Let Your Guard Down
I am not sure if men are always aware of this, but it takes some women time to let our guard down with a man sexually. A lot of us believe that it is your job to make us not feel self conscious about our bedroom activities. If a woman can see that you respect her and she can trust you, it allows her to let her guard down.
So what happens when a man doesn’t seem trustworthy? Well, a lot of women take the risk anyway. Sometimes we want it as badly as you do! We may or may not regret that, but that is part of our ongoing dilemma of when/if we decide to sleep with someone.
Ladies, are you ever concerned about maintaining a “good girl” image when it comes to your bedroom behavior? Do you think that you hold back because you worry about a stereotype of some kind?
Guys, do you ever have a problem with getting women to let their guard down with you? Do you make an effort to gain trust from the women you date? Are you ever slow to let your guard down with a woman in the bedroom?
Happy Friday!
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Dream_n~ Searching for a 2CPTG in chi-town
December 11th, 2009
3:37 pm
Both ya’ll watch it!!! lmao
Leggs - F and F
December 11th, 2009
3:39 pm
@mqew, it’s just roll, no eye in it.
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
3:39 pm
2C got a boo….he said.
Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
3:40 pm
Oh I didn’t know that’s what the prob was… hehehehehehehe
mqew
December 11th, 2009
3:41 pm
Hey, It flew off my fingers before I knew it
Leggs didn’t help either
I think tonight is a Cab or Shiraz evening with fam and I’ll TRY the crazy looking lil girl flick.
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
3:42 pm
I need to pick up some wood for the fireplace also.
And a snuggie or two.
LURKER
December 11th, 2009
3:43 pm
@Rell…. Tiger is da man! A conversation with one of dem hoes!
Tiger…. Ring, Hey this is Tiger!
female. Hey Tiger! What’s up?
Tiger…Come over I have something to give you!
Female…O.K.
Female…..Uh Tiger it so great to meet you, You are the best golfer in the world! I luv your ea-sports video game!
Tiger….. Yea….. Zipppppppppppppppppppppppppp!
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
3:44 pm
Tazzee – What’s up miss maam? Auh, you and i are in the same beginners class i see. I ain’t scared, you?
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
3:44 pm
Heck I think I’ll bake some chocolate chocolate chip cookies too.
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
3:45 pm
…got your b/c>…i’m concerned…this set up is enticing! Where’s the baby?
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
3:46 pm
Make some cocoa with a whip cream topping and some white chocolate shavings.
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
3:46 pm
Get one Snuggie….just one.
mqew
December 11th, 2009
3:46 pm
Got it!
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
3:48 pm
Are you asking about my baby, Cemeeli?
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
3:48 pm
Only one snuggie Cemeeli? Can we share it like a sleeping bag?
Leggs - F and F
December 11th, 2009
3:50 pm
@Cee ~ Haaaaaa, 2C got a boo…he said…some don’t care.
2CPTG......heavily guarded heart!
December 11th, 2009
3:52 pm
Dream_n…..gal, don’t let Beautiful spoil yo “wish”…..shyt, that was kinda flattering……..Beautiful gets the gas face for today!!!!!!
Leggs - F and F
December 11th, 2009
3:52 pm
Yeah get one snuggie, the hot chocolate w/shavings and watch the movie.
@Cee ~ it’s on you. Your homework assignment is to watch the movie and figure out the plot before it ends.
mqew
December 11th, 2009
3:53 pm
Ceemee – One snuggie, good point
Raqi – Now you talking! I have the whip cream, but what’s the hot choco for? Oh, wait, I have him as well
mqew
December 11th, 2009
3:53 pm
You mean everyday
Tazzee - Go Falcons!!!
December 11th, 2009
3:56 pm
Professor – see, that’s what happens when we have the word hidden in our hearts, it comes out naturally.
Cemeeli – I’m not scared at all. Mainly because my guy isn’t the type that would get frustrated with me. Guys on here have posted that they’re not trying to teach a woman stuff like that but my Mr. has been patient with me in many other areas… I think it will be fun, shoot I might be a professional by the time we get back from Antigua
Movies – have you seen the Puerto Rican version of ‘This Christmas’? I can’t remember the name of it, but I watched it on my flight and it was cute.
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
3:57 pm
Raqi – Yea you can share it…I got a human Snuggie he share. Just make sure the baby at the sitters.
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
3:57 pm
Get out my flannel pajama pants and my thick socks.
2CPTG......heavily guarded heart!
December 11th, 2009
3:59 pm
Tazz, and sex, let alone oral…..I’m so NOT picturing that one…..
fa real tho, I’m happy for ya, sis!!! don’t hurt him too bad!
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
4:00 pm
Guys on here have posted that they’re not trying to teach a woman stuff like that
Tazzee i know for a fact one guy that will not be frustrated in the least. And i’m sure by the time we finish our classes both our guys would have personalized how this “thing” (no pun) is suppose to be.
lol…lemme stop!
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
4:01 pm
Go Antigua!! yes sir!…tell Mr. i said hi.
~ Ya’ll be good.
Professor ~NOT that professor
December 11th, 2009
4:01 pm
The funny thing is Tazzee I was
because I never discuss my beliefs at least not a lot.
