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Heating things up

Food can be an integral part of the dating process.   At some point, we are either mingling or getting to know one another over food.  Cooking great food is also a great way to add spice (pun intended) to the regular, run of the mill date activities.

I recruited my fabulous new gal pal Chef Bren Herrera to help us navigate the joys of cooking and dating.  She is a fellow blogger who recently wrote about one of her clients thinking outside the box for a non-traditional date idea. He hired her to prepare a special meal for a special lady.  I have to say, there is something about a personal chef that can add instant wow factor to a date!

Chef Bren

Photo: Shannon McCollumn

I asked Chef Bren how cooking could heat things up for a non-traditional date:

1. Cooking on a date will show both guy and gal that you’re atypical and think outside the box! Who like movies and dinner dates! So, so passé! It’s 2010.

2. You can totally spoon-feed each other while “tasting” what you’re making. That makes for an intended sexy moment, without being forceful or offensive.

3. If you’re looking for a life-long mate that can cook, this is the test!! How willing are they to break out the cutting board and knives and mince garlic(which will make your breath stinky, but that’s another test of his/her real interest)? If they’re down for it, chances are they are conscious of budgeting, their health and quality time at home.

4. If the food is good, you’ve sealed the deal and a 2nd date is in order.

Well, she makes a pretty convincing argument. What do you think? Would cooking a meal prepared by the two of you not impress the socks (yes…just the socks) off of you?

Have you tried it before? What would you do if you showed up to your date’s place to find the meal waiting to be cooked.  Would you be impressed and turned on a little (Am I the only one thinking of the film 9 1/2 weeks right now? Just me? Ok.)

Would you *ahem* go with the flow and roll up your sleeves? As far as non-traditional dates go, this would definitely be outside the norm.  It would definitely be a memorable night.  I won’t forget the night younger guy brought all these ingredients to my place.  I left to run an errand and when I walked back in, I was shocked to find dinner was done. Then he fed me. No seriously, he literally cooked and fed me. You’ve got to admire those younger dudes.

Chef Bren said that a male client’s favorite dish is the spicy seared scallops in honey with a mango and cilantro relish. That sounds amazing! Do you have an amazing recipe that would be ideal for date nights? What dish do you use to impress the ladies/men?

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PrincessNik......supastar

March 26th, 2010
3:07 pm

one last thing before i exit

what about in the heat of the moment your laying there with eyes half open and he says open your eyes and look at me and as soon as you do he pushes as deep as he can go causing you to loose your breath, then he leans down and licks your lips before kissing you deeply……..

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:07 pm

Yeah Kinderbabe.

Dan

March 26th, 2010
3:07 pm

@Slim

For me, it’s “that” look….

But it doesn’t release my will, it only strengthens my resolve. swear you can feel her looking into your soul

SexyCool (Stays on Ready, Set.)

March 26th, 2010
3:07 pm

Tazzee – Put me down.

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:08 pm

OMG. Y’all nasty

Amazon, it wasn’t me. That’s leggs and lurker.

Tazzee - 49 days til Mrs.

March 26th, 2010
3:08 pm

Umm, y’all killing me this Friday afternoon.

All except Tazzee. She be licking tattoos. :lol:

Dig That

March 26th, 2010
3:08 pm

Just got back and I see yall are crunk. That’s what I’m talking about

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:09 pm

Raqi, I like to suck on her wet panties. And when she is standing I have seen her drip, one long strand of wetness from her “area” down to her inner thigh by her knee. I will drop down and suck it all up.

Lurker, that n*pple game will get you in there. It’s great for sneaking when in public :) .

** She needs to get her already**

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:10 pm

have you ever had a woman’s cervix dang near leave your wang feeling like it has been mauled

Okay Carlito, you lost me right there. LOL The cervix being hit can be a little painful so getting to the point of your wang feeling mauled something else is going on up in there.

Slim Coo-Coo

March 26th, 2010
3:11 pm

Dan “For me, it’s “that” look”

I’ve often heard dudes speak about that look we have on our faces..It’s sort of a cross between a sensual, passion-filled with a hint of “ooohh what are you doing to me” confused look? LOL!!!

DreamsMaterialize

March 26th, 2010
3:11 pm

Awwwww shoot. It’s hot up in here, and I haven’t even opened the blog bar.

Luvbug No need to hold out anymore. Come over here and let me walk you through a few new positions.

Slim seems you’re looking for somethingm, but you don’t need to go to Centennial Park or send out a PSA to get it. Just get at me.

