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Dating Stimulus Plan

After a gorgeous weather weekend in Atlanta, I’ve started to get excited about Spring and Summer.  I was out and about this weekend having a wonderful time in the city.  How was your weekend?

I managed to go to at least three places I have never been to before.  It is so easy to get in a rut doing the same things, going the same places, and sometimes running into the exact same crowd.

Maybe it is time to bail out our love lives with a dating stimulus plan! Something that stimulates us so that we are  excited about where we live.  This could have a great positive effect on us, I think.  I definitely wouldn’t want to strike up a conversation with a good-looking dude only to find out that he hates Atlanta, his job, and is miserable.  I’ll pass.

Even if you want to move away, you can’t deny that there are many wonderful things about our city! If you don’t take the time to find them, it’s a reflection on you and your lack of imagination and effort – not the city. I’m just saying!

What do you think you can do for your dating stimulus plan? How do you get out of a dating rut or dry spell? It would be great if we could all list at least five things to do or see.  Something totally out of the ordinary and exciting enough to shake things up.

Happy Monday everyone!

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SlimOne...just call me Nicety!

February 22nd, 2010
3:16 pm

Ok, speaking of mismatched libido’s…what if you date someone for a while and you feel like ya’ll are vibing, then the sex convo comes up and they disclose that they have a low sex drive….how would you proceed? (Especially if you are really digging the person)

DreamsMaterialize

February 22nd, 2010
3:26 pm

my hand about to fall off
now that just ain’t right at all. I hold “therapy” sessions for exactly that type of thing every Wednesday from 12am to 4am. lol

Slim
I say you shouldn’t underestimate the importance of sex in a relationship. If you can’t get it as frequently as you like, you might me tempted to seek it elsewhere.

Raqi

February 22nd, 2010
3:27 pm

Princess, I pay $175 a week for the regular sitter. The $60 is only for the sitter that we use when we want to go out in the evenings and she comes to our house.

While I do like our night time sitter, when you add her cost to the cost the we incur going out it gets expensive. A night at the movies can cost us up to $85.

SlimOne...just call me Nicety!

February 22nd, 2010
3:30 pm

Dreams that’s what another one of my guy friends said…I was like, well you’ve known me a long time. Do you think my drive is high, low or midrange…this fool said if i’m with someone that i definitely want to get it a few times a week. LMAO! Shole takes some other folks to put thangs into perspective to you doesn’t it. :shock:

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
3:33 pm

@ Jay: Actually my son’s father loves it when I go on date.
He views it as he gets more time with his son.

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
3:39 pm

Dreams Mat: 12am -4am

What is that? A heavy weight one round bout?

C’Mon Son!

DreamsMaterialize

February 22nd, 2010
3:39 pm

Slim
Did it really take someone else to put that into perspective for you? You already know you like it everyday. lol

Melo

February 22nd, 2010
3:42 pm

this fool said if i’m with someone that i definitely want to get it a few times a week

SlimOne??

u know that feeling of wanting it a lot more? u only get it only coz u aibnt getting any! :lol:

sexx is as good as eating one or two doughnuts..it feels heavy on u once u have had a cpple…
The moment u go 2 weeks with the new guy,hitting it everyday/nite,3/4 xtimes a nite..3rd week u like,”hey,lets slow down coz my labs are kinda sore” :lol: Then the bills u 2 have to pay and for which the monery aint enough do their own damage to ur psyche to supress whatever was left of the libido.

For me,nowadays, I hit one short play,with premature ejaculation and then one more LP..im good for the nite,maybe 4 a cpple of days!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

SlimOne...just call me Nicety!

February 22nd, 2010
3:43 pm

Oh whatever Dreams…I guess I never really sat down and thought about what category my drive was in…I knew I didn’t consider it low tho Thats for sure. But the thing is, it doesn’t have to be the ‘hokie POKIE persay..i’m good with a little MP (mouth piece) :mrgreen:

DreamsMaterialize

February 22nd, 2010
3:44 pm

What is that? A heavy weight one round bout?
You ask for a cracker, I offer you a sammich, and now you say that ain’t enough cuz you want steak and lobster. Dang! lol

SlimOne...just call me Nicety!

February 22nd, 2010
3:45 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: at Melo “I hit one short play,with premature ejaculation and then one more LP..im good for the nite,maybe 4 a cpple of days” LMAOOOOO Boy yous a skrait up fool

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
3:51 pm

Melo: I’m going to have to find a Scorpio (like myself)
to keep up with me

Dreams Mat: I require a five course meal. Now bring it!!!!!!!!

Raqi

February 22nd, 2010
3:51 pm

I want some stuffed jalapeno peppers tonight. I wonder what meal I can create around those. I guess a Mexican theme tonight.

