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Go Deeper

One of the best part of going out with someone new is exploring their personality.  Not only are you putting in face time to determine how strong your attraction is, you also get to discover the way they think.

When things are going well, you move past the shallow conversations and small talk. I love to go deeper in conversations and find out how much we are alike, how we differ, and even learn something new.

Once you go below the surface, you find out what a person is truly passionate about. In my experience, this is how you manage to get to a second and third dates.  You both are so captivated by the conversation, you can’t wait for another opportunity to, well go deeper!

It is always a great sign when you can have a great discussion with someone you are attracted to.  I think that a person’s dating conversation can make or break a date.  Have you ever been  on a second date with someone whose conversation left you confused, annoyed, or bored? Trust me, if you struggle with this, it’s something you should work on.

What do you like to discuss on a date? If you find out that you are intellectually unmatched, do you think your attraction to the person would fade?

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493 comments Add your comment

Melo

December 10th, 2009
4:33 pm

black…Dream_n

Decatur born and bred!

Cemeeli

December 10th, 2009
4:33 pm

Cee..how is big sis coping with his mandingo

@ Melo – they have a new home! I spent most of my Sunday evening chillin with them…my neice and nephew are so lovable…you know i don’t call them by their zulu name :) …my neice has my and grandma’s middle name..and my nephew looking like his heritage. :)

lurker

December 10th, 2009
4:33 pm

dumplings? from scratch?

2CPTG......smart azz!

December 10th, 2009
4:34 pm

well, thank YOU for the compliment……

Professor

December 10th, 2009
4:34 pm

Melo what is her race?

Dream how long have you been in Atlanta?

SexyCool - Got Jokes?!?!?

December 10th, 2009
4:36 pm

Professor

December 10th, 2009
4:37 pm

evething on beat..like she african in blood

Well Melo I would think she has the blood of the slave and slavemaster, so she go some african in her blood

mqew

December 10th, 2009
4:37 pm

Poppa G – I’m looking for recipes now. It wasn’t salty to me… but to each indeed.

Raqi – As I would say to my 2 y/o ABSOLUTELY NOT! I went to that place once. Never again. I guess I was thinking of like a sandwich spot that’s not a Blimpie/Subway/Quizzno’s. We have a lot of sub/sandwich spots up north.

Melo- Mandingolized hunh? Thas not bad, not bad at all. She’s making that happen, luv it! :lol:

Leggs - F and F

December 10th, 2009
4:38 pm

why when a lady is confident enough to share where she is with her guy it comes across as her being ostentatious about it?

It all depends who you’re sharing with. Some don’t want to see another happy and all giddy in love. Others want to pour negative thoughts in your eardrums in the hopes that you start second guessing things. All that means is you’re sharing with the wrong folk!

SexyCool - Got Jokes?!?!?

December 10th, 2009
4:38 pm

Making dumplings from scratch is really similar to making biscuits. I usually only make dumplings for cobblers.

2CPTG......smart azz!

December 10th, 2009
4:38 pm

Cee, I’m not throwin’ you under the bus…..I’m just sayin’, dang……hell, ain’t nothing wrong with “following” your man’s lead…..maybe it was wrong to use the word “check”….but I feel where you’re coming from……

and lurker, as you can probably tell, I can’t buy into bullshyt…..and a lotta folks subscribe to it;

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
4:39 pm

lmao @ Professor…

Honey I am a Northerner… I’m a resident of Chi-town.

Melo

December 10th, 2009
4:39 pm

black americam chics are to zulus as white chics are to black american guys

once a zulu handles u and they dont run back home like obama dad,u gone

we dont play! :lol:

lurker

December 10th, 2009
4:40 pm

and lurker, as you can probably tell, I can’t buy into bullshyt…..and a lotta folks subscribe to it;

lol…life time membership

Leggs - F and F

December 10th, 2009
4:40 pm

@mqew ~ try Jason’s Deli for a good sammich, esp a Reuben!

lurker

December 10th, 2009
4:40 pm

and yes i can tell you don’t do any purchasing

Professor

December 10th, 2009
4:42 pm

Dream you LOL you know you live in the Atlanta…

lurker

December 10th, 2009
4:43 pm

dumplings. yes it is but i still can’t get the knack for that.

