Oh, and I forgot to add…

FIRST!

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Congratulations Texasboy.

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Morning!

…starting this afternoon, i’ll be on vacation until 2010!!!…BIM!

I embraced every experience i’ve had this year…as always i’ve gained more wisdom about a lot of things…and i can’t wait to see what 2010 will brings my way.

~Sign
Wisdom Seeker

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@Lady – What a wonderful testimony! Babies are a blessing from God… now teenagers, I’m not so sure about.

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Good for you Lady J.

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Thanks ImAPeach404!!!! And Raqi your on my Shero list!!!!! In the start I didn’t quite understand you (the little girl in me) but woman to woman you got it going on and I applaud your journey honey!!!!! I so appreciate your daily wisdom with life!!!!!:)

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Now Cee I am crying my ETERNAL FLAME IS FIRE OF PEACE!!!!!! You know that is going on EVERY status I am apart of!!!!! Cee you are my vlog sistah I adore!!!! Thanks for just being nice through it all!!!! Happy Holidays!!!!!:)

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yall know my typing and spelling sucks but who cares not me!!!! All errors in love! LOL

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Wow…
Congrats Swiss,Texasboy, and Lady J!!!

I am actually happy the year is ending… Time to embark on a new journey.

Looking back on this year, I’m glad I learned to let go. Holding on to something toxic is not good for your soul or your growth…

I’m excited about what life has in store for me and eager to attain each goal I’ve set before me. I’ve been blessed with an extraordinary little mini me who absolutely is my heart. I’ve learned quite a few things about myself that I didn’t like and things that I love.

2010 here I come

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awww…and you are my lil sister of the blog. So thoughtful of you.

I don’t mind prasing him with you LadyJ…i’ve got an 1.5 hr before my meeting…sis, i’ll “go-in” and make this day a sunny day! lol

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Boy, this year has flown by. For the first time ever I did no dating – just situating. I can’t think of a minus worth mentioning – just regular growing pains. So far, I’ve been steadfast and patient about most things. Life is good.

I’ve enjoyed this blog. Ms. Diva does a good job of coming up with topics. I like reading the comments…at least the non crabs in a barrel, non hating, non personal attacking azz ones…it’s good to hear different, sincere points of views.

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Thank you Lady J. I got many, many years of continuous learning ahead me. Heck I gotz a little girl to raise now. Who would have thunk it? LOL

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waves at M.

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Well, it sounds real nice to be the poster child for positivity and “the journey”, but I’m going to keep it real.

2009 was a year of change for me. In some cases it was good, in others I was often left with the feeling of “Why” is this happening? Better yet, “WTF?” But, all in all, I still have my health, my sanity, make a good living, have a roof over my head, and I am surrounded by folks who love and care for me. For that I am grateful because alot of people do not have these things.

So far as the dating tip of 2009, it has been a rocky road as I try to weather the storm, support and grow with a brother that I have really grown to care about. Some men are always complaining about having a woman to support them and have their back. Well, I do have his. I’ve been told that I am appreciated, but lately I have not been shown. This has left me feeling kid of empty because actions are not equaling words. So, on this front, either 2010 is going to be a year of celebration after the storm is over and getting back on the right track or one of moving forward without the one I chose to be with. Only time will tell-

Salute.

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@ImAPeach404

What up I think you must not get out enough. LOL They are all over Atlanta. Granted it depends where you hang out also. I went to a Christmas Party wednesday for Ferrari Atlanta and the golddiggers were out. They even had some old gold diggers….lol One lady was probably gold digging during the under ground railroad lol….

One more rant! Nothing I hate more than an Old Gold digger or and Old groupie…..if a chick used to be a groupie for Freddie Jackson or The Deele’s thats cool but this is 2009…scum of the earth….lol

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For me this year has brought me a daughter and I am thankful for that. This year has also made me appreciate even more what I have and has given me an even more earnest desire to hold on to it. This year did not fail me in my love and trust in the man I love. I thank God for him.

I thank God for the bad also. This year has shown me that you cannot please every one. Folks are going to hate you for who you are what you have positive going on in your life. I also have been blessed with some of life’s wisdom that has lead to me realize that I do not have to play down the me to suit others. It is not my responsibility to assure the happiness of those on the outside or refrain from expressing my joy because it may make their life look less fulfilling. The Man Upstairs has given me all of this and I will not fail to speak of it because of others.

What friends and associates and buddies and pals I have going into the new year are those that are true.

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Texasboy – Congratulations!…twins?…good lawd!

