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Nice girls finish last too?

We hear all the time that nice guys finish last, but does the same ring true for super nice girls? Do they get glanced over as well?  Yes, super nice girls are out there, men.

I find it so fascinating (and by fascinating, I mean annoying) when I am super nice to some guys, they try to take my kindness for weakness.  Then I have to show the feisty side when I am challenged.When this happens, why does this often turn the guy on more? Is it because he’s lame and should be left alone?

I don’t like acting like a witch, but I always learn a lot about a guy when I’m in one of those modes.  It’s not about that “cute when you’re mad” excuse, either.  Challenging women attract a particular type of man. The question is, would I want that kind of man for my own?

Do you think that when you date someone new, you go through a phase where you are seeing what kind of boundaries the person has?

Is it true that nice girls finish last? How do men interpret a nice girl’s behavior? Do they test her to see how nice she really is?

Ladies, do you find that being nice on the dating scene works best for you? Do you think being harsh with men is a defense tool women use as emotional protection?  Does that actually work?

Do nice girls finish last?

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SlimCoo-Coo

April 13th, 2010
4:26 pm

“You know I am one of the nice guys who finish first very often!”

Elijah – um…i’m not sure that is a good thing. Guess you’re one of those dudes who says, “we started at the same time”…when a chick looks at you sideways with that “I know you just didn’t…” look on her face. :lol:

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:29 pm

I think they do…what do you consider bar food?

@Leggs!

wings that rock
samwenches that tilli tat the palate esp when gin and vodka is on deck,mixxing with it.
lady finger foods that enhance their sexxiness with dudes around

Any other filling foods that are well priced and taste good,jes in case u planning to go lay the pipe with the one u with! :lol:

:lol: :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

April 13th, 2010
4:29 pm

Willie I agree why mess with Chicken heads when you can pick-em!
I think you all might be getting it twisted just a little. The “chicken heads” aren’t the only ones, they’re just the only ones talking because they have nothing to lose and everything to gain. The company execs and high stature chicks he was smashing ain’t talking because they have too much to lose.

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:30 pm

If a woman is knowlngly messing with a married man she is a Chicken Head

@Carlito??

dont say that!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:32 pm

The company execs and high stature chicks he was smashing ain’t talking because they have too much to lose.

Yep, them too

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:33 pm

@Carlito??

I know u aint married yet but here is one lesson u need to understand:

a man must never opine derogatively on another man’s dealings with his other women!

Coz u know James brown said it…

Its a Man world! Our world..u digg??..u and I and all men here!

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
4:34 pm

“Men may rule the world. But women rule the men.”

kimmie

April 13th, 2010
4:36 pm

Why are we still talking about old tired Tiger again?

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:36 pm

Men may rule the world. But women rule the men
@Scool??

I agree..

( u got delta reservations number by the way?)

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
4:36 pm

Slimone First means means in what I compete in? Work, sports, etc.
Slimone I see you are one of those quick witted sexually charged sista!

Since Superhead has outed everyone it seems like a landslide to get on T.V. and tell everyone you were banging a married man!

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:36 pm

Melo, a chickenhead is a chicken head. Do you respect a woman if she disrespects your wife or main girl? I would not. Even for guys who cheat there has to be one part of him saying “You nasty heifer”. But they hit it anyway.

SexyCool, women do not know their full power and those that do usually abuse it. LOL

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:37 pm

Dagnabit, Melo, just answer the question and leave sex out. Don’t know about samwenches, but google O’Charley’s menu and take a gander for yourself. I love their shrimp and 3-cheese dip.

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
4:38 pm

Google it, Melo.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:38 pm

kimmie, Tiger is not tired Elin was. Tiger has lots of energy. LOL

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:38 pm

Melo, you have fallen from grace with the ladies. LOL.

kimmie

April 13th, 2010
4:43 pm

Carlito – Yeah, well if he’d spent his loads of energy concentrating on golf, maybe he would have won the Master’s!LOL!! Plus, you prolly would have a lot of energy too if you hadn’t popped out 2 babies!

kimmie

April 13th, 2010
4:44 pm

Carlito, when did Melo every have “grace with the ladies” LOL!!

Luvbug

April 13th, 2010
4:44 pm

sneaking back in…

Carlito – Superhead can get it?

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:44 pm

Even for guys who cheat there has to be one part of him saying “You nasty heifer”.

@Carlito??

naw my boy..the heiffer part only comes out when they break up un ceremoniously or in acrimony.
So for u,the cheating man,she wont be a heiffer but to ur wife and all outsiders,yeah shes a heiffer!

