I am not sure if men are always aware of this, but it takes some women time to let our guard down with a man sexually. A lot of us believe that it is your job to make us not feel self conscious about our bedroom activities. If a woman can see that you respect her and she can trust you, it allows her to let her guard down.
So what happens when a man doesn’t seem trustworthy? Well, a lot of women take the risk anyway. Sometimes we want it as badly as you do! We may or may not regret that, but that is part of our ongoing dilemma of when/if we decide to sleep with someone.
Ladies, are you ever concerned about maintaining a “good girl” image when it comes to your bedroom behavior? Do you think that you hold back because you worry about a stereotype of some kind?
Guys, do you ever have a problem with getting women to let their guard down with you? Do you make an effort to gain trust from the women you date? Are you ever slow to let your guard down with a woman in the bedroom?