Dating Quid Pro Quo
I find it so fascinating to hear a man’s perspective on dating. I often wonder what it is like on their end because men can have different expectations. I have talked with men who believe that a successful relationship has a balanced “quid pro quo” (or something for something) situation. They think that they offer something to women and expect the same, or something else in return.
Ideally, I suppose it would be beneficial for both people who are dating to feel that they are getting a return on their investment, so to speak. So what happens when it doesn’t work out that way?
Do you think that dating should be a quid pro quo situation? If women are giving their time, energy, etc. to a guy, what is she expecting from him in return? When men are seeking to offer their time and energy on a woman, is it appropriate for a quid pro quo situation to exist?
It seems as if balancing it out would be challenging, at best, but shouldn’t we try anyway?
A friend of mine told me that he doesn’t feel the need to be rewarded for chivalry or being a gentleman. It’s just a part of being a grown man. What is the reward for chivalry, though?
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Jeff
December 21st, 2009
9:07 am
The reward for chivalry appears to be getting walked on and taken advantage of. First?
Jeff
December 21st, 2009
9:10 am
Since fewer and fewer women are old-fashioned “ladies”, it only makes sense that there are fewer and fewer men who act as gentlemen. But thanks for the now-easier-to-get-laid environment!
Wings (())
December 21st, 2009
9:16 am
Good Morning All!
Wow…Jeff, I’m sorry that happended to you.
quid pro quo – we can simply start with mutual respect and build on that.
I think I’ll lurk today….
NY2GA, Inc.
December 21st, 2009
9:17 am
I think the first thing is that you have to make sure that you both are on the same page. For example, if u are sharing your time, self, resources to a man thinking that u are in a relationship when from his standpoint u really aren’t in a relationship, then you will never seen a return on your investment. At that point, you’re more invested than he is.
So far as being rewarded, I don’t think anyone deserves a cookie or kudos for doing what they are SUPPOSED to do. However, I do think there are folks that take advantage of nice folks and take them for granted. When that happens you want to stop doing what you’re supposed to do and sometimes u become hardened to others. Nevertheless, you can’t stop being who you are. You just have to extend those efforts to people that can appreciate it and are worth it. Everybody ain’t worth it.
abc
December 21st, 2009
9:29 am
Chivalry is its own reward.
TexasBoy
December 21st, 2009
9:31 am
Most guys are just chivalrous until they get the goods and then they will be who they really are. Now days a lot of women don’t care appreciate a man who exhibits chivalry or manners or politeness . So why bother?
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
9:38 am
GM All!
awwwwww, abc. i’m luvin those words
and to all the gentlemen , as has been pointed out repeatedly on the blog, there are lots of trifling women out there. don’t let it change who you are. a deserving woman will come your way.
i do believe that any relationship should have it’s give and take. it’s up to the individuals involved to make their expectations known and be honest about what they bring to the table. if the equation works …. it’s on!
Wonderwoman
December 21st, 2009
9:42 am
I think the making of a successful relationship is balance.
You want or expect “something’ out of the relationship.\It depends on what that something is. It could be a smile, affection, stability, financial, or sex. We all want something. But sometimes I think to have balance in a relationship it is either there or it isnt’. Balance for me is when you have peace, and things just happen naturally in the relationship.
And I think its silly for a man to think he should be rewarded for chivalry. Chivalry is kindness, shouldn’t a man just expect the same kindness in return.
Wonderwoman
December 21st, 2009
9:50 am
There are women who appreciate a real man, that shows chivalry. There are the lame men that just try to look cool.
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
9:52 am
The reward for chivalry appears to be getting walked on and taken advantage of
Now days a lot of women don’t care appreciate a man who exhibits chivalry or manners or politeness
Examples please?!…ones that include most women or ones that most men encounter.
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
9:55 am
Balance for me is when you have peace, and things just happen naturally in the relationship. WW, that’s always been my point of view. i’m afraid “peace” is lacking with my s/o at the moment
we’re grappling with how much each should realistically be expected to change to better fit the other’s expectations. having been single for a looooong time (after being married for a looooong time), i’m definitely struggling with this.
Cool Shadow
December 21st, 2009
10:03 am
I believe that every relationship has a quid pro quo component; the differentiation is in the balance of said relationship. Idealistically, you have a 50/50 balance, however, depending on the relationship the balance can also be 52/48, 60/40 or 99/1. As NY2GA stated, you have to be on the same page, and having that makes it easier to try to achieve a 50/50 balance.
As for chivalry, I always assumed it was a given to being a gentleman although its distressing when some women clamor for it but can’t recognize it or take it as a weakness.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
10:09 am
mornin…..
unfortunatly, we live in a quid pro quo society…..so ummm, yeah, if I’m investing in you, I expect some “thing” in return…….not necessarily on the sex tip, either, but something; show me I’m not the only one in this thing.
Wonderwoman
December 21st, 2009
10:14 am
cbrat- it is work, you just have to talk through it and work at it, I hope things work out.
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
10:14 am
I’m with abc on this one. The whole idea of chivalry is that you conduct yourself that way because that is who you are and how you choose to behave, not because you are expecting something in return. It’s pretty obvious when there are ulterior motives to a guy’s supposed gentlemanly gestures — i.e. holding a door for a woman but drooling all over yourself, staring at her arse as she passes.
Maybe I’m just extremely lucky, but I can’t recall ever encountering a woman who seemed completely unappreciative of some gentlemanly courtesy. Not that it matters, anyway. It’s really all about civility and manners, and that goes to the core of who you are as a person, reciprocity or no.
And as it applies to relationships, if a woman doesn’t appreciate a gentleman, then she doesn’t appreciate me and there will be no relationship to begin with. There’s nothing ungentlemanly about moving on to someone who appreciates you for the man that you are.
Tazzee
December 21st, 2009
10:26 am
Morning Folks!
