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Nice girls finish last too?

We hear all the time that nice guys finish last, but does the same ring true for super nice girls? Do they get glanced over as well?  Yes, super nice girls are out there, men.

I find it so fascinating (and by fascinating, I mean annoying) when I am super nice to some guys, they try to take my kindness for weakness.  Then I have to show the feisty side when I am challenged.When this happens, why does this often turn the guy on more? Is it because he’s lame and should be left alone?

I don’t like acting like a witch, but I always learn a lot about a guy when I’m in one of those modes.  It’s not about that “cute when you’re mad” excuse, either.  Challenging women attract a particular type of man. The question is, would I want that kind of man for my own?

Do you think that when you date someone new, you go through a phase where you are seeing what kind of boundaries the person has?

Is it true that nice girls finish last? How do men interpret a nice girl’s behavior? Do they test her to see how nice she really is?

Ladies, do you find that being nice on the dating scene works best for you? Do you think being harsh with men is a defense tool women use as emotional protection?  Does that actually work?

Do nice girls finish last?

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Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:43 pm

Would not need condoms, just think about those payments. That would take me out of the mood.

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
3:44 pm

Tiger is under a lot of pressure so he needs that PSH on the side that he was not getting from his wife. You know you cannot choke you wife but you can choke a pornstar! :smile:

SlimOne I was reading some of your comments regarding the drinking! You are someting else! I likey! :smile:

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:44 pm

@InfamousD ~ again I agree, his lawyers did such a disservice to him.

DreamsMaterialize

April 13th, 2010
3:46 pm

Nas got got. Put down with Michael Strahan.

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:47 pm

@DreamsM ~ he sure did and Kelis is literally LOL!!!!!

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
3:49 pm

I am amazed that if Tiger was raw dogging with all these women and not a single one of them reported they were pregnant by The Tiger. Tiger must have had the Big V.

Melo

April 13th, 2010
3:49 pm

You know you cannot choke you wife but you can choke a pornstar,get her to swallow while being deep throated at the same time!

@Elijah??

u getting nastier by the day!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Willie Dynamite

April 13th, 2010
3:52 pm

Dayum its hard out here on Married dudes.

lurker

April 13th, 2010
3:52 pm

@Elijah??

u getting nastier by the day!

That was funny…I read it that way as well….funny though

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:52 pm

Elijay, Tiger was going raw with these women?

I will not comment on the choking since someone has commented on some of the things I have said on here. LOL Julia is a troll

kimmie

April 13th, 2010
3:53 pm

Elijah – Supposedly one said she got preggers twice. She miscarried one & aborted the other.

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
3:54 pm

Correction – Julia is a lurker.

Trolls are the ones that show up out of nowhere and attack people and make ugly comments.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:55 pm

SexyCool, thank you. LOL

lurker

April 13th, 2010
3:56 pm

I’m the regular lurker that’s always been “lurker” can’t speak for other folks, even though tagged as trolls….even though this is a public forum. Never understand this attitude

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
3:57 pm

lurker and Melo did you guys read the e-mails Tiger sent to the pornstar? I think Tiger wanted to make some XXX movies!

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:58 pm

Put this out there in advance…anybody want to join me for drinks afterwork on Friday?

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:59 pm

Tiger text were GREAT

Melo

April 13th, 2010
3:59 pm

not a single one of them reported they were pregnant by The Tiger

@Elijah??

Tiger was paying for mouth-come,not V-jay come! so no preggers there!

why are u kinda confused?? :lol: :lol:

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
3:59 pm

I was watching the Masters Sunday (listening to those loud ass birds drowning out the commentators) and kept thinking, “Tiger, you a freak!” and laughing.

lurker

April 13th, 2010
3:59 pm

understood is what I meant

Elijah you’ve been a bad boy lately. Guess these married dudes and their bad decisions are getting under your skin

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:00 pm

mouth come + swallowing!

Priceless!

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
4:01 pm

lurker are you the female lurker?

Carlito I find it hard to believe that Tiger was not using condoms when sexing these women. They are trying to sensationlize the story.

Kimmie well it has been 5 or 6 months and none these women who are trying to get their claim to fame has not made any comments regarding the topic!

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:01 pm

Eli, didn’t see that but at this point, all those chicken heads he was messing with, nothing is surprising…yep he’s a freak. Guess Elin wasn’t putting it down like he wanted. Being a freak though, he still would have stepped out. Her only other option was doing the “Dushawn”, bring in a friend.

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:02 pm

@SexyC ~ I watached a little of the Masters wondering if he was going to be nice to the crowd and to see if his game was up to par!

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:02 pm

Eli – female

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
4:05 pm

Lady lurker I am surprised by your comments since I have not been able to blog recently. So why am I put in the bad boy category? You know I am one of the nice guys who finish first very often!

Melo you must have the inside scope on how Tiger was getting down huh?

