Naughty or Nice?
If you survived Thanksgiving and all those well-intentioned relatives asking about your dating life, congratulations! You cleared the first holiday without sinking into a funk about your lacking love life. Being single and dateless during the holidays doesn’t have to spell doom. For all of us who are single during the holidays, here are some tips on holidating:
Mingle: You know all those e-vites that are sitting in your inbox for holiday gatherings? Open them! Even if you don’t know who you want to take, just RSVP and go! The goal should not be to score phone numbers, though. Relax, be yourself, and laugh. When you aren’t focused on the numbers game, I think you are able to enjoy the people/experience more. Trust me. I’ve had the most fun at holiday parties without a date. I played the card games, sipped on yummy drinks, and grabbed random hot guys to stand under some mistletoe! (Yes, I have been known to carry my own. Don’t judge me.)
Venture out: It’s getting cold, the days are shorter, and the single people seem to disappear! This just means you need to be more creative and go where lots of people are gathered. Ice skating rinks, sporting events, bookstores, museums, or a cozy restaurant/cafe with comfy surroundings. Relaxed people are sexy. I bet you could strike up a conversation with interesting people who share similar interests.
What are other activities single people can do during the next few weeks? Lots of days off which means plenty of leisure time! What do you plan to do for fun during the holidays?
Do single people try to avoid meeting someone new because they don’t want to get caught up in that holiday trifecta: Christmas, New Years, Valentine’s Day?
Do you ever “relax” your dating standards just so you can get a snuggle buddy for the cold, winter nights? I have to admit that the thought of having a sweetie to curl up with in front of the fire is awfully tempting!
Is it wrong to do the “expiration” dating thing just for the holiday season? How does one even pull that off? Yes, this would fall in the naughty category, have you done it before?
What are the perks for being single during the holidays?
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Dream_n~ What would Santa say?
December 22nd, 2009
3:41 pm
LOL
I actually saw that on an episode of “Every Body Hates Chris….
Willie Dynamite
December 22nd, 2009
3:41 pm
2can – Cut is yo cut homie, but I thank I can beat the half of a half a pint. Plus, Aint no snitches and no drought on my side of town. wutcha thank bout dat?
Dream_n~ What would Santa say?
December 22nd, 2009
3:43 pm
half of a half a pint
that will always be funny…
Mr. Lurker
December 22nd, 2009
3:43 pm
Moe why you holding out? You know us southern men luv dat big bootay!
You need to let me hollar at you in 2010!
Hey don’t judge me!
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
3:44 pm
and ummm, Mo…….gal!!!!! just peeped somma yo pics!!!! lawd hammercy!
@2Can??
Mo picks on the inanerts??
She got it then!
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
3:44 pm
“how you see my pics homie??? Who let you check ya gurl out?? lol”
didn’t I tell you I ain’t no snitch!!!! I’mma call you inna minute!
“Aint no snitches and no drought on my side of town. wutcha thank bout dat?”
ummm, we need to talk!!!! cause it’s like the Sahara desert ’round here….
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
3:46 pm
Melo……trust…..the booty is “what we thought it was”……and you say you lookin for a dude under the tree???? lem’me see how much it’s gon cost to get yo address……hol’on…
Willie Dynamite
December 22nd, 2009
3:47 pm
Dream_n – whats funny is I can picture this fool with it in a paper bag pulling it out turning it sideways talking bout see its still half full.lol!!!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
3:48 pm
Ya’ll are silly round here!!
Half of a Half a pint….dayum, lol!
alright 2CPTG! whatchu talkin bout Willis???
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
3:48 pm
2Can – stop playin dude!! LOL! OMG!
Dream_n~ What would Santa say?
December 22nd, 2009
3:49 pm
Ya’ll fellas are straight funny…
Sessy Coooool
December 22nd, 2009
3:52 pm
Hell, I’ll tell on myself. Y’all know we just talked on the phone. Toucan is FEELing that feather. ~lol~
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
3:52 pm
Mo, 2CPTG is going to deliver himself to your house in a crate like Richard Pryor in The Toy. LOL
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
3:53 pm
Im back.. What I miss?? Ok lemme see Mo got a big ole butt, Slim got a ferocious Joe Camel Toe and Raqi gone let web cams be installed at her house.. And a side bet goin on.. I heard that..
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
3:53 pm
Mo…..I ain’t playin’……
Dream_n…..let’s get this money, boo!!!!!
Mr. Lurker
December 22nd, 2009
3:54 pm
I want to be naughty to Moe this christmas!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
3:54 pm
Raqi – LMAO!! I had forgotten all about that movie!! Oh I may have to watch that, I think my sister has that!
Sessy – LOL!
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
3:54 pm
And Sessy does it again.. Gets ya boy all hot and bothered with the feather talk.. I swear I love me some her cause her goodtimes are free..
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
3:56 pm
@DK..AND 2can is pimping Dream_n!
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
3:56 pm
DK…..boi!!!! all I can say……
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
3:57 pm
Ya’ll are stoopid!
