Let Your Guard Down
I am not sure if men are always aware of this, but it takes some women time to let our guard down with a man sexually. A lot of us believe that it is your job to make us not feel self conscious about our bedroom activities. If a woman can see that you respect her and she can trust you, it allows her to let her guard down.
So what happens when a man doesn’t seem trustworthy? Well, a lot of women take the risk anyway. Sometimes we want it as badly as you do! We may or may not regret that, but that is part of our ongoing dilemma of when/if we decide to sleep with someone.
Ladies, are you ever concerned about maintaining a “good girl” image when it comes to your bedroom behavior? Do you think that you hold back because you worry about a stereotype of some kind?
Guys, do you ever have a problem with getting women to let their guard down with you? Do you make an effort to gain trust from the women you date? Are you ever slow to let your guard down with a woman in the bedroom?
Happy Friday!
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Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
1:50 pm
@ Sassy.. Girl no! lmao!!
Rell - i am dating professor!
December 11th, 2009
1:52 pm
@sassy…i am over out of air….violin music with puppies….and dolphins jumping in the background…with carrie underwood doing the cupid shuffle in the background…lol
Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
1:52 pm
Cee,
The temps can get really cold up here, but I think we’re used to it for the most part. Some folks don’t even put on coats until it reaches below 0 degress especially if they’re in a car.
Professor
December 11th, 2009
1:53 pm
BTW~ I am glad I am not the only professor in GA otherwise I would have to stab myself with a pencil to get out of dating
Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
1:55 pm
Funny Funny Cue the violins and all the music that accompanies it….
And I’ll be sitting back sipping on a Watermelon Martini enjoying every second of it
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
1:55 pm
playing the violin…
2C You alright?…you in love?…or was it Dreamn – What i miss?
…no, i ain’t afraid to ask?
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:00 pm
Dreamn – yea, that was on you…Sis, that was long. Cute, but long.
Sassy Me...juicy fruit..feeling yummy with 13 days til my birthday :-)
December 11th, 2009
2:01 pm
@Rell I damn near sprayed my keyboard reading that!! What’s funnier is I actually got a visual….LMBAO
DreamI know you ain’t over there cryin’ but you got all deep on a sista all of a sudden si I just wanted to make sure…
Dream_n~ Honorary GA Peach
December 11th, 2009
2:03 pm
I am dying over here now!!!
Blame 2C!!! He took me there..
Rell - i am dating professor!
December 11th, 2009
2:05 pm
@sassy…i am still not getting all this romatic stuff…i mean it happens..but not like you think…its more suttle and understated…whenever its fo show..then you know you in trouble…some of the most romatic things i have done in my life would not register on some of these chicks radar..but the women that recieved it was in tears…so i dont get all this talk….its fake..period
oooo by the way prof…one of your kind..those HIGH IQ types and leader of many..is meeting yours truly later on for some dirty fun…i am thinking words to this effect..she is going to be on her knees using my dizzle as a toothbrush…i love these HIGH IQ TYPES…lol
2CPTG......heavily guarded heart!
December 11th, 2009
2:08 pm
“Blame 2C!!! He took me there”…….
that’s what I’m talkin bout; see, if you were my boo, and had my heart, you’d be melting….
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:08 pm
@ Dreamn – My files are down…and have been down since about 10 this morning. you already know i’m freezin…so i’m tryna sort and plan my evening.
u know any good movies? I don’t like reading reviews…never know if the person behind the moniker issa Melo.
Dream_n~ Searching for a 2CPTG in chi-town
December 11th, 2009
2:13 pm
Cee..
I’m not a going to the movies type of girl. I’d rather rent a movie on the tv or go to a Red Bos and rent a movie…
What kinda mood you in???
Funny: Wedding Crashers
Romantic: The Notebook
Drama/Suspense: Take it back girl to “Heat”
Action: ??? The guys can help you on that one..
Rell - i am dating professor!
