accessAtlanta

City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Get It Off Your Chest

I don’t know about you, but I am elated to see 2009 come to an end. It’s been quite a year, to say the least!  I can remember having moments when I just wanted to scream – from excitement, frustration, or pure happiness. Are you glad the year is almost over?

As a year ends, I tend to reflect back on  misadventures and the adventures.  I think most of us learned some lessons along the way, even if they were stressful at the time.  What did you discover this past year that taught you something about yourself?

What do you want to vent about dating or being single this year? Sometimes you just need to vent and get it all off your chest.  This allows you to move on and leave the past behind you, where it belongs.

This year was like a roller coaster ride, you either want to kiss the year goodbye or give it a one-finger salute. What did you love or hate about 2009?

227 comments Add your comment

Melo

December 18th, 2009
3:20 pm

having someone that you supposedly love tell you that its a waste of time kinda throws your balance off

if it was tough in the begining while married and u were bringin in enough to get to where she imagined,she proly mad now that ur hustlke is on the up and up..
no wonder the hate coz she knows other pple are looking at her strange for letting a good one go,esp one with some cash to burn.

Now! phluck those pining heifers friends of hers and spit ‘em Out! :lol:

Melo

December 18th, 2009
3:22 pm

were not bringing in

Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest

December 18th, 2009
3:22 pm

Melo, I know you have read me say this before but here it is again. No I was not pining for him. Back then it never entered my mind that I would one day have feeling for him. It was over 10 years after my husband died before the smallest inkling of thought entered my mind about him in any romantic or intimate form. Who would have thunk it?

Melo

December 18th, 2009
3:25 pm

After last night anything you want babe……

(thats Queen response)

i must have scored some major points last nite! :lol:

im feeling zuuuunglish good in my whole body :lol:

Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest

December 18th, 2009
3:25 pm

Infamous, I truly believe that a woman can sex a man coming and going, but if she fails to stroke his ego, pride and potential she is better off not stroking him at all. Hurting a man’s pride is worst than hurting his libido.

Willie Dynamite

December 18th, 2009
3:28 pm

Afternoon All,

2009 has been a very good year. On a personal not the Fam is outstanding. We are all healthy and happy. I am proud to say that I’ve taken care of 100% of my Family’s needs as well as a pretty good portion of their wants. we eatin good and sleeping well. As a Man, Father and Husband I feel as though I’ve done my job very well well this year. I am blessed I don’t have anything to get off my chest.

Leggs

December 18th, 2009
3:30 pm

@WillieD ~ that’s one of the best reads today. Yours and Tazzee! {{clapping}}!!

Melo

December 18th, 2009
3:31 pm

Raqi,i know of a lady who did exactly like urself,marrying friend of ex.
The friend has a higher responsibility in the marriage, when i think of it,to the lady and to the friend who passed.

I may be wrong.
One of my Queen uttered a statement to say i hated her or didnt like her..smething like that.Not to me but said that to my Queen.
I did not press the issue and ask why but i dont care altho i suspect i know why.

For Real

December 18th, 2009
3:33 pm

Raqi: “Hurting a man’s pride is worst than hurting his libido” – If a chick can do this to a man then it’s “false pride” and a “false libido”. I don’t know about other dudes but pride is the very last thing I will let go of. Hell many times in my past it’s the only thing I had and it’s the only thing beside God that I depend on 100%. Mase sounds like the same type of dude.

Leggs

December 18th, 2009
3:34 pm

I’m swiss had a good read too!

Willie Dynamite

December 18th, 2009
3:35 pm

Leggs – Thx

Melo

December 18th, 2009
3:36 pm

Hurting a man’s pride is worst than hurting his libido

actually,they are connected and one affects the other.

hurt his pride,his libido goes flat..

hurt his libido by denigrating his performance,his ego goes down!

Leggs

December 18th, 2009
3:36 pm

Pride is what stops quite a few murders from taking place!

Melo

December 18th, 2009
3:40 pm

If u single and u havent made plans for this WEEKEND in this type of weather so that u are under some man or under some woman(women),doing some repairs……

SHAME ON U! :lol:

Leggs

December 18th, 2009
3:44 pm

Oh and ouch!

DreamsMaterialize

December 18th, 2009
3:51 pm

Nothing worse than having someone you care about not appreciate you busting your a#% day in day out. If I’m not doing enough, then go find someone who will. I’ll do the same.

Willie Dynamite

December 18th, 2009
3:56 pm

DreamsMat – You just said some real ish right then. Be Careful not to let the lack of appreciation dictate how you do your job as a Man,Father, etc. But I do get wut you saying. Good stuff!!

Melo

December 18th, 2009
4:02 pm

Dream..if a woman starts saying that in her man’s face,she starts pining for men who got what she think he lacking..

watch out!

DreamsMaterialize

December 18th, 2009
4:04 pm

Willie D
I feel you. Never would let it affect my manhood or fatherhood. you know a real man’s acts according to his own values, and not in response to someone else’s behaviors. My seeds live the good life. Whatever issues I’m having, they would never know…at least not from me.

DreamsMaterialize

December 18th, 2009
4:10 pm

Melo
No doubt man. Those are just ramblings from the distant past. I been where DK been…probably lots of dudes have. Seems you got it good with Queen. I know you appreciate that. As for me, I’m enjoying being single right now. It’s a lovely life.

First Sexy. Then Cool.

December 18th, 2009
4:16 pm

I was just reiterating to a friend recently that, regardless of what my partner does or does not do, it does not relieve me of MY responsibilities. I’ve still got to do my part in spite of any failure on their behalf.

And should the time come where there is a gross imbalance in the relationship, then it’s time to make decisions about how to move forward in my own best interests.

T.W. ( Blasian Stallion)

December 18th, 2009
4:40 pm

First Sexy that is a some good stuff! Do you like golf? Foourrrr!

T. W. ( Blasian Stallion)

December 18th, 2009
4:43 pm

Getting it off my chest!
I am going to be like Infamous and let some of the African American women ride the Blasian machine! I did not know the the African American woman like to slurp! Thank’s infamous now I really want an African American woman! Fooooooouuuuuuurrrrrrrr

Melo

December 18th, 2009
4:47 pm

T. W.

why u trying to pull some tatas off women who dont want u??

Get off their chests!

Leggs

December 18th, 2009
4:52 pm

Hope all of you have a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!

I am out all of next week. Good night

When you don’t know the truth, you can’t make a choice!! (Movie, Cover!)

Enjoy your friends and family! Woo Hoo!!

Miss_Scorpia

December 26th, 2009
10:44 am

I loved that I finished my Bachelors Degree! It was a long hard road. I wore the hats of single mom, full time employee, and full time student, but this accomplishment feels GREAT!! Now I’ll be starting my Masters in 2010, LET’S GET IT!

hotels book

August 15th, 2010
7:24 am

Send Severe,work fast after pair before labour distribution hide open growing design shoe increasingly insist half clear weapon charge record examination those existence see withdraw experiment settle then worth while middle little married conclusion instead including race marry kid regional press somewhere note advise age according fly drawing when method far colleague escape all wild culture settlement before require urban bit fail intention familiar advance sport statement gather problem those clean essential career event living paper concentrate art may an doctor though support deal prevent consideration cut safety teach