Guys on here have posted that they’re not trying to teach a woman stuff like that but my Mr. has been patient with me in many other areas…
Tazzee Mr. is real love that is why he is so patient there is a differenceLove is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs
SexyCool - looCyxeS
December 11th, 2009
4:02 pm
Taz – check your gmail.
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
4:03 pm
Cemeeli, as long as the teen is out of the house we are good to go. Lizzy doesn’t know what those sounds are. LOL If she is not asleep she gets put in the playpen with a couple of toys and a bottle. We are good for at least another 6 months before we have to close her off in another a room. LOL
Leggs - F and F
December 11th, 2009
4:03 pm
Say it again, Professor, please say it again!
Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
4:06 pm
Awww naw not the gas face 2C…. lol
@ Professor.. The reason why I am in love with love…..
Professor ~NOT that professor
December 11th, 2009
4:08 pm
Say it again, Professor, please say it again!
Professor saying it again this time yelling like a Southern Baptist Preacher on Easter….well because it is real luvvvvv luv is patient and kind love aint a different woman every week to be yo freak…luv is that one woman
czBrat
December 11th, 2009
4:09 pm
Hello All!
not looking forward to being out in the cold tonight, but soooo want to see Laura Izibor
I do like Cee’s movie night idea though. hmmmmmm. decisions, decisions
Rell - i want some pudding
December 11th, 2009
4:09 pm
ok…he no different ladies..he just say hey..i have a quality women so i am going to pimp this one a lil different thats all…lol…we all come from the same source..
i am happy if your happy really
its a wonderful thing
tazz trust me you not being good in that dept is not a dealbreaker…so take your time and enjoy dont stress about it…
Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
4:11 pm
@ Professor… You’re so silly
Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
4:12 pm
Hey there cbratz!!!!
Come and join the fun… It’s movie night for all!!!
Rell - i want some pudding
December 11th, 2009
4:12 pm
luv is that one woman
- love starts with self and a focused mind…men cant see you because we are distracted…because of the fear of bieng alone..so we fill our time with all these distractions…we fear that one women will not be enough..or worse we settle for second best…because we were not raised to respect the process of growth and personal development..when we get bored we panic and start going out here looking for ego strokes..thats why its fear…has nothing to do with a women more about how that player feels about himself
why are women so dayum narcissistic….so in love with there charms….one major problem in moving this along..narcissim
SexyCool - looCyxeS
December 11th, 2009
4:13 pm
Oh, and Taz – email me your phone number. I am sans phone until tomorrow when I mkae my decision about a new phone.
Professor ~NOT that professor
December 11th, 2009
4:13 pm
Dream~Leggs made me do it and I am looking around for that collection plate too, I guess I am going to have to run down the aisle and kick one leg up and talk like a WWF wrestler.
Dream_n~ Now wanting to give Rell a big hug :)
December 11th, 2009
4:14 pm
Awww “Luv is that one woman”
Dream_n~ Now wanting to give Rell a big hug :)
December 11th, 2009
4:15 pm
Professor… No lie..
My ex pastor was so animated!! I mean really animated. When my great grandmother passed away we had her homegoing at the church. This man jumped over my great-granmothers casket… That’s when we had to sit his azz down.
Leggs - F and F
December 11th, 2009
4:17 pm
@Rell, that was honest talk right there!
Professor ~NOT that professor
December 11th, 2009
4:17 pm
Awww “Luv is that one woman”
I just believe he created Adam and Eve NOT Adam, Eve and Erica with Eve and Erica fighting over Adam If you are going to do love right you might as well try to get as close to what the Creator envisioned as possible…that is truly the best way. Now let me stop!
Rell - i want some pudding
December 11th, 2009
4:18 pm
@leggs..thanks…thought i would give the peanut gallery one to think on…i work on me daily…
Leggs - F and F
December 11th, 2009
4:19 pm
Here’s $10 for the plate…you’re a fool!
Dream_n~ Now wanting to give Rell a big hug :)
December 11th, 2009
4:21 pm
thought i would give the peanut gallery
Boy you are a straight fool…. and no that’s not the reason. YOu believe what you wrote, but you have to keep that meaningless hard, Love don’t exist front up…. Why, I don’t know…
Dream_n~ Now wanting to give Rell a big hug :)
December 11th, 2009
4:22 pm
If you are going to do love right you might as well try to get as close to what the Creator envisioned as possible
That’s the way to go… I agree
czBrat
December 11th, 2009
4:23 pm
yeah Dream_n. maybe if we’re not out too late there will still be time to cuddle up with a good slasher flick and a roaring fire
Professor ~NOT that professor
December 11th, 2009
4:23 pm
Professor… No lie..
My ex pastor was so animated!! I mean really animated. When my great grandmother passed away we had her homegoing at the church. This man jumped over my great-granmothers casket… That’s when we had to sit his azz down.
add a 
because that is funny!
Rell - i want some pudding
December 11th, 2009
4:26 pm
i believe in love
how is that hard….i am giving you a thought process
love exist i had it several times and lost it….so what is the problem you want me to cosign your female proganda!!