Lucky to Have You
I once read that relationships are like blenders, you need one, but you’re not quite sure why. I know we all go through bad dates or relationship stress sometimes. Of course it’s not always easy to relate to one another but that’s perfectly normal and to be expected. There are probably moments when we want to throw in the towel and give up.
The truth is, we are lucky to have each other. I can honestly say showing appreciation and gratitude to your partner or date can go a long way. Even if you don’t express it in words, you can find a way to let them know that you feel fortunate to be with them. I would think this adds more potential to your budding romance or add more shelf-life to your relationship .
Why do you think we are lucky to have each other? How do you show how it?
Happy Friday! What fun and exciting things do you guys have planned?
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LoveLife411
January 15th, 2010
8:50 am
I see everyone’s worn out from jacking, tasting and swallowing yesterday
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
9:00 am
Morning….either the topic scared everyone away or maybe that morning gas I just let go did…who knows.
Anyhoo, I’ll be spending my weekend with the fam. My niece will be 1 tomorrow so it’s her very first BDAY. Yippee!
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
9:07 am
I am truly blessed and thankful to have this man in my life. Period.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
9:09 am
LL411 For some reason, seeing this ‘jacking, tasting and swallowing’ this early in the morning sort of made me cringe. I think those are afternoon words. lol
Dan - moving away from gray and back to black
January 15th, 2010
9:13 am
Then Slim, put on some John Legend “Good Morning” to get in the mood….
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
9:15 am
Morning
LoveLife that’s funny.
Not in a relationship right now, but I show my appreciation for the lovely ladies on a daily basis, from holding the door to sharing a compliment. Every now and then, one of them even acknowledges or reciprocates that appreciation. lol I don’t let that deter me though. I have a daughter, and I have to show by example that that’s the type of treatment she deserves and should expect. She’s the poster child for “Daddy’s little girl”…life wouldn’t be the same without her.
To all the blog ladies, Dreams appreciates you
Professor
January 15th, 2010
9:15 am
LoveLife411 I am still wearing the
face from yesterday!
Happy Friday to everyone….
Why do you think we are lucky to have each other?
Human beings are social creatures, so just having that interaction with each other soothes that natural instinct we have within.
Lady J
January 15th, 2010
9:25 am
I am lucky to see with a clear vision!!!! I once was blind but now I see!!!!:) When whatever is for me and presented I will be lucky and grateful for it!!! Through experience and becoming wiser I would hope my staying power has increased!!!! TGIF and enjoy this great MLK Holiday Weekend MIA Blog!!!!:)
TexasBoy
January 15th, 2010
9:35 am
Happy Friday Folks! Hope everyone has a good weekend and “HOW BOUT THEM COWBOYS!!!”
M.( pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
9:40 am
What’s up.
“Why do you think we are lucky to have each other?”
I dont really think that we should de-value ourselves to the point where we feel like someone is doing us a favor by having us in their lives. We need to all be secure within ourselves, single or in a relationship no matter what.
So many people get consumed within their relationships and defined by them rather than allowing them to add to them.
abc
January 15th, 2010
9:47 am
People should be appreciative of all the people in their lives. It seems natural that the most appreciation would be for the most significant people, or the most significant person. The people in our lives are really all we have; all the material stuff is not worth much if only you enjoy it, with nobody to share it with. That goes for everyone in our lives, and especially for the most significant ones.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
9:54 am
Woman was made for man. We belong together. The deal is to get with the one that is right and compatible for you. Love is a beautiful thing and mating is a gift of nature. While we as men and women are quite different in thinking and doing, together we create a perfect bond. Logic and emotion. It creates a balance.
I feel that I am blessed, or lucky if that is what you want to call it, to have that perfect balance in my life. I don’t do all things right but I do like to show appreciation for my husband. Everybody wants to feel appreciated. It’s a human emotion that is ingrained in all of us. He makes me feel like the most important person in his life and I can’t help but give that back to him.
You all know my motto about him making me happy makes me make him happy…
Been Thru It All
January 15th, 2010
9:55 am
WTF…h.e.l.l. has officially frozen over…did ABC just type that…betta get my affairs in order…lol
Melo
January 15th, 2010
9:59 am
“HOW BOUT THEM COWBOYS!!!”
They goin’ down,come sunday.
Go Bret!
(Bret and Peyton in the Super Bowl..is that even possible??..i dnt know that much about brackets,disvisions etc) 
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
9:59 am
abc, having someone to share my life with is one of the greatest things right now for me. All my joyous occasions and even my tried moments are good having someone to walk along with me.
And I also agree that we should appreciate all the people in our lives.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
10:01 am
Happy Friday Blog!
abc, I like your post. Really says it all in a nutshell.
I am thankful for everyone in my lives, even those that are a “challenge”. But since this is a dating blog, I will focus on my boo. I am extremely grateful to know him and have him in my life. I try to show that gratitude in some way every day, if nothing more than just a pleasant hello. Unlike family or coworkers, he is someone I CHOOSE to deal with, and he CHOSE me. Neither HAVE to be there. So we make a sincere effort to give each other our best.
Also, it’s clear that others are not so blessed to have such a person that ADDS to their life, so I feel especially fortunate.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
10:03 am
Mdot, why do bring up “We need to all be secure within ourselves” when talking about being lucky to have that opposite person in our lives?
It has nothing to do with being secure or insecure IMO. I think that is one of the biggest misconceptions today. Needing someone and then appreciating that person in your life does not mean you are not secure in who you are. We belong together. Man and woman.
Professor
January 15th, 2010
10:08 am
On to football Melo, I want to see the Cardinals fly all over them Saints. I want the Saints crushed
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
10:09 am
@Raqi
I understand what you mean but I meant from a standpoint of people losing themselves in their relationships. We are in different dynamics. You are married. Im not. Their are certain wifely duties that you have that a gf may not have yet. Basically, it’s about having a balance within your relationships but still being able to enjoy the person you are with.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
10:11 am
Happy Friday All
I appreciate all things good in my life. Whether it be my daughter, my family, my job, my sanity, my ability to use all my limbs, or just being able to walk.
But as it relates to a mate. I’m currently single, sooo I appreciate my alone time. Being with someone for so long sometimes you kinda loose yourself. Not intentionally, but when you’re away you get to relize tings about yourself that seem new. (this applies to me)
We’re all aware that being in a healthy and loving realionship can be a wonderful thing. So call it lucky, call it a blessing, call it whatever you want. I know that I’ll be basking in all those adjectives and he the same
Oh and that was funny LoveLife
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
10:15 am
Professor/Melo
I’m waiting to see the Vikings and the Cowboys!! Brett all the way!!!!!
Melo
January 15th, 2010
10:16 am
Thats gon be a high scoring game for sho Proff!
U like me,I hate that nameless quater back with a passion!
Dan - moving away from gray and back to black
January 15th, 2010
10:20 am
@Raqi
I’mma frame that 9:54.
That was beautiful…
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
10:22 am
Mdot, my appreciation didn’t grow for him just being I got married, it was there already. If not I doubt we would be married. He was mine and I was his in mind and heart before the nuptials. We just took it to the next step of making vows to each other before God. As well as willing to be joined together in a legal sense. It’s something when you are willing to tie yourself to a person in a way that you are accepting responsibility for whatever may come up in life.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
10:23 am
@Raqi I had a post that apparently disappeared into thin air….basically a co-sign to your 10:03. Not everyone can say that have that special person that adds to their life that they cherish & appreciate.
Professor
January 15th, 2010
10:23 am
Dream_n/Melo,
AFC I am going for the Ravens, but I am cool if the Colts go all the way too.
In the NFC I love the Vikings.
Superbowl…I want to see the Ravens and the Vikings!
Melo
January 15th, 2010
10:26 am
I liked it too Dan.
Esp this part: Woman was made for man!
Talk about starting the right way,Raqi surely did with that post!
ON TOPIC
Iluvmyfam,period,extended,immediate,cousins,nephs,uncles,aunties..nephs who carry the fam name from aunties/sisters etc whose boyfriends didnt show up..all that..If u carry our zulu name,u in,cousins from the extended whose mums are zulus..mad luv.
Thats how we do!
Happy Friday folks
Professor
January 15th, 2010
10:27 am
Melo Yes I will not name the nameless QB that we both dislike.
Professor
January 15th, 2010
10:30 am
I do believe that woman was made for man. However if we are completely honest woman and man are really far apart these days. You now have women sampling several men and men sampling several women…we are far far away from where things were intended to be.
brn in 15
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
10:31 am
Prof..
Me too. They really had a good year and I hope they make it. Of course I’d be going for the Bears, but they couldn’t get it together. LOL
Yea Manning I’m kewl with him going back to the SuperBowl.
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
10:37 am
Colts and Vikings, that’s how it need to go down. Colts all the way though.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
10:37 am
Profssor..
My sister and her boyfriend will be boarding a plane at 11:00 today to make a visit to your state
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
10:40 am
I agree with you DreamsM
but Vikings for me.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
10:52 am
Marriage is so important to so many because it says more than I love you and I want to spend my life with you. It says that I am willing to be one with you. I am willing to be connected to you by way of responsibility and accountability.
That’s why good enough to bed but not good enough to wed is just a strong statement.
BSandwich
January 15th, 2010
10:53 am
abc summed it up best at 9:47. We should be appreciative of all the people in our lives. I most certainly am.
Dan - moving away from gray and back to black
January 15th, 2010
10:53 am
@Raqi
These days “good enough to spend time without needing to drink to numb myself from [your] foolishness” is all I’m looking for….baby steps
abc
January 15th, 2010
10:59 am
Ideally, Raqi, marriage is not only a commitment between two people, but a covenant with God that goes beyond merely feeling lucky to have the other person. Without such a covenant, such a union is nothing more than a legal agreement and written commitment.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
11:01 am
@Professor
Please man…You think DeMarcus Ware makes $79 million for nothing? The superbowl will be Dallas vs San Diego.
@Raqi
Question, do you ever look at other guys in passing and make comments with your girls?
Also what does it mean when a woman says she wants to take it slow? I heard a definition that I think works:
If a woman wants to take it slow, that means you are a good guy and I know I want to date you but I need to close some of these other jumpoff, ex bf’s, cut buddy accounts.
What do yall think?
sam
January 15th, 2010
11:02 am
@Kimmie, so that good man of yours still havent propose to you. Arent you the one cooking & cleaning for him & his kids but then again why would he.
sam
January 15th, 2010
11:04 am
RAqi u should be happy/grateful a man with no kids married you with 2 kids/baby daddys
Melo
January 15th, 2010
11:08 am
what does it mean when a woman says she wants to take it slow?
M(dot)
u have to ask the woman concerned..does it mean calling her once a week,twice etc..not wanting to be seen with the guy in public but u can come home and hit it late in the night?? what..
Unless u ask her specifically what that means,ull neva know…
Stop or rather,that man shld stop being put in a situ unless they want to be put in the situ.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
11:11 am
abc, I agree. Marriage was instituted by God and when two people choose to engage they are making a covenant before him. Hence, marriage is honorable and that honor is before God, the one that matter the most.
But we all know that there are unbelievers. Those that believe there is no God or higher power yet they enter into the matrimonial institute, being more of a legal connection and that of their pledged love for each other.
Sassy Me....I got that boom boom POW!! :-)
January 15th, 2010
11:12 am
Also what does it mean when a woman says she wants to take it slow?
