It’s Human Nature, Really?
There is nothing more distracting to a good weekend of football then breaking gossip news reports about a high profile sports figure having an affair. I take that back, there is one thing more distracting, when said prominent sports figure allegedly argues with his wife and wrecks his SUV about having an affair.
While Tiger Woods is making all attempts at damage control, a lot of people are speculating about the entire situation. As always, a lot of people subscribe to the school of thought that anyone who is wealthy and powerful will never remain faithful. Then others think that monogamy is simply not natural. This argument always perplexes me because I have yet to see it this way.
What does it mean that it’s human nature to cheat? Is that logic simply based on biology?
I remember telling a guy that I wanted to be like the penguins and mate for life. He argued back that they ALL look alike, so of course it is easier for them to mate for life. GREAT. So much for my envy of penguin love!
Why do you think our society today views infidelity as a “natural” thing? It no longer shocks or awes us, does it?
Do you think our generation is learning a different perspective about fidelity? Ladies, were you told outright or indirectly that all men cheat? Is it something you were conditioned to prepare for and deal with when it happened?
Guys how do you think your views on fidelity were shaped? What is your position on monogamy being unnatural?
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Ohio lurker
November 30th, 2009
8:34 am
People who lack self control cheat. People who don’t value monogamy cheat. Today’s view on monogamy is based upon the idea of instant gratification without concern for the resulting consequences.
Lady J
November 30th, 2009
9:08 am
I was just told women can’t do what men do and women who cheat espcially first and get caught are doomed to hell….A natural doudble standard to me that can’t be argued…It is what it is…I just feel some men (women) really master this act while others fall short and get caught up….Then again it’s many women (men) who tolerate and turn their heads to the act and hold together the business partnership….Cheating goes way back and when I discovered by folk in the church I may have to go with it’s human nature bc he it a real act that occurs more often than we speak of….just my thoughts…..lol
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
9:11 am
Good morning All! Hope everyone enjoyed the holiday with family & friends or just your bottle of Holiday Spirits.
Was speaking with my dad this weekend about this topic. He states he doesn’t feel that all men cheat. He said he feels there is a small percentage of men who are faithful that wouldn’t cheat but of THAT percent…if given the opportunity of knowing the secret would never be found out…that they would do it. So go figure!
I wasn’t necessarily taught that all people cheat growing up, but I have heard it more often as an adult. I do believe as our society has grown technology wise (from pagers, to cell phones to laptops to internet, etc) as well as more media-fed/aware that it shapes for more distracting atmosphere. Access and distraction are a result of these advances. Our fast food world has bred an environment where folks are driven by instant gratification. As time goes on, values & moral foundations seem to wain. JMO
Jeff
November 30th, 2009
9:11 am
To put in terms evryone can relate to: for some men, the appeal of eroticism is the same as a “sale” sign is for some women. It’s an instinct. Not everyone acts on it but the natural, split second, instinctive response is the same. Men are shamed for having that impulse and women are encouraged to act on the “sale” sign impulse. Hence black friday. Nice circle back there, eh?
Jeff
November 30th, 2009
9:17 am
To answer the question in one sentence: No, every man doesn’t cheat just as every woman doesn’t get geeked up for black friday. But statistically…….
Melo
November 30th, 2009
9:27 am
All men cheat,Period!!!!
NY2GA, Inc.
November 30th, 2009
9:29 am
I do not believe that all men cheat. Some do actually value committment when they make one.
Do you think our generation is learning a different perspective about fidelity?
Now, this is a loaded question in itself. It could be its’ own blog topic IMO. This generation is very different. I will just say that some of the kids that I have come in contact with are very loose sexually, take too many risks and seem to have no standards. Fidelity is not high on the priority list. Instant gratification is the main priority and some of them will get from whomever is offering (male or female or both). When my friends 18 year old daughter said that she was meeting her girls down for a night out at the strip club so that she could try to find a good man, I pretty much threw up my hands. It truly is a different time.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
9:31 am
Happy Monday!
First of all, I hope that everyone enjoyed turkey day and was able to eat, rest and relax.
Now, is cheating human nature? I think it depends on what type of animal you relate to the most.
Are you a rat? Mate frequently like there is no tomorrow.
Are you a swan? Mate for life.
Maybe you are a dog? Running around the community providing your services to anything in heat.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
9:32 am
if given the opportunity of knowing the secret would never be found out…that they would do it
thanx u Slimone….
I like Tiger Woods and out of courtesy and due to my tremendous respect for him, I wont state what happened,suffice to say we was (sounding Swatslike)in Windemere Fl,in his neibhorhood, as my benefector’s guest!
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
9:32 am
Melo…
All men cheat,Period!!!!
Is this before or after the vows are spoken?
Dan
November 30th, 2009
9:33 am
Cheating is an act of convenience and pride.
If one has an overvalued (or under in some cases) sense of self and the opportunity to cheat, it’ll happen.
As for all (wo)men cheating, that’s just not true. Could it be most? Some? Yeah. But all, naw.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
9:35 am
When my friends 18 year old daughter said that she was meeting her girls down for a night out at the strip club so that she could try to find a good man,
Well hot dayum! Yes we are living in different times
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
9:36 am
@NYGA (When my friends 18 year old daughter said that she was meeting her girls down for a night out at the strip club so that she could try to find a good man, I pretty much threw up my hands. It truly is a different time.)
LOLOL! Well all the womens’ magazines tell us to go where the men are…LMAO! I wonder if a man were to meet a chick in the skrip club, what type of precedence that would set for how their dating experience would be thereafter…Hmmm?
Melo
November 30th, 2009
9:40 am
Is this before or after the vows are spoken?
Proffesor
its a lil more complicated than that…
Here is the deal,cheating is a state of mind…
when presented with a water tight situation or what seems like a water tight situation where they wont be found out,every man will cheat,Period!
Now,some here are going to tell yu that,”oh,my man has neva cheated as far as I know”..see,thats the thing…the opportunity has not presented itslef and it may neva..but thats beside the point.
Every woman,if it were me,should view every man as such and then take steps to mitigate against that happening..If u do that,u gangsta coz u know whats up and u doing whats required to protect ur relationship.
The pple who believe in the purity of men…I pity them coz they hurt the most when the reality sets it…..
But then again,they proly believe in God and Jesus and all that stuff,meaning,the believe in the fallibility of man..just not their marriage…Funny!!
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
9:42 am
@Slime and NYGA I was talking to a young man this weekend and he is handsome and one the right track. He was fussing about dating in Atlanta and his exact words were….”these heiffers are sitting up in the strip clubs NOW in the dayum way.”
From the way he spoke he is not interested in those women that are running to the strip club…he also mentioned a few other things about dating too…it was an interesting coversation I really did more listening than talking…maybe a probing question here or there
NY2GA, Inc.
November 30th, 2009
9:42 am
@Professor is… yes, indeed
@Slimone
I could speculate what tone that could set for dating (when a man meets a women at the strip club), but I’ll let a man answer. LOL.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
9:47 am
I wonder if a man were to meet a chick in the skrip club, what type of precedence that would set for how their dating experience would be thereafter…Hmmm?
SlimOne my marido and I were watching tv yesterday and he made a comment about how you meet a person can determine the nature of the relationship you will have with them. I was thinking sending a topic idea to WiseDiva about that.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
9:51 am
Dang Melo!
Have you read the issue of Essence magazine with Steve Harvey and his wife? He speaks on the fact that she is the best thing that ever happened to him and how he loves her to pieces.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
9:57 am
Good morning everyone. Hope all of you enjoyed your Thanksgiving with friends, family and loved ones. Out of all things to be thankful for, I must admit the best time I had was with lil leggs helping me clean the greens all the while this off-tune rugrat is singing in my ear everything from Cold Play, Green Day, Maroon 5 to Taylor Swift. I stood there amused wondering why she wasn’t belting out any hip hop tunes. Just having her by my side helping made me feel really good! Dinner was FAB!
I do not believe all men cheat. I feel those that cheat due so because they lack self-control, respect for their mate and are very selfish. All can turn off their sexual proclivities if they so chose to. I have never understood the strong desire to fulfill a sexual encounter with someone other than your mate all the while throwing caution, respect and honor to the wind!
NY2GA, Inc.
November 30th, 2009
9:58 am
Have you read the issue of Essence magazine with Steve Harvey and his wife? He speaks on the fact that she is the best thing that ever happened to him and how he loves her to pieces.
Yes. Maybe Steve will keep THIS woman.
I think it’s great that he has had such great business opportunities. However, sometimes I think the man is full of it from a relationship “expert” perspective. Next month Hill Harper will probably be on the cover talking about sustaining Black love. But, when you ask him about his own love life you hear crickets.
and with that I’m outta here!
SexyCool - Never Cooking Holiday Dinner Solo Again
November 30th, 2009
9:59 am
Three Words Daily – Gotta stay grindin’.
