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Marriage is totally worth it!

My Mother came into town Sunday to attend a nursing conference in the city.  I was basically her driver/hotel concierge/hostess for the last two days and I am exhausted! I enjoyed having her around but my poor Father was clearly miserable without his wife.

Dad constantly called to hear her voice, remind her to take her medication, and any other random excuse he thought up to dial her number.  It’s endearing and sweet to see their romance continue all these years!  When I saw them light up when they reunited  (after 48 whole hours!), I got all choked up and misty. It was like a sappy The Notebook moment right there in the parking lot.

I thought, “You know? I kind of want that!”  No,  seriously! I’ve been ambivalent about marriage and commitment in the past, but watching my parents yesterday made me think that marriage is totally worth it.  I would love to have a man still stand the sight of me, let alone love me, after over 40 years of marriage!

Do you think marriage and commitment is worth all the challenges that are sure to come?

How do you think your parent’s relationship shaped your perception about love, commitment, and relationships?

What was your first memory of love and affection in your home?

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THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 14th, 2010
3:12 pm

As much as I like shoes Im not lickin on ya toes.. I like to see cute feet in shoes but not in my mouth.. A Monkey fer sure but not the toes.. I like pretty monkeys better than I like pretty feet..

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 14th, 2010
3:12 pm

jus watched *Want Chilli Wants*. love it! oh, and let me add . . . the b*tchh is stupid. lol. what she don’t want, i’ll take. smh at her and her must have retarded list.

Lady J-I love music, any kind of music

April 14th, 2010
3:12 pm

pk those were the best along with helping me take my braids out….a caring man is a good one!

yep professor a good massage takes you to higher heights!

Melo

April 14th, 2010
3:13 pm

I let a guy suck my toes once… nah, I didn’t like it.

@eghhhh

some of these practices sound like sexual liberation gon wild.

sucking female toes?? sounds more like desperate sexual bondage just so u can score! much like vagi lick or vice versa.

The only reason i lick queen( :lol: justification in in my mind) im paying homage to the birth of my kids and for her not suffocation them.

Otherwise i wldnt do it! :lol:

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:13 pm

“but men like what they like!”

Lady J – it’s funny you said that because the guy told me “Don’t knock what I like”…I just felt a little weirded out about it so I told him, it’ll have to be a work in progress. lol

PrincessNik.....feelin the butterflies

April 14th, 2010
3:13 pm

Melo we were young, we basically matured in different directions

Lady J-I love music, any kind of music

April 14th, 2010
3:14 pm

dk lmbao…. a man licking my toesis rare for me but when it happens it feels good too! LOL

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 14th, 2010
3:15 pm

Side note: This convo reminds me of the time I saw that comedian Don “DC” Curry on BET and said he ain’t doin feet….even if you just washed em and dipped em in Clorox he ain’t doin it…too funny.

Okay carry on…….

Lady J-I love music, any kind of music

April 14th, 2010
3:15 pm

they do slim and as i embrace my womanhood more and more I am becoming more open to what he likes along to him satisfying my needs to….sexuality is cool…..a bit guarded sometimes but the right person can open you up

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 14th, 2010
3:16 pm

she said Open you up

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:16 pm

Foot job, can be had under a table at dinner. Or if she is on the other side of the couch. Sometimes thru clothes sometimes without. As far as licking toes I do not set out just to like toes but if I am down there I might as well. I will lick everything else on her so why not the toes also?

LL411... Smiling On The Inside Too!

April 14th, 2010
3:17 pm

SlimCoo-Coo… because the guy told me “Don’t knock what I like”…

Now you know the nosey question is going to be asked :) What did he like?

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 14th, 2010
3:17 pm

DK what makes a monkey pretty?

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:17 pm

I can’t have a woman with messed up toes or feet. Melo, stop looking at Julia’s feet. LOL

Professor

April 14th, 2010
3:17 pm

I think a man polishing the toes is sexy…I like a man helping take the braids out and the greasing of the scalp.

PrincessNik.....feelin the butterflies

April 14th, 2010
3:18 pm

a bit guarded sometimes but the right person can open you up

literally :lol:

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:19 pm

PrincessNik – I went to my cousins hair dresser last Friday and she has a guy that does the shampooing…Boyyyyyy, he massaged my head so good, the hair on my arms stood up and I had chills all over. Never had a hair washing like that before…and buddy is Straight! What are the odds of that. lololol

PrincessNik.....feelin the butterflies

April 14th, 2010
3:19 pm

I think a man polishing the toes is sexy

love that scene from “something new” when Simon baker is polishing Sanaa Lathan’s toenails ahhhhh

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 14th, 2010
3:19 pm

I am down there I might as well. I will lick everything else on her so why not the toes also?

Carlito…. Je t’aime… ;)

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 14th, 2010
3:20 pm

Carlito – No toe sucking for me.. And I aint sticking my tongue in her butt.. Call it what ya want but I’ll ket the scream machine take up any slack I might miss in the licking dept.. And if you want me to lick ya toes.. Nope Im just gonna throttle you with the scream machine aka The Mindbender AKA the Goliath AKA The Superman that…

kinderbabe--30 days and counting! woohoo!

April 14th, 2010
3:20 pm

you all put the hump in “humpday”…lol.

Melo

April 14th, 2010
3:21 pm

Melo, stop looking at Julia’s feet!

:lol: :lol:

u are a very confident man,sending Julia my way!

