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This Time I Want It All

Have you ever taken the time to think about your past relationships to realize what exactly went wrong?  In some cases, I can pinpoint the moment I figured out the person wasn’t right for me, yet it was not the moment I ended things.

When we are single and dating, we are collecting data about who we think is a good fit for us.  It wasn’t until I dated a really impatient man when I decided that patience is something I truly like in a man.  Now that I have been ignored by a “really busy” boyfriend, I can say with certainty that I appreciate the man that has balance and makes time for what is important.

You see where I’m going with this?  We may have endured tough times on the dating scene but it wasn’t a complete waste of time.  We should take all that we have learned about ourselves and other people to make the best choices in selecting a mate.

When it is time and the right person comes along, there will be no settling.  There should be no confusion, apprehension, fear, or trepidation. This is why so many of the married people tell us, “You will know” when we meet the one.

I tell myself that when I make the decision to commit, the guy will have it all. Not just partially right for me, but truly right for me. What would be the point, otherwise?

Do you think that settling is necessary to be with someone?  Is it possible for us to find a person that has everything we want?  Can we expect to have it all or is it a fantasy?  How realistic are we in our expectations?

330 comments Add your comment

Melo

December 3rd, 2009
2:12 pm

What does that do with my sense of humor?

see my 2.11

Dan

December 3rd, 2009
2:14 pm

I read it the same way as swiss did, I think.

Still ????

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 3rd, 2009
2:14 pm

Professor – Im LMAO @ the Blog High students! Most Likely to Succeed After Failure!! HEE-LAR-REE-US!!

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:16 pm

@czBrat
comcast channel 708 is the r&b oldies. instead of watching tv, i sit on da couch, listen to some feel good music, and write my heart out.

i love the 80s.

and in the morning getting ready, i’m dancin’ all ova the house. lol.

i'm swiss

December 3rd, 2009
2:17 pm

“My take was that Swiss spoiled his pants,no wonder dirty..”

Well now my pants are spoiled, ‘cos I just laughed so hard I p!$$ed myself… and threw up a little. :lol:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 3rd, 2009
2:19 pm

Well now my pants are spoiled, ‘cos I just laughed so hard I p!$$ed myself… and threw up a little.

Swissyou krazy!! :lol:

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:20 pm

@Swiss
r u sure you white?

czBrat

December 3rd, 2009
2:21 pm

ahhh yes, Love. i do my housework to that channel.

Professor

December 3rd, 2009
2:22 pm

Swiss I cannot hand out the awards, but I just peeped in one envelope and it says… the Big Juicy Sausage Award goes toooooooooooooooooooo Mr.Swiss.

I might pass them out on Friday

Leggs

December 3rd, 2009
2:23 pm

Dream_n ~ get out of my head…that was good! Thanks

Melo

December 3rd, 2009
2:23 pm

Still ????

@Dan…

see,thats why i said ur sense of humour is subdued..well,maybe not even that..

proly neutered!
coz everybody is laughing but u!

now go there and argue with Dream_n,ur sparring partner :arrow: :lol:

Professor

December 3rd, 2009
2:25 pm

MO/Dream since we are all grown I had to throw in failure. We have heard everyone story so we all know the winners (male and female) for that award.

Another one~Drama of the Year…like album of the year. Who had the most drama in 2009….the award goes to ______________and __________. Y’all shhhhhhh lets hear the acceptance speech.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 3rd, 2009
2:25 pm

Professor – Awwww dayum! I will miss the awards ceremony?!?! Im off tomorrow….dammit! :smile:

Dan

December 3rd, 2009
2:26 pm

@Melo

I’m not neutered, just heterosexual.

Where I’m from (read: America) only a certain kinda dude make jokes or even references to another dude’s junk.

So, um, yeah I got the joke; it just wasn’t funny and slightly ghey

Professor

December 3rd, 2009
2:26 pm

Mo~ you know I am BET I will have reruns on Monday! So, don’t worry just bring your popcorn

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:26 pm

i loves me some african american men, but i wouldn’t mind bumping into a brotha like you. with some flava. i like reading you. a white guy with swag is hard to find.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 3rd, 2009
2:26 pm

Love, Beautiful – Swiss is White Chocolate, dont you remember? :wink:

Melo

December 3rd, 2009
2:27 pm

@Dan
oh boy!

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray

December 3rd, 2009
2:28 pm

Mo,

I will inform you of the outcome on Monday… I am in charge of the production of the show.. And trust me it will be unforgettable…

Now who get’s the “Most likely to contract at least 2 diseaes by 2011 again…

Professor~in a silly azz mood

December 3rd, 2009
2:29 pm

Dan where are you from in America? I want to see how they do dat there (in my Master P voice). :mrgreen:

I might get you an award

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray

December 3rd, 2009
2:29 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol:
i kid i kid!!!

Melo

December 3rd, 2009
2:32 pm

@Dan

u heterosexual,like Hill Harper..but dont have a girlfriend coz its kinda hard for u to date due to ur busy lyfe.

I thoght wearing male pants and talking male makes u heterosexual

I gues we all need loud speakers now to validate!

