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Boyfriends are NOT recyclable

Recycling may be great for the environment but it can do major damage on your love life.  Against our better judgments, we sometimes return to old flames and rekindle a romance.  Sometimes it’s for nostalgia’s sake, other times it’s out of loneliness.  A lot of people seriously consider it for the sake of the children.

I wish I could say that it worked for me but it hasn’t, ever. I tried.  Like, three times…with the same guy.  Yeah no, I don’t recommend it at all. Maybe I’m in the minority, though.  Is it ever a good idea to reunite with someone from your past? Isn’t it so so tempting to do so?  Especially when old feelings haven’t completely faded away; or worse they come barreling towards you after a random sighting.

Have you ever gotten back together with a former wife/husband/ or former significant other? If so, how did it work out?  What drew you back to the person?

How long does it usually take before you remember the exact reason you two broke up the first time? In my case, my ex would come back around and pursue me, claiming to have changed.  He said all the right things that I wanted him to say before we broke up.  It wasn’t long before we were back to the same arguments and personality clashes that broke us up.

Would you ever try to win someone back? Do you think someone from your past could show up and convince you to give it another go? What is the statue of limitations on old relationships? More importantly, who can I petition to get it shortened!!?

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For Real

December 2nd, 2009
4:00 pm

For Real now kicking Raqi azz for her cause she can’t kick her own azz.

SexyCool - Loves Red LifeSavers

December 2nd, 2009
4:00 pm

Raqi – cosigning 354p.

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:00 pm

@SlimOne, I got a text from a co-worker today saying she farted so loud while peeing she was waiting for everyone to leave before coming out of the stall…I hollered!

Demi

December 2nd, 2009
4:00 pm

Ever notice sometimes when you’re on the outward stroke & your wang has some white, creamy discharge on it, but you haven’t nutted yet?

I thought the condom broke and panic, I thought the bish had something…I quickly put my clothes on and I fled the scene…receive a very heated VM the next day for my trouble.

In my defense…I was only 22 and miss that part of my sexual education.

For Real

December 2nd, 2009
4:01 pm

Slim: Rememeber the BPB at your last job? Wellll that ain’t cream.

lurker

December 2nd, 2009
4:01 pm

Cant say Ive seen my favorite stripper in church but Im pretty sure skrippers need Jesus too..

all ya’ll nasty nuts need jesus

Raqi, some days you bout the most rationale sensible blogger

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:01 pm

Professor, I was impatient and tried to squeeze thru a area that I was not even suppose to be driving on. I missed the car I was trying to miss but I scraped the metal post that is set to keep folks from cutting thru that area. A freaking dumb mistake.

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:03 pm

ForReal, yeah I lie to him when he ask me if I am asleep. :lol:

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:04 pm

Ok, let the laughs begin…that was funny, Demi!

THE INFAMOUS DK aka DK ALI

December 2nd, 2009
4:05 pm

Raqi – Naw that wasnt a dumb mistake dont play it down.. That was some BS!! And yes youre right he should be upset because it didnt have to happen.. You better roll with my story..

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:06 pm

Lurker, Infamous made that statement not me. I just requoted it and added my thoughts because I agree with him. I can’t take honor that doesn’t belong to me.

(Shh You gon have folks changing their monikers throwing insults at me. LOL)

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:08 pm

@Raqi, don’t beat yourself up too much. Most shortcuts in life are painful ones!

SlimOne

December 2nd, 2009
4:08 pm

@Raqi I don’t have an issue with bathroom funk but I mean if there are 6 stalls in the bathroom, why pick the one next to an occupied one?? You can shyt, poop, fart, doo-doo splash all you want, but do it 5 doors down…it’s called courtesy. I don’t want to be so close that the water in my porcelein throne splashes on my booty whenever you drop a log. LMAO! And if i can taste what you had for lunch then that’s just plain ewwwww!

@ Leggs Hayo! I would do the same thing. It’s a good think i’m flexible enough to remain seated and be able to bend all the way over to see if any shoes are still left in the room before I ‘drop the kids off at the pool’. lmao!

