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Date Jesus

Atlanta’s own Chilli (of TLC fame) is the focus of a new dating reality show on VH1.  This is the same network that brought such shows as Tough Love, Rock of Love, and now What Chilli Wants.  Well, according to the trailer, what she wants is too much, which is why she has had problems finding the one.

I’m sure in some bizarro world of reality television, Chilli Photo: Gossip on This could actually have a problem with a dating relationship.  I’m curious enough to watch just to see if she struggled with some of the same hangups many of us had and may still have.  Finding random and nonsensical reasons not to give someone a shot.

Watching a few scenes from the show made me laugh out loud, especially when Chilli’s friend, music producer,  Missy Elliot said she should just “Date Jesus”.  Clearly she was implying that no person walking the earth could meet any criteria that is totally unrealistic.

However, for argument’s sake, if anyone could pull off having a firm grip on a dating checklist, why couldn’t she? The woman is beautiful, famous, and probably has a pretty sweet personality.  Why shouldn’t she have her bar set pretty high?

Would someone that was not in the limelight actually handle dating her with finesse and class?

I’m just wondering, is it about settling for someone you don’t want or dating Jesus? Isn’t there another door or A new option that we don’t talk about: staying unmarried?

Do you think that every single/uncoupled person who has not met the one should reconsider all of their standards? Is  waiting for  as long as it takes to find the one a selfish and unrealistic decision?

528 comments Add your comment

Luvbug

April 8th, 2010
2:40 pm

Dreams – Yeah it’s dang near deadly for me. I’ve been waiting for this day to run a few errands. My refrig dwindled down to roughly one cup of Pops cereal, which I ate last night. No more!!!! I’m shopping and eating well tonight.

SexyCool - CountryGirl

April 8th, 2010
2:40 pm

SlimGoody – I would be more inclined to go with Fiddy’s offer – Have a baby by him – be a millionaire. LOL!

mytw♥cents

April 8th, 2010
2:40 pm

DIG THAT Do you think she wants to be with him in her heart of hearts or has she expressed this? I wonder if he made the parameters clear but she thought the children would change his mind. Cuz why raw dog in an open relationship? Especially with someone who has all access to azz…

DreamsMaterialize

April 8th, 2010
2:41 pm

Dreams M, can you give me something to take the suffering away
Princess You know I got what you need. Come on over here. It’s raining you know… ;-)

Dig That

April 8th, 2010
2:41 pm

I can dig that Princess. You right bout that baby mama drama. I have seen it at it’s worse. My homegirl going thru same thing right now, which is why I asked. She bout to leave dude and really not because of him but that baby mama drama.

Melo

April 8th, 2010
2:41 pm

my bad Melo

@Luvbug..??

u send me ur swim suit pics??

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 8th, 2010
2:41 pm

i would rather date a man with kids. simplicity.

PrincessNik..Grinning & Glowing

April 8th, 2010
2:42 pm

Dreams M

I’m on the way :lol:

Carlito

April 8th, 2010
2:42 pm

Melo, ESPN is switching from SportCenter to the Masters about every 3 minutes.

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 8th, 2010
2:42 pm

and i’ve found out that men who have daughters . . . need i say more?

Dig That

April 8th, 2010
2:43 pm

@mytwo- He is head over heels for the chick.

mytw♥cents

April 8th, 2010
2:43 pm

LUVBUG Do you watch the chef show, “Chopped?” That sounds like their mystery bag of ingredients. You should encust that Roughy with the Pops crumbs and pan sear it, chile.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 8th, 2010
2:44 pm

NIK!!!!! – Plasma lifespan is shorter than the LCD..

PrincessNik..Grinning & Glowing

April 8th, 2010
2:44 pm

Dig That,

I can’t deal with the B_M_D, i try to be mindful and respectful of my ex’s girlfriend when i call, now if she gets wrong then i get ALL WRONG but otherwise its all amicable.

