She’s All In
Sometimes women have a hard time just outright admitting how much she likes someone. Although we really don’t like it when men do it to us, we can be just as bad with sending a guy mixed signals and being vague.
So how can men tell when a woman really likes him? Sadly, just because she is agreeing to go out on a date doesn’t necessarily mean she actually likes you. There are other ways to tell she is happy you are in her life though:
1. She is genuinely concerned about your well-being. You may notice that she pays attention to something you need and then fulfill those needs.
2. She doesn’t criticize you harshly. Women definitely pay attention to your behavior and can see when you are acting like a bonehead. When she likes you, she can call you out in a respectful manner, handling your ego with care.
3. She doesn’t make outrageous demands on you to prove to her you like her. A really smart woman does not require a man to spend a boatload of cash on her. In fact, when she really likes you, she will treat you and pay for things. If you feel like a sponsor after only a few months of dating, it’s probably because you are.
Ladies, how can men tell when a woman really likes him? How do you let a man know that you are truly interested? What ways to you show him?
Men, do you know when a woman is leading you on? Can you tell when she is interested in you, for who you are?
It’s not fun being used by anyone, how can we manage to avoid that in dating?
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241 comments Add your comment
Melo
November 23rd, 2009
11:43 am
If I ever slept with a dude and sent him home before the night was over or sent him out the door without at least offering to make breakfast the next morning, he didn’t get the job done. (And wasn’t invited back
so in ur estimation,sexually the dude was not salvageable??
Maaane,!!!!
what was he doing all nite?? smdh and in deep thoght right now,ur pic, in ma mind and thinking real hard??? 
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
11:43 am
@sexyc…why are you explaining yaself…you are the bestest friend a guy could have…and you loyal den a mofo…i love you!!!!….and if anybody got a prollem SEE ME…lol
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
11:43 am
Call me a lame, a prude, stuck up (which I was called this past saturday, or any other name in the book… but you are not getting in after 3 or 4 dates. What isn’t that like a month and a half????
Leggs
That’s what I used to do with the ex (pay for the tip)…
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
11:44 am
@ Lurker… Funny funny.. I’m actually in training. but thanx for look’n out
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
11:45 am
wayyyyy off topic…where is the outrage over that hom o closing to the AMA last night….i mean we are cosigning this moist boot ish way too much
but props to my new wet dreams – rihanna..wow…and alicia keys…
SexyCool - Definitely All In
November 23rd, 2009
11:46 am
Rell – Whassup, Family? Just answering the question asked. LOL!
Professor
November 23rd, 2009
11:47 am
@Dream…LOL I have been called and those names and some added. At the end of the day after 3 or 4 dates 4-8 weeks I am not trying to go there with dude. That is just too soon for the kid.
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
11:48 am
Call me a lame, a prude, stuck up (which I was called this past saturday, or any other name in the book… but you are not getting in after 3 or 4 dates
- lol…yes ladies hold on to your moist holes…lol…is that all you are….why the big focus on when he going to hit…versus showing him all that you are….if you like me i will hit….if you spend money on me i will hit….so why all this he going to wait x amount of time BS….if i have to wait longer then 21 days then its not happening…we friends…and i am cool with that….
SexyCool - Definitely All In
November 23rd, 2009
11:48 am
Dream’n – You do it your way. I’ll do it mine.
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
11:50 am
@ RELL
It’s not about setting a time table… It’s about people and their own personal preferences.
You do it your and I do it mines.
Hell if I give it up easy… I’m a hoe
If I wait… I’m a prude
So you know what… If you don’t like my approach go get it the way you can…
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
11:51 am
hey all you FAKE prude type chicks need to stop…..in this dating climate now….i am getting that georgia dome date one….come off it…women are selling it for that secure dollar…yes even you type that claim prudish behavior…LMAO..you ladies are dillusional…lol…i have seen it go down sooner rather than later with my eyes…lol….hilarious…by date 4 you might still be around the way things are going out here….lol..and you make it to date 8 were in a relationship by that date…lol
Dan
November 23rd, 2009
11:53 am
@Prof
I’m trying to eat healthier – so some brown rice would do it.
@MDot
This (11:33am) is what dudes are on these days. Why would I let you label me a friend and then be dumb enough to treat you as a more than that.
That’s why some women try and get over these days; cause dude’s are playing WAAAAYYYY out of pocket.
@Brat
I don’t have to figure anyone else out. This is my world, you sign up to play in it or not. Either way As-Salamu Alaykum.
Leggs
November 23rd, 2009
11:55 am
@Dream_n, I’ve been teaching my neighbor (she just turned 35) how to cook. I’ve never tasted such bland, unappealing looking food in my life. Have faith you will learn how to cook. It starts with a desire to want to know how! I see you have that.
SexyCool - Definitely All In
November 23rd, 2009
11:56 am
Hell, I’ll even visit my friend in the hospital and take him flowers.