@For Real — i’ll never forget the BPB…she is being missed. :-)

For Real

December 2nd, 2009
4:09 pm

“I was impatient and tried to squeeze thru a area that I was not even suppose to be driving on.” – For Real now slapping the ish out Raqi!

Blog ladies this for all of yall from every man on the planet.

DIS IS WHY I DON’T LET YO AZZ DRIVE MY CAR!!!!! (cuss, cuss, mumble something about her mamma, cuss, cuss, mumble something about her lack of intelligence, cuss, cuss, mumble something about her stankin azz daddy)

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:10 pm

That was some BS

LOL Infamous. I can hear him now.

Him: Fluck Raqi, what the hell were you thinking?!?!

Me: Well since you brought it up I was thinking maybe we could fluck…if that will take you mind off it and you will forgive me.

:lol:

Professor

December 2nd, 2009
4:10 pm

~Raqi I hate to hear that!

Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday

December 2nd, 2009
4:12 pm

Can I just say how excited I am about my daughter’s 4th birthday tomorrow. I am very humble that god saw fit to bless me with her. She has inspired in ways that I could never imagine, and for that I am grateful.

okay just had to say that… Proff, I’m going to send you pics of the bday girl in action tomorow!

Demi

December 2nd, 2009
4:12 pm

Slim…yeah, it be like that…singing:

I was in love with a skripper…

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:13 pm

@Raqi ~ sounds like Mason will be a little more even tempered than ForReal’s rant!

Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday

December 2nd, 2009
4:14 pm

For Real

it’s funny you say that, cause everytime I drove with my ex and the driver in front of us didnt put the turn signal on in time, or pushed the breaks to fast, or did something that annoyed him. He would always say, “I bet that’s a woamn”. that’s funny to hear another guy say the same thing lol

For Real

December 2nd, 2009
4:14 pm

Raqi: I don’t why but when I read your 4:10 I pictured Mase sounding like Day-Day(sp) in Friday.

Him: Fluck Raqi, what the hell were you thinking?!?!

Me: Well since you brought it up I was thinking maybe we could fluck…if that will take you mind off it and you will forgive me.

Him: You betnot scratchedup my 20s!

Me: Dem ain’t 20s dey 10s

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:17 pm

Ut oh, another celebrity has come out the closet. Meredith Baxter is a lesbian. She says it’s only been this way for the past seven years (LOL)…that truly tickled me.

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:17 pm

DIS IS WHY I DON’T LET YO AZZ DRIVE MY CAR!!!!!

ForReal, I wouldn’t be driving his car if he had turned his behind over and went to sleep instead of knocking me up. So that makes it all his fault. Yeah…it’s his fault that his car is scratched.

Melo

December 2nd, 2009
4:21 pm

but you haven’t nutted yet? That’s creaming.

Appreciate Swiss…kinda busy here..!! fkcit it !!

angst..hate it!!!

:lol:

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:21 pm

Leggs, I saw that last night, I think, on the something I was watching. I think they get bored and say, “maybe I’ll try out being gay”.

My husband’s cousin says she just got so fed up with men and their trifling ways she decided to go the other way.

Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday

December 2nd, 2009
4:24 pm

You can shyt, poop, fart, doo-doo splash all you want, but do it 5 doors down…it’s called courtesy.

Yeah, I’m with you on this one Slim.

Demi

December 2nd, 2009
4:24 pm

In my defense…I was only 22 and miss that part of my sexual education

Sexual Education 101:

If wang is good…virgina is likely to let wang know by throwing up thicky white stuff…no that is not your c’um her’s, dummy

SexyCool - Loves Red LifeSavers

December 2nd, 2009
4:24 pm

Dating advice from Michelle Obama:

“Cute’s good, but cute only lasts for so long,” says Obama. “Don’t look at the bank book or the title, but look at the heart, look at the soul,” she counsels young women who are looking for a mate. In President Obama, the first lady said she saw something “special.”