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
10:01 am
Melo (Every woman,if it were me,should view every man as such and then take steps to mitigate against that happening..If u do that,u gangsta coz u know whats up and u doing whats required to protect ur relationship) sorry forgot how to italicize
How in the world can you take steps to ‘mitigate against’ cheating happening in your relationship??? There, i’m sure, are women or men who are GREAT partners in their relationship who try their best not to have their partner lack for anything but yet still get cheated on. Unless you strap your spouse/partner to your back, take them everywhere they need to go and wipe their hiney’s when they take a poop I don’t believe there is anyway to CHEAT PROOF your relationship because if a person has that want or desire in their spirit it will happen. It’s called Free Will…
My uncle told one of his friends to just dabble gasoline on your hands or wrists after a night of cheating so it can drown out any signs/smells from the other women & your spouse will never know…try that on for size. lol
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
10:02 am
SCool do tell on the Holiday dinner. Are you still tired?
BTW, where is dream…I saw the frozen pound cake with the red top last night at the store…Sara Lee…LOL
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
10:03 am
I have been told by some very trusted men that all men do not cheat. It like everything else is a choice you make.
Because they don’t cheat does not mean the temptations aren’t there. It just means they choose to withstand those temptations.
Some people not only take their marriage and vows to heart, some also know that it’s not worth losing what you have for something that can turn out to be far less.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
10:04 am
SexyCool what happened?
Melo
November 30th, 2009
10:09 am
@Slimone…i did not talk of CHEAT PROFF..u did.
But to answer ur point,at any company u have ever wrked for…however sophisticated they may be in their risk mitigation efforts,pple still steal.But they cannot let down,they take all reasonable precautions.
Its the same way..there is no way u can control somebody who wants to just do it..but there is way u can reduce that happening to a good man or woman without leaving them to too much temptation.
For example,there are woman on this blog who have said they wont want to date nor marry a proff athelete.Pudsy here,pudsy there..u see my point.
U get it…?? U can stop it if smebody is bend on doing it openly and sissing u..but if ur guy came to u and said hes going out with some single chics to a party while u at wrk….how do u view that…??
SexyCool - Never Cooking Holiday Dinner Solo Again
November 30th, 2009
10:10 am
It’s not cheating until ya’ get caught. (I jest. I joke. I kid.)
Melo
November 30th, 2009
10:11 am
Actually,this is stupid topic,come to think of it…
It reminds me of the Bob Marley statement.”every body wants to go to heaven but nobody weants to die”
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
10:17 am
@SCool ~ What happened to your dinner?
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
10:18 am
I think there is only so much that can be discussed regarding dating, relationships and love…so all of the topics are just recycled some better than others…that is why the topics come off a little off here and there.
SexyCool - Never Cooking Holiday Dinner Solo Again
November 30th, 2009
10:19 am
I was pleased with how dinner turned out – for the most part. I wasn’t crazy about how the mac-n-cheese or the sweet potato pies turned out. But TheDude loved EVERYthing and so did his buddy that came and had dinner with us. So, I’d call it a success.
Since this was the first time not being a part of a ‘cooking committee’ and actually cooking of all that damn food by myself – that was some bllsht. I am really glad I planned it out over three days. If I’d waited until Thursday morning to do all of that, we would have ended up at Legg’s house or McDonald’s.
I am a fairly good cook, but I don’t cook because I love to/like to or even enjoy it. I cook because I need to eat and that’s how you keep a man.
(Leggs didn’t use your mac-n-cheese recipe because I wanted a smaller dish.)
Yoni masseuse
November 30th, 2009
10:20 am
dating is not that bad – folks just like to settle on the first thing that comes there way…thats the problem patients…we look at others and think..gee they SEEM happy..but you might not want what they have…all i say is do you…and why is he worrying about chicks in the strip club..you are there to poo cee watch and get your blue balls…those chicks in the club are either bi, with there side piece, lesbo, weed/pills/dope heads…or swingers…either way you dont want it…just trick off your money and keep it moving…dudes complain about these bust downs is killing me
btw did any of you guys see the cat on worldstarhiphop bragging about his new lace front wing…i am telling you the moist-ish is taking ova
abc
November 30th, 2009
10:29 am
Both male and female promiscuity has gained acceptance, and that’s not quite the same as undervaluing monogamy. You can’t undervalue that which you’ve never given or received.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
10:30 am
@SCool ~ we are always harder on ourselves when it comes to cooking for others. Your ND and his friend enjoyed the meal so yes, it was a success. It is a lot of cooking. When you want a batch of my mac n cheese, let me know and I’ll meet your somewhere and bring you a pan!
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
10:31 am
Soo did anyone have too much fun Black Friday?
Been Thru It All
November 30th, 2009
10:40 am
Sup people…
I’m with Melo on this, but with a twist…all men would cheat if they could…its not about lack of control, feelings, or any other garbage…throughout history men have done things we really shouldn’t have and just worried about the consequences later…
ex. “He Chris C., you want to sail these three boats half way around the world looking for new land.. You might not make it, you might lose most of your crew and get attacked by pirates?”
Chris C: ahh what the he// lets do it!!!
ex. “hey Albert…we need you to come on down and help us make a bomb to destroy cities and leave it inhabital for decades…”
Albert E: “sure why not…whats the worst that can happen….”
Just like cheating, we live in the now….we will worry about the future when we get there…lmao
SexyCool - Never Cooking Holiday Dinner Solo Again
November 30th, 2009
10:41 am
TheDude and I got a sale paper on Thursday to see if there was anything that we just couldn’t pass up in the sales and found nothing to get excited about.
TheDude had to work, so I declared Friday an official “Do Nothing Day” and sat my behind around the house all dern day.
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
10:45 am
As to the topic, cheating takes too much energy.
At this point in my life, I’ve learned that if my relationship is worth saving, then the energy that I would put into cheating is better directed by putting it into the relationship.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
10:46 am
I started my round one shopping Friday morning at 5:00 am…
Around noon I finshed breakfast and went home and took a long nap. Around 4:00pm I went for round 2.
All in all I had a lot of fun and I bought everything except for one purse (it was not on sale for the most part) so I am pretty much good to go. I just have one more gift to buy and I need my bags and paper to start wrapping.
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
10:47 am
Well this was my first year participating in Black Friday…went to Wally World for a laptop all early n ish…only to find out I was in the wrong freaking line for the laptop I wanted…all that for nuttin
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
10:47 am
Scool…will you host Christmas Dinner.
I am debating and getting the menu together at the same time.
abc
November 30th, 2009
10:49 am
Examples like those are just plain stupid. Both are incorrect characterizations, and neither are very relevant. In spite of acronyms indicating laughter, they’re not very funny, either. Just stupid!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
10:50 am
Naw, I’ll be at somebody else’s house for Christmas or cooking a regular Sunday dinner type meal.
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
November 30th, 2009
10:51 am
I do not believe all men cheat. I feel those that cheat due so because they lack self-control, respect for their mate and are very selfish. All can turn off their sexual proclivities if they so chose to.
Ditto Leggs.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
10:51 am
LOL SexyCool. So the food was good it’s just the time and energy it took to put it together that you are not caring too much for?
I had planned to do stop some places and do some shopping on the ride back home but wasn’t really feeling up to it Friday morning.
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
10:52 am
Unless – TheDude requests something more.
Been Thru It All
November 30th, 2009
10:52 am
Relevant….u serious?
This is a dating blog…we talking about cheating…with grown folks…all this ish is funny…
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
10:53 am
@Slime check out some of the cyber Monday sales you should be able to find a laptop for cheap.
Dan
November 30th, 2009
10:54 am
Um, abc
would you care to elaborate?
@Prof
5am? like, in the morning? I don’t know anyone or anything for which I would leave the house at 5am to buy. You’re a good one.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
10:54 am
I agree that cheating just takes too much energy. That energy that can be used trying to right what is wrong in your relationship. If you try to make it right and it doesn’t work maybe it’s time to get out instead of doing all the sneaking and hiding to be with someone for only minutes of carnal pleasure. It ain’t worth it.
And if it’s an emotional bond that you are seeking outside of your relationship that is definitely a sign to get out.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
10:55 am
I saw Blindside and Precious this weekend. Both very good movies. That last scene in Precious showcased Mo’nique’s acting. Really liked the strong attitude and open heart the mother in Blindside had. I can see me doing the same thing she did!
Living in the Moment ~
Married Man: Wow, that woman over there looks hot. Let me approach and strike up a conversation.
Woman: Why is this man walking over to me.
Married Dude: Hello, my name is MD and I was admiring you from across the room and had to meet you.
Woman: Thank you.
MD: Are you here alone?
Woman: Yes, I am. Just taking some time to myself.
MD: Well, can I sit and buy you a drink?
Woman: Thank you, but no thanks!
MD: What’s wrong? I can’t buy you drink?
Woman: I’m not in the habit of taking drinks from men I just meet.
