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Romantically Challenged

Romantically Challenged is a new show that will be premiering this month on ABC, starring Alyssa Milano, of all people!   I’m sorry but it is awfully hard to believe that Alyssa Milano is romantically challenged in any way.  Nonetheless,  I’m curious to see the “romantic challenges”  her character faces on the dating scene in this show.

After all of my misadventures (and yours too) I probably could serve as a consultant for the writers of this show.  I definitely have had those moments when I feel romantically challenged.  Just when I think I have found a dating groove (not as sexy as it sounds, believe me), I hit a snag with men.  Either I choose the wrong type or get confused by mixed signals.  That’s when I pretty much check out on the relationship angle altogether.

Maybe we are all challenged in some way though, right? (RIGHT!?)  I can recall a couple of exes that seemed pretty clueless about navigating a relationship.  It was exhausting at times! I didn’t want that role and the dynamics of this kind of a relationship is pretty awkward.

Do you know how uncomfortable it is explaining to a grown man that just because he ticked me off doesn’t mean I want him out of my life altogether?  Have you ever dated someone who needed to be guided about the inner workings of a relationship?

What do you think you learned from the experience? What did you learn about yourself?

What do you think makes you romantically challenged? If you are lucky enough to have it all figured out, please enlighten the rest of us.

492 comments Add your comment

princessnik...droppin bad habits

April 6th, 2010
4:53 pm

Ared- I drive a camry, but its the Alumni license plates that make it distinct

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
4:53 pm

Never hear what men need to be doing on this woman dominated blog. :) Kimmie, c’mooooonnnnnn. LOL

Melo

April 6th, 2010
4:55 pm

Women have needs too.

@Kimmie??

say them loud! we just talking about ours,men!

Uall dont want to demand urs,esp in the bedroom..say it how often u want it

we short of time..but starting tmrw Kimmie!

On this Blog! :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 6th, 2010
4:55 pm

AmazonRed, thanks . I try to be nice to everyone, but I do not get her line of questioning.

She’s an old regular (emphasis on old :lol: ) trying to pull rank on you. :lol:

You’re posting like you’ve been here a while, so she’s trying to figure out your deal. Tell her to mind her beeswax! :lol:

kimmie

April 6th, 2010
4:55 pm

Carlito -LOL!! :) I’m just sayin’!!!

T. Woods ( The blasian Asain) Wood Thumper

April 6th, 2010
4:56 pm

Melo you talk about rotation I had a rotation centered around each golf tournment! I was one bad shout your mouth Tiger! hehehehehehehe!!!!1

Leggs

April 6th, 2010
4:56 pm

For whatever her reasons are, she’s remaining MUM just like Jennifer Anniston remained MUM with the Bradagelina scandal….it’s takes a lot to not respond back to all that’s being said. I give her props because it’s so easy to go against what most people are telling you to do when your heart wants to do something else!

kimmie

April 6th, 2010
4:57 pm

Leggs – Yep!

Tazzee - 38 days til Mrs.

April 6th, 2010
4:58 pm

And you betta not drive a common azz car like a Honda!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 6th, 2010
4:58 pm

@AmazonRed……Who you calling old? Are you referring to Angie who’s getting it from a married man right now! Leave beautiful alone she is in a happy place I think! YEAH :smile:

AmazonRed™

April 6th, 2010
4:58 pm

Ared- I drive a camry, but its the Alumni license plates that make it distinct

Does he live in the neighborhood? What do you think his purpose is for being in that area?

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
4:58 pm

AmazonRed, ohh so it’s a territorial thing.

Kimmie, LOL. I hear you but I am NOT listening. LOL :)

I am whatever you say I am

April 6th, 2010
4:58 pm

Random thoughts:

I miss the WIRE

this person I saw in the park on Saturday looked like Snoop from the WIRE

I hope I can finish all my grocery shopping in 15 mins before I can pick up little and I pray he doesn’t not throw a tantrum while I’m trying to hurry to prepare his dinner

Hey, I’m out in 2 mins….

Tazzee - 38 days til Mrs.

April 6th, 2010
4:59 pm

Last comment should have included :lol:

Leggs

April 6th, 2010
4:59 pm

When life gives you lemons in 2009 – turn it into lemonade then mix it with vodka.

Out for the rest of the week on Spring Break. C-ya on Monday!

Behave yourselves…naw, that would make blogsville mighty boring!

AmazonRed™

April 6th, 2010
4:59 pm

Are you referring to Angie who’s getting it from a married man right now!

