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Need better matches?

After enduring some dating disaster or meeting a host of strange creatures, single people have to get proactive.  We can’t sit by and continue to let bad dates happen to us!  The thing is, it’s not necessarily difficult to attract people to you.

I could probably write a book about how to meet men who are handsome but know it and are arrogant.  I could teach a course on dating men who want all the perks of relationships and marriage but mention the big M word? They disappear faster than Tiger Wood’s sponsors.

The big question is: How do you attract the right people to you? The people you actually want to date past two weeks. The people that want what you want, when you want it.  Impossible? I don’t think so. Challenging? Definitely!

What are ways we can improve our chances of getting better matches?  If you aren’t online dating, you have to meet people more organically.   Is it possible to meet “The One” in a bar?

When you think about your last great date that developed into something substantial, where did you meet? Do you believe that the way you met and how you met made a real difference?

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Professor

March 24th, 2010
2:00 pm

“bacon covered twinkies”

funny as hell! :grin:

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:01 pm

i knew kim was going to get dumped….ray j burned his smut out skills into every dudes head…thats sad…i would date here i would upgrade that chick and stick some game in her mouth…reggie used her up and now he done…noticed he NEVER wanted to be photo’d wit the chick he just wanted to smut her out – he did..on to the next one

i might have to hit her on facebook…lol

PrincessNIk

March 24th, 2010
2:04 pm

Rell u right reggie was just enjoying that “i’m newly famous lemme see what i can tap mentality”. And he probably wanted no part of “keepin up with the Kardashians”

Cemeeli

March 24th, 2010
2:05 pm

Melo – You know folks in the hood have cars right?

lol hehehehe

aww man, this blog is funny.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR FLAT SHOALS PUBLIX

March 24th, 2010
2:06 pm

Rell – Nah dude was digging her until her fam was on him cause Chloe got married.. Thenwhen she jumped her hot a$$ up there after the superbowl, I knew it wouldnt be long before she was outta there. She couldnt even let the dude have his moment and the look on his face told it all. Im gonna 86 this beyotch… :-(

Dan

March 24th, 2010
2:06 pm

@Cee

That’s how you know he lying, dude admitted to crimes…..

These children these days..

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR FLAT SHOALS PUBLIX

March 24th, 2010
2:09 pm

I couldnt deal with any of the Kardashians chicks cause their Mom would get on my Fcukin nerves and although Im a Gentleman I might tell her “Hellutalmbout” one day..

Dan

March 24th, 2010
2:10 pm

@Dk

The SB moment was the beginning of the “taps” revelie for that relationship. I still think she stays “on the team” though.

@PK

Reggie Bush went to USC…he played football….he was a star on the field….

Hes had waaaay more than most men in a lifetime and likely better than RayJ’s jumpoff.

jussayin, the man wasn’t at her (twas the other way ’round)

SexyCool - Project170 in full effect!

March 24th, 2010
2:11 pm

I think it’s interesting that KimK became famuous for there being a video of the same *activity* that Superhead told about in her book. (Not to mention she stole from RayJ and Brandy’s mom using that credit card.) And what does she get – a reality tv show and endorsement deals.

Ummmkay…yeah…

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:12 pm

@dk..yea she killed herself at the superbowl…and lamar is a weenie arse dude for marrying that dude after a month…i mean how stooopid can you be..that man must have a phire head came cause i could not do it…they look good with makeup on..i wonder what she looks like in the am…i know plenty of sisters that look real good in the morning..specailly with morning erection in there mouf..lol

Carlito

March 24th, 2010
2:12 pm

Two more left in the six-pack, once I finish I think I’m going to go out and wash the truck and car. Its nice out :)

Cemeeli

March 24th, 2010
2:13 pm

@ Dan – What chu tombout? Admitted to crime?

He know who he was talkin too (they (the girls) yes girls… stopped and holla’d at a “familiarity”)…and so did i. …had to be there.

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:13 pm

@sc..i love me some superhead..she has hustle she a real bench…and she has olympic head skills!

Melo

March 24th, 2010
2:13 pm

Kim Kardashian??

gotta give gerl mad props for her phat juicy Azz tho!

She sure is rocking some platinum ones..going head to toe with JHo…I wldnt mind coping a feel just to see how soft that Azz is!

Ray J is some big package dynamite..im sure so is Reggie…that gerl been wrking with some big plumbing rigs!

Leggs

March 24th, 2010
2:14 pm

@Rell ~ I enjoyed reading that and I agree with it!

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:15 pm

Ray J is some big package dynamite..im sure so is Reggie…that gerl been wrking with some big plumbing rigs!

- dude that was very giegh of you to mention that…straight moist

PrincessNIk

March 24th, 2010
2:15 pm

Dan i never said he was at her LOL, in fact i should hope not and i know his background (USC etc….)

Melo

March 24th, 2010
2:17 pm

Rell?

Ray J got how many sex tapes on the internet??

Professor

March 24th, 2010
2:17 pm

Carlito~I will bring you a new six pack if you hook my tires up! :grin: j/k

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:18 pm

@melo…you moist…i am amazed you can type and fondle dycks..lol..your a moist booty dude…lmao

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2010
2:19 pm

You see how many endorsements Lamar Odom has gotten since he married a Kardashian? Samsung, Taco Bell…I see him everywhere now.

And I thought the Championship ring would have been enough… we all know the real money comes from the endorsements and he was never getting out from Kobe’s shadow.

I understand the move now, cuz I didn’t get it at first!!!

