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It’s not working

I can imagine that the “friends with benefits” (FWB) arrangement has found its way into most of our lives.  Whether or we planned it or not, FWB doesn’t really have a long shelf-life.  I’m starting to think that this is probably for the best.

I wonder when is it a good idea to pull the plug on it though? When it stops working for you, what do you do? Are you stuck (ew, no pun intended) with them or do you think it’s legal to cut things off and back off?

I’ve heard some of my married friends say, “Girl, if I were single, I would be having a great time with that arrangement!”.  Yes well, I have a wonderful time being single, but getting an ideal friends with benefits arrangement started is about as complicated as getting a good relationship off the ground.

You have to find the right person who is trustworthy and drama-free. Then it helps if they are really hot and attracted to you too.  If I actually manage to locate this person, I’m not suggesting FWB status.  I’m looking at him in disbelief and wondering what I can cook him to impress him! Is it just me? Are there people you meet that actually make a good candidate for no strings attached hook ups?

If you get the Friends with benefits arrangement in place, when do you decide it’s a wrap? Would it take something drastic? Do you just outgrow the situation?

473 comments Add your comment

Elliot Garcia

April 7th, 2010
8:25 am

Why end a good thing?

a$$play

April 7th, 2010
8:26 am

Well that is an easy answer…. after she gets pregnant! DUH!

wrap it if you tap it

April 7th, 2010
8:29 am

you dont want her getting pregnant. then you’re stuck w/her forever. best use protection, you dont know where shes been.

j-mike

April 7th, 2010
8:35 am

FWB has its moments. As long as both people are cool with it and don’t add drama to the mix. sometimes, people just need that release, ya know??

barneyb

April 7th, 2010
8:42 am

This whole concept is disgusting……….

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
8:45 am

FWB, F-Buddy. I can give you my sex but I can’t give you my heart. Hate to get off topic so early, but why put yourself in that position to be a FWB in the first place, if you can deal with the benefits you should be able to deal with the relationship our be able to exercise some self discipline. And folks wonder why the STD rates are at 48% with women, 52% with men in between the ages of 14 and 49. Better to masturbate and be safe than having a temporary fix.

IDK...part 2

April 7th, 2010
8:48 am

Barney im with you. Although (unfortunately) I have been in a FWB situation…but it’s quite disgusting if you ponder it 4 a moment. If yall are FWB…whom else are yall FWB with? it is very unsafe health wise, bc if yall are just FWB..how well do you really know that person? quite well in between the sheets…but in most cases thats it.

eww. GOOD WEDNESDAY to you all!

Ga Dawg

April 7th, 2010
8:48 am

What a disgusting topic to read this morning! The answers are even worse. Why would this “arrangement” not be discussed for what it is: people who are weak, selfish and shallow might like this. People who have no belief inside themselves that they are special enough to wait for the right person. So, later down the road, why would a potential forever partner find anything remotely attractive about you? You’d have to be a real loser and nothing underneath of merit to go for this mentality.

Morrus

April 7th, 2010
8:49 am

Vote out the incumbents and start over

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
8:51 am

I have been a strong supporter of FWB for many years ( even before it had a name:>)….There are two keys to a great FWB arraingment: First don’t exercise the benefits clause to often. Focus on the friendship and not the bennies. Second, never sleep over after sex. When i have with my FWB and there is no sex we sleep over all of the time, But when we do the deed, the visitor always goes home!! Slleping over after sex is to much like a relationship and thats where things get complicated…

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
8:54 am

And my fingers are moving faster than my eye!!! ( sorry about the grammer, Its early!!! ;)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
8:54 am

So sleeping over is to much like a relationship, but having sex is NOT like a relationship? Interesting, to say the least.

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
8:57 am

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
8:54 am

To be sure, this is not for everyone, just as there are some that have no interest in being married. If a FWB situation is not for you then great, find your soul mate and live happily ever after..But for some this is a choice that fits thier ( our) lifesyles….

A. Nusman

April 7th, 2010
9:00 am

It ended when her husband caught us at their mountain cabin. I’m on probation for beating him because he just had to fight me.

a$$play

April 7th, 2010
9:08 am

I wish it was acceptable to have FWB while you are married. MY wife doesn’t seem to understand the close frienship I have with my coworker. Yeah so we slept together and had an affair… So now I have “Elin” going through my phone and work email… One day I will get the 9 iron across the face.

CMS

April 7th, 2010
9:09 am

Can’t beat FWB! But if you’re contemplating what you can cook to impress him that just shows your heart is in the right place:)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:11 am

All in the eyes, I am just sharing my view. I know it is different strokes for different folks. Question, how do you break it of with the FWB if you find someone that you really like?

IDK...part 2

April 7th, 2010
9:13 am

a$$hole..i mean play…why did you have an affair? glad your expecting a 9 iron…hopefully you’ll get it! expecting = want right?

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
9:18 am

Good morning everybody.
This is a topic I know plenty about and it was always an easy concept for me. Things have changed and I choose not to be so plentiful with my women as before. Maybe that is why I understand Tiger so much, minus the millions of course, but my buddy Carlito’s point is probably more of why I have made such a change. You just don’t know what is out there these days and I am not so willing to find out.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
9:20 am

Question, how do you break it of with the FWB if you find someone that you really like?

lito in the beginning of said FWB situation there needs to be a discussion about expectations and boundaries. If/when one of the “friends” meets someone else and likes them and chooses to pursue it then out of respect, the other person deserves to know.

A FWB situation is definitely NOT for errbody.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
9:21 am

a$$hole..i mean play…

:lol: :lol:

Y’all startin’ early…good

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:29 am

Dig That, What’s up. :) It’s a dangerous game out there.

Sassy, i can see it working with boundaries, maybe. Do you keep it a secret with the new person though when they ask? Even though you are ending it or what if the new person is not as good in bed as the FWB?

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
9:29 am

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:11 am

I agree with Sassy… keep your “Friend” in the loop and don’t be afraid to just say whats going on if there is a long term situation developing. If the friendship portion is strong then you are good…If some drama starts to develope, then end the whole thing.

i'm swiss

April 7th, 2010
9:30 am

Seems to me like FWB is an even trickier balance than an actual relationship. I mean, you’ve got to find someone who:

1) You like — but not too much, otherwise you might catch feelings

2) You find attractive — but not too attractive, or else you might get mesmerized by her beauty

3) Is good in bed — but not too good, or else you might get mesmerized by that booty

Oh, and by the way, she has to have that exact same delicate balance of feelings toward you, otherwise it doesn’t work.

I think about the only way it could work for me would be if it were some sort of long-distance FWB situation, where we don’t see each other that often & just get our groove on when we do…

2CPTG - Mr. homie, LOVER, friend

April 7th, 2010
9:32 am

sup y’all…..somebody said shallow thinking? Well, for a society that ain’t gettin married, and alot of children being born out of wedlock, it’s shallow to think these types of situations don’t exist! Somma y’all wanna-be politically correct saps need to get your heads outta the sand; If you are friends with someone, and on occasion you happen to derive an extra benefit, look at it for what it is….no need to trip when he/she finds someone they actually wanna settle down with. Hell, y’all were just friends anyway.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
9:33 am

@Sassy- Absolutely it requires a discussion and understanding. Even though women tend to forget that discussion fairly quickly and I wind up telling them to get a man because I probably won’t be him. And I used to wish that I was in a better place because these were good women that would make any men adore them. As fate would have it though the one they fall in love with is the one that they couldn’t have the way the way they wanted. Always friends though.

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
9:34 am

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:29 am

If the new person should inquire, then tell them you are friends. As for keeping it a secret, I currently have two FWBs, and I / we choose not to discuss anything other than our friendship with anyone. Our Benefits arraingment is just between us…..

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
9:34 am

a$$play

April 7th, 2010
9:36 am

NO excuses here.. I am weak. Look What Tiger gave up and Jesse. Hello… I believe that humans are not monogamous beings by nature. And what is absolutely crazy??? I get it ALL the time from my wife and she is beautiful and selfless… I just get bored.

Question: If you worked at Baskin Robbins and you favorite ice cream was say… Chocolate mint… wouldn’t you fancy maybe another flavor or would you eat the same for breakfast, lunch and dinner for the next say ohhhh….8 years?

Think about it…

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:39 am

Seems like the best way for a FWB to work is if you are married, then that person will always know their role.

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
9:40 am

i’m swiss

April 7th, 2010
9:30 am

I think you are overthinking this….All it takes is a friend… There is something about every female friend that I have that is attractive enough for me to want to be friends with them. There are some that I find physically stunning, others that challenge me mentally, and still others that are just easy and fun to be around. The Key is being able to enjoy them for who they are…..The bennies are just that….

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
9:41 am

Do you keep it a secret with the new person though when they ask?
Some do and some don’t but I still think it’s only fair to let a new person you’re dating(and contemplating becoming serious with) that you’re seeing someone else….regardless of “how” you’re seeing them. Please keep in mind that not all FWB situations are the same….some
only and ONLY involve the midnight booty call and others could be like the boy/girlfriend experience…meaning there could be dates,movies,dinner and great sex. As I’ve said it’s not for everbody.

Even though you are ending it or what if the new person is not as good in bed as the FWB?

Then as an adult YOU have to make a decision…sex is an important part of a healthy relationship but does not comprise the whole thing. Do you care enough about the new person to help them get their sex game up i.e. be the teacher to their student or are you gonna bolt out of the door? And if you did bolt then how much did you care about the new person to begin with?….and how selfish then does that make YOU. It’s all about choices…to each his/her own.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:41 am

All fine and dandy until you find out your wife or husband/SO has a friend with benefits as well. LOL

i'm swiss

April 7th, 2010
9:41 am

“Question: If you worked at Baskin Robbins and you favorite ice cream was say… Chocolate mint… wouldn’t you fancy maybe another flavor or would you eat the same for breakfast, lunch and dinner for the next say ohhhh….8 years?”

The difference is that chocolate mint ice cream is an inanimate object, not a human being, who you supposedly love and to whom you have made a vow. If you really are incapable of controlling your desires & you know this about yourself, then you shouldn’t have lied & said “I do.” JMHO

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
9:43 am

FWB, ahh been there done that, sometimes it works the way you want sometimes it doesnt. I agree with Swiss on the characteristics he listed :lol:

Question, how do you break it of with the FWB if you find someone that you really like?

For me it was easy, i just told the dude i had met someone else, FWB wasn’t tripping because he wasnt interested in a relationship, this i knew from day one, so instead of me trying to change the rules in the middle of the game i took that for what it was and didnt’ turn away from someone who was offering me what i was looking for at the time.

CMS

April 7th, 2010
9:44 am

OK dude I don’t know you from Adam…but I gotta question your handle a$$play…for real its a$$play? A$$play?! Its your bussiness, but assplay first thing in the morning?

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:44 am

Hey I am not knocking it, it is just not for me. I just am of the mindset that if you spread yourself thin how do you get good with whats important. But some people are great multi-taskers. :)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:45 am

I’m Swiss, FTW!!

i'm swiss

April 7th, 2010
9:47 am

Carlito — FTW? Sorry, but I don’t know that one? Stands for…?

Jerilu

April 7th, 2010
9:48 am

a$$play: what’s the point of getting married if you dont’ want to be monogamous? Or is your wife okay with it?

FWB works best if you live in different cities and just get together every so often. Keeps it more interesting, and less likely one friend wants it to turn into something else. It’s not that complicated, really. PLUS, when one friend finds somebody special, it dies out… at least until both are unattached again.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:48 am

What is the difference between a jumpoff and a FWB. And why do people call those who just want sex a “farm tool” when in reality they just want multiple FWB’s?

