I don’t know about you, but I am elated to see 2009 come to an end. It’s been quite a year, to say the least! I can remember having moments when I just wanted to scream – from excitement, frustration, or pure happiness. Are you glad the year is almost over?
As a year ends, I tend to reflect back on misadventures and the adventures. I think most of us learned some lessons along the way, even if they were stressful at the time. What did you discover this past year that taught you something about yourself?
What do you want to vent about dating or being single this year? Sometimes you just need to vent and get it all off your chest. This allows you to move on and leave the past behind you, where it belongs.
This year was like a roller coaster ride, you either want to kiss the year goodbye or give it a one-finger salute. What did you love or hate about 2009?
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Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest
December 18th, 2009
2:24 pm
in and around
So would you respect women (not just these) more if they did not do that for you?
Melo
December 18th, 2009
2:26 pm
DK..i hear u bro and do ur thang but i think u hurt some pining blog females by ur confessing to slapping ex’s stylist and chosen friends!
Well,not really,ur stock may have gon up a notch too..u know how chics interpret things!
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
2:26 pm
@ Leggs..
Forward me the coupons when you get a minute. I intend on getting everything finished by this weekend. That Barbie Townhouse is $130.00 @ Target!!(and i’s not even that big) Keep an eye out for me if you see it somewhere cheaper.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 18th, 2009
2:26 pm
Leggs – Let her deal with them chicks smiling in her face knowing they have let her EX beat em like they stole something.. And everyone one of them got my special D*ck trick.. All night extra pornstar f*ckin..
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
2:27 pm
Do you think somewhere beneath all of that fun you’re having is a thread labeled “payback” for something done over the course of the marriage/divorce?
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
2:27 pm
Already forwarded to you Dream_n!
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 18th, 2009
2:29 pm
Raqi – No ma’am I would respect a woman that gives me a presidential.. Just not these chicks cause I knew when I was married I wasnt ish.. They used to tell her all kinda stuff.. Now Im divorced they wanna ride the bologny pony.. I used to tell her to consider the source..
Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest
December 18th, 2009
2:34 pm
I get that, Infamous.
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
2:36 pm
Gotcha, TIDKMFBB.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 18th, 2009
2:37 pm
Leggs – No.. Im not in to paying back.. thats not my job.. Somebody else can deal with that.. Do I think its funny and Ironic? Yes.. See I dont even think its soo much me they wanna do it to I thinks its her.. I havent approached any of them about anything.. And would I do this normally? No because usually girlfriends are of limits out of respect for myself but these chicks… The rules dont apply..
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
2:40 pm
But DK,
There’s so many fish in the sea out there. Anyone close to her should be off limits.. so a part of my has to believe it’s a scenario where you’re kinda “trying to get her back”, b/c if that wasn’t the case…why them???
Friends of my ex or family members are off limits… I think it’s a lil sick.
Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest
December 18th, 2009
2:40 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7t2jOlyxrVQ
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 18th, 2009
2:41 pm
Dream – Because I can..
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
2:42 pm
Fair enough…
Melo
December 18th, 2009
2:44 pm
DK..why does ur chic hate u so much,seeing that u 2 were friends be4 the marriage??
Why si she so gung ho??
Melo
December 18th, 2009
2:46 pm
if i want some more of past 2 days plus lots of coffee and scones,u know my kinda of weather is to blame!
(message jus send to Queen,via email)
DreamsMaterialize
December 18th, 2009
2:46 pm
So, have any of the blog ladies knocked off friends/associates of any of their ex’s? Outside of the potential messy factor, what’s wrong with rockin’ and rollin’ with ex’s associates? We’re all grown.
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
2:48 pm
“…dont even think its soo much me they wanna do it to I thinks its her…” This I can see, because some women are just stupid like that. In their warped minds they feel they’re somehow knocking the woman down a peg or two knowing they’re busting slob from different orifices with her ex and then smiling in her face over drinks and wings!
Melo
December 18th, 2009
2:48 pm
Please do, Leggs.
Raqi??
Was that statement 2.19, being addresed to DK??
Melo
December 18th, 2009
2:50 pm
knocked off friends/associates of any of their ex’s?
i knocked off ex wife’s cousin!
yeah,she literally thru herself at my feet.
slammed her repeteadly, real nice!
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
2:52 pm
Her 2:19 was addressing my 2:17.
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
2:53 pm
And not reading your entire post, I also sent to you too Melo!
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
2:53 pm
You know what DreamsM.. you’re absolutely correct. Adults can do whatever they choose to.
But I just think it’s out of respect for you ex (especially if kids are involved). I mean I couldn’t see myself breaking up with my ex and then my girl getting her head banged on the headboard by him.. That just reeks of awkwardness.
I mean I guess if you don’t really care to much for the oter perosn, that option won’t be to hard for you..
I just say there’s too many men/women out there to keep in the family so to speak.
Luvbug
December 18th, 2009
2:55 pm
Noooo…I hardly made eye contact with exs of my friends when they were dating them. Sometimes the guys would hit on me on the sly or look at me inappropriately…There have been a few – he’s looking at me, I’m looking at her and she’s looking at him all at the same time scenarios…so uncomfortable.