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
3:52 pm

I need sex often like a fish need water!!!!

Melo

February 22nd, 2010
3:56 pm

I need sex often like a fish need water

Iam luved??

I can be ur benefit friend/practice partner/style trialist/heat reduce!!

I ll take whatever name u gimme!

Professor...girl scout cookies!!!!

February 22nd, 2010
4:07 pm

I am lovedit is so good to see ya’ back!

lurker

February 22nd, 2010
4:07 pm

Lots of chicks make a crucial mistake when dealing with this kind of guy. They don’t permanently cut ALL communications of any sort. A dude feels like all he needs is your attention and he can make something happen. Cut off his calls, texts, letters, emails, psychic channeling anything. lol As soon as you even crack the door, that’s all he feels he needs, even it’s not really the case. If you haven’t communicated in any way in 5 years, and you all of a sudden accept a phone call, then it gives him a glimmer of hope, and he’ll run with that.

Yep, so true so true. I have a guy that’s been emailing and calling…FOR THE LAST 2 YEARS!!! I simply continue to ignore. Well, about a week a go we hit an all time low/high (depending on how you view) and he sent 3 texts….1)Can we meet 2)We just need to talk and work things out and 3)It is important that we at least stay friends. No response is all the answer I need to give. I know the at the slightest any response in his mind would be, it’s on.

lurker

February 22nd, 2010
4:09 pm

how would you proceed?

With no problem. I would at least think maybe I hit the jackpot, he’s not a man-wh*re. He could very well be, but at least there’s the possibility that he’s not.

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
4:09 pm

Um Melo: um baby……aren’t you married :shock:

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
4:10 pm

Hi Professor,

good to be back. Glad you all love me.

lurker

February 22nd, 2010
4:11 pm

Um Melo: um baby……aren’t you married

HA!

Professor...girl scout cookies!!!!

February 22nd, 2010
4:12 pm

Um Melo: um baby……aren’t you married :shock:

Chile marriage don’t mean nothing on MIA you should read here more often :grin:

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
4:13 pm

@ Lurker: I’m not giving anyone a glimmer or glance of hope. The doors are locked and unless he can say Mekka Lekka Hi, Mekka Hiney Ho 3 times and click his heels together, he ain’t ever getting back in my heart or head.

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
4:14 pm

Melo cheatin! :shock:

Melo

February 22nd, 2010
4:18 pm

I am loved (I guess…..)??

how can i be cheating when i havnt hit urs/it??

and its its not like ill leave my wang immersed in urs??

Correct me if im wrong about ur punani..got clawing/plugging teeth?? :lol:

JeffAtl

February 22nd, 2010
4:20 pm

I’m trying to get back out in the dating world being a year out of a marriage. I don’t know how to do it. I find myself almost as shy as I was in high school, and high school was a long time ago. Anyway, any cute single ladies on here want to chat? If so, let me know ;)

lurker

February 22nd, 2010
4:22 pm

@I am loved……and unless he can say Mekka Lekka Hi, Mekka Hiney Ho 3 times and click his heels together, he ain’t ever getting back in my heart or head.

LOL, I know right

lurker

February 22nd, 2010
4:23 pm

JeffAtl, soliciting chicks from a blog ain’t alway a good wear…lol

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
4:27 pm

Melo: I can’t respond .. :-X

mad and laughing at the same time you would say that
lol

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
4:28 pm

JeffAtl : go to http://www.giveyourhandabreak.com
for an assortment of dating sites.

SexyCool

February 22nd, 2010
4:35 pm

Hey, TwoPennies. I started to go to the range yesterday, but had two very late nights in a row on Friday and Saturday, so, I was in straight chill mode yesterday.

Melo

February 22nd, 2010
4:40 pm

I just hope Michelle was present when Barack met Shakira today..

we dont wanna hear of any scandals!

:lol:

lurker

February 22nd, 2010
4:41 pm

all i can say is tsk tsk tsk and smh

Melo

February 22nd, 2010
4:46 pm

lurker??

if it were Bill..u know we wld have a story in the tabloids tmrw,no qstion..

shakira’s waist and butt??

now,that deserves a smdh and tsk tsk tsk! :lol: :lol:

JeffAtl

February 22nd, 2010
5:03 pm

Lurker, can’t blame a guy for throwing it out there. Just looking for a good woman to start a family with, thats all.

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
5:04 pm

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
5:05 pm

opps my speakers at work too loud. hope nobody heard that :shock:

I am loved (I guess.....)

February 22nd, 2010
5:06 pm

Jeff: go to the website I posted. Here it is again: http://www.giveyourhandabreak.com