I believe there is an underlying notion of quid pro quo in relationships. Simply because – as 2Can said – I’m not going to invest in anything where there’s no return. It’s not going to be the same thing – I’m not expecting time for time or money for money but I do expect that peace that Wonderwoman mentioned. Ultimately when you decide to commit yourself to someone it comes naturally. I want my mate to be happy, content and at peace and he wants the same for me. In trying to please one another, we both get a return on our investment.
Cool Shadow
December 21st, 2009
10:29 am
Examples please?!…ones that include most women or ones that most men encounter. - Luvbug
When opening a door for a woman, she refuses to say thanks, acting as if she did it herself magically
Bring her flowers and she makes some comment about, “why do that, they’re gonna die”
Past the first or second date (maybe even the third), her refusal to offer any support for entertainment costs, claiming that she was raised that a man ‘pays for everything’, acting like she’s a consultant and you are paying for her time
I need to state that certainly not all women are like that, thankfully.
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
10:34 am
Witty Wisdom Week – Tell me what you need and I will tell you how to get along without it.
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
10:35 am
I am adding my amens to the viewpoint of wanting, even if not expecting, something in return for our efforts.
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
10:36 am
Kimmie – Text me.
Melo
December 21st, 2009
10:36 am
Do you think that dating should be a quid pro quo situation?
Ofcourse! altho our expectations as men or for women out there are not all the same.Some want more others want less and can do with less.
Some women want gangsta men who can just be there without the chilvary stuff others expect a different type of man and all that chilvary stuff,others dont.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
10:37 am
Ultimately I just want to be in a relationship that makes us both happy.
Sure there’s going to be work, there’s going to be times where you have to compromise, there’s going to times when you want to run for the hills.. and vice versa for your mate….
But in the end I(most people) want to have the sense of knowing that the other person is going to be putting in just as much love,hard work, and endurance that you are…
As far as the chivalry question… Chivalry is nothing but good manners and respect something that any adult should have anyway…
I don’t know what woman wouldn’t appreciate that..
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
10:50 am
@Cool Shadow
Come on now…there are women REFUSING to say thank you when you open the door. Sometimes people forget or are talking or in a zone or say it on the first but not the third set of doors. I open the door for elders and they don’t always say thanks but I know they are grateful. Why so personal? You think she’s making a conscious decision to REFUSE you a thanks?
Flowers? That’s seems rude…might I suggest you buy her fake flowers (one obviously fake rose) the next time.
You already thinking about us chipping in on the second/third date? Dang. Is this normal?
I’m glad I asked this question…because I would love to know what is normal nowadays. This is the first time I’ve heard a guy whine about things guys do like opening doors and paying for entertainment until a relationship is defined as more than a friendship.
What other changes should today’s women know about?
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
10:53 am
LMAO @ there’s going to times when you want to run for the hills.. and vice versa for your mate….
i hear ya girl! i have to work real hard at staying in “share our lives” mode. and thanx for this one too … the other person is going to be putting in just as much love,hard work, and endurance that you are…
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
10:53 am
I take back whining – I know you being honest…but this is shocking to me.
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
10:56 am
Happy Melo’s Monday to all!
Wassup Dream_n, Melo and Leggs
Well I am going to lurk on this topic. I would like to think and some has pointed out chivalry is just good manners plain and simple. Hell I show good manners I hold doors and elevators. I allow elderly people to advance the line or have a seat…I do this for expecting mothers as well. I hope that we all hold each other to good manners and not expect this for that.
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
11:00 am
Who all is cooking for Christmas? Do you all have your menus together?
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
11:07 am
The 80% discount at Restaurant.com is still going on. Coupon Code – SANTA.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 21st, 2009
11:08 am
Ok this is gonna be one of those days.. Ladies.. Just because you are giving me your time.. SO! Because just like youre giving me your time Im giving you mine..
There is no reward for chivalry, thats just how you were raised but I do expect in return that you be a lady and play your position.. Understand I wear the pants and you wear a skirt.. Im not being chauvanistic when I say that but Men and Women need to understand the roles they play for each other.. Its not about me telling you what you need to be doing or that you have to listen to me, but its also not about you being the neck that turns the head or you changing me into the dude you want me to be.. Its a partnership where you understand where you arent good I take that lead and where youre good you take that lead.. Be a refuge for each other.. Stop thinking your girl knows you better than your man.. Tell him what you tell your girl because when you do he is better equipped to be a better dude for you..
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
11:11 am
Hey there Prof!!
Umm as far as the menu.. Unfortunately it’s going to kinda mimick the Thanksgiving menu…
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
11:12 am
Mannn some people are going to be miserable for the rest of their lives if they don’t start letting go of the past…
Mr. Unknown
December 21st, 2009
11:13 am
Chivalry from men should be considered as an effort, it takes energy to open a door. Its draining not to get a smile, a thank you, ect.. time after time..
Someone stated earlier that (we)men shouldn’t let such things affect us. I say pffffff!! When I allow the elevator doors to close in you and your infants FaCe. Maybe just maybe it was because I was zoned out or talking on the phone, maybe it was because Im selfish, or just too lazy to put for such an effort.. Lol!! oh happy X-mas
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 21st, 2009
11:13 am
Mawnin all
Professor I’ll sit with you over here and lurk, nothing much to add to this one just yet.
As for Christmas, menus are together and Im off duty!! :0) As far as cooking anyway however I will be playing co-hostess to my parents since they have everyone over to their house Christmas day for dinner.
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
11:15 am
I always like to change it up for Christmas. After eating Thanksgiving at work, at home with family and with a few organizations I am affiliated with…by the time Christmas gets here I am tired of that mess. Usually we switch it up a little. I am trying to remix my menu and go from there. I know a lot of people like to eat that stuff again on New Years…no ma’am give me some seafood on New Years
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
11:19 am
Dream’n – Expect those promised recipes in your inbox by the end of the day today. I didn’t forget about you.