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:49 am

FTW, For The Win :)

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
9:50 am

<—Great Muti-tasker

i'm swiss

April 7th, 2010
9:51 am

Carlito — Ah, gotcha… Thanks.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
9:51 am

What is the difference between a jumpoff and a FWB

A jump off is somebody you probably don’t even hold a real conversation with outside of the bedroom or getting them to the bedroom.

FWB is someone you can actually hold a conversation with and possibly spend time with as well as screw when necessary.

i'm swiss

April 7th, 2010
9:52 am

Alright kids, I’m off to conduct a day-long training session… Hate to miss the fun; seems like it’s going to be a fun day…

abc

April 7th, 2010
9:53 am

FWB == sex without emotional interest == sluts on both sides. Get your sheott together, please.

A chick that plays FWB would never be a romantic interest of mine. I’m not interested in sluts. Of course, a chick would never admit to it after the fact.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
9:53 am

@Princess- Wassup baby

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
9:53 am

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:48 am

By definition, My FWBs are actually my friends…I won’t have a Jumpoff as I can’t be sexual with someone that I am not cool with.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
9:54 am

Hey Dig! It’s Wednesday Boo a downhill slide to the weekend

C3 Gary from canton

April 7th, 2010
9:54 am

I am a Pastor and I have many FWB that are part of my church. All is well till the rest of the church finds out and then the party is over. Time to start a new church.

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
9:55 am

abc

April 7th, 2010
9:53 am

WOW!!!! Pretty damn judgemental this morning aren’t we????

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:56 am

Once again, I am just being inquisitive at this point. But do you date for awhile before you start to have sex with a FWB. Or do you just lay it all on first contact?

IDK..part 2

April 7th, 2010
9:58 am

A$$- no analogies here buddy, as u said, we’re humans, not a damn flavor of ice cream or breakfast food. thankfully you know your weak but weakness is not an excuse, neither is being bored. why not be real and tell your wife what you have done and how you feel? maybe she’ll realize her selflessness and beauty can be truly appreciated and valued elsewhere and leave you. then see how many FWB you’d have. its very bothering how many women only want a man when is he unavailable.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:58 am

Are normal people typing under different names today?

Or is an FWB someone you were interested in genuinely, then it turned into a FWB situation and then limit was set?

kimmie

April 7th, 2010
9:59 am

Dig, I think we all at one point may have been in this type of situation, if only temporarily, we just didn’t put a title on it. With that being said, it just was not for me then & would never be for me now. Seems like a lonely situation.

I’ll come back when the topic changes & the trolls leave.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
9:59 am

All on the Eyes – Quit dating your ish.. The Blog does it for you..

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:59 am

A$$, would you be mad if your wife were doing the same thing?

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
9:59 am

FWB wasn’t tripping because he wasnt interested in a relationship,

DITTO. See when I was in college I didn’t have the time for a relationship and for a while after I just didn’t want one…so I had FWB and it worked out fine. Wise Dive had a post one day about the “boy/girlfriend experience” and that’s what I got. If I wanted to go out to dinner and a movie or whatever it was that’s what I got…no strings attached…we knew what the other wanted(and didn’t want) and ran with it like that. I always made it a point to stay in my lane and he in his.

All in the eyes!!!

April 7th, 2010
9:59 am

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
9:56 am

You start as friends….thing evolve along those lines. At some point you have the conversation and there you have it….

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
10:00 am

My bad that should’ve been DIVA :oops:

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
10:00 am

But do you date for awhile before you start to have sex with a FWB

C-Lo
usually its someone already in your circle, not necessarily someone you have dated, but that could happen too. you don’t typically set out to find a FWB it kinda happens.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:01 am

Just say the persons name and reply.. Youre killing me..

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
10:01 am

Are normal people typing under different names today?

I think so….some still read the same regardless of the moniker.

M. (pronouced M dot)

April 7th, 2010
10:02 am

Good day.

Its funny how the regulars are using new and fake names to express how they really feel lol.

“If you get the Friends with benefits arrangement in place, when do you decide it’s a wrap? Would it take something drastic? Do you just outgrow the situation?”

Guys never really can win with a FWB situation because no matter how cool she APPEARS to be with it; It will only be temporary and three things will happen that will throw everything off track:

1. She WILL catch feelings. Some women have the disposition that if men can do it women can do it to…Sometimes, we just cant do the same things.

2. She WILL want more of your time and GF things. She will want to hang out and do stuff with you outside of your place or hers, and outside of the 10pm-3am timeframe.

3. She WILL eventually want more and if you dont, she will find someone who wants more with her. Thats when the situation will end for a guy. A guy will only cut a FWB if she is crazy, displaying to much emotion, or demanding to much from him.

Tip for the ladies: If we are FWB; lets keep it that way. What guys dont respect is when you try to make it more than it really is.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
10:03 am

Fair enough.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
10:03 am

Harpo, who these here people??

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
10:05 am

If I were out there, I would rather have just different woman rather than the same FWB over and over. Since I am single, I would enjoy switching it up.

IDK..part 2

April 7th, 2010
10:06 am

why yall “regulars” act like you own this blog or something? you do realize it is on the ajc…front page. whomever wants to chime in certainly can. be nice…welcome new fonts. wow @ some of yall…

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:07 am

Look now here goes.. If you grown you can do what ya like.. If thats what you want to do then do it.. If it gets all complicated then you cant do it.. Friends with Benefits is just that.. The companionship without the relationship drama.. Me I dont want to get married again.. I would love to have a lifetime relationship with someone that is beautiful than a boring marriage. In essence like Sheryl Crow said “If it makes you happy, then it cant be that bad” but then agian there is more to that song just like there is more to life than just being friends with benefits..

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
10:08 am

It will only be temporary

@M. isn’t that the point?

The whole “how do you end a fwb” issue, goes back to communication. Ya’ll need to have a talke before diving into this situation. Me personally I can check my emotions about FWB, sometimes yea the urge for more may have come but i knew what i signed up for cause we discussed it. You gotta go into it eyes wide open. And never go into it thinking you have the power to change the other persons mind about how far it will go.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
10:09 am

Wise Dive is good name, fitting in nicely with the topic today!

:lol: :lol:

FWB…..??

U dont even have to be friends to get ur groove on.

But being friendly helps,at least she will want to cuddle after u get ur pump dry! :lol: :lol:

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
10:09 am

Harpo, who these here people??

LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:11 am

IDK – You know me and you got beef cause you on here swagger jackin my name… ;-)

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
10:11 am

Luvbug

I couldn’t resist LOL.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
10:13 am

I would rather have just different woman rather than the same FWB over and over.

That’s what rotations are for.

M.dot I’ve had several FWB situations where we did things together and all was well…also had situations where we only talked when we had a “meeting” planned and after a while theywere the ones that wanted to make it last forever..not me. Please don’t think you guys can’t get caught up cause it happens more than you probably want to admit…and it’s okay boo boo ;)

anonymousella

April 7th, 2010
10:14 am

duh: you pull the plug when you realize that you want more that what the FWB is offering. FWBs are downright amazing between relationships when you want physical intimacy, but not emotional intimacy. my return FWB was awesome post-breakup. our first go ’round, he used me because he wasn’t happy in his life situation. second go ’round, i used him and he knew it.

i think the problem is that most FWB arrangements start off as attempts at relationships. one person’s expectations are off from jump. the key is to be honest and *detached.*

abc

April 7th, 2010
10:14 am

Now, yall come in talking about jumpoffs and FWB, and when I call slut you claim I’m judgmental? That’s ridiculous. Surely, you recognize the behavior of a slut, male or female, no? If not, then it’s no wonder that the blog is full of descriptions of disappointment in love and relationships. Talk about clueless.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
10:15 am

You gotta go into it eyes wide open. And never go into it thinking you have the power to change the other persons mind about how far it will go.

Sho’ll cain’t so ride the waaave.

abc

April 7th, 2010
10:16 am

I’ll try this again, the last was apparently quarantined.

If you don’t recognize jumpoffs and FWB as the behavior of a sa-lutt, male or female, then it’s no wonder that there are so many descriptions of disappointment in love and relationships in here. Talk about clueless!

Tired of BS

April 7th, 2010
10:17 am

Not no but HELL NO! You nasty men carry your nasty ass disease to some other skank. Any woman who participates in this type of relationship, don’t complain when you get his nasty ass funk.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
10:17 am

abc you going hard today

lurker

April 7th, 2010
10:18 am

I can imagine that the “friends with benefits” (FWB) arrangement has found its way into most of our lives. Whether or we planned it or not, FWB doesn’t really have a long shelf-life. I’m starting to think that this is probably for the best.

Not everybody. Not snotty, don’t judge others that engage (in this type set-up) but this is something that doesn’t work for me. I cannot seem to wrap my mind around engaging and doing what I believe should be naturally done within the confines of a relationship. To me, and I know it’s my rearing, it’s getting something for nothing. I know for two people to engage in the physical act of sex brings both parties enjoyment but somebody’s gonna get duped. Men seem to and will always be in the position in these type situations of getting in, getting it, getting out and on with their lives while women get in, get it catch feelings and what then? While it seem like FWB is an arrangement almost inevitable (according to the Diva’s post) for most, I don’t buy it.

K

April 7th, 2010
10:20 am

Why is this even a topic in the news paper?

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:21 am

Whoa this is a polarizing topic today.. People are screaming already at 10 in the morning.. Good ole Prude versus Wh0re conversation.. Good versus evil. Black versus White.. Skywalker vs Vader… Batman vs The Joker.. All I have to say is this… Why so serious???

IDK..part 2

April 7th, 2010
10:22 am

@ Infamous – all hail the King! you have it, i got part 2 ;-) beef…its whats for dinner…not what we got, we got a luv thang! (whether u like it or not!) haha :-)

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
10:22 am

heaven’s missin some angels….

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
10:23 am

DK

i was wondering the same thing!

kick off wet wednesday i’m sure it’ll thin out ;)

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:24 am

IDK – Youre right..

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
10:27 am

@kimmie- I feel you mama. This actually was my life. Eventually we all grow up and I know how I am and I started to develop a different mind-set and a lot of women began telling me that I made it hard for them to begin a real relationship because they start comparing these potentials to me and it wasn’t a comparison. Even tho we were still friends I had to start backing out because that was never my intention, and when emotions takes us past our arrangement then I had to do the responsible thing and disappear somewhat or tone down. But like lurker said when they catch feelings then its a whole different ball game.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:29 am

IDK – You are a girl right.. Cause I cant have a love thang with no dude.. I mean if thats youre thing and all but me… I likes the SC… The SUper Coochie

Casanova

April 7th, 2010
10:32 am

The girl must be waxed correctly. I don’t like un-shaven snatch.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
10:33 am

and when emotions takes us past our arrangement then I had to do the responsible thing and disappear somewhat or tone down.

Yeah that takes the fun out of it….for me anyway. Back then I enjoyed my freedom waaay too much to be tied down….and frankly just didn’t want to.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
10:34 am

The SUper Coochie

A.K.A that THAYOW ;)

Casanova

April 7th, 2010
10:35 am

Sassy I bet you are a black girl.

IDK..part 2

April 7th, 2010
10:36 am

@ Infamous, LOL!!! funny! yes, I am a Lady..all day, everyday! SO blessed us Women we are. :-) I would comment about the SC but I am a Lady so I’ll refrain…

Hank Johnson

April 7th, 2010
10:37 am

I’m really more concerned about Guam tipping over and/or capsizing than I am about ‘friends with benefits.’ I am also really concerned with people in Miami – if too many jump at the same time down there, Miami could turn into a diving board and send all the people into the Atlantic. Thanks again to all the wonderful people of Dekalb who voted me into office!!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
10:40 am

I read it is going to rain tomorrow.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
10:42 am

Hmmm this is not my thing and I have never tried it. Everything is not for everybody I guess I am more conservative with my mind, body and soul.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
10:42 am

@Sassy- I was so allergic to being tied down that if a woman even asked where I have been I would mean mug like I know you wasn’t in my bizness. LMAO!!!

lurker

April 7th, 2010
10:43 am

I agree with ABC. Slut = FWB

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:44 am

Part Deux – OK Then.. I guess we do have a love thang.. Umm yes please elaborate on that SC..