Professor

March 24th, 2010
2:19 pm

…stepping out!

I am feeling lucky I am headed out for an ice cream and some scratch offs

PrincessNIk

March 24th, 2010
2:19 pm

The SB moment was the beginning of the “taps” revelie for that relationship

Also Dan they had already “taken a break” prior to the superbowl, they had just really got back together, you know that man’s mamma probably was like you need a “respectable wife” and she aint it :lol:

SexyCool - Project170 in full effect!

March 24th, 2010
2:20 pm

kinderbabe--39 days to liberation and counting!!!

March 24th, 2010
2:21 pm

we had a fire drill and had to go outside….i damned near had an allergy attack! forgot to take my claritin this morning. gosh darnit!! LOL that will be the first thing i do when i get home.

Melo

March 24th, 2010
2:21 pm

am amazed you can type and fondle dycks..lol..
fondle??

u funny urself man!

:lol: :lol:

Carlito

March 24th, 2010
2:21 pm

Melo, did you just comment on the size of another dudes wang?

PrincessNIk

March 24th, 2010
2:22 pm

@ A Red, your 2:19

One thing about the Mom she goes hard for them girls, (too hard if you ask me) did you know she has Kourtney’s “baby daddy” working for the weight loss people Kim and Khloe are in that commercial for, so i’m sure she probably worked some of that stuff for Lamar, cause her girls gotta eat

LMAO :)

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:22 pm

You see how many endorsements Lamar Odom has gotten since he married a Kardashian? Samsung, Taco Bell…I see him everywhere now

- true

Cemeeli

March 24th, 2010
2:23 pm

I might tell her “Hellutalmbout” one day..

hehehehe…Lord help us.

DreamsMaterialize

March 24th, 2010
2:23 pm

I understand the move now, cuz I didn’t get it at first!!!
Maybe I need a “sponsor” to improve my brand recognition. Looks like lots of dudes are going that way these days. lol

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR FLAT SHOALS PUBLIX

March 24th, 2010
2:24 pm

melo – Yeah man talkin bout another dudes schlong is not the move.

Melo

March 24th, 2010
2:25 pm

Melo, did you just comment on the size of another dudes wang?

yes!

Its taboo??

Kym-Today's lucky number is 1, 099..I stand corrected.

March 24th, 2010
2:26 pm

How ya’ll go from relationships and rainy weather..to Kim K and Reggie Bush? I am just really glad to know the boy was not stupid enough to marry her.

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:27 pm

Its taboo??- it must be the african in you…cause if you pull that ish in the mens room you might get knocked d a f u ck out debo style with smoking standing over you saying–dayuuuuuuuuuum you just got knock da f u ck out!!!!!

PrincessNIk

March 24th, 2010
2:27 pm

Maybe I need a “sponsor” to improve my brand recognition

DreamsM nah you cool, we don’t want the blog bar to get crowded ;)

SexyCool - Project170 in full effect!

March 24th, 2010
2:27 pm

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2010
2:29 pm

I am just really glad to know the boy was not stupid enough to marry her.

One of my friends in PR says they break up is just a stunt. The cameras caught “the break up.”

I hope Reggie isn’t as henpecked as Bruce Jenner and the other guys who ended up with a Kardashian. :(

Melo

March 24th, 2010
2:29 pm

DK..It aint in ur afr/american culture..not taboo in my african culture…

PrincessNIk

March 24th, 2010
2:29 pm

SexyC, she looks a bit haggish minus the makeup

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2010
2:30 pm

I don’t wear make up for a couple of reasons but the main one is that I want you to know what you’re getting upfront! :lol:

Dan

March 24th, 2010
2:30 pm

Mayne…I been saying that isht for a while dude….

Once, and you’re told, you don’t know no better,
Twice, and you might be ghey,

Melo crossed twice about a year ago….

just leave it be

Dan

March 24th, 2010
2:31 pm

@SC

Still carrying that cooler, still got that rack, that’s BBQ all day – make up or not.

Rell unplugged

March 24th, 2010
2:32 pm

AmazonRed™

March 24th, 2010
2:32 pm

Y’all leave melo alone. Y’all know he’s special different. :lol:

Kym-Today's lucky number is 1, 099..I stand corrected.

March 24th, 2010
2:32 pm

@AmazonR..I honestly don’t know what Lamar was thinking..I mean..well every man for himself..but errr..nevermind.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR FLAT SHOALS PUBLIX

March 24th, 2010
2:32 pm

Melo – Taboo?? Nah dude its just a little Elton John-ish or Rupaul-ish. Straight homo.. If big wangs is your thang and all..

Melo

March 24th, 2010
2:32 pm

pull that ish in the mens room you might get knocked d a f u ck out

@Rell??

why wld I even say sme like that to a stranger??

talking on the internet aint the same as talking to some stranger in person,like Senator Craig or that Republican guy..

I shld invite u to our soccer games on sundays so u get a feel of african culture and boyz smack talk a lil bit….

SexyCool - Project170 in full effect!

March 24th, 2010
2:33 pm

Proof that some dudes will stick their schlong in anything.

JtJ

March 24th, 2010
2:34 pm

Afternoon All, Spring brings new romances and new flings….I am happy for a friend of mine who has allowed Spring to open her to new possibilities

@ Cee/ Princess- That P90X ain’t no joke!!!Lol…i will still with my treadmill and handweights for now! Check out the Fitness network, they also have some good cardio shows around 7:30PM.