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
11:19 am
Mannn some people are going to be miserable for the rest of their lives if they don’t start letting go of the past…
I so agree, as I sing Bag Lady
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
11:20 am
I am so with you Prof…
I wanted to tone it down and do something simple, but the mom’s wants to go all out again…
She took me off sweet potatoe duty
Morning Mo!!
Cool Shadow
December 21st, 2009
11:24 am
@Luvbug
I’m not talking about the occasional overlooked acknowledgement by a woman who’s in a zone chatting up friends or handling several children; I realize that sometimes happens. But when a woman gives you eye contact and is fully aware that she didn’t open the door and breezes by as if she’s royalty and you’re … well, just a doorman, that’s the scenario I was focusing on.
As for the flowers, the better idea may be to just not present them and eliminate all confusion.
What’s wrong with chipping in dates, especially after some affinity or desire to be in each other’s company has been established? Whether it’s the first, third or tenth date, when or if to chip in is subject to the couple; I pulled arbitrary dating milestones to get my point across. I’m not going belabor the point at which (or if) this should happen because it’s out of topic and probably has already been discussed.
This is the first time I’ve heard a guy whine about things guys do like opening doors and paying for entertainment until a relationship is defined as more than a friendship.
In your 9:52 post you asked for examples of when chivalry was being taken advantage of, and I presented situations that happened from personal experience. Luvbug, I’m not whining, I’m simply answering your question.
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
11:26 am
Ahhh man Dream!
You need to make those sweet potatoes again, or try an apple pie or something. Even if you use the frozen pie crust I can tell you how to hook it up or get this book called the Cake Mix Doctor and do your thing!
I have a menu I am playing with but I am not 100% sure of it. I need to chat with my family
Tim the tool man Taylor says
December 21st, 2009
11:29 am
Tim says that everyone should try free x-mas,,, Thats where you find or do things that are free as a gift. That way its a more personal gift, from the heart. Doesn’t that sound like a great holiday adventure?
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
11:29 am
HiYa Professor! Christmas will be just me & Thing One this year (unless, God willing, Thing Two is released before then).
I’ll make the traditional ham & greens along with our own family favorite (again) coconut rice n’ peas. She’ll make the peanut butter/chocolate cookies for dessert. Dunno what other sides I’ll throw in, but I’m determined to take a break from mac’n cheese and mashed potatoes. Our families get together for Thanksgiving, but everyone does Christmas in their own homes in their own way. The munchkins and I typically spend the day curled up watching movies.
Tim the tool man Taylor says
December 21st, 2009
11:32 am
Enter your comments here
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
11:33 am
I find it amazing that people on this blog…..(Insert Villanous Comments Here)………. This was a warning…
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
11:41 am
Hey czBrat! I am thinking about doing my lemon sesame collards…they are so good! They are a lot different than the southern style greens. I hope thing two is released I know that would put the Merry in your Christmas. One year we did an Italian syle Christmas. I forgot to mention that one of my good friends went to Sam’s a few years ago and purchased some nice steaks and put those babies on the grill with potatoes and a salad…I would do that but we do not eat beef and pork.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
11:44 am
DK……you know what I find funny about some of the folks on this blog….that they’re full of shyt!!! lotta of ‘em try to come off politically correct (men and women), say the “right” thing, all that…..then, if you so happen to meet ‘em in person, they’re the total opposite! Now, I will give credit to the folks that I’ve met, are who they say they are…..then, I’ve met some faker than a $3.00 bill……ain’t gon mention ‘em….but that shyt kills me….I’m like damn, who cares if you stand out, you’re invisible!!!!!
cain’t nobody tell you I portray some’n I’m not……
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
11:45 am
Scool.. thanx, maybe I can use one of those recipies to surprise everyone.. I’ll have 3 days of practicing..lol
The munchkins and I typically spend the day curled up watching movies.
That sounds fun
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
11:50 am
Dream_n, the older they get, the more precious those times are. Trust! next year my kids turn 21 and 18 … talk about milestones!!
i appreciate that three times a year (mother’s day, my b-day and Xmas) they set aside being ‘grown’ and just hang with mama 
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
11:51 am
speakin of credit, I gotta give Sexy her props….real stand up chic…..fa real….Crazy, Sexy, and cool…..tom’bout stand in the paint type chic….you’on find ‘em like that no ‘mo…….
keep doin’ yo thang Sexy!
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
11:52 am
and Tazz…..ain’t no fakin in these gals…..
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
11:53 am
2Can – Yeah I can see it and thats what kills me.. People changing monikers to say what you cant say to someone over a blog that dont know you anyway.. I dont understand how they look at themselves in the mirror.
Suckas sneak dissing and that ain’t how we play. You f**k with mine you catch Drama like the D.J.. Now tell me I ain’t real. That AR that I’m holding got a Gangsta Grill
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
11:54 am
You’re right. It’s wrong for any person to treat another as if s/he is superior (if that’s the intention and belief). I guess, I was thinking in the area of perception. Sometimes what looks to be rude may not be (at least intentionally). Regarding the paying – yeah, to each his own…and I’m sure you read my “whining” retraction after your post.
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
11:55 am
Forgot – @ Cool Shadow
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
11:55 am
Okay.. now I am officially cracking up.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
11:56 am
and my dawg Rell….lotta y’all cain’t dig where he comin from, but ain’t no fakin in him either……nikka stay consistent in who he is……
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
11:58 am
This is a blog for christ sakes.. please let’s not take the comments and sacastic banter to heart…
Geez…and here I thought I was blogging with sensible adults. Folks whining and carry on about a bunch of nothingness…
None of these blog men/women owe anyone anything. Take the comments and do what you will with them…. Damn smh
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
12:00 pm
Yeah I second that Sexy get my vote for a stand up chick.. Leggs too.. Cee.. Raqi.. Love ya’ll.. Always keep it 1 hunnid.. Ya’ll just tell the truth no matter what, even if the resident BS-ers dont like it. If Im forgetting you I’ll get you through out the day..