MD: Well, we can get to know each other a little more if you like.
Woman: Sorry, but I’m married and can’t get to know you any better.
MD: Well, I’m married as well so we have that in common.
Woman: No, we don’t have that in common because I’m willing to stop right here and you want to proceed to get to know me better!!
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
10:56 am
LOL @ abc
Lady J
November 30th, 2009
10:56 am
Raqi that emotional cheating is not what anyone wants….it is though a coward way out…just be adults and handle the internal issue or plan the exit plan…seriously…
Lady J
November 30th, 2009
10:59 am
no lie Leggs this one dude told me I would be ok if I were married bc he is and it wold be easier…he is 12 yrs older than me go figure…also this other dude was talking to me recently on how him and his gf are doing well and his wife of 18yrs is like is bff however there are two girlfriends in the mix and he just let one go and really vibe with the other….man grown folk do what the hell they want most times without regards…
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
11:03 am
Dan…yep like 5 am in the morning…it is a tradition with my sisters and I and we love it…this year I had something special to get for one of my nephews so the crooked smile on his face was worth it!
Leggs…my sister was telling me about this lady that met this guy and he told her straight up that he was married. The guy was an engineer for a major fortune 500 company and retired officer from the army. Long story short the lady took his number and continued to talk to him. Before the guy left he told her I told you up front I was married so you must want to get with me because sex is all I have to offer. The lady was mad saying she cannot deal with all this upfront talking and stuff.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
11:03 am
whats the topic again???
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
11:04 am
Leggs – I saw Precious too…Can ANYONE tell me what was so great about Mariah Carey’s performance??? I mean just because she went without makeup & a bad wig constitutes a nomination for an award? Yeah whatever…guess it’s the same sort of thinking when Halle got an award for Monsters Ball…”make me feeellll guuuuddd” said while humping around naked looking like a dayum fool!
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
11:04 am
Dan I forgot to add that we should have been up at 4am, but I need my beauty sleep so I still paid full price for the item…it was still worth it, though
Lady J
November 30th, 2009
11:04 am
one more story another guy acknowledged is mistress of nine years and the divoce came after the baby was born to the mistress and the wife lost her bay and now he’s not with either…yeah raqi it is too much wasted energy….life is what one makes it…
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
11:07 am
Leggs I agree. The problem is marriage and commitment are just not sacred to many these days. Especially to those that step outside of their relationship. Many people want to fault the outsider but the outsider is not the one going against their vows and tainting the marriage. Pleasure it the downfall of the younger generation now.
While cheating is nothing new, it’s wide spread these days.
abc
November 30th, 2009
11:08 am
Elaborate? Christopher Columbus’s theories about the nature of the planet, at a time when over half of it was unknown to the civilization he lived in, was a burning passion that consumed him for years until he was able to persuade anyone to finance his exploration, and then due to the extreme financial windfall to be realized if a more direct trade route to the orient was reached. Now, everyone knows that — elementary school children know that. To characterize it as an example of male disregard for consequences is just stupid!
Einstein didn’t directly participate in A-bomb development.
Just sayin. It’s all for entertainment, sure, but even jokes need to be funny, else they ain’t jokes — just that stupid thing you said. Get it? Not to diss you too badly. It’s all in fun, really, even when the fun is in making fun of someone else.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
11:09 am
I did not know that Chelsea Clinton was engaged
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/34206010/ns/today-white_house/?GT1=43001
Melo
The topic is what animal most resembles your dating escapades? Are you a rat, swan, dog, lion etc. and why?
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
November 30th, 2009
11:11 am
The lady was mad saying she cannot deal with all this upfront talking and stuff.
Married (wo)men, give that “I’m married shpeel” upfront b/c that’s always an easy out and they think it absolves them from any ensuing drama/guilt but it doesn’t. They think if they say it upfront and the other person still decides to give it a go then all is good b/c they knew upfront what the deal was….that’s bull.
Lady J
November 30th, 2009
11:13 am
Raqi what do you mean by younger generation would that include late 30s early 40s….they seem to be IMO very busy to me looking for instant gratification also…what do you think???
Melo
November 30th, 2009
11:13 am
Proff..
Lion is my totem,so maybe i resemble that, dont know 4 sure….
My zulu folk hunt,like lions..they wrk hard for their families,they make big fams,pop 4,5,6…8 kids easy… but theyr’e twinkle toes too with their instruments.
Make sense??
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
11:13 am
And try this on for size
Male co-worker to female coworker: Hi there, what’s your name again?
Female: Slim
Male: So when are we going to talk?
Female looking confused: Um..talk?..Talk about what, I thought you were talking to me just now.
Male: I mean talk talk. So do you have a boyfriend or anything?
Female: Yes I do. And you?
Male: Well…I’m in a situation.
Female: A situation? Is that what they’re calling it these days?
Male: Um, something like that. SO, when are you going to let me take you out to lunch or dinner?
Female: I don’t see that happening. I’m quite sure my bf would not find it appropriate going out with someone and plus lawd knows what your ’situation’ is.
Male: Well you’re in a relationship and I’m in a situation. There are ways around that.
Female: I don’t think so.
Another female coworker to the one being hit on by Mr. Situation: Hey, was ole boy trying to holla at you?
Chick 1: Yeah and even kept on after I told him I was in a r’ship and after he said he had some sort of situation.
Chick 2: Gurrrl, he always try to talk to the new girl. He tried to holla at the last 3 chicks that started working here. And his little situation is he has SIX dayum kids! ha ha ha!
Chick 1: Ohhhh hayo naw..how are you going to call 6 kids a ’situation’? That’s funny.
Chick 2: And they are different baby mama’s too. Not sure how many though
Chick 1: Well I sure as hayo hope he’s not looking for someone to have the next kid with. I need to make sure he doesn’t even breathe on me.
(Chick 1 now taking long way to the bathroom as to not pass by his office to catch that Baby Mama Flu)
Been Thru It All
November 30th, 2009
11:20 am
@abc…dawg let it go…you don’t like what I wrote, don’t read…simple
killn me with this crying in your wine ish….if you can do better, DO BETTER……
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
11:25 am
The lady was mad saying she cannot deal with all this upfront talking and stuff.
Now, that was funny because I think she may have been offended that he called her out. She may have been thinking “engineer w/$$$ (so what he’s married)” and he’s knowing all he has to offer was sex, no $$$.
@SlimOne, that about sums up Mariah’s character. So what she turned away to wipe a tear from that one eye when Mo’nique was telling her story. If you want to show some range of emotion do it so the camera/audience can see it. Hell, I can cock my head to the side, turn away and wipe a tear away. Don’t need any acting coaches to show me how to do that!
Off topic ~ I stopped at a neighboring waterhole after the movie yesterday with a girlfriend. I was casual with sneakers, jeans, sweatshirt and cap on my head. She was in boots, tight jeans and sweater with a long arse horse’s hairpiece clipped to the middle of her head. It was nice, but very long. Anyway, we’re sitting there with our beer and wings. This guy walks up to us and asks me my name. I told him and introduced him to my friend. He asked if he could sit with us for a moment. Just then her phone rang and it was from a dude she’s been waiting to hear back from for the past 7 days. She eagerly steps outside and the man sits down next to me. A few idle chatter and she comes back in. She sees him give me his number and he walks away. This heifer had the nerve to say: Here I am dressed in a nice outfit and you’re sitting here with cap and sweatshirt on getting someone’s number. I told her plain and simple, some men like the naturalness of a woman and kept it moving….
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
11:27 am
Melo I hear ya with the lion esp as it relates to the twinkle toes lions are good on their feet.
I am an eagle they are majestic and beautiful plus they mate for life…there is no need in sneaking around it wears ya down and age you.
i'm swiss
November 30th, 2009
11:28 am
I would say it probably is human nature to cheat, but that’s not a justification for doing so. Fidelity is a conscious choice to defy those carnal temptations for the sake of your relationship — and that’s what makes it a special thing. If it were human nature to be monogamous, then doing so would be no big deal.
As for Melo’s hypothesis of the air-tight, no-chance-of-getting-caught situation… I can only answer for myself in saying that I honestly don’t know what I would do in that situation. I would like to say that I wouldn’t, but the truth is, I can’t say that for certain.
What I can say, and what I make a point to do always, is that I try to handle my business in such a way so as to never put myself in that situation. Aside from the obvious situations to avoid, I also make sure that Mrs. Swiss has access to all of my financial information, knows all of my computer passwords, phone passwords, etc. — so that I have no easy way of keeping secrets from her. Temptation is part of life, but it can be mitigated if your SO means enough to you to do so.
Yoni masseuse
November 30th, 2009
11:29 am
@slim..now that is funny….thats why you dont dip your pen in company ink
Melo
November 30th, 2009
11:31 am
@Proff..do u guys have/use totems in ur fam tradition…what is that eagle symbolism??
totem or zodiac sign??