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
10:44 am

All I have to say is this… Why so serious???

@DK- Especially since we just talking gettin some and the title it comes with.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:46 am

I guess I like exchanging Phuck Faces..

lurker

April 7th, 2010
10:48 am

Hank Johnson – glad your concerns lie on more viable issues. If it make as much sense to you as it does me, talking about Guam or Miami on a dating blog makes you stupid if you’re point is there are greater concerns in the world. Your concerns are probably valid but this ain’t the forum nor platform.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:54 am

I know you seen me on the video (true)
I know you heard me on the radio (true)
But you still don’t pay me no attention
Listenin to what your girlfriends mention
He’s a slut, he’s a h0e, he’s a freak
Got a different girl every day of the week
It’s cool, not tryin to put a rush on you
I had to let you know that I got a crush on you

Johnny

April 7th, 2010
10:54 am

I’m Swedish

Tired of BS

April 7th, 2010
10:55 am

Ladies….. CLOSE YOUR LEGS. If you want a quality man, you have to be a quality woman. Make him work for you. I don’t mean a few dates in either, I mean months into a relationship. If you want to be treated like a queen, then damn girl, act like you deserve the crown.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
10:57 am

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
10:59 am

Tired – Close their legs.. As if thats gonna happen.. This is the A where its Good and Plenty. Where the competitionn is fierce especially for the dudes at the top of the food chain.. Im just saying.. As long as these chicks value money over love.. Please they’ll never close their legs and will do more than just open their legs to get that “Security” theyre looking for..

IDK..part 2

April 7th, 2010
11:00 am

@ My Luv Thang…I gots it! (let me hurry and submit before I delete this part too)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:00 am

If you want to get in between legs it is very easy in this city.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:01 am

“I guess I like exchanging Phuck Faces”

Exactly

Kym-Homeowner!!!

April 7th, 2010
11:02 am

Morning All,

Hmmm been here done this..it can be a challenge. I think the young trolls are out this morn..aww spring break got to love it!!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:02 am

Mine dresses up for me in wigs and different things. Looks like a different woman but the same great feeling. :)

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:03 am

@Tired
I guess its easy for you to open your legs for the guy that says I want to be in a relationship with you and y’all break up and you do the same thing in your “new” relationship and y’all break up. Lol You still been giving it up and led nowhere.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:04 am

@Carlito- Man I love me some role playing. That’s hot homie

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
11:06 am

I like role playing also.. Just with different women..

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:06 am

Dig That, I love it also. I never know who I will come home to. :)

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:06 am

Carlito I hope if rains tomorrow my cars are yellow from all of this pollen.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:06 am

Infamous, you owe me a keyboard. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
11:07 am

Instead of them dressing up to look like other women I just like to skip that part and let it be a different woman..

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:08 am

Professor I park in the garage at home and in one of the racing teams garages at work. This pollen is everywhere. I am glad I do not have allergies. :)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:11 am

Infamous, LOL

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:11 am

Please don’t get it twisted I have seen several people that are unable to handle the FWB arrangement. Either they are hopeful that it will lead to more and/or disappointed when the benefits stop and they are sitting there with nothing. I guess it is great if you are the person with no cares or worries, but once that mess is over I have seen folks looking :shock: :cry: or just plain s.t.u.p.i.d.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:12 am

Carlito you lucky fellow you! I park outside at work and it is horrible here. Not to mention it is a little windy outside so that stuff is blowing everywhere. I wish I could just take a water hose and get some of it off my car.

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
11:13 am

These folks over here (work)…Gooooooood Googly Moogly…anyways…

I think it can work. I assume FWB means no emotional commitment, titles and plans for marriage, but dating and sex. I’ve done that. I have no regrets about it, but I guess that is b/c I’ve not subscribed to an orthodox religion…though I do believe in God.

Now, were I a follower of one of the main religions, I imagine I wouldn’t be having sex outside of marriage…no matter what I called it Boyfriend/Girlfriend, dating, engaged, FWB…

lurker

April 7th, 2010
11:14 am

Please don’t get it twisted I have seen several people that are unable to handle the FWB arrangement. Either they are hopeful that it will lead to more and/or disappointed when the benefits stop and they are sitting there with nothing. I guess it is great if you are the person with no cares or worries, but once that mess is over I have seen folks looking or just plain s.t.u.p.i.d.

Co-sign….which is why I hold to folks fooling themselves getting into this type of mess. I’m sure the masses will disagree but I have yet to see a woman hand out and freely give away the goods without hoping or wishing for more.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:15 am

Professor, my DD is a 4×4 so it is supposed to be dirty. Now my baby on the other hand will not come out until it dies down.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
11:19 am

I bet you are a black girl.

I’m a woman…haven’t been a girl in quite some time.

if a woman even asked where I have been I would mean mug like I know you wasn’t in my bizness.

Dig my FWB didn’t even much go there with that….I feel you,though.

Elijah

April 7th, 2010
11:20 am

Good morning folks!

Hello Sassy! :smile:

Hello Ms. Professor! :smile:

Wow, people are fired up this morning!

Passing out judgments and such! Each person has to find out what is good for them and not good for them. You need to know what the intentions are when you participate in a FWB situation. As many has stated communication with said individual on what the particulars are regarding the FWB will help the situation run the way you would like it ran!

Like Kimmie stated sometimes you are in a FWB situation due to different circumstances!

On a good note I won a March Madness pool! Now I am heading to the skripper club and I am going to rain at least $20 dollars at lunchtime!

a$$play

April 7th, 2010
11:24 am

WOW… we lit up this blog!!! To all above singling me out (I deserve it after the 31 flavors post)… My Wife does know about my “indescretions”. I have been married for 8 years (2nd Marriage, 1st was HS sweetheat lasted 10 years, she cheated too) I justify it like this… I have only had 4 one night stands and 1 affair in 8 years…That’s not too bad if you ask me.

My problem is I had lost respect for my Wife and even though that is not an excuse a big reason I had an affair. I was mentally checked out… after all these posts I guess I still am :)

FWB is a nice way of saying I have a slutty friend.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
11:25 am

Now I am heading to the skripper club and I am going to rain at least $20 dollars at lunchtime!

Ooooh do it up Eli!! How you doin? ;)

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:25 am

Hey Elijah! Where have you been? Before you spend all that money at the skripper club please bring my lemon pepper wings with blue cheese dressing.

Elijah

April 7th, 2010
11:26 am

Ms. Sassy is a full sexy intelligent full-grown woman, you need to ask someone!

The pollen is off the charts right now, I think I need to get out of town for a few days!

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
11:28 am

SUper Coochie??

Don’t know why, but that made me think of the Sham Wow commercial.

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
11:30 am

Every now and then,
You may not know just when,
You’ll find a love that’ll treat you right
Cuz I was so glad to say,
That one just came my way
It was on a very special night

Wednesday lover
(Wednesday lover, wednesday lover, there’s no other)

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:31 am

Luvbug you did it with Wednesday Lover!

Elijah

April 7th, 2010
11:32 am

Hey preaching Professor!

Working and winning and I am very tired! I will be taking a break soon l and I will deliver your lemon pepper wings with blue cheese dressing and whatever you like for dessert! :smile:

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:40 am

I bet you are a black girl.

Which idiot said that? Even tho Sassy chose not to I will give the finger for you

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
11:40 am

A$$play, what caused you to lose respect for your wife?

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:40 am

Luvbug- You just got me a lil crunk with that Wednesday lover. I need a drank now.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
11:41 am

Awww thank you Eli….you always got my back and that’s what’s up :)

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
11:43 am

Even tho Sassy chose not to I will give the finger for you

Thank you Dig…I was tryna be good but I’m glad you gave them the one finger salute.

Jerilu

April 7th, 2010
11:44 am

a$$play does your wife have indescretions too? does it bother you?

RelldaRake

April 7th, 2010
11:45 am

WOW the basketball wives….lol…its a show with some jilted jumpoffs that were promised the world….and shaunie pimpin there misery…looks good tho…lol…all i want to know what was D howard thinking with his baby mama….WOW

Jerilu

April 7th, 2010
11:46 am

and yeah this is a hella clicky blog. You all act lilke cant nobody you don’t “know” say anything. shheesssh

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:46 am

Well Elijah I did not want to be greedy, but if you don’t mind a slice of coconut cake would be good. :grin: Let me know when you are on the way.

Kym-Homeowner!!!

April 7th, 2010
11:47 am

Well son of a biscuit eater..Mr.A$$ if I didn’t know better I would swear you were this guy I know twin..he has the same philosophy..You not a scorpio are you? Ohhh can I guess why you lost respect for your wife? I am willing to bet it was because she didn’t challenge you. Not like keep it live and popping bed room wise I mean challenge you and call you out on your bs. A little itchy itichy this chick is a B***&&*ch does the male ego good every now and then.

RelldaRake

April 7th, 2010
11:47 am

OO eric williams = lucky..his wife is a 10…a 10….Shawty is a 10…..he look like dude from the education of sonny..the gang leader for the hawks…lol

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:48 am

a$$play does your wife have indescretions too? does it bother you?

I was going to ask the same thing, and if she does how do you feel about going behind another man when she is your wife

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
11:48 am

I guess you’ve heard of my reputation,
I’ve had my share of foolin’ around.
But everybody needs stimulation,
and mine just happens to be all over town.
It’s an easy-money occupation,
a first-class psychiatry.

Kym-Homeowner!!!

April 7th, 2010
11:49 am

Welcome all new bloggers, springbreakers, and trolls!!!

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:49 am

Guys a$$play may not have answers to those questions because from the excuses he has already given, he just needed a way to justify his lack of discipline and respect. Not judging the dude but all the other stuff is not necessary. You found some booty on the side and got all up in it.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
11:50 am

I guess you’ve heard of my reputation,
I’ve had my share of foolin’ around.
But everybody needs stimulation,
and mine just happens to be all over town.
It’s an easy-money occupation, a first-class psychiatry.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:51 am

@Jerilu- You are more than welcomed to blog my friend. There is no monopoly.

@Professor- How are you today?

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
11:52 am

I guess you’ve heard of my reputation, I’ve had my share of foolin’ around.
But everybody needs stimulation, and mine just happens to be all over town.

RelldaRake

April 7th, 2010
11:54 am

lol…a$$play…you are funny..my dude said not bad….lol…………..whats funny is dude is telling you the real…when i was married i got more “lunch” offers than i do now…lol….tell it dude

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
11:54 am

Hey Dig That I am doing well today, thanks for asking. How are you? You are right, Jerilu is welcome to the blog. BTW Jerilu if you have lurked and read me you already know I am not in a click or monopoly :wink:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
11:55 am

But everybody needs stimulation, and mine just happens to be all over town.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
11:55 am

It’s an easy-money occupation, a first-class psychiatry.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
11:56 am

Guess you heard of my reputation. Had my share of fooling around.

@Professor- I’m good. Taking a lil vacation next week and will hidden in the mountains for a bout a week and I can’t wait.

