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Do dating leagues exist?

I saw the trailer for the film, She’s Out of My League, yesterday and I wondered if “dating league” was making a come back in our dating lexicon.  I hadn’t used the term in ages because I think a lot of single people have become slightly narcissistic enough to think we can date pretty much anyone we want!
Do you think we have huge egos and believe there is no such thing as “in the same league” in terms of who is within our reach?
Have you ever been apprehensive about seeing someone because you thought they were out of your league or vice versa?
If we actually buy in to the theory of dating leagues, what kind of things would  put someone out of your league, so to speak?
How would one really determine the type of person we “deserve” to date?

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who...me?

March 15th, 2010
3:31 pm

@ Raqi

Do churches pay property taxes? I thought all this was tax free… hmmm.. maybe thats just on the federal level.

Either way, when I grew up, the minister had TWO jobs just like everyone else in the place. He did not get paid what so ever and to anyone that uses the ‘well the church is so big it takes up all his time…..’ line, thats BS. Most times the ministers/preachers are so dang on power hungry that they’re not willing to share the pulpit (= power). If they did, they’d have time to go get a job like everyone else. They got you fooled. Religion & God is free, church is not! If you get rid of the church, you still have religion & God.

Most of you people have been scammed into believing they go hand in hand. How about folks really open their heart and congregate in each other’s homes, yards, parks etc for FREE and so everyone can PRESERVE their own wealth?

Melo

March 15th, 2010
3:32 pm

That study only sampled the folks(black women) in hood Compton california, I think!

DreamsMaterialize

March 15th, 2010
3:33 pm

I don’t need to wait for the Creator to deal with them for their misuse.

AmazonRed™

March 15th, 2010
3:33 pm

Most times the ministers/preachers are so dang on power hungry that they’re not willing to share the pulpit (= power).

Most?

You folks have been watching way too much TV. :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA RUDE BOI

March 15th, 2010
3:33 pm

Kimmie – That cause she was a Flake like Corn and I was born not to understand by letting her pass I had proved to be a better man

AmazonRed™

March 15th, 2010
3:34 pm

That study only sampled the folks(black women) in hood Compton california, I think!

:roll:

I am whatever you say I am

March 15th, 2010
3:37 pm

New Topic:

I can’t believe I didn’t listen to myself when self said: “Look, print out your State tax return before your computer crashes”

So here I am with crashed comp and all my stuff GONE!!!!! :mad:

I am whatever you say I am

March 15th, 2010
3:37 pm

at least I got my federal refund already :-D

Melo

March 15th, 2010
3:38 pm

who…me?

u right about that observation on power..they dont want to give space to to eths to preach..power hungry…

they act like frank ski who dont like Wanda near that mike in the morn :lol: (i like him tho,regardless)

who...me?

March 15th, 2010
3:38 pm

@ Raqi

Do churches pay property taxes? I thought all this was tax free… hmmm.. maybe thats just on the federal level.

Either way, when I grew up, the minister had TWO jobs just like everyone else in the place. He did not get paid what so ever and to anyone that uses the ‘well the church is so big it takes up all his time…..’ line, thats BS. Most times the ministers/preachers are so dang on power hungry that they’re not willing to share the pulpit (= power). If they did, they’d have time to go get a job like everyone else. They got you fooled. Religion & God is free, church is not! If you get rid of the church, you still have religion & God.

Most of you people have been scammed into believing they go hand in hand. How about folks really open their heart and congregate in each other’s homes, yards, parks etc for FREE and so everyone can PRESERVE their own wealth?

Tazzee - 60 days til Mrs.

March 15th, 2010
3:39 pm

SCool Run was cool – my running partner runs MUCH faster than me, so I might as well have run by myself, LOL. I hope to get another outdoor run in before my 5k this weekend.

Raqi

March 15th, 2010
3:40 pm

who me, so is education so let’s fire all the teachers. Heck let’s close all the hospitals and practice alternative medicines.

who...me?

March 15th, 2010
3:42 pm

whoops, sorry for the double post, I caught that computer virus I am is passing around.

@ Raqi

So you agree? Good….

SexyCool - About Bidness

March 15th, 2010
3:43 pm

Let me know – May try to meet you out. Since I’m not quite at 5K distance, I’m sure I would end up trying to keep up with you.

kimmie

March 15th, 2010
3:47 pm

Have any of you seen that show Model City, on the new network Centric? The show follows 5 AA male models that work for RED modeling agency. It’s pretty interesting.