Leggs
November 23rd, 2009
11:58 am
@Dream_n, I’ve been called all those names (perhaps most women have) simply because I won’t settle….oh well! I’ve settled once in my life, can’t do it a second time.
Dan
November 23rd, 2009
11:59 am
@Dream
It’s [life] not about anyone else’s expectation or judgment. You live it how you feel it.
That is, if you’re in the mood on date 1,2, or 6 – act. And if it takes til date 17, that’s on you too. But being considered a “ho3″ or a “prude” is a completely arbitrary standard.
And after the 9th grade does it really matter what other people think about you?
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
11:59 am
@ Rell.. lmao you are a funny dude
Your post exudes the type of calibur of women you entertain, and that’s totally okay. I am not knocking anyone for the way they live their life…
Professor
November 23rd, 2009
12:05 pm
Dream I am with you on that 11:50, not to mention this is my body and I refuse to let some limp dyck sucker tell me what to do with my body after some chips and dip. I have always felt that my body was the Lord’s temple and I refuse to let everyone I meet have a little playtime with me????? That is crazy with all of the diseases going on and not to mention those that don’t take care of themselves…annual visits to the doctor…seeing the dentist twice a year etc.
As for spending money my blog fan club are aware on where I stand so there is no need for me to worry about some broke down joker pinching off his bill money hoping he will get lucky because he just paid for dinner. Social prostitution is not me dinner does not equal S3X. ?????
For Real
November 23rd, 2009
12:12 pm
Dream: “but you are not getting in after 3 or 4 dates.” – What if I gave you a chico-stick?
For Real
November 23rd, 2009
12:13 pm
S3X = Sex 3 times?
LURKER ( Cobweb Remover)
November 23rd, 2009
12:13 pm
After 3 or 4 dates I am hitting dat azz! We are going to seal the deal and I will make sure you enjoy it to the fullest! I am too please!
It is my duty to hit and please dat booty!
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
12:14 pm
type of calibur of women you entertain
- we back on the type…i mess with your type…lol…..you ladies are no different really…all this projecting is funny
@prof…how did you know i used chips and dip and magaritas to stick em on there knees…lol…seem like someone must have tried you “like a freak at a cut part”….lol….the lord temple…question do your curse…do you drink….have you smoked weed….if you answered yes to any of the above….then you faking…the lords temple…why when the convo turns to sex or how quick you should do it…the dayum “kirk franklin” come out of black women….lol
Dan
November 23rd, 2009
12:16 pm
@Prof
I’m fairly certain you wouldn’t let some “limp dyck sucker” that far into your life, or would you?
SexyCool - Definitely All In
November 23rd, 2009
12:16 pm
I’m panicking….I can’t find my damn pound cake recipe.
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
12:17 pm
@lurker…most men should be able to hit either on date one or prior to it…we usually talk to much and give her reason not to those legs in the air….i have alot of female friends and things i hear…i am like dang dude is lucky..they are usually every time they see you if you handling your biz and giving her the FEELINGS she needs..its all a FEELING thing with the woman….so if i am giving her the warm fuzzies then i am hitting period…so i wish chicks like ol quasamoto would get off this fakery
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
12:19 pm
Rell Now how do you know I love chico sticks.. the candy that is …lol
Leggs
November 23rd, 2009
12:19 pm
You want mine, SCool?
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
12:19 pm
well looks my post are being watched
basically i said – men you can hit the first night..we talk ourselves out of the fun….if you giving her the FEELINGS that she needs…then you should be able to hit without all the checklist…thats what its about feelings….
SexyCool - Definitely All In
November 23rd, 2009
12:22 pm
Please, please – you know the email addy and if you’ve got a red velvet send that one along too. (Although, that may be a little bit ambitious – considering doing red velvet as cupcakes.)
(You’re a lifesaver – LOVING ya!!!!)
For Real
November 23rd, 2009
12:23 pm
Dream: “Now how do you know I love chico sticks.. the candy that is” – Awwwww yeah, chico sticks, red kool-aid and the Commodores. I’m gon make you love me!
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
12:28 pm
SexyC.. I was going to direct you to the local grocery store.. The have a nice pound cake in the aisle where all the desserts are… I forgot what the brand was, but it tastes homemade after being unthawed. It has a red top and in comes in a tin pan.
Professor
November 23rd, 2009
12:29 pm
@Dan…we do have some folks out there that lead two lives and put on a different persona so you never know.
@Rell you know I don’t even recognize you. IMO you are the epitome of ignorance. You cannot have a decent conversation without going off on the deep end. So please do not ask me any questions and I will do likewise. OK? Because if you notice I do not blog with you…I was raised if you play with trash you get your hands dirty.
…stepping away to wash and sanitize my hands…even my keyboard feel grimy after typing to you YUCK!
SexyCool - Definitely All In
November 23rd, 2009
12:29 pm
See how folk that don’t cook do ya’. LMAO!!!
czBrat
November 23rd, 2009
12:30 pm
WOW! Today’s generalizations are truly astounding. I reazile this blog is for people to share dating experiences, but just how bad are things out there? Is there no tolerance for each person’s right to choose what suits them (and their body) best without coming under attack?