Even Julia,the moment she seeing another dude and not u who causes the demise of ur relatiosnhip,may become classified as heiffer.

So heiffer is a relative and subjective term.

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:46 pm

Melo, you have fallen from grace with the ladies.

Carlito??

I got one reputation in the morn and another in the afternoon with these blog ladies!

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:46 pm

Do you respect a woman if she disrespects your wife or main girl?

Are you kidding me? She’s a chicken head ONLY because she didn’t have respect for his woman. Ummmm, how about we begin with him. Is it not his choice to go alooking, a chickhead hunt? Just wow…she’s a chicken head because she didn’t respect his woman but it’s him that’s looking. Not saying all men outright hunt because some women prowl as well but let’s lay the blame to all parties invovled.

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:48 pm

Google it, Melo.

@Scool??

why u like to give me the run around?? :lol:

Luvbug

April 13th, 2010
4:48 pm

Carlito, when did Melo every have “grace with the ladies”

Kimmie- Now you know Melo hypnotizes the ladies. LOL

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:50 pm

lurker, why so serious? The act of disrespect is those two messing around in the first place. I did not say he was not disrespecting his woman. I focused on the point I was trying to make. Are you looking to be upset. Here ride my horse.

kimmie

April 13th, 2010
4:50 pm

lurker, girl, you wasting your breath! Now in the case of Tiger, yeah he’s the one that took the vows & he cheated & the women knew he was married so they are wrong too.

But I cannot count the number of “ringless” married men that have hit on me! I have a good radar, though, and other ways to find out if dude is “entangled”! But it is downright ridiculous!

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
4:51 pm

Melo – I don’t work for Delta. I would have to get the number the same way you can.
:p

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:51 pm

kimmie, Melo is Mack A Roni Tony.

lurker, if you do not know at the end of every day I am on here I try and get the ladies pissed or bothered. They recognize me for it and usually just laugh. Thank you for biting today :)

kimmie

April 13th, 2010
4:51 pm

Luvbug – LOL, he thinks so anyway!!

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:52 pm

Is it not his choice to go alooking, a chickhead hunt?

@Lurker??

Its his choice,to answer ur qstion and/but he did not call them chicken heads! :lol:

Other pple did/do!

(dont get upset) :lol:

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:52 pm

@Carlito ~ that doesn’t sound like the same horse you’ve been riding backwards!!!!

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:53 pm

404 765-5000…I use this number at least 20,000 times a month!

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:54 pm

That number was for you, Melo!

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:56 pm

Melo – I don’t work for Delta

@Scool??
i know that!

I know i aint Dude but if i ask for sme,a nice lady(we talking about that today arent we??), will say,ok sir,lemme check! :lol: :lol:

or u giving me ur other biaatch side u mentioned this morning?? :lol: :lol:

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:57 pm

Leggs, you have a keen eye. It is not the same horse, no look at the horse not look at me look at the horse now look at me. Yes, hung like a horse. LOL

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:57 pm

Awe Leggs!

stepping like a lady!

Thnx! :lol:

u can tell im married/spoiled! :lol:

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:58 pm

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SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
4:58 pm

How did you know, Mel?

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:59 pm

@Carlito ~ hold out your hand so I can smack it with this ruler!!!!

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:59 pm

Carlito, I called them chicken heads but not for the same reason as you did. You said because they disrespect a wife or main girl by knowingly sleeping with a taken man…did you hear youself say that? Main girl? So a man is entitled and nothing more the wrong? I said chicken head because if they sleep with married men, I’m sure they are mentally screwed up, as a whole. Chicken head, IMO means a certain mentality. Not because she disrepected a man’s live in lover or main girl. I’m out.

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
4:59 pm

Headed out – early softball game tonight.
I’m hitting a homer!!!
yrb!!!

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
5:01 pm

“Ever notice that the people who are late are often much jollier than the people who have to wait for them?”

Try to be on time and respect other people and their time!

Nitey nite!

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
5:02 pm

You see, nice girls do finish last (LOL)!

Melo

April 13th, 2010
5:03 pm

Leggs!

nice girld for sho

good nite!

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
5:04 pm

lurker, know that I will just say stuff to get a reaction. Thank you. I am not taking that conversation serious by any means. lol

Leggs, ciao bella

Melo

April 13th, 2010
5:04 pm

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
5:08 pm

@Melo, I said nice girls finish last!

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
5:09 pm

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
5:24 pm

You guys are too funny!