfront & honest. If she wants to continue to smash, it’s on her. I get that every dude I smash is not going to want to marry me.

But did he have to add the “I can do better” part? That’s really the thing I take issue with. It’s like you’re sticking the knife in & turning it.

Actually, I would have appreciated your cowardly approach. I understand it better and I would have felt you were trying to spare my feelings a little.

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
3:42 pm

CARLITO..I love the Havanna club! Youc an find me inthe Salsa/Merengue room dancing to the music of my life!

LEGSS…so this chick is too dumb to realize she is the “in the meanwhile” booty? Wow! That is sad and desperate!

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
3:44 pm

6 years is definitely a long time to JUST dry hump, kiss and rub a little something without it ‘accidentally’ slipping on in…and ‘accidentally’ pump in and out a few times. :lol:

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:45 pm

Melo – Me appreciating the cowardliness a little better is proof that I was never the FWB type. I am a typical softie, woman, with feelings easily hurt. Some just are not built for the casual stuff. I know I’m not.

Willie Dynamite

April 16th, 2010
3:47 pm

Ladies – Any Dude ever just pull a disappearing act on you? I mean do and say all the right things for a minute then soon as they hit it they split/ghost?

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
3:48 pm

BlackMagicWoman, I am usually the tallest person there. Atleast the tallest Italian lol Look for a big red F350 Super Duty Crew Cab with a lift kit and I am in there. They always put my truck up front because it’s BIG!!! :)

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
3:50 pm

“God told me to hit it and quit it.”

Carlito – you are wrong for that one. :lol: Slim told you to get on your horse :-D

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
3:51 pm

CARLITO…”God told me to hit it and quit it.” :lol: You are going to hell on the express jet for that one!

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:51 pm

Willie – Yeah, I think we all have been there if you date long enough. Two good friends are dealing with that now. That’s why I’ve always tried to get to know a guy as much as possible before going there. I have to look out for myself & my feelings.

It does hurt, but you know what? If you don’t want me, just go on then. Just don’t come crawling back down the road!

Melo

April 16th, 2010
3:51 pm

after 6 years…

melo; hey kimmie,hw u?

kimmie; hey melo,i was actually thnking about u

melo; whats up?

kimmie; I was thinking maybe we can go hang out tonite

melo; actually i had sme to tell u!

kimmie; whaaat?? u making be giggly,what(as she dances around her room)

mel; u know we be gon on for 6 yrs right?

kimme; right!

melo; im thiniking, u deserve better, a good guy to take care of u

kimmie; so what u saying?

melo; i think ur moment to shine will come,God has a plan

kimmie; sooooo ooogh?

melo; we can hang but i think i gon have to wait as well for the one for me

kimmie” but..aghhhh, i mean

melo; its ok u know God has a way all the time

kimiie; i know but hey ..aggg

melo: cmeo baby..so..u said u wanna hang out tonite?

kimmie;;aaggg..but..yeah

melo; whatchu waan do,cmeon baby,rock that skirt i boght u,its sexxy..i be there around 11.30 pm

kimmie; aaaght,ill leave the door open coz i may be in the shower,just come upstairs!

Its a wrap snf gon down! :lol: :lol:

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
3:54 pm

melo – you got that part about the door already being unlocked by the time the CF(cut friend) get’s over…that sounds about right. Gotta keep it fresh & hot off the presses when you have that type setup…at least so i’ve Heard :-D

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
3:56 pm

Melo, ixnay on the typing of dialogue. I already have to turn my head to a 45 degree angle and think hard to translate what you type normally.

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 16th, 2010
3:58 pm

WillieD women do not call letting a man hit it anything! When someone comes in and clean those pipes the maintenance man does not count as a sexual encounter!

Leggs did you say you gave notice at your work? Or are you talking about getting together for drinks this Friday?

No one should use GOD as an excuse to get some booty, that is the worst line/game if alltime!