PrincessNIK
Let me get you a drink. Then come connect with my curve.

Leggs
Forget about those lunch dates and get back on these 8:22’s.

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:11 pm

Okay Carlito wins the award for taking it too far with that 3:09. Here’s you ticket Carlito. You are in violation.

AmazonRed™

March 26th, 2010
3:12 pm

Raqi…see what you started.

I like to suck on her wet panties. – Carlito

I really didn’t need to know that!!!

SexyCool (Stays on Ready, Set.)

March 26th, 2010
3:12 pm

Talk about Heating things up.

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:13 pm

DreamsMat you need to just start taking ice and throwing it out into the crowd. They are out of control. I can bearly read this thing.

Slim Coo-Coo

March 26th, 2010
3:13 pm

Princessnik Ohhh that 3:07 has me sitting crossed legged. lmao

Luvbug

March 26th, 2010
3:14 pm

Melo – Beside kids, I don’t get the point. If I’m with a guy and have told him I’m monogamous, it’s true. My word is my promise. I’m not going to cheat, break the bank or anything else. Now if he does me wrong, I’m out.

I don’t have time to split the costs of stuff and ration…and fight my way out of a powerplay. It’s too restrictive. I need the commitment of freedom.

DreamsMaterialize

March 26th, 2010
3:14 pm

lurker
Don’t go. Let me release that for you.

Melo

March 26th, 2010
3:15 pm

@Carlitto??

squeezing urself thru the side of the panties is also a very nice move…..u soak her panties wet and the panty squeeze on the wang gives u a nice sensation,letting u go deeper,if not faster.

Usually a good move when u hitting her in the car,in the back seats and u let her lean in front as she sits,bending over her azz,while u lean back and angle in.

Rough and tight environs but the pleasure is awesome.This is the play u wld need to knock down a chic lower,if she on a perch. :lol:

@have you ever had it so good that you dang near “release” with the first stroke

this happens a lot when the anticipation is long drawn and high. A lot of men just get in and puke(on a new girl),the first time around…me included.

Second time is the charm.

Slim Coo-Coo

March 26th, 2010
3:15 pm

OMG! Ya’ll have taken this blog thang beyond any point we’ve ever been…Even I couldn’t have gone out in that deep part of the pool…sucking on wet panties…Hmmm?….WOW!

Luvbug

March 26th, 2010
3:15 pm

Fellas, have you ever had a woman’s cervix dang near leave your wang feeling like it has been mauled?

What Thhhhheeee?????

Dan

March 26th, 2010
3:16 pm

@Slim

That’s the look.

And it’s unconscious, like blinking. Glad I’m taking a break tonight

AmazonRed™

March 26th, 2010
3:17 pm

They are out of control. I can bearly read this thing.

:idea:

I don’t get the point of it all, especially if you aren’t getting any. It would just make me upset. :lol:

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:18 pm

Raqi, I dont know just during some of our rough episodes when I am constantly just going deep my tip is sore afterwards.

Thank you for my Award. :)

AmazonRed, but you read it. LOL. Is there something wrong with sucking “juice” out of panties? :)

PrincessNik, we love to have a woman look us in the eyes during that deep thrust. Or when she has a “mouthful”

Slim Coo-Coo

March 26th, 2010
3:18 pm

“Glad I’m taking a break tonight”

@Dan – taking a break huh? Sounds like someone has been in the beginning stages of sexdom & sexploitation recently. lol

Luvbug

March 26th, 2010
3:18 pm

Okay Carlito wins the award for taking it too far with that 3:09.

Absolutely!!!!!!!!

Dan

March 26th, 2010
3:20 pm

@Slim

Quite the opposite. They’ve had me running at/after work, with miles to go. It works up a healthy appetite indeed.

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:21 pm

Melo, I call that “railing” when you pull her panties to the side and go right on in. :)

I also like it when I have her doggystyle and she reaches back and wraps it around the part of me that is not in her and strokes it while the other part is in her stroking.

Melo

March 26th, 2010
3:22 pm

@Carlito??

I wld not bite her panties myself nor lick that stuff streaming sown her leggs altho i think some,like u, proly do.

thats a new one to me! :lol:

Dan

March 26th, 2010
3:22 pm

While i’on slurp no panties, I have been known to go to bed and wake up with her on me.

snnniifffff…ahhhhhh

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:22 pm

LOL Amazon. I just walked in. What the heck is going on in here?

