Recycling may be great for the environment but it can do major damage on your love life. Against our better judgments, we sometimes return to old flames and rekindle a romance. Sometimes it’s for nostalgia’s sake, other times it’s out of loneliness. A lot of people seriously consider it for the sake of the children.
I wish I could say that it worked for me but it hasn’t, ever. I tried. Like, three times…with the same guy. Yeah no, I don’t recommend it at all. Maybe I’m in the minority, though. Is it ever a good idea to reunite with someone from your past? Isn’t it so so tempting to do so? Especially when old feelings haven’t completely faded away; or worse they come barreling towards you after a random sighting.
Have you ever gotten back together with a former wife/husband/ or former significant other? If so, how did it work out? What drew you back to the person?
How long does it usually take before you remember the exact reason you two broke up the first time? In my case, my ex would come back around and pursue me, claiming to have changed. He said all the right things that I wanted him to say before we broke up. It wasn’t long before we were back to the same arguments and personality clashes that broke us up.
Would you ever try to win someone back? Do you think someone from your past could show up and convince you to give it another go? What is the statue of limitations on old relationships? More importantly, who can I petition to get it shortened!!?
303 comments Add your comment
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
1:24 pm
(Slim now kissing her bible & throwing out a couple Hail Mary’s!)
KP (http://www.chatkafeonline.com)
December 2nd, 2009
1:26 pm
@Melo…I see you are off the hook today!
Leggs
December 2nd, 2009
1:28 pm
“I refuse to make sugar out of sh!t” – Sounds like you’re on your game to me, Professor!
“Umm Penises shouldnt be rubbery.. Mine aint.. Should feel like cold Steel in the Hour of Chaos..” Hmmmm, let me be the judge of that!
“I would prolly start by slamming her head into the dashboard numerous times and go from there..” You stupid for that one!
Just received Tiger Wood’s Christmas Card. It’s hysterical. Anybody want to see it!
LURKER
December 2nd, 2009
1:28 pm
Raqi and Dreamn where are yall from the country? It’s not about the azz it’s about touching another man! Hitting a hole from a woman is the real deal and only deal for sexing. Women are suppose to please me as a man simply put in any hole available! NOW MAKE SURE YOU BOTH DO YOUR JOBS!
Leggs
December 2nd, 2009
1:31 pm
A lot of u females on this board,confronted with the exact same issue about somebody u luv dearly and have married,wld do the exact same thing. Apparently, you haven’t really been reading the females on THIS blog!
And by the way, thank all of you for joining me in the jail cell…especially enthusiastic Ms. Raqi!
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
1:32 pm
LURKER..??
u sound like ELIJAH
Luvbug
December 2nd, 2009
1:32 pm
dizzle in dung
That’s were I get confused. It’s dung…will never be anything other than. Even if you don’t get an STD, how do you keep from staying sick if it’s unprotected? It transfers to the sheets and other places…and sodomy with women may even be worse because that dung may end up in her body if he goes in regular afterwards.
I guess people find ways, but that’s very high risk…protected or unprotected.
SlimOne
December 2nd, 2009
1:34 pm
So do you ALL agree that if a man wants to enter your ‘Exit Only’ that he is a potential gay dude???? If you say that, doesn’t that mean it can be applied to Oral too. A man & a woman has a mouth, just like both have arse-holes…not too sure I agree with that.
FYI: i’m not a Enter-thru-my-exit-only, type girl
SexyCool - Loves Red LifeSavers
December 2nd, 2009
1:36 pm
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Professor
December 2nd, 2009
1:38 pm
LURKER~ out of the countless things I write/comment about being drilled in the azz sticks in your mind. Tell me this who is getting off on the butt holes…you little dizzle-hole-in-one-dizzle-selective reader freak.
~washing my hands because I just took the trash out on that one.
Ms. Leggs I would like to see the christmas card hit me up! thanks
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
1:39 pm
mean it can be applied to Oral too. A man & a woman has a mouth, just like both have arse-holes…not too sure I agree with that
@SlomOne,
u think licking arse is ok,u mean Slim??
Lets see what Raqi says coz shes the bedroom etiquette coach
Demi
December 2nd, 2009
1:42 pm
Dayum…the cost of laying “WOOD” has now gone up…you could lose your life.
Demi is now heading to Florida, hoping to find Tiger’s missing tooth to sell on Ebay
Raqi
December 2nd, 2009
1:43 pm
No Slim I do not feel that way about oral. Now if your man ask you to strap on a dildo so he can go at it on you then yeah he is gay. Sodomy is an act first performed by gay men. Cunnie dates back to many years as an act performed by a MAN on a WOMAN.
Professor
December 2nd, 2009
1:44 pm
Melo,
I am not sure who LURKER sounds like, but he sounds like a man that sticks his thumb in his boo-tay on company’s time…I hope the boss don’t walk in and catch him thumbing that butt while blogging… jus’ sayin
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 2nd, 2009
1:44 pm
wow…..
SlimOne
December 2nd, 2009
1:44 pm
Melo um….dude….I was NOT talking about licking dookie shutes. Ewwww!
Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday
December 2nd, 2009
1:45 pm
Slim…
For me it’s just something about a man that wants to have anal sex. The only way for two men to engage in sexual penetration is through the back door. If a man wants to enter through the exit door with me… I don’t know what’s stopping him from entering a man’s azz sober or non sober. There are some men out ther with the ass of a woman. An azz is an azz is an azz. JMO though.
SlimOne
December 2nd, 2009
1:46 pm
@Raqi I can definitely agree with that. If a dude even musters up the courage to mention me, strap-on, and his dookie shute in same sentence then it’s Bye bye boo! lol
Dan
December 2nd, 2009
1:47 pm
Now see, here’s where Luvbug’s theory #fails.