“When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good,” says Obama. And if you don’t — DON’T MARRY HIM!

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:25 pm

Only if the baby was with you and babyseat, diaper bag, and all other baby stuff fits comfortably in his car and not yours. :lol:

Demi

December 2nd, 2009
4:26 pm

Legg, it wasn’t funny then, not one bit.

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:26 pm

Public Service Announcement:

Quite a few of my co-workers are saying Macy’s One Day Sale today will make you sick. If anybody wants, I have a 25% off coupon I can forward good until 12/7.

Professor

December 2nd, 2009
4:27 pm

Raqi~explain wouldn’t be driving his car if he had turned his behind over and went to sleep instead of knocking me up. So that makes it all his fault.

Dream please send me the birthday pics of that little cutie of yours! I know she is excited. I am very humble that god saw fit to bless me with her…me almost cried…hardcore professor over here melting on that one

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:28 pm

SexyCool, I agree with M. Obama 98%. LOL

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:29 pm

Yeah Leggs, my “girly” car, as he calls it, is not baby transporting freely. I have a two door.

Melo

December 2nd, 2009
4:29 pm

Most women “cream

swiss,wld have been nice if Raqi or some lady here confrmed that!

:lol:

czBrat

December 2nd, 2009
4:30 pm

My husband’s cousin says she just got so fed up with men and their trifling ways she decided to go the other way.

cause women aren’t trifling??? yeah right! i’ll just deal with my man’s trifling ways while enjoying the comfort of those strong arms the smell of his Diesel.

Raqi

December 2nd, 2009
4:31 pm

Professor, first off it’s just a joke. But it just means that his car is better for transporting the baby and all her stuff. He has a four door which better for a car seat and getting the baby in and out.

SlimOne

December 2nd, 2009
4:31 pm

Demi, when does your book come out…I’m In Love wit a skrippa?

I went to the pudsy open house to try lesbianism on for size a long time ago…Come to find out you have to like the way it taste. Who knew? lololol

Demi

December 2nd, 2009
4:32 pm

Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday

December 2nd, 2009
4:33 pm

cause women aren’t trifling???

Glad you caught that cbratz.. I had my :shock: face on.

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:34 pm

Figured that’s what you meant, Raqi! Couldn’t have been any other reason!

Demi

December 2nd, 2009
4:35 pm

SlimOne…no book is needed, try it and tell me how you like it…I will be there to help walk you through the lesbian process, LOL

Night!!!

SexyCool - Loves Red LifeSavers

December 2nd, 2009
4:37 pm

SlimOne

December 2nd, 2009
4:40 pm

Nah…missed that bus and I’m doing just fine. I enjoy the smell of hot ballz much more than the…other stuff. lol

Melo

December 2nd, 2009
4:44 pm

Ladies??

any of u,truthfully now! ever slept with a dude,say for a nite and the next morn,u were walking rugged,kinda,the worse with wear and tear and ur nana kind sore..

Still man out there that rock it like that,or licky licky has made it kinda easy on the wear and tear of ur pudsy??

jus asking :lol: (oh yeah,the muffcka dusturbing me and asking me qstions at my desk is gone)

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:47 pm

I sure hope every woman has experienced the sore lips at some point in her life!

Melo

December 2nd, 2009
4:50 pm

If u say,”black on black crime needs to stop” does that make any other crime,targeted at another race,apart from the black race, excusable???

Leggs

December 2nd, 2009
4:50 pm

Just a little food for thought today. Whenever a man tells you he’s “emotionally secure,” best believe it means he’s medicated!!!

Going home and making bean soup with my leftover turkey. Good night!

Melo

December 2nd, 2009
4:51 pm

Leggs,u good… lips??..now i got a lil bounce with that! u know where?

Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday

December 2nd, 2009
4:51 pm

u say,”black on black crime needs to stop” does that make any other crime,targeted at another race,apart from the black race, excusable???

This just made me crack up at my desk!! lol

Thanx for the nightly quote Leggs..
Night All