Leggs

March 15th, 2010
3:49 pm

Hey are we still talking church???

I feel bad posting this on the same page as church talk, but Superhead is getting a divorce…who woulda thunk it! :lol: :lol: :lol:

kimmie

March 15th, 2010
3:49 pm

Leggs – Not surprised.

Kym-DIYer in Training

March 15th, 2010
3:50 pm

@Leggs she is divorcing Eddie Winslow?

DreamsMaterialize

March 15th, 2010
3:51 pm

“now there she goes again, the dopest Ethiopian…”
Pharycide is one of the most underrated groups out there.

Kym-DIYer in Training

March 15th, 2010
3:53 pm

Okay I am going home and get my hour of sleep back. Cause this is crazy..I am about to fall asleep sitting while typing.

Melo

March 15th, 2010
3:54 pm

@Kimmie …..Not surprised.

I am surprised she was married!

some guys are truly muckrackers! :lol: :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

March 15th, 2010
3:55 pm

And lets face it, whites have had more generational wealth and money to pass on to their children more than black folks have.
And this is why I’m always confused when certain black folks start talking about “pedigree”. To what pedigree are they referring…who had the shiniest shackles?

AmazonRed™

March 15th, 2010
3:56 pm

I don’t think she ended up marrying Eddie Winslow. I heard he dumped her and she ended up marrying some guy she declined to name.

Leggs – Where is the story?

Kym-DIYer in Training

March 15th, 2010
3:57 pm

@Dreams..normally its based on those who got off the plantation first or pass the paperbag test or can prove they have a direct connection to someone white..like Sally Hemmings kids..but the majority of us are just field hands kids. (Proud of it!!)

Give me my Dayum Hour back (not SlimOne)

March 15th, 2010
3:58 pm

Kym ” I am going home and get my hour of sleep back. Cause this is crazy..I am about to fall asleep sitting while typing”

We were just discussing this at work, which by the way we are ALL bout to fall asleep. Yall be careful driving home today because they say after a time change there are more accidents. It’s amazing what that one hour can do. They say you should go to bed 10 minutes earlier and wake up 10mins earlier for a week before the change. I’m about to get on this cup of joe because clearly I’m not going to make it.

Eiljah

March 15th, 2010
3:59 pm

Good Afternoon Folks!

Connect with GOD and Jehovah will guide your thru what you want to give in time, tithes and your talents!

If you attend church then support it, Just find a church that is doing what you would like to see done with the time, tithes and talent!

@BlackMagic….You doing what GOD is leading you to do, your contributions come from the heart and a cheerful happy giver is all what GOD is asking us to do! Words from the bible are guide and helps you and me to discearn what is good, bad, right and wrong so we can start living the best life we can!

lurker

March 15th, 2010
4:00 pm

I am surprised she was married!

Let me guess Melo, she’s a wh*re and a slut and not worth anything….by your standard…right?

Yeah, I thought so.

Give me my Dayum Hour back (not SlimOne)

March 15th, 2010
4:00 pm

“To what pedigree are they referring…who had the shiniest shackles?”

Dreams :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

March 15th, 2010
4:03 pm

Who Me? I will make sure new comp has anti-virus properly installed before I start looking at explicit sites. :-D

mqew

March 15th, 2010
4:03 pm

And now the world around me begans movin in slow motion
Whenever she happens to walk by…. <——– PHARCYDE WILL NEVA B4GOTTN

Leggs – Now why would that trick, ummm I mean chick, be getting a divorce i wonder?

LURKER

March 15th, 2010
4:04 pm

I want to taste me some blackmagic….I bet that is ummmmmmm uuummm uuuuuum goood! :wink: :wink:

Religion….If you are a follower of that you will be confused about tithing! :smile:

Tmac

March 15th, 2010
4:05 pm

torn between a hot, sexy, damn good looking chick with no education and average looking (presentable) smart girl with career job…who makes decent money (as much if not more)….what to do..

Melo

March 15th, 2010
4:06 pm

Let me guess Melo, she’s a wh*re and a slut and not worth anything….by your standard…right?

lurker???

why do u have to waste ur brain cells guessing when the truth is starring u in the face.

