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Do dating leagues exist?

I saw the trailer for the film, She’s Out of My League, yesterday and I wondered if “dating league” was making a come back in our dating lexicon.  I hadn’t used the term in ages because I think a lot of single people have become slightly narcissistic enough to think we can date pretty much anyone we want!
Do you think we have huge egos and believe there is no such thing as “in the same league” in terms of who is within our reach?
Have you ever been apprehensive about seeing someone because you thought they were out of your league or vice versa?
If we actually buy in to the theory of dating leagues, what kind of things would  put someone out of your league, so to speak?
How would one really determine the type of person we “deserve” to date?

369 comments Add your comment

lurker

March 15th, 2010
4:18 pm

and viturally, Melo

lurker

March 15th, 2010
4:18 pm

He just strikes as one of those dudes that will drag behind anything…ugh

Melo

March 15th, 2010
4:20 pm

lurker??

Steffans is best known for her numerous affairs with rappers and actors. She detailed it all in her book =$5.00

:lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™

March 15th, 2010
4:20 pm

mqew

March 15th, 2010
4:21 pm

So Eddie Winslow? I thought it was the Irkurl guy….

Eiljah

March 15th, 2010
4:21 pm

DreamsM……A excellent comment, I was having this conversation this weekend regarding pedigree.

I stated your pedigree has been dictated by someone else’s opinion because our history is from slavery. Men and women need to really think about what exactly they are looking in a potential mate for a relationship! We have so many relationships that have failed that were based on money and looks.

Leggs

March 15th, 2010
4:24 pm

@ARed ~ never heard of anal beads until I came onto this blog in 2006.

Melo

March 15th, 2010
4:27 pm

Ared/Leggs??

The Darius guy is very brave! :lol:

he didnt mind the back of head falling off!

Leggs

March 15th, 2010
4:39 pm

I see everyone has scurried back to their corners? Too funny!

DreamsMaterialize

March 15th, 2010
4:43 pm

Elijah I agree. Seems as though we’re always measuring ourselves agains another’s standard, but then we’re shocked and amazed when we don’t “measure up”.

BlackMagicWoman

March 15th, 2010
4:45 pm

Lurker don’t make me put a spell on you! :evil:

KP (http://www.chatkafeonline.com)

March 15th, 2010
4:45 pm

@For Real…What’s Up!!!

Melo

March 15th, 2010
4:45 pm

Leggs??

I think everybody is kinda scared and reviewing their situation in view of superhead’s!

Leggs

March 15th, 2010
4:49 pm

Naw, I know why they all ran back to lurksville.

LURKER

March 15th, 2010
4:51 pm

@BlackmagicWoman……..I am waiting, I want you to put it on me! Sixpack at your service! :smile: :wink:

Superhead will do what it takes to pleae her man, then she will go out and tell the world!

SexyCool is like that but with telling the world!

That is all!

Leggs

March 15th, 2010
4:55 pm

Don’t put a question mark where God has placed a period!!

Nite nite!

BlackMagicWoman

March 15th, 2010
4:58 pm

Lurker…hopefully not a 6 pack of beer. Men with pregnant guts are so nasty! YUCK! :lol:

LURKER

March 15th, 2010
5:17 pm

@BlackMagicWoman…..Naw I’m talking stomach sixpac, plus characteristics you would enjoy! :wink: :smile:

Roy Sheppard

March 16th, 2010
8:39 am

fascinating posts on this. We’re probably taking about the ‘look league’ – why does a hot woman want to be with a wimpy guy – it could be really simple – he treats her well and with respect. Heard a story recenty of a male model here in the UK who was always dating stunning women, until one day he met and fell in love with an older woman (of 7 years) who wasn’t tall and slim. they are now married. It does happen :-) Looks really aren’t that important for anyone who has the sense to see past that. It’s all about that combination of friendship, passion and commitment. looks become irrelevant if you want a REAL relationship rather than someone to ’show off’ to your friends!

I’m particularly interested all this because I’ve been writing a book called “How to be The One” – there’s a no sign up download of the first chapter for anyone who wants it at http://www.BeTheOneBook.com. I’d love to hear what anybody thinks.