Err….aaaa…ummm I’m going to take a stab and say that it means just that slow…i.e. let’s get to know each other through conversing,dating and then proceed to something deeper only if both parties are in aggreement and on the same page. If she likes you that much during your “get to know me phase” then someone(ex bf/cutt buddie) may get some walking papers whether it be inadvertently or purposefully done.
Which do YOU prefer?….the slow mover or the Usain Bolt? Shout out to all a di Yard Man dem
Sassy Me....I got that boom boom POW!! :-)
January 15th, 2010
11:16 am
The superbowl will be Dallas vs San Diego.
How ’bout them COWBOYS?!!!
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
11:16 am
Mdot, I am not blind. LOL
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
11:16 am
@LL411 and SlimOne ~ I see you guys have jokes first thing this morning. Both were funny.
Unfortunately, I am home with a sick child. Been up since 6:00 with all the symptoms of the flu and can’t get a same day apptmt until 2:30 this afternoon. She looks horrible and miraculously has turned into a 4-year old. Nonetheless, I love and appreciate her, my friends and I have no doubt I’ll soon meet a man who will appreciate me and me in turn appreciate him…woo hoo, woo hoo!
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
11:19 am
Is “take it slow” only a woman’s concept? Ladies has a guy ever told you that he wanted to take it slow? I know I’ve told women that’s there’s no rush, but I see that as different than taking it slow. Is there a difference for you all?
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
11:20 am
And as far as a woman saying she wants to take it slow meaning? That depends on that woman. When I have made that statement in the past it meant that I wanted to take my time and get to know the man or certain things about him before we got too serious. It’s sorta like doing your research before you buy. But like I said that statement could and probably does mean something totally different to another woman.
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
11:21 am
while she’s sleeping let me go get some food so I can keep up my energy and hopefully not get what she has!
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
11:24 am
Some people use “take it slow” as a way to avoid commitment.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
11:26 am
Or as a way to avoid defining what the relationship is. And Mdot, as you said some may use it to keep the possibility open with one before they let go of what is in the other hand. i.e. “Let me see if you are worth me cutting this off over here first”.
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
11:27 am
LL411 and SlimOne ~ I see you guys have jokes this morning. Both were funny.
I see my other post was eaten…home with a sick child. Been up since 6 with her with flu like symptoms. Miraculosly, this 15 year old turned into a 4-year old. her spitting her up sent her into a tizzy!
I love and appreciate her, all my friends, all people and hopefully soon I have a mate who will appreciate me and to whom I too can show my appreciation.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
11:32 am
Unless you guys are still in high school, I would think you would assume that they may be dating others. Saying you want to take it slow does not mean you’ve made a commitment, therefore cutting off all others. You’re still taking applications and you’d like to mull over this one for awhile before you make a final decision. Take your time & get to know, yet you still may be dating others. I see nothing wrong with that. Also, MY definition of taking it slow means just that – no physical.
kinderbabe
January 15th, 2010
11:33 am
I am lucky to have my significant other because I feel understood by him. His love comforts me when I need it most. He accepts many things about me that others would call flaws. It does my heart good knowing that someone has my back.:)
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
11:36 am
Let me try this a 3rd time:
LL411 and SlimOne – you too were very funny first thing this morning.
I’m home with a sick child with flu like symptoms. Couldn’t get a same date apptmt until 2:30. It’s a miracle how this 15 year old instantly turned into a 4-year old. I think her spitting up put her in a tizzy.
Nonetheless, I love and appreciate her, all my friends, people in general. Who knows, perhaps I will soon find one who will appreciate me and I in turn can show my appreciation.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
11:36 am
Some people use “take it slow” as a way to avoid commitment.
I agree with this too, Raqi.
And that’s okay too, if neither want or are ready for a commitment. The pace, or how fast people move in a relationship, is really unique to that relationship. There are no rules.
For Real
January 15th, 2010
11:39 am
What up Blog Fam!
1. A relationship is not a need. It’s a want.
2. Selfishness is the opposite of grateful. Can’t preciamate people when you do everything for yourself.
3. Marriage is a covenant before God period. Then came along and made a contract before man and screwed up God’s plan.
4. I don’t like Bret but I mitty-fickin hate, mitty-fickin the Cowboys. Go Vikins.
5. Saints vs Cardinal is going to be a basketball score. I predict Brees will have a triple double.
6. Why ain’t nobody talkin about the Jets game?
7. Superbowl Colts vs Vikings
8. “what does it mean when a woman says she wants to take it slow?” – She’s not that in to you and she is waiting for you to persuade her into dating you.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
11:40 am
Interesting…I know guys and women do this. You may be dealing with someone and meet someone new. Alot of people really arent about to put their cards on the table just yet. People are selfish in one way or another.
@Kimmie
“Also, MY definition of taking it slow means just that – no physical.”
Ok. So really you mean no physical with HIM! Somebody is getting physical with you like Olivia Newton John lol
@Raqi
LOL so you do check them out
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
11:43 am
We are all lucky…with or without someone because we can love ourselves. Yeah, yeah, I know you’re talking about the love shared by two.
For Real
January 15th, 2010
11:44 am
“Also, MY definition of taking it slow means just that – no physical.” – Does that include dry humping? What we kept our clothes on? Technically if I use a condom I am not phyiscally touching you. I’m just pushing this condom inside you for a full 17.9 second.
Sassy Me....I got that boom boom POW!! :-)
January 15th, 2010
11:45 am
Is “take it slow” only a woman’s concept? Ladies has a guy ever told you that he wanted to take it slow? I know I’ve told women that’s there’s no rush, but I see that as different than taking it slow. Is there a difference for you all?
No I don’t think it’s only a woman’s concept(that’s border line sexist but I digress). I’ve been told that in the past and for me it really helped me to feel even more comfortable with the POI. After that I knew he wasn’t looking for instant gratification and wanted to learn more about ME and not the booty. When women feel comfortable/safe/secure with you she can let her guard down and things are better for the BOTH b/c it takes away alot of fear and apprehension.
“There’s no rush and taking it slow” both sound the same to me. What do you think?…has that ever been your experience?
Dan - moving away from gray and back to black
January 15th, 2010
11:46 am
@Mdot
I’m with Melo (and others)
The only way to know what she means is to ask. Then while “taking it slow” get a sense of her. Is she passive agressive, does she still play the 7th grade games, is she an honest broker in dealing with people and other things in her life?
Between her answer and your ‘feel’ for her, you should be able to discern her intention.
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
11:47 am
@kinderbabe ~ it’s a beautiful thing knowing someone has your back! Good for you!
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
11:49 am
@For Real
“I don’t like Bret but I mitty-fickin hate, mitty-fickin the Cowboys. Go Vikins.”
LOL that’s funny because the reason everyone hates the cowboys is because they are NOT the cowboys…think about it..the best stadium, the best cheerleaders, and 1 star that’s world reknown..lol
“She’s not that in to you and she is waiting for you to persuade her into dating you.”
Like we said, no one should have to persuade you to deal with them. While you waiting to persuade her, she’s not sitting at home by the phone listening to Cherelle….lol she out with the next guy!
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
11:50 am
Kimmie, It seems that we live in time where folks are living relationships but put the brakes on when one or the other wants to call it what it is. For some crazy reason so many think it’s the label that we put on what is going on that makes it so. But I am more of a believer that the actions within the relationship defines itself.
The only that changes a relationship is going from unmarried to married. Outside of that, if two people are living like boyfriend and girlfriend then that’s what you are. People need to stop being the boyfriend/girlfriend of folks who refuse to claim them as such.
But that just my lil ole opinion.
Sassy Me....I got that boom boom POW!! :-)
January 15th, 2010
11:51 am
“Also, MY definition of taking it slow means just that – no physical.” – Does that include dry humping? What we kept our clothes on?
For Real you are a certified nut job..lol @ the “dry humping”(got people lookin in my office to see if I’m ok).
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
11:52 am
M dot – Olivia Newton John – ohkayyy. But yes, don’t I have that right, if there is no commitment? I’m grown. Physical complicates things – how can I tell him I want to take it slow, but go there with HIM? Now, personally, I’ve never been able to juggle and I’m a one-man-at-a-time lady. If I’m physical, I’m mental too, all there with one guy. So, I’m not dating others. But there have been times when I took applications – went on a few dates, talked on the phone, to two guys, not physical with either, no obligation except honesty to all. Inevitably, one caught my fancy more than the other, so other got cut off. Not a big deal.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
11:53 am
Leggs, my ex sister-in-law has two kids with the stomach flu. It must something going around. I hope it misses my house.
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
11:58 am
@Raq ~ I just hope it passes me and get out of her asap.
@ForReal, you are crazy. We all know from our teenage years, it’s hard to dry hump and stop w/ or w/o a condumn…that was funny!
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
11:58 am
@ M.
Jealous of the cowboys you say??? I had to LOL @ that.
I’ll sit back and continue to work/read.
Leggs I hope you guys feel better.
Melo
January 15th, 2010
12:01 pm
M(dot)??
be careful tho with chics that say they wanna take it slow but u giving them gerlfriend 4 star treatment,nice dates,u around her and she around yu but she neva wants to commit to u like like that….
U may just be on standby treatment,meaning,she proly seeing another dude and proly their thang aint gone smooth and u just a standby dude..
Ur excitement at being accorded play may blind u to the real reality..that u are just financing a project u are neva going to own..so its a double eddged sword too…..
I played sucker for a while to sme like that in the past,untill one saturday afternoon,Im driving from ma grandpa house, i see her and the “hidden” boyfriend coming outa his apartment….I regretted that i neva pressed her for pudsy,coz i respectfully thoght chic was gonna come to her senses anyway and give it up.
After that incident,Me being me, I pretended like I knew nothing untill I got the draws!
Then I treated her as such..a friend but lover on the side!
Gon to lernch!
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
12:01 pm
Well I sort of recently been dating a guy. He is already always asking me if i like him or what I think about him or if I want to be with him or not. It’s really kind of irritating because I can’t make that determination off a few phone calls and hanging out a few times. So in my case, me wanting to ‘take things slow’ is to get to know more of him, before I get pressured into buying a lemon. He told me he’s a scorpio and if I wasn’t already aware, they are very passionate folks, and he doesn’t do the Gray area too much..He’s pretty much black and white. Even with that said, I’m just not at a point where I can say either way….there hasn’t been enough time for me to have any emotional tie to him…hence my slow pace
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
12:01 pm
Raqi – I agree totally with your 11:50. If it walks like a duck, quacks, you get the picture. And don’t pull out the “lets take it slow” card after we’ve acted like boyfriend/girlfriend for the last 6, 10, 12 months!
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
12:02 pm
@Kimmie
Olivia Newton John had that song but anyway.
“But there have been times when I took applications – went on a few dates, talked on the phone, to two guys, not physical with either, no obligation except honesty to all.”
LOL Define took applications. Have you ever taken any of them out on a date?
Sassy Me....I got that boom boom POW!! :-)
January 15th, 2010
12:02 pm
….the reason everyone hates the cowboys is because they are NOT the cowboys…think about it..the best stadium, the best cheerleaders, and 1 star that’s world reknown..
Needed repeating…
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
12:04 pm
4Real, I made this REEeeeeeemmmmmmiiiiixxxxxx just for you:
Panties on the ground, panties on the ground. Lookin like a fool wit my panties on the ground.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
12:05 pm
Melo, I agree with that first paragraph of your 12:01. Don’t be giving someone the boyfriend/girlfriend treatments who are not willing to be claimed as such.