I wouldn’t even date the good catches…at least not knowingly. Now if we didn’t know we shared a friend when me met and have been hitting it off for a good deal of time, I may have to have a heart to heart with my girl…but even that is questionable.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
2:56 pm
@ Leggs
your 2:48 happens more times than not too… You have the women saying how trifling your guy is and how you can do so much better, but as soon as you two part and given the oppourtunity, there right there to sop him up with a biscuit… smh
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 18th, 2009
2:56 pm
Melo – Because She is upset the divorce didnt go as planned.. She was expecting to get full custody and I would see my Son when she saw fit.. She thought she would get some outrageous child support and none of it happened.. Oh and I filed for Divorce.. That was a no no.. How dare I divorce her.. She underestimated how hard I would fight to be a father and be in my sons life.. Then too I guess because I dont buy into her foolishness and I always greet her with a smile..
i'm swiss
December 18th, 2009
2:58 pm
Sweet lord baby Jesus…. somebody brought some salty chocolate balls to the office break room…
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
2:59 pm
@Dream_n, that’s exactly what InfamousD said they were doing! Bending her ear all the while yearning one day to bend the scream machine!
Melo
December 18th, 2009
2:59 pm
got it SexxLeggs!
mua mua muaaaaaaaaaa!
First Sexy. Then Cool.
December 18th, 2009
3:00 pm
Salty chocolate balls….For Real will now appear with a “ZZZiiippp!!!” in 5, 4, 3, 2………
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
3:03 pm
bend the scream machine!
Now that’s funny….
Melo
December 18th, 2009
3:04 pm
DK..were u hustling and getting ur bread when married as u doing now,that behavior of hers is gold diggerish to me!
M(dot) that there,2.56 is ur definition of gold digger!
For Real
December 18th, 2009
3:04 pm
DK: That’s funny as hell bruh. Just let your son know/show every single day that you love him and it ain’t ish she can say that will change it. Now, on the bangin the friend tip, you know ain’t nothing finer to chick than another chicks dude. Especially if you believe she can get him. It’s their ego trip!
Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest
December 18th, 2009
3:04 pm
Yep. I have sex on the regular with my first husband’s friend.
For Real
December 18th, 2009
3:05 pm
Heyyyyyy!!! Scool my balls don’t start out salty!
Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest
December 18th, 2009
3:06 pm
LOL SexyCool, you know one day he is going to get that zipper hung up on sumthin’.
The blog staff ordered him some pants with velcro but China is waiting for Mexico to send over the material.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
3:06 pm
And… that too is sick.
Melo
December 18th, 2009
3:07 pm
peach lace panties and a peach lace bra!
wow..im hyper ventilating!
Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest
December 18th, 2009
3:07 pm
And it is some of the best sex I have ever had in my whooole life.
Melo
December 18th, 2009
3:09 pm
I have sex on the regular with my first husband’s friend
u owe ur 1st husband an apology prayer every day,till u die,coz u were pining 4 his friend behind his back,back in the day…a no no in the bible!
Tazzee - 2009 was bittersweet
December 18th, 2009
3:11 pm
Leggs – can you send me those coupons too? I loves me some coupons
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 18th, 2009
3:11 pm
Melo – You know Im a born hustler.. I have always done something around the cars. The towing business wasnt going so well while we were married because I couldnt focus and having someone that you supposedly love tell you that its a waste of time kinda throws your balance off.. She didnt get any money from the business but I left her with everything and just took my clothes, two tvs and rolled.. Its was rough at first but once i got my focus right everything came together because I could see what I needed to do to get where I wanted to go..
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
3:12 pm
{{{hughs}}} back at cha!
Raqi...Getting it Off My Chest
December 18th, 2009
3:12 pm
Melo, what? That is not a no no in the bible. I would never have sexed or married one of his relatives. Now the bible does speaks against that.
Dream_n~Feel'n all warm and tingly inside!
December 18th, 2009
3:13 pm
I’m out again early today….
NightMelo/Leggs/Prof!
Thanx for the coupons!
Hope everyone enjoys their weekend..
Be Safe Beautiful People
T.W. ( Blasian Stallion)
December 18th, 2009
3:13 pm
DK… We need to hang if you getting all that bootey! Women these are not your friends if they want to taste this 4-wood! Fooouuurrr!
DK keep em screamin man! that is my motto! They need to have that head banged good too! T.W. signing off wishing everyone a phlucking merry christmas!
Leggs
December 18th, 2009
3:14 pm
Sent, Tazzee.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 18th, 2009
3:15 pm
Melo – I still made money but it was safe corporate money. That was never enough for me.. I knew the only way to get money for real was to own my own business.. Because only your lack of hard work would limit your ability to earn.
Melo
December 18th, 2009
3:15 pm
I would never have sexed or married one of his relatives
jus pining 4,as in having desire is a no no in the bible.
thou shalt not covert……..
Melo
December 18th, 2009
3:16 pm
Merry Xmas Dream_n to u and to lil Dream_n!