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:22 pm

What is wrong with removing the panties with our mouth and just sucking the juice out while they are in your mouth? There is nothing wrong with me…It is you all :) HA HA HA HA

AmazonRed™

March 26th, 2010
3:22 pm

AmazonRed, but you read it. LOL. Is there something wrong with sucking “juice” out of panties?

It sounds gross as hell. Nothing wrong with golden showers either I guess, but it’s not the best visual. *blech*

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:24 pm

A woman’s nectar is the best :) and save a little bit on your lips and in your mouth for her to get a taste herself. :)

AmazonRed™

March 26th, 2010
3:24 pm

“heating things up” indeed. :lol:

Leggs

March 26th, 2010
3:25 pm

SMDH….

@Carlito ~ I’m glad you’re not hear either. I may have to make that call….

@Raqi ~ stop throwing me under the bus with your lustful behind. :lol:

@Raqi ~ I almost made a doctor’s appointment because my head isn’t suppose to hurt like that after romping in the bed. Felt very much like an icee freeze and the popsicle I had was hot, hot, hot!

@DreamsM ~ sorry, but I have to change our session time just this once….please ring my bell in 6 mins….I’ll be ready!

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:25 pm

Carlito, really it’s not the fact that you do it but somethings we just don’t share. LOL

Believe me we all could probably post something that is out there but somethings we just don’t share.

Luvbug

March 26th, 2010
3:25 pm

Beeeep…do not resuscitate

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:26 pm

AmazonRed, golden showers is urine. Moisture from the panties is the same moisture that you are about to taste anyway once you do oral.

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

March 26th, 2010
3:27 pm

@AmazonRed….. Bend it like beckham….Quit being so shy you know yousa freaky,deaky! :lol:

@PrincessNik…….A versatile woman…..you have experienced the ultimate a matching JoHNSON to the Pudsy…….Yes that is very good!

@Lurker……Don’t go and give it up to the ballplayer because the blog got you all hot and bothered!

@Leggs….When you exploded the southside will think a bomb went off!!! YEAAAAAA :smile:

Stay Lurking my Friends!!!!!!!!!!!! YEAAAA

Leggs

March 26th, 2010
3:27 pm

Why get upset? That’s why there’s dirty books and magazines on the market. It makes for an interesting read.

Dig That

March 26th, 2010
3:28 pm

Now when Carlito first got on here yall told him to loosen up and get out of Mayberry. Now that he has yall don’t like it. Typical. Let that man eat panty juice if he wants to. LMAO!!!!

@Dreams
Open the bar kinfolk

AmazonRed™

March 26th, 2010
3:28 pm

Yeah, but it’s not like you’re sucking on the urine. My point is… whatever gets you off is fine we just don’t need to know every detail.

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:28 pm

Raqi, sorry. I admitted to smoking weed on her too. I am to open. I will refrain from posting after I have had sex, because that is the only time I am like that. But I am going to have fun today, then deny it all next week. Hmm can I change my name on here :)

Lurking

March 26th, 2010
3:28 pm

Raqi you act like your old ancient pus ain’t used to no d:(k all dem baby daddies. Sit that tired fat stuff down

AmazonRed™

March 26th, 2010
3:29 pm

Now when Carlito first got on here yall told him to loosen up and get out of Mayberry. Now that he has yall don’t like it. Typical. Let that man eat panty juice if he wants to. LMAO!!!!

LMAO!!! We got him dating again, posting his email, telling us of his exploits…

We’re a powerful group!!!

Melo

March 26th, 2010
3:29 pm

Melo, I call that “railing” when you pull her panties to the side and go right on in

@Carlito??
especially if she has visited ur crib,and its proly for the first time,has no other change clothes or panties……just let the panties on,on one leg and u slip urs in ..that makes the panty all soaked up wet….as it dangles in between ur wang,the nana and the other legg.

when its all over,all she has to do now is take it all off,wash it and hang it smewhere in the bathroom and then shes commando fo a time.

U know u be scoring more enchores,untill that lil sucker dries up and as long as shes in ur house!! :lol: :lol:

Carlito

March 26th, 2010
3:29 pm

Dig That, thank you :) I am not pushing up on anyone. Just speaking about a few things. LOL

Leggs

March 26th, 2010
3:30 pm

OMG, I just had the biggest laugh to date. LURKER you are a bonafide fool….I am literally laughing standing up.

Raqi

March 26th, 2010
3:30 pm

Carlito, you are fine. LOL There is a way to say things but not say it. :wink: