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Stop That, It’s Creepy

Somewhere on your dating resume, you may have been given the title: The Creepy One. It begins when, for some strange and inexplicable reason, you start to exhibit weird dating behavior.  It is highly likely that many of us aren’t even aware of it when it’s happening.  I think we are completely oblivious about how we are coming across sometimes.

What do you think should be on the “Stop That, It’s Creepy” list? You know what they say, when we know better, we date better, right!?

Ok, I will start with the creepy behavior I have been guilty of:

Miss Pop-up. When a guy I was seeing hadn’t invited me over I made a surprise visit. I showed up, uninvited and unexpected.  It was just driving me nuts that I hadn’t seen the inside of his place.  Turned out, he simply was renovating. He was nice enough to entertain my foolishness, but I know I gave him the “creepy chick” vibe.

Ladies, stop doing drive-bys or showing up to a guy’s place uninvited. It’s creepy. In fact, if you are too nosy and pushy, you could get dropped.

Miss Cling-on. I was smitten over a guy who was the  take home to Mama- total package type. This was the first guy I lost my cool over. I literally pouted when the poor man tried to get some space.  Being that needy – especially that quickly, made him look at me in a totally new light. What a nightmare I was.

Men like to feel needed, but the clingy, I can’t breathe without you – types are – wait for it.. CREEPY.  Stop acting out your insecurities on your man. It’s creepy.

Ladies, have you ever been disappointed in yourself and how you handled a dating relationship?  What kind of creepy behavior do you think scared men off?

I certainly have been on the receiving end before too:

Mr. One-tracked Mind: It is so weird to talk to a guy who will only talk about one topic. It could be sports, sex, or religion, but it’s the ONLY thing he talks about. If you can’t show a woman that you have more than one dimension, she is going to think you are a prison inmate who has been locked in a cell somewhere for the last decade.  Stop being a one-trick pony. Be well-rounded, otherwise,  ummm it’s creepy.

Mr. Octopus: Listen, I like to be groped as much as the next girl, but not by someone I don’t know or like.  If you attempt to palm my butt like a basketball then you’re definitely getting the creepy label. And possibly a throat chop. Or even a flat tire.

Stop acting like a horny teen who just discovered the female body. It’s creepy.  Unless she is on duty at a gentleman’s club, assume the woman wants to be treated like a lady. I think it is important to read a woman’s body language. You will know when and if she wants you to touch her… if you pay attention.

Guys, have you seen behavior from women that caused you to hit pause? Did it end up being a deal breaker?  Have you ever exhibited creepy behavior towards women? Were you able to recover from it?

Happy Friday!

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MsM

December 4th, 2009
4:43 pm

Maintenance supervisor for a county water system, about 4 years from a 30 year retirement. GED, plus technical mechanical education. Me… HS Dip, prior military (6 years), 20 years in banking. He is definitively not low voltage by any measure. He does not feel inferior, in his line of work he’s in contact with those who are highly degreed but lack hands on skills and common sense (nasty taste in his mouth), so he’s just not interested in spending his down time like that.

As for me, I work in a white collar environment, I’ve traveled… that about it. He’s cool now with me, I’m his ride or die, but lord my girl friends get picked on LOL

By the way did I say he’s from the Deck, Duh! *** disclaimer*** not a problem.

Professor

December 4th, 2009
4:45 pm

Well I guess 2CPTG is debating on whether he will take Jane with an 11th grade education…he is scared she will orderskrimps, and sip her coffee out of a straw and talk about how she knew what plies meant by the second time she heard gimme becky.

Leggs

December 4th, 2009
4:46 pm

Haaaaaaa, I like you MsM!

D'Andre

December 4th, 2009
4:46 pm

Leggs, no, I didn’t ask and she didn’t seem to care.

MsM

December 4th, 2009
4:47 pm

@ Professor … skrimps and coffee with a straw.. Oh, Hell!

Leggs

December 4th, 2009
4:49 pm

Thanks D’Andre….haaaaa, she kept it moving!

MsM

December 4th, 2009
4:52 pm

@ Leggs… Thanks. How I earn a living is just that, I’m a true around the way girl!

Leggs

December 4th, 2009
4:53 pm

Good night everyone!

A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

Enjoy your weekend and like Dream_n said, SMILE!!

Professor

December 4th, 2009
4:54 pm

Msm~one of my good friends yelled out when we were dining in the formal dining area on a cruise. Why they keep serving all this fancy ish…while picking the carrots out her salad with her fingers? She told them to bring her a straw for her wine glass :shock: She told me he acting like he don’t know what I am talking about…I just said that is not a common request, so he had to process it. Later on I did tell her the dos and donts and told her to follow my lead or just look around….

Melo

December 4th, 2009
4:54 pm

MsM..i see u like some bit of rough,lubing on u tender skin..

Sexxy..! :lol:

Professor

December 4th, 2009
4:56 pm

Have a wonderful weekend folks
Be safe and try to stay warm! :wink

Melo

December 4th, 2009
4:57 pm

Now as we close, Leggs,ladies, and think of Tiger..??

im thinking of getting my own Becky tonite!

Good weekend folks!

Professor

December 4th, 2009
4:58 pm

:wink: was what I meant to add

2CPTG

December 4th, 2009
5:08 pm

nope….sure couldn”t marry an 11th grader (mentally)…..we wouldn”t have much in common…but that’s just me.

Leggs

December 4th, 2009
5:13 pm

“How I earn a living is just that, I’m a true around the way girl!”

I like that!

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