Single again
One of the trickiest things to deal with post-break up is “reclaiming yourself” so to speak. For example, you rediscover your friends. I’m talking the great ones that don’t hold grudges because you all but disappear from the land of the living with your boo. You get back to doing the things that only you enjoy doing — out in the open, without fear of getting strange looks from your significant other.
You will also have to adjust to sleeping alone again, cooking for one, and having to find a “plus one” for parties. Sounds slightly depressing, doesn’t it? Whether you were the dumper or dumpee, you are probably dealing with some kind of emotion. Guys, you can call it something else, if you want to, but you go through “something” too!
What are the best ways to deal with break-ups? I am referring to the bad breakups that make you feel as if you’ve gone a couple of rounds with Pacquiao – except you actually landed tough punches.
How do you adjust to life after <insert wonderful/horrible ex-mate’s name here>? Does it help when you are able to forge a friendship with the person? Is that even a good idea?
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539 comments Add your comment
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
4:51 pm
Leggs, I just need a little clarity.
I am going to be like “I thought you just didn’t want me to when you are in town”
DreamsMaterialize
March 22nd, 2010
4:51 pm
other than flexibility and I assume a guy can get that anywhere.
Not anywhere. This is not as abundant as you might think, but it is appreciated. lol
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
4:53 pm
AmazonRed, no need to explain it. Just be happy
Leggs, 5 years old? Is it sealed up in a glass jar?
Professor, what do I have to do with Green Eyes? LOL
LURKER
March 22nd, 2010
4:55 pm
@AmazonRed……I bet you bend it like Becham don’t ya!
@Professor… I knowest not of Lord V. but you can call me LURKER in da mist of heated passion!!!! YEAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!! I will bring and apple to class!!!!!
@Greeneyes….Sounds like a playa… She date several men in the past 2yrs!!!!! Play on playa!
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
4:55 pm
DreamMaterialize, you can see a woman dance flexing all over the place, get her home. Stiff, her cavern is shallow, but yet she thinks her stuff is the bomb. All of that fineness gone to waste.
Grace
March 22nd, 2010
4:55 pm
I’m VERY happy
Melo
March 22nd, 2010
4:56 pm
Prof ..u good at match making??
good nite folks!
(i think im getting some tonite)
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
4:56 pm
I am flying home this weekend.
Leggs
March 22nd, 2010
4:56 pm
@Carlito ~ ci vediamo domani {{{muah}}}
It’s better to lose a LOVER than to love a LOSER ~ (Gorgeous Green Eyes)
Good night everyone!
LL411
March 22nd, 2010
4:57 pm
@ Raqi….That is probably because those women will let a man run anything up in there from a finger tip to a oldsmobile on the regular.
WOW, Just WOW! I’m sitting here sniggling
AmazonRed™
March 22nd, 2010
4:58 pm
AmazonRed, no need to explain it. Just be happy
Okay…I just wish I knew what I was doing!
AmazonRed™
March 22nd, 2010
4:59 pm
@AmazonRed……I bet you bend it like Becham don’t ya!
I’m not sharing again for another 6 months.
LURKER
March 22nd, 2010
4:59 pm
@DreamsM…… I concur it …..Flexibility is really appreciated in this camp because I plan on testing that flexibility!
@That is why some of those SlimGems are so deep they have some good flexibility!!1
Ummmmm Slimone is not the Nasty Heffy on here she is one of the stars….Slim whenever you ready let me know I luv deep sea drilling…….
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:00 pm
Leggs, So esattamente cosa intendi (wink)
Leggs
March 22nd, 2010
5:00 pm
@LL411 ~ when Raqi posted that about the oldsmobile, I immediately thought of Jayne Kennedy and her then husband’s sex tape. That was off da chain. He put his fist up to his elbow in her. I nearly fainted watching it. Oh My Goodness!
I am whatever you say I am
March 22nd, 2010
5:02 pm
I’m at a loss of words…..
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:03 pm
Some women like fist, kind of sticky upon exit though. Just have her help you lick your fingers clean.
1 finger, then two, then four, add the thumb then slowly make a fist. Everything will return back to form in a day or two.
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:04 pm
Pee’d on or a Fist, that is the question. Goodnight All
SexyCool...
March 22nd, 2010
5:06 pm
Leggs – Jayne Kennedy sex tape?!?!? WHATDAHELL?!?!?