2can – And yeah Ive been thinking about steppin out to let people see me so they can look in my eyes and know what it is..
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:00 pm
what was real funny was back in the day when email addys were visible, and them gals talkin bout they weren’t cuttin nuttin…….yeah, ok!
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
12:02 pm
Dream – well stop making random statements and talk to the people you talking to.. If its just a blog..
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:04 pm
I’m sorry DK was it something I said that offended you. (personally)
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
12:04 pm
Dream – Naw Youngsta You good..
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:05 pm
“And yeah Ive been thinking about steppin out to let people see me so they can look in my eyes and know what it is..”
yeah, then you can see for yourself who really “bout that!”……I remember when I used to smoke weed…..I met this chic from the blog, and I was bout to fire one up, and she talkin bout, “what you doin?”…I was like what it look Iike I’m doin……shiiiid, you knew this already!
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
12:05 pm
Toucan – What’s up, kinfolk?
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:09 pm
I think people don’t understand the fact that not everyone is going to agree on the same thing, and when you don’t agree you’re A) lying B) on B.S.
And that’s sad if you belive that women/men all fit in the same category. We all were raised differently, come from different walks of life. So everyones POV or opinion is not going to match everyone else’s. Consistancy will help you weed out the fakes vs the real if that’s your intentions….
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:11 pm
just chillin, Sexy…..you know how I get down!!!
DK, I met this one cat from the blog….now, on-line this cat talked mad shyt ’bout how he was just slayin’ ‘em left and right…..man, we met up for lunch one day and this nikka was not only lame as hell, but trynna pick me bout the very same gals he was claimin’ to have slayed….then, got right back on the blog after lunch talkin out the side of his neck, again……I didn’t call him out….I just laughed at his ass…
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:13 pm
Dream_n, of course folks gon differ on various subjects……but when a mu’fvcka just say shyt to appeal to the masses, or try to say what they think is “right”, and ain’t livin’ it…….then I got issues with that….
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
12:16 pm
I will add this to that 12:09 dream_n said people are complexed you may have someone that get “saved on” Sunday and backslide Saturday although there intentions were good they changed a lot in those days.
Also I will say this…this is a blog not some party at your BFF house. If you by chance connect with these nameless and faceless folks good for you, and if you don’t that is good too. However there is no way I would allow blog folks to get my BP up.
I think a lot of folks on here have seen each other so we all know who is who?
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
12:18 pm
Dream_n, i think many of the bloggers have been around for years. they’ve come to know each other fairly well and accept (or dismiss) each other as ‘keepin it real’ or ‘full of bs’ based on what’s been read over time. some of us are still very new here and our POV may seem suspect, but over time who you are will become clear. no worries. just be you.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:18 pm
@2C
Why take issue with that.. That man/woman has so afffect on your personal life. Folks looking for validation on a blog is straight carzy and sad all at the same time.
Hell I don’t agree with half of what some of these folks say on here. And half of those stories people put out is straight whack…
But I don’t care, I just go with the flow and read/answer questions/put my opinion out there… no matter how anyone else thinks or feels. Do I try to stay respectful b/c I can’t force my opinions or views on anyone, Yes (the operative word is try).
It’s in fun.. and if you come away from here with knowledge, some good advice, or even some new buds… all should be well.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
12:18 pm
Or say things without addressing the person youre addressing.. Thats weak.. See how this works without even saying who Im speaking with.. Just make sure youre not insulting anyones intelligence.. The difference of opinion is welcomed as long as its real and not biased.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:22 pm
naw, lil mama, they have no affect on me at all…….I was just sayin’…….(that’s where my note pad comes in handy!!!!!!)
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
12:23 pm
Chunking in my two pennies about my blog participation.
I have been on this blog for five years. And I am certain that you could probably go back and find posts that would directly contradict some of the positions that I currently hold. To that I say, ya’ live and ya’ learn, dammit. And ish that made sense to me five years ago or even five months ago may not make sense to me now.
I would also admit that I’ve learned ‘truth in posting’ and to be true to myself in posting. Not that anybody really gives a sht if I’m assuming a blog persona that is different than my own or attempting to cast myself in the best light possible. Hell, I just feel freer when I stick with the SexyCool edition of Keeping It Really Real.
Oh…and the other thing…you learn to take all of this ish with a grain of salt.
~giggling~
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
12:23 pm
Just curious – how long has this blog been here?
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
12:26 pm
Since April 2004.
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
12:26 pm
Thanx SexyC for that much needed comic relief. now where’s Leggs????
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:26 pm
“Just curious – how long has this blog been here?”
5 years…….and our girl Sexy was the first poster-ever!
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
12:29 pm
If only blog hours were billable…..(sighs)…
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
12:31 pm
Wow…thanks for the answer SexyCool.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:32 pm
@ DK
Come on now.. I know you Mr. Tough exterior (on the blog) is not acting simple over a little comment.
Sometimes random thoughts come in my mind and I post them… and if you apply them to your life without me directing them at you.. That’s on you
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:32 pm
“If only blog hours were billable…..(sighs)…”
ok!!!!! ‘member they used to have “top commenter”…..and all kinds of other stuff…..this som’bytch don’ came a long ways!
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
12:32 pm
and 2CPTG
Cool Shadow
December 21st, 2009
12:32 pm
Luvbug- I did catch the retraction after I posted; it’s appreciated, we’re cool, just digging the discourse.
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
12:34 pm
and 2CPTG
@Blog comment thingamajig
Duplicate? I didn’t see the first one.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:35 pm
Sometimes random thoughts come in my mind and I post them (after reading some of the posts)…. Gotta be clear and direct now
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:36 pm
Dream_n, calm down gal…..and hur’up and make them flight plans……so I can show you I’m “fa sho, and nor for show!” heheheheheheheheh….
