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Bad Romance

It doesn’t matter how many times Lady Gaga sings it, being caught in a bad romance is like being stuck on a broken carousel being operated by an evil clown. The worst part of it is that we willingly hop on the ride and subject ourselves to the vicious cycle of drama.

You know what they say, the first step is admitting you have a problem. So admit it.  The bad romances you end up with is partly because you are attracting what you are putting out there.  When you have low self-esteem, lack confidence and believe that you don’t deserve better, you don’t get any better. This shows in the choices you make in people that you let occupy your mental space and time.

I was guilty of doing this and it wasn’t until I figured out how great I am  (no, seriously I was slow to realize it) that I started to discover what it was like to date someone else who is great. I had to go through too many bad romances but you don’t have to!

First, how do you define a bad romance? How do you know when it’s bad? It may sound like a strange question but a lot of times we don’t know until it’s too late how bad it is.

Second, how do you get off the cycle of bad romances? What has worked for you?

Third, once you are in a good position to find a good romance, how do you avoid messing it up?  There are definitely some adjustments to be made when you are so used to the bad romances from your past. When it is good, relaxing into it and keeping the drama at bay could be challenging but not impossible.

Getting off the bad romance carousel before 2010? Yes, please! Let’s Discuss

322 comments Add your comment

Melo

December 1st, 2009
3:31 pm

I wonder what a woman will have done to her muscles in the past in order not to feel a man’s johnson :lol:

SlimOne

December 1st, 2009
3:31 pm

Melo I don’t have your email address…these are from when she posed in Playboy

Dream_n--2 days until lil dreams bday

December 1st, 2009
3:31 pm

Lil Dream will be turning 4! I’m so excited!!

Who is that and what have you done with Dan :lol:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
3:31 pm

Send the pics, but I’d wanna watch you watch her…

Playa play from the HimalayAAAs…aww sookie sookie nah. That’s slick….real slick. :mrgreen:

i'm swiss

December 1st, 2009
3:32 pm

“speaking of nekkid pics…i still have the ones of Stacey Dash…now SHE is a BEE YOOOOUUU tiful woman :-)

D@mn, Slim — Here I was yesterday talking about avoiding temptation, and today you’ve got to spring that comment on us & damn near cause the Matterhorn to erupt… :lol:

Cee — No, I don’t read Crave… I’m not a pure-breed geek; I just converted to geek-dom later in life purely for professional reasons… ;-)

Dream_n--2 days until lil dreams bday

December 1st, 2009
3:33 pm

Playa play from the HimalayAAAs…aww sookie sookie nah. That’s slick….real slick

I am cracking up at my desk Sassy!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
3:34 pm

Stacey Dash is HOT!!!!

Not to sound ghey or anything but yeah she is a looker.

Dan

December 1st, 2009
3:35 pm

@Slim

Know I had to…

I may regret asking this but where’s Foots and ARed?

I haven’t heard about poledancing “class” in a minute.

Leggs

December 1st, 2009
3:37 pm

Nevermind, I see you guys are staying true to form!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
3:38 pm

For real though Dream didn’t what Dan said about “watching Slim watch the pics of Staceye” sound all mack-a-licious and whatnot. Almost made me ask if I could watch him watch Slim watch Staceye but sumthing ’bout that don’t sound right….I think.

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
3:39 pm

@ Swiss – Thanks i will check out Web Crawler…just need and app for rentals.

lol @ “geek-dom”…i use teenage-dom.

SlimOne

December 1st, 2009
3:39 pm

Swiss – didn’t mean to tempt but you would have to live in an aluminum bubble or a padded room with tinted windows to stay temptation free. If I was a Mrs, we could take Dan’s idea and look at them together. Afterall, folks only buy playboy for the articles. A couple that reads adult material together, definitely plays..oops I mean stays together. LOL!…now put your horn up. ;-)

@Dan I’m not sure where Foots is. I haven’t heard from her nor have I been in the loop in Blogsville to know. I talked to her crazy cousin not too long ago and he is still crazy as ever.

Melo

December 1st, 2009
3:39 pm

takpat78@gmail… mutha*&%^&#@^& Slim 4 not having my email :lol:

Dream_n??

‘I can’t feel anything’, and ‘are you done already?

since u the one still kinda fresh,ull need the advice…..if a chic were to say that to me, i wld say this:”thats what u get for dating Rappers with greels,they leave ur nana toed Up!” :lol:

SlimOne

December 1st, 2009
3:42 pm

LMAO @ Sassy “Almost made me ask if I could watch him watch Slim watch Staceye but sumthing ’bout that don’t sound right….I think.” ha ha ha Now that was a good one.

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
3:42 pm

@ Slim – …i’ve yet rcvd updated pics of J.

December 1st, already…wow…a month from today it’ll be 2010…

Dan

December 1st, 2009
3:43 pm

@Sassy

Wouldn’t bother me in the least bit. Looks like it wouldn’t bother Slim either. But I don’t want to put words in her mouth.

@Slim

You ain’t never lied.

Melo

December 1st, 2009
3:44 pm

Raqi?? u still around??

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
3:45 pm

“takpat78@gmail… mutha*&%^&#@^& Slim 4 not having my email”

should no one not have that email…some’n wrong!

crackin’ up :lol:

SlimOne

December 1st, 2009
3:46 pm

Cee Sis just had some pics taken…she posted most of them on facebook. I’ll shoot you a text. That lil thang is walking all by herself and has 8 teeth already and she is only 10 months old…my dad said she’ll be working at her first job by next month. LMAO!