December 11th, 2009
2:16 pm
@CEE…good movie – rock n rolla
mqew
December 11th, 2009
2:17 pm
Ceemee – I just left the Chi and I didn’t see not one black person without a coat and it was like 30degrees , we don’t do that
Hey, I’ll ‘lee you lone’ as long as we don’t get it twisted with MI?
Rell - i am dating professor!
December 11th, 2009
2:19 pm
@cee – tyson is very good
taken
wanted
Sassy Me...juicy fruit..feeling yummy with 13 days til my birthday :-)
December 11th, 2009
2:20 pm
..but the women that recieved it was in tears…
Well Rell I guess it depends on the woman involved…some are real…some are shallow and superficial and might suffer from the “I’m a princess” syndrome of entitlement so it’s not a surprise why some of your gestures were recieved differently among the women to which you bestowed such “romantic stuff”. As for the “high IQ type”..break her azz off….all the way til she “cain’t stands no mo”. Then again, those are the types that come outta the wood works with some “other shyt” for yo azz so umm proceed with caution bruh. And please don’t be like ya boy Tiger/Cheetah and go raw dog…k?
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:20 pm
Lady, didn’t i say it’s dangerously cold outside?…i have not bumped my head…i’m watching mine on the ol’ faithful.
…auh, i like action and comedy…and never heard of “Wedding Crashers”…i sometimes get into sophomoric comedy.
LURKER ( Cobweb Remover)
December 11th, 2009
2:20 pm
The real deal LURKER in the hezzy!
I want it all right now, when we get neekked I you to utilized all your skillz! Polish this dome and don’t miss a spot!
mqew
December 11th, 2009
2:20 pm
Ceemee- Movie – The Hangover – I would love to see that movie. It looks funny.
Dream_n~ Searching for a 2CPTG in chi-town
December 11th, 2009
2:21 pm
@ mqew
What side of town were you visiting??
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
2:21 pm
Cemeeli, you are right, it’s cold out there. And we are planning to go dancing tonight. The dress I wanted to wear just ain’t gone do it. I need some thermal underwear and corduroys.
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:23 pm
“Taken” & “Wanted” <— yup, got on word titles…sounds like action!
…and "Rock n Rolla" hmmm.
Dream_n~ Searching for a 2CPTG in chi-town
December 11th, 2009
2:24 pm
Well Wedding Crashers is up your alley then Cee,
Or 40 year old virgin, or Knocked up (which I’ve never seen but heard it was very funny)…
Have you seen 4 Christmases??
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:25 pm
mqew – thanks to the blog..and me gettin this movie in my possesion “The Hangover” is for real…REAL funny!
If you like over the top funny – a must see…up there with SuperBad.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 11th, 2009
2:26 pm
Rock n Rolla was a excellent movie.. And of course Taken..
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
2:27 pm
Cemeeli my friend let us borrow a movie called Slow Burn. I had never heard of it and I think it is a few years old but it is very good. If you like suspense you will like it. Ray Liotta, Taye Diggs, Mekhi Phifer, LL Cool J. Very good watch.
LURKER
December 11th, 2009
2:28 pm
Professor remember,
When I use to luvvvv them and leavvve them
That’s what I use to do
Use them and abuse them!
Then I laid eyes on your Professor
and it was pain before pleasure
then I kiss your lips (Professor)
and you TURN ON MY FIRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEE (Baby)(baby)
and you turn my tears away (Fire and desire) Baby!
Professor you made me live again (Fire and Desire)
and I want to thank you PROFESSOR!
mqew
December 11th, 2009
2:28 pm
DreamN- I was in the West Suburbs and downtown.
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
2:28 pm
Cemeeli Four Christmases is a good comedy.
2CPTG......heavily guarded heart!
December 11th, 2009
2:29 pm
lookin’ for a 2CPTG in the chi, eh? I’m sure there’s some cats out there who can make you happy…..but this one don’t do cold weather….now when y’all have the “taste” I might be able to shake some’n….
