If someone could find a way to manufacture a crystal ball for relationships, they would be very rich. Unfortunately, we are left to our own devices of over analyzing or misreading signals. In the first couple of weeks, you can at least be sure that there is an attraction. You are returning calls, agreeing to meet up, and making yourself available. It’s the sweetest part because it’s all clear.
Then there is that period of time where one or both of you have decided how you feel about each other. You don’t want to play yourself so you start looking to take your cues from the other person. The problem is, they are doing the exact same thing. So how do you know they want you as much as you want them?
Personally, I try to wait it out one until the ambiguous behavior goes away. Sometimes, it doesn’t and I get the message and move on. What do you do? Do you let the person know how much you want them? Are you comfortable bringing it up in a talk?
Is it important to have the same level of interest in order for it to work?
Of course men and women express their interest and desires differently sometimes. Ladies, when do you know a man wants you as much as you want him? Men, how do you determine a woman is on the same page with you and what you want?