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
11:32 am
I think cheating is the same today as it was any other time period in history. Long time ago people swept things under the rug and gave an illusion of a happy family not to mention most men back then could do as pleased because they were the provider…no child support laws and divorce was an abomination so people just accepted more and got away with more back in the day.
abc
November 30th, 2009
11:33 am
Only an idiot is promiscuous. Rather than realize up front the extreme hassles of having to deal with more than one chick at a time — and/or thinking that they won’t have to deal with them — idiot-boys go for easy scores and fill up entire baggage trains. Newsflash, it ain’t worth it, and everyone already knew that. To be married and promiscuous is even more idiotic. There are no situations in which there’s no way you can get caught — that would require both parties to not be idiots, and promiscuity already demonstrates that both are idiots!
Don’t bother asking a promiscuous chick their real ‘number’, because they’ll never tell you the truth about it — nope, never. Don’t bother. In fact, just don’t ask, anyway. Chances are you don’t really want to know.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
11:33 am
can only answer for myself in saying that I honestly don’t know what I would do in that situation. I would like to say that I wouldn’t, but the truth is, I can’t say that for certain
Thank u for the validation Swiss!!
Ur doubt is good enough 4me…..
Lady J-When we start having unchangeable expectations, we will start to see unquestionable change
November 30th, 2009
11:33 am
I agree Professor….
Melo
November 30th, 2009
11:34 am
Don’t bother asking a promiscuous chick their real ‘number’, because they’ll never tell you the truth about it — nope, never
abc is mad at chics now!!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
11:38 am
I thought the new blog was suppose to STOP being a greedy machine and not eat our posts!!!
“The lady was mad saying she cannot deal with all this upfront talking and stuff.”
I think she may have gotten mad because he called her out. She saw an “engineer w/$$$”, and he saw a woman willing to take his number after being told he was married for a sexual encounter.
Off topic ~ I met a gf at the movie casually dressed. I had on sneakers, jeans, sweatshirt and cap on my head. She had on boots, tight jeans tucked inside and a tight sweater with a long horse tail hair piece stuck to the middle of her head. After leaving the movies yesterday, my gf and I stopped at a neighboring waterhole for beer and wings. A little into our time there, this man stops my our table and introduces himself to me. I introduce the both of us to him. Her phone rings and it’s the guy she’s been waiting to hear back from for the past 6 days…6 days and he hadn’t returned any of her calls or texts. She jumps up and eagerly exits to the parking lot. When she returns she see him writing his number down for me. When he says bye to the both of us the h e i f e r says she surprised anyone approached me with me so casually dressed. I looked at her and said as politely as I could muster “you know, a lot of men like to see the naturalness of a woman, and not all that beauty hype and hair accessories.” That shet her up for a few!
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
11:41 am
Awwww Swisss….
I know dudes who say they won’t even change their phone number if they were to get married, let alone give their SO access to anything other than the kitchen. lol
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
11:46 am
MeloNo we do not have a family crest or totems. Besides the bald eagle being our national emblem I just think it is a beautiful and majestic creature.
i'm swiss
November 30th, 2009
11:50 am
“I know dudes who say they won’t even change their phone number if they were to get married, let alone give their SO access to anything other than the kitchen. lol”
Hi, SlimOne…
The way I see it, if I wanted to continue being a man-wh@re, I would have stayed single. I’ve had my share of (risky) fun, but I’m older now & past all that foolishness. I wouldn’t have gotten married if I didn’t want it to last, so I’m going to do everything I can to make sure it does. And, of course, it helps that I’ve got the finest lil’ mama I’ve ever laid eyes on waiting for me at home…
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
11:52 am
Morning Ya’ll!
okay I had a great time with the fam in VA! Saw my new niece and had some great Auntie time!
Food was great, gotta love seafood!
Shopping – did some online for Lil Mo thursday night and made out great! I will finish him off this friday then its on to the easy folk (brother, sister, mom & dad)
On topic:…..yeah, well. I was never told that all men cheat, just that women of yesterday tolerated a lot more than I HAVE to.
abc
November 30th, 2009
11:53 am
Nah, I ain’t mad at chicks! That’s an easy one, though — you can double the number a chick will tell you, and cut the number in half a man will tell you, or something like that.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
11:53 am
Dang Leggs~ even if she thought that she should not have said that mess. We were talking about the same thing this weekend. About how everyone dresses up in Atlanta and you do not see blue jeans and sneakers instead you see nice stilletos with premium jeans and the LV or Gucci bag. Well I am happy to know that it is still appreciated. Have you spoken to dude yet? Keep us posted on the connection.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
12:00 pm
you can double the number a chick will tell you, and cut the number in half a man will tell you
@abc,sexx theory!
loosely translated,females whore more than they tell and guys whore less than they tell.
See females,we arent as bad as uall!
U,need Jesus
SlimOne
November 30th, 2009
12:02 pm
@Swiss (I wouldn’t have gotten married if I didn’t want it to last, so I’m going to do everything I can to make sure it does)
Well, you are one who walked into the marriage with what it was intended for. Many folks get married these days to shut the nagging gf/baby mama up…or just to keep the chick from going elsewhere so they get married but continue to live life of a single person. Or some chicks get married for sake of money, living the life, etc…folks to it all for different reasons.
bluestocking
November 30th, 2009
12:02 pm
Immature men tend to cheat, for sure. I’m a firm believer in the “sowing your wild oats” theory for both men and women. Try the book Act Like a Gentleman, Think Like a Woman for an unusual but true take on this stuff.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
12:11 pm
okay I had a great time with the fam in VA! Saw my new niece and had some great Auntie time!
Mo were you in Richmond? You probably know who stole my rings then. I’ll give a $1000 if you throw your cousins under the bus. LOL
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
12:14 pm
Raqi I am hoping and praying that these are not your wedding rings that were stolen.
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
12:14 pm
Are you the author?
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
12:18 pm
@Professor ~ I know, right! Oh well. She kept running her hands through that hair distracting me. Listening to her last night reaffirmed what a lot of us talk about on this blog. He has verbablly told her what he want and what he doesn’t want, but she’s not hearing him. I had to take her by her shoulders and repeat what he said thinking if she heard those same honest words from my mouth she might get a chance to really hear. Here it goes:
Dude: I’m sorry I haven’t been returning your calls but I’ve been thinking.
Her: Thinking about what?
Dude: Thinking about us and that although I really like you, we aren’t going to work out. I don’t want to to date a parent on the team. I want to keep my dates out of my business being a coach. But you can come over tonight and we can talk.
Her: Ok, I’ll come over so we can talk.
ME: If you go over there you will be talking on your back because he already told you the two of you won’t work. He’s doesn’t want to date any parents on the team.
Her: No, he wants to talk so when he calls I’m going over.
Her call to me this morning: Whining…he didn’t call me back.
ME to her: Well, listen to what he said by not calling back. Keep it moving and don’t push up on someone who doesn’t want to be pushed up on!!! The scent of eagerness/desperation on any woman stinks!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
12:21 pm
@Mo ~ glad you had a good time with your kinfolk and your new niece.
@Rai ~ someone stole your rings….how trifling!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
12:23 pm
Raqi – Now see you are soo wrong! LOL!
Your rings were stolen?!?!? I was in Richmond and I have an uncle who is a cop. What happened? I can also call “Pookie-n-Nem” to check around if need be!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
12:23 pm
If you go over there you will be talking on your back
@Leggs,with that type heifer,if a man phlucks her,its an even bigger problem.
Some females think a man sleeping with them is validation that they luv them….
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
12:25 pm
Cheating is cool when its not happening to you.. See its no fun when the Rabbit got the gun.. Once you have gone thru a situation where you have been cheated on by the one YOU love.. It Sucks Donkey Ballz.. The random thoughts of your babe being plowed by another dude should be enough to wake you up to cheating.. Its way easier to be honest.. Tell people what you want and expect so when its not there you bounce without the guilty conscience.. I used to be a big cheater but now I tell it upfront as to what it is so the chick can say whether or not she wants to get with this PIMPIN..
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
12:26 pm
And the wouldn’t be dating, they’d just have a ’situation’.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
12:26 pm
Cheaters are also Liars and I didnt want to be affiliated (for real) with being a known liar..
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
12:28 pm
BlueStock – Thats the Problem.. Too many Dudes acting like B!tches..
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
12:28 pm
IDK – That song has been stuck in my head all morning.
Baby boy, can you get with this pimpin’?
That and All the way turned up!!!! – they KEPT playing that during the Tech/GA game Saturday. ~lol~
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
November 30th, 2009
12:34 pm
Too many Dudes acting like B!tches..
Ain’t that the truth….
Baby boy won’t you get with my pimpiiin…..try it out,try it out…..try it out,yeaaaahh
Dan
November 30th, 2009
12:40 pm
@DK
You got a generation of dudes raised by women and the most predominent male in their lives are images in pop culture (Tupac never broke up with mommy).
So all this false bravado and fake thuggery ends up washing over these young cats without real guidance.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
12:40 pm
Leggs your friend need to keep her azz home…if a man ignores you for six days he is not doing any profound thinking that early in meeting you he just don’t want you.
Melo…you like that talking on your back part…
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
12:42 pm
He’s probably already messing with somebody else on the team.
Love, Beautiful
November 30th, 2009
12:46 pm
jammin’ to *EVERYTHING* by my gurl Jody Watley! the 80’s were so awesome.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5_lFB1zk1A
Love, Beautiful
November 30th, 2009
12:48 pm
ALL MEN DON’T CHEAT!
i will never ever be surprised or shocked if it happened to me again. i’ll be like whateva . . . did you bring my #1 from Mickey D’s? lol.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
12:49 pm
She says she’s listening to me, but I don’t think so. Just text me saying “I miss him so much and I want to call him, please talk me out of it.” When I’m asked to do things like that I keep it real. She says I’m making sense but do I have to be so blunt. Hell, if I could I would crack open your skull to see if anything was inside. This man don’t want cha. He got what he wanted from you, and now he wants to keep this dating away from his duties as a coach. You have to got to be kidding me if you don’t see you’ve been played and now ditched.
So all this false bravado and fake thuggery ends up washing over these young cats without real guidance. Personally, I like the term that’s being used in 2009 = Moist Dudes!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
12:50 pm
Dan – A lot of these women raised by their Moms got the wrong info also.. A bitter Mom is the worst thing for a little girls psyche..
Love, Beautiful
November 30th, 2009
12:51 pm
men are hunters by nature. i learned this the hard way. if i knew what i know now, i’ll still have my family.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
12:51 pm
He’s probably already messing with somebody else on the team.
You forgot to add that he is using lines out the same playbook…the kids’ moms are feeling all giddy and special.
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
12:53 pm
Beautiful…if you don’t mind please explain that 12:51 for me…I think I have the wrong idea on what you are saying
Melo
November 30th, 2009
12:55 pm
Melo…you like that talking on your back part
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
12:57 pm
Leggs – I referee for the Lil tykes and boy the mama’s be all over anybody that shows interest in their child.. I get a mama all in my grill about a supposed bad call only to turn into a mild flirting situation talkin bout “Dont you be out there calling those call on my son.. Imma get you if you do”. I just laugh and walk away cause I aint there to get some sex.. Im actually there to call the game and after running up and down the court I aint trying to chit chat nobody up.. The coaches already bout to catch one after the game so it really isnt a good time..
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
November 30th, 2009
12:58 pm
Tupac never broke up with mommy…So all this false bravado and fake thuggery ends up washing over these young cats without real guidance.
He sure didn’t and I think if he and some of the other greats were around most of these young ‘uns wouldn’t be actin like they do.
Love, Beautiful
November 30th, 2009
12:59 pm
being bitter is a sad thing. i have asked myself a millions times if i felt bitter and my answer was always no.
i want him to be happy. we both wouldn’t be happy if we were together. that’s just fact even though we still love one another. and i feel blessed that he married someone who will (hopefully) love him and take care of him. and also who has been a wonderful step mom to my baby boy.
when he was sad after i moved to atl, he used to talk about quitting his job and giving up. no no no. i seen my child support fly right out the window. lol. i need her there. and whatever she is doing, i pray she keeps doing it.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
1:08 pm
Lets change subject coz i see,some females about to cry,pining for cheating and gone husbands…
Hw was football..ur team win,tell us about it??
Falcons, just limped to a tch down and win…
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
1:15 pm
As for football my team won…those mighty falcons.
I am trying to figure out how to get over these Monday blues…I am sleepy and sluggish. Maybe I will have some coffee for lunch…
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
1:16 pm
@IDK ~ one should know if the coach is interested in you. I’d admit I was interested in one of lil leggs coaches, but he didn’t reciprocate the interest so I let it go. I’m not the type to get up in someone’s face making sure they see me. We are friends to this day simply because we respected each other’s feelings, he didn’t feel the same for me and he knew I wouldn’t let him step to me with a bunch of empty words/compliments. My friend was used for the pantydrop and she feel for it. Now she’s all warm and fuzzy inside and he’s moving on hoping he can keep a foot in the door. I might have to pluck her in the forehead before week is out.
Not football, Melo. However, watching Blindside I understood the positions a little more (LOL). Just a little!
Professor is.....
November 30th, 2009
1:19 pm
Leggs how long did your friend and coach date?
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
1:22 pm
That the $1 mil question – get this, 2 freaking months and she’s goo goo gaa gaa wanting to cut her damn wrists! Uggh!
Luvbug
November 30th, 2009
1:22 pm
Way to go, Yo!! (voice of uncle on Everybody Hates Chris)…I know it’s not a well known reference…but it tickles me non the least.
Hope you’re not the last of the Mohicans.
When it comes to self control and follow through, people upside down like the real estate market…and not shame…that’s the kicker.
Oh…I don’t believe all guys cheat…I’ve met a few that weren’t dating me.
Luvbug
November 30th, 2009
1:23 pm
That was for Swiss
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
November 30th, 2009
1:23 pm
My friend was used for the pantydrop and she feel for it. Now she’s all warm and fuzzy inside and he’s moving on hoping he can keep a foot in the door. I might have to pluck her in the forehead before week is out.
Sounds like she might need an intervention Leggs…and when you pluck her in the forehead ask her “Is this thing ONNN?”. It sounds like she wants to make a relatioship out of a “hit and run” when maybe it should’ve either: 1. Been a MUTUALLY understood bootey call or 2. Never should’ve happened ’cause she sounds kinda “sprung there”.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
1:23 pm
Yes ladies somebody got me for me rings. I have only been wearing everyday for like 4 years but I still feel naked without them.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
1:35 pm
Ok im back for a minute
Leggs – Old Girl is a mess for sure! I need her to stop all the dramatics, 2 months!!! Whatever….
Raqi – I (ahem) LOST my rings (Mo now putting on her Blog-bullet proof vest) so I know that feeling you are talking about. You have been wearing them so long its like your skin.
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
1:37 pm
I’m confused. So, the coach and chick were seeing each other for a few months? Then, he doesn’t call for 6 days? And when he does, he says he doesn’t want to date a team mom? Even though that’s exactly what he’s been doing for some months?
Were these real dates for the last few months? Or were they hookups?
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
1:38 pm
@Raqi, again, trifling!!!
Last night I told her to think with her head and not her heart! She’s 40 years old! Ok, I’ll take that back. A heart knows nothing about how old the brain is. Hrrmmmphh!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
1:44 pm
SCool/Proff,hes been hitting for 2 mthns
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
1:44 pm
Mo, you “lost” your rings? LOL How did you manage to do that?
SexyCool, I am thinking sorta like you. Leggs ask your girl were they dating or was she “dating” him and he didn’t know about it.
One of the worst situations to be in is one where you are in the relationship all by yourself.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
1:46 pm
Leggs, it may be one of those situations where he led her to believe one thing when in fact his intentions were another. After he had his fill, or possible met someone else he likes more, he no longer wanted to entertain a “situation” with your friend.
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
November 30th, 2009
1:48 pm
Last night I told her to think with her head and not her heart! She’s 40 years old!
One would want to think that a 40 yr. old would have the mental wherewithall to “recognize” at this point in the game but I’s wrong. Maybe he did lead her on or then again she may’ve read more into it than he did…either way SHE should’ve been more discriminatory with the cookie and HE should’ve said all of that “not dating a parent” crap upfront…..or did he?
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
1:48 pm
@SCool ~ that’s the exact points I made to my gf. Told her he knew going in he didn’t want to date a team mom but did want to sample her product. He warmed her up enough for them to have a 4-hr romp session. She didn’t go into detail, but I could see she was rabid at the mouth just mentioning it. She’s beyond strung. Told her why would she want to be in a relationship that’s one-sided. He told her he didn’t want to mix things only after he got his chocolate balls twirled around a creamy snatch. He knew before then he wasn’t going to take this any further and this is what she needs to see. She can’t get past that the guy likes her and their love making was intense. I told her in no uncertain terms so freaking what he likes you. That don’t mean squat! It’s not even close to first base. You ran a home run skipping around the bases not even touching any of them. And for the record, you guys didn’t make love. He freaked you and you freaked him, that’s sex!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
1:49 pm
Sounds like she’s going to have to charge this one to the game. And keep stepping. And really, she will be more desirable to him if she just steps off.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
1:52 pm
He told her he didn’t want to mix things only after he got his chocolate balls twirled around a creamy snatch
ouch shamza..Leggs please dont do that to me,im having my lunch!
her and their love making was intense! yeah,he got stameeena….
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
1:52 pm
If she stays acting sprung, he’s gone dog dasht outta her.