RelldaRake

April 7th, 2010
11:57 am

ladies….some men dont care if another man goes behind him…..the current man may know he married a sl ut and is more upset about that….get over yourselfs and think a bit more….not all women who are wifes are good ones and not all men are good husbands….stop thinking what you would do in that situation BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW..marriage is a different set of emotions…some of you armchair quarterbacks have NO CONCEPT of what it takes…

a$$play

April 7th, 2010
11:58 am

No sping breaker or Troll … @ work and have a real nice job. Just being honest. I can identilfy w/ Tiger and Jesse cause I am just as big a dumbass! If you read from before… My Wife puts out like were still on our honeymoon. I lost respect cause she just gave up on everything…house, self… I tried for 2 years to get her to turn the corner. Just wanted to move on. As for the “wht if she did the same stuff?” I think I have become immune to it and would only be pissed cause I might have my face in it … after some dude. That is the only reason it would bother me.

I am just being honest here… I do deserve to be the whipping boy today.

Let’s put it this way… In counseling I told my Dr. “I am an alcoholic who knows the drink will kill him. Knows that he must put down the drink…. but on the other hand CHOOSES not to.

a$$play

April 7th, 2010
11:58 am

Gotta go to lunch…be gentle. BTW blog isn’t about me.

RelldaRake

April 7th, 2010
12:02 pm

I lost respect cause she just gave up on everything…house, self… I tried for 2 years to get her to turn the corner.

–i wonder how many women will say i would never do that…really..now think about the million “i am going to lose a few LBS after the new year/summer/etc etc etc” talk….

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
12:05 pm

APlay – Dude looks like you need a therapist and a personal trainer… Your problems are minor.. A therapist to work on you and a trainer to work on her.. Cause what you bout to throw away for whats in the streets aint worth it..

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
12:09 pm

BTW blog isn’t about me

Huh?

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
12:14 pm

I do not view the blog as clicky, everyone is nice. Except for one :)

I don’t agree that any sort of b*tchy is good for the male ego. I am just a man though, so what do I know. LOL

Kym-Homeowner!!!

April 7th, 2010
12:17 pm

@DK doesnt sound like he is trying to toss old girl away more like he is looking for a A team, B team, and some rookies to train. And if wife knows sounds like she has the wrong end of the stick if she thinks by giving up the booty anytime he wants it will keep him in the house. Mr APlay is missing something else from wifey other than booty. IMO

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
12:19 pm

Kym-Homeowner!!!

April 7th, 2010
12:21 pm

Carlito I didnt say any sort..just everynow and then a woman needs to go off..no man I don’t care what he says likes a doormat or a yes girl..that gets old real quick.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
12:21 pm

Mr APlay is missing something else from wifey other than booty.

Sounds like she has a high level of low self esteem….

lurker

April 7th, 2010
12:22 pm

I do not view the blog as clicky, everyone is nice.

Carlito, Carlito, Carlito

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
12:23 pm

FWB – Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt. (Shocker, right? LOL)

Oh well…as I learn better, I make better decisions and have a better life.

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 7th, 2010
12:23 pm

just everynow and then a woman needs to go off..

Uhh huh….have his azz sittin there like :shock:

wha had happened??

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
12:26 pm

just everynow and then a woman needs to go off

Kym – LOL

Just out of the blue or with reason?

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
12:34 pm

lurker, well except for the odd instance yesterday. I forgot about that.

An unexplained, b*tchy moment will have a woman sitting in alone for a moment. Just give her the “you are crazy” look and walk away for a moment. Excellent time to practice the golf swing or work on the car suspension.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
12:35 pm

@A–Play, how long did the affair last? Why all of the one night stands? I hope you wrap that pig in a blanket while you are out there grooving.

I am looking for Melo, Leggs, czBrat, Dream_n and ARed?

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
12:36 pm

I see it’s fire in here…that’s good though.

Carlito Here’s the link to the rot breeder’s website. He breeds show dogs. You can view pedigree, certificates, immunizations and everything online. Not sure if you’re interested, but his wife breeds boxers.

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
12:40 pm

I was shocked, confused, bewildered
As I entered Heaven’s door,
Not by the beauty of it all,
Nor the lights or its decor.
But it was the folks in Heaven
Who made me sputter and gasp–
The thieves, the liars, the sinners,
The alcoholics and the trash.
There stood the kid from seventh grade
Who swiped my lunch money twice.
Next to him was my old neighbor
Who never said anything nice.
Herb, who I always thought
Was rotting away in hell,
Was sitting pretty on cloud nine,
Looking incredibly well..
I nudged Jesus, ‘What’s the deal?
I would love to hear Your take.
How’d all these sinners get up here?
God must’ve made a mistake.
‘And why is everyone so quiet,
So somber – give me a clue.’
‘Hush, child,’ He said, ‘they’re all in shock.
No one thought they’d be seeing you.’

JUDGE NOT!!
Remember…Just going to church doesn’t make you a
Christian any more than standing in your garage makes you a car.
Every saint has a PAST…Every sinner has a FUTURE!

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
12:42 pm

Afternoon all…who left the gate open? It’s like a troll party in here. :lol:

FWB…never could handle such an arrangement. I value myself too much. And I think about the “costs” instead of the benefits, so no thanks.

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
12:43 pm

Carlito
guess it would’ve been nice if I actually put the link in there huh

http://www.abraxusrotts.com/home.html

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
12:43 pm

Kym – Congrats to you!!! Homeownership is so satisfying!

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
12:48 pm

Now, were I a follower of one of the main religions, I imagine I wouldn’t be having sex outside of marriage…no matter what I called it Boyfriend/Girlfriend, dating, engaged, FWB…
Please show me one “follower” you know, directly or indirectly, who has done this. lol

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
12:48 pm

Dang, yall been fired up today….did you all forget it’s Spring Break, which tends to be the cause of all the trolls in here….Next year, I say we hire an exterminator. :lol: Anyhoo, why is the only gender being ostrisized in a FWB situation, the chick…is there not a man in that equation as well?

Had a FWB situation before some years ago and it worked out just fine…boy did we have some good chemistry. :mrgreen: But I’m a little older now and want a little more than just a warm body for an hour or two, or a weekend shut in….or…you get the drift

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
12:51 pm

Dreams, thank you for the link. :) I was highlighting your post looking for it. LOL

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
12:52 pm

Hola Profesora! what have i missed? did i see someone posting about multiple affairs and one-nighters? UGH! anywho … my heart goes out to all the allergy-sufferers. oh, and to that guy’s wife as well. :lol:

on topic …. did the FWB thing few years back and there was no lack of self-respect involved. just didn’t want to be ‘in a relatioship’ and we happened to have great chemistry. ultimately, he wanted to take it to another level but i still didn’t, so the benefits ended and we still remain friends.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
12:53 pm

No puppies available. :(

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
12:57 pm

Dreams – LOL. That was my point. I can name two though, but that’s next to nothing…when I consider all the people I come across who are dating and sexing people they have not planned to marry or who don’t plan to marry them…but somehow that’s not FWB.

That’s as funny to me as religious folks with 90 day sex rules. Either you believe in sex outside of marriage or you don’t…all that making titles and conditions to prove you’re a more pious wh0re than the next is a waist, if you subscribe to a right and wrong way (book) of life.

Bible Belt What?

lurker

April 7th, 2010
12:57 pm

Why are people so offended to state the obvious? If anyone (be it me, you, them, us, we, ya’ll) kill, steal, fornicate, lie, hate, backbite….WE become guilty!!! To say or state it is not judging. If I compare you to myself and all the good I do and none of the wrong I ever commit, that’s judging. If I kill someone and someone says to me killing is wrong…THEY ARE NOT JUDGING…it is what it is. WE HAVE ALL SINNED, COMMITTED SIN, OF A SINFUL NATURE and all better pray and stay before God or else you’ll find yourself back at it. Oh, and “just going to church” ain’t a bad thing…at least it’s a start. Just like you don’t want to be judged for not going to church, folks that go to church don’t want to be judged because they do.

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
12:59 pm

During the time I had my FWB, it was at a perfect time…after a break up. Had so much stress that I needed to get rid of over, and over, and over and over again. :lol: What’s that saying, something about the best way to get over one person is to get up under another…. :-D

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
1:00 pm

Slim we are ————> here <—————

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
1:01 pm

During the time I had my FWB, it was at a perfect time…after a break up.

I watched 16 and Pregnant last night. The girl broke up with her boyfriend and hooked up with a rebound guy. She got pregnant with twins by the hook up.

Ouch. :lol:

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
1:03 pm

Hey czBrat!

You have not missed anything, but a few trolls. I was thinking you and a few others were on vacation on something.

@Luvbug, I agree with your post, but you know a lot of folks are just spiritual, which means they don’t have to follow any rules

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
1:04 pm

as I learn better, I make better decisions and have a better life

and that’s whats up!

lurker

April 7th, 2010
1:04 pm

Dreams/Luvbug – we’ve have folks to come on here before and speak to abstaining. I for one am. You’re absolutely right. FWB, relationship, whatever…it’s all the same. It’s ain’t easy Lord knows it ain’t easy but currently my status is NO SEX. If it will make some folks feel better, I’ve fallen off a couple of times but I get back on it, especially with opportunites all around me but it’s a personal, spiritual choice. No matter to cobweb jokes and stuff. For me, it’s the right thing to do in my walk.

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
1:07 pm

Now, were I a follower of one of the main religions, I imagine I wouldn’t be having sex outside of marriage…no matter what I called it Boyfriend/Girlfriend, dating, engaged, FWB…

I am a follower. With this one I’ve tried. I’ve failed.

Fortunately, it’s easy when I’m not seeing someone. My needs just have to wait. :lol:

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:07 pm

Ared – I saw the preview for that show but I missed it though. I think they should make teens watch that show in school to see real life struggles with young moms…trying to balance the newfound responsibility with the pull of still wanting to be a kid.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
1:08 pm

…stepping out!

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
1:08 pm

@ARed i watched that last night also. She really thougth the ex was going to take her back with twins? How many 16/17 year old guys you know is going to do that? There are some grown men who wouldn’t enter into that situation.

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
1:10 pm

you know a lot of folks are just spiritual, which means they don’t have to follow any rules

Professor – LOL. I would probably fall under the spiritual category, although I would call it that and I don’t necessarily agree with or understand these rules. God knows that, so no need for me to pretend in front of humans…cuz they don’t decide nothing.

Willie Dynamite

April 7th, 2010
1:11 pm

Afternoon All,

Pretty live in here today. Yall pretty much got it covered. The Holier than thou crowd has spoken. The I respect my body too much crowd has spoken. The I dont see nuthin wrong crowd has spoken. The all yall are sluts and whores crowd has spoken.

Lets see, who’s left?

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
1:11 pm

*would not* call

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
1:11 pm

@Slim/Ared I hate I missed that one, because I meant to see it…I cannot manage twins as an adult so I wanted to see how the teen did with the babies and the drama involved.

I would probably faint if I had twins while being a single parent.

Willie Dynamite

April 7th, 2010
1:16 pm

Afternoon All,

(Thanks filter) guess I used the wrong word. Lets try this again.

Its pretty live in here today. Looks like yall have covered all the bases. The Holier than thou crowd has spoken. The I love my body too much crowd has spoken, The all yall are s l u t s and wh*res crowd has spoken. The I dont see nuthin wrong crowd has spoken.

Lets see, who’s left???

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
1:20 pm

That pretty much covered it Willie.

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
1:20 pm

lurker – I have no problem with people abstaining. Who am I to measure people? Whatever makes you happy. I don’t even have a problem with people falling off their own mark. Everybody does (especially me). However, I do think it is humorous when people think that naming something different makes it different…then proceed to harass people who fall outside of their made up conditions and definitions…whether the topic is sex or not.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
1:21 pm

Professor,

actually she handled the twins pretty well, it was “man drama” that had her going. And the father of the twins was actually trying to do the right thing.

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
1:22 pm

Hey Mr. Dynamite – you can count me in the *I-have-no-judgement-about-it* crowd. What grown folks do is *they* business.