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:37 pm
nah, Luvbug……they used to keep a running tally of your posts, and had a side section that revealed the top commenters.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:40 pm
I’m not up 2C.. really.. lol
Don’t think you could hang with a city girl like myself..
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:42 pm
matta fact…..(some blog history…correct me if I’m wrong Sexy)
this was the first blog the AJC had….they had another “relationship pilot” that only updated comments once a day….then, when this one took off, along came the others….
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
12:42 pm
@2CPTG – In my previous post, I was adding you the my thanks for answering with SexyC and the duplicate comment was literally to the comment thingamajig that ate my post and told me it was a duplicate…LOL – sorry for the confusion.
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
12:42 pm
Toucan – you were the first person that I talked to offblog.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:43 pm
“Don’t think you could hang with a city girl like myself”
gal, you just don’t know!!!! This “ism” ain’t nothin’ to play with!
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:46 pm
“Toucan – you were the first person that I talked to offblog.”
damn sho! that’s why I got love for yo ass…..we can disagree, have spats, and still got love for each other…..ummmm, you might wanna warn Dream_n…….
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
12:47 pm
Dream is acting like Atlanta is Cordell, GA. Atlanta is the city Dream and we have city slickers too!
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:49 pm
yeen gotta tell her nothin’ Professor……I’ll play Jethro for her ass…….
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
12:51 pm
I have to tell her because you can go an hour outside of Chicago and find corn fields.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:53 pm
Yup Professor is right… I took a road trip to Milwaukee( my home town) and rode through many of many corn fieds…
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:54 pm
I’ll play Jethro for her ass
umm okay… lol
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
12:55 pm
How was your trip? Did you get some cheese and beer?
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:56 pm
or better yet, like Steve Urkel…then all of a sudden, Steph-an Ur-kel done popped up on ya!!!!
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:56 pm
LOL…
No, but the trip was absolutely worth while. Celebrated my bf’s birthday. Haven’t seen her in years, but seems like we didnt skip a beat talking back with her.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
12:57 pm
Dream – And I know youre not out here acting like a little girl playing those high school games.. With someone else Padawan try the mind tricks because a seasoned jedi such as myself anticipates your juvenile chicanery.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
12:58 pm
“Steph-an Ur-kel”
He was so unaatractive.
Professor...in a great space
December 21st, 2009
12:58 pm
Where is Leggs?
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
12:59 pm
but ya gotta admit, he flipped the script on them chics, real quick!
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
1:00 pm
Dk if my age is your only point of attack.. then I am officially waving my white flag, b/c that is something I cannot change.
Being 23 is not a negative thing.. I think everyone on the blog has been there…
*waving white flag*
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
1:02 pm
Afternoon All,
Chivalry is one of those things that if you do or don’t notice it is because you were expecting some sort of acknowledgement or return. Personally I do it without thinking no more no less. Just who I am. As for the Quid Pro Quo; I don’t have a set ratio that I looked for just that I won’t be taken advantage of or under-appreciated. I’ve never been the one to wear a cape or bake cakes so if I’m spending the time its cause I’m digging you and I’ve got reciprocation. If not then of course you either get put at the end of the bench or I keep it moving. No harm no foul.
New Topic – I hate fake azz people. Whether in person or written. It aint hard to figa out who real and what not. Same as in dating. you can tell why some of these folks have misadventures.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
1:11 pm
If you say so 2C…lol
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
1:16 pm
Prof – Leggs is off work this week. She may drop in and blog from home (doubt it) at some point.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 21st, 2009
1:37 pm
On a lighter note…
I’m excited about Christmas and my birthday coming around the corner. Some much needed rest and celebrating will do me some good.
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
1:56 pm
Bueller…? Bueller…?
[crickets]
I know it’s a holiday week & all, but dang, this blog has ground to a screeching halt. Are we gonna have to turn this into Multi-orgasmic Monday to get this thing rolling?
For Real
December 21st, 2009
1:57 pm
What up Blog Fam.
On topic: Like my Paw-Paw used to say “mannas is mannas either you raised wit it or you ain’t” – As far as Quid Pro Quo, Reciprocity, Yeng and Yang or whatever you want to call it people will always expect something from you. – Now I read couple of post where some of the chicks talking about “A woman’s time and energy”, well ladies do you place the same value on a dude’s “time and energy”?
Fake People: Hey what are you going to do? It take everyone to make the world go round. You would think with this being an anonymous blog no one would feel the need to be fake I mean why be fake what is anyone on the is blog going to actually do?
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
1:58 pm
Swissie – Wassup mayne, hows the new house and 1st holiday season as a married dude looking for you.
Professor
December 21st, 2009
2:04 pm
@Willie…thanks I thought she had danced the night away and called in sick.
@Swiss I was getting ready to send a smoke signal because I think you missed a few days last week.
On topic/Fake people: I don’t worry about nothing counterfeit except for money.
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
2:08 pm
Wassup, Willie D. Except for me being broke now, the new house is awesome.
Way better than anything I ever thought I’d live in, that’s for sure. Especially digging the giant shower in the master bath — it’s straight out of Cribs: right in the center of the bathroom, totally surrounded by glass, big enough to fit me and Mrs. Swiss + 4 or 5 of her girls (only the hot ones, though). 
Now just gotta install that stripper pole and I’m all set… 
Oh, and married life is treating me very well. I don’t know what I did to get so lucky, but I plan to enjoy every minute of it, I promise you that…
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
2:12 pm
Hi, Prof. Yeah, I was working my lily-white booty off last week (and you know I didn’t have that much to begin with)…
Melo
December 21st, 2009
2:21 pm
yeah Swiss…
i missed on the bachelor party,the wedding..umm im hoping this time, i will find an invite in ma box for the house warming….
its ur call,either i come solo,if there is ample bootyful supplies or with Queen,whatever u say,i be there, mayneee!
Urs in angst!
