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Billboard of Shame

If you happened to have missed the headlines last week, Atlanta was one of the cities included in the “vengeance by billboard” by YaVaugnie Wilkins.

Billboard
Photo Credit: AJC

There is certainly a lot that is not being told about the couple’s history. Mr. Phillips made his public statement about an 8-year relationship with Ms. Wilkins. I think what struck me the most was how a relationship ends up like this after such a long time.

The whole saga seems deeper than “hell hath no fury”. Maybe it is a cautionary tale about how well we know the people we are dating or committed to. Do you think a person can conceal an entire marriage without showing any signs?

What happens when someone is not the person they portray themselves to be? If you found out that you had been dating a married person, how would you react?

What is it about love gone wrong that makes us want to exact revenge, anyway? Have you ever gone out of your way to humiliate or embarrass someone who betrayed you? Did it make you feel better?

Do you think we have a sense of entitlement when it comes to breakups? Are we owed some type of retribution for being hurt?

403 comments Add your comment

Raqi

January 25th, 2010
3:32 pm

so basically the last man to make a mistake is the one to blame for losing?

DreamsMat, yep just like the one who drank the last cup is responsible for drinking all of the kool-aid. The same is true in sports. LOL

Dan - moving away from gray and back to black

January 25th, 2010
3:33 pm

@Melo

The Colts defense is not superb…good, yeap.

Agreed with you on Peyton. He is scary good (it’s like watching Rain Man perform the physical mechaninations).

Melo

January 25th, 2010
3:33 pm

So, why do so many of the Biblical polygamists receive divine favor (Abraham, Solomon, David, Jacob, Lamech…)?

Dreams??

blame that on Hilary Clinton and all the other women’s lib agaitators be4 her!
At least Bill is smart,hes rationed to one kid and no sexx and he gets it on the outside! :lol:

The rest of uall are in limbo..drought!

Im selling a quarter acre in kwazulu,anybody interested??

:lol: :lol:

IDK..

January 25th, 2010
3:33 pm

DM, wish i knew The Holy Bible’s the answer 2 that question…I do know it says for A Man to find A Wife is A good thing. And too, from my general knowledge they all had their share of hardships/sin, when GOD forgive its instant and favor given

Billboard Jumpoff

January 25th, 2010
3:34 pm

Infamous DK MUAH

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
3:34 pm

Jumpoff – I didnt say it was right.. I hate people who mess with married folks.. I think thats the lowest. You got roasted cause you said some nonsense directly to me. You were mad cause I was supposedly taking up for the dudes.. I’m not taking up for her.. She knows where I stand on that issue. That will never change but everyone has to learn. I even understand what Prof is saying. Thats why this blog is crazy like that.. Oh and guess what.. Youre still beautiful.. Sooo Beautiful.. I mean that Baby..

Tazzee - still praying for Haiti

January 25th, 2010
3:35 pm

kimmie – the only way the Saints win is if that hoo-doo luck they’ve had all year shows up in Miami. The Saints didn’t win, the Vikings lost that game. I mean they didn’t even capitalize on all the turnovers they got – no way the Colts are turning the ball over that many times. The Saints are going to be emotional when they go into that Super Bowl.

The Saints have a very good offense, not sure if the Colts secondary can handle the Saints receivers. But I still don’t think the Saints have what it takes to win.

In the end I think the defense is going to determine who wins and I think the Colts will pull through. The Saints will make a few mistakes and there aren’t any hoo-doo chicken bones buried under the turf in Miami…

that’s my projection – plus, I hate the Saints.

kimmie

January 25th, 2010
3:35 pm

Okay, thanks Melo.

I will just be so hurt if the Saint’s go marching in and win!

What are the Vegas oddsmakers saying?

DreamsMaterialize

January 25th, 2010
3:37 pm

they all had their share of hardships/sin
Where does it say that polygamy is a sin? The Bible neither promotes nor condemns it.

kimmie

January 25th, 2010
3:38 pm

Thanks Taz, I like your breakdown too!

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
3:38 pm

Tazzee – Spoken like a true Falcons Fan.. Oh and dont forget to Check Vick out on BET Feb 2nd..

Billboard Jumpoff

January 25th, 2010
3:38 pm

I hate people who mess with married folks.. I think thats the lowest.

As long as that hate is extended to all jumpoffs – PAST present and future. Thanks for the love baby MUAH Got another billboard to post.

Billboard Jumpoff

January 25th, 2010
3:40 pm

As long as your hate don’t cast me into hell, we’re good. I’m looking to the Great I AM for penitence. Not you baby MUAH

DreamsMaterialize

January 25th, 2010
3:42 pm

As long as that hate is extended to all jumpoffs – PAST present and future.
So you’re saying EVERY woman should be hated? Everyone has probably been a jumpoff at some point, even those who think they haven’t been?

Melo

January 25th, 2010
3:42 pm

hoo-doo chicken bones buried under the turf in Miami

@Tazzee..