…no really, bless your HEART!

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the love fest going on this morning…

…i think the rain contributed to it.

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Mdot, you wanna buy my five clicks so the women will flock to you? LOL

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What’s the proper etiquette for uninviting someone to a Christmas party? I invited her but I have determined that she is really not a person I want to remain associates with.

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Raqi??

just leave it alone..u invited her already..thats unnecessary drama..
U be the classy one!

Thanks Lady J/Dream_n!!

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@Raqi

Five Clicks? Not sure what that is but I’m straight thanks lol

Does anyone know if the blog is closed until Jan. 4th?

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Two Word Week – Love life.

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agree with Melo…what irritates us most about others, teaches us more about ourselves.

for instance…I gave a young lady (mid 50s) here in the office (that bothers me all the time with petty filing questions she should already know…soemthings she does just to bother me)…i gave her a trifold organizer for her xmas gift, so that when i give her pointers/info she can write things down.

and yes she at time irritates me HIGHLY…but to get me out of bondage of allowing her antics to bother me…i’m going to fix this subtly and all the “extra” from here will roll off my shoulder…

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M.Dot – What you look for is what you will find.

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The Man Upstairs has given me all of this and I will not fail to speak of it because of others.

I hear that! That self conviction gets people every time…then they knit pick…then they attack…then you’ve turn the other cheek so many times you seeing them in double and hitting both of ‘em.

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Yes – positioning

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Swiss, ain’t it a good thing when you can pinpoint your blessings? As crass as I may seem, I still know “from whence cometh my help.” Just keep looking to the hills, my brother!!!

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And the thing is I don’t have much. We just live in a little brick box sitting on the side of the road and drive a metal capsule rolling on four wheels. LOL

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…out with the old, in with the new…

That’s what my husband says everytime the baby poops her diaper while he if feeding her. LOL

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Good morning everyone!

Congratulations TXBoy and congrats to you i’m swiss for loving everything about your life and nabbing the perfect wife of all wives.

@Raqi ~ you’ve already invited her so go with the flow and stay “above the fray.” You can distance yourself after the party. Women know when they haven’t moved from the “associate” zone into the “friendship” zone. Curious, what made you invite her in the first place? Did you just recently find out about her envious side??

Glad to see 2009 leave because I’ve learned a few things about myself. My hangup of doing things by myself almost left me in a corner I didn’t want to be in. The latter part of 2009 I’ve started going out and doing things by myself and found it not to be so bad. I really can’t say anything bad about dating in 2009 because I didn’t do much and that’s no one’s fault but my own. Listening to folk on this blog has been enlightening to say the least. So…..

2010 I’ll definitely be on the prowlgetting out more and enjoying all that life and my wallet can afford.

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2CPTG, I agree. Give thanks first and then celebrate his blessings.

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I think that putting her on notice upfront with humor might work. It could be something she subconsciously does out of insecurity.

Some many people spend time envying other people’s grass that they don’t realize that theirs is the same shade of green. It may just be tended a little bit differently.

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Raqi..look at it this way:

some pple are enlightened by being in ur presence and u also get enloghtened by being in the company of other pple,some who are way above ur league.

U send out the invite already,taking it back is inviting negativity in ur lyfe..invite positivity instead!
And if she comes to the party pouting about her negative situation,shes a grown womamn,she will feel outa place.Let her grow up on that score,on her own damn self! Im sure shes gonna learn some good thangs too.

Merry Xmas!

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Yes Leggs and Cemeeli, I invited her back in early November. She started working here back in March and we became friends and she was cool. We would go to lunch sometimes and whatnot. She made what I thought was a joke once when I pulled out my credit card to pay for lunch. “You didn’t have pull that out?”, Me thinking “HaHa”. Hell it’s my husband’s card. I don’t pay the bill. So “haha”. Then she started making comments while in my office about something new someone had on.

I brushed it off as no big deal until earlier this week she made a comment about folks get on her nerves driving their fancy cars and flaunting their “whatever” in front of others just to make them look bad. Hell these folks are just here to work and make a living like you. They can drive or wear whatever the hell they please. It’s theirs. That’s when I knew I did not want her around my friends.

Unfortunately the one that I know will get her told front and center holding back nothing has just had her first baby and will not be at the party. Darn!!!

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for real, Leggs? is it really that obvious?????

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Libra in me. (Flipside)

Okay, Raqi – now she is going to come to your party see how phat your crib is and how fab your friends are and she is really going to become your number one Frenemy.

