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Let Your Guard Down

I am not sure if men are always aware of this, but it takes some women time to let our guard down with a man sexually.  A lot of us believe that it is your job to make us not feel self conscious about our bedroom activities.  If a woman can see that you respect her and she can trust you, it allows her to let her guard down.

So what happens when a man doesn’t seem trustworthy? Well, a lot of women take the risk anyway. Sometimes we want it as badly as you do! We may or may not regret that, but that is part of our ongoing dilemma of when/if we decide to sleep with someone.

Ladies, are you ever concerned about maintaining a “good girl” image when it comes to your bedroom behavior? Do you think that you hold back because you worry about a stereotype of some kind?

Guys, do you ever have a problem with getting women to let their guard down with you? Do you make an effort to gain trust from the women you date?  Are you ever slow to let your guard down with a woman in the bedroom?

Happy Friday!

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Dream_n~ Now wanting to give Rell a big hug :)

December 11th, 2009
4:27 pm

Nope Rell… Just do you. That is all.

It was just nice to see the other side of you.

Dream_n~ Now wanting to give Rell a big hug :)

December 11th, 2009
4:29 pm

cbrtaz…

The roaring fire place????
:lol: :lol:
Must be nice!

Professor ~NOT that professor

December 11th, 2009
4:30 pm

I am done for the day! Y’all have a great weekend, stay warm and safe.

:wink:

Dream_n~ Now wanting to give Rell a big hug :)

December 11th, 2009
4:32 pm

Yea,
I’m going to call it a day too..
Night Beautiful People… Keep smiling in the midst of the storm :)

Night Leggs/Prof/Melo!!!

Rell - i want some pudding

December 11th, 2009
4:32 pm

LOL…sister

2CPTG......heavily guarded heart!

December 11th, 2009
4:36 pm

another Random Thought:

“Dream_n for a 2″

I don’t know what it is, but some’n bout you drives me wild,
could it be your brash, in-ya-face, hardcore style?
maybe its the allure of the unknown,
because only one side of you, you’ve shown.
my mind is playin tricks on me,
wondering what I’d do if you ever hit on me;
I’d probably melt at the sound of your voice,
and do my best to maintain my poise.
But just thinkin bout you, gets me moist!
I’m in love with a moniker, and I can’t believe this shyt,
Boi, if you were in the Chi, you could get it!
Oh how I wish I had one of you,
since I can’t, I’ll just keep Dream_n for a 2!

LURKER (Professor Hunter)

December 11th, 2009
4:42 pm

2CP ….Dreamn is going to fly to the ATL now!

Professor..
Professor.. Do you like hip-hop? I am about to drop some lyrics for ya!
:wink: :wink:

mqew

December 11th, 2009
4:46 pm

2C Funny!

Have a good weekend all! Stay warm!

Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed

December 11th, 2009
4:46 pm

Tazzee youza virgin. LOL J/K

Leggs - F and F

December 11th, 2009
4:48 pm

Have to go to work. The nerve to give me a project at 4:45. Guess, that’s why he’s the boss and I’m the hired help.

Good night everyone!

LOVE LOOKS BEYOND WHAT PEOPLE ARE TO WHAT THEY CAN BECOME ~ dedicated to my man, Rell!

Remember, the goal is to keep clapping…..

Tazzee - Go Falcons!!!

December 11th, 2009
4:56 pm

SCool – done and done.

Raqi – He’s told me that ‘that’ is nice but he doesn’t obsess over it, if that makes sense. So I’m not stressed – well no more stressed than I am when I set out to do any other ‘new’ thing for him like a new outfit or cook a new dish. Just want to please him…

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