Why allow someone to reap the benefits yet disown you?
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
12:05 pm
4 Real – You funny!LOL!! But naw, that’s teasing, high school stuff. Like I said, I’m grown. There are folks that do that & more, yet they “want to take it slow”! You right, they are just not that into you!
For Real
January 15th, 2010
12:06 pm
“LOL that’s funny because the reason everyone hates the cowboys is because they are NOT the cowboys…think about it..the best stadium, the best cheerleaders, and 1 star that’s world reknown..” – I words of Dave Chappel “I HATE THE COWBOYS CAUSE DEY STANK!!”
Raqi: “if two people are living like boyfriend and girlfriend then that’s what you are.” – Ummmm, no it makes you unmarried like you posted. The problem with titles for men is that one title leads to another one when women are concerned.
Titles: Girlfriend (which is so fuggin high school) leads to wife and wife lead to the ruler of the dude whole entire world (in the mind of the chick) now you know why dudes hate titles.
Sassy: “got people lookin in my office to see if I’m ok).” – Are you dry humping now? I am. I got a picture of Slim wearing a Backstreet Boys t-shirt with pants on biting her toenails for inspiration.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
12:07 pm
kimmie, Exactly.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
12:09 pm
one title leads to another one
ForReal, as in the progression of relationships?
Sassy Me....I got that boom boom POW!! :-)
January 15th, 2010
12:12 pm
I got a picture of Slim wearing a Backstreet Boys t-shirt with pants on biting her toenails for inspiration.
No ForReal don’t dry hump to that wait til Slim makes that video for her remix to Panties on the Ground”.
Melo
January 15th, 2010
12:12 pm
Raqi??
u treat a potentil gerlfriend like a true gerlfriend,for the most part..thats what gentlemen do…
other than expensive gifts and sexx..u treat a gerl like ur gerl…
Ofcourse when u 2 are boy/girl,there is an elevated level of treatment and associations…u meet her pple,she meets mine..
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
12:12 pm
@SlimOne ~ he probably keeps asking because he doesn’t want to put too much stock in a budding relationship that will soon fizzle. May have another prospect he’s considering but seems to like you a little more before closing the door on the other.
For Real
January 15th, 2010
12:12 pm
Slim: I re-remixed this for you: Panties on the ground, ZIP, panties on the ground, ZIP. Lookin like a fool wit my panties on the ground and Black Cake rubbing CT at a hundit miles an hour bout to reach 17.2 seconds trying to go for 17.9.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
12:14 pm
@Melo
Man I feel you 100% and you understand where I was coming from. That was what I was saying that they want to take it slow with YOU. They dont want to get physical with YOU. They want YOU to give them that BF treatment and boost their ego…but it’s another dude in the wings when she not with you….Her tearing her up like girl scout cookies.
That’s the definition of take it slow.
I had a situation like that once…went out with this chick, thinking everything was cool and if I would call, she would not pick up but just text right back. Im like what’s this about. Then one day, Im driving on 285, and I see her boo’d up in the car with some other dude lol I had to laugh.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
12:16 pm
M dot – I’m familiar with the song, just corny, that’s all!LOL!!
“Taking applications” is just my cute way of saying I’m meeting and exchanging numbers with the intent to possibly date.
As for taking a guy on a date, meaning paying and even picking dude up – yes I have if we are an established couple. I’ll give the full court press. For a guy I just met, no I’m old school there and I make no apologies. Now maybe I will put down the tip, or if he buys the Chastain Park concert tickets, I will spring for the picnic. He buy dinner, I pay for the movie tickets, stuff like that. But I only go “dutch” – he pay for his meal, I pay for mine, with my platonic friends, not on a date. Not elegant, just not my style.
For Real
January 15th, 2010
12:18 pm
Raqi: “ForReal, as in the progression of relationships?” – I’m cool with “natural” progression but not the ish I experienced/witness. I mean you can go from gf and bf to married faster than it takes me to…. well you know and we all know how lonnggggggggggggg I likes to put it down. But it’s a lot like Slim’s case with ole boy. Hell i didn’t ask to be Slim’s cutbuddy until after I humped her pinky toe. Ole boy ain’t been but 1.7 dates.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
12:18 pm
@SlimOne
That’s interesting that he is coming on so strong so fast. I think he may just not be trying to play games and just put his cards on the table.
Is someone else in your picture?
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
12:19 pm
LOL @ For Real
M.
Nope, that was her definition of taking it slow.
The blog women have given you many examples of what that term could mean, but you sat back and waited for someone to agree with you to validate your point.
Everything is all relative anyway.
My definition is not going to be your definition in most of these scenarios brought up.
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
12:21 pm
I played sucker for a while to sme like that in the past,untill one saturday afternoon,Im driving from ma grandpa house, i see her and the “hidden” boyfriend coming outa his apartment
You just happened to be there Melo? Was it dark? Did you have shades on? Were you ducking down in your car? j/k…not about the first question.
Regarding marriage…so if God is the center, what’s with the state contract? Aren’t you technically married if you are religiously married with no state contract?
I appreciate life, my family, friends, health, peace of mind, frequent state of joy, everything (except pain…I don’t like pain)!!
Beautiful ♥ is off to Vegas for a week!
January 15th, 2010
12:22 pm
hi bloggers! nice topic.
Raqi, i’ll be lucky as you one day.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
12:22 pm
@Leggs well he started acting funny a little bit recently which I really didn’t too much care either way…so when he got done wacking out, he feeling some kind of way because i’m not running up behind him with my finger in his hiney. So i told him maybe i’m just not the person for him…he was cool at first then he was like, Why you act like you don’t like me…..then next day comes and I get invited to take a weekend trip. LOL Can you say mixed signals
4Real You’re crazy…but no need to go for that 17.9secs….I done went and wet myself. You got any baby wipes?
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
12:23 pm
M dot – The girl in your example, did you two make a commitment to each other or were you under the impression that you were the only guy she was seeing? Were YOU seeing others. Because if you two were upfront about that, she was not in the wrong. I know it may hurt if you were really into her and hoping to establish something with her, to see her with someone else, but hey, that sort of thing happens with both men & women everyday.
Sassy Me....oochie wally, wally :-)
January 15th, 2010
12:27 pm
Have a grreat weekend errbody!!
For Real
January 15th, 2010
12:32 pm
Luvbug: “Aren’t you technically married if you are religiously married with no state contract?” – Nope! The only marriage any state will recognize are the ones certified by state. Why you say? Well the state and the lawyers has a stake in the demise of marriages.
kinderbabe
January 15th, 2010
12:32 pm
thanks, Leggs!:)
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
12:35 pm
@Kimmie
“As for taking a guy on a date, meaning paying and even picking dude up – yes I have if we are an established couple.”
I get this part but if you are dating a couple of dudes why should he have to pay for you? If you like this guy or think you may (obviously its something there which is why you are out with him) would it hurt you to say, hey you are cool, you took me on 3 dates, I got this one.
Dont just show up with some tuna sandwiches and some chips like the movies like hey lets have a picnic. Thats says you are cool but really not worth me spending some money on you. Yes I know you spent money at Publix for the Tuna. Give what you get.
@Dream_n
It wasnt about finding someone to agree with. I was just acknowledging Melo because I agreed with what he was saying. We still have that right dont we? Or no? Just asking
For Real
January 15th, 2010
12:36 pm
Slim: I sure do. I keep them on me because I’m a Doctor.
Kimmie: you know I can tell you got a man?
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
12:41 pm
@Kimmie
” I know it may hurt if you were really into her and hoping to establish something with her, to see her with someone else, but hey, that sort of thing happens with both men & women everyday.”
It was nothing. Like I said we went out one time. I just thought it was funny. No worries.
Willie Dynamite
January 15th, 2010
12:43 pm
Afternoon All,
I’ll go ahead and say it, Wifey IS lucky to have me. I’m a great guy, bidness handler, humble to a point, great Father, Sincere, compassionate, loving, caring and I’m All In where she is concerned.
Likewise I am VERY Lucky to have her for all of the same reasons (cept she’s a great Mother).
Lets take it slow – I never really had that one used on me. I however have used that and it works. Whenever I said it in the past apparently that meant that I’m not trying to press to get some. What that did was expedite me getting some. Lesson learned for me was if you try hard to get it then you’ll have to wait. If you just wait a minute she’ll give it to you. Thats not across the board just a few of my experiences.
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
12:51 pm
@SlimOne ~ when a guy keeps saying “you know you like me” he’s merely trying to convince you and himself cuz he cain’t believe you’re not interested cuz he’s such a great catch in his own mind!
@WillieD ~ both of you are truly fortunate to have each other.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
1:01 pm
M. I wouldn’t say there is necessarily someone else. I’m single and am open to meeting new folks but as far as having any kind of emotional feelings for anyone…that’s a big fat NO. Met a dude at OSS (old skool Saturday) that I exchanged numbers with but we haven’t went out yet. lol So homeboy IS coming on a bit strong for it only being about 3wks and seeing each other maybe 3 times, one of which was at the movies, so that doesnt count. Matter of fact, he texted me while we were in the movies asking how I thought things were going. LOL
I texted him back: the person you’re trying to reach is unavailable. Please hang up and try your call again. Lol
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
1:02 pm
What that did was expedite me getting some.
Very strong in you the force is.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
1:06 pm
@Leggs You do have a point about him feeling like he’s a great catch…problem is does he have to tell me that all the effing time? Tells me all the time how chicks have crushes on him, he has groupies, he doens’t have an issue meeting chicks, the dudes that blow my head up trying to holla at me have nothing on him and should try walking a day in his shoes…it goes on and on
Professor
January 15th, 2010
1:07 pm
@Leggs, I hope Lil Leggs feel better. Are you making homemade chicken soup?
@Dream_n we have some nice weather in ATL today…53 degrees and sunny. You should have sent me a hotdog. There is this spot that have turkey hotdogs Chicago style up there…I could use one today.
As for lets take it slow…I have used that one when I saw a guy rushing…rushing to get in the bed…rushing to know where I stay…rushing to occupy my time and space…just rushing like a running back…
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
1:08 pm
Slim
He’s using astrological signs to justify is behaviors…need I say more. And texting you in the movie…hmmmm. I think you should bolt while you can. Actually you can bolt in my direction…we’ll take it slow. lol
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
1:11 pm
@SlimOne
“I wouldn’t say there is necessarily someone else”
So there is someone on some kind of radar right? The guy that manages the Church’s chicken, the Deacon from, Church, the Trainer lol. Im joking.
Interesting. Remember last week how I said movies are horrible dates in the begging (lol) I meant beginning but this guy you dealing with begging like Keith Sweat lol.
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
1:11 pm
Prof are talking about the hot dog place on Windy Hill?
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
1:13 pm
Slim, I was scanning over some of the comments but maybe your guy just have like a playful spirit. You know when you are being playful but a little serious in your words.
Professor
January 15th, 2010
1:14 pm
DreamS Nope this spot is right outside the Field Museum…there is another spot I like up there too
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
1:16 pm
@SlimOne ~ you have to take talk like that with a grain of salt. Those who continuously pump themselves up all the time aren’t all that, even if they look good. Underneath, they’re insecure, needy and usually become possessive.
@Professor ~ how the heck did you know that. After her apptmt going to the store to get stuff to make soup…get outta my head!