~lol~

Next time she makes one of those ‘hatin’-ass comments’, call her on it.

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Exactly, SCool!!

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Pose for the camera now. Click. Click.

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For Real now setting up his annual Chrismus Picturetaking photos in the back of the blog. I got several background shots to choose from:

1. Black Benz with 20’s
2. Sliver Bently with 20’s
3. Orange GTO with 20’s
4. Escalade with 20’s

Oh and there is .007% discount on all prison poses and Fellas if you would like to see unauthorized photo of the blog ladies let me know but those pictures are extra.

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So ForReal I take you like my new winter white sweater? My husband thinks it’s nice also. He said I look very toasty and snuggly today.

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Happy Birthday “lurker…”. There are so many you all these days. LOL
And good luck on that higher height you are trying to reach.

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And real quick, yes, I did see Steve on GMA. He did look a little thrown by the question, but TheDude and I thought he did a fair job of answering the question.

(He and I usually make it a point to check Steve out when he’s going to be on GMA. It gives us good topics of discussion that we usually use to discuss issues in our growing relationship.)

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Raqi: I do like the sweater but why are you wearing a white bra?

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Mdot…

What is considered a “dime” to you?

What makes someone a gold-digger?

Is it the alleged gold diggers fault for going out and getting what she wants or is it the guys fault for falling for her looks and giving it?

You don’t like nickels?

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“…do you think guys can find a dime (10) that’s not a gold digger?” – They are everywhere but I think you are suffering from “I worked too hard my ish to lose it to some trick syndrome”

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(Dude is filling out paperwork.)

To get a ten, you gotta be a ten.

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I didn’t think you were trying to be witty. I was just trying to save you some keystrokes. And there is no excitement, attitude, nothing to calm down from. Trust.

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@Raqi…Getting it Off My Chest

I think a dime is not only looks but someone who is a good package and with no attitude or extras. Brings alot to the table.

A gold digger is someone who only dates/deals with someone for financial gain and who would not stay with them if the gain is gone.

It’s not her fault and I dont knock her hustle but the guy should be on top of his to where he doesnt get caught up in the gold digger web.

LOL Nickels have a purpose….

@Leggs

I didnt like that little slick response from Steve about that guy not doing his job. Obviously we dont know what goes on in that household, but Steve made it like women never cheat and who could fathom that idea? LOL. It was what show he was on. If he was on his show, he wouldve gave him the real answer.

@First Sexy. Then Cool.

“To get a ten, you gotta be a ten.”

I dont necessarily agree with that. Denzel’s wife is not a ten. Sometimes if somebody is cool and worth it, you can overlook alot of stuff.

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Thanks Raqi, thanks For Real

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speaking of dimes, I think it was Truth that hopped on here one day and said had had 5 2cents or something of the such. Can’t phrase it like it did but it was funny as heck because the flow of the conversation at that time was getting dimes

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Denzel’s wife is not a ten

When did he tell you that, Mdot? I didn’t know the two of you knew each other. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You cannot tell that man or any man for that matter that his wife or woman is not a dime.
That’s where you are going wrong.

Your dime could be very well staring you in the face but you are missing her because you cannot recognize a true dime when you see it. That funny money will fool you if you don’t know what you are looking for. Ask a counterfeiter.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, LURKER!

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THANKS LEGGS!!

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A lot thinks Wesley Snipes is a dime, and I never understood. Who am I to question this since I know we all have different optical illusions.

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@ M:
A gold digger is someone who only dates/deals with someone for financial gain and who would not stay with them if the gain is gone.

In the beginning,be4 a relationship develops,u cld say most women,even married ones are looking for their gold.

A non gold digger is the one thats good for u.It dont mean that that same women is good for me.Me beinng of a lower financial standing might view ur ideal woman as gold digger!

“Brings alot to the table” she may bring lots to the table but still expect u to bring more than she does.She may not verbalize that but put it like this,” i like a man who is about his hustle”,meaning YOU…..Careful,she picking ur pockets too..in a nice,subtle way.

If u dont have a car for example,u mioght have to go down south in rural GA to find a woman who will want u.Here in the city and ‘burbs,they expect to go out,dine,go to the hawks game,etc and expect u to come pick the m up smetimes.Does that make them gold diggers??

Gold digger is all relative.
I wanna hit madonna..seriously..but she may neva have a second for me..

Gold digger??
Stick to ur lane M!

