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One of the trickiest things to deal with post-break up is “reclaiming yourself” so to speak.  For example, you rediscover your friends.  I’m talking the great ones that don’t hold grudges because you all but disappear from the land of the living with your boo.  You get back to doing the things that only you enjoy doing — out in the open, without fear of getting strange looks from your significant other.

You will also have to adjust to sleeping alone again, cooking for one, and having to find a “plus one” for parties.  Sounds slightly depressing, doesn’t it?  Whether you were the dumper or dumpee, you are probably dealing with some kind of emotion. Guys, you can call it something else, if you want to, but you go through “something” too!

What are the best ways to deal with break-ups?  I am referring to the bad breakups that make you feel as if you’ve gone a couple of rounds with Pacquiao – except you actually landed tough punches.

How do you adjust to life after <insert wonderful/horrible ex-mate’s name here>?  Does it help when you are able to forge a friendship with the person? Is that even a good idea?

Your turn: What is the best way to handle a break up?

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AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:21 pm

But I had a very athlete slimone and she was very, very deep and enjoyed getting all the time!
YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:)

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:22 pm

Hello Raqi, and your three kids. With your “keep him happy” you got down there between your legs. :)

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:22 pm

@Carlito ~ that thought wasn’t random….women say it quite a bit all the while not missing a beat while saying it.

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:22 pm

It’s all fun and games until your current is someone’s peed on ex.

Seriously, go away.

“You’ll shoot your eye out!” :lol:

i'm swiss

March 22nd, 2010
4:23 pm

“…those muscles by nature goes back to the original state…”

And then, of course, there are those chicks you see on the internet (allegedly) who have gaping, baseball-bat sized caverns where their sphincters used to be… :shock:

LURKER

March 22nd, 2010
4:24 pm

Oh, let me add Sexycool and Sassy as women who are thick but equally up to the task of handling Magnum P.I. Their sign read Magum only apply here! :lol: :lol:

I don’t need to say anything about Raqi…..She has already spoken!

Golden Showers….Ummmm I see Leggs giving Carlito a lot of feedback ummmmmmmm….. :smile:

Raqi

March 22nd, 2010
4:24 pm

The average woman canal is about 5-6 inches. Some lengthen with arousal. So the average man will hit or at least tap the cervix. So don’t get all beside yourselves “big boys”. LOL

Adam C.

March 22nd, 2010
4:24 pm

Being single is a blessing. To answer the question “How do you adjust to life after ? Does it help when you are able to forge a friendship with the person? Is that even a good idea?”, thats up to the ex couple in question. I would generally think that it might take some time for friendship to arise, but for me it’s been hit and miss. I adjusted just fine, of course after some down time, its been almost four years since I’ve been in a relationship and I love it. If it happens again it happens but I’m honestly not going to go out of my way again thats for sure, lifes too short to mope.

SexyCool...

March 22nd, 2010
4:25 pm

Thick? Who me? Maybe the 1990 definition of thick…LOL!

LURKER

March 22nd, 2010
4:26 pm

Oops that was soppose to be atheletic slimone….. Now this one possess all the skills. Plus she wanted to moved in, bring in another woman, she was trying to turn me out! YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! :

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:27 pm

Leggs, If only I had met you a few months ago :) Italian Stallion. LOL

AmazonRed, how many people are going to ask their SO “You ever been pee’d on?
or atleast think it. :)

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:28 pm

Melo

March 22nd, 2010
4:28 pm

It’s all fun and games until your current is someone’s peed on ex.

:roll:

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:28 pm

AmazonRed, how many people are going to ask their SO “You ever been pee’d on?

I might have asked that already. :lol:

Raqi

March 22nd, 2010
4:29 pm

Gouda, that is not from having babies. That is probably because those women will let a man run anything up in there from a finger tip to a oldsmobile on the regular. Yeah if she is into fisting having a fist up in there every night and twice on Sunday will probably stretch it out.

But seriously having a baby or two will not do that. Especially if the kids are 3 years or so apart. My doc says it take the average woman about a year for her body to completely return to prebirth state. That includs womb, cervix, muscles and hormones. At 3 months the canal should be feeling like it felt prior to baby. 6 months at the least.

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:29 pm

@LURKER ~ you seem to always stop by in the evening once school gets out? What do you do in the morning. Look at me all up in your koolaid. Anywho, you sound like another blogger, Lord V. Is you him?

SlimOne on autopilot

March 22nd, 2010
4:29 pm

“listed in the National Geographic books as SlimoneCaverness cave”

Yeah, now that you mention it, i’m the hidden wonder of the world.. :mrgreen: But seriously, it’s just phat…the depthness of it is totally dependant upon the type of pipe being used. ;-)

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:30 pm

I’m Swiss, sometimes you can put your whole balled up fist in there.

Raqi, let us have our moment. LOL

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:30 pm

the depthness of it is totally dependant upon the type of pipe being used.

:idea:

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:33 pm

Raqi, be proud of your goodstuff :) there is no science behind it. Some women just have good “poo cee”. And ladies you can not determine yourself that your “poo cee” is good, but you can confirm if it tastes good. :)

SlimOne, you are funny. LOL

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:33 pm

drip drip drip

Grace

March 22nd, 2010
4:34 pm

into fisting having a fist up in there every night and twice on Sunday will probably stretch it out. :shock:

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:34 pm

Fellas, before I left the house this morning I was Johnny 3 streams. What is the scientific explanation for that?

