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It’s Human Nature, Really?

There is nothing more distracting to a good weekend of football then breaking gossip news reports about a high profile sports figure having an affair.  I take that back, there is one thing more distracting, when said prominent sports figure allegedly argues with his wife and wrecks his SUV about having an affair.

While Tiger Woods is making all attempts at damage control, a lot of people are speculating about the entire situation.  As always, a lot of people subscribe to the school of thought that anyone who is wealthy and powerful will never remain faithful.  Then others think that monogamy is simply not natural.  This argument always perplexes me because I have yet to see it this way.

What does it mean that it’s human nature to cheat? Is that logic simply based on biology?

I remember telling a guy that I wanted to be like the penguins and mate for life.  He argued back that they ALL look alike, so of course it is easier for them to mate for life. GREAT.  So much for my envy of penguin love!

Why do you think our society today views infidelity as a “natural” thing?  It no longer shocks or awes us, does it?

Do you think our generation is learning a different perspective about fidelity? Ladies, were you told outright or indirectly that all men cheat? Is it something you were conditioned to prepare for and deal with when it happened?

Guys how do you think your views on fidelity were shaped?  What is your position on monogamy being unnatural?

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Dream_n

November 30th, 2009
4:43 pm

With all that being said.. I agree with Professor.. go ahead and get your “logical cap” out put it on and do some damage control..

Night All…. waiting for the quote (Leggs) then I’m out :)

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 30th, 2009
4:44 pm

LMAO @ Swiss! Stage 5 clinger! LOL!

Ole girl is gonna be hurt, she really just needs to let it go……

Leggs

November 30th, 2009
4:44 pm

Good night everyone!

“Loneliness is not the loss of affection but the loss of direction.”

Peace!

Melo

November 30th, 2009
4:48 pm

Goood nite every one!

Loneliness to a woman is when u feel the wind,to a man,when u have to use vaseline as moisturizer! :lol:

Leggs

November 30th, 2009
4:51 pm

You have to remember that just because you’re alone, doesn’t necessarily make one lonely!

MsM

November 30th, 2009
4:55 pm

Top Picks, November 30, 2009

1) Cheating is cool when its not happening to you.. See its no fun when the Rabbit got the gun..

2) Sounds like she might need an intervention Leggs…and when you pluck her in the forehead ask her “Is this thing ONNN?”

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