Melo
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
2:24 pm
awwwww Swiss, the house sounds awesome! congrats again.
i like your comments For Real (and how often does that happen????)
now i have to ask an open question for all, how does one determine that a blogger is ‘fake’ based on their posts? do you just keep an eye out for contradictions to call someone out, or is it based strictly on an individual comment? if no one really knows each other here, aren’t those just rash judgements? just wondering.
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
2:26 pm
@ Swiss
Landing a new house and having someone there that you love/adore to share it with is great!!
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
2:28 pm
IMO – Anyone’s whose ish don’t stank, always posts perfect and never admits to getting ish in life wrong is
probably not being very real with themselves or others(er, um)…believing the best about themselves and consistently putting their best foot forward.Thing about that…for me…is that most often, I can’t remember who said what.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
2:35 pm
“do you just keep an eye out for contradictions to call someone out, ”
you keep a note pad!
Landing a new house and having someone there that you love/adore to share it with is great!!”
stuntman mike
December 21st, 2009
2:37 pm
hello
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
2:38 pm
Regarding Fakeness…I’m faking right now…I mean I’m facing the monitor and typing, but people passing my office may assume I’m working. Nope, I’m working a little bit and reading this blog every now and then.
***The following is not specific to this blog per se. I’ve never met anyone here***
It’s hard to tell sometimes b/c perception could cover a person purposefully pretending to be something s/he is not and also cover a person MISperceiving the truth about somebody else.
Akin to what DK mentioned…whatever you perceive about me, my presence or something I said/wrote…I would prefer you address me (it) head on…and be specific to what I said/did – no “vague generalizations” or random name calling that has nothing to do with what you are specifically addressing.
The middle school, gossipy side attack is where I get annoyed. If you address me head on, you may find the truth is different than what you perceive…but I think people don’t want the truth cuz when they want to hate, they do it by any means necessary…the good thing is hate, for me, is often that hot air that keeps me rising to the top.
stuntman mike
December 21st, 2009
2:38 pm
why did i get banned?
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
2:39 pm
czBrat – Hard to pinpoint exactly for me. Rarely will I call someone out but just reading the too good to be true bs. Also like SC says the perfect people in the world who never get it wrong and its never their fault. I usually skim over individual comments for the most part and don’t really get on here enough to know about contradictions unless its all in the same hour or two. Even with that being said seems like most folks can read a few comments and figa out that bish fake or that dude lying and still keep it moving unless its something thats addressed to them.
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
2:39 pm
Melo — You didn’t get the bachelor party invite? All this time I thought you just stood me up, man…
May be a while before any kind of house-warming party… we need to get some furniture first & after all the $$ we’ve already shelled out for the down payment, closing costs, fridge, washer & dryer, we won’t be buying much of anything until we get our tax refund.
Melo
December 21st, 2009
2:50 pm
we need to get some furniture first
Now! thats faking Swiss!
who u wanna impress?? me..naw homie(?)..
u know we like the bare floor better to showcase the dancing skills…im sure Ms swiss knows that….
Better yet,u do the house warning and then on the nite,pass on a collection plate to fund purchase of furniture coz everybody will see,u didnt move no furniture around to the walls,house is bare.
Thats keeping it real bro!
can i call u bro by the way or i broke an afr/american law??(is Dan here?!) 
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
2:55 pm
“Better yet,u do the house warning and then on the nite,pass on a collection plate to fund purchase of furniture coz everybody will see,u didnt move no furniture around to the walls,house is bare.
Thats keeping it real bro! can i call u bro by the way or i broke an afr/american law??(is Dan here?!) ”
man…….you keep me crackin up!!! but that is some realness!
Melo
December 21st, 2009
2:55 pm
2Can,u here??
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
2:55 pm
@cbratz
For the most part.. I think we’ve all read everyones individual story. So we prety much know the story behind the computer…
The idea of “fake” is generally tossed around when someone is not, or will not, or hasn’t yet commited the same mistake as another counterpart.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR NO BOLOGNEY ALL CHEESE
December 21st, 2009
2:56 pm
Melo – Ones blackness is not judged by the color of his skin, it is judged on his soul alone.. H3ll Swiss’ Ghetto Pass might have more stamps on it than yours..
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
2:59 pm
right here, Melo……reading Dream_n’s young ass trynna to spit some knowledge………(j/k………..not really tho)
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
3:00 pm
Sexy is SCool.
December 21st, 2009
3:01 pm
RIP Brittany Murphy. I liked that chick.
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
3:02 pm
Would it sound better for you 2C if I was born in 1975 as opposed to 85???
And spitting knowledge is all relative… depending on the ignorance of ones self.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
3:04 pm
gal…….if you don’t lighten up!!!!!
Melo
December 21st, 2009
3:06 pm
@DK..I hear u..u know me, i grew up under apartheid…u didnt see no poor swiss around,at least not around black folk..the swiss always held themselves as above u know who and if there was any negativity in their camp(aka poverty) they kept it well protected,away from the black folk.
Now i come to ther states, i see poor,cracked up feet “master swiss” and poor Ray Ray all standing tegether side by side..i tell u,initially,it didnt seem real to me…i was conditioned.
i luv america.
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
3:06 pm
I’m light… should I add a wink or a lol next time
Here you go
Melo
December 21st, 2009
3:10 pm
Now the question is, would it be breaking a rule if I called you bro…?
u eat neck bones,cow balls and feet and all Swiss??
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
3:11 pm
“I’m light”…….hmmmm, how light? can I pick you up? toss you around? do some acrobatics?
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
3:14 pm
Now i come to ther states, i see poor,cracked up feet “master swiss” and poor Ray Ray all standing tegether side by side..i tell u,initially,it didnt seem real to me…i was conditioned.
That’s funny…it reminds me of a convo I had with a few colleagues – one from Ivory Coast and the other a much older guy from Jamaica – about race and whatnot. I asked why black immigrants hangout with non blacks in college. They were like, ‘We can’t tell the difference’…they could tell later, but when they first came to the states they thought all whites had money and were smarter (due to schooling).