Two women ‘experimenting’ aren’t gay, on the DL, or nona that – they’re friendly.
And I wanna be friendly with ‘em.
Professor
December 2nd, 2009
1:47 pm
Right on dream on that 1:45
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
1:48 pm
@Slim??
so what is it that u say u dont agree with..u talking about mouth and man and woman..
im not followong u dissagreeing with what..
Proff??
now talk of a smebody on the prowl…maybe he needs a middle man..i can help
Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday
December 2nd, 2009
1:51 pm
Two women who engage in sexual acts are also gay..
Professor
December 2nd, 2009
1:54 pm
LMAO at the middle man! hot dayum
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
1:55 pm
No Slim I do not feel that way about oral.
????
@Slim/Raqi what u all talking about…arse licking???
Mo (aka Moeisha)
December 2nd, 2009
1:55 pm
And Dan why are they just ‘experimenting’?? Sounds gay to me……
Dan
December 2nd, 2009
2:01 pm
@Mo/Dream
Because they’re women!
It’s the one instance where the female excuse for lack of culpability is accepted. If two women are making out and other stuff they can blame on the alcohol, the Debil, the sun being in their eyes, and I DO NOT CARE!!
Neither are gay, they’re curious. And their curiosity makes me curious.
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
2:05 pm
For me it’s just something about a man that wants to have anal sex
Dream_n?? so that there is negative??????
just as well u went further to explain…..
For me it’s just something about a woman with a nice boteey,tight jeans and high heels!
WORDS…..
i'm swiss
December 2nd, 2009
2:08 pm
I’m too late to catch up w/ everything, but I did have to comment on 1 thing:
“Is Tiger a Republican??”
Melo — No, of course not. You can tell because he’s cheating with other women.
Wise Diva
December 2nd, 2009
2:08 pm
Hey everyone! I survived the office holiday party, I will never ever volunteer to help plan it again. LOL
anywhoo, I am catching up, on page 2, be right back.
Oh and the young guy is on ice, he did the old bait and switch tactic *eyeroll*
LURKER
December 2nd, 2009
2:10 pm
MELO… DUDE who are you? Now do not address me while I am macking on the PREFESSOR!
PREFESSOR thats it let it all out I am going to KNOCK DAT BOOTY BACK INTO PLACE! DO YOU WANT ABOUT AN HOUR OF BACKDOOR LUVING?
Professor
December 2nd, 2009
2:11 pm
…stepping out for a minute.
you got mail…
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
2:11 pm
You can tell because he’s cheating with other women
Ouch!
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
December 2nd, 2009
2:11 pm
I am not sure who LURKER sounds like, but he sounds like a man that sticks his thumb in his boo-tay on company’s time….
Professor
December 2nd, 2009
2:12 pm
LURKER..??
u sound like ELIJAH
naw bro he sound like Uncle Peaches
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
December 2nd, 2009
2:13 pm
Neither are gay, they’re curious. And their curiosity makes me curious.
Curious about what Dan?
Professor
December 2nd, 2009
2:14 pm
Sassy the
made my observation sound bad
Demi
December 2nd, 2009
2:14 pm
Alcohol only gives you liquid courage to do what you been thinking bout doing..
True, I will come out of the closet now…
I LOVE LESBIAN WOMEN
Whew…I feel so much better.
Dan
December 2nd, 2009
2:15 pm
@Sassy
Each other/each of them
Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday
December 2nd, 2009
2:17 pm
For me it’s just something about a man that wants to have anal sex with a woman.
Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday
December 2nd, 2009
2:18 pm
Still Gay curious and all.
Demi
December 2nd, 2009
2:22 pm
Dan…yousa freak…
BUT
I agree with you. There is something almost magicial about watching two beautiful ladies have a pie eating contest. And if they both squirts…
double the pleasure
Dan
December 2nd, 2009
2:25 pm
@Dream
They are not gay unless I can’t participate.
Even then, if I can watch, they not really gay, just gay-ish.
Where’s Slim? Run that for ‘em….j/k
Melo
December 2nd, 2009
2:29 pm
And if they both squirts…
double the pleasure!
hey Demi!!
so if u just watching them do it,is the suirting visible?? i mean,do u see a visible..squirt,sqwuirt…oozing out..
just asking the pros!
Leggs
December 2nd, 2009
2:34 pm
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
December 2nd, 2009
2:35 pm
No Professor I don’t think it was bad….that sounds like some slick ish I would say but when I read it that was the face I made ’cause I was like “well dayum”. Don’t worry it’s all to the good.
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
December 2nd, 2009
2:37 pm
I know right Leggs?!….shyt just got a lil strange right quick didn’t it?
SexyCool - Loves Red LifeSavers
December 2nd, 2009
2:37 pm
Steve Harvey’s radio dating game is picking people from Atlanta next week.
czBrat
December 2nd, 2009
2:37 pm
ditto Leggs’
*sigh* I don’t know why I bother trying to catch up with all this madness. It’s hard enough to keep up on a day when I’m following word-for-word.
Carry on!
Dream_n--1 day until lil dreams bday
December 2nd, 2009
2:39 pm
shyt just got a lil strange right quick didn’t it?
Let me put my
face on too.. err um okay.
Raqi
December 2nd, 2009
2:43 pm
I was just reading where the wife of the WH State dinner party crashers wants to be on The Real Housewives of DC. Boy, what folks will do get on TV. All reality shows need to banned. Folks out there performing stunts trying to get their own tv show. First the balloon boy, now the wedding crashers.