I wasnt gonna even talk about that oodo stuff..but hey…

I just hate the Aints for wanting to capitalize on Katrina in football..

the more they do that,the more they sound like the Repugnicans

Trying to benefit from 09/11

Just Saying

January 25th, 2010
3:42 pm

Where does it say that polygamy is a sin? The Bible neither promotes nor condemns it.

Ya’ll better stop picking the bible apart for your own selfishness or justificiation. No matter what you see or don’t see for that matter, it’s not changing. When it says though a deacon/bishop must be the husband of one wife, I believe that cut of the 2nd, 3rd and 4th. You can find that in the Pauline epistles.

Tazzee - still praying for Haiti

January 25th, 2010
3:43 pm

Infamous – I’ll be checking it out, as much as I try to stay away from that channel…

Billboard Jumpoff

January 25th, 2010
3:45 pm

To DreamsMaterialize: I don’t think every woman should be hated as much as I KNOW he don’t have a right to hate any woman or person for that matter. He’s not the Great I AM, no matter the sin it doesn’t justify hate. That was my point. Who is he to cast a stone at anyone. The fact that he’s screwing/screwed his wife’s beautician is enough to look in the mirror. HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN…..

DreamsMaterialize

January 25th, 2010
3:45 pm

Billboard Jumpoff is that you DasV?

kimmie

January 25th, 2010
3:46 pm

Yeah Taz/Melo, I do feel the Vikings beat themselves. I expected so much better from them.

Dog, I guess Prince won’t be at THIS Super Bowl!

Melo

January 25th, 2010
3:46 pm

u know folks!, i missed the entire colts game coz our lights went out just when peyton threw for that 1st reception in 1st qtr that was later converted to a fg.

then out..

if the colts hadnt won,we(my subdivision) were gon file a class action to have the game replayed!

I followed the game on ma iphone!

Raqi

January 25th, 2010
3:48 pm

All I know is God has the last say so and in my life he is all that matters. And if you think just because you lied and I was found in adultery you will be judged differently than me, you are sadly mistaken. God gave 10 commandments and he will judge us all. Liar, thief, adultery, murderer, blasphemer all the same.

Willie Dynamite

January 25th, 2010
3:48 pm

I don’t think it was all Favre fault. I do agree with Dan in that had any other QB done what he did they would be roasted. I give Favre all the respect in the world for being a Warrior. He is/was a very good QB. I personally think he’s overrated. I also lost alot of respect for how he’s handled the past 3 offseasons. With that being said fugg Brett Favre. Now about the SB, I dont like the Saints and cant bring myself to root for a UT alumni (Manning). I just want a good game to enhance my buzz.

DreamsMaterialize

January 25th, 2010
3:50 pm

Just Saying I’m not picking the Bible apart for my own selfishness. The Bible is supposed to have been divinely inspired as a guide for man. So, why would anything important to our salvation be concealed or not clearly illuminated in the writings? And the Pauline epistles refer to a spiritual leader, not necessarily everyone. This isn’t “interpretation”, it’s merely a reading of what is actually on the page.

IDK..

January 25th, 2010
3:51 pm

DM, to each his own…I am not positive of what the Holy Bible KJV says on the topic of polygamy but im going 2 read and see for myself. r u a wanna be polygamist??

Just Saying, HELLO!! im wit ya! GOD will not be mocked!

M. (pronouced M dot)

January 25th, 2010
3:51 pm

@ Leggs

Question; one aspect of the cheating dynamic is usually when women or men trying to pit their SO’s against each other. Have any of you ever been involved in that? Have you ever pit someone against somebody else knowingly or unknowingly? Has anyone ever got into a physical altercation over someone?

The reason I asked because of what Legg’s (I think that was her) said earlier about the guy giving her his number with his gf there. That could have got ugly and Leggs didnt even do anything but handle it the right way!

kimmie

January 25th, 2010
3:51 pm

I just want a good game to enhance my buzz.

I ain’t mad atcha, Willie!LOL!!

Just saying

January 25th, 2010
3:52 pm

Infamous needs to go to bible study, a lot of what “he thinks” would so be wiped out of his mouth. Everybody’s thinking and passing judgement but ain’t nobody consulted the good book nor the man upstairs. If you did, you wouldn’t find a place to condemn anybody. If you had knowledge you’d know in condemning others, you’re condemning yourself.

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
3:53 pm

Jumpoff – I dont hate you.. Im not even upset with you.. Im glad you could come here and get it off your chest.

Now are you Sexy or Cool. Or do you have nice Leggs. Or are you Mo Betta or could Cee me later.. Are your eyes Chinky? Are you StacEd? Are you Kym/Kimmetically correct? Im just askin..

Melo

January 25th, 2010
3:53 pm

Just Saying??

u saw the pics of my prezident and the story i posted cpple of weeks back??

With his 3 smiling wives and a new new wife too,5th one on the way..

The 4th one got a bachelors and masters in science sme..more educated than a lot of chics in this joint..

