Happy New Year! I hope everyone enjoyed their holidays. Now that 2010 is underway, we have a good opportunity to clean our dating slate and start the decade/year off on the right foot. In the spirit of out with the old, we should definitely drop our old expectations that didn’t really get us anywhere!
A lot of single people have the mindset that so much has to be done before settling down. I think we overlook the possibilities of finding someone we can grow with and build. Why do you think that is the case? When it comes to finding people with potential, why don’t we take more risks on them? Even when all signs show that the person is genuine and committed to a plan of action, a lot of us don’t want to believe.
Do you think that finding someone to build with together is unrealistic? If a woman has the potential to grow more into the ideal wife, mother, mate type, are men willing to work with her to reach that level?
If a man has not obtained his ideal job, home, or whatever level of success he imagines, does he prefer to wait until he has reached his potential before seeking a mate?
What about women, do we understand the importance of potential in men? Are we able to see how a man’s potential for accomplishments or success? Does it make it easier to date someone who has potential and build with him?
How important is “dating potential” and what does it mean to you?