Read her book if u want empirical evidence of who she is…her own mouf narrating her ordeals,giving blow jobs to countelss men..

lurker

March 15th, 2010
4:07 pm

Melo,

Again, she’s a slut by your judgemental standards? You’re a real piece of work.

who...me?

March 15th, 2010
4:08 pm

@ Tmac

Beauty/sexiness is only skin deep…… what truly matters is…who’s better in bed?

AmazonRed™

March 15th, 2010
4:08 pm

torn between a hot, sexy, damn good looking chick with no education and average looking (presentable) smart girl with career job…who makes decent money (as much if not more)….what to do..

:|

kimmie

March 15th, 2010
4:10 pm

Tmac, how about dating someone you’re compatiable with that you love that loves you?

mqew

March 15th, 2010
4:10 pm

…why does the apple of my eye overlook and disregard
and disregard my feelings no matter how much i try..

I am whatever you say I am

March 15th, 2010
4:10 pm

LMAO @ that youtube clip where Karinne Steffens got dumped into a garbage can head first!

For Real

March 15th, 2010
4:11 pm

Lets see what the happs are:

1. $5.00 will get you a long way with Black chicks in Compton
2. Hungry Preachers eat power bars
3. Let me see if I got this right I am, myself and self. Number of claimants on tax form 16.
4. Tazzee’s running partner is fast but it will cost you 5k. For Real going back to Cali.
5. Raqi want to fire all the teachers and smoke weed and Who me.. got five on it!
6. Apparently Scool can’t keep up with Tazzee’s fast ass friend but Scool is not quite 5k.
7. “Have any of you seen that show Model City” – It must be that time of the month for Kimmie.
8. Apparently Leggs church was talking about Superhead last Sunday.
9. Shout out to KP!!!

lurker

March 15th, 2010
4:11 pm

Melo, passing out head jobs like lollipops ain’t something I’d prescribe to and I’m sure the average man would take a pass on settling down with her but you’re such a freaking slut opportunist. I don’t wish anything bad on your baby girls but you REALLY should be careful cause dna passing along to our kids. It seems to me that you’re always looking to carry, participate and up the nasty. I tell you being a slut just don’t wear well on women and I would hope they don’t get your dna when it comes that because as hard as you are on women and always looking for an opportunity to belittle and really thinking women ain’t really work their weight in paper, I just wonder how you’re going to take them out and about doing the get down.

Leggs

March 15th, 2010
4:12 pm

“Actor Darius McCrary is headed for divorce court. Hot on the heels of landing the role as the new “Malcolm” on the soap opera The Young And The Restless, his marriage has fallen apart. McCrary is best for his role as “Eddie Winslow” on the TV show Family Matters. He married Video Vixen/Author Karrine Steffans (Superhead) last year. Sources say the couple has been having problems for a while, and that McCrary could no longer deal with his wife’s lies. Steffans is best known for her numerous affairs with rappers and actors. She detailed it all in her book Confessions Of A Video Vixen.”

This report came from the 4-1-1 report I get from Hollywood chenigans…too long to post.

Melo

March 15th, 2010
4:12 pm

Again, she’s a slut by your judgemental standards?

lurker??

at least i have standards..why dont i hear about urs so i can judge u??

Are u related?? :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

March 15th, 2010
4:13 pm

normally its based on those who got off the plantation first my point exactly…no real pedigree.

PHARCYDE WILL NEVA B4GOTTN never. they were on point.

kimmie

March 15th, 2010
4:13 pm

4Real – No, just channel surfing, plus 2 of the models were on Tom Joyner & Steve Harvey!

Melo

March 15th, 2010
4:13 pm

Melo, passing out head jobs like lollipops ain’t something I’d prescribe to and I’m sure the average man would take a pass on settling down with her

@lurker!

good,we agree

BUT.. u just hate to hear me saying it??? :lol:

get a lyfe gerl!

Leggs

March 15th, 2010
4:15 pm

@ForReal ~ you’re wrong for using the word “apparently” with no evidence. I wasn’t in church Sunday!

For Real

March 15th, 2010
4:15 pm

Tmac: Choose the one with the finest mamma because everything else is equal.

Melo

March 15th, 2010
4:16 pm

AmazonRed™

March 15th, 2010
4:17 pm

Well hot damn…she did marry Eddie Winslow. I couldn’t keep up with all her “soulmates” (”Papa,” Lil Wayne, Bill Maher and then Eddie Winslow.) Sheesh