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
3:58 pm

“LEGSS…so this chick is too dumb to realize she is the “in the meanwhile” booty? Wow! That is sad and desperate!”

Yes, that’s what I’ve been saying. While she’s telling me she’s bowing her head looking all sheepish over her eyelids like a little girl kicking rocks while talking. Trying to be all coquettish. I was watching her truly wondering if she talks like this in front of men. She looked foolish to me.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
3:58 pm

Melo – You have lost your mind!LOL!! I bet a lot of space cadets would go for that, though. A few folks I know come to mind actually!

Not me, though. Number one, my relationship with God is a very personal one, so you don’t get anywhere with me by thinking all is okay cause you threw God in it!LOL!! I KNOW when God has a hand in something and when he doesnt! Number 2 – I’ve talked on here about regretting that I let a few guys waste a lot of my time & years without a real commitment or at least dude saying he sees a future with me. But even the former naive me would not have allowed 6 years.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
3:59 pm

I’m on a horse to hell and back.

I’m wearing a pony tail tonight.

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 16th, 2010
4:01 pm

What it do people?

BMW…..I see you ready to get into a 7:45 position tonight! I have a one pack with that suffice? :wink:

I wil scare off anyone that starts acting crazy! Lurker can only phluck crazy women not date crazy women!
Mental note….Add Slimone to the list of crazies! :smile: :Lol:

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:02 pm

Carlito, I used to kinda dig dudes with pony tails! Now I go for the bald look!LOL!!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:03 pm

LOL, Bald is not for me. LOL

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
4:03 pm

@Elijah ~ gave notice on this blog this past Tuesday to see who wants to meet for drinks after work.

ARed use to always get on me for asking on a Friday afternoon like nobody has a life or previoulsy made plans. So, I put a request in 4-days early.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
4:05 pm

Where is the tall, red chick anyways?

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:08 pm

Carlito – It used to not be for me either, but SO changed all that!LOL! He’s got the right head for it. I’ve seen pictures of him with hair and I actually like him better bald.

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
4:08 pm

“Add Slimone to the list of crazies!”

LURKER – why I gotta be on the crazy list…What ever did I do?

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:09 pm

kimmie, are you drawing me into a conversation that I do not need to be in? lol

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:09 pm

Slim you are on my list. LOL

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:11 pm

See Carlito, I knew you would go there!LOL!! I am talking about his answer to a receding hairline – perfectly innocent!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:12 pm

kimmie, i just thought i was approaching homo talking about another man’s head

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:13 pm

kimmie, you know it is time for me to act up

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:14 pm

Carlito – Okay! LOL! What you & Julia got planned, anyway?

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 16th, 2010
4:15 pm

Well, me and all my personalities are about to dip out. Gotta hurry up throw on my dukes and ride on the top of my ride showing the CT off to the city of ATL. Please try not to throw any change this time. I perfer the kind that folds. :-D

YALL HAVE A GUUUUUDDD ONE!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:17 pm

She my brother and I are all going to the Tavern for drinks and dinner then to the Havana Club. The wine and veggies have been passing since about 2 this afternoon.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
4:18 pm

Back to topic, apparently the statement he made didn’t “scare her off!”

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:18 pm

Melo – What part of Africa did you say you were from?

My next-door neighbors are from Kenya. The lady’s father passed away on Monday. He’s been sick awhile. She just went to see him last month. I’m glad she got a chance to say goodbye & was able to take her 4 year old twin boys to see him a year ago. They are really sweet people. They took one of my pound cakes to Africa a few years ago & her family liked it, so I made her another one to take.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:18 pm

Slim, keep smashing. :)

Melo

April 16th, 2010
4:19 pm

I can tell u,its gon be smoking in my crib,upstairs tonite….i gave her the info…i got the tckets…

and i left her a message;

voice mail: this is queen,sorry blah…

melo(in deep mandingo voice) hey babe,i got them,make sure u clean when i get there..its on and poppin’…i be a lil bit late ok…..cio

I lost a lot of loot the whole of today buying stuff for my trip..smetimes a bro feels if i had a baby mama on tap to fix me with $$$ bills smetimes!

anybody wanna loan me 5stacks!???