@SlimOne ~ you can bolt in DreamsM direction, just be done and gone by 8:22!
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
1:19 pm
begging like Keith Sweat
There you go tellin’ me no again
There you go, there you go
I wanna be more than just your friend
Don’t you know, don’t you know
There you go tellin’ me no again
There you go, there you go
I wanna be more than just your friend
Don’t you know, don’t you know
Please be mine, oh, girl
Because I really, really, really wanna be yours
Every time I ask you, oh, you give me your love
You tell me you’re not ready, tell me, girl
Why, oh, why do you wanna keep holdin’ on
Willie Dynamite
January 15th, 2010
1:26 pm
Slim – You already know what to do with this dude. Whatchu waiting for?
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
1:27 pm
@ Professor..
My bad girlie.. I’m more mad that she scheduled it on the weekend I’m going skiing with the pops! Naw, her boyfriend’s mom got tickets for them to a Hawks game tonight.
I told you to forget about those darn Hotdogs. I have a better spot and dish for ya!
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
1:29 pm
now I’m going to go home listen to Keith..
Begging and all I that man can sing..
Professor
January 15th, 2010
1:35 pm
Leggs I just knew it I bet your soup is off the chain!
Dream_n I know they will have fun I need to check out your other spot. I am with you Keith Sweat is in my head now
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
1:35 pm
@Raqi Naw dude isn’t being playful. Because after I sent him that message back in the movies, he actually sent me another text. I didn’t feel my phone vibrate, so he leaned over and said, “You got mail”. He sent a message saying For real, what do you think of the vibe so far…i was dude we are IN THE MOVIES. lol
@Leggs Yeah i’ve wondered if he is a little insecure, hence his need to constantly want to take an account of this courtship. It’s simply draining to me.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
1:37 pm
Willie, did you see my earlier post? I told him I didn’t think we were compatible or that I felt I wasn’t right for him…the next day he acted as if we never had that convo and invited me to take a weekend getaway with him. LOL!
lurker
January 15th, 2010
1:39 pm
I told him I didn’t think we were compatible or that I felt I wasn’t right for him…the next day he acted as if we never had that convo and invited me to take a weekend getaway with him.
that’s scary
Willie Dynamite
January 15th, 2010
1:43 pm
Slim – You got Dude sprung like that? You can tell us what you did to get Dude open like that? Was it the CT? Lol!!!
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
1:47 pm
Slim, Oh. I guess I should have read more carefully. LOL
I don’t know if I would call him insecure. He seems to be somewhat aggressive.
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
1:51 pm
Ooh, baby, baby, baby
Whoa…oh…
My, my, my, my baby, yeah, girl
Oh, I love you, baby
Ooh, yes, I, yes, I do, girl
I love you in the night
I’m gonna take it real, real slow (Ooh, my baby)
I understand what you told me
And if I didn’t know
I always wanted someone just like you
I really to hold you
I’d give the world to you, oh, my darlin’
You know I will, yeah, yeah, you know I will, I surely will
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
1:51 pm
Raqi In one of our earlier long conversations, in mid sentence he told me he had just had an epitome…..he said “you are going to think i’m crazy but…but I just had this feeling….I just know you’re going to have a baby by me.” He was like, he is normally not this way but he thinks it’s beyond him and I & that he’s just going to roll with it. Now THAT I took as a joke.
Willie Not unless he saw the CT when i wasn’t looking. Maybe he was excited by the fact he could still see on the other side of me if he looked at my gap.
I told him I would be out of town at the time he was wanting to go. He said, You suck and I’ll just take someone else. I said OK. He was like See, that’s what i’m talking about. You act like you don’t care.
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
1:53 pm
That type of aggressiveness quickly turns into annoyance.
@lurker, I have to agree with you.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
1:54 pm
One of my many favorite songs of his, is the one with him and LL Cool J..
When he breaks it down at the end that ish gives me chills!!
DreamsM.. sang it!
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
1:55 pm
Ok, that does it for me, SlimOne….dude is bonkers! Run Forrest, Run!
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
1:56 pm
Naw dude isn’t being playful. Because after I sent him that message back in the movies, he actually sent me another text. I didn’t feel my phone vibrate, so he leaned over and said, “You got mail”. He sent a message saying For real, what do you think of the vibe so far
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
1:57 pm
Slim you sure you’re not dating Keith Sweat…
Let me hear you tell me you love me
Let me hear you say you’ll never leave me
Ooh, girl, that would make me feel so right
Let me hear you tell me you want me
Let me hear you say you’ll never leave me, baby
Until the morning light (I)
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
1:58 pm
Slim, he is neither insecure nor aggressive. He is straight whacko.
Willie Dynamite
January 15th, 2010
1:58 pm
Slim – well alrighty then. Buddy got it bad for you. Gameless, Clueless aggressive and insecure. Makes for a bad match for you. Just be careful, doesn’t sound like he’s used to being told no.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
2:00 pm
Just be careful, doesn’t sound like he’s used to being told no.
Those are indeed the ones to look out for.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
2:01 pm
I just think that maybe because, so far as I know, appears to be a guy that has himself together career wise & is attractive, that he might be more used to women off the rip kissing his arse or always running up behind him. So along comes Slimmy who is just ‘taking it slow’, not blowing up his phone, not trying to feed his anaconda before even taking it out for a walk that it’s not registering why i’m not being the same as the ones that preceeded me. Who knows?
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
2:01 pm
My sister just texted me and said it was 60 degrees there
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
2:05 pm
“you are going to think i’m crazy but…but I just had this feeling….I just know you’re going to have a baby by me.”
Run!!!!!!!!!!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
January 15th, 2010
2:06 pm
Afternoon All!
Great topic, are we still ON topic though??
Slimone – that is funny as hell! Im single as well but I havent had anyone come that strong (thank goodness)
plans for the weekend: FOOTBALL!!!! And chillin if it actually does rain, snuggled in my mushroom house!
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
2:06 pm
Slim, I could see a relationship with a guy like that turning into an abusive one. Those that cannot take no for an answer, for whatever reason, tend to be very possessive which leads to being abusive.
Melo
January 15th, 2010
2:07 pm
You just happened to be there Melo? Was it dark? Did you have shades on? Were you ducking down in your car
Luvbug??
The city is not that big,it was during the day and she saw my car fisrt than i saw her…but everthuing happend quickly..they were looking for a ride(lift) standing on the side of the road..just as i was approaching,she kinda looked away and as i passed them, and realized that was her,i checked my rear and saw them getting into another car.
So isaid, ‘AHA” and kept it moving and even called her on the monday,talking and doing the usual…..
I was in hunter mode..waiting on the opportunity to feel her stuff.
@Leggs..hope lil Leggs gets better soon!
Just askin
January 15th, 2010
2:07 pm
Was that an epitome or epiphany he was trying to have. Run run run
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
2:07 pm
…and these guys wonder why women walk around with the crunchface…it’s dangerous out here…just a little kindness and the crazy comes out.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
2:08 pm
Dreams Your song is SOOOOO appropriate here. He’s has already asked me if I want him to be my man. lmao! He gets mad when he tells me he misses me and I say Thank You…what do you say to that?
He asked me about doing something one time and I told him I had plans. He said I need to keep in mind what my priorities are for what we’re trying to do.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
2:08 pm
@DreamsMaterialize
LOL
@Slim
I didnt know my Keith Sweat comment was going to stir up the board lol…
Slim you got him on that Keith Sweat Merry Go Round lol
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
2:08 pm
I get this part but if you are dating a couple of dudes why should he have to pay for you? If you like this guy or think you may (obviously its something there which is why you are out with him) would it hurt you to say, hey you are cool, you took me on 3 dates, I got this one.
Dont just show up with some tuna sandwiches and some chips like the movies like hey lets have a picnic. Thats says you are cool but really not worth me spending some money on you. Yes I know you spent money at Publix for the Tuna. Give what you get.
M dot – Why should he have to pay if I’m dating others? I guess life ain’t fair, M. Give what you get – my SO and others have never complained about that with me. In fact, I was raised to give my best, what I would want someone to give me.
And M, I’m a foodie. Tuna sandwiches, on a picnic? Man, people PAY me to prepare picnic lunches for them and tuna sandwiches won’t be on the menu.
Beautiful ♥ is off to Vegas for a week!
January 15th, 2010
2:09 pm
*just a little kindness and the crazy comes out.* yep!
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
2:09 pm
@DreamsM ~ that’s my favorite song by Keith Sweat.
@SlimOne ~ once again RUN, do not stop for clothes or any toiletries….keep running till you get to Wesley Chapel. I’ll pick you up at the Micky Dees by I-20!
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
2:11 pm
So it’s not all WOMEN that are the crazy ones. Yall men exhibit characteristics of a psycho too. Good thing he doesn’t know how many feet of CT i have rolled up in my boy short bottoms.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
2:12 pm
@kimmie
LOL when was the last time you prepared a picnic that you got paid for?
Anyhow I guess we will never agree so be it.
Leggs
January 15th, 2010
2:12 pm
@Raqi, that’s exactly what i said. He’s insecure and eventually will become possessive and probably abusive. Wouldn’t even be surprised if he talks about suicide if she continues to reject him in his mind…you know those types.
Beautiful ♥ is off to Vegas for a week!
January 15th, 2010
2:16 pm
*hey you are cool, you took me on 3 dates, I got this one.* no problem here!
woman who don’t pay or don’t think they should are bougie and stuckup. i stay clear of females of this nature. not a good look.
For Real
January 15th, 2010
2:20 pm
Slim: “Maybe he was excited by the fact he could still see on the other side of me if he looked at my gap.” – What got me was when I could stick my fanga thru there and lick the ketup off my fanga nail. Wait minute that didn’t come out right.
Dream_n: I’m going to the Hawks game tonite too. Does your sister like alligators?
Raqi/Leggs: Dayum yall need to stop watchin Dr. Fill. Ole boy is just suffering from attention deficit syndrome that Slim is giving him. Slim is doing the samethang we do to chicks. Slim could gets some booty from him anytime she wants now.
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
2:23 pm
That was disgusting!!
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
2:25 pm
@Slim
LOL You have a good old fashioned simp. Does this guy cry? Does he confide in you?
I feel bad because he is playing cards with his hand open.
Slim, let me ask you a question and I need you to be 100% with me:
Do you know that this guy has no other options? That’s why he is sweating you right?
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
2:32 pm
For Treal…um…YUCK!
Mdot I could care LESS even if he had a whole Harem of women. But if he’s just looking for someone to fill his time until he finds another cub to prey on then he should hit up one of the many he claims to want something with him. He gave me the spill about not wanting to have meaningless r’ships/cutbuddships with folks.
Melo
January 15th, 2010
2:32 pm
whats disgusting??
Melo
January 15th, 2010
2:33 pm
and is 8.21 same as 69..im thinking 8.21 is a sexx position..why uall not answering my qstion since Thirsty Thursday??
Beautiful ♥ is off to Vegas for a week!
