I once read a quote, “I could clip her wings to make her mine, but it’s the bird that I love”. It reminds me how sometimes we are drawn to people for a reason that later causes a problem in a relationship. I spoke to a friend of mine who said that he really likes this woman he met a few weeks ago, but she is rarely at home or available for quiet evenings.
What do you do if you are dating a social butterfly or someone who is on the go all the time? I have had experiences when I find a guy who just prefers to stay at home instead of going places. I figured it could be something we would have to compromise about. I would carve out quality time for us at home or at his place and he would join me on some things that I enjoy doing in the city. It didn’t go over well, though.
How do you handle the “opposite attracts” kind of relationships? Is it true that the ying-yang affect can be a great balance for two people? Did that ever happen for you?