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Nice girls finish last too?

We hear all the time that nice guys finish last, but does the same ring true for super nice girls? Do they get glanced over as well?  Yes, super nice girls are out there, men.

I find it so fascinating (and by fascinating, I mean annoying) when I am super nice to some guys, they try to take my kindness for weakness.  Then I have to show the feisty side when I am challenged.When this happens, why does this often turn the guy on more? Is it because he’s lame and should be left alone?

I don’t like acting like a witch, but I always learn a lot about a guy when I’m in one of those modes.  It’s not about that “cute when you’re mad” excuse, either.  Challenging women attract a particular type of man. The question is, would I want that kind of man for my own?

Do you think that when you date someone new, you go through a phase where you are seeing what kind of boundaries the person has?

Is it true that nice girls finish last? How do men interpret a nice girl’s behavior? Do they test her to see how nice she really is?

Ladies, do you find that being nice on the dating scene works best for you? Do you think being harsh with men is a defense tool women use as emotional protection?  Does that actually work?

Do nice girls finish last?

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Lord Velonese

April 13th, 2010
2:44 pm

“Yes, super nice girls are out there, men.”
“Nice girls finish last too”

Really? I’m calling BS on that one.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
2:45 pm

My issue is not with the legal system on this one. Although I have seen people go away with far less evidence. I am talking on Goodell and his way of doing things, he is not balanced in his position.

Lady J-you can’t experiEnce success without failure!!!!!

April 13th, 2010
2:46 pm

Carlito that is it “he is not balanced in his position” I so agree and not for the obvious but really balanced he is not!

Melo

April 13th, 2010
2:47 pm

@DK??

I heard on radio this morning about whats going on with Nas and his baby mama Kelis….i felt mad for him,like it was me….

this system is a mfckker for real!

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
2:48 pm

Lady J, you understand what I am saying :)

DreamsMaterialize

April 13th, 2010
2:48 pm

If you have had the same problems 10 years later that you had when you got there.
abc I agree completely with this. I think this can also be applied to the neighborhoods in which these churches are located. The church has been in the neighborhood for 50 years, but the liquor store and strip club have been across the street from the church the since it opened. The neighborhood is as economically depraved as it was 50 years ago, and the people in the neighborhood aren’t any more spiritual than they were 50 years ago.

Elijah, like I said. I am exploring non denominational churches now.
Be careful looking for greener pastures. There is some amount of dirt to be found wherever you go.

mqew

April 13th, 2010
2:50 pm

Kym – Love the what that church is doing. Frankly, I don’t understand why we have these huge mega churches in Atlanta metro area and they’re not doing more….. but I digress. I’m glad some churches are doing it…

Lady J-you can’t experiEnce success without failure!!!!!

April 13th, 2010
2:50 pm

kels know something we don’t I don’t know any judge if my ex made that kind of money would grant me such a settlement! Oh my! Just the thought of it! wow!

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
2:51 pm

Dreams, I wrote both of those that you quoted. On the exploring a different religion, I have various reasons for doing that and they are all spiritual. Not because of the negative light that is being shown upon the catholic church right now.

Lady J-you can’t experiEnce success without failure!!!!!

April 13th, 2010
2:51 pm

meant kelis…..wow she is getting paid and for what again bc the marriage failed???? child support???? wow those are major annual salaries that some ceo’s don’t make anymore during this economy…wow I am baffeled with the results!

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
2:53 pm

Have a baby by me. Be a millionaire.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
2:53 pm

How much is Kelis getting? Is her milkshake that good?

Lady J-you can’t experiEnce success without failure!!!!!

April 13th, 2010
2:53 pm

sexycool you aint neva lied!

mqew

April 13th, 2010
2:54 pm

How much is Kelis suppose to be receiving from him?

Lady J-you can’t experiEnce success without failure!!!!!

April 13th, 2010
2:54 pm

Lady J-you can’t experiEnce success without failure!!!!!

April 13th, 2010
2:55 pm

one poster wrote this yall

does Nas even make 44K a month? lmao

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
2:57 pm

@Carlito ~ would you consider visiting a church in Conyers???

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:01 pm

Traffic is going to be everywhere this weekend.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:01 pm

Nas needs to work it out or have here offed.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:02 pm

Leggs, where is Conyers?

Lady J-you can’t experiEnce success without failure!!!!!