Melo

April 8th, 2010
2:44 pm

@Carlito..try USA networks for full coverage untill 4.00pm

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 8th, 2010
2:44 pm

Guys there is a Golf channel..

PrincessNik..Grinning & Glowing

April 8th, 2010
2:45 pm

@ Beautiful

and i’ve found out that men who have daughters . . . need i say more?

yea please expound

mytw♥cents

April 8th, 2010
2:45 pm

DIG So where’s the disconnect? he wants to be with her but not married to her?

Carlito

April 8th, 2010
2:46 pm

Mickelson is climbing fast he is t2. Tiger is climbing also he was t36 now his t13 still one under par.

Raqi

April 8th, 2010
2:46 pm

SexyCool, what doesn’t kill us only makes us stronger. My sister told me yesterday that with all that I have endured I don’t know what my daughter is going to face in her life that my past experiences will be able to help her thru.

Sorta like that friend you said you talked to yesterday. Our experience can be consolation and encouragement for others.

Carlito

April 8th, 2010
2:47 pm

Infamous, the Golf channel is not showing the Masters. Nor is USA, Law&Order is on there. I think it has to do with The Masters being a private tourney instead of the PGA

Melo

April 8th, 2010
2:48 pm

Cuz why raw dog in an open relationship? Especially with someone who has all access to azz…
@mytw♥cents

simple answer to ur qstion is there arent many females who think rationally when come face to face,eye ball to eye ball with the smoove hard dizzle!

DreamsMaterialize

April 8th, 2010
2:48 pm

And that Tiger smile is creeping back out swing by swing.
He did say that he promised to be more appreciative of his fans this time around. He’s getting back in his groove.

My refrig dwindled down to roughly one cup of Pops cereal
LOL I didn’t know people still ate Pops. So, what are you eating tonight? What time should I be there? lol

I’m on the way
Be careful Princess or you really will be “glowing”…like Bruce Leroy. “You got the glow!”

Melo

April 8th, 2010
2:50 pm

Golf channel dont show full coverage of Pga tourneys

mytw♥cents

April 8th, 2010
2:50 pm

BEAUTIFUL Hi. Please finish your train of thought.

INFAMOUS I mighta mentioned that, but surely there’s a reason they’ve tried all 348 other channels. Please let there be just one…

PrincessNik..Grinning & Glowing

April 8th, 2010
2:50 pm

@ Dreams M

LOL I didn’t know people still ate Pops

I do all the time publix had em on sale like 1.99 a box the other week

Be careful Princess or you really will be “glowing

is that riiiight? :oops:

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 8th, 2010
2:50 pm

i jus rec’d a text stating they’re the worst to date! lmbo.

Dig That

April 8th, 2010
2:52 pm

@mytwo- Probably just fear and right now I just believe he doesn’t want to be Tiger or Jesse James. And being realistic, he is just living a life we could only dream of.

Melo

April 8th, 2010
2:53 pm

@Carlito?

I hate Phil Mickleson,golf wise

Raqi

April 8th, 2010
2:53 pm

Tiger Woods looks a hot mess. I heard my husband talking at the television last night. He said Tiger should have been feeling how he looks now when he was stepping out on his wife.

Now he wants to look all pitiful.

However, he does look better with hair on his face. (I am partial to male whiskers LOL) Just a little unkept and out of it. Very pitiful.

Carlito

April 8th, 2010
2:54 pm

Infamous, the average lifespan for a Plasma is 54 years now. That is based on a 3 hour viewing day. So if you watch the Plasma around 8 hours a day you will still get 20 years out of it.

Carlito

April 8th, 2010
2:54 pm

That’s about the same for LCD as well, almost an even playing field

DreamsMaterialize

April 8th, 2010
2:55 pm

i jus rec’d a text stating they’re the worst to date!
Why am I guessing that this has something to do with grown women feeling the need to compete with little girls (daughters) for attention?

Luvbug

April 8th, 2010
2:55 pm

Mytwo- LOL I would have never thought of that.