You do what works for you and yours and I’ll do what works me and mine.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
1:27 pm

vacation? no such luck, Professor. although thing 1 and thing 2 are having a blast in orlando as we speak. wish i were there for the bacchus bash at the outlet this friday :(

LOL @ Willie

Willie Dynamite

April 7th, 2010
1:27 pm

Hot Dayum I’m Mr. Dynamite now. Does that mean I’m getting good or am I jus getting Old.

BTW- thats the crowd I’m in. Looks good from this side of the fence.

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:29 pm

SexyCool, I’m with you and Dynamite. It really isn’t my concern who anyone humps around with between hrs of 10-3a, after a movie, during a movie, with a meal, or just sippin on some SLISHTZ MAWLT LICKKA :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
1:33 pm

The father of those twins on the show was a SAINT! It was a one night hook up and he stepped up, go her an apt and stayed with her as they “got to know one another.” :? All the while she’s running after her ex…who is glad he dodged that bullet.

No wonder after he got dumped he didn’t want her back. He tasted freedom again. :lol:

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
1:34 pm

It sure brought some lurkers to the surface this morning tho

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:34 pm

Mr. Dynamite…I can’t help but hear the voice of JJ from Good Times…DYNOMIIIITTTEE!!!! :lol: You wouldn’t know how to paint would ya?

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:36 pm

DIg That It’s cooled off in here now from the morning trolls…it must be recess in some part of the world. lol

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:36 pm

Now I feel like it’s back to Old School Wednesday now.

Kym-Homeowner!!!

April 7th, 2010
1:38 pm

@Luvbug..I guess either way will work..with reason or just as a regulation/training/keep the joker on his toes

@AmazonR..yes it is!!! Tired from the move..but blessed to be in my own home.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
1:39 pm

seems like the banner ads on the side of my screen know i’m on a 7-day fast :evil:

Willie Dynamite

April 7th, 2010
1:42 pm

Slim – wrong Dynamite, naw I dont paint. Since we talking Good Times think less JJ and more Sweet Daddy. Haha haha

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
1:44 pm

I can’t wait until next week. I will be in the mountains and loving it. Maybe that is why time is passing by so slow. It knows I’m itching to GTFOH

RelldaRake

April 7th, 2010
1:45 pm

THE ROTTY SITE IS HOT

i miss mine…me and the dog were very close

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
1:45 pm

think less JJ and more Sweet Daddy

Good one bruh

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
1:46 pm

Random thought:

Why is that once you find someone that interests you, your ex(s) pop up claiming to be changed and ready to offer whatever your heart desires.

GTFOH!

Willie Dynamite

April 7th, 2010
1:47 pm

Dig – What mountains? Cabin style or what?

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:48 pm

Dig That Would you like to adopt me for that week also. You can use me as a tax write off…I shole need to GTFOH too.

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:50 pm

PrincessNik That’s because boys like their toys. You’re like that old toy that he use to play with a while ago until he gets something new & more exciting at the time…however, he doesn’t get interested into that old toy until someone else expresses interest in it. LOL!

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
1:53 pm

@ Slim

i’m so over it, til its not even a speck in my rearview mirror

Like Mariah and Nicki said

When i break, i break……up out my face boy

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
1:55 pm

Cabins and lakes and mountains and fishing and swimming and dranking, hot tubbin’ and butt naked with a fine mamacita chasing each other around talking shyt and whole bunch of things you virgins don’t know about yet. LMAO!!!
Yep Willie- complete isolation

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
1:55 pm

Not even a nail technician with a whole lot of gel and acrylic can fix this
when i break, i break
If we were 2 Lego blocks
Even the harvard university
Graduating Class of 2010
Couldn’t put us back together again
When I break boy
UP OUT MY FACE BOY

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
1:58 pm

PrincessNik But doesn’t it feel sorta good to be in that position?

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
2:01 pm

with reason or just as a regulation/training/keep the joker on his toes

Now that’s too funny

…sneaking up next to the bed at 4am wearing only a blinged out pink eye patch and panty bottoms banging a steal spoon against a pot…Wake up fool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who you dreamin bout????????

…I wouldn’t do such a thing.

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
2:02 pm

Carlito You might want to contact the breeder personally. My coworker got his pup about 3 weeks ago, and he said the breeder had just welped a litter. Could be he hasn’t updated the link yet, or maybe the pups go that quickly. Either way, I say call him, that’s what my coworker did.

If I kill someone and someone says to me killing is wrong…THEY ARE NOT JUDGING…it is what it is
Are they judging if they’re still out there killing?

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:02 pm

Slim, of course it does especially when the newbie says things like

” if he still has feelings for you that’s not my problem he messed up, one man’s loss is another mans gain and that main just happens to be me”

:oops:

right now i’m all about me (and lil mama :) )and my path to happiness

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 7th, 2010
2:03 pm

@PrincessNik….Tell oh boy to get in line! He missed his opportunity go cool-off in the Atlantic! yea

On Topic. Friends with Benefits has existed thru out the history of time! I have done it plenty of times. But once them MULTIPLES Ossss start happening they catch feelings and I catch a plane…..I am out!! YEAA… :smile:

@Slimone…..Have you recovered from too much froggie-styling this past weekend?

Know thyself grasshopper and be prepared to acquire what you desire!

@Hey what’s up Snoop number one detective AmazonRed?

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:05 pm

oops

main= man

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
2:07 pm

That’s because boys like their toys.
It’s really because we’re territorial. I might not have played with my GI Joes since I was eight, but don’t let that fool you into thinking that you can play with them. They’re mine, ALL mine. lol

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:08 pm

Dreams M, too funny

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:09 pm

Nik – Thats funny cause my EX said that right before I served her divorce papers.. One mans trash is another mans treasure. I told her yeah but its still one mans trash, so come on and sign these papers.. Just like you know what the next chick got when it comes to your ex, he knows what the next dude is getting when it comes to you..

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:12 pm

unfortunately i’ve outgrown the FWB. :( it used to be so much fun! no feelings involved, etc.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:14 pm

Why is that once you find someone that interests you, your ex(s) pop up claiming to be changed and ready to offer whatever your heart desires.

PrincessNik??/anyof u ladies???

SlimO said it well with regards to ur qstion…but

have u ever been in the opposite situ,where the new dude wont plumb it like the old dude,after all is said and done, and new dude seems to leave u with an unfulfilled quench that now,!!?? :evil: u pining for old dude’s efficient dyckk?? :lol: even tho new dude is a nice guy!!?? :lol:

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:15 pm

he knows what the next dude is getting when it comes to you..

@ DK yea he knows, that’s exactly why he wanna come back :)

He knows i make it do what it do, in the bedroom, the kitchen, or the boardroom.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:15 pm

I have an opening for a FWB, must provide own transportation, knee pads and spit.

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
2:15 pm

I just got a *grown man* text message from TheDude. OMG! Right at this moment, that dude can get anything I got!
LOL!

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:15 pm

unfortunately i’ve outgrown the FWB. it used to be so much fun! no feelings involved,

@Beutiful??

but Vegas was just 3/4 months away when u got beat by old school mate???…. when did u grow outa that?

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:16 pm

Sexy Cool, awesome.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:16 pm

pining for old dude’s efficient dyckk??

Melo,

dyckk don’t pay any bills last time i checked, i can work with you and teach you how to stroke the kitty just the way i like it, but i can’t teach you how to be man

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:17 pm

Another reason I dont ever go back begging a chick to get back with me… So her and her new dude can sit around and talk about it.. Wow!

Scratched her name out my telephone book and never again took a second look.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:18 pm

Different strokes for different folks. Get it?

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
2:19 pm

unfortunately i’ve outgrown the FWB. it used to be so much fun! no feelings involved, etc.

Angie – I can hardly believe you were actually able to do FWB at any time without catching feelings.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:19 pm

Kind of homo for a guy to talk with current girl about her and her ex.

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
2:19 pm

Lurker – “Have you recovered from too much froggie-styling this past weekend?”
Um…I think I missed something…how much froggy style did I have and was I at least half-way decent? lol

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
2:20 pm

@Princess- It might just be that he thought the other chick he was tricking wit had THAT FI. But he sees now that it wasn’t green grass over there, it was just an illusion. Let me see if Princess will take my stupid a$$ back.

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:21 pm

lol @ Amazon! i actually did. you would’ve been proud. lol.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:21 pm

dyckk don’t pay any bills last time i checked

PrincessNik..??

I know but u aint answering my simple qstion. D$$$$ bills dont get u efficiently strokked either…so just answer that one aspect of the tango even thos we know,it takes much more to get u satisfied!! :lol:

SexyCool??

if u were to be objective Shthd and NewDude dont plumb the same way or do they??…I bet Coach , I mean Shthead got that name for a good reason,Right??

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
2:21 pm

Oh, Carlito….I also got a text from my gf about the chicken marsala….

And I quote “The chicken marsala was a HIT!!!”

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:23 pm

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
2:24 pm

Naw, Melo, they don’t *plumb* the same way at all. TheDude is dabusiness. (I would walk around in the daytime with a flashlight, buttnaked in some blublockers, a belt and galoshes for THAT.)

CoachShthead was acceptably satisfying at best.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:24 pm

Carlito – Its just game and he’s trying to get in where he fits in.. “And I just happen to be that man”.. Boy it couldnt be me cause if he ever came at me sideways, like he’s with ol girl now and such and such.. Boy he would be HOT with me.. Cause I’ll straight up ask him how my dong taste and try this the next time you hit her she likes that.. Oh he would be super hot with me, but it only works if you aint out her pining about her crazy behind.. And whisper in his ear.. No matter what she told you, I can hit her whenever… Buddy.. Now gone and hook my radio up..

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:24 pm

has anyone defined FWB? it’s not the same as a booty call.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:27 pm

Infamous, I agree. If done right you can always go back, and there inlays the power. New dudes fear that. :)

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:27 pm

the daytime with a flashlight, buttnaked in some blublockers, a belt and galoshes for THAT.)

SexyCool??

I dont like the way u swag girl! :lol:

U make a grown man want to sign up for the waiting list! :lol: :lol: :lol:

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
2:28 pm

Beautiful – i think the key difference was the FRIENDS with benefits…as opposed to just someone you f!cked for a night or two. Booty call is synonomous with jump off…either way a whole lotta screwing it going on…and I’m not talking about a Phillips either. lol

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:30 pm

Melo,

shthd as you put it could have used some lessons in “plumbing”, i have a high libido and he wasn’t trying to keep up. as for NewDude we aint even there yet.

You need to go back and read what i said, this time read for understanding. At this point i need a dude that’s good in all aspects, not just at dyykking me down sheesh.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:30 pm

Then too.. Me personally when I saw Nik come into the shop I wouldve said hey Baby How you doing? Hit me later.. I know we aint talking and we aint doing nothing but the seed wouldve been planted.. Oh yeah I can gully with it. I wouldnt have acted like I didnt know her though.. I wouldve spoke like it wasnt nothing.. Like I had just talked to her yesterday.. Like we were FWBs.. Ha ha!! Like oh you here to see dude.. Oh my bad, we can talk later..

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:31 pm

someone you f!cked for a night or two

SlimCoo-Coo??

Angie dont like FWB coz it takes too much time also.

jump off is her mo!

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
2:31 pm

Carlito – your comment didn’t go unnoticed…..”transportation, knee pads and spit.” um….TMI lol

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:31 pm

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
2:33 pm

‘jump off is her mo!”

melo – you’re a bad bad boy. Now come and get this 3 lashings I have for you…drop em

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
2:34 pm

Oh..and I used to call him *Coach* because he coached the softball team we both used to play on.
That is all.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:36 pm

shthd as you put it could have used some lessons in “plumbing”,

PrincessNik..??

the post with Shthead reference was not for u..it was for School.

