One of the best part of going out with someone new is exploring their personality. Not only are you putting in face time to determine how strong your attraction is, you also get to discover the way they think.
When things are going well, you move past the shallow conversations and small talk. I love to go deeper in conversations and find out how much we are alike, how we differ, and even learn something new.
Once you go below the surface, you find out what a person is truly passionate about. In my experience, this is how you manage to get to a second and third dates. You both are so captivated by the conversation, you can’t wait for another opportunity to, well go deeper!
It is always a great sign when you can have a great discussion with someone you are attracted to. I think that a person’s dating conversation can make or break a date. Have you ever been on a second date with someone whose conversation left you confused, annoyed, or bored? Trust me, if you struggle with this, it’s something you should work on.
What do you like to discuss on a date? If you find out that you are intellectually unmatched, do you think your attraction to the person would fade?