Melo
December 21st, 2009
3:16 pm
right here, Melo
@2Can, well, i just wanted to say, i replayed that joke on Raqi u made on friday,”u put on nikas to bed” sme like that..it was hilarious to me….
I guess she didnt wanna be challenged or maybe just wanted to ward off blog competition, i really dont know, coz guess how she came to bed afetr i had tucked in!
and i was like, :hello:…..!
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
3:17 pm
just reread – I meant they hung out with white to the exclusion of blacks like we had a disease.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
3:20 pm
ha…..all it takes is a lil persuasive coercion!!!
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
3:20 pm
I’m sure you could….
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
3:22 pm
damn, Dream_n……gimme them stats again……23…..what else?
Melo
December 21st, 2009
3:23 pm
@luvbug??
what college did u go to..
Now, in some countries,african countries included,black gang violence is hyped up…
that maybe an explanation,dont know for sure.
Oh folks may have been jus angling for scholarships!
U know folks do what they can do to get where they wanna go! 
I have a sad story of an african america muslim guy who gave me the run around,promising to get me a scholarship..back in the day..west atlanta area..shall remain nameless!
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
3:25 pm
LOL…..
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
3:26 pm
Didn’t I tell you I am not getting caught up in a blog scandal…
Melo
December 21st, 2009
3:30 pm
Queen has been trying these past weeks to empty my prostate..
No chance!
where is Raqi at..she gave that advice….??
I think we need plan B!
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
3:33 pm
scandal????? ain’t no scandals ‘less you run yo mouf! I don’t kiss and tell…..
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
3:36 pm
“u eat neck bones,cow balls and feet and all Swiss??”
I have sampled some neck bones & pig’s feet… but, um, cow balls??? First — no, I’ve never had ballz of any kind in my mouth, and second — exactly what kind of cows do they have where you’re from? — Rosie O’Donnell Holstein?
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
3:38 pm
I won’t be specific but it’s a basic state college – mostly white with sprinkles of color and various ethnicities…I don’t know if they were the angling type, but they seemed to assume the worst of black americans (not overtly), but it showed in little ways…I don’t think they represented every immigrant though…
It was just suspect… for instance, I have muslims in my family and I may go to the masjid with them from time to time…they are light and when their hair is covered, you can’t tell what race they are…so, when people are interfacing before pray it gets complicated because people seem to section off on race (and money) and it’s funny watching people be confused about who to approach when race is not obvious…it not overt…but it’s something.
czBrat
December 21st, 2009
3:44 pm
I don’t know if they were the angling type, but they seemed to assume the worst of black americans the flip side is that african-americans will sometimes regard another black person as “different” if they’re from another country. foreign minorities may find it easier to be accepted by whites (at least at first), especially on a liberal campus.
Professor
December 21st, 2009
3:44 pm
…stepping in.
What is the topic?
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
3:49 pm
@czbrat – I think that’s true in many situations (them gravitating to a more open sect)…but they were pretty cut and dry when they gave me their answer…we had established a friendship at the time, so they held no punches…they thought blacks were unmotivated, lazy have nothing.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
3:49 pm
Professor, we were just talking about smart chics who’re undercover freaks…and somebody mentioned your name…….
Luvbug
December 21st, 2009
3:49 pm
blacks- African Americans
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
3:51 pm
oh well Prof…..looks like the comments were deleted..care to comment, though?
Melo
December 21st, 2009
3:56 pm
kind of cows do they have where you’re from? — Rosie O’Donnell Holstein?
we got Tuli(african bushmen type)..angus(british??)..etc….
u dont eat cow balls..um mayne..i know..u folks think cow meat is from kroger, publix and food depot right??
we kills our cows/bulls,skin them and give the women the parts to cook and us men keep the meat for the boys…balls,feet,tongue,tripe etc….
I have muslims in my family and I may
@Luvbug??
now me,i aint fake azz, i will tell u str8 up, i dont mess with muslims on the regular coz i say sme phluckked up or not politically correct,they summon a fatwa for my arse right there and the Khomeni will get me killed..im not messing with that shytt!
For Real
December 21st, 2009
4:01 pm
“we kills our cows/bulls,skin them and give the women the parts to cook and us men keep the meat for the boys…balls,feet,tongue,tripe etc….” – Dayum Melo!! Anybody got an anti-acid.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:09 pm
Melo, how long have you been in the states?
Melo
December 21st, 2009
4:15 pm
@2CAN
12 yrs + and counting…..
u dont work for immigration,right!
u come hang around my pple,u be the only one left standing,…they leave u,one by one….”gotta go”….next one “gotta go”…
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
4:19 pm
Now, why do I keep thinking about that Dave Chappelle skit with the crack-head on Fear Factor eating some donkey dyck with hot sauce…?
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:20 pm
“u dont work for immigration,right!”
nope…..and even if I did, trust, I’m not the snitchin’ type…..just read where they busted some folks in Cherokee county with 800lbs of weed….off an anonymous tip…..that shyt burns me up!!!
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
4:21 pm
“…but I’ve never had any ballz. “
Um… I fell I should clarify that — “I’ve never EATEN any ballz.” Just to make that clear…
Professor
December 21st, 2009
4:21 pm
@2CPTG~ if you ever read me confess on freaky Friday you will no for me it is no covers and bright lights I don’t hide…lol
Melo you and these cow parts. Do you shop at H-Mart?
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
4:24 pm
2can – wudnt nuthin anonymous bout that tip. Price of that Presidential jus went up for the holidays.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:26 pm
“no covers and bright lights”?????? damn……Professor you aiiiight with me……can you imagine……some bangin sex, then read to each other???? gal, I’mma put you on my “to do” list as well….