Raqi...The Ringless One
November 30th, 2009
1:55 pm
he knew going in he didn’t want to date a team mom but did want to sample her product
Legg she probably isn’t his only victim. He probably tells that to all of them after getting his fill. I bet if she got to know some of the other moms she may find out there are others.
Dream_n- 1 day til turkey day
November 30th, 2009
1:57 pm
peeping in
Thanksgiving was absolutely entertaining/fabulous….
As to the cheating topic… It really shows ones character if they cheat on their significant other.. One day you’ll have to grow up. Or hell just stay single. Human nature my azz.. Human nature is you having to eat, breathe, mate… Cheating is a conscious decision.
Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)
November 30th, 2009
1:58 pm
He warmed her up enough for them to have a 4-hr romp session. She didn’t go into detail, but I could see she was rabid at the mouth just mentioning it.
See there…sounds like she got a case of “d**k on the brain” and after a four hour session that’s probably all it is but she needs to keep it moooving. Call a spade a spade and let it be.
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
1:58 pm
Forgot to take my countdown off.. lol
As for the yams ladies.. I lost, but got an A for effort… I think I put too much nutmeg in there. They said it tasted kinda bland.. but I had a real lesson in the kitchen with the sis and the mom…
Melo
November 30th, 2009
1:59 pm
Enter your comments here
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
2:00 pm
I too told her she would be more desirous if she wasn’t running behind him. She’s getting my hot by being dumb. It’s only been too months and she’s seriously pining for this dude. Going over the deepend like this in such a short period of time is sickening. There’s no way on God’s green Earth I could have these type of feelings knowing it’s one-sided! She’s a prime example of women digging their own grave!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
2:00 pm
Sorry, Melo!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
2:01 pm
she probably isn’t his only victim
NOW,shes a victim???
a goat,wilingly entering a lion’s den is a victim????
What happenned to her brains??
On lease??
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
2:01 pm
As to him not calling for six days, it was because he was spending the holidays with the one he LOVES.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
2:03 pm
It’s the boys track team coach and I’m just glad I don’t have to witness her making a fool out of herself.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
2:07 pm
a goat,wilingly entering a lion’s den is a victim???? I gotcha, Melo!
You are right as well, SCool!
@Dream_n, keep trying and don’t get discouraged. Do you think you used a lot of sugar???? If they think it was bland and you felt you used a lot, double or triple how much sugar you used.
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
2:07 pm
I can promise you – if she starts treating him like he was just a f##k, he will pay attention to that. It probably won’t make him pursue her seriously, but it will make him sit up and take notice.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
2:10 pm
Yep yep!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
2:10 pm
if she starts treating him like he was just a f##k, he will pay attention to that
now,thats gangsta SCool!
Dan
November 30th, 2009
2:12 pm
It’s the Eddie Murphy “raw” doctrine in action.
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
2:14 pm
I’m just sayin’. ~lol~
Love, Beautiful
November 30th, 2009
2:16 pm
and she needs to treat him like she got other options! which she prolly does. he’s blockin’ the ONE. jus sayin’.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
2:21 pm
but Scool/Beautiful..wldnt that be faking it..u know,geting killed softly inside but putting up a pretense.jus sayin’…??
If she does that,im sure hell come back for her….
But they wil be jus phluccking each other again…….
Sexx is addictive!
I think Leggs’ friend is addicted!
Love, Beautiful
November 30th, 2009
2:21 pm
starting my facebook page tonight! my lil sis and sister-n-law has been on me for months to get wit da program. lol. they IM each other all day talkin’ bout nutn. they silly. lol.
Love, Beautiful
November 30th, 2009
2:24 pm
@Melo
if she takes a look around, she will then notice all that she has been missin’. it’s not faking.
(been there)
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
2:29 pm
Melo – In this scenario, she will only die if she allows herself to do so. She needs to take charge of the frickin’ situation and turn the tables on o’boy.
He is the one that set the rules of engagement. She didn’t ask for the game, but since she’s being forced to play it, she may as well do so by her rules and she should play to win. (Although, there is no real winner in this kinda bllsht. It’s all figurative, at this point.)
As to sex being addictive, she just needs to find a new drug. That is all.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
2:29 pm
it’s not faking..
@Beautiful
its faking if u pretending not to like it…..
I think she shld jus get under another man,like u always recommend!
That will take away her hunger,dont u think…
Melo
November 30th, 2009
2:30 pm
As to sex being addictive, she just needs to find a new drug.
we agree!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
2:33 pm
Actually, I should have said a new supplier for said drug of choice.
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:03 pm
Melo fell in love with that comment…he almost dropped his lernch
He told her he didn’t want to mix things only after he got his chocolate balls twirled around a creamy snatch
Leggs, I am working on my math and two months should not have = a four hour romp session.
Dream…keep working on your yams…did you use a recipe? Make the adjustments and cook them again this Sunday. Keep going for it until you master it…
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:05 pm
This should sum things up nicely. A different supplier for said drug of choice sounds right, but won’t happen in her case. This is the 2nd man she’s been with in her entire life. She’s newly divorced about 1.4 years and her ex husband has been the only man she’s been with. When she told me this last night, I was floored and can easily see why she latched on so tightly. However, her heart is going pitter patter and she hasn’t stored any ammunition to hold the fort down. She doesn’t know how!
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:07 pm
Leggs does your friend get a lot of “play” when y’all hang out. Is she attractive and used to getting attention from dudes? I am trying to figure out why she cannot shake him after two months…I saw the fact that he drilled in her for four hours, but other than a musty exchange of body fluids she should be ok.
Dan
November 30th, 2009
3:08 pm
@Leggs
She’s a goner.
I doubt she gave him this information ahead of time.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:09 pm
1.5 years!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
3:11 pm
Raqi – long story chica. Lets just say I was devastated.
SCool – so agreeing with your 2:07.
Leggs – old girl needs some help! Seriously she is really about to get her feelings hurt, poor thing
mytw♥cents - mytw♥tatas - d♥scentavos - Fallen Angel - Albino Tigress
November 30th, 2009
3:11 pm
Since when was cheating Not a CHOICE? Desire is human nature, true. But when you choose a spouse, you choose to not explore any other options. So if/when folks cheat, it means (to me) they didn’t choose their mate that day…
As for Tiger, let that man have his business.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:12 pm
@Dan, yes, she’s a goner, but as long as she picks me to talk to, I’ll be throwing her a lifejackjet. I won’t let her go down making a fool of herself. After a talk or two, I know when to let grown folk make a fool out of themselves.
@Prof ~ I’ve known her for about 3 years, but she just started opening up to me in the past 8 months. This is the most she has ever shared with me. She’s a friend, but not a bff type of friend.
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
3:13 pm
No recipe, just watched my mom and tried to imitate her, once she was finished
I am working on my math and two months should not have = a four hour romp session.
When will they learn….
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:13 pm
@Dan ~ yes, he knew all about her divorce. Not sure if he knew her ex was the only man she’s been with.
I think this new dude is trying to drive home a point!!!
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:14 pm
Leggs I just read the 1.5 years…I take it coach-chocolate-dingle-ling was even better than her ex-husband he had her running drills and she saw a future and all of the other ish. I hope she can shake coach-wicky-dicky and move on with her dignity in tact. Although I am not a mother I cannot see letting my child’s coach see my thongs.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:18 pm
Don’t mean to contradict myself, but I will talk with her as much as I can before I realize these folk are grown and there’s but so much I can tell her.
@Mo ~ yes indeed, she’s about to have her feelings messed up. Now, she’s going to sit in the corner because she gave up the cookie thinking they had something going. I told her until you guys have the talk about being exclusive, all bets are on the table!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
3:18 pm
Boy ya’ll funny.. Its OK for a woman to break shady but when a dude do it.. Oh he is basically looked as if he robbeb the Pope.. He aint did nothing she didnt wanna do and thats that.. Everybody involved were willing participants and the sooner we start looking at situations like that verses male/female the picture will begin to become clear.. Step out the Matrix People.. I got them red Pills over here, 2 for 5 Patna
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
3:19 pm
Professor you are a straight fool!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
3:20 pm
And most of ya’ll in here tripping.. Knowing ya’ll would be tweekin if ya’ll got handed a four hour beatdown. Cats aint handing out real beatings these days and when ya’ll get one its all good.. I can tell who can appreciate a tantric session as opposed to those who cant..
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:20 pm
Dream~Girl they will never learn! They are going to throw those thongs to kingdom come and still not recognize the game. You cannot call a foul after two months you know it was just boot-tay (saying it like JJ Evans Good times)
As for the yams and all other recipes this is what I do…I find a simple recipe online because measurements and technique helps. Add the pizzazz of your mothers cooking…cinnamon, nutmeg, sugar and flavoring it will let you keep things in proportion and you can still add a little soul to it…that is how I learned to cook.