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@Raqi…

Relax Raqi…No one said they knew denzel…you just parachuting to conclusions….relax its friday take a deep breath ok lol .

“Mdot, dude you are really hurting aren’t you? What’s up with you and your friend chasing these women that you cannot have? Your friend is trying to get a woman to “open up” to him and she doesn’t want to and you are trying to get with a type of woman that wants a certain type of life style that you are not willing to give her. What gives?

Talk to us. We will be honest with you from the Women’s Corner. Let us help.”

What are you talking about? I was just sticking the topic and was making an observation about the amount of gold diggers in Atlanta, but like I said maybe you dont get out enough outside of your comfort zone and see other parts of Atlanta so you probably have no idea what I am talking about. That’s cool.

It’s not about trying to get a certain woman or anything. I was just saying not to settle which was I said in my very FIRST posts.

Are you a 10? You can be honest. How do you look anyway?

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Yes I am a 10. Don’t believe me? Ask my husband.

And no one is telling you you should settle. All I am saying is a 10 comes in many packages and yours could very well be waiting for you to pick her up and she will be the best thing that happens to you.

Kerry Washington, Angelina Jolie and Halle Berry are all considered 10’s. But guess what I guarantee you that Brad Pitt would not give Kerry Washington the time of day. And he would not adopt babies with Halle Berry.

But to be honest I don’t know what any woman sees in him. He looks like a Ritz.

(Disclaimer: I do not mean to offend anyone with the Ritz statement. It’s probably not what some may think it means)

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Kerry Washington, Angelina Jolie and Halle Berry are all considered 10’s.

I doubt that.

If they were, smebody wld have send me a text so i know!

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I don’t believe there’s a such thing as Dating out of your league. The person that you think you can’t have has probably dated people of lesser caliber than you (looks, finances, status, character). I feel that, given the opportunity, I would be just as good a contender for a chick as any other dude. The only thing that makes someone out of your league is YOUR perception that they are out of your league.

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Getting it off my chest…

Dear Love,

Please it has been years since our divorce.. Get over it.

Stop telling my Son bad things about his Dad cause he loves me no matter what you say and 9 times out of 10 he tells me what was said, so even though you tell him not to tell me he still does.. I think its terrible that you put a 4 year old in that position.. You are a !$%@* MESS but because youre my Sons mother I keep those choice words to myself and try to maintain some level of respect for you, eventhough its not returned.. I know you hate that I didnt fall without you but what did you expect? I know you hate to see me in a new car every 6 to 8 months but its what I love to do, its a passion (Buying and selling cars), so you dont have to haul me off to child support court every time you see a new ride.. I wish your new boyfriend had enough ballz to tell you to leave me alone but he cant do that holding your purse at the salon while you get you hair fixed.. Yeah your stylist loves to say how stupid you are while getting her butt slapped.. Oh Im sorry you didnt know we were getting it in.. Yeah she hollered about 6 months ago when I saw her at chow baby.. She loves the scream machine.. I dont know what it is about your friends that keep making them wanna give me some..

Ahh yes Sweetheart Stop lying to the teachers at The dudes school cause they know Daddy is there for everything.. Oh and that child support is adult support and I know you got mad the last time they lowered it.. Yeah Im getting much better at hiding money, Boo.. Ha ha and if my son wants to call me let him call me, dont let him call the office when you know Im hardly ever there.. Youre a piece of work Babe but in time you’ll figure out that it takes alot of energy to hate me and Im inclined to let you keep on doing that and in fact make you hate me more by becoming more successful..

PS Stop worrying about who Im F!ckin cause you’ll never ride the scream machine again.. And stop calling my Moma trying to tell on me.. Darling just like Moma tells you “Baby.. He’s a grown A$$ man and it nothing you can make a grown a$$ man do”..

Sincerly,
Your wonderfully happy without you EX Husband
DK

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LOL Infamous, just us how you really feel.

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@THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD

LOL that’s whats up spread it around…lol

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@Leggs

LOL he said it!

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Afternoon Folks!

Wow – 2009….2009 can be summed up as bittersweet. The best part about 2009 was meeting my fiance’ – there’s no bitter to that sweet.

Sweet – Bought a nice townhome at what I thought was a great price. Bitter – the value has since dropped 10%

Sweet – I’m back in Atlanta with my loved ones and a job that keeps my pockets full. Bitter – the job takes A LOT out of me, so my time with loved ones consumes most of my free time.

But the worst thing about 2009 is the weight I’ve gained. I worked so hard to lose the weight during 2007 and 2008.

I’m very excited about 2010. I’ll be bringing in the New Year with the man I love. I haven’t had a SO on NYE since 1996. I’m getting married in 2010. I’m turning 40 in 2010. I’m becoming a step-mom in 2010… So many possibilities for 2010.

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Good P.M. All! it’s good to pop in and read the regulars.

Congrats to all those waving buh bye to a great 2009! Lots of uplifting comments here today.

As for me, good riddance to this year and praying the next will see my munchkins happy, healthy and moving in positive directions.

dunno bout getting it off my chest, but sure would luv to just exhale sigh

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Lots of ‘inside’ activity this weekend

Yep. Doing laundry, filling out envelopes and mailing Christmas cards, getting guest room together for Christmas guest, deciding on the menu for the Christmas party, deciding on menu for Christmas dinner, wrapping gifts that are hidden in the downstairs closet, trying to get that bicycle grease stain out the carpet downstairs, helping the boy go thru his old winter clothing, printing labels and arranging file folders for hubby’s office file cabinet, looking on Brookstone.com for last minute gifts that I saw in mail-out….

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Yeah Infamous, do you be thinking in your mind “Man if she could see this…”?

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Raqi – I will be doing NONE of that. Okay, may be hopping up to throw some laundry on, but…that’s about it.

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Raqi – my good really does outweigh the bad. I was talking to a friend the other day and I realized that I was probably depressed (not clinically) in Houston. I just happened to get through the depression by spending 2 hours a day in the gym. So overall, even with the weight gain (that the Mr. claims he doesn’t see/notice) I’m in a pretty good place in my life.

SCool – I thought tomorrow was going to pretty much be an inside day until I got a call about 20 minutes ago about a wedding in Columbus, GA that I’ll be attending tomorrow… so much for sleeping in late, etc.

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DK
I feel you bruh. Keep doin’ ya thing and raising the seed right. All things play out the way they’re supposed to. With that said, let’s open up the blog bar with a shot/toast for all the fellas holdin’ it down, handlin’ business, and blazin’ trails. Get on the wagon or get outta the way.

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Raqi – THANK YOU!! What a wonderful Christmas present!!!

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I received an email with coupons forBest Buy, Old Navy, Aeropostale, Borders, The Gap, Sears, Footlocker, Finish Line and many more. Already used the one for Best Buy! If you guys want, just let me know and I’ll forward.

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Please do, Leggs.

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Checking back in….

Hey there cbratz!!

Couldn’t catch up on everything,but saw that letter and ..umm yea

Where’s Melo/Prof/2C/Cee???

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DK..i hear u bro and do ur thang but i think u hurt some pining blog females by ur confessing to slapping ex’s stylist and chosen friends!

Well,not really,ur stock may have gon up a notch too..u know how chics interpret things!

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Leggs – Let her deal with them chicks smiling in her face knowing they have let her EX beat em like they stole something.. And everyone one of them got my special D*ck trick.. All night extra pornstar f*ckin..

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Already forwarded to you Dream_n!

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I get that, Infamous.

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Leggs – No.. Im not in to paying back.. thats not my job.. Somebody else can deal with that.. Do I think its funny and Ironic? Yes.. See I dont even think its soo much me they wanna do it to I thinks its her.. I havent approached any of them about anything.. And would I do this normally? No because usually girlfriends are of limits out of respect for myself but these chicks… The rules dont apply..

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7t2jOlyxrVQ

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Fair enough…

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if i want some more of past 2 days plus lots of coffee and scones,u know my kinda of weather is to blame!

(message jus send to Queen,via email)

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“…dont even think its soo much me they wanna do it to I thinks its her…” This I can see, because some women are just stupid like that. In their warped minds they feel they’re somehow knocking the woman down a peg or two knowing they’re busting slob from different orifices with her ex and then smiling in her face over drinks and wings!

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knocked off friends/associates of any of their ex’s?

i knocked off ex wife’s cousin!

yeah,she literally thru herself at my feet.

slammed her repeteadly, real nice!

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And not reading your entire post, I also sent to you too Melo!

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Noooo…I hardly made eye contact with exs of my friends when they were dating them. Sometimes the guys would hit on me on the sly or look at me inappropriately…There have been a few – he’s looking at me, I’m looking at her and she’s looking at him all at the same time scenarios…so uncomfortable.

I wouldn’t even date the good catches…at least not knowingly. Now if we didn’t know we shared a friend when me met and have been hitting it off for a good deal of time, I may have to have a heart to heart with my girl…but even that is questionable.