Leggs
March 22nd, 2010
5:08 pm
I know, I know, many many moons ago, but I never forgot it. They were going at it non-stop!!!! When he put that fist in there, I had to look w/one eye open.
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:11 pm
Leggs, I remember that tape. That guy was having “issues” with performing. He did try and pull her ovaries out with his hand though
LURKER
March 22nd, 2010
5:12 pm
Look at I am playing innocent right now, knowing she thinking where can I get some dizzle from this week!!!!! YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!
@Sexycool the talk of the Jayne Kennedy tape wakes you up huh!!!! Hummmmmmm!!!!
@Leggs…..I am keeping my blog eyes open about you I did not know you like porn……You have moved up to a 7.5 looking good Leggs…..
I see you like the endulged with the happy stick too huh…… That’s what I’m talking about!
SexyCool...
March 22nd, 2010
5:14 pm
I am NOT going to google *Jayne Kennedy sex tape.* I’m not. I’m not. I’m not.
AmazonRed™
March 22nd, 2010
5:15 pm
Lurker – I already have a regular source of vitamin D. Thank you.
And y’all nasty! Good night!
Leggs
March 22nd, 2010
5:17 pm
@LURKER ~ don’t even want to know what number I started out. I’m no prude! I can handle my own when I need to handle my own, and for the record, I’m still very flexible….
i'm swiss
March 22nd, 2010
5:18 pm
Raqi —
Yeah, thanks for the anatomy lesson — but I did actually know that babies don’t stretch the back door. 
I just referenced that to note that stretched muscles won’t necessarily revert back to their original tightness, as long as they are stretched regularly… 
@Carlito — RE: 3 streams — Ain’t that a bytch?!? And women wonder why we can’t help but P all over the bowl sometimes. It’s not as easy as it looks, ladies…
Lord Velonese
March 22nd, 2010
5:18 pm
Lurker seems to nice to be me. And usually in the mornings I’m asleep, because I work 3rd shift.
Three words daily – Kiss my …!
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:18 pm
Sexy Cool, do not look here:
http://www.naughty.com/news/Jayne_Kennedy/
Leggs
March 22nd, 2010
5:18 pm
Google it, SexyC…google it!
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:19 pm
I’m Swiss, it always happens after sex for me. WHOA, NELLY!!! LOL
Leggs, Leggs, Leggs.
SexyCool...
March 22nd, 2010
5:20 pm
I’m not gone click on that link. I’m not. I’m not. I’m not.
Leggs
March 22nd, 2010
5:21 pm
Don’t get me wrong, I can’t bend like ARed. Bones aren’t as firm as hers!
, I might break something at this juncture!
i'm swiss
March 22nd, 2010
5:22 pm
@Carlito — Same here… I guess a little goo stays stuck in there & you get the wild streams. Sort of like the way lime buildup will make your shower head go all c0ck-eyed…
Leggs
March 22nd, 2010
5:22 pm
Awww SexyC ~ life is short, click it, click it, click it!
Gorgeous Green Eyes
March 22nd, 2010
5:22 pm
Hi Melo and Everyone on here….yes I love being a player and totally let the young ones come to me….Cougar is a predator …I am more like a Kitty Kat…hmmmmm. And my most recent LOVER was tapping the U know what AND he will remain a very VERY special friend…..He is most useful with the profession that he is in AND he is 21 years younger than me…….YES. AND gorgeous!!!! Bye Ya’ll
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:25 pm
I’m Swiss, that very well may be the cause. I dont know which stream to aim at the toilet. Just have to clean the toilet and mop the floor. Or just put a death grip on it and then kneel on one knee and get a close shot.
Leggs, I am sure you are just fine. MmmHmmm, where were you a few months ago..LOL
SexyCool , click the link. Just Do It
i'm swiss
March 22nd, 2010
5:27 pm
@Carlito — See… that’s why you should just P on your woman…
(Kidding, ladies, kidding)
LURKER
March 22nd, 2010
5:28 pm
Dang-it….. I knew it, Gorgeous Green Eyes is a playa…..Go head on you puma! You like pipe with a strong tensile strength Green eyes!
@Leggs…..After we smoke a few your flexibility will come back to ya right away! You will feel anything!
@Lord V…..Right on time.. Spitting the usually… Now if BMW and Sybil can do a guest apprearance then all the gang would have checked in!
Three daily words…….A WET DEEP CAVERN IS GOOD TO BONE!
YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Carlito
March 22nd, 2010
5:34 pm
I’m Swiss, maybe in the shower.