At this point i need a dude that’s good in all aspects

that statement there is partly why i ask.U dont dyck it the foirst time u see him.U romance,go out on dates etc to establish chemistry, i presume then leave the dyckking for a lil later, right. Now when u decide to do it and then do it some more,at some point u may realise,buddy aint hitting it right,after 3,4 times. This is where my qstion comes in,not be4!

Ever had a situ where u felt,eeegghhh,old man was better on this front than new guy??

(cmeon now PrincesNik,be truthful wit me now?) :lol: :lol:

Elijah

April 7th, 2010
2:36 pm

I fear no old dude getting back in when I start working it! One she is single,ready and willing to get trreated right. The mind can be retrained then the puddy will follow!

La Professor I got you! :smile:

Sassy you know I always have your back! :wink:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:36 pm

Sexy – The old dude always gets the bad review after its over.. But it wasnt so bad when you were bouncing up and down on it.. Prolly thought he had that OD… Outstandin Dyck!!

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
2:37 pm

you would’ve been proud. lol.

Angie – Not proud of that. No point in sex without feelings. Might as well be a prostitute. :lol:

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:37 pm

Kind of homo for a guy to talk with current girl about her and her ex.

Carlito, the conversation wasn’t all about the ex, you have to see my posts from yesterday to get the full story. But we were having a gettting to know you type conversation, any significant relationships? etc….and after i told him about dude and why we broke up he said what he said and we changed the conversation back to US. not the past. There was no dogging dude out etc….

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:38 pm

Slim, you want to be my FWB? I am on a horse……..

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:39 pm

Ever had a situ where u felt,eeegghhh,old man was better on this front than new guy??

@ melo, i’m not saying that has never happened. There are even situations where its not better, not worse just DIFFERNT.

What i’m sayin is the more mature i become the more i’m lookin for well rounded.

lurker

April 7th, 2010
2:39 pm

jump off is her mo!”

THAT’S judgemental

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:40 pm

Nik – Did you tell him what you did in the relationship to make it go south cause it wasnt all on your Ex..

I always ask that question to see if a chick can accept responsibility for their actions and be able to take that long hard look at themselves..

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:40 pm

PrincessNik, that was a general statement, not directly for you :)

AmazonRed, prostitutes get paid. So they are coming out better. LOL

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:41 pm

@ melo, i’m not saying that has never happened.

Is that called Negative Affirmation??

gelrz are funny, arent they??

Qstion answered PrincessNik! :lol: :lol: :lol:

(im sure u wd have a problem describing how it got down,ha?)

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
2:41 pm

Oh Infamous One – the sex with Shthead was always more about the emotion/bonding/connection of it all as opposed to his actual skill/size/creativity.

No, I didn’t complain about it when we were together, but trust, if there were going to be anything that I remembered fondly or even actually miss about our time together – the sex would be the last thing on the list.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:42 pm

Me personally when I saw Nik come into the shop I wouldve said hey Baby How you doing? Hit me later..

@ DK, see i was already in the shop in the back in the office, he only came to the shop because he saw my car, we have been broken up an entire year, be for real.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
2:42 pm

@DK- I did that bruh with my ex and boy it funny as hell. Flew to Texas to pick up my son and her and him was at the airport with the kid. She had been lying to dude like I wanted her. Dude asking me retarded shyt and me and my old lady laughing so loud people started staring. He damn sho didn’t want deal with me and I know he regretted opening his mouth so I used the phrase in reverse. I told him that one man’s trash is another man’s treasure so I’m going to take my son and fly home, you take my trash and y’all go home. They both mad as hell.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:43 pm

A phuck is a phuck, no matter how you rationalize it. But a phuck with feelings is something special.

Yes you may post that on your Twitter and Facebooks :)

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:43 pm

Infamous DK actually is was all my ex

i was blindsided, all of a sudden he comes to me and says i’m not ready for a “ready made family”. Dude you knew i was a package deal from day one……….

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:43 pm

i couldn’t have been a prostitute. i would’ve been horrible at it. LOL. i can’t take money from a man, cuz i have my own.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:44 pm

THAT’S judgemental

its alwayz judgemental!

Do u park ur brains smwehere outside ur head smtimes,rolling ahead in discussions, brainless?

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:44 pm

Sessy – Im just saying you werent complaining when you were riding his bologny pony back then so dont be throwing him under the bus now.. New Dude is knocking the stuffing outta that egg mcmuffin is enough.. He’s turning it every which a way but loose.. ;-)

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:44 pm

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
2:45 pm

The old dude always gets the bad review after its over..
Funny how that works.

No point in sex without feelings. Might as well be a prostitute.
Some might say dating is glorified prostitution.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
2:46 pm

“Some might say dating is glorified prostitution”

And I would agree with that

lurker

April 7th, 2010
2:47 pm

Do u park ur brains smwehere outside ur head smtimes,rolling ahead in discussions, brainless?

Ummm, english please

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:47 pm

call it what you want! lol.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:47 pm

Prostitutes are more efficient and cheaper :) With the STD rates might as well take your chances with a pro. You know she is not going to fall in love with you.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:48 pm

Dig – Yeah that had to hit him in the Gut..

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
2:48 pm

Some might say dating is glorified prostitution.

So if dating is that…FWB is even worse.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:49 pm

DreamsM

The old dude always gets the bad review after its over..

not always :)

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
2:49 pm

Carlito – Sorry but i’m allergic ;-)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:49 pm

Slim, I am hypo-allerginic.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:49 pm

Nik – well he’s the dummy for even stopping at a rim shop cause he saw your car.. Dummy.. I wouldnt have even played myself like that.. I wouldve smoove acted like I didnt see ya..

Willie Dynamite

April 7th, 2010
2:50 pm

Some might say dating is glorified prostitution”

And I would agree with that

Yep, just ask Riley from the Boondocks.

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
2:50 pm

“The old dude gets the bad review after it’s over.”

Not necessarily – I have two exes that can help get me *there* just on the memory alone when I’m *loving myself.*

So – there are exceptions to even *that* rule.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:50 pm

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:50 pm

@Melo
when is the last time you took a blog vacay???? there’s time available now! for being you, you get an extra three more weeks a year.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:51 pm

@DK

Dummy.. I wouldnt have even played myself like that

that’s all i’m saying homey

Elijah

April 7th, 2010
2:51 pm

I have read some of Ms. PrincessNik comments and she is in control.

Melo I see you still are the crazy man up in this joint!

When it comes to a woman if she is mature and focus any man that gives that satisfies her needs will not have a problem with any old dudes!

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:52 pm

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
2:54 pm

i couldn’t have been a prostitute. i would’ve been horrible at it. LOL. i can’t take money from a man, cuz i have my own.
So you pay for yourself on every date.

So if dating is that…FWB is even worse.
Depends on what metric you’re using. If emotions are the metric, then I agree.

not always
I didn’t say that, but you probably see it more often than not.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
2:56 pm

So if dating is that…FWB is even worse

a notch lower!

Angie?

when is the last time you took a blog vacay????

NEVER..unless im sequestrated!

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
2:56 pm

Depends on what metric you’re using. If emotions are the metric, then I agree.

Well, prostitutes get paid. So if you’re dating, at you’re getting something out of it.

FWB is essentially just tricking it off. You main benefit is the sex.

So if dating is prostitution…FWB is just hoin

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:56 pm

I didn’t say that, but you probably see it more often than not

DreamsM you are probably right about that, i know plenty of chicks be bad mouthing old dude in public but “unconsiously” comparing the new dude to him.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
2:57 pm

He took you out to dinner, wined and dined you or funded some other things and you gave him the ‘koo. You are a glorified prostitute.

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
2:57 pm

a notch lower!

melo – Agreed. And jumpoffs, even lower than that.

lurker

April 7th, 2010
2:58 pm

sequestrated

wonder if he was trying to type castrated

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
2:58 pm

He took you out to dinner, wined and dined you or funded some other things and you gave him the ‘koo. You are a glorified prostitute

C-Lo
do you recommend a return to arranged marriages :lol:

lurker

April 7th, 2010
2:58 pm

a notch lower!

melo – Agreed. And jumpoffs, even lower than that.

judgement judgement judgement….just wow

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
2:59 pm

Here comes Elijah with his cape on extra tight today.. Ol Sylvester a$$ dude..

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
2:59 pm

@Dreams
i do my share on dates. i may pick up the parking tab, tip, snacks for the movies, etc. and just last week, i paid for dinner and he took care of the extras. i’m very fair when it comes to spending money. i appreciate my dates and i show this by not taking advantage.

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
2:59 pm

judgement judgement judgement….just wow

You make judgements everyday lurker, based on values and things you see. You should accept it by now. That’s life.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:00 pm

The old dude always gets the bad review after its over..

PrincessNik/Scool??

smetimes old dude gets a scrowl face from the old chic. U know when chic shapes her mouf ugly without muttering anything bad really about dude.

Usually,thats a good rep packaged in a old wrapping paper.

Usually means chic still pines for him,if only dude cld step to her correct! :lol:

That one aint bad! :lol:

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
3:01 pm

@DK- LMAO!!!! Boy you stupid but you know its always one.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:01 pm

wonder if he was trying to type castrated

Luker??

sequestrated not castrated!(google it?)

follow the discussion, and with whom,is that hard??

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:02 pm

PrincessNik, I wonder how many arranged marriages ended in divorce? Or cheating spouses. you may be on to something.

Melo, Have you heard any updates or aware of the kidnapping of Gemballa in South Africa? A lot of speculation on that.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
3:02 pm

Nik – Well what rim shop is this so I can come in there and tell homeboy his new chick just chose me.. And say now we can handle this like Gentlemen or we can get into some Gangsta ish..

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
3:03 pm

Dk

i almost spit out my water LMBO!

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
3:04 pm

FWB is just an even swap….swapping a good for another good, right? Not hoin lol

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 7th, 2010
3:05 pm

it’s so pretty outside!!! y’all have fun. gonna take chewy for a jog/walk.

Melo be good! *snicker*

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:05 pm

Gemballa in South Africa?

@Carlito?

nope,lemme check!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:05 pm

Don’t save her, she don’t want to be saved. LOL

Ever notice how christians are the one who judge people the most?

a$$play

April 7th, 2010
3:05 pm

Is a Craigslist or backpage girl considered a FWB? They accept “donations” so I guess they would be more a Charity vice friend.

Willie Dynamite

April 7th, 2010
3:06 pm

I would like to take this time to thank all my previous Jump-Offs, FWB’s, Wh*res, Cut-buddies, etc. etc.

You all have played a big part in making me the Man I am today. As I reflect back on all our good and bad times together I apologize for any ill-will that I may have caused. I would also like to say ‘You are Welcome’ in advance to any of your future BF’s or Husbands who think that you are good at what you do.

Sincurly,

Dynamite

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:07 pm

FWB is just an even swap….swapping a good for another good, right? Not hoin lol

Slim – We’re talking about where it would fall in the pecking order. Cuz dating isn’t actual prostitution either.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
3:07 pm

APlay – You are gonna end up jail homeboy messing with the professional talent..

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
3:07 pm

Willie D

CLASSIC!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:08 pm

Melo, it happened in Johannesberg. Some say he is hiding from the law others say he is being held for ransom. A few shady types involved like that Czech gangster. This article scrapes the surface if you search you will find more information.

http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE61M2HL20100223

Elijah

April 7th, 2010
3:10 pm

DK I have not had a good one with you in quite! Yes my cape is on and it’s time to protect the ladies! That is what I do!

DK where are you coaching bball at?

I coach on the westside of town! These kids have some good BB skillz?