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Melo – Because She is upset the divorce didnt go as planned.. She was expecting to get full custody and I would see my Son when she saw fit.. She thought she would get some outrageous child support and none of it happened.. Oh and I filed for Divorce.. That was a no no.. How dare I divorce her.. She underestimated how hard I would fight to be a father and be in my sons life.. Then too I guess because I dont buy into her foolishness and I always greet her with a smile..

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@Dream_n, that’s exactly what InfamousD said they were doing! Bending her ear all the while yearning one day to bend the scream machine!

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Salty chocolate balls….For Real will now appear with a “ZZZiiippp!!!” in 5, 4, 3, 2………

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DK..were u hustling and getting ur bread when married as u doing now,that behavior of hers is gold diggerish to me!

M(dot) that there,2.56 is ur definition of gold digger!

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Yep. I have sex on the regular with my first husband’s friend.

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LOL SexyCool, you know one day he is going to get that zipper hung up on sumthin’.

The blog staff ordered him some pants with velcro but China is waiting for Mexico to send over the material.

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peach lace panties and a peach lace bra!

wow..im hyper ventilating!

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I have sex on the regular with my first husband’s friend

u owe ur 1st husband an apology prayer every day,till u die,coz u were pining 4 his friend behind his back,back in the day…a no no in the bible!

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Melo – You know Im a born hustler.. I have always done something around the cars. The towing business wasnt going so well while we were married because I couldnt focus and having someone that you supposedly love tell you that its a waste of time kinda throws your balance off.. She didnt get any money from the business but I left her with everything and just took my clothes, two tvs and rolled.. Its was rough at first but once i got my focus right everything came together because I could see what I needed to do to get where I wanted to go..

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Melo, what? That is not a no no in the bible. I would never have sexed or married one of his relatives. Now the bible does speaks against that.

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DK… We need to hang if you getting all that bootey! Women these are not your friends if they want to taste this 4-wood! Fooouuurrr!
DK keep em screamin man! that is my motto! They need to have that head banged good too! T.W. signing off wishing everyone a phlucking merry christmas!

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Melo – I still made money but it was safe corporate money. That was never enough for me.. I knew the only way to get money for real was to own my own business.. Because only your lack of hard work would limit your ability to earn.

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Merry Xmas Dream_n to u and to lil Dream_n!

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were not bringing in

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After last night anything you want babe……

(thats Queen response)

i must have scored some major points last nite!

im feeling zuuuunglish good in my whole body

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Afternoon All,

2009 has been a very good year. On a personal not the Fam is outstanding. We are all healthy and happy. I am proud to say that I’ve taken care of 100% of my Family’s needs as well as a pretty good portion of their wants. we eatin good and sleeping well. As a Man, Father and Husband I feel as though I’ve done my job very well well this year. I am blessed I don’t have anything to get off my chest.

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Raqi,i know of a lady who did exactly like urself,marrying friend of ex.
The friend has a higher responsibility in the marriage, when i think of it,to the lady and to the friend who passed.

I may be wrong.
One of my Queen uttered a statement to say i hated her or didnt like her..smething like that.Not to me but said that to my Queen.
I did not press the issue and ask why but i dont care altho i suspect i know why.

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I’m swiss had a good read too!

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Hurting a man’s pride is worst than hurting his libido

actually,they are connected and one affects the other.

hurt his pride,his libido goes flat..

hurt his libido by denigrating his performance,his ego goes down!

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If u single and u havent made plans for this WEEKEND in this type of weather so that u are under some man or under some woman(women),doing some repairs……

SHAME ON U!

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Nothing worse than having someone you care about not appreciate you busting your a#% day in day out. If I’m not doing enough, then go find someone who will. I’ll do the same.

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Dream..if a woman starts saying that in her man’s face,she starts pining for men who got what she think he lacking..

watch out!

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Melo
No doubt man. Those are just ramblings from the distant past. I been where DK been…probably lots of dudes have. Seems you got it good with Queen. I know you appreciate that. As for me, I’m enjoying being single right now. It’s a lovely life.

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First Sexy that is a some good stuff! Do you like golf? Foourrrr!

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T. W.

why u trying to pull some tatas off women who dont want u??

Get off their chests!

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I loved that I finished my Bachelors Degree! It was a long hard road. I wore the hats of single mom, full time employee, and full time student, but this accomplishment feels GREAT!! Now I’ll be starting my Masters in 2010, LET’S GET IT!

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