For the rare woman who is selective and patient with her decision to become intimate, there is also the rare man who will value and respect that. For everyone else, there is the BS that some of you are bragging and complaining about.
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
12:30 pm
basically i said – men you can hit the first night..we talk ourselves out of the fun….if you giving her the FEELINGS that she needs…then you should be able to hit without all the checklist…thats what its about feelings…
Please spare me this foolishness… This only applies to a woman with low self esteem issues, that’s in need of a man to make her feel worthy…. So if that’s the case.. a mere “I could marry you” will have her droping the drawers in 2.5 seconds..
Professor
November 23rd, 2009
12:31 pm
Dream that is a good pound cake…I use that one when I make strawberry shortcake in the summertime and I don’t feel like baking
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
12:32 pm
yea i see you did not answer those questions…its only a lords temple when a dude trying to screw you….seems like you have been on the wrong end of a couple exchanges…dont worry lady it happens to the best of us…i am ignorant…lol…lmao…going off the deep end…why because i can see thru your BS…lol…
LURKER ( Cobweb Remover)
November 23rd, 2009
12:32 pm
Leggs… That cobweb remover statement is for you! I am available to eat food and other things this weekend! UN-ZIIIPPPPPPPP!
Professor
November 23rd, 2009
12:33 pm
CzBrat…so true I agree with your 12:30
Dream…so true that is why I gave a list of players in the dating game on my 10:37
SexyCool - Definitely All In
November 23rd, 2009
12:33 pm
czB – girl, you a’ight wit’ me. We gone have to hang out sometime. ~lol~
Rell - da rake
November 23rd, 2009
12:36 pm
For the rare woman who is selective and patient with her decision to become intimate, there is also the rare man who will value and respect that
- LMAO…your right….i value a womens choice and i respect them all..but what i cant stand is folks only giving me one side of the coin….like there is not another part that exist – plus i willing to bet some of you polly perfects have experienced being that jumpoff..so why we adults know that its not all about screwing for fun…why not talk about how you came thru to know..versus proclaiming you have never been dirtied or hurt..thats what makes my arse itch…all this bs…hell i even had a weekend vistor that tried the whole weekend to give it to me..but after a couple of drinks and her loose mouth about her recent sexual exploits i passed….i did not want my turn on the bicycle i just looked out and provide her temporary room and board…see even us “trash men” can clean up nice…beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeench!!!
LURKER
November 23rd, 2009
12:38 pm
Wise One…. How was the rodeo? Did you go with a male or female? Did you learn how to ride cowgirl style? This will help you with securing a long term relationship!
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
12:40 pm
@ CBRTAZ … Ahhh.. a breathe of fresh air
LURKER
November 23rd, 2009
12:44 pm
Dreamn everytime you post about food you are picking something up at the grocery store! I am sending you a cookbook for Christmas!
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
12:45 pm
@ Rell..
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I will again speak about me!
NO, matter of fact HEll NO!!
I have never been a man’s jumpoff, FWB, night girl, casual sexer, quick lay or any other name you want to appoint…
Why is it so hard for you to understand, that S!X is not at the top of some women’s list of things to accomplish if a man shows his “feelings” to her… come on now..
Leggs
November 23rd, 2009
12:47 pm
@Dream_n that post about Sara Lee Pound Cake had me howling. No you didn’t!! I’m hungry! Time for lunch.
Professor
November 23rd, 2009
12:50 pm
Dream…girl some folks don’t get it and I learned a long time ago you cannot argue with a fool
Dream_n- 6 days til turkey day
November 23rd, 2009
12:55 pm
@ Leggs.. there you go! Sara Lee.. lol
LMAO in ATL
November 23rd, 2009
12:56 pm
I’m still LMAO in ATL – these comments are getting better and better.
You know, you get what you look for people.
Don’t want a playa, don’t be a playa.
Want a friend, be a friend.
Want to get married? Work on yourself, to make yourself “marriage material” instead of looking for “marriage material” (when you are probably not in their league yet) and oh yeah, meet a lot of new people. As friends.
You need to get some? Then get some. Just don’t confuse the two and be surprised when prince charming turns out to be the pumpkin, when the whole time you’re the cleaning lady hiding behind the “princess” you think that you’re projecting. (Men aren’t fooled ladies.)
I needs repeating. You want real? Be real.
You want to date and have fun. Do it. Plenty of ups and downs, so what?
You want companionship, no physical relationship. You can probably find someone into that too.
You want a life partner? Be partnership material.
Just leave the HS BS behind. Some people do grow up. Maybe it’s time you should start?
czBrat
November 23rd, 2009
1:01 pm
btw Dream_n …. update that countdown
(why am i not surprised that the responses to my ‘grow up!’ post are the mature, responsible ladies of the blog)
also liking your 12:56 LMAO