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:19 pm

Leggs, she gave it up and will again.

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:20 pm

Imma get me some wine this afternoon, Carlito, with some smoked gouda.

See all you have to do is suggest something to me, and the wheels in my head start turning!LOL!!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:20 pm

Melo, where is your trip to?

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:23 pm

kimmie, that is awesome. But it is buddha not gouda that is smoked over here. :)

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:25 pm

Carlito, you have lost your mind!LOL!!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:27 pm

kimmie, I can not lose what I never had. :) I’m on a horse

My neighbor, the cute AKA lady(whose son watered my yard) is over here also. Her and Julia hit it off :) I think Arturo has his hand in that.

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
4:28 pm

BMW…..I see you ready to get into a 7:45 position tonight! I have a one pack with that suffice?

Huh??? What does that mean?

Carlito…long hair is sexy. I like to play with it! :lol: Tell Arturo to grwo some hair for me!

Melo

April 16th, 2010
4:31 pm

Melo – What part of Africa did you say you were from

@Kimmie!!

I aint from Kenya,but im happy to inform u that in my lyfetime, ive heard 2 kenyan girlfriends.
One came to visit me xmas time when i was back home,nice chic,she luved me and was at my grandpa house during that time…i broke that lil girl’s heart.

the other one,phine tall luo chic(Luo is her tribe in kenya) girl was elegant,educated and a freaky.but very intellectual…awaesome sex game and her psh was off the meter..she toght me some things, i wont lie..she benched me, i can admit…

I got a soft spot for them kenyans..nice pple!

What were u saying again Kimmie?? :lol: oh i remember

where i am from….??

now! imagine africa was a human body,female and ur navel is where kenya is…..

now as u lick,keep coming down…starting from my navel (i mean,africa’s navel) ..all the way down…

right about down where u think u spotting some wetness, aggh some water..as u keep coming down,,,,,

u get it.as u get to south africa,u get to some ocean water,wide expanse(it aint that big,is it :evil: ??.thats where iam from!!

:lol: :lol:

Melo

April 16th, 2010
4:33 pm

Melo, where is your trip to?

@Carlito??

the world ’s most beautiful game’s world cup!

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
4:33 pm

Good God…only Melo can turn a question of geography into a sexual interlude! :shock: :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:34 pm

Melo, you are funny.

BlackMagicWoman, I will tell him. :)

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:35 pm

Melo, I am jealous. Take pictures!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 16th, 2010
4:38 pm

@Slimone….Now we all know you need to come and lie down on my coach so I can properly diagnose your crazy! :lol:

The crazy women of the MIA blog!

Slimone… able to go froggiestyle at a moment notice! :smile:

BMW….I wish 8 would tell her about that blk magic….. Well you know what I’m talking bout! :wink:

SexyCool…. Blessed with PSH powers! :smile:

Beautiful….She is good to go! Meet me in Vegas and I will show you what I am working with!:smile:

Sybil….My, My, that is some good shut your mouth! :wink:

Who did I miss! YEAHHHHHHHH

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:39 pm

Thanks, Melo, … I think!LOL!!

I thought it was S. Africa, wasn’t sure.

Yeah, I love my Kenyan neighbors to death – they really look out for me.

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
4:40 pm

(some lists you just don’t want to be on)…sure wish I could have post that in a smaller font. :wink:

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
4:40 pm

LURKER… Again…WHAT? “I wish 8 would tell her about that blk magic….. Well you know what I’m talking bout!”

kimmie

April 16th, 2010
4:40 pm

Everyone have a wonderful, safe weekend!

czBrat

April 16th, 2010
4:43 pm

i see it’s freaky friday in full swing. brat is covering her eyes and singing to herself to block out the lewd convo :roll:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:43 pm

Where is I am? Today is a good day for a woman to not have on panties.

