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Go Deeper

One of the best part of going out with someone new is exploring their personality.  Not only are you putting in face time to determine how strong your attraction is, you also get to discover the way they think.

When things are going well, you move past the shallow conversations and small talk. I love to go deeper in conversations and find out how much we are alike, how we differ, and even learn something new.

Once you go below the surface, you find out what a person is truly passionate about. In my experience, this is how you manage to get to a second and third dates.  You both are so captivated by the conversation, you can’t wait for another opportunity to, well go deeper!

It is always a great sign when you can have a great discussion with someone you are attracted to.  I think that a person’s dating conversation can make or break a date.  Have you ever been  on a second date with someone whose conversation left you confused, annoyed, or bored? Trust me, if you struggle with this, it’s something you should work on.

What do you like to discuss on a date? If you find out that you are intellectually unmatched, do you think your attraction to the person would fade?

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493 comments Add your comment

JtJ

December 10th, 2009
12:43 pm

@ Cee….No, I am used to him touching my feet and that’s ok…..it’s just strange people….when I get a pedi, I can barely set still in the chair….it makes me squirm and grit my teeth.

The foot rub/body rub by him…is all good!!….I just don’t think I will enjoy the Spa day, I will probably come out their feeling violated and stuff!!!

@ SexyCool–dead—@ the vviibbrraattorr joke….lol

mqew

December 10th, 2009
12:43 pm

I remember our first date convo consisted of X-Men and early black literature to just mere travel. The old adage should remain true K.I.S.S. It will all come in due time…

Aftanoon

For Real

December 10th, 2009
12:46 pm

It was 7:45 we were all in line
2 greet the teacher miss Cathleen
First was Kevin, then cam lucy, third in line was me
All of us where ordinary compared to Cynthia rose
She always stood at the back of the line
A smile beneath her nose
Her favorite number was 20 and every single day
If u asked her what she had 4 breakfast
This is what she’d say
Starfish and coffee
Maple syrup and jam
Butterscotch clouds, a tangerine
And a side order of ham
If you set your mind free, baby
Maybe you’d understand

Lady J

December 10th, 2009
12:48 pm

I promise I don’t want to discuss Tiger this evening…I truly can careless!!!! LOL

Cemeeli

December 10th, 2009
12:48 pm

JtJ – Naw mamma…we don’t want you to feel all violated and stuff.

mqew …yeah..keep it simple…cool beans.

Santa

December 10th, 2009
12:48 pm

Tiger has done nothing out of the ordinary, compared to 99 percent of the men. Stop acting like his indiscretions are the first you have seen of this behavior. I hope he’s smart enough to know he doesn’t not one person in this universe an explanation, as long as God forgives him. Hipocrisy Hipocrisy…wow

Santa

December 10th, 2009
12:50 pm

Freaky Friday is tomorrow. Somma ya’ll gon be nasty as eva. Fornicating Adultery, not really a big difference

mqew

December 10th, 2009
12:50 pm

Ceemee – I hate anyone touching me that’s not my spouse. I can barely sit for the pedi and I only get them in the summer, when I HAVE to. And, I don’t let them rub my legs. Never received a massage from a spa. Just the thought…. ughh

SexyCool - Got Jokes?!?!?

December 10th, 2009
12:51 pm

Aw hell. I ain’t mad at Tiger. He has done nothing to me. I just got a bunch of jokes via email that are so horrible they are funny.

I am STILL Tiger Woods!
~lol~

THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD

December 10th, 2009
12:52 pm

SC – Youre killing me slowly..

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
12:52 pm

Santa is not the man he used to be. Shouldn’t you be more worried about the toys you need to be delivering as opposed to Tiger Woods????? :lol: :lol: :lol:

That’s Santa 09 for ya!

St. Mary

December 10th, 2009
12:53 pm

SC, please give DK some physical attention

For Real

December 10th, 2009
12:53 pm

I knew from the start
That I loved you with all my heart
But you were untrue
You had another lover and she looked just like you

Bambi, can’t you understand
Bambi, it’s better with a man

Santa

December 10th, 2009
12:54 pm

The behavior I see displayed has taken me out of the realm of toys only. This naughty or nice stuff has me cutting back a great deal on the gifts. People aren’t what they use to be.

Professor

December 10th, 2009
12:55 pm

Dayum Dream, you just told Santa! For some insane reason I agree with Santa… :???:

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
12:55 pm

Okay For Real..

I just died at me desk on that last one!
lmao!!!

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
12:55 pm

Cemeeli

December 10th, 2009
12:56 pm

@ mqew – yeah…cain’t say i’m repulsed in that regard …i’m usually selective in where/who i get those services anyway. And if they are off/unavailable i reschedule.

Melo

December 10th, 2009
12:57 pm

next to each other just to say something fre*ky so we the kids don’t hear.

like that JtJ!!

School…To keep its nuts dry!! :lol:

Naughty Elf

December 10th, 2009
12:58 pm

Santa

U better hush!!