Melo

March 22nd, 2010
4:36 pm

So the average man will hit or at least tap the cervix

Raqi!!

whenever u hear a woman moan,ughhh,approvingly, :lol: each time u hit the wave as u digg in deep,u know,shes feeling u deep down in there,it dont matter how deep! :lol: :lol:

SexyCool...

March 22nd, 2010
4:37 pm

We continually prove that no topic will be passed over. EVER!

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:37 pm

Some women just have good “poo cee”. And ladies you can not determine yourself that your “poo cee” is good,

There are a couple of clues that give us an idea.

Cuz trust…nothing I do is spectacular, but I can’t get rid of them. I can’t even say I’ve had a one night stand, even if I was cool with never seeing that person again, he tracks me down. ;)

DreamsMaterialize

March 22nd, 2010
4:38 pm

But seriously, it’s just phat…the depthness of it is totally dependant upon the type of pipe being used.
Did someone call a spelunker? Reporting for duty.

Professor

March 22nd, 2010
4:38 pm

@Leggs I think he is Lord V.

LURKER comeback and get this ID theft moniker right. :cool:

Gorgeous Green Eyes

March 22nd, 2010
4:38 pm

Since I married the last guy TWICE, I decided to take a short break but it didn’t last long…..Because the marriage had been dead for 3 years prior to us separating and getting divorced. I cannot & will not be friends with him because he turned out to be a LEECH and a pothead.
It’s better to lose a LOVER than to love a LOSER. I have met many wonderful men over the last 2 years and would not TRADE any of them for my ex-husband. One of the guys was my high school sweetheart/first love but that didn’t work out this time around(:( This past Saturday went to the Thrashers game with a very special and intelligent guy whom I def will see again! :) and ALL MEN ARE ANIMALS SOME JUST MAKE BETTER PETS!!!!!

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:40 pm

AmazonRed, I am sure your exploits are G-14 classified, as they should be.

Melo, its a great feeling when you know you are exploring new depths. You can just feel the new lands open around you as you apply pressure.

Did, I mention I had a great weekend. :)

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:40 pm

:lol: @ Green Eyes.

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:42 pm

AmazonRed, I am sure your exploits are G-14 classified, as they should be.

Carlito – I will totally cop to being a lazy lay. I really don’t think I bring anything spectacular to bedroom gymnastics, other than flexibility and I assume a guy can get that anywhere.

See, we women can fess up to stuff. ;)

Melo

March 22nd, 2010
4:42 pm

ALL MEN ARE ANIMALS SOME JUST MAKE BETTER PETS!!!!!

u can tell she got cougar qualities! :lol:

hey Gorgeous Green!

Professor

March 22nd, 2010
4:43 pm

ALL MEN ARE ANIMALS SOME JUST MAKE BETTER PETS!!!!!

DUH :mrgreen:

Hey Green Eyes, and welcome back!

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:43 pm

Gorgeous Green Eyes, what does pot have to do with it? Smoke it if you got it. (This is going to be harder than I thought)

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:45 pm

@Carlito ~ I have one that I’ve been holding on to for the past 5 years…you want it?

LURKER

March 22nd, 2010
4:46 pm

@Leggs……Call me Lord of the evening blogger… I try to get the work done early some I can post some craziness later in the evening!

@Dammmm now AmazonRed…..is Showing modesty…Cali women are the creators of PSH, plus you probable scream, cuss and will squeeze the sh!t out of a dizzle.. You believe like Sexycool get every drop of dat dizzle cum….. That is why they come back for more….So quit being modest!! :wink: You da izzle for shizzle…… :smile:

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:46 pm

LURKER is like the Phantom at the Opera. Where he go?

Melo

March 22nd, 2010
4:46 pm

Melo, its a great feeling when you know you are exploring new depths

the worst feeling is to come prematurely when u know,u landing on good juicy stuff.

The best feling is to hear her shriek and moan and hold u in a tight grip as if for dear lyfe,when u nutt inside her! :lol:

Did, I mention I had a great weekend

I can tell!

Thank Professor for that coup.

Atlanta women got it!

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:47 pm

WOW, this blog machine is funny.

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:47 pm

AmazonRed, some are just built well on the inside. And flexibility is not always an easy fine. I am sure diet and daily lifestyle has an effect on the “feeling” I once dated a vegetarian, hers just felt great. Also my currents hobby is training and riding horses and I am sure that has something to do with her natural motions in the bedroom, that woman can work wonders with her hips. At this point I know I am not giving her the address to this blog. :)

Nasty Heffa Alert

March 22nd, 2010
4:49 pm

Slim One You Win the The Nasty Heffa Award!

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:49 pm

@Dammmm now AmazonRed…..is Showing modesty

Well ain’t that a biyatch. I share one of my “flaws” and folks just think I’m being modest.

I just can’t win on here. ;)

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:49 pm

Get you a woman form the mid-west. An area of the country with 8 months of winter. There is nothing to do when you are snowed in but hone your skills.

Leggs, you have one of what you have been holding onto for 5 years?

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:49 pm

Too funny, I had no doubt you would probably change your mind, Carlito!

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:50 pm

@Carlito ~ yep!

Carlito

March 22nd, 2010
4:50 pm

Just because it is wet, does not make it good.

Professor

March 22nd, 2010
4:50 pm

Green eyes since things are working out well for Carlito the board decided that you are free to chat with melo to see if you two are a match. Do you like pubs?

AmazonRed™

March 22nd, 2010
4:51 pm

that woman can work wonders with her hips.

Now…I have heard that I was good at that…but I’m not sure I believe it.

Leggs

March 22nd, 2010
4:51 pm

Sorry, reading is fundamental….one of the green thingamajigs rolled up.