Sessy – not the feather!! LOL
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
3:57 pm
Melo – Thats 2’s girl.. She smashin da homie so she’s off limits.. Bros before..
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
3:57 pm
“
naughtyelf”2CPTG, are you shought?
Dream_n~ What would Santa say?
December 22nd, 2009
3:59 pm
Oh wow Infamous…..
Low blow …even for you dude.
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
3:59 pm
DK….like Dee J said in “Hustle and Flow”…..now that’s a bottom bytch for ya!!!! ‘cept she just my road dawg……
Mo….can I be yo friend on FB….promise I won’t be nasty……since Dream_n only wanna be business partners…
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:00 pm
oh c’mon ya’ll…lets keep it cool in here. Ive been MIA for a couple of days…..
Mr. Lurker
December 22nd, 2009
4:00 pm
Now I am going to have to come out of Lurkersville to get at dat Moe! I need to see dat bootay!
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:01 pm
“2CPTG, are you shought?”
yeah suga!!!! just right for Mo………
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater
December 22nd, 2009
4:01 pm
What up folks…stopping through to send ya’ll a Happy Holidays…ya’ll still straight crazy!!
Dream_n~ What would Santa say?
December 22nd, 2009
4:03 pm
The female anatomy is powerful thing I see….
LMAO
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:05 pm
Whaddup Jake! Long time no blog! Glad you could drop in for a sec….
Mr Lurker – oh whatever man…..
2CPTG – how you know you just right for me??? “Are you shought”…..
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater
December 22nd, 2009
4:06 pm
been a minute since I been on…a nicka post go right up now I see….Roses for the ladies…Head Nod to the fellas
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:06 pm
Dream_n – LMAO @ your 4:03…..that is must be chica!
Sessy Coooool
December 22nd, 2009
4:07 pm
Hell. I ain’t the one that had the feather.
Y’all some freaky nut-tards!!
~LMAO~
Jake a.ka. Sweet Peeda Jeeda The Womb Beater
December 22nd, 2009
4:07 pm
@Mo, where dem pics at, I see folks talkin bout that Decatur Swang you got…let me find out
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:09 pm
The Duggars had another baby this month? 19 kids?
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:09 pm
Jake – you know Im reppin Decatur all day Boo! LOL! 2CPTG aint tellin but I do have pics on my FB…..like err’body else!
Sessy – Nut-tards!! oh thats classic!
Mrs. Clause
December 22nd, 2009
4:09 pm
Some of y’all been straight up bad and damn nasty this year. dont think i have told santa azz cause i have. all y’all been doin’ the grown folk and dissin folk all ova town. me and santa knows every thing. and melo wit yo nasty azz don’t expect a damn thing. oh yea, imma call some more of y’all out before christmas. where that dam infamous, you and that damn willie bobo next, damn tag teaming on the blog, oh yea we know.
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:10 pm
“how you know you just right for me??? “Are you shought”…..”
cause……I just do….
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 22nd, 2009
4:10 pm
Raqi – can they please stop trying to populate their own city!! Dayum!! She’s been preggo every year for like 20yrs!! GEESH!!
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:12 pm
Dream – I was yielding to what is sure to be love and basketball..
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:12 pm
The female anatomy is powerful thing I see
yeah Dream_n,we all screwed coz the snake taunted Adam to do Oral on Eve!
If it were missionary sex,God wldn’t have been this mad!
Then,Oral was unthinkable!
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:14 pm
She’s been preggo every year for like 20yrs!!
I know. Heck my baby is almost 7 months and my body is still not back to it pre-pregnacy state. That woman is not giving her body time to heal. Heck somebody needs to give them a board game or something for Christmas. They need something to keep them busy. It’s obvious the babies she already have aren’t enough. Sex is good and all that but damn find something else to do. Go watch paint dry…or something.
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:15 pm
well,thats my interpretation of that passage in the bible folks..
dont judge me!
THE INFAMOUS DK aka B.A. BARACUS
December 22nd, 2009
4:15 pm
My Christmas List is to meet some folk in the New Year.. Let em get a load of these Dennis Rodman Shorts, black socks and those house shoes with the X across ya feet..
2CPTG........"naughty elf"
December 22nd, 2009
4:16 pm
Mo…..I just sent you a message on facebook……
Dream_n……bout to get yo stats inna hot second……….y’all think it’s a game….be damned if I ain’t gon have a Merry Christmas…..even if it takes 2 days!!!!
LoveLife411
December 22nd, 2009
4:16 pm
be damned if I ain’t gon have a Merry Christmas…..even if it takes 2 days!!!! My sentiment too!
Raqi
December 22nd, 2009
4:16 pm
Infamous, what are Dennis Rodman Shorts?
Melo
December 22nd, 2009
4:17 pm
my baby is almost 7 months and my body is still not back to it pre-pregnacy state.
coz Mason is slacking,listening to ur yacky mouf too much!
Its time for him to manufacture Elizabeth sibling!
Dream_n~ What would Santa say?
December 22nd, 2009
4:18 pm