January 15th, 2010
2:35 pm
i’m just not with it today. this is the first time that i’m not in da mood to blog or keep up. i need a new pair of jeans. that’ll make me feel betta. and i’ll get my lip waxed while i’m out too.
i’ll check in later this month. maybe i’ll have my groove back. *waving*
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
2:35 pm
Leggs yeah Keith used to make them hits. I got all his stuff, even LSG. lol
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
2:36 pm
Melo
Real’s post about “ketchup”
Never heard of 8.21
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
2:36 pm
M dot – I have a side cake baking/catering business. LOL
Hey Beautiful! You’re right, bougie & stuck up is not a good look. And so NOT a look to describe ME, girl! For the record, in my earlier post I said I only pay for an entire date after me & dude are established. Before that, I don’t mind chipping in. But I don’t like muttering over the bill at the table, like when I’m out with friends and we are all going dutch. On a date, if I’m chipping in, he will pay for all of dinner and I will pay for parking and the movie tickets, for example. We’re not sitting at the table trying to tally things up. But I’ve never had a problem with a guy not wanting to pay for dates. Most of time, when I’ve offered the guy will say that’s okay. Just really not a problem for me, though. I think M dot may have misunderstood or he does but just does not agree with me. No worries.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
2:39 pm
@Slim
“he claims to want something with him. He gave me the spill about not wanting to have meaningless r’ships/cutbuddships with folks.”
Oh ok. I didnt realize that he is voicing that alot of women want him. That shows you he has no other options. He is putting all is stock in you and he just met you? Man….them OSS brothers are a trip…I went to OSS 1 time, those dudes were about to stop giving out foot rubs, shopping sprees, etc lol
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
2:41 pm
Dream_n that Keith will get it goin’.
Melo
January 15th, 2010
2:46 pm
SlimOne..that stuff u said on ur 1.51pm is crazy only if u tell it to smebody else.
dude may sound playful and fun to another gerl…thing is,what guys do to their chics or potentials dont vibe with everyone.This board here is sounding as ur “girls” in a way coz if a chic were to do that to me(getting feedback from her gerlzz about my pursuit) it proly would not come of right to them either.
Everything that gets said has to be taken in the context of how u sitting,whats the general tempo of the discussion,what preceded what,what u wearing etc….
If u asked these blog folk if it wld be right to jump to bed with this guy they wld proly tell u,”hell no”
But that may pass to be the best thing that ever happened in ur lyfe and u guys wil be married soon after that and live happily ever after!
Dont think too much..thats the problem with u chics..just consider if u happy at that time and if this guy seems like hard working enough to be able to take care of a fam….
IS THAT WHAT U LOOKING FOR IN A MAN????
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
2:47 pm
Slim – If I were you, I would EASE away from this dude. Guys like that always scared me. And no, I don’t care HOW nice-looking he is, others have peeped him being crazy and that’s why he’s alone. Yeah, he’s used to women sweating him – until they see how crazy he is.
I said EASE away, cause some nuts won’t let you leave them! Tell him you’re thinking about becoming a num or something!LOL!
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
2:47 pm
M. Well I recall once when I was around him, his phone was blowing up like crazy. He told me he wanted me to answer it so whoever it was would stop calling. He said he’d expect him to be able to answer my phone as well especially if it was late at night. He said he wants to go forward with whoever he ends up with Eliminating All Doubt. I was like, I’m not about to answer your phone, nor want to answer your phone and you’re sure a hayo ain’t bout to answer mine. LOL!!!
and i’m ROTFLMAO at the foot rubs at OSS…..:lol:
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
2:48 pm
I like hearing Keith every now and then – when one of his songs pop up outta no where. That happened to me yesterday with Lalah Hathaway’s “Forever, For Always, For Love”
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
2:49 pm
Melo, come on, you know that dude is crazy! Ain’t gon be no skipping thru the daisies, livin happily ever after! He’s creeping me out and I’m just reading about him!
Chink
January 15th, 2010
2:54 pm
Slim…Do what you feel is right. I can’t believe people are judging him solely based on your observations which are basically your “opinions”. While you may take his actions as such it might NOT mean what he is trying to show you. Might be a little qwirky but noone should be telling you to run or accusing someone they dont know of being a abuser/potential abuser.
Bottom line Everyone has baggage and you better off finding out whats “really” in that carry-on (before making a decision) than looking for another suitcase…
Melo
January 15th, 2010
2:55 pm
Never heard of 8.21
@lUVBUG
Ok..now if these guys dont tell me what it is,when i get home,ill try make Queen take an 8.21 position with me..have her feet over her head and then i slide in from this other angle,touching her from the tatas,while pinning her head and neck against the wall…
Get it??
If she chokes to death,its uall’ fault and uall may be forced to come testify in court!
Melo
January 15th, 2010
3:00 pm
Melo, come on, you know that dude
Kimmie..we have not even asked SlimOne what she had said,prior to the guy saying he had an epiphamy etc..what was the flow of the discussion…..
uall sounding as if,from the time Slimone met up with her to the time they got into the movie,SlimOne neva said a thing??
If a chic came to me wearing some real sexxy,maybe bordering on magic city uniform,i will proly have “baby” and “sexx” somewhere in our discourse…the environment dictates what gets said smetimes!
Im sure u dig that Kimmie!!??
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
3:01 pm
Yes – Please don’t take my advice. I think you already know that though.
For Real
January 15th, 2010
3:02 pm
“i’ll get my lip waxed while i’m out too.” – LMGDAO!!!!!
Kimmie: “EASE” huh… sound like you have tipped away before… but for some reason I want to Easy Like a Sunday Morning now. “Why in the world would anybody want to put chains on me?”
Slim: “He told me he wanted me to answer it so whoever it was would stop calling. He said he’d expect him to be able to answer my phone as well especially if it was late at night.” – Next thing you know yall will be painting each other toe nails while listening to If I was your Girlfriend.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
3:03 pm
I can’t believe people are judging him solely based on your observations which are basically your “opinions”. Chink, how can something you OBSERVE, that you’ve seen & heard with your own two eyes & ears be an OPINION? Now how you choose to interpret it may be an opinion, but the words definitely speak for themselves.
If you put in out here on the blog, it’s there for everyone to judge, its a BLOG!
But I do agree with you that she should do what she feels is right. And looks like she’s doing that – taking it slow with dude.
Just sayin
January 15th, 2010
3:04 pm
I can’t believe people are judging him solely based on your observations which are basically your “opinions”. While you may take his actions as such it might NOT mean what he is trying to show you. Might be a little qwirky but noone should be telling you to run or accusing someone they dont know of being a abuser/potential abuser.
If it’s typed as stalker/crazy/abuser, then that’s how it perceived. Perception is reality.
Just sayin
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
3:04 pm
Chink, what else are we suppose to give our opinion on but what she is telling us?
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
3:07 pm
@Slim
“I recall once when I was around him, his phone was blowing up like crazy. He told me he wanted me to answer it so whoever it was would stop calling.”
LOL now slim he know betta. This dude running some old 1988 Johnny Gill game on you. He was testing you to see if you would answer the phone.
LOL the footrubs thing is crazy. Them dudes at OSS be tripping..
But last night I was at a party and this gorgeous girl was standing next to me at the bar. He walks up, starts talking and then gets on one knee and started BOWING! I was like have guys devalued themselves this much…wow.
Then later, I saw a GUY with some leggings on, cowboy boots, and a rhianna perm. Yup…you read right…A DUDE! What are you doing Atlanta!?
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
3:11 pm
Melo – Okay, I dig!LOL!!
4 Real – I love that song! And yeah, I’ve had to do some EASING away a time or two. Kimmie just can’t do crazy!
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
3:12 pm
a rhianna perm.
LOL!! Hilarious!
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
3:15 pm
What are you doing Atlanta!?
have you been to LA? lol
Chink
January 15th, 2010
3:17 pm
What I am saying is that she is portraying this dude in a negative light and based on her opinion you all judged him…thats not fair to him. Because in reality we dont know. I didnt see Slim write hey what should I do or should i date him?
Nobody should be able to make a case on this guy based on the stuff she wrote about let alone accuse him of every negative personality trait.
I make a point not to tell grown adults what to do …
Melo
January 15th, 2010
3:18 pm
This dude running some old 1988 Johnny Gill game on you. He was testing you to see if you would answer the phone.
M(dot)??
if a chic came to ur house 4 the 1st time and ur home 4ne rings and shes standing there,right by the 4ne,wld u be comfortable letting her answer it,if she was the only one u want to see!
I wld!
I dont see why u judging this guy differently!
For Real
January 15th, 2010
3:19 pm
“I saw a GUY with some leggings on, cowboy boots, and a rhianna perm. Yup…you read right…A DUDE! What are you doing Atlanta!?” –
Dude: Well see it’s this chick name Slim and she ain’t bit on any of my other game so I figured if I go peacock then she will finally see the real me.
M.: WTF?!
Dude: Oh and does this burn look bad to you?
M.: WTF?!
Dude: Oh naw it ain’t like that playboy. I was curling my hair for Slim and burned my forehead.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
3:20 pm
Melo, I don’t doubt that Slim and the guy had some sort of verbal exchange but we can only comment on the side she is giving us. It must be that she does not feel that whatever she said to him warrants the reactions that he gave.
I know we all interpret things differently therefore prompting us to react as we do.
I guess that can be compared to a woman accepting a drink from a man in a bar and he interprets that to mean she wants to lay with him. Is it her fault on how he interprets it the wrong way?
Give me a man’s opinion on how you all interpret things with women.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
3:29 pm
thats not fair to him.
Chink, we don’t know this guy from Adam, so who cares if we’re being “fair”?!! Slim put the situation out there, so she’s prepared to deal with our reaction to what SHE wrote!
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
3:34 pm
Melo
January 15th, 2010
3:34 pm
Give me a man’s opinion on how you all interpret things with women
@Raqi..
I already did earlier of the chic who wanted to go slow after i declared my interest but was accepting my invitations and flirtations with her in and around town…a classy chic with no gold digger nor playa intentions must just not accept invitations beyond a ceratain level of expense unless she truly is getting in…
a chic that accepts my slow dance rub on the dance floor..im gonna come at u like that..ok,u may reject me,but im feeling that bootey for as long as u let me rub on urs
If im inviting u to the crib,im gonna try get those draws….
If u invite me to urs,im bringing a bottle of expensive wine to thank u in advance
If my index is locked on ur panties and im dragging urs down and ur butt is extendedng upwards,i take it u want the draws to ur ankles as well
If my eyes are locked on u as we sit acros each other on the bar and then i extend a drink ur way,courtesy of the bar man’s slick due diligence on u,u bet im gonna swing ur way at some point tonite so tell that broke joker/dude sitting next to u and tryin to holla to phluck off coz we got worthy contenders in the joint!!
If i say we meet at the hotel and its room number 120,dont come in there and then start saying oh,”dfo u like my weight,am i fat..blah,blah..”" just get them clothes off and lets phluck! If i thoght u fat and unatractive and unphluckable,i wldnt be here!
u want more Raqi??
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
3:35 pm
My post was to read insert joke here….LOL
Melo you are always right on time..
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
3:36 pm
Melo – Fast forward 15 years. Suppose your daughter presented you with the same scenario Slim did and asked for your opinion. What would you tell her?
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
3:37 pm
Melo
a classy chic with no gold digger nor playa intentions must just not accept invitations beyond a ceratain level of expense unless she truly is getting in…
Now this I can truly respect. Don’t give mixed signals.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
3:42 pm
@Melo
It doesnt matter. He was just trying to test her and see what she was going to react, maybe if she was gon crazy, or if other women would make Slim like her more. Thats it.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
3:43 pm
Mdot You got me rolling ova here OMG!!!! dude w/leggins, perm, footrubs…
Chink
January 15th, 2010
3:44 pm
Kimmie
Thats not the point.