Or I am gonna send all those e-mails and voicemail about what kinda of freaky things u wanted me to do with your beard. I will tell them what u wanted me to squirt on your tummy…. :shock:

So, leave these good people(well except Melo) alone!!!

Santa

December 10th, 2009
1:00 pm

Naughty Elf, you’re contributing to the demise of wholesomeness. You’re Fired!!

Naughty Elf

December 10th, 2009
1:02 pm

Santa,

Please stop following the female elves around singing “Gigolos Get Lonely 2″.

Santa

December 10th, 2009
1:02 pm

Santa needs help. How does Santa perform strike thrus? I want to make a list and mark some of your names off.

Naughty Elf

December 10th, 2009
1:03 pm

Santa….

Quit telling the female elves that u just wanna build up your stamina for staying up all night long by practicing with them.

It ain’t cute.

SexyCool - Got Jokes?!?!?

December 10th, 2009
1:06 pm

Why did Santa Claus get arrested?
Because he got caught laying a doll under the Christmas Tree.

Naughty Elf

December 10th, 2009
1:06 pm

I’m fired….well, Tiger Woods will be so happy because his rotation has nothing on yours Santa.

Everyone is gonna find out why you are always so relaxed and jolly. It ain’t just due to that sticky, icky that u like so much, either.

Santa

December 10th, 2009
1:07 pm

Naughty Elf, I’m really Santra, the lady. I partner with Santa. Obviously you have me mistaken

For Real

December 10th, 2009
1:08 pm

I guess U know me well, I don’t like winter
But I seem 2 get a kick out of doing U cold
Oh, what the hell, U always surrender
What’s this strange relationship that we hold on 2

Baby, I just can’t stand 2 see U happy
More than that, I hate 2 see U sad
Honey, if U left me I just might do something rash
What’s this strange relationship… ship….ship….ship

Naughty Elf

December 10th, 2009
1:08 pm

Why is Santa always so happy?

Because he knows where all of the bad girls are.

JtJ

December 10th, 2009
1:10 pm

Side note: I am feeling Eic Roberson’s “Can I borrow you”, he has a very nice voice.

Hey Melo…..I knew that “you” would….lol

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
1:12 pm

Trying to overlook the odd conversation

Mo: What website did you go to for the letter in a bottle idea??

For Real

December 10th, 2009
1:14 pm

Sorry for the all Prince songs Blog Fam but I had to get out of my system so this is my last Prince Song:

I’m just a bill.
Yes, I’m only a bill.
And I’m sitting here on Capitol Hill.
Well, it’s a long, long journey
To the capital city.
It’s a long, long wait
While I’m sitting in committee,
But I know I’ll be a law someday
At least I hope and pray that I will,
But today I am still just a bill.

JtJ

December 10th, 2009
1:15 pm

Somebody shoot Santa and his Naughty Elf!!!!

JtJ

December 10th, 2009
1:15 pm

Somebody shoot Santa and his Naughty Elf!!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD

December 10th, 2009
1:20 pm

Now I don’t want anybody
To get the wrong idea about me
I don’t have nothing to hide
I want the world to see

Just like a car I’ll drive you
Out of your mind
It’s always the first step
In us having a good time

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
1:23 pm

“One of the hardest things in life is watching the person you love, love someone else.”

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
1:24 pm

“Trying to make someone fall in love with you is about as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with.”

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
1:24 pm

“Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning.”

M. (pronouced M dot)

December 10th, 2009
1:25 pm

@THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD

Is that from Cameo, Single life?

The youngster knows something….lol

THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD

December 10th, 2009
1:26 pm

If you were worried ’bout where
I been or who I saw or
what club I went to with my homies
baby don’t worry you know that you got me

kinderbabe

December 10th, 2009
1:26 pm

@sexycool—you are really digging into your naughty joke box today, huh?? lol humor is good.:)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 10th, 2009
1:26 pm

Dream_n – http://messageinabottle.com, this is a better one but there are a few out there

Professor

December 10th, 2009
1:27 pm

I agree with that 1:23 quote…I think that is why when it is over it is over and I do not have to watch them live happily ever after!

Cemeeli

December 10th, 2009
1:27 pm

freeeezin out there!

it’s suppose to get in the 20s tomorrow…now that’s gon’ be crazy!

THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD

December 10th, 2009
1:27 pm

dream – One of the hardest things in life is watching the person you love, love someone else.”

Yeah thats a hard one..

Lady J

December 10th, 2009
1:28 pm

now Dream_n why you went there!!!! lol sooo true!

THE INFAMOUS DK aka MR. FRESH BAKED BREAD

December 10th, 2009
1:28 pm

M – Yes it is..

LURKER

December 10th, 2009
1:29 pm

Trying to overlook the odd conversation

What? The day to day dialog of (sometimes) stupidity?

Cemeeli

December 10th, 2009
1:29 pm

Mo – Thank you…momma sent me one of those from my birthday before.

…girl, you’re on it!

Professor

December 10th, 2009
1:29 pm

Mo~thanks for posting the website! I might have to use it one day when I am feeling all romantic and stuff