Melo

December 10th, 2009
4:43 pm

2CPTG......smart azz!

December 10th, 2009
4:43 pm

“lol…life time membership”

it’s all good though, cause bullshyt, along with controversy, sells; ala, reality t.v.!

Cemeeli

December 10th, 2009
4:44 pm

Some don’t want to see another happy and all giddy in love. Others want to pour negative thoughts in your eardrums in the hopes that you start second guessing things.

That’s something they need to deal with…i’m not easily influenced about what others feel or say.

If it secong guess my best, what does that say about me?!!??

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
4:44 pm

I am cracking up at my desk.. I’m serious Chica!!! I live in Chicago!

lurker

December 10th, 2009
4:44 pm

it’s all good though, cause bullshyt, along with controversy, sells; ala, reality t.v.!

everyday on the regular

Professor

December 10th, 2009
4:45 pm

Have a wonderful evening I am out!

Cemeeli

December 10th, 2009
4:45 pm

btw- @ 2CPTG……smart azz!<— and that's not becoming…you read more collected than the common "smart azz"…

Professor

December 10th, 2009
4:48 pm

LOL, Dang Dream!!! :grin: Why did I think you were here in the ATL?????
I am going to let you know the next time I am up there…I am usually in Chicago at least three or four times a year, but being the GA Peach I am I try to avoid y’all winters.

Ok gone for real this time…I got to get my eyebrow arched

Leggs - F and F

December 10th, 2009
4:50 pm

That’s good, Cee, just attempting to answer your question.

LURKER

December 10th, 2009
4:51 pm

Me and Dream_n share a cubicle down on Peachtree St.

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
4:52 pm

lol… I remember when you asked me about the pizza here or maybe it was about a hot dog, I’on know. I told you I would take you to the best spot when you visit!!!

Time for me to cut out also….
Smile Beautiful People, it’s not all Bad!! Be safe out there!

2CPTG......smart azz!

December 10th, 2009
4:52 pm

Cee, if that comment appeared to “throw you under the bus,” blame it on the ‘yak…..finishing up this “fif” of Couvoisier (them som’ bytches better start payin me…been givin them too many shout outs over the years!)…..

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray/With 17 more days til my Bday

December 10th, 2009
4:53 pm

Me and Dream_n share a cubicle down on Peachtree St.

LURKER you are funny funny!!
Night Leggs/Melo

2CPTG......smart azz!

December 10th, 2009
4:55 pm

don’t get it twisted, Cee….I can admit, that sometimes I can come off that way…..so I just adopted that phrase for today….I try to come up with something to coincide with Diva’s topics…..

but umm, “collected”? thanks chica……

Melo

December 10th, 2009
4:55 pm

Wise Diva

December 10th, 2009
4:56 pm

Lurker (s) when are you going to stop fronting on your screen name of “lurker” haha!

I love the days when the topic goes random, pretty sure the cow thing was a new one on here!

Leggs - F and F

December 10th, 2009
4:57 pm

Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful. ~ dedicated to all who may be wondering why they’re holding….

Goal is to keep clapping….

Melo

December 10th, 2009
4:58 pm

Ohhhhhh..

Go deeper guys,if u have to

:lol:

well some of u,just light up a fire!

Leggs - F and F

December 10th, 2009
5:00 pm

Good night, Dream_n….Chi town is too dang cold!

Leggs - F and F

December 10th, 2009
5:05 pm

I didn’t say goodnight to the residents of Blogsville….

GOOD NIGHT!

loyalfriend

December 11th, 2009
7:21 am

nice topic… intellect is basic but chemistry applies tremendously along with laughter and a lighter side..today I will have coffee with an old aquaintance we found each other on the web…we’ll see after 10+ years of disconnect how this coffee time goes..

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