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
3:10 pm

Ok, so on the topic of how the old dude gets the bad review…does that mean that feelings make bad sex seem better than it actually was…so when the love is gone, there also goes the fantasy of the bad sex appearing to be good???

btw, i’d say it’s not that often you get with someone who has tremendous sexual chemistry with you right off the bat…sometimes it may take a few practice swings before you hit the home run

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:10 pm

Is a Craigslist or backpage girl considered a FWB? They accept “donations” so I guess they would be more a Charity vice friend

If you are on Craigslist or backpage that means you are using all your child support and/or light bill money to get some puddy cat. You are like Richard Gere in Brooklyn’s Finest sitting outside waiting for “John” in front of you to finish.

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
3:10 pm

FWB is essentially just tricking it off. You main benefit is the sex.

So if dating is prostitution…FWB is just hoin
Then why call it Friends With Benefits? Let’s just call it Benefits…or hoin’. lol

i do my share on dates. i may pick up the parking tab, tip, snacks for the movies, etc. and just last week, i paid for dinner and he took care of the extras. i’m very fair when it comes to spending money. i appreciate my dates and i show this by not taking advantage.
I would dissect this based on your initial post, but I won’t. I’ll just say…ok. Good that you don’t take advantage though.

Lord Velonese

April 7th, 2010
3:12 pm

Gross topic, what’s the point if your not in a relationship, eewww Male/Female Whoreage.

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
3:12 pm

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:12 pm

Speaking for all the ladies we love to see Eli fly through…he is pretty respectful

:smile:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:13 pm

I think feelings can compensate for some sex that is not the greatest. If the basics are not there I can not imagine it getting to the point of to many feelings getting involved.

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:13 pm

Then why call it Friends With Benefits? Let’s just call it Benefits…or hoin’. lol

Keep up Dreams…we’re talking about it in the realm of trickin terms.

Dating isn’t ACTUAL prostitution, it was the analogy used.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:13 pm

Cuz dating isn’t actual prostitution either.

@Ared/Slim…

not quite like prostitution coz there is no quid pro quo when money is exchanged unlike in prostitution.

however the pudssy/dyckk beating can be quite comparable in dating as in prostitution.

Im sure there are some females here who got theirs pudssyies pretty beaten up bad,but wont admit it! :lol: :lol:

It sure tells when a puddsy is all folded up,looking like an old dying frog! :lol: :lol:

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
3:14 pm

does that mean that feelings make bad sex seem better than it actually was…so when the love is gone, there also goes the fantasy of the bad sex appearing to be good???
yup! :lol: :lol: :lol:

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 7th, 2010
3:15 pm

It does not matter what the title FWB, hoin,boyfriend,girlfriend. jump-offs, you bumping and grinding and not married it is all the same! Some get paid in cash for it, some get paid as the girlfriend and some just want the JOHNSON you get getting something! :wink:

Women want Johnson just like men do! :smile; Ain’t that right sexycool? :smile:

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
3:15 pm

lurker

April 7th, 2010
3:17 pm

Truth LURKER truth

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:17 pm

Tiki, just upgraded his FWB :)

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:18 pm

Those Barber twins both married Asian chicks. The wives seemed very doormatish.

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:19 pm

however the pudssy/dyckk beating can be quite comparable in dating as in prostitution.

melo – I get it. Some people were not understanding we were just comparing the two.

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
3:19 pm

LURKER “Women want Johnson just like men do”…um I think I know what you meant but it came off as men like Johnson.. LOL!

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:20 pm

Women want Johnson just like men do!

Dayum y’all blog men beem holding back on us. LURKER said women want the Johnson just like men do. Melo, tell me it ain’t so, are the men after the Johnson too? Somebody say it ain’t so!

:smile: YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:21 pm

Dayum those Barber twins…who cares

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:21 pm

The wives seemed very doormatish
@Ared?

yep thats the reason these men go to Asia.

Im sure proly not as expensive too in a break up/divorce compared to an educated local.

Russel Simmons tho,didnt do his due diligence right!

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:22 pm

Dayum those Barber twins…who cares

:lol:

They are not cute to me at all. They look like they have a touch of Downs…

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:23 pm

Race, creed or color a woman is a woman. Some have standards and some get ran over.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:23 pm

@Professor..

he meant just like men like pudssy!

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
3:23 pm

Eli – I’ll see yuo out there.. I Ref and I’ll make sure to hit you with two Techs and throw you outta the game because you have been flagrant for a while now.. Intentional fouls all over the place..

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
3:24 pm

“They look like they have a touch of Downs…”

Hollers….passes out.
LMAO!

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:24 pm

Russel Simmons tho,didnt do his due diligence right!

Cuz Kimora is a black sista girl!

Direct Kimora quote: “I will still beat a b@*@*@* ass, but now I don’t have to.”

You can take a girl out the hood but…:lol:

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:24 pm

@Carlito??

crickets crickets crickets on that downs statement!

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:25 pm

Race, creed or color a woman is a woman. Some have standards and some get ran over.

Not true. Some cultures are more docile and submissive simple due to upbringing and cultural norms.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:25 pm

‘Yes my cape is on and it’s time to protect the ladies! That is what I do!’

Elijah, that is funny :) Do you protect all women?

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:26 pm

They are not cute to me at all. They look like they have a touch of Downs

Now that was a good one…you are so right! You just solved the puzzle I could never figure out what it was about them.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
3:26 pm

Eli – Im ref-ing the AAU camps right now in Roswell but I’ll be coming to the westside soon.. Im gunning for you.. Be ready for all the calls to go for the other team..

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:28 pm

Melo I was just being facetious, but thanks.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:28 pm

AmazonRed, I think every race has strong women and doormat women. Just because a woman is black does not mean that she is just domineering or every italian woman is quick tempered. I think those assumptions are assumes stereotypes. Behind closed doors there may be different stories.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
3:29 pm

Some cultures are more docile and submissive simple due to upbringing and cultural norms. true. this is why i don’t mess with my own. i like the gringos.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
3:30 pm

When skeleton’s come out of the closet and chase you all around the room

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:30 pm

If your momma was hoin and her momma was hoin, are you likely to be hoin as well? Maybe some women just come form a long line of hoin women.

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:30 pm

AmazonRed, I think every race has strong women and doormat women. Just because a woman is black does not mean that she is just domineering or every italian woman is quick tempered. I think those assumptions are assumes stereotypes. Behind closed doors there may be different stories.

Carlito – You go to India or Asia and you will see a profound difference. It’s not stereotypes, it’s fact. I wasn’t just speaking on American culture. American culture IS different than other cultures. That is also a fact.

PrincessNik..T.G.I.F.Thank God I'm Fabulous

April 7th, 2010
3:31 pm

“If you can’t get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you’d best teach it to dance.”

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:34 pm

I have been there quite a few times to different tracks. The company that employees me is based out of Japan. Those guys complain about their women just like we(Americans) do. My office is full of Asians, Swedes and Germans married to the same. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. THROWED

April 7th, 2010
3:34 pm

CzBRat – Well d@mn I thought we had it all..

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:35 pm

Those guys complain about their women just like we(Americans) do. LOL

What does that have to do with anything? When did being a from a different culture exempt you from having problems?

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:37 pm

@Princess I love the quote…learning to live with skeletons makes life a lot easier.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:37 pm

I think there are positives and negatives of women and men in every culture esp when cross paired.

If i ever get divorced, im getting a dark skinned 5 ft + black sister outa the south!

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:38 pm

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:39 pm

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 7th, 2010
3:39 pm

@Professor…. I meant some women want Johnson just like me want pudsy….. Professor I know you likem culture but I will come become the teacher and you will be my love slave pupil! :smile:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:40 pm

AmazonRed, I am saying that their women are not docile.

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:41 pm

AmazonRed, I am saying that their women are not docile.

Agree to disagree then.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
3:42 pm

off topic …. security cameras in piedmont park? yikes!! they’re about to capture some very interesting stuff on film.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:43 pm

Maybe they do not do the public outburst or put their circle of friends all in their business or have news conferences but they are not pushovers.

I am sure this was not Elin’s first time getting in Tigers behind, but the media got wind of it this time. LOL On camera she is not doing any interviews or press conferences. his whole career she has been just in his background(from the outside looking in, you would think she was just docile) Heck her golf club swing is probably stronger than Tiger’s HA HAHAHA

(end of the day so I have to be Devil’s advocate, that’s my thing)

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:44 pm

@Carlito??

they are docile untill they figure things out,esp when they come over here. Same with african chics.

The moment they understand what american chics got,they wanna upgrade! :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:44 pm

Maybe they do not do the public outburst or put their circle of friends all in their business or have news conferences but they are not pushovers.

Where did I say they were pushovers? I said their culture is different.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:47 pm

AmazonRed, puff puff pass :) LOL I am just messing with you right now. hugs LOL

AmazonRed™

April 7th, 2010
3:48 pm

Um…and I’m messing with you back.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:48 pm

@Melo your 3:44 is on point. Now how do you keep Queen grounded, so that she don’t upgrade?

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 7th, 2010
3:49 pm

@Carlito….. The sistas may tell everyone on the block, but they are not publizing it all over the news! The do not call Action 3 news like Polly (I’m a pornstar and Tiger made me swallow one hundred times) I thought since I swallowed he loved me! :lol:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:49 pm

AmazonRed, woman I am man bow your head when speaking to me. :)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:50 pm

Lurker, is that because of to much pride of getting played over or is there a monetary settlement?

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:50 pm

AmazonRed head is tilted over as she LOL from kicking you in the nutz sack…j/k

:grin:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:51 pm

Or will the “sista” blog about it on the ajc blog

Wise Diva

April 7th, 2010
3:51 pm

LOL @ today’s discussion, you guys are ALWAYS entertaining, totally love it. whew

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:53 pm

Now how do you keep Queen grounded, so that she don’t upgrade?

@Proff?

I cant put a finger on one or two things..its a combination of stuff….my program she signed on,her strong fam background and mine among other subtle stuff.

Ofcourse, i give it to her,slap her up,toss her upside down etc.

Every man gotta have some shock and awe plays in his arsenal..keep it spicy! :lol: :lol:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

I can’t hit her back, but that kick in the sack sure did hurt. LOL

SlimCoo-Coo

April 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

@CZ I’ll never forget the time I went to Piedmont Park for a friends softball game…Right in the middle of the sidewalk was the plastic container for a 15 inche dill-doe on the ground. My first thought was of course DAYUM that’s big…but then I thought, whoever it belonged to, sure couldn’t wait till they got home. Must’ve had that itch like the chick on that movie with Samuel Jackson where he chained her up in his house…she had that sex itch. LOL (I forget the name of the movie)

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

Random Thoughts…….YEAHHHHH!

TIger Phlucked you gave you knowing and now you pose for a magazine who pays you nothing! Did you get dropped on your head as a baby?

The chairman of the Masters called Tiger a hero…. I did not know that winning a golf tournament made you a hero! crickets, crickets,

If you need help with bills and someone to hit it 3 times a week you might want to call tiger!

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

Keep up Dreams…
If it looks like I’m behind, it’s only because I’m already a lap ahead. ;-)

Speaking for all the ladies we love to see Eli fly through…he is pretty respectful
Do the ladies really want the caped crusader as their guy, or does he get put in the friend zone?

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:56 pm

LURKER I am going to decline as your love slave pupil…it just feels creepy :twisted:

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
3:56 pm

Melo

April 7th, 2010
3:58 pm

a 15 inche dill-doe ??

@SlimOne?

whats that?