If you are doing other dishes like pasta and stuff just add your extra garlic and seasonings, but the measurements helps a lot or try doctoring up a can of yams to get the feeling of cooking them.
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
3:21 pm
Dream’n – I have a perfect yam recipe, if you want it.
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
3:21 pm
Infamous
“Its OK for a woman to break shady”
Who said that that ish was okay either way??
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:21 pm
“…shake coach-wicky-dicky” Good one. You come up with the funniest names for that flippy flop thingamajig!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
3:23 pm
But, IDK, in THIS situation, she’s not breaking shady. She should just play the hand she was dealt. That is all.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
3:24 pm
@Proff,just as well,its so soon after Thanxgiving so i give u sme slack coz i quickly understood…
Any other time and day,this statemnt wld have had me scratching my brains:
Dream…keep working on your yams!!
melo wld be like:
whats the Proff telling Dream_n to do,really???! Puerto Rico guy did what on them??? 
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:25 pm
@InfamousD ~ let me speak for myself. Even with a 4-hr session I’m not latching on as if I just had my last meal. She’s going about this all wrong and she looks foolish in his eyes as well as mine. The only difference is how she looks to me doesn’t matter to her. She’s asking how I see things and I can only tell her. She’s a weak woman (latching on so soon dragging her self-esteem) who’s been played and now she doesn’t know what to do about it. When her phone rang and she showed me the caller ID, the first thing that came out of my mouth was Aretha Franklin’s song Jump Jump Jump To It……come now, have some dignity about how you handle this and she’s going head on with her nose being wide open by two clothes pins!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
3:25 pm
And like Prof said, always add a bit more seasoning than is called for and your own touch to just about any recipe.
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:26 pm
Leggs/Dream y’all know I have 101 names for that peter-wee-ter
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
3:26 pm
Sexyc
I would really appreciate that.. and if you have any other recipes.. “simple ones” for now.. pls send them to my email.
martin_sharde@yahoo.com
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
3:26 pm
Dream – Because first of all women will rationalize their BS until is sounds good and will have her cheering section cosigining the nonsense..
Melo
November 30th, 2009
3:26 pm
I saw the fact that he drilled in her for four hours
Boy!!! what did u have for lernch Proff….u unstaoppable with ur mouf!!
Drilled??
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 30th, 2009
3:28 pm
Sexy – Well you my dear I know could appreciate a 4 hr session.. Especially with the “I was looking in the mirror Comment”..
Melo
November 30th, 2009
3:29 pm
think this new dude is trying to drive home a point!!!
no point to drive home
Leggs..u funny..
jus drive home the juice juice!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:29 pm
“…first of all women will rationalize their BS until is sounds good and will have her cheering section cosigining the nonsense..” Only if they got the right “yes” women in their clique! I’m not that person.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
3:31 pm
Infamous – All Im saying is, she needs to recognize the situation for what it is and for what it aint! The whole thing is wrong b/c of how she sees it. She was cut to him and he’s treating it as such. That is a disaster waiting to happen. The smoke does have to clear, even after a good dyck down….reality bites
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
3:35 pm
DK
Yea immature women who get their mind all clouded over sex… puh lease..
Now a 4 hour session may have my in the kitchen making him a bowl of cereal in the am
(being exclusive and him my man that is),
but it will not have my blinded to reality… and I will not co sign BS.. Trust!
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:35 pm
Melo…LOL with the yams! I quickly saw what you meant when I read it but you know I do not give out advice on how to freakum on the blog…naw I was not telling Dream to put that yam juice on ole boy and make him sticky wicky after she blindfold and handcuff his azz put the leftover yams on him hell its a recession no time for all that cool whip and berry ish.
As for the drilled part…if dude is hitting and swinging that chocolate corn dog for 4 hours he is drilling and killing the poot-nanny
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:38 pm
@Dream I agree totally with that 3:35
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:38 pm
She had a great time and was very sore! As I stated a while ago, that’s the kind of sex that has you walking funny!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
3:39 pm
IDK….ssshhh!!! Hush up now.
Dan
November 30th, 2009
3:40 pm
@Mo, et al
I’m with DK. After a 4 hour session, y’all ain’t thankin about what is or what aint. thinking about what just happened….stop playin
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:42 pm
Leggs thats the kind of sex that was made for Friday night and if you do it Saturday night you better not try to make it to early service…walking funny in church looking wore out after a four hour stand off. You will have the ushers talking ’bout ya.
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
3:42 pm
Let me start off by saying to each their own…
There is nothing wrong with a 4 hour romp session if the guy/girl is not your man/woman.. As long as both parties are okay with it. But if he/she shows you himself after that session please believe it. That’s where some women’s logic get a little fuzzy. Just cause he called you 4 x’s that week to get up with you on Saturday night, does not make him your man if you guys didnt talk about it first. I suggest talking about where the relationship is b4 giving up the goods.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
3:44 pm
walking funny in church looking wore out after a four hour stand off. You will have the ushers talking ’bout ya
Laaaaaawd Jesus!!
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
3:45 pm
I’m with DK. After a 4 hour session, y’all ain’t thankin about what is or what aint. thinking about what just happened….stop playin
This is true Dan, but just because we’re talking about it, it doesn’t mean that we have some how lost our train of thought…. come on now…
Good Dyck is Good Dyck… but that ish does not give you amnesia.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:46 pm
@Dream_n, you nailed it. Going for a Fanta!
Dan
November 30th, 2009
3:47 pm
@Dream
It don’t. But it does fogg the next few weeks of thinking. EMD
Legg, how long ago was their session?
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
3:48 pm
And it don’t give you a license to act an ass. And if you do take it up yourself to act an ass, I don’t have to stay around to put up with it, deal with it or try to overcome it.
Exit stage left.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
3:49 pm
with that kinda sexx Proff,its best to wear high heels when u go to church.
That way,when u walk sideways,with a hunched forward limp,u blame it on the high heels.
I know,u be trying to get some wind and air on ur vjay backside,twen ur thighs,just coz its a lil sore over there coz he hit u backside more times than was desirable and the vjay cream ran out….
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
3:51 pm
Dan – Im not saying it wouldnt have you on cloud nine for a while. But at SOME POINT, reality kicks in. It was stated they had A four hour session, not regular or multiple four hour sessions. At some point you have to recognize the situation for what it is and you cant get around that. You either recogize it on your own or have someone let you know. Either way its going to happen, that you realize that you were just CUT!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
3:54 pm
Good Dyck is Good Dyck
it is Good Dyck…amen to that Dream_n
I took Queen on a weekend trip some 15 yrs ago and we neva went out of the room for 2 whole days…ordering room service for dinner,breakfast,lunch, and dinner,breakfast,lunch..untill we left..
drilling it and drilling it..just so I cld claim my spot..
15 yrs down,every now and then she wll ask”Do u remember that weekend we went to Nyanga for the weekend and we didnt go outa the hotel”"
All i do is nod and smile…
I sympathise with Leggs friend!
Professor
November 30th, 2009
3:55 pm
Dang Melo you are a mess with that one! If you need that much air on the “vjay” you might as well keep your azz at home and not even go to church…just stay home and let the window fan blow some cool air on that thang.
Melo I am done talking nasty with you for the day.
Dan
November 30th, 2009
3:57 pm
I’m just saying:
It’s been iterated ad nasuem here (by woemn) that sex makes women a little silly. And now a 4 hour session and yall talking “reality”?
Come on, son! Something doesn’t add up
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
3:58 pm
She didn’t exactly tell me, but listening to her and her chain of events, about a month ago.
And, if you presented yourself as a “man” in the beginning in the hopes of getting the “goods,” why now appear like a jacka$$ after getting such goods. Still act like a man and not a wolf in sheep clothing.
“…that you realize that you were just CUT!” Dropping the Mike and drawing the curtains!!!!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:00 pm
Hell, you guys can get a nice romp and she can have you doing somersaults over fire hydrants trying to get back to her place….it affects both parties. Let’s not forget that. You men have gotten silly too. I know cuz I’ve seen it up close and personal!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
4:02 pm
If last week’s lovemaking still has me loopy today, it ain’t the lovemaking. I’d just be a dizzy broad.
You mean to tell me you’re still high off your first ever nut? Come now.
Dan
November 30th, 2009
4:02 pm
@Leggs
Because people lie.
She lied by not telling him that she’s really only been in that (or that) position with one other person in her life and he lied to get the puddy.
It happens, it’s just sad that she learned that lesson this late in life.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
4:03 pm
Dan – I dont think any one of us women is denying that s3x can have you acting a lil crazy. But from what Leggs said, dude isnt providing that anymore. HELLO??? Anyone else hearing the voices screaming “you were just cut, you were just cut”. What im saying is Leggs is telling her whats up and dude aint contacting her anymore. So what is so cloudy NOW?
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:04 pm
I won’t say she lied especiall if he hadn’t asked her. Nothing wrong with her not telling him she’s his second. She didn’t lie about anything.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:04 pm
I mean he’s her second!!!
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:06 pm
dude aint contacting her anymore. So what is so cloudy NOW?</strong
Exactly Mo!!!
You mean to tell me you’re still high off your first ever nut? Come now
lmao..
Dan
November 30th, 2009
4:07 pm
@Mo
We’re speaking from the position of having more than 2 partners.
The last dude she came off it for married her. She has NO IDEA that this is not the way of the world. (May have heard stories, but like fat meat and grease…)
@Leggs
An omission is a lie, because it ain’t the WHOLE truth.
Forgive my spelling folks
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:08 pm
@Dan, I knew you would come back with exactly that!
Dan
November 30th, 2009
4:09 pm
@SC
I am. Like a crack addict, I yearn for that feeling every time.
And when I don’t get it, I’m disappointed.
In that sense, I’m a hype.
Dan
November 30th, 2009
4:10 pm
@Leggs
Do you really think dude would’ve still got down if he knew he was number 2 at 40yo?
Really?
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
4:10 pm
Mo – “Anyone else hearing the voices screaming “you were just cut, you were just cut”. ”
Officially LMAO.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
4:11 pm
Dan – okay lets say she is cloudy b/c he is her second ever, when he called and said he didnt want to see her anymore that should have been it. Im still not getting what is so confusing for her. What is not clear about “I dont want to see you anymore?”
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:11 pm
@Dan ~ how plainly can I put this HELL YEAH!
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:12 pm
Do you really think dude would’ve still got down if he knew he was number 2 at 40yo?
Ya’ll dudes still long to be with a virgin.. So I’ll answer that question for ya….Hell Yeah!!! (okay ur turn Leggs)
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:12 pm
oh you beat me
Dan
November 30th, 2009
4:14 pm
What?
That’ll be a question for tomorrow…a virgin? Really Dream?
Who have you been talking to (over 18) that wants to deal with a virgin?
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:14 pm
@Mo ~ because, unfortunately, she’s falls in the category of dumba$$ women. They hear what the guy is saying but they put a spin on the words to make them think differently. I actually witnessed this last night when he repeated to me that he said “this is not going to work. I want to keep my dating and coaching duties separate. Don’t want to see a woman on the team, but if you like you can come over and we can talk.” She kept saying “he wants to talk, that’s a start.” No, it’s not a start to open dialogue. It’s the beginning of you being a booty call at his convenience but she doesn’t see it AT ALL!!!!!
Professor
November 30th, 2009
4:14 pm
Mo~I am with you on this one…she was just cut and what is so unclear now.
She might as well take that 40 year old pudsy and go sit down until she is ready to play again and can understand the rules, rather spoken or unspoken to the game. For all we know he Coach-I-hit-the-dugout might didn’t enjoy it as much as she think he did.
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:14 pm
What is not clear about “I dont want to see you anymore?”
I don’t know how clear you can get, but she’s prolly just longing for that companionship she used to have… so when he laid it down.. She got a lil mindboggled, but that statement should’ve cleared that ish up real quick!
SexyCool - Um, yeah. So.
November 30th, 2009
4:15 pm
Mo – What was confusing? I don’t want to see you anymore – but you still can come over and we can talk.
Although, it shouldn’t have been confusing. But really, whatdahell else is there to talk about at this point?
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:15 pm
That was funny, Dream_n!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
4:16 pm
Leggs,describe this friend of urs for me…
Hw she look like..??
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
4:17 pm
SCool – LOL, Im jus sayin chica!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:17 pm
You guys better pray for me when I get back on the saddle. I might lose my damn mind. J/K! Really, I am kidding. Like Professor said, she knows absolutely NADA about the game!
Professor
November 30th, 2009
4:19 pm
He would have been proud to be #2 and he would have given her the 8 hour package with two 15 minute breaks and a 1/2 hour lunch deal if he would have known just to blow her mind even more.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:19 pm
You know SCool, to hear someone say it and then turn around and find a spin is absolutely amazing to witness. I have no doubt she will stop turning to me for advice because I won’t sugarcoat anything for her!
lurker
November 30th, 2009
4:20 pm
Best, realest comments for today was I’m Swiss, 11:28. Nothing pretentious about it. The fact that he’s not sure what he’ll fall prey to and has a check plan in place in keeping him honest, is what is means to be human. Men that were dogs/playas now on the “no longer a dog” band wagon. Yeah, hind sight is always 20/20. You just ain’t cheating because you’re tired of it. No kudos for you. Women are quick to say it’s a choice (yes it is) because typically women are the (known) victims, when in reality, it takes two to tango. So where are we? Back at I’m Swiss honestly stating, I love me wife and don’t plan to cheat but because I’m human and may fall prey to indulgences, I’ll keep it clean by playing keep away, making myself an open book and keeping myself honest. As much as we may not want to believe it, none of us above commiting anything. Expect for ABC, he’s about as close to Jesus as we’ll see in this life.
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:20 pm
Not necessarily deal with the woman Dan
But “being” with an untouched woman, pure, tight, and all that other ish..
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:20 pm
@Professor ~ she did speak of 3 five-min breaks, but I didn’t hear anything about water/snack break!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
4:21 pm
Shes confused coz(and rightly so coz her vjay lacks experience) there are women out there who still believe that sex is only between long term partners or partners to be…no casual sport sexx..
Shes a good woman bedded by a pudsy snatcher.
She needs sexx/relationship-withdrawal therapy..from Leggs/friend!
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:22 pm
there are women out there who still believe that sex is only between long term partners or partners to be…no casual sport sexx..
Here we go again…
Professor
November 30th, 2009
4:23 pm
Leggs although my words sound harsh I feel sorry for your friend, because he was probably telling her a lot of sweet nothings on that phone and texting all kinds of crap. Just think about it for a minute…we her being a bit sheltered she probably disclosed everything including the last time she had sex with a man…dildos does not count and he probably knew a little bit more than we are giving him credit. Is she a victim? Not really she just got played and she should pick it up and learn the lesson behind what happened.
i'm swiss
November 30th, 2009
4:24 pm
“Who have you been talking to (over 18) that wants to deal with a virgin?”
LMAO @ Dan — Why do I keep thinking of that line from Wedding Crashers…
“We’ve got a Stage 5 Clinger here. Did you hear me??? I said a STAGE 5 CLINGER!”
Melo
November 30th, 2009
4:24 pm
Expect for ABC, he’s about as close to Jesus as we’ll see in this life
hw about Raqi?? lurker??
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:27 pm
We’ve got a Stage 5 Clinger here. Did you hear me??? I said a STAGE 5 CLINGER!”
One of my all tome favorite movies..lmao!! Swiss you a fool.
lurker
November 30th, 2009
4:27 pm
I didn’t say Raqi, you did.
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:27 pm
@Prof ~ your words do not sound harsh to me at all. I don’t necessarily speak with sugar falling from my lips either!
i'm swiss
November 30th, 2009
4:30 pm
Thanks for the compliment, lurker.
Melo
November 30th, 2009
4:36 pm
mail call!
Professor
November 30th, 2009
4:38 pm
Well Ms. Leggs go home and get all comfy because you have sitting duty tonight. You are going to have to sit and listen to your friend talk this out in her head, but I really think you should do it under all the circumstances.
…stepping out. Y’all be good I cannot wait to see the Saints lose tonight!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:38 pm
HAAAAAAAAAA, how many went to their inboxes?
Dream_n
November 30th, 2009
4:43 pm
With all that being said.. I agree with Professor.. go ahead and get your “logical cap” out put it on and do some damage control..
Night All…. waiting for the quote (Leggs) then I’m out
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 30th, 2009
4:44 pm
LMAO @ Swiss! Stage 5 clinger! LOL!
Ole girl is gonna be hurt, she really just needs to let it go……
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:44 pm
Good night everyone!
“Loneliness is not the loss of affection but the loss of direction.”
Peace!
Melo
November 30th, 2009
4:48 pm
Goood nite every one!
Loneliness to a woman is when u feel the wind,to a man,when u have to use vaseline as moisturizer!
Leggs
November 30th, 2009
4:51 pm
You have to remember that just because you’re alone, doesn’t necessarily make one lonely!
MsM
November 30th, 2009
4:55 pm
Top Picks, November 30, 2009
1) Cheating is cool when its not happening to you.. See its no fun when the Rabbit got the gun..
2) Sounds like she might need an intervention Leggs…and when you pluck her in the forehead ask her “Is this thing ONNN?”
It’s Human Nature, Really? | ATL Report - Atlanta News and Gossip
December 13th, 2009
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It’s Human Nature, Really? | ATL Report - Atlanta News and Gossip
December 13th, 2009
4:06 pm
[...] course it is easier for them to mate for life. GREAT. So much for my … Read more Here It’s Human Nature, Really? By Wise Diva Yaab Tagged as: affair, gossip news, having an affair, Life, lot, mate, monogamy, [...]