So if your SO or someone you date was writing about you and based on what he wrote everyone thought you were nutso and telling him to run as fast as he can …..I have a feeling you wouldnt be so happy to accept that. The POINT I am making is that this guy could like her and just because how he acting isnt your CUP of TEA that doesnt mean you have to try to sway SLIM to dump dude. I havent heard a reasonable explanation yet for her to run except baseless accusations of him being a stalker etc only because he has some quirky methods to getting to know someone.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
3:46 pm
@SlimOne
Im not even joking lol..This other dude look like a 6′5″ version of prince. I posted it on my Facebook. Do you have Facebook? I want to know what some of these women look like.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
3:49 pm
My reaction to most of the things he says is
Melo
January 15th, 2010
3:50 pm
Suppose your daughter presented you with the same scenario Slim did
to answer i will give u an example…
I wld palyfully text my wife as she sitting next to me….i dont see nothing wrong here and i dont see nothing wrog with dude texting Slim..dating pple do playful stuff,even corny…but when looked by a committe,like we doing now,it may seem childish and stupid…so context really matters…
if a guy told my daugther that he had an apiphamy, i wld ask her to simply watch his actions to see if they confirm that his epiphamy comes to reality..that he behaves in a manner that is worthy of getting her as his wife.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
3:51 pm
LOL No Melo, that good enough. But while some signals are truly mixed some are just bad interpretations.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
3:53 pm
Mdot Yeah, I have a FB page. lol I’ve seen a 6′5″ dude with a blue jean skirt on, a wig, a tied up short-sleeve shirt with size 15 yellow pumps!!!!!! Looked like Shaq in drag
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
3:57 pm
Chink – Hopefully Slim’s buddy isn’t reading this.
All we can go on is what people present on this blog. Everyone is free to voice their opinion. Slim presents herself as a woman who can think for herself just fine. Ain’t a d@mn thing me or anyone on this blog can say to Slim to sway her from dating dude if that’s what she wants, she’s GROWN just like hopefully everyone else on this blog. And if Slim thought the sun didn’t shine until dude woke up, that’s how she would have presented him on this blog.
Raqi speaks highly of her husband, I speak highly of my SO, others speak highly of whomever they care about and so forth. On the flip side, they speak critical of those they dealt with they don’t care for so much, to varying degrees. This is MISadventures in Atlanta blog. This situation Slim presented appears to me & others to be a MISadventure. If you don’t read stalker, possesive, a little crazy, whatever in it, and what she presented would have you salivating, hey, whatever gets you going!
It really ain’t that serious!
LoveLife411
January 15th, 2010
3:57 pm
@ Slim… Introduce dude to Chink… problem solved.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
3:59 pm
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
4:00 pm
Chink Everything that every blogger posts is one-sided. So, should we never respond to any posts with our own opinions? Seems there would be nothing to discuss, and this forum would not exist.
LoveLife411
January 15th, 2010
4:00 pm
and Chink your comments are appreciated and noted… pretty much everything posted here is food for thought.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
4:03 pm
Okay Melo, I get playful, cause I can be downright silly myself. I just think if Slim really thought he was joking, she would have presented it that way. A lot of truth is sometimes presented as a joke.
You gotta really watch folk these days though, Melo. A lady can’t be too careful.
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
4:05 pm
Rhianna perm!! Now that’s funny.
I get (and respect) the suggestion to not take advice from strangers with no real context of the whole situation. I don’t get the part about not giving an opinion on a blog based on that same sliver of info.
I’m gonna assume that Slim don’t go around just taking advice all willy-nilly.
Side note: I am concerned with the trend of guys stalking after initially showing slight crazy traits…that’s too common in Atlanta. And yes, I know I cannot assume that he is crazy.
M. (pronouced M dot)
January 15th, 2010
4:06 pm
@SlimOne
Look me up and I want to see the profile.!
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
4:06 pm
A lot of truth is sometimes presented as a joke.
Kimmie, I actually think people speak more truth in joking than they do when not.
Chink
January 15th, 2010
4:08 pm
LOL Dreams we can discuss but I just dont agree with telling someone to RUN …when we dont have the whole story. That means action that’s for SLIM to decide and saying this person is a/can be a abuser is ridiculous in itself. I know there are smart people on this blog I just think it went too far with the broad judging strokes.
LoveLife Got a Man thanks!
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
4:12 pm
Raqi – I agree. Notice how folks will say “just kidding”(but not really)?
Melo
January 15th, 2010
4:12 pm
Kimmie/Luvbug/Raqi
what really concerns me about afri/american guys,(u can say white guys too) is this trend to kill especially after being dumped or even going on the stalker thing.
I really dont get it altho i asuume some males are back bone less,meaning,they depend on the women for stuff,money,accomodation etc so when they get dumped,they become spiteful.
My only advice to chics, i dont care how much u luv him,dont let a dude come live in ur house/apartment or sign on his lease.Let his brother,his friends etc do that.Let him be a man and hustlke on his own without burdening u with his responsibilities be4 u are even married.
The moment u chics realize that,thats when ur men are gon to be real standup dudes!
Just sayin
January 15th, 2010
4:17 pm
What I am saying is that she is portraying this dude in a negative light
First of all, Chink must be white, which is why they get killed like they do in horrors. Freddie standing over you with the axe and to make sure you don’t prematurely judge you can only know for sure he’s wanting to kill you after the deed is done AS OPPOSED TO JUST DANG RUNNING!!!
If you’re 10 miles up in my butt from day one, something is not right. If you’re overly anything after a couple of dates again, something is not right. It’s not rocket science. If you’re scary and that’s what I get from my interaction with you, I’m probably right. The safe thing to do is to move it along. My safety is first and foremost. Lastly, if all is he is, done or said has been negative, then she’s protraying as is. You should date him.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
4:17 pm
this trend to kill especially after being dumped or even going on the stalker thing.
Melo – See this is really what I’ve alluding to! That’s what I was talking about with 4 Real about sometimes you have to EASE away! Some of these dudes just can’t take NO for an answer. That’s why I don’t PLAY with people and give mixed signals. If I’m not really feeling you even a little, I don’t even go out with you, much less go & let something happen physically. I do not need a free meal or drink – I can make a peanut butter sandwich and be just fine – and ALIVE!
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
4:19 pm
dont let a dude come live in ur house/apartment or sign on his lease.Let his brother,his friends etc do that.Let him be a man and hustlke on his own without burdening u with his responsibilities be4 u are even married.
Melo, you need to put this on a BILLBOARD! God, you sound like my parents with that kind of advice!
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
4:19 pm
Odd, joking advice that my mom gave me once…”Luvbug, there are three things that a man says that you betta believe he aint joking about…even if he’s laughing when he’s saying it.”
1. I don’t love you
2. I don’t want that baby
3. I’ll kill you
She continues, “Men don’t lie about things like that”.
I just looked at her…but somehow it still stays in the back of my mind.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
4:21 pm
Melo..
Not everyone wants to get married. Some people are content with being in a committed relationship with their significant other.
I’m just say’n
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 15th, 2010
4:24 pm
Mdot bout to head out to get this Head done….look up via email keasha_96@yahoo.com
GOOD RIDDENS…ooops meant have a good weekend all!
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
4:25 pm
Dream_n:
That advice applies even if you don’t want to get married.
Melo
January 15th, 2010
4:26 pm
Chink must be white, which is why they get killed like they do in horrors.
@Jus saying..blacks are getting killed too..! that was kinda funny tho
@Kimmie,i understand what u saying…i think,if we look at Slim situ closely,reading her, i think the fact that there are 2 dudes makes her rationale a lil twisted and conflicted..shes conflicted in some way, i guarantee u that,she may tell us otherwise.If this guy werent good enough..i dont think he wld be about to go on 4th date….
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
4:27 pm
Luvbug – I had a guy say #1 & #3 on your list. That’s when I “eased” away.
Of course, later he said he didn’t mean it, but it was over for me.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
4:29 pm
@ Kimmie
Too late to debate
But I dont see a problem with letting my SO other move in with me if we are together. Or even if he’s struggling a bit.
I’d be there like johnny on the spot.
Raqi
January 15th, 2010
4:31 pm
Melo, I think it’s a control issue. If they kill they have the control.
Melo
January 15th, 2010
4:34 pm
That advice applies even if you don’t want to get married
YEP..IF u gon to be committed to him,he needs to think thru aome things in advance…credit,saving etc…coz he wants to have a gerl for keeps..
Let a man be a man and let him demonstrate that thru action rather than u bailing him out on tricky stuff!
My young cousin was jailed one time,back home over a thang he neva did.
we kept that on the low low and none in the fam got wind of it and we got himn out as boys.
Ur man must do likewise,wake up everday gon to work,food on the table,aprtment is looking good,his wheels are decent and there is food in the home and he asks u for nothing except to put some on the stove for him!
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
4:38 pm
Well
I guess I differ on that. I’ll let a man be a man, but if my man gets down. I’m going to be there to help him out, pull him up, and keep his head above water.
Now if he’s not doing anything, that’s a different story.
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
4:39 pm
Lots of these dudes are just boys in a man’s body. People probably made a million excuses for them growing up. “His daddy’s not around”, “He comes from a bad neighborhood”, “He’s an only child”, “He’s all I got”…
Now, they’re grown (physically), and people are still making excuses for them. “It’s hard out there”, “He had a bad childhood”, “He got issues”, “He really is a good person”, “He really is trying”…
Still getting treated like little boys, so they still act like little boys. Physical/verbal abuse is just a grownup way of throwing a temper tantrum. Throw their a#* in the pool of life and let ‘em learn to swim. Time to take the floaties off and become a man.
kimmie
January 15th, 2010
4:41 pm
Melo – Your 4:34 – ON POINT! That was/is the mindset of the men in my family that I respect, like my dad, grandad, some uncles, etc. That’s the definition of a real man & what I look for & tell my friends to look for. But I think it would be difficult, being a woman, to express that to a boy if I had to raise one on my own. I’d have to get one of my uncles or cousins I respect to teach it & show it in ACTION!
Melo
January 15th, 2010
4:43 pm
Dream_n..
thing is,most of these chics are bringing the dudes in theri apartment from jump…they are not beiong kept by them..its the other way round..signing leases for him,signing on a car for him..etc…or dwruight bringing him in on jump only coz the dyck was good and she swallowed
Dont do that!
Melo
January 15th, 2010
4:45 pm
Dream_n!
And im done..after this!
The way u start is the way u end!
God weekend everybody! Enjoy ur football and may the best teams win!
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
4:47 pm
We may be talking about two different “men”.But hey..
I dont care, I’m not supporting one soooooo with that said.
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
4:47 pm
Dream_n
You think I can stay with you for a little while. I’ll kick in on some bills as soon as I get this job thing staightened out. I can make it up to you in other ways.
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
4:50 pm
LOL… As long as you do that thing you did in the Champagne Room yesterday..
I’on forsee no prob!
Luvbug
January 15th, 2010
4:52 pm
Melo – totally agree…except for the COOKING (you knew that already)…although in the way you typed it (woman not working), I agree. There is no reason a person should do househeeping when his/her partner is unemployed. That’s called teamwork.
DreamsMaterialize
January 15th, 2010
4:53 pm
don’t worry, you can have that on demand, like cable. actually, I’m feelin’ like it’s time for another round…
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
4:56 pm
Aigh’t let me get my coat again….