Proud of that Man! :lol: :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
3:53 pm

Jumpoff – Oh and are you a Wise Diva?

Professor...

January 25th, 2010
3:54 pm

To me Peterson messed up a lot in that game as well, not just Favre.

Melo

January 25th, 2010
3:54 pm

IDK..??

as far as the bible and polygamy is concerned..Tazzee proly knows the answer.

Shes not gon to empower u tho,so she’ll keep quiet!

But spiritually, u can go ahead and get another 2..3 etc wives…but the popo will get u… :lol:

Raqi

January 25th, 2010
3:55 pm

Infamous, do you hate dislike married folks that cheat as much as you hate those they cheat with?

DreamsMaterialize

January 25th, 2010
3:56 pm

GOD will not be mocked!
How is it a mockery of the CREATOR to try to truly understand his will, as opposed to merely following what “tradition” has said about it? I’m not a polygamist, but one third of the world’s population belongs to a culture that embraces the concept. Are they all doomed, even if many of them have never been exposed to biblical teachings in any way?

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
3:56 pm

Jumpoff – Is that what this is about.. Me screwing the Exs friends.. Yeah Ive admitted that was wrong but I did enjoy it.. Or Do enjoy it.. I dont know.. What should I be sorry? I know Im a sinner but I dont mess with married folk but I commit other atrocities.. There we good now. Now Kiss my Pinky ring and let that be the end of it..

DreamsMaterialize

January 25th, 2010
3:57 pm

Many of the people who go to “bible study” don’t study the bible.

kimmie

January 25th, 2010
3:57 pm

DK – Now you know whomever it is won’t admit it! For all you know, it could be a dude!LOL!!

And do you really care?

Just saying

January 25th, 2010
4:00 pm

All I know is God has the last say so and in my life he is all that matters. And if you think just because you lied and I was found in adultery you will be judged differently than me, you are sadly mistaken. God gave 10 commandments and he will judge us all. Liar, thief, adultery, murderer, blasphemer all the same.

AMEN AMEN AMEN….this is all I’ve been saying. As humans it’s soooo easy to take pot shots at people but if you have true knowledge, the good book teaches we all have fallen short some place, at some time, somewhere. So when you hop on here and quick to pass judgement and comments on people’s behavior, unless you’re the Christ, REALLY there’s no room to talk. At all. The best we become is as filthy rags (taken from the good book). That in and of itself should humble us all and keep us from looking down on one another. There’s enough “self” work to be done than to look out and around us on other people’s sins.

Raqi

January 25th, 2010
4:00 pm

Infamous, stop it and answer my question. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
4:00 pm

Just sayin/Jumpoff – Oh you take my words so literally.. I dont actually hate anyone I just wanted to make the point strong.. Aww Dang.. The important thing is I love you, Boo so to h3ll with these other heathens. yelling like Aunt Esther “Oh Glory, Hallelujah!

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
4:01 pm

Kimmie – I dont because anybody who has to address me from a sidebar anonomously is a joke from the begin.. So I handle it jokingly..

Leggs

January 25th, 2010
4:02 pm

@M. ~ an insecure person pits another against another. There’s no need to do that and no, I have never done it. I can only imagine the reason the man does that in front of his SO is to puff his chest out and see if he in fact can get away with it. What it tells me right of the bat, is he has no respect for his woman, nor any for me. For him to think I would gladly accept his number and slip it in my pocket, bra or purse thereby immediately reducing my importance and respect for self!

Just saying

January 25th, 2010
4:02 pm

yelling like Aunt Esther “Oh Glory, Hallelujah!

LOL

Infamouns DK: MUAH, you too DreamsMaterialize.

Am I a huzzy for throwing kisses to the both of you all? So be it then

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
4:04 pm

Raqi – I do.. The Institution of Marriage is a beautiful thing.. I unfortunately know that now and will make someone a wonderful Husband one day. A wonderful husband with a prenup.

Just saying

January 25th, 2010
4:04 pm

I dont because anybody who has to address me from a sidebar anonomously is a joke from the begin..

Anybody is REALLY takes blogging seriously, really, is a bigger joke. Although I speak truth, it ain’t that deep dog. We’ll NEVER meet. Now there.

Raqi

January 25th, 2010
4:05 pm

A wonderful husband with a prenup.

Ah, dang, you just tainted it. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK aka THE KING

January 25th, 2010
4:05 pm

Just sayin – Nah cause I dont judge.. And you didnt kiss me in my mouth anyway.. wink

M. (pronouced M dot)

January 25th, 2010
4:05 pm

@Raqi

“do you dislike married folks that cheat as much as you hate those they cheat with?”

I think the issue is always with the cheater not the person they are cheating with. The 3rd party really is never at fault.

SlimOne...just call me Nicety!

January 25th, 2010
4:05 pm

Are we now having Chuuuuch up in here? When I go out to the car to get my Bible, don’t mind me if you see me taking my stockings off. I just can’t concentrate with them thangs all up in the CT like that.