Melo
December 21st, 2009
4:28 pm
I’m not the snitchin’ type
@2CPTG
u may wana rethink that..
i was reading current forbes mag,IRS is paying top dollar if u can smeath on smeone with top $$$ who has been hiding it from feds..get a lawyer and u file form 1200 i believe it is and if the guys gets convicted,u get like 10% of the bounty.might take a yr or two to get it.
That maybe enough money for u to change continets…
i will just skip to Kwazulu..heck most folks dont even know where that is!
i wont snitch on my bros doing their hustle in the neck if the woods tho..u know the ones who dont have regular jobs but them pockets full….
u need those eve now and then in case u need a cable hook up or u get a water pipe break and their uncle wrks for the county!
Professor
December 21st, 2009
4:29 pm
2Can…you and that list or notebook!
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:29 pm
Willie D, ok!!!!! price just skyrocketed! …..I can hear nikkas now…….”yo, my folks just got popped, so the quarters going for $45 now…..”
Melo
December 21st, 2009
4:31 pm
H-Mart?
Proff??
whats H-mart??
in conyers off exit 88/9 i believe, u can go there,(farm) choose ur cow/sheep and ask the folks to skin it for u…best meat ever….
we alwayz do,holiday time when we have folks around!
Professor
December 21st, 2009
4:31 pm
will just skip to Kwazulu..heck most folks dont even know where that is! May I add? or how to spell it
Professor
December 21st, 2009
4:33 pm
Melo,
H-mart is this diverse grocery store on Hwy 85 in Riverdale. Fresh fish all kinds of exotic seasonings and stuff you cannot find everywhere. They have everything…all kind of stuff.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:33 pm
Professor…….just look at my “note pad” as my blog “black book”…….Dream_n look like she ain’t really bout that, so I gotta keep my options open….plus, I like your brain…..you’d keep a brother on his toes….
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
4:34 pm
2Can – look here man, Ima need you to prioritize that To Do list. 4Real got some change he bout to owe me so I need you focused on the task at hand. Haha
Melo
December 21st, 2009
4:38 pm
Hwy 85 in Riverdale
i will check it out,tho i live on the other side of town…
dekalb frmers mrkt is the place we do our shopping from,for fish,meats,vegies and other exotic and foreign foods etc except pumpkin leaves ….buford hwy market for that one.
so far dekald frmers??..no competetion for it out there…far as i know
For Real
December 21st, 2009
4:38 pm
2C: Hold on bruh. I got some chedda ridin on you and I know Willie D just waitin on a pay day. Now, take this half of a half of pint of Remy and hop back on that 23yo philly and leave my side change on Professor alone.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:38 pm
oh, ok. Willie D……..shiiiid, you know we do when money on the table….thangs get sho nuff serious then…
Professor
December 21st, 2009
4:41 pm
Melo Super H mart is no Dekalb Farmers market, but it is pretty cool. So you would waste gas passing Dekalb going to Riverdale.
I will have to get you some stuff out of my mom’s garden next year.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:42 pm
oh, side bets…….boi, this gettn’ good…..bett’n the dice game!
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
4:43 pm
half of a half of pint of Remy, yousa fool.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:46 pm
“half of a half of pint of Remy, yousa fool.”
yeah, he is…..
but ummmm, Dream_n……..say mama, I just copped this crib, and ummm I’m not very good at that decoratin’ thang…..even though I watch HGTV, I need a woman’s eye….I gotta gang of frequent flyer miles, think if I hooked you up, you can come down and help me hook it up in time for New Years????
Wings (())
December 21st, 2009
4:47 pm
Dear Santa:
I swear I’ve been good this year…well most of it anyway…..
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
4:47 pm
RE: Dekalb Farmer’s Market…
Man, that’s the thing I miss most now that I’m in the new place… Best variety, quality & prices. They even have some really good — and cheap — Bordeaux. Can I get a shuttle from Alpharetta???
lurker
December 21st, 2009
4:47 pm
LMBOROFL
Melo
December 21st, 2009
4:49 pm
I will have to get you some stuff out of my mom’s garden next year.
@Proff
cool…
only way to check H-Mart wld be on a friday,when i leave wrk.
Now why is that when we start talking about food and cooking,most girls on here go ghost…
these heifers jus wanna get fed at the restauraunts and get laid,no cooking skills whats so ever,thats pityful!
what u bringning to the table ladies to make ur claim permanent..
ur booty wont count!
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:50 pm
lurker……..only on the MIA blog!!!!!!
Melo
December 21st, 2009
4:51 pm
Can I get a shuttle from Alpharetta???
@Swiss
Alpharetta??
maynne…i hope u didnt marry Whitney!
Professor
December 21st, 2009
4:54 pm
…stepping out!
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
4:56 pm
I gotta give a shout out to Angie….she just hit me up, tom’bout if them other gals ain’t wit it, she damn sho is…….Willie D, what are the odds on her?
Melo
December 21st, 2009
4:58 pm
tom’bout if them other gals ain’t wit it, she damn sho is…
she must be fierce in bed..im sure she must be 2Can!
i'm swiss
December 21st, 2009
4:59 pm
LMAO @ Melo
Melo
December 21st, 2009
5:01 pm
Good nite folks..Dream_n/Proff…!
Willie Dynamite
December 21st, 2009
5:05 pm
no odds, even money.
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
5:09 pm
ok…..so she can get knocked off on GP…..
Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray
December 21st, 2009
5:12 pm
For Real/ Willie D
So here we go with those damn bets again…. lmao!
Night Fellas…
@2C I do have a flare for decorating if I may say so myself.. hmmm. Might just have to get in on this bet ya’ll keep talk’n bout
Night Beautiful People & Keep Smiling!!
Night Prof/Melo…
2CPTG........tit for tat!
December 21st, 2009
5:22 pm
“@2C I do have a flare for decorating if I may say so myself.. hmmm. Might just have to get in on this bet ya’ll keep talk’n bout ”
yeah……..that’s what it do then, lil mama……yeah, let them dudes have their lil bets…..me and you right here…..>>>>(())<<<<!
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