:shock:

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 6th, 2010
4:59 pm

@Ared
i’m sure he a grown man. not trying to pull anything. if he would have see the interview then i’m sure he would have known what i was referring to.

and btw . . . middle finga!

I am whatever you say I am

April 6th, 2010
4:59 pm

final notes:

Ugh!!! typos and grammatical errors!!

Hey, I leave in 1 minute

princessnik...droppin bad habits

April 6th, 2010
5:00 pm

Ared, i don’t even live in that neighborhood, i just work about 7 minute away, heck if i know, i gave up trying to figure that fella out long ago

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
5:00 pm

Sleeping with a married man, that is the same as a Tiger Mistress, without as much money I would imagine.

AmazonRed™

April 6th, 2010
5:00 pm

AmazonRed, ohh so it’s a territorial thing.

Yeah…and you’re on Team Amazon! :lol:

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 6th, 2010
5:00 pm

@Leggs and Kimmie….The real question is what will you achieve by speaking out! What I have learned it is best to let it go and moved forward with your life!

Now Leggs what kind of dress you wearing today? With yo sexy self! :wink:

Leggs

April 6th, 2010
5:00 pm

Where that 2009 come from???

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 6th, 2010
5:00 pm

i wish! but no not true. lol.

AmazonRed™

April 6th, 2010
5:01 pm

heck if i know, i gave up trying to figure that fella out long ago

Ain’t that the truth. He’s probably hoping you’ll call his sorry behind trying to find out!

AmazonRed™

April 6th, 2010
5:02 pm

Don’t listen to Lurker, Carlito. He’s messing with her.

princessnik...droppin bad habits

April 6th, 2010
5:02 pm

ARed,

Like New-New Said

unt unh not gon happen!

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
5:03 pm

Team Amazon, we are family :)

Leggs

April 6th, 2010
5:04 pm

@LURKER ~ I agree. You can get quite a lot accomplished by remaining silent.

I have on a red shortsleeved top, red flowered “swing” skirt (think of Marilyn Monroe’s dress) and red slingbacks…hooray to no stockings!

SexyCool

April 6th, 2010
5:04 pm

PK – I am always saying that. LOL!

Beautiful *Absolutely cannot be you.....I'm way too busy being me*

April 6th, 2010
5:04 pm

princessnik...droppin bad habits

April 6th, 2010
5:05 pm

SexyC lol me too!

now i’m off to tee-ball practice

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
5:06 pm

Marilyn Monroe standing over a fan?

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
5:06 pm

Someone is off her rocker.

lurker

April 6th, 2010
5:09 pm

Someone is off her rocker.

Carlito – either someone has clued you in, you’re an oldie with a new moniker or….cause really, Angie ain’t said enough today (I don’t think) for you to intuitively make that comment or maybe I’m slow.

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 6th, 2010
5:11 pm

@Leggs…. Yes Leggs I am visualizing the picture right now! I need to see the real thang! :wink:

Beautiful….I am joking, but you been getting since Vegas……Don’t front!

Life is too short not have Big- Osss like SexyCool so buy her video and you too will sing like a canary!!!!!!!! :wink: :smile: YEAAAAAAAAAaaaaa

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
5:13 pm

She came in here asking about my character? Why I do not know. And calling me a ninja, what does that even mean? I also gave my views about Tiger Woods very plainly. Only person I kind of speak to off the blog is Melo, and he has said nothing about her, ever. Also, I am not slow :) some use beautiful and angie when referencing her sometimes in the same blog entry. I take everything at face value.

Leggs

April 6th, 2010
5:14 pm

Thank you lurker!!!

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
5:15 pm

I have been here 3 weeks, I am an OG :) and I am on a horse…..

AmazonRed™

April 6th, 2010
5:19 pm

Only person I kind of speak to off the blog is Melo, and he has said nothing about her, ever.

Please, please, please ask melo for his assessment. Then share it with me.

But Carlito, some people will just strike you as off. You’ve correctly hit the bullseye there buddy. :lol:

Carlito

April 6th, 2010
5:21 pm

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

April 6th, 2010
5:23 pm

News Flash….We have a snoop reporter and that is wait..wait…..AmazonRed…. If you are dating her she will look for you on the following

Craiglist
Facebook
whodatbook
College yearbook
High school yearbook
Jr High year book
Elementary year book
LurkersonMIA book
Blackpeoplemeet.com

Wait there’s more!