Guys, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but here it goes: You’ve become predictable. I know, it’s hard to hear. I spotted this on Twitter the other day: “Men don’t know how to throw curve balls anymore, they are so predictable.” quipped Amber Jolie a fellow blogger. I think she is referring to those good curve balls! That thing men do or say that really shows he’s in it to win her heart.
Women aren’t hard to please! Just as you guys are simple creatures, so are we..well we can be, sometimes. When the moons are aligned just right and you have managed to keep us smiling all week long. Seriously though, I think women are easy to please in the sense that we love to see gestures and efforts by the men we date. When a man does something out of the ordinary (see Friday’s post!) it adds to the attraction a great deal.
To be fair, women have moments of predictability too. Men can sometimes hold preconceived notions about what they consider to be typical woman behavior. Sadly, we end up affirming these and it becomes negative reinforcement. This is when women constantly call or text, worry about where the relationship stands every other minute. It’s something I don’t think a lot of women keep in mind when interacting with men.
Why do you think being predictable can be such a drag on a potential relationship? How could men and women avoid being too predictable?