**DING** **DING** ***DING**
Round 10
Dream_n~ Appreciates the small things in life
January 15th, 2010
5:01 pm
Goodnight Lovely Folks..
Wish me well… as I ski my little heart out!
Night Melo/Professor/Leggs
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
9:43 am
Guess it’s Broke Blogging FreeBallin Day!!!!!!!!!!
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
9:46 am
BROKE BLOGGIN
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
9:58 am
Sup Slim. Looks like WD took the day off for MLK. We the only ones on the plantation today? lol
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
10:03 am
I’se heyah, massa.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
10:06 am
Yep I reckon so. Gonna be a slow cotton pickin’ day
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
10:13 am
lol hey Sexy. ya’ll silly. did you all have a good weekend?
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
10:20 am
My weekend was bitter sweet. I really enjoyed spending time with my sis & niece celebrating her very first year….boy did she really tear that cake up, had icing everywhere.
Then bitter news is that my dad isn’t doing so well. So i’ll be off to NC later today to go check thangs out. Lawd I pray I have enough strenff to control my Pimp Slap Hand from wretchin across my stepmama face….lawd knows I need ya now. AAaaaaaamen!
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
10:38 am
Hope everything turns out well with your dad.
Leave your Pimp Slap Hand with me until you get back. That way you won’t be able to use it. lol
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
10:48 am
Yeah I hope things turn out for the better as well. I hope I won’t have to move up to Charlotte but if that’s the sacrifice I have to make then, that’s just what it is….
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
10:58 am
yeah I feel you. charlotte isn’t too horrible. I used to live there. It’s not The A though. so no misadventures to speak of? we need a Bootleg Blog Topic. lol
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
11:27 am
So why don’t you come up with our topic for today…that’ll be a great idea. LOL! Only thing i have is a minor update from the dude i was telling you all about Friday.
When I got off work he called and said, some chicks were beginning to UP their game, so he needed to know what it is I wanted to do as far as dating him. He said he wanted to continue on with me but if I didn’t feel the same way he’d go with doors #2, 3 and so forth. LOL! I asked him what it was he was asking me exactly: to agree to a relationship with him, date exclusively…what. So he said he wants to go forward getting rid of all our side action and just date exclusively.
Beautiful ♥ is off to Vegas for a week!
January 18th, 2010
11:31 am
morning bootleggers! *Slim* i hope he feels better. going to go get the hair done for Vegas. almost cancelled my flight last night. don’t want to leave the boys. had a long talk with them last evening. idk about this!
Lurker
January 18th, 2010
11:35 am
Do you guys believe in love at first sight or what the french call the “flash”?
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
11:37 am
Mawnin Beautiful….I could use some Vegas right about now! Have fun for me
@Lurker Um…i’ve never personally experienced Love at first sight so my final answer will probably have to be, “That’s a Negative”
Beautiful ♥ is off to Vegas for a week!
January 18th, 2010
11:42 am
i do! and have. but you prolly already knew that.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
11:47 am
The only love at first sight I could POSSIBLY think of is seeing my niece coming out of the birth canal and loving her instantly. But as far as a love insterest type deal….NAH. Have a hard time trying to fathom automatically loving someone you don’t know. JMO
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
11:47 am
Lurker, I don’t know about love at first sight, but I believe it is possible for some to know pretty quickly if they want to spend the rest of their life with someone.
Beautiful, what’s up? Hit the Black Jack table for me…that’s my joint.
Slim, what do you want with this guy? Are you feeling him, or still trying to decide? Seems like he’s wants to lock it down. Are you trying to do that? On my end, a few chicks from the past have been coming out of the woodworks all of a sudden. One hit me up out the blue like, “Hey I’m moving to Atlanta. We should kick it”. Another one like, “Hey I’m thinking of moving to Atlanta. We should hang out.” A third hit me saying she’s visiting and wants to hang out with me…and she’s married. I’m like wth is going on in the universe? lol
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
11:58 am
Dreams Not really feeling him like that…especially enough to say i ONLY want to date you. Just the recent events have sort of turned me off then to now be preoccupied with my Pops just further pushes him to backdrop of my mind. Not sure what’s going on as far as the chicks trying to lock you up. So what are YOU going to do with all the potential offers??? Inquiring mind would like to know
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
12:07 pm
Not really trying to be in anything serious right now. I like dating. I tell that to anyone I meet right now. I’m not fooling with the married chick though. Maybe lunch, but that’s it I promise. lol
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
12:10 pm
Afternoon All,
DreamsM – dayum bruh, playing dumb huh. Wth wrong in the universe? Riiiiight. Exhibit A for the “Always can get some get back” argument. LOL!!!
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
12:20 pm
Dreams It doesn’t seem like too many folks at the moment are looking to be in anything serious right now for some reason….is it the onsight of, should I dare say it……SPRING?!! LOL
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
12:26 pm
Slim – you might be right about the Spring Syndrome. Its New Years and resolutions are hanging on by threads right now. Hoes want to reform (yeah right), Playas waiting till after Valentines, and Regla folks just dont want nothing serious right now.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
12:29 pm
Willie I must admit is seems the atmosphere in the world lately has been very strange, very strange indeed. I’ve even noticed within myself and I have no explanation for it at all. Things have GOT to get better.
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
12:38 pm
Yeah it could be people were layin’ low in ‘09 with the economy and all, or it could be Spring Syndrome like WillieD says. lmao at “resolutions hanging by a thread”. Where my scissors at? The break in the weather made for a few nice sights today.
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
12:41 pm
Slim things always get better. Every new day brings new opportunity. This is your time.
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
12:47 pm
Since it seems to be just us 3, I tell ya what. DreamsM why don’t you meet Slim for a few drinks. She can tell you all about her Dude tryn to corner her and you can tell her all the things you won’t be doing to the Married chick. I’ll even forgo my usual consultants fee and just charge this one to the game. How bout that.LOL!!!
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
12:55 pm
Willie You’re silly….’all the things he WON’T be doing with the married chick’ lmao!
@Dreams I think your theory about folks feeling so restricted in 09, that I think a break out is in the works for 2010. I guess we can expect some real craziness this year.
Did either of you come up with some Resolutions?
My uncle was talking to my cousin and I. He said to think or write down all you’ve accomplished in the last 10yrs, then write down all you hope to accomplish for the next 10. Anyone care to divulge what your upcoming goals are?
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
12:59 pm
For your enjoyment:
If we the taxpayers receive another Economic Stimulus payment it will be a very exciting program.
I’ll explain it using the Q and A format:
—————————————————————
Q. What is an Economic Stimulus payment?
A. It is money that the federal government will send to taxpayers.
Q. Where will the government get this money?
A. From taxpayers..
Q. So the government is giving me back my own money?
A. Only a smidgen.
Q. What is the purpose of this payment?
A. The plan is for you to use the money to purchase a high-definition TV set, thus stimulating the economy.
Q. But isn’t that stimulating the economy of Asia?
A. Shut up or you don’t get your check.
Below is some helpful advice on how to best help the US economy by spending your stimulus check wisely:
1. If you spend the stimulus money at Wal-Mart, your money will go to China.
2. If you spend it on gasoline, your money will go to Saudi Arabia.
3. If you purchase a computer, it will go to India.
4. If you purchase fruit and vegetables, it will go to Mexico, Honduras or Guatemala.
5. If you buy a car, it will go to Japan or Korea.
6. If you purchase useless plastic stuff, it will go to Taiwan.
7. If you pay off your credit cards, or buy stock, it will go to pay management bonuses and be hidden in offshore accounts.
Or, you can keep the money in America by:
1. Spending it at yard sales or flea markets, or
2. Going to baseball or football games, or
3. Hiring prostitutes, or
4. Buying cheap beer or
5. Getting tattoos.
These are the only wholly-American-owned businesses still operating in the US.
Conclusion:
The best way to stimulate the economy is to go to a ball game with a prostitute that you met at a yard sale and drink beer all day until you’re drunk enough to go get tattooed.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
1:01 pm
Or how bout these, Love ‘em!:
The economy is so bad that:
I got a pre-declined credit card in the mail.
I ordered a burger at McDonald’s and the kid behind the counter asked, “Can you afford fries with that?”
CEO’s are now playing miniature golf.
If the bank returns your check marked “Insufficient Funds,” you call them and ask if they meant you or them.
Hot Wheels and Matchbox stocks are trading higher than GM.
McDonald’s is selling the 1/4 ouncer.
Parents in Beverly Hills fired their nannies and learned their children’s names.
A truckload of Americans was caught sneaking into Mexico .
Dick Cheney took his stockbroker hunting.
Motel Six won’t leave the light on anymore.
The Mafia is laying off judges.
Exxon-Mobil laid off 25 Congressmen.
Congress says they are looking into this Bernard Madoff scandal. Oh Great!! The guy who made $50 Billion disappear is being investigated by the people who made $1.5 Trillion disappear!
And, finally…
I was so depressed last night thinking about the economy, wars, jobs, my savings, Social Security, retirement funds, etc., I called the Suicide Lifeline. I got a call center in Pakistan , and when I told them I was suicidal, they got all excited, and asked if I could drive a truck!
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
1:19 pm
Slim I promise I won’t text you during drinks and ask you how you think it’s going. lol And when I was talking to Jose in spanish I WASN’T telling him to make your magarita with triple shots of tequila.
Resolutions, I usually don’t make any except that I want my life to continue to improve in all areas. The next year should always be better than the previous year. Other than that I’ve resolved to be a millionaire this year. Dang, I think my joint is hanging on by a thread. lol
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
1:31 pm
Those are funny slim.
I am bored as heyal. Working with not a whole lot to do. Mayne I wanna walk out this camp so quick and get a few drinks or just people watch.
DreamsM – I agree with the weather change statement. You’d think it was 75 out with the way somma these chicks dressed today.
Leggs
January 18th, 2010
1:38 pm
Good afternoon everybody.
On MLK day, I am working like a hebrew slave!
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
1:47 pm
LOL@ Dreams…I’ve never before in my life dated a guy that wanted to take an account of our progress every 36mins. lol I told him to relax, so the next time I saw him he tried his best not to say ANYTHING. Guess what….he even asked me how I felt that day went with him dayum near killing himself not to say anything. WTF lololol!
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
1:49 pm
Hey Leggs, Just me and you Baby. Whats on ya mind? Slim and DreamsM somewhere listeneing to each others problems playing grab-azz on the sly
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
1:54 pm
Willie I’m still here. Had ran out to grab me some vittles. I sort of skipped breakfast this morn. Grabazzing….where they do that at?
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
2:02 pm
playing grab-azz on the sly
Slim I won’t tell if you won’t. lol ain’t heard grab-azz in a minute.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
2:06 pm
So what kind of nasty lil childhood games did you all play?…hide-n-go-get, strip I declare war, strip tonk, 7minutes in heaven lol
We used to play ‘house’ all the time and I would always be the mom. My friend would be like, why it always gotta be night time? (truth be told, me and my partner in crime tried to get in as many dry humping sessions as possible) But of course my response was always, “Cuz I said so, now go to sleep!”
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
2:07 pm
jus playn with yall, I get a lil silly when bored.
Slim its been 17 mins, its time for you to update your status. How you feeln about blogging with me today? I’m getting rid of all the other bloggers and want to know if you are ready to blog exclusively yet?