April 13th, 2010
3:02 pm

carlito!!!!!!!!! lol

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:06 pm

@Carlito ~ I take that as a No….seriously, I-20 E, exit 82. There’s a fabulous, down to earth church in Conyers….Church in the Now! Very relaxing atmosphere, genuine people, very diversified congregation and Bishop is too cool for words! With CITN, you aren’t pressed to reach into your pockets, and you will walk away feeling great and no doubt will like the message!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 13th, 2010
3:07 pm

Is her milkshake that good?

It was good enough to give her his last name….but some cat she made a sex tape with before they got married decided to show it to ERRBODY, and Nasir couldn’t/didn’t deal with it too well. I thought they made a cute couple.

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:09 pm

Also, the choir is outstanding….not your typical choir. The drummer and electric guitar players are smoking!!!!

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
3:09 pm

I have seen some of the broadcasts for Church in the Now. Enjoyed it.

mqew

April 13th, 2010
3:09 pm

OMG Remember that horrible song she made (besides Milkshake) Bossy! Ugggghh I hated that song!

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:10 pm

Leggs, I am currently giving a Church some visits now to see it if it s for me. If not I will come to that one. I would like to make it through the current series first.

Sassy, there is a tape?

Lady J, that is a bunch of money.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:11 pm

Excuse me for not responding, I am searching google for the tape

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

April 13th, 2010
3:12 pm

Kelis Milkshake is very good! Kelis made nas scream for mercy when she was riding that brotha!

DreamsMaterial once we get away from the church size, the religious aspect, the congregational judging then you can find a good old spiritual place!

I am in Favor of Ben being punished ( Bad Conduct that is detrimental to the team image) Sit him down for 6 games. Oh I hate the Steelers!

Yea Leggs where is Conyers? Is that where produce all that corn liquor?

I see we have some functioning Alcholics on the BLOG! :smile:

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:18 pm

Conyers sounds far, but really isn’t.

@Carlito ~ if it doesn’t pan out, visit CITN. Have no doubt, you like it. It’s the first church that I actually miss when I’m not there! I don’t feel like it’s an “obligation” to go every Sunday…I want to go!!

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:18 pm

@Elijah ~ corn liquor in Conyers…probably!

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 13th, 2010
3:18 pm

there is a tape?

I don’t know lito…that’s just what I had heard but something must’ve been true cause they split up not too long after that. I saw him at Visions back when it was open and…well actually my bff and I grabbed this butt we saw in a nice pair of white jeans and when he turned around it was Nasir…we were like :shock: :oops: but he took it in stride and chatted us up a lil.

blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol…..

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:23 pm

Well, if that was her in the video i just watched. She is definitely spank worthy.

mqew

April 13th, 2010
3:23 pm

Soooooo Nas has a nice ass hunh :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 13th, 2010
3:23 pm

Aint no milkshake worth that.. Another miscarrige of justice…

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 13th, 2010
3:27 pm

Soooooo Nas has a nice ass hunh

Uhh hunh….nice n high n tight. The funny thing is we both grabbed it at the same time w/out even thinking about it…she had the left and I the right…thoooose were the daaaaays.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 13th, 2010
3:28 pm

Willie Dynamite

April 13th, 2010
3:30 pm

DK – I’ll Cosign that

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 13th, 2010
3:31 pm

Leggs

April 13th, 2010
3:32 pm

@InfamousD ~ when I got the email this morning outlining all the money Kelis was going to receive, I immediately thought of you!

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 13th, 2010
3:33 pm

Sassy – come grab me in the biscuits and see what happens… I once got busy in a burger king bathroom.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:33 pm

I would like to try some $40k per month snatch. Just to see what it is like.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:34 pm

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY SINUSES ARE..

April 13th, 2010
3:35 pm

Leggs – Nas got pathetic lawyers.. Aint no way. Im not saying what OJ did was right but I understand

SlimCoo-Coo

April 13th, 2010
3:35 pm

heyyyyy, i live in Conyers….never had any corn licka out this way

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
3:36 pm

Lil Duval has been ragging her all day long on Twitter.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:37 pm

Did you see what Jim Carey said about Elin, LOL

SexyCool

April 13th, 2010
3:39 pm

About her sharing a part of the blame of T’s extracurricular activities.

Carlito

April 13th, 2010
3:41 pm

Yes, they are letting him have it. Reminded me of the blog.

Melo

April 13th, 2010
3:41 pm

Is Diddy paying thgat much for each of his kids??

I feel sorry for these celebrities getting bankrupted by their wangs!

Bad choices too!