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:23 pm

LL411 – he wanted to suck my toes. It’s been done but i felt a little awkward. But let my friends tell it, all he did was suck my fingers since I have long finger toes. LOLOL! To add to that, i’m very ticklish, so if I don’t have some sort of warning, any toe sucker may end up getting their mouth scarred up by a toenail as a reflex. :lol:

Melo

April 14th, 2010
3:24 pm

but the right person can open you up

@Lady J??

say(type) that again,I like that sound coming from u! :lol: :lol:

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:25 pm

Sassy, lol :)

Infamous, I am just a freak nasty nasty freak. She gets the deluxe superdy duperdy awesome package. LOL

Melo, I sure am. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 14th, 2010
3:25 pm

Sassy – The way it hangs a little.. The way the hair is cut (even if its a little bushy its neat bushy.. When its open the.. The lips are just right and it aint all gaping open.. Its just sitting there all nice and purdy.. I cant describe it but I know it when I see it.. Oh but most of all it smells absolutely divine.. Youo know honestly I like to look at it in the undies as opposed to out.. I like to let my imagination run wild as she stands there in boy shorts(My Favs) and just look at it.. Smush it together and tickle it.. Oh yeah.. Somebody gonna get it again today..

Lady J-I love music, any kind of music

April 14th, 2010
3:25 pm

kb it is getting hot in here!!!!! LOL

Lady J-I love music, any kind of music

April 14th, 2010
3:25 pm

romance comes in all forms and I love a romantic….

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:25 pm

DK – “I aint sticking my tongue in her butt”

But who ever really admits to ever licking a dookie chute?? :lol:

Lady J-I love music, any kind of music

April 14th, 2010
3:26 pm

melo go take a shower and a nap! Hot mess! LOL

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:27 pm

Guy’s should not be deep throating toes. Just nibble them and hit the spots inbetween them. Don’t deepthroat her fingers either, that is gay..just kiss on them and hit the spots in between them as well.

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:27 pm

Slim, I will admit to licking it. Why lie?

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 14th, 2010
3:28 pm

Smush it together and tickle it.

!!!!!!!

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:29 pm

DK – I always wanted to know what guys thought was pretty about a coodie. Guess now I know. For a while I was in denial about how phat the catty was, but there is no hiding it…especially when I get turned on. With the undies on, dude will look from across the room and immediately that My humps, my hump, my lovely lady lump..comes to mind. Yep, that’s all me! :mrgreen:

PrincessNik.....feelin the butterflies

April 14th, 2010
3:31 pm

Slim, nothing like those massaging shampoos at the hair salon!!!

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:33 pm

I do not like a clean shaven woman. I like a little hair left. Also I like to eat it from the back. Or pinch those lips together and then suck on her pearl until it is showing itself then pinch a little more firmly.

I am going to get in trouble again. :)

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:33 pm

And speaking on the pubscaping, I sort of like a guy without any bush. :-D

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:33 pm

Slim, I need you to send me a CT pic, for scientific purposes only. LOL

PrincessNik.....feelin the butterflies

April 14th, 2010
3:34 pm

as she stands there in boy shorts(My Favs)

seems boyshorts are the fave with most guys why is that?

Melo

April 14th, 2010
3:34 pm

For a while I was in denial about how phat the catty was

@SlimCoo-Coo??

I really dont know how some female can be in denial coz with some cooties, we can tell its pretty phat,even when they are wearing pants on.

Now imagine her and her dangly oozing stuff,after u rub ur mouf,lips and moustache softly on her labia!

Blown up like a bull frog!

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:34 pm

Carlito & DK Yall gonna make me miss my tax appointment tonight and go straight to Starship. (still haven’t replaced my trustee bullet :-( )

Lady J-I love music, any kind of music

April 14th, 2010
3:35 pm

carlito stop!!!!! LMBAO!!!!! bikini wax are it!!!!

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:35 pm

Slim, you have jumped the shark. What guy is shaving everything off? Shave the balls in the summer, very gently I might add…but the whole area heck no.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 14th, 2010
3:35 pm

For a while I was in denial about how phat the catty was, but there is no hiding it

Not me…as a matter of fact I….never mind cause I was really about to over share…mea culpa :oops:

LL411... Smiling On The Inside Too!

April 14th, 2010
3:35 pm

But let my friends tell it, all he did was suck my fingers since I have long finger toes. LOLOL!

Now that’s funny!

My s/o is more turned on by me walking around in a t-shirt and panties, smelling like whatever I just cooked him for dinner. I’m always trying and run an shower and he’s like come here girl and let me eat you up!

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:35 pm

rrriiiibbbiiitt :lol:

mqew

April 14th, 2010
3:36 pm

Marriage is great! It’s a job though. So just like a job, you got to make sure you want to be there, for whatever reason, but you HAVE to WANT to be there! If not, you’ll be miserable.

Also, I don’t think it’s for everyone. Just like I don’t think parenting isn’t for everyone, neither is marriage.

My thoughts…. :-)

SlimCoo-Coo

April 14th, 2010
3:37 pm

Carlito – you’ll be surprised how many dudes are going Hairless these days. I don’t know if they just get clippers happy or what but ballz definitely feel much softer w/o any hair. LOL!!!!!!! j/k bnr

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 14th, 2010
3:37 pm

Wait did my last post sound ghey…I was talking bout my phat catty not Slim’s….

Carlito

April 14th, 2010
3:38 pm

Lady J, I am going to need you to send me a CT pic as well. You and slim do not need to have your faces in the photo. Just a CT shot, in some boy shorts, thongs or bare. In the name of science.