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:09 pm

They are definetly castrating him.Or rather,he casrteated his self! :lol:

check
http://sports.yahoo.com/golf/blog/devil_ball_golf/post/Jim-Nantz-criticizes-Tiger-Woods-vocal-tantrums?urn=golf,233852

Tiger and competitiveness means foul language. When he misses a shot=foul lingo and cursing..when he misses a birdee or eagle= cursing..when he hits the rough and not the fairway =cursing.he promised to stop that,he cursed a lot sunday and lost.

If he has to get back to winning,either he goes to therapy again and do a complete make over with no cursing and no side phluckking or he reverts back to the old Tiger with sailor like cursing and u not what??..side cleansing. :lol:

I like Old Tiger better!

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:10 pm

Eli – Not in a bad way, I was kidding. Just sort of like reading someone that’s typically quiet or never makes a fuss, come out and say how they REALLY feel…more so like that. Naaah, you’re one of the “not so much fuss” blog dudes.

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:10 pm

Put this out there in advance…anybody want to join me for drinks afterwork on Friday?

@Leggs??

count me(tentatively) in but where??

Willie Dynamite

April 13th, 2010
4:10 pm

ChickenHeads yep I agree. I’m disappointed in ol boy. If he gon step out like that at least let it be with some Chicks that everybody will understand and see how it could happen. He out here with less than average random ChickenHeads. C’mon Man

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
4:11 pm

I think it’s hilarious that Tiger calls himself by name when he’s cursing himself out.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:11 pm

I was told I am not a nice guy. Hoo da fudge cares. LOL

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:12 pm

How about O’Charley’s North Lake?? I welcome any suggestions.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:12 pm

Willie, maybe they were great in bed?

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:14 pm

Halle Berry, Beyonce, Superhead or Kelis. diseases aside I would choose Superhead, I have seen video of what she brings to the table. She is the ugliest of the four, but it is not about the looks. LOL

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:15 pm

@My Italian Studmuffin ~ exactly…Julia thinks you’re nice and that’s all that matters!

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:15 pm

O’Charley’s North Lake??
@Leggs!

do they serve nice bar food??

location wld be ideal for me tho??

Willie Dynamite

April 13th, 2010
4:15 pm

maybe, but all I’m sayimg is check the line-up. Heyal you prolly got a better starting 10 then this Dude. Shiiiiiid I’m a regular Joe and I know a good 7-8 of his I wouldnt touch as a youngsta.

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:17 pm

I guess my only disappointment lies not so much as him and his so-called “now” tarnished image because heck I don’t put anything past anybody. Not saying we’ll all do something dumb and shallow, just frankly not surprised anymore. I’m just surprised how that, no matter how many examples we see and hear, somebody will still be dumb enough to think they can do the same exact thing/crime and have a different outcome. Really, he’s got enough money to almost buy a plan if he can’t think of one but to have that much disregard for your marriage and you just screwing anything breathing is what surprises me. No discretion or anything. Just any ole chickenhead

Melo

April 13th, 2010
4:19 pm

@Carlito??

I wld say Bee just coz of the moves she makes on stage,u wld think?? …i dont EVEN know why Halle Berry is on there(she looks active to u??) a flaby in bed??….but next time if u talking to me,dont bring up her name! persona nan grata here! :lol: :lol:

Superhead?? she got too much wear and tear! :lol: :lol:

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
4:19 pm

Willie I agree why mess with Chicken heads when you can pick-em! Their are so many ladies who will do whatever you need them to do if you name the right price!

Thanks lurker their no reason to get dramatic on a blog and in life. Jahovah has bless us with great life which is a good reason to make everyday a good day!

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:19 pm

Leggs, she is the one who said I was not a nice guy. LOL

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:20 pm

Halle Berry, Superhead or Kelis….ummm I ain’t hating cause to each his own but this ain’t really a good lineup. Superhead might win for the most talented but can we really lay that claim to her not knowing the skills of the others.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:21 pm

Melo, maybe but not her mouth :)

If a woman is knowlngly messing with a married man she is a Chicken Head, so any woman Tiger would have messed with is a chicken head. Like they did not know who he was?

lurker

April 13th, 2010
4:22 pm

Eli – easy like sunday morning…the best kinds

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:23 pm

lurker, I just pulled some names out of the air. I have seen her videos so I was going with what I know. I have not seen the others in action so why take a chance? It’s all about a “”nut” not love. So in my mind she will give me the best nut.

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
4:24 pm

My typing sucks that’s Jehovah!

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:24 pm

Okay, what am I talking about. LOL Next topic please. I am sitting here rationalizing Superhead. I thought you all were my friends. You all are just going to let me stick it in her mouth. “I surrounded myself with the wrong people” – said at my media conference

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
4:25 pm

@Carlito ~ that was funny…you’re in trouble!

@Melo ~ I think they do…what do you consider bar food?

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
4:26 pm

Leggs, she is just spoiled. lol