HEY IM MALE TOO! :lol:

:lol:

Professor~in a silly azz mood

December 3rd, 2009
2:33 pm

“Most likely to contract at least 2 diseaes by 2011 again…

Dream we finally have a winner!

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray

December 3rd, 2009
2:34 pm

Leggs

I’m outta here in about 30 min.. I wanna send you pics too!! What’s your email address??

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:34 pm

*Swiss is White Chocolate* hehehe. i missed that one!

question to self… will i get wit a white guy or take an interest if he is as phine as Brad but lack swag?

toughy.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 3rd, 2009
2:36 pm

Dream_n – now please cut out the delay when you re-air the show monday, I want to see everything! LMAO!

Dan

December 3rd, 2009
2:36 pm

@Melo

There you go making assumptions.

Who says I don’t have a girlfriend? I’ve neither confirmed nor denied, for it is not my place to violate someone else’s privacy.

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:37 pm

@ladies
has any of you been with a white guy who knew how to put it on ya? i’m curious. cause that’s important.

Raqi

December 3rd, 2009
2:38 pm

SexyCool, you got mail.

Leggs

December 3rd, 2009
2:38 pm

@Dream ~ you got mail!

czBrat

December 3rd, 2009
2:39 pm

Professor, I’ll catch Monday’s rerun. Should I win anything, please accept in my absence and remember to thank God and my mommy in the speech :)

Dream_n that 2:28 was YIKES!!!

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray

December 3rd, 2009
2:40 pm

@ Mo..

Done… and there will be a complimentary bag of popcorn waiting for you to enjoy :grin:

Melo

December 3rd, 2009
2:42 pm

I’ve neither confirmed nor denied, for it is not my place to violate someone else’s privacy

ooh please….
but I noiminate u for The Proff blog awards for being technically sound BUT practically confusing.. in that above statement.

Leggs

December 3rd, 2009
2:43 pm

Who’s privacy are you violating? You’re at liberty to reveal if you have a gf or not. It’s your privacy. Now, the gf may not care to say whether she’s has you as a bf or not…that’s her privacy.

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:44 pm

happy b-day to the Sags!

i remember a couple of years back wishing i was one. this is the first time in a long time loving to be a Cancer. it has its benefits.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

December 3rd, 2009
2:44 pm

Dream_n – thanks chica! And like czBrat if I win an award, thank God, Lil Mo and my mama’nem and let Cemeeli throw up some tres for me! :smile:

Raqi

December 3rd, 2009
2:45 pm

Some people want it all
But I don’t want nothing at all
If it ain’t you baby
If I ain’t got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain’t got you, Yeah

Dream_n~ Soaring above the Fray

December 3rd, 2009
2:46 pm

but I noiminate u for The Proff blog awards for being technically sound BUT practically confusing.. in that above statement.

Melo your comedy should be your niche… :lol:

Leggs

December 3rd, 2009
2:48 pm

That was on point, Melo!

SexyCool - Loves Orange LifeSavers, too.

December 3rd, 2009
2:50 pm

I will search for you at the place that sunlight sleeps.
I will wait for you at the spot that the wind stop blowing.
I will listen for you in the space between heartbeats.
I will hold you until the earth passes away.
I will love you as long as the heavens whisper your name.

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:51 pm

Melo is really good at pulling you in, twisting yo s* and making you look stupid.

good job darling.

y’all been warned!

Professor~in for a minute

December 3rd, 2009
2:52 pm

Mo/czBrat~ I am still working on some nice categories so for now you guys are NOT winners, but that is a good thing. This is one award you do not want.

now watch some lame azz lurker post some awards on my behalf tomorrow…they better be funny now

Dream, Sr. Production manager get off the blog you know little dream is peeping out the door waiting on the cupcakes!

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:54 pm

@Prof
how you know about the blog awards? you ain’t been on here that long.

Dream_n~ Going to go party with the lady of the day!

December 3rd, 2009
2:55 pm

Thank you for all the blog birthday wishes today for the lil lady.

Everyone be safe and smile… It’s not all bad!!!

Night!

Raqi

December 3rd, 2009
2:55 pm

Melo

December 3rd, 2009
2:55 pm

@Dream_n/Leggs

Im taking a bow to u VIPs in the front,as the confetti falls down the huge ceiling! :lol:

(lights,cameras flickicking..klakla klakla tata tata tata)))))))))

Lord Velonese (insert trendy quote here)

December 3rd, 2009
2:56 pm

Lord have mercy listening to yall makes glad I’m single.

Dream_n~ Going to go party with the lady of the day!

December 3rd, 2009
2:56 pm

Sr. Production manager

lmao!! you are silly..

I know she’s anxious.. I’m leaving now see above post… :mrgreen:

Professor~in for a minute

December 3rd, 2009
2:59 pm

Love, Beautiful…I know about everything and just because you did not hear me does not mean I was not here

Love, Beautiful

December 3rd, 2009
2:59 pm

buying my oldest *Hancock* for xmas. we were in target shopping and i seen him from the corner of my eye reading the cover, then telling me later how cool the movie was.

bingo!