Dream_n--2 days until lil dreams bday

December 1st, 2009
3:46 pm

Sassy you are a fool… lmao!!
But it did sound kinda erotic..!!
WTH.. you got me thinking about Sassy!!!! :mrgreen:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
3:48 pm

Wouldn’t bother me in the least bit. Looks like it wouldn’t bother Slim either. But I don’t want to put words in her mouth.

That’s what I’m talkin bout Cat Daddy!…lol

Leggs

December 1st, 2009
3:50 pm

It’s the most cited email in blogsville!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
3:50 pm

Dream now you see what I’m talking ’bout…as I was typing that I had that “huh Shaggy”(best scooby-doo voice) look on my face. Things that make you go hhmmmmm……

Melo

December 1st, 2009
3:51 pm

some’n wrong??

CEE,jus means she dont digg me that much! :lol:

SlimOne,are they in my box now..

DO i need to close my door or put on ear phones….

Promise there are no yaheeee,yaheeeeyaheeee sounds!????..the kinda of sounds Asian gerlz make on their porno movies when its in deep or the mouf is working its magic?? :lol:

SlimOne

December 1st, 2009
3:52 pm

Sassy & Dan trying to take Slim back to her college days. hmmmm? lol

i'm swiss

December 1st, 2009
3:53 pm

“…If I was a Mrs, we could take Dan’s idea and look at them together…”

Say, Slim, I’ve got an even better idea — why don’t you bring those pics over & you & Mrs. Swiss can enjoy “reading the articles” while I video — er, I mean watch… :lol:

Dan

December 1st, 2009
3:53 pm

@Slim

I got the time, the spot and anything else you need.

@Sassy (see above comment)

SlimOne

December 1st, 2009
3:54 pm

Melo, the SEND button has already taken off. The only reason you’d need to close your door is if….well….you know. Enjoy!

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
3:54 pm

…daddy is prolly spoiling lil miss j…they are sweet at that age…

Leggs

December 1st, 2009
3:55 pm

Too funny, your email is the most cited in blogsville history@

Melo

December 1st, 2009
3:55 pm

Daaaamn….Slim!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I appreciate that Slim.
May our friendship get stronger! :lol:

Dream_n--2 days until lil dreams bday

December 1st, 2009
3:57 pm

I appreciate that Slim.
May our friendship get stronger

Melo you are a straight fool!! :lol:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
4:00 pm

Okaaay Dan I feel a tangential convo about to pop off and it’s not even Friday…hell Thursday for that matter.

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
4:01 pm

Slim, girl see what you started? Sounds like something our blogger BiCurious would be interested in…

Dream_n--2 days until lil dreams bday

December 1st, 2009
4:02 pm

Sounds like something our blogger BiCurious would be interested in… :shock:

W T H !!!

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
4:07 pm

…calm down Miss Dream_n…don’t get pulled in the fray…it’s nothing serious… :)

…funny…

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
4:10 pm

Sounds like something our blogger BiCurious would be interested in…

Dream we had/have one here that I’ve read so far but she never answered my question “Does it taste like chicken?”….lol.

SlimOne

December 1st, 2009
4:10 pm

@Melo you are a fool lol

@Cee EVERYone spoils her. So I can’t place the blame on just one person. :-)

@Sassy nope it’s not Freaky Friday or Trifling Thursday but it is Tentilating Tuesday. LOL j/k

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

December 1st, 2009
4:11 pm

I like how you said that Slim. That’s what’s up :lol:

Melo

December 1st, 2009
4:14 pm

Dream_n, these pics are het!!(not hot) for sure..i know some of uall ladies want a piece of the action..Just say so!

Im sending them to Queen,see if she gets jealous…”who send u that??”

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
4:15 pm

…like PoppaG would say…well says to me “grown folk stuff”…

Ha!

Dan

December 1st, 2009
4:15 pm

Wait I missed a woman that named herself Bi-Curious? Where was I? Why was I not informed?

I call shenanigans!

Leggs

December 1st, 2009
4:16 pm

Titilating….

Cemeeli

December 1st, 2009
4:19 pm

@ Dan – No, you were here. And 6′1′ was on the prowl…

Dream_n--2 days until lil dreams bday

December 1st, 2009
4:19 pm

Melo..

I can appreciate a beautiful body, male or female. Taking care of your appearance is a necessity for me.

No homo :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Dan

December 1st, 2009
4:20 pm

I mean, SD has always been cute; but I ain’t know she was getting it in like that.

Melo

December 1st, 2009
4:21 pm

Taking care of your appearance is a necessity for me

thats whats up Dream_n…..u got that email right??..

Lets see that body….

Dan

December 1st, 2009
4:22 pm

@CeeMee

Couldn’t been. Cause that would’ve gone in a more interesting manner.

Melo

December 1st, 2009
4:23 pm

Once u semd those pics Dream_n, im done..

U and Slim will have played ur part..

I aint even playing those lotto numbers that i had planned to play tonite ..

This,in my email box,is a bigger lotto

Dream_n--2 days until lil dreams bday

December 1st, 2009
4:24 pm

Your quota for body watching has been met for today… Melo :mrgreen: