Naughty or Nice?
If you survived Thanksgiving and all those well-intentioned relatives asking about your dating life, congratulations! You cleared the first holiday without sinking into a funk about your lacking love life. Being single and dateless during the holidays doesn’t have to spell doom. For all of us who are single during the holidays, here are some tips on holidating:
Mingle: You know all those e-vites that are sitting in your inbox for holiday gatherings? Open them! Even if you don’t know who you want to take, just RSVP and go! The goal should not be to score phone numbers, though. Relax, be yourself, and laugh. When you aren’t focused on the numbers game, I think you are able to enjoy the people/experience more. Trust me. I’ve had the most fun at holiday parties without a date. I played the card games, sipped on yummy drinks, and grabbed random hot guys to stand under some mistletoe! (Yes, I have been known to carry my own. Don’t judge me.)
Venture out: It’s getting cold, the days are shorter, and the single people seem to disappear! This just means you need to be more creative and go where lots of people are gathered. Ice skating rinks, sporting events, bookstores, museums, or a cozy restaurant/cafe with comfy surroundings. Relaxed people are sexy. I bet you could strike up a conversation with interesting people who share similar interests.
What are other activities single people can do during the next few weeks? Lots of days off which means plenty of leisure time! What do you plan to do for fun during the holidays?
Do single people try to avoid meeting someone new because they don’t want to get caught up in that holiday trifecta: Christmas, New Years, Valentine’s Day?
Do you ever “relax” your dating standards just so you can get a snuggle buddy for the cold, winter nights? I have to admit that the thought of having a sweetie to curl up with in front of the fire is awfully tempting!
Is it wrong to do the “expiration” dating thing just for the holiday season? How does one even pull that off? Yes, this would fall in the naughty category, have you done it before?
What are the perks for being single during the holidays?
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Willie Dynamite (Naughty as I Wanna Be)
December 22nd, 2009
4:18 pm
Heyyyyyy Mrs. Clause (said like smoky in Friday) when you gon let………..
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:19 pm
Melo, what?!?!
Dream_n~ What would Santa say?
December 22nd, 2009
4:19 pm
WTH… 2C LMAO
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:20 pm
Mo – Im in Decatur tooo.. Ok let me find out you somewhere round me.. I’ll search near and far for a nice backyard.. I loves to survey some backyard landscape..
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:22 pm
Raqi – seriously they really need something else to do!! Anything else. Hell you would think having a house full of children that you wouldnt WANT to keep having kids! DAYUM!! I can only imagine all the noise……
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:22 pm
Raqi – Those Basketball shorts from the 80’s that will let my business hang out the bottom..
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:23 pm
LMBO Infamous, okay. The short shorts.
Willie Dynamite (Naughty as I Wanna Be)
December 22nd, 2009
4:24 pm
lawd know I luvs me some kids but 20. Shiiiiiiiiiiiid
Mr. Lurker
December 22nd, 2009
4:25 pm
Moe (B.K.A. wonder bootay) I am already fixed so we will not have a bunch of chillins running around!
Mrs. Clause
December 22nd, 2009
4:25 pm
Don’t worray about what im gone do mr willie ova there jus know me and santa know bout all you antics. raqi baby me and santa gon get you somthin real specia for helping all thiese wayward single folk on this blog. Dream we got a real nice cook book for your no cooking macaroni an cheese behin
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm
Ya’ll are off da dayum chain today!!
Infamous – woooow…….
Willie D – LMBAO!!! Calling Mrs Clause like Smokey called Mrs Parker!
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm
Mrs. Duggar is not giving her daughters a chance to go out and find husbands and have kids of their own. They all at home busy taking care of her babies while she push out another one. That’s their business but dang.
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm
we got a real nice cook book for your no cooking macaroni an cheese behin
Mrs. Clause
December 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm
mo baby we got a body majic for all that booty
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm
don’t laugh Dream_n…..just recognize “ism” when you see it……
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:28 pm
Raqi – its at least 20 kids now right? And I think their oldest child just had a baby, clue that the parents need to STOP!!
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater
December 22nd, 2009
4:29 pm
@DK…you wildin on Rodman shorts…lol. Mo-I’m cool on FB, FB the devil…I keep gettin hit up by old kitty, some I had, some I missed….plus you from the Dec, we prolly got common friends like a muther, you said you went to the Grove right?
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:30 pm
clue that the parents need to STOP
Exactly.
Oh…wait…my grandson is older than my baby. LOL
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:30 pm
Mo – Well I do Im a booty-a-holic.. I like slim bootys.. I like round bootys. I like firm and fully packed bootys. I like bootys that jiggle. I even like bootys that hang low.. I especially love them bootys that look like they just soft for no reason soft.. I just picture my head laying on the booty on a lazy Sunday afternoon..
Mrs. Clause
December 22nd, 2009
4:31 pm
awww 2C shut the hell up talkin bout two can play that game me and santa got you somthin to plya by yo dam self(wink)
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:31 pm
Jake…you know Raqi???? come holla atcha boy……..
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:31 pm
Somebody needs a hug.
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:32 pm
2CPTG, Jake doesn’t know me. I think he is talking about Mo.
Mrs. Clause
December 22nd, 2009
4:33 pm
infamaous me and santa got you a vacation package to dr drew’s sex rehab clinic, you the nasiest boy on the block
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:33 pm
Jake – no Boo, Southwest DeKalb all day, err’day!! And we probably do have common friends, the way you mentioned you hung out in the dec. FB is cool, i havent had issues yet and I dont accept err’body as friend so… :shrugs:
Infamous – so you are they typical southern dude…sounding like Andre 3000 “maybe I could just lay on her booty”. What southern man isnt a booty/leg-a-holic?? LOL
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:34 pm
“awww 2C shut the hell up talkin bout two can play that game me and santa got you somthin to plya by yo dam self(wink)”
and why would I want to play with all this goodness by myself???? c’mon now Mrs. Clause…tis the season of “sharinng”…….Santa must be really tied up this time of year, cause it sounds like you need to get some……
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm
Mrs Clause – Dont hate cause that booty is magic.. Im sure it has sprinkled pixie dust and mesmerized quite a few people.. I was gonna say dudes but a nice booty have even the women looking..
Oh and Id like to mention.. A nice walk with that booty is a MF.. I loves me a chick that totes that booty..
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm
I like bootys that jiggle. I even like bootys that hang low..
those may not be good DK..
bootys that jiggle too much and hang low means they are unhinged,like they have seen better days!
much like tatas that yank themslevs down low to the woman’s waist at very lil prompting! 
Mrs. Clause
December 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm
oh melo me and santa got you a i love uncle peaches tee shirt and key ring combo
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:36 pm
“I dont accept err’body as friend so… :shrugs:”
you trynna tell me something…..damn, that’s a blow to the ego…..
Willie Dynamite (Naughty as I Wanna Be)
December 22nd, 2009
4:37 pm
I think we all know what Mrs.Clause REALLY needs.
Mo – we cool an all but ima need you to stay from out round here. I’m trying to be good ova here and da boys don already gave the scouting report and lets jus say…….
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:37 pm
Mrs Clause – Not Sex rehab!! Anything but that! I’ll be nice I promise.. I’ll be nice, see Im sitting in the corner right now.. I even put the Rodman shorts up..
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:37 pm
mothers?? I apologise for that 4.35
but single ladies??? Naaaw!
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:38 pm
single and childless ladies, i mean
LoveLife411
December 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm
Well I do Im a booty-a-holic.. I like slim bootys.. I like round bootys. I like firm and fully packed bootys. I like bootys that jiggle. I even like bootys that hang low.. I especially love them bootys that look like they just soft for no reason soft.. I just picture my head laying on the booty on a lazy Sunday afternoon..
F*CKING HILARIOUS!!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm
2CPTG – LMAO! No I wasnt ‘tryna to tell you’ nuthin….dont go there….I didnt get a blog request from you. Ya’ll know how FB is….lol
Mrs Clause – not “I love Uncle Peaches”….LMBAO!!
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:40 pm
Melo – You crazy.. Them hang low bootys come from that soul food.. I aint talking bout no big sloppy sideways booty.. Im talking about a Angel Lola Real booty.. No fake silicone implants.. A booty with the hips to match.. Man gone..
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:42 pm
Willie D – dayum, Im banned from blogsville huh…..aint that bout a bee-yotch!!
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm
“A booty with the hips to match..”
cuz, you sure we ain’t related? cause fvck what Mrs. Clause tom’bout, Santa just sent me an early present……
Willie Dynamite (Naughty as I Wanna Be)
December 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm
Mo – naw not blogsville just round dis cona here. Wait a minute holup. ok now you can go. dayuuuuuum.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm
Jake – my peeps went to the Grove
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm
Melo – And a booty that jiggles.. Mayne aint nothing wrong with that.. I got a friend girl of mine and she is a slim thang with a booty that jiggles.. Mayne that thang is amazing.. We patnas but still I be looking at her booty..
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:46 pm
Willie D – well alrighty then………
Mrs. Clause
December 22nd, 2009
4:46 pm
yes, baby uncle peaches for melos azz. an infamous you got 2 days to git yo act togetha. willie bobo dont talk about mrs clause in the nasty hot sexual freaky way that’s between me an santa and yes hes been a lil busy lately but that is still no excuse for all the freakin and booty popin goin on on this here dam blog!
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater
December 22nd, 2009
4:46 pm
@Raqi-so you saying I can’t come…and congrats, i didn’t know you had another, like I said, its been a minute since I been on.
@Mo, SWD, that’s right, McNasty over here, I am fo sho bout it now, i know too many of ya’ll, was you at the Mansion Party last week, if so, I might recognize that booty when I see it.
Mr. Lurker
December 22nd, 2009
4:47 pm
Allll Moe….Do you wear heels with dat bootay?
Moe’s bootay has it’s own FB page! Niccccceeeee
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:47 pm
im picturing a short 5ft woman,with a big round bootey,a coca cola,wasp like-insect, waist,walking that way!
Thats a neck twister,right ther
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:49 pm
Melo – and to tell the truth I really dont want no hard, over exercised, muscle booty..
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:49 pm
Thanks Jake.
For Real
December 22nd, 2009
4:49 pm
What up Blog Fam!!!
For Real now enter the blog squeezing by Mo’s booty 37 times in one step!