Too predictable
Guys, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but here it goes: You’ve become predictable. I know, it’s hard to hear. I spotted this on Twitter the other day: “Men don’t know how to throw curve balls anymore, they are so predictable.” quipped Amber Jolie a fellow blogger. I think she is referring to those good curve balls! That thing men do or say that really shows he’s in it to win her heart.
Women aren’t hard to please! Just as you guys are simple creatures, so are we..well we can be, sometimes. When the moons are aligned just right and you have managed to keep us smiling all week long. Seriously though, I think women are easy to please in the sense that we love to see gestures and efforts by the men we date. When a man does something out of the ordinary (see Friday’s post!) it adds to the attraction a great deal.
To be fair, women have moments of predictability too. Men can sometimes hold preconceived notions about what they consider to be typical woman behavior. Sadly, we end up affirming these and it becomes negative reinforcement. This is when women constantly call or text, worry about where the relationship stands every other minute. It’s something I don’t think a lot of women keep in mind when interacting with men.
Why do you think being predictable can be such a drag on a potential relationship? How could men and women avoid being too predictable?
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Professor...
March 29th, 2010
4:12 pm
some other ex bloger promised me some free, premium strip joint entry passes…unfrtunately,he went ghost be4 I could use that hook up!
Melo,
Which blogger did that…please list moniker?
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:12 pm
Oh okay cool!
I think that’s awesome what you are doing about starting up the camp.
Best of luck with that.
Carlito
March 29th, 2010
4:12 pm
The “tea party” seems like a modern day Klan to me. Anyone have any thoughts on this, Melo?
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:13 pm
Professor I’m not sure who that was but I do not that you get in free or reduced admission to the cheetah if you have a ticket stub from any atlanta event.
Hope that helps.
Carlito
March 29th, 2010
4:14 pm
I Am, my dream was to work full time with an F1 race team( me being Italian and all
). Those jobs are few and far between. So now I have accepted the role with my parent company and I am fine and it is exciting as well.
Raqi
March 29th, 2010
4:16 pm
I predict that I am going to cook stuffed flounder for dinner and I predict that the man and the boy is going to love it.
Good night everyone.
Carlito
March 29th, 2010
4:16 pm
Oh, it is not me starting the camp up. I just read it in a company wide email. I do not know the particulars as of yet.
LL411... Smiling On The Inside Too!
March 29th, 2010
4:18 pm
Raqi?
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:21 pm
Carlito: Keep on believing and your dreams will come true one day
You’ll get there papi!
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:22 pm
oooh I could go for a tom collins right now!
Melo
March 29th, 2010
4:22 pm
Anyone have any thoughts on this, Melo?
@Carlito??
I am surprised the media gives Palin that much attn. She wld go head to head with my elder dghter in a debate. Too ingoramus to even comment.
I like what ur company has on there. However the membership fee..$8000.00 seems too steep. I wld have to buy my own car too? What exclsuive membership benefits are do u provide there other than racing my car there?? Can the membership rights be sold to another party later??
@Proff??
I aint answering ur qstion unless u answer mine of earlier unless we talking about same person,then its a wash!
Carlito
March 29th, 2010
4:23 pm
I Am, thanks.
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:24 pm
random thought: those using marijuana for medical conditions really just found a loophole that made it legal for them to get high everyday.
Carlito
March 29th, 2010
4:27 pm
Melo, you are asking me questions I do not know the answers to. Those are sales oriented. I did not know that the small package price has been dropped form $15,000 to $8,000. I know that they are ramping up pre- construction. I was just offering you some “free time” every now and then. You would just show up and ask for me.
yes you would have to provide your own car, unless you took Racing school, but that is ran by Skip Barber, so I have no pull there. But if you want to get into karting or your kids I can get you on that route no problem at all
LL411... Smiling On The Inside Too!
March 29th, 2010
4:27 pm
@ I Am >>>> How old are you? I think it’s safe to say everyone on the blog has been heartbroken a time or two, but how you heal has to do with your mind set… clear your mind and the rest will follow.
It’s not easy to date when you’re hung up on someone else, I remember looking at a date thinking he’s not this or he doesn’t do that or why, oh why can’t “A” be sitting across from me right now. If you meet a decent man interested in you, believe me he will know immediately your still hung on someone else… and there goes a what could be a great possibility…
Radiating Ardent & Quaint Intensity
March 29th, 2010
3:44 pm
Melo
March 29th, 2010
4:28 pm
@ Iam
I may have seen u at the cheetah. dont know…….send me a recent pic!
takpat78@gmail.com
Melo
March 29th, 2010
4:31 pm
But if you want to get into karting or your kids I can get you on that route no problem at all
@Carlito??
thats whats up,thanx..thats my email add up there..email me so I have u on hook..
Im know they will luv it, I know how those rugrats are!!
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:36 pm
LOL @ Melo: I’ve never been to the cheetah but I know about the reduced admission because my homeboys go often.
Carlito
March 29th, 2010
4:37 pm
Melo, I will have to email you from home. I cant access personal email here at work.
Melo
March 29th, 2010
4:41 pm
@Carlito!!
cool…my bro is an aircraft engineer and a pilot too..he wl proly luv that stuff big time
hope u dont fget…wanna surprise my folk one weekend
Carlito
March 29th, 2010
4:44 pm
Melo, okay. I am heading out. Have a good one.
Professor...
March 29th, 2010
4:44 pm
@I am
Melo is not worried about Cheetah he wants to make your ex jealous
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:46 pm
really professor?
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:47 pm
time for lernch….
Professor...
March 29th, 2010
4:48 pm
@I am yes REALLY!
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:48 pm
While we are on the topic:
GOP to recoup $1,950 spent at topless club
http://www.ajc.com/news/nation-world/gop-to-recoup-1-415618.html
Melo
March 29th, 2010
4:49 pm
he wants to make your ex jealous
that wrks LOL
Professor...
March 29th, 2010
4:51 pm
@Melo I am glad you got it…lol.
Melo
March 29th, 2010
4:52 pm
Proff!
she aint sent it yet but even still,if she does,u womt know!
@I am..im waiting honey!
Professor...
March 29th, 2010
4:57 pm
@Melo, I remember your disclaimer you posted last week with the melo/client privileges
I am whatever you say I am
March 29th, 2010
4:57 pm
Melo and Profes: you are all so corny.
Leggs
March 29th, 2010
4:59 pm
Nitey nite!
<em?The task ahead of us is never as great as the Power behind us!
I need a drank!!
Professor...
March 29th, 2010
5:00 pm
I am you are corny as well, but at least we are corny with draws on!
Melo
March 29th, 2010
5:00 pm
your disclaimer you posted last week with the melo/client privileges
@Proff??
Even pimps and hoes got rules too!
good nite!
lurker
March 29th, 2010
5:08 pm
I am you are corny as well, but at least we are corny with draws on!
OMG…too funny