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:44 pm

czbrat, you might not see it but you know what is about to happen. :)

Melo

April 16th, 2010
4:45 pm

Today is a good day for a woman to not have on panties

:lol:

I think she wont go commando for another week cause of the pollen….that must itch up there! :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:46 pm

Pollen does not bother me at all, Melo. :)

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
4:47 pm

:lol: Oh my Jesus! Melo has met his cohort with Carlito. I said it before….Carlito is the Italian Melo!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
4:50 pm

Melo, is my buddy. :)

Professor

April 16th, 2010
4:56 pm

…stepping in.

Melo,

The next time just say S. Africa. All of that navel and wetness was :shock:

Leggs,

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
4:58 pm

I hate when I just miss a call by the last ring (Hello? Hello? Damn it!), but when I immediately call back, it rings 9 times & goes to voicemail. What’d you do after I didn’t answer? Drop the phone & run away?

This made me laugh but has nothing to do with anything discussed here today.

All you youngins are too old for freaknik….stay away!

Nite nite!

BlackMagicWoman

April 16th, 2010
4:58 pm

Professor…now you know that would NOT be Melo if he didn’t say anything nasty. He is like Nasty Nelson from Boomerang! :lol:

Melo

April 16th, 2010
4:58 pm

have an awesome weekedn folks!

mine is gon be off da heezy, i know fo sho!

aaigght,luv ya!

Melo

April 16th, 2010
5:00 pm

@Proff!

i gon get u! :lol:

Professor

April 16th, 2010
5:01 pm

BMW you are so right, and he is a different type of nasty, don’t you think?

mytw♥cents...such a sweeet deliiight

April 16th, 2010
5:02 pm

Not watchin’ it, LIVIN’ IT!

Have a Fab weekend, Y’all ;)

Professor

April 16th, 2010
5:03 pm

Melo it’s all good you tha MAN!

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
5:07 pm

Like I said the day before yesterday. Stay away from those who piss on everything joyful. If Julia and I see you tonight say hello. I already told her we may run into some women from the blog. BlackMagicWoman Arturo will be there doing his thing.

SexyCool

April 16th, 2010
5:08 pm

Pair a Pennies – that’s what’s up!

Professor

April 16th, 2010
5:09 pm

Like I said the day before yesterday. Stay away from those who piss on everything joyful.

@Carlito Is there a reason you posted this one again?

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
5:12 pm

Yes there is. I got introduced to a whole other side of the blog today via email, people need to be happy and I am a peacemaker(more smiles than anything else over here everyday). You do not like my parting words?

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
5:13 pm

Professor, are you pissing on me.LOL I am NOT into that :)

Professor

April 16th, 2010
5:14 pm

Well Carlito I hate to hear that, but it is normal I had the same experience. Nope, there is nothing wrong with your words I was just wondering why you had them on repeat.

Professor

April 16th, 2010
5:16 pm

As for me pissing on you, you would enjoy the warm yellow shower I bestow upon you. lol

Anything else! :grin:

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
5:16 pm

“You do not like my parting words?”

This sounds Italian, Spanish, or even Greek. It really sounds like it’s coming from the Mob! :lol:

Carlito

April 16th, 2010
5:21 pm

Professor, If I were open and honest I would say one day I think me and my girl will try that. But I would never type that were I could not delete it.

Leggs, I am already “there” and buzzing. LOL. I did not mean it to sound that way. “Let me make an you an offer you can not refuse” LOL I am not good at the mafia quotes. Italian Trivia: Did you know the word “mob” or “la cosa nostra” was never mention in any of the Godfather movies?

Leggs

April 16th, 2010
5:27 pm

Don’t know if I actually remember that, but makes sense.