Wise Diva

April 7th, 2010
3:58 pm

bwahahaha @ Mr Willie Dynamite (how are you!)…that was sooo wrong and funny at the same time!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 7th, 2010
3:58 pm

@Carlito……Naw the blog women will keep it quite if you are a blogger who’s getting! So you can go ahead and start hitting some of the blog women they will keep it a secret! You good!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:00 pm

Slim, Black Snake Moan.

If me a Julia do not work out I am going to date me a “sista” LOL Or a Black/Italian Hybrid.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

@DreamsM, as for the comment on Eli, I stated that because he is one of the few men on the blog that keeps it respectful. I wish I could answer your question about the cape crusader, but I don’t think I’ve experienced it…

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

Lurker, I am good on that front. Although two of them have intrigued me I am disciplined. I can’t mess up the good thing that I have at all. And I have this fine neighbor as well :)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:02 pm

Tiger kept it respectful, until he was caught. LOL

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:04 pm

15 inches? You can here an echo in that hole after that. Probably was for a dude though, I was warned that the rump wranglers hang out at Piedmont at night.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

Now, Carlito I was not aware that you communicated with Tiger several times a week, or enough to know he was respectful. Please tell him to lurk on the blog a little bit.

Wise Diva

April 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

I am so done @ rump wranglers! Carlito, I’m through with you for the day, LOL!

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:06 pm

Im rooting for Tiger to not miss the cut. There wld be no point in me watching the Masters.

Im a Tiger fan,thru and thru!

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
4:06 pm

Stil catching up but…

OMG It’s Laughapalooza in here!!!!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:07 pm

Professor, Tiger blogged on his golf forum regularly. It’s not as wild as this place though. I wonder if any of those women were on there under different names.

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
4:07 pm

he is one of the few men on the blog that keeps it respectful.
You think the blog guys are disrespectful? What about the blog women?

I wish I could answer your question about the cape crusader, but I don’t think I’ve experienced it…
Is that something you would like to experience?

Wise Diva

April 7th, 2010
4:09 pm

yes LuvBug! That is the perfect description of today’s commenting, LOL good one

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:09 pm

Wise Diva, I am just calling it like I hear it. :)

Melo, I am a fan as well. He did not take part in the Par 3 today because he was tired from practicing this week. His companions out there with him say his is playing around 85% right now. His 85 % is a bunch of others 100%. I hope he slaughters the field.

The "preaching" Professor

April 7th, 2010
4:10 pm

Hey DreamsM,

We might have to finish this discussion on tomorrow, but the short answer is this. I think most of the bloggers including ME are a bit disrespectul. That is the short answer…I will have to give you the details tomorrow, because I am stepping out.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:13 pm

I hope he slaughters the field

Carlito??

Augusta tho is kinda different.Things can go awry pretty quick,its a trick course. And i hear there are more changes this year.

But we good,there is pollen outside..perfect time to glue to the telly satrday and sunday!!

Is Julia coming down??

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:14 pm

Wise Diva, you have a nice blog :) Even if my other sites were not blocked at work I would still be here.

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
4:16 pm

I know I didn’t just see that ladies agree that they would have the caped crusader. (Wiping my eyes and trying to re-read)

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:16 pm

That reminds me,I was gon have a massage this satrday.

Wont happen!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:17 pm

Melo, Julia arrives tomorrow night and is here for 9 days. I am kinda of on edge though I made some unprotected deposits in Florida and we are not sure if her BC is in full force yet. Would not that be funny, all that I was against happening. Life is like that.

DreamsMaterialize

April 7th, 2010
4:18 pm

I will have to give you the details tomorrow, because I am stepping out. I got you. Have a good night. See you tomorrow.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:22 pm

we are not sure if her BC is in full force yet

@Carlito!

hope u str8…maaayne that visit wld be a waste! :lol: :lol:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:23 pm

Melo, I just sent you a picture from the beach check your email :)

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:24 pm

Dreams, you have me over here crying also.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:27 pm

Dang Carlito…she banging!

good catch!

Wise Diva

April 7th, 2010
4:30 pm

Thanks so much Carlito! I am glad you can still reach our corner of AJC.COM :)

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:31 pm

From now on,Iam only taking bikini pics only.

2010 policy!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:32 pm

Melo, thank you and she is smart as well :)

Wise Diva, no problem.

SexyCool

April 7th, 2010
4:33 pm

Wise – I just talked to DeonJohnnyBo – he asked about you.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
4:33 pm

Dang Carlito…she banging! good catch! well, really, what else could you possibly say?? :lol:

Luvbug

April 7th, 2010
4:33 pm

Submissive cultures? Unlike the FWB, dating, etc, I think measure is really important in this case. What people project and what choices they make are often two different things…especially among black women. Talking tough and promoting belief systems we don’t live usually lands us on the ulgy side of important statistics.

Rampant poverty, debt , depression, single parent homes, barely educated children, etc. exposes some truth behind all that tough talk. It doesn’t explain everything, but it cannot be denied when comparing subordination.

Seems we’ve excepted a lot for nothing…except sexual freedom…that one both men and women enjoy.

Maybe it’s not good to compare.

…end of rant.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:33 pm

Melo, have I raised the standard? LOL

Wise Diva

April 7th, 2010
4:36 pm

aw he did! Thanks for letting me know, i STILL giggle when you write his name like that! Good times :)

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:36 pm

well, really, what else could you possibly say??

czBrat,She is for real tho….

U aint send me urs tho.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:38 pm

Melo, have I raised the standard? LOL

@Carlito??

urs is in bikini,unlike most of what i got,except one ,so u know..but i aint taking anything away from her!

Real pretty and bustful too…. :lol: :lol:

u busy with the hands and on the mortice too….nice! :lol: :lol:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:40 pm

Florida is bikini weather :)

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
4:41 pm

i don’t doubt that Mello. but if she wasn’t …. ‘uh. gee, the pic won’t open.’ :oops:

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:43 pm

Nike stock went up today after saying that they are airing a new Tiger Woods commercial tonight.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:44 pm

czBrat,..LOL, I would have to be some sort of confident if I sent a picture with my girl in it. :)

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
4:44 pm

This pollen is trying to suffocate me.

Oh yea Carlito how was the trip to Florida

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:45 pm

Do you all think it is odd the Whitney Houston postponed her tour. I think she may still be on the “stuff” LOL

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:45 pm

but if she wasn’t …. ‘uh. gee, the pic won’t open

czBrat??

u know,he wldnt have been so confident to send it.

Being Pretty or good looking is real luck,come to think of it..

Some women cant stand looking at themselves in the morror!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:46 pm

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:46 pm

Some women cant stand looking at themselves in the mirror!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:48 pm

Dig That, we had a great time I was done with work on Friday and we just relaxed and partied together. We got a chance to explore different areas and immerse ourselves in the italian community down there. We loved it so much that we are coming up with a plan to move there together instead of her moving to Atlanta. A couple of years tops :)

abc

April 7th, 2010
4:51 pm

Tiger Woods is a reprobate. Having portrayed himself as a role model, a self-proclaimed “Ambassador of Golf”, lets him in for the flack he’s taking. He deserves every bit of it; he’s nothing more than yet another irresponsible athlete. Without golf, what is he? Seriously, you think that many people really watch GOLF? Come on. I enjoy playing golf a great deal, but I never watch it. I’ve never seen Tiger Woods play golf, and I doubt I ever will. Has anyone here actually bothered to watch him play? Probably not many.

Billy Payne’s comments about him are dead-on.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
4:52 pm

Being Pretty or good looking is real luck,come to think of it.. to quote terrence howard, “a genetic coincidence of symmetry”.

i don’t know of any woman who can’t stand looking at herself in the mirror. perhaps not nude, but still. gotta love yourself!

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:54 pm

We luv Tiger,we luv Tiger,we luv Tiger

Tiger is just like u abc and myself!

We ALL SINNERS!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:55 pm

abc, there are two dedicated golf channels year round. So I imagine tons watch golf and watch Tiger play. Billy Payne also said these things today about Tiger that were spot on.

After comparing Woods the golfer to Bobby Jones, Arnold Palmer and Jack Nicklaus, Payne proceeded to chastise Woods the role model for his behavior off the course and toward fans.

“As he ascended in our rankings of the world’s great golfers, he became an example to our kids that success is directly attributable to hard work and effort,” Payne said during his opening remarks. “But as he now says of himself, he forgot in the process to remember that with fame and fortune comes responsibility, not invisibility. It is not simply the degree of his conduct that is so egregious here; it is the fact that he disappointed all of us and, more importantly, our kids and our grandkids. Our hero did not live up to the expectations we saw for our children.”

Payne seemed to be as bothered by how aloof Woods is in public as he was by his private transgressions.

“Certainly his future will never again be measured only by his performance against par, but measured by the sincerity in his efforts to change,” Payne said. “I hope he realizes that every kid he passes on the course wants his swing but would settle for his smile.

“I hope he can come to understand that life’s greatest rewards are reserved for those who bring joy to other people.”

Melo

April 7th, 2010
4:55 pm

perhaps not nude??

@CZBRAT

really..sme women dont like their naked pics??

didnt know that.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:58 pm

czbrat, you may be on to something. What about “butter faces”?

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
4:59 pm

Everything is fine butter face. (but her face) They tend to wear tight clothes as to take the focus off of their face. LOL

abc

April 7th, 2010
5:00 pm

I’m a sinner, just like everyone else, that’s true; but I’m not a big fake that got rich on endorsements because of such fraud, I frankly don’t give a flip about how good of a golfer he is, and really, I don’t think many others outside the PGA and the media do either. Big deal. It’s only golf.

Now, I don’t hold anything against Tiger Woods, but I don’t hold up any banners in his favor, either. I consider the media circus to be a ridiculous freak show, and Tiger is the headline freak.

Melo

April 7th, 2010
5:01 pm

abc

April 7th, 2010
5:01 pm

Boy, it’s message quarantine day in here today!

I’m not typing that in again. Whew.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
5:01 pm

See ya bro, I have a late night up here tonight.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
5:03 pm

do ‘butta’ faces know they’re ‘buttas’, or do they think they’re beautiful? they should (think they’re beautiful, that is).

Dig That

April 7th, 2010
5:04 pm

Florida is definitely beautiful and more culturally diverse.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
5:08 pm

i miss my fla days. the sun, sand and surf remind me of home *sigh*. housing was just outrageous though, and income just didnt keep up with cost of living. here i get my 2k sq ft on 1/2 acre for $125k!

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
5:08 pm

czbrat, I do not think that there are any women who think that that are ugly, even though some should not be so high on themselves.

Dig That, it is like a big melting pot down there. Everyone just all in the same place, happy.

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
5:09 pm

czbrat, what part of Florida did you live?

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
5:14 pm

i know what you mean Carlito (and i’ll try not to laugh). but everyone is beautiful to someone. maybe they’re so high on themselves to compensate for lack of compliments. actually, i think women who KNOW they’re attractive are much more likely to be overly confident about their looks. just imo.

czBrat

April 7th, 2010
5:15 pm

i’ve lived in fwb (near destin) and orlando.

Elijah

April 7th, 2010
5:16 pm

DreamsMaterialize….I am sure with your respectfull demeanor and calm approach you will have most women who meet your some of your standards who want you to hit!

I do not go in the friend zone too often because they always want me to hit it! As wise me know a good listener and cape crusader will put in the puddy zone a lot.

Thanks Professor….Being respectful is how I was raised, I do like to throw on my cape I know I will get a comment or two from DK!

ABC easy on Tiger, who said Tiger was a hero? I thought you had to save someone from a burning building in order to be called a hero!

Hello Wisa Diva! How is the dating world treating you?

Carlito

April 7th, 2010
5:16 pm

czbrat, i may have to just go somewhere and observe. In my experiences woman who are the worlds standard of pretty are kinda of humble and the ones who are not so easy on the eyes think they are the best looking creations on the earth. LOL