Leggs
January 18th, 2010
2:12 pm
@SlimOne ~ I went to a party Saturday evening and had a really good time. However, this one dude kept looking at me and finally asked me to dance. Found out he’s from The Bronx and we had a few things in common. HOWEVER, I had to think of you and your friend when he text you in the movie. This dude had the nerve to bend his head down and ask me to feel the roll on the back of his head. No, I didn’t touch it. He said it’s a running joke in his family in that that’s where the family information is stored. I looked at him like he had 6 heads and had to ask if this is something he tells strangers all the time. He thought it was cute and all I could think to do is RUN and find another dance buddy.
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
2:15 pm
just poppin in on my long-lost blog buds. Had to send a big
to Slim for that list. hilarious!
and i’ll keep your father in my prayers.
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
2:16 pm
I have a feeling I won’t be living that down…the courtship updates. LOL! I wouldn’t be surprised If he’d send me a singing telegram asking what I think about him now.
Roses are red, violets are blue
Mr Vain has a question for youuuuuuu
He wants to know, what you wanna doooooo
Are you as into him, as he is into youuuuuuuuuuuuuu?
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
2:20 pm
@Leggs First let me start off by saying Ewwwwwwww YUCK! I guess he figures if he jokes about an imperfection on his body before you do, that you can’t possibly talk about it. Sort of how Obese folks deal with their weight…by making fun of themselves. (no offense to anyone out there) I’ve done it before in regards to my small size…Mayne I’m so skinny my ipples touch.
czBrat I appreciate your prayers
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
2:28 pm
Slim – every game ALWAYS turned into Hide n go get and then House
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
2:32 pm
I have no desire to be rubbing on the sausage links on the back of a dude’s head.
eeewwww….Can you say turn OFF?!?!?
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
2:39 pm
TheDude and I are working through our first real relationship bump in the road. It’s been interesting to see how he’s handling the situation.
Leggs
January 18th, 2010
2:44 pm
I find it intriguing what people say when they first meet. For him to ask me to touch the roll on the back of his neck amazed me. I did tell him he needed to stop doing that with women, it’s not flattering.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
2:50 pm
I agree, Leggs. I should have added the disclaimer of certainly no strange sausage link rubbing. LOL!
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
2:53 pm
SC – How are you handling the situation? Is the onus all on him?
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
3:01 pm
It stems from a misunderstanding. I said one thing. He heard something totally different that hurt his feelings.
I have explained what my intent was and think we should be able to call it the misunderstanding what it was and easily move on. But I understand that his feelings are at play in the situation and until he gets back to a certain level of comfort, it’s going to be slow going.
I’m working on being okay with that since I’ve decided that I’m in it for the long haul.
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
3:02 pm
SexyC … is it still the issue about leaving his stuff at your place?
SlimOne...just call me Nicety!
January 18th, 2010
3:02 pm
Okie doke our small MLK Bootlegg bloggers. I’m bout to hit the road. Check yall when I make it back from the darkside.
In the words of Martin…PEAAAAAACCCCCEEEE
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
3:05 pm
czB – Yep…that would be it. He no longer keeps any of his things at my apartment.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
3:07 pm
happy b-day MLK, Jr.!
**Have a hard time trying to fathom automatically loving someone you don’t know**
i wouldn’t say love . . . infatuation yes!
**Hit the Black Jack table for me…that’s my joint**
blow on these for me for good luck! *wink*
**It doesn’t seem like too many folks at the moment are looking to be in anything serious right now for some reason**
i’ve never gone dis long w/o a mate. hmmm. something is definitely up!
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
3:10 pm
@SC
ha! so i was right. hehe. i like when i’m right! how are you planning on repairing this hiccup?
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
3:13 pm
i hope he’s not taking this as a red flag.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
3:13 pm
Hey, Angie. Not really anything for special me to do. Except keep being who I am and doing what I normally do.
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
3:14 pm
SC – just a few observations from someone(me) in the Peanut Gallery.
1.) As Men we sometimes translate statements (rightly/wrongly) that Women make. In our mind we dont always think you say what you mean and we take it from there. When our feelings are in play we tend to retreat into our comfortable space. Just talking about it doesn’t always make everything right in our eyes.
2.) Slow going may be the right thing. If you’ve already settled in for the long haul then this may just be the right thing for him. A non-issue sometimes turns into something bad with the whole ‘Just talk to me’ requests. He may not need to talk about it until he gets it right in his mind. Plus yall fell hard fast so slowing down could be a good thing for the long haul.
3.) Nukka dont need to be leaving anything at yo house no way.
Just my .02 from the Peanut Gallery.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
3:17 pm
packing is a bi’atch! i bought this new mascara . . . loreal double extend. my sister uses it and she raves about it.
ok, so why did i stand in Walmart earlier looking at all the condoms like imma get busy this week with some ninja? smdh.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
3:17 pm
I feel you on everything you said, WillieD. Well, he has certainly admitted to retreating. (And I can respect that.)
At this point, I’m not trying to force anything. Just adjusting to the shock to my system of the whole routine that our relationship had settled into being different for now.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
3:21 pm
**yall fell hard fast** i hate when i do that!
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
3:35 pm
SexyC, how long were you single before the current s/o? do you think you were bothered more because he did not clear it with you before bringing his things to your place or because he was getting too comfortable too soon?
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
3:43 pm
Neither of those were the real issue. It goes back to what I said to him when he first started staying over – that I didn’t want to live together by default. That if we were to live together that it would be a conversation that we had and a joint decision made based on the direction that our relationship was headed.
Because I had lived with someone before and I am not ever again going to live with someone that we did not have definite, fairly immediate plans to marry.
It had been nearly two months since he’d spent more than a night or two at his place. So, he took my rather light hearted question about whether or not he’d moved in to mean that I didn’t want his things at my apartment and that he was there too much.
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
3:54 pm
has he answered your question? does he want to talk about living together and plans to marry, or is he just leaving it at ‘nevermind’?
i know you said you’re ok because you’re in it for the long haul, but how would you like to see things go from here? do you want to talk about moving in or just give him time to get over the misunderstanding and get things back to the way the were?
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:01 pm
We have talked around the issue since then. While we have discussed marriage as an abstract concept that we agree that it is something we both want and are ready for, we have not discussed it as a definite for us as a couple, more of an understanding that it’s the direction that the relationship is headed.
At this point, we are both more into getting over the misunderstanding and getting back the sense of security in our relationship that took quite a hit (on both sides).
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
4:04 pm
SC – Better question, Has this affected anything in the ship other than maybe him not leaving things at your house or spending the night as frequently?
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:05 pm
I will say this though – I’m still learning him and how he reacts in situations. And if his method of dealing with things is taking his ball and going home…well, then…..maybe he’s not ready after all.
And that’s something that I have to seriously consider about moving forward.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:08 pm
Not really. Things had been a bit ackward for about a week or so, but now, we are settling into a different routine – that I am getting used to.
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
4:10 pm
seems like it really was an overreaction (as opposed to doubt). your ability to work your way back to a secure relationship says a lot. it’s a growth opportunity for both of you.
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
4:13 pm
Thats whats up. Speed bumps happen. Just a way of realigning the ship. BUT your 4:05 is quite a mouthful.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:14 pm
I certainly agree that it was an overreaction. He even said as much (not in those exact words). But by that time, what was done was done and now, it has to play itself out.
But I tell you, I have been one impatient, frustrated black chick the first few weeks of the new year. LOL!
Three Words Daily – Gotta love Growth!
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
4:17 pm
we are settling into a different routine – that I am getting used to.
are you not happy with the new routine?
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:18 pm
Just trying to stay real about it, WillieD. We haven’t quite reached the 6 month mark yet and are still learning about each other. And the extent of his reaction shook me up a bit.
But, I’m still onboard for the long haul, so I’m just going to see where it takes us. And I do believe that we are going to a good place – I really do.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:23 pm
It’s not that I’m UNhappy with our current routine, I had just used to him being there all the time. And considering the winter weather that has been perfect for coupling and hibernating, combined with my self-imposed spending diet, I’ve just had more nights at home that I normally would in warmer weather and freer spending days.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:25 pm
more night home ALONE that I normally would…
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
4:28 pm
so what’s he doing that you spend less time together? has he increased his alone time at home with his ball?
DreamsMaterialize
January 18th, 2010
4:31 pm
Sexy I like the way you’re playing it…with a directed patience. I’m sure he also appreciates the breathing room to get things back on course without over-discussing the issue.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
4:41 pm
SC may have gone about it the right way, BUT it’s not the way i would recommend to lets say a friend. for him to pull back is bad in my eyes.
Boonquisha
January 18th, 2010
4:43 pm
@Beautiful – you wouldn’t have played it that way cause you are use to being the other chick, duh.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
4:44 pm
i really hope he comes around. but idk. the pace that he was going might have been a normal comfy pace to him. rejection is a mutha.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
4:44 pm
especially to a man!
Boonquisha
January 18th, 2010
4:45 pm
Oh yeah, Boonquisha gon keep it real!
Boonquisha
January 18th, 2010
4:46 pm
Miss Sexy don’t listen to a strumpet.
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
4:46 pm
not necessarily, Beautiful. my s/o & i have had moments of
while learning each others’ behaviors. my reaction is to take a few steps back and quietly re-assess, while he moves right in and wants to talk through it all. pulling back is just my way of carefully thinking through what i want to say and how best to say it. some of us are prone to saying hurtful things when we feel hurt or wronged. one thing i’ve learned is to temper that. it usually helps the relationship in the long run.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
4:47 pm
@boon chaka laka
not true! and i have never been the other chick. why so mean? there must be something wrong in your life to pick on me. sad.
Willie Dynamite
January 18th, 2010
4:49 pm
SC – I also like the way you are handling this. Everything I’ve ever read from you tells me you got a good head on ya shoulders. At the end of the day you are just a Woman standing in front of that Man and I trust that you’ll do right by you.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:49 pm
Like WillieD, I believe that this will allow for some realignment and balance in the relationship.
I also like what DreamsMaterialize said about breathing room because quite frankly we probably needed it. We were rather consumed with each other and spent all of our free time together.
He has been spending more time at home, hanging out with his friends and yesterday, he had the time to visit a sick relative.
I am coming to appreciate the changes in the relationship because I know that every time that we are together now, it is by choice – not by default or because it’s easy or because it’s habit or routine.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
4:50 pm
@brat
i’m just analyzing.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:50 pm
You gone make me cry. LOL!
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
4:54 pm
@SC
you’re going to do the right thang. and i wish you the best. you know me. i always look at situations from a diff angle.
yea. i would have let it ride!
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
4:56 pm
and lets not forget that there isn’t a one right answer on this blog. we tend to forget that everyday on here.
Miss SexyCool
January 18th, 2010
4:57 pm
Angie – I do believe that’s one of the finer points you have ever made.
LOL!
Enjoy Vegas!
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
4:58 pm
yes ma’am. it’s all just point of view. take what you can use and leave the rest.
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
5:01 pm
@SC
huh . . . thanks.
@brat
^5
Beautiful ♥ is not really in a Vegas mood now!
January 18th, 2010
5:06 pm
ok gang! plane leaves in 6 hrs. i betta get serious about this packin’ and stop playin’ around. *sigh*
czBrat
January 18th, 2010
5:08 pm
have fun! i’m jealous
never been to vegas, but sure hope to.
ciao!
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