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:30 pm
@ Raqi – Think i’m going to opt out of our Christmas party this year. I’ve been emailing (well since the system is off today) my director all day about if my final plans. It’s not at the High/Alliance Theatre this year…at another facility that i don’t wanna drive! ugh!…and i’m just not in the mood either.
I did buy a nice shiny get-up and got it for a steal, so i’ll keep it. but i’ll use it for something else if i don’t go. It’s nice for church too.
Sassy Me...juicy fruit..feeling yummy with 13 days til my birthday :-)
December 11th, 2009
2:32 pm
Movie – The Hangover – I would love to see that movie. It looks funny.
HI-LARIOUS!!!
Leggs - F and F
December 11th, 2009
2:34 pm
Has anyone seen The Orphan yet?
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:34 pm
i’m actually going to take my kid to the barber and stay home all day tomorrow.
one of his admirers is in a dance recital tonight…i MIGHT take him…may-be…this is why/when the man should…
Dream_n~ Searching for a 2CPTG in chi-town
December 11th, 2009
2:36 pm
@ mqew
I work in the western suburbs and I ive on the Northside by a lotta polish folks… so seeing folks in a sweater with a hat and scarf on is the norm…. lol
Dream_n~ Searching for a 2CPTG in chi-town
December 11th, 2009
2:37 pm
@ 2CPTG
I’m quite sure too… lol
I stray away from the taste. I went one year and almost fell out. It’s hella hot and soooo many people!!!
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:42 pm
“Four Christmases” is comedy and christmas them…i will use my 20 walmart card i got from co-worker to get that.
see…i don’t get all bootleg movies from fam…lol…i kid. i kid.
Raqi…He Got into My Head…Then I Got into His Bed
December 11th, 2009
2:44 pm
Leggs, the last time I was in Walmart I started to get Orphan but didn’t get it. I still want to see it because it seems like it may be pretty good. If that’s the same one you are talking about.
Sally
December 11th, 2009
2:44 pm
I was able to let my guard down with my boyfriend, before me makeout, I always have to pass gas. I used to be embarrassed, but now it’s a turn on for him.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 11th, 2009
2:45 pm
Do not get Janky Promoters.. Whoever said it was good lied..
MsM
December 11th, 2009
2:45 pm
Has anyone seen The Orphan yet? Yes, it was very good… suspenseful with a good twist.
Dream_n~ Searching for a 2CPTG in chi-town
December 11th, 2009
2:46 pm
Cee,
You won’t be disappointed. It’s a very funny movie. Vince Vaughn (one of my fav actors) is very good.
Cemeeli
December 11th, 2009
2:47 pm
“Pinapple Express” was crazy too…and the undertones are straight foolish…
mqew
December 11th, 2009
2:47 pm
DreamN- yes if you go north you may see some in shorts and sandals, but not your cousins
The Taste is the ish, you just have to know the time of day to go. Even though I haven’t been in awhile (I almost fell out but it was cause of the b’s) I will be in town at that time. That’s the best holiday in chi-town!
Sassy Me...juicy fruit..feeling yummy with 13 days til my birthday :-)
December 11th, 2009
2:48 pm
Has anyone seen The Orphan yet?
Yeah I’ve seen it and that’s another reason I don’t have any chirren…lol. Seriously though, that was a good movie.
THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD
December 11th, 2009
2:48 pm
I flips down the ave know Im looking good
Im bangin screw Diamonds up against that wood..
I flips down the ave know Im looking good
Im bangin screw Diamonds up against that wood..
Rell - i am dating professor!
December 11th, 2009
2:49 pm
the orphan was twisted….straight crazy
Oprah
December 11th, 2009
2:50 pm
I should do a show on weight loss and watching daytime television, considering who my audience is.
Rell - i am dating professor!
December 11th, 2009
2:50 pm
@dk…thats my ish…