We hear all the time that nice guys finish last, but does the same ring true for super nice girls? Do they get glanced over as well? Yes, super nice girls are out there, men.
I find it so fascinating (and by fascinating, I mean annoying) when I am super nice to some guys, they try to take my kindness for weakness. Then I have to show the feisty side when I am challenged.When this happens, why does this often turn the guy on more? Is it because he’s lame and should be left alone?
I don’t like acting like a witch, but I always learn a lot about a guy when I’m in one of those modes. It’s not about that “cute when you’re mad” excuse, either. Challenging women attract a particular type of man. The question is, would I want that kind of man for my own?
Do you think that when you date someone new, you go through a phase where you are seeing what kind of boundaries the person has?
Is it true that nice girls finish last? How do men interpret a nice girl’s behavior? Do they test her to see how nice she really is?
Ladies, do you find that being nice on the dating scene works best for you? Do you think being harsh with men is a defense tool women use as emotional protection? Does that actually work?