Melo – No, my bad for sneaking in, letting one go and creeping out while you were watch your show and playing on the computer.

Picture??? %$#@*&…..*&%$…now stop all that

Carlito

April 8th, 2010
2:56 pm

Tiger, looks relaxed and in the game. He is clean shaven. Also, think about this everyone. Tiger was at the top of his game while running all of those women. How do you think his game will be right now that they are more than likely out of his life at the present moment.

Melo

April 8th, 2010
2:57 pm

He said Tiger should have been feeling how he looks now when he was stepping out on his wife

@Raqi?

u hubby said that coz u were within ear shot!

SlimCoo-Coo

April 8th, 2010
2:58 pm

SexyCool In response to taking Fiddy’s offer…many actually end up “having a baby by me, be on welfare” with some random dude. :lol:

mytw♥cents

April 8th, 2010
2:59 pm

MELO Kiss my grits. I denounce the whole dyckmatization ideology, but this ain’t even that kinda discussion so don’t try to put it on the woman. He’s being dumb with his d!ck if he’s puttin it into every gaping hole with no shield for what that woman might give him besides pleasure or what the last one left lingering behind.

Raqi

April 8th, 2010
2:59 pm

Carlito, I think it was you I was talking to a couple weeks back about me buying a new television for our room. We got a Panasonic and the picture is absolutely beautiful. It makes our porn program watching experience so much better.

:lol:

PrincessNik..Grinning & Glowing

April 8th, 2010
2:59 pm

“having a baby by me, be on welfare”

^^^^^^^LOL literally :lol: ^^^^^^^^

Melo

April 8th, 2010
2:59 pm

No, my bad for sneaking in, letting one go and creeping out while you were watch your show and playing on the computer.

@Luvbug?

just as well u released a stealth missile.

Im partial to furting..one of my fav past times! :lol: :lol:

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 8th, 2010
3:00 pm

@Dreams
i ain’t touch’n that!

but to me it’s more refreshing to date a man with a daughter. prolly because i don’t have one. but to me *i’m gonna try to say this w/o it sounding funny* they are more in touch with their feminine side.

kimmie

April 8th, 2010
3:00 pm

Why am I guessing that this has something to do with grown women feeling the need to compete with little girls (daughters) for attention?

Ridiculous!

Tazzee - 36 days til Mrs.

April 8th, 2010
3:01 pm

Afternoon folks!

Headed to Destin tomorrow – yeah baby!!!

umm, had some other comments but I forgot them…

Carlito

April 8th, 2010
3:01 pm

Raqi, great choice. I have yet to watch Porn on the big one. We may tonight :) I love the Panasonics :)

PrincessNik..Grinning & Glowing

April 8th, 2010
3:02 pm

Beautiful

How many men with daughters have you dated? Cause that honestly hasn’t been my experience and i’ve dated 3.

Melo

April 8th, 2010
3:04 pm

so don’t try to put it on the woman

mytw♥cents?

i aint even doing that. Most guys want it raw..but all im saying is when he says,’here,look, johnnny is primed and ready to go!’…most females will say,’bring it on’,without blinking,and pants down!

I think it has to do with the fast and frequent breathing and its effects on the suppression of the brain cells,momentarily,to stop/prevent deep thinking! :lol: :lol:

kimmie

April 8th, 2010
3:04 pm

Beautiful – I do have to say they are a little more sensitive to women, the men I’ve known with daughters.

Dreams – As far as a grown woman competing with a man’s daughter, that is a sick concept, but I don’t doubt it happens with a sick few.

SexyCool - CountryGirl

April 8th, 2010
3:04 pm

Taz – One word – Balcony.
;-)

Luvbug

April 8th, 2010
3:04 pm

Dreams – LOL. Yep, I usually keep a healthy and sweet cereal, but that was the only one left last night. I’m not sure what I’m making tonight, but I know it won’t be cereal.