Men Without Fear
After checking out the Professional Bull Riders’ official website, I am getting even more excited about seeing the riders in action. There is something about a man whose job is dangerous that is so, well intriguing, masculine, admirable, I could go on!
Seriously, can you imagine talking to someone about their day at work when he does something like this?
I always wonder, what motivates a man or woman to take on a dangerous career? Why do they do it and what does that mean about their seemingly fearless character?
I’ve dated a policeman and a fireman and I can remember having an ongoing uneasy feeling when they went to work. I can’t imagine living with that anxiety all the time if I were to marry into a dangerous career. Yeah, the uniforms were hot, but could I really handle all that comes with being with them?
What do you think of the men and women who work in a risky career? What about the daredevils who have some pretty dangerous hobbies? Does it take a special kind of person to date them?
Would daredevils need to seek out other people who are equally as fearless? Is that a case where opposites attract won’t apply?
Guys, what do you think about women who have dangerous careers that require they are physically strong? Could you handle it? Is she just as sexy and appealing to you as other professions?
P.S. If you have questions that you would like our PBR guide, Flint Rasmussen to answer let me know! You can see him in action here and here. Talk about a man without fear!?
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mytw♥cents - mytw♥tatas - d♥scentavos - Fallen Angel - Albino Tigress
November 18th, 2009
8:47 am
Am I the only one who’s concerned that Wisey is bout to catch a case, be served a restraining order or sumthin?
A Fireman… mmm yeah… I think they’re the bravest and bestest. Might have to set sumthin on fire one day soon… (We can share a cell Wisey!) I admire & pray for those who serve our country but would not purposely put my heart through it. My cousin just got back from Afghanistan and that’s hard enough – I can’t imagine how the anxiety level escalates waiting & worrying for your man.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
8:54 am
..morning…
@ Tigress – Good to read you! Is Fiji in season?
I can’t imagine how the anxiety level escalates waiting & worrying for your man.
I agree.
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
8:55 am
Three Words Daily – Ready? Set? Go!
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
9:00 am
I have lost a husband before so I know the gut wrenching feeling that comes with getting ‘that’ call. It’s a feeling that I don’t wish on anyone. Not even my worst enemy.
Back when I was unattached one of my friends wanted to set me up with a really nice guy that she knew but after finding out he was fireman I chose not entertain that potential.
I know that harm or death can come by many different events, my first husband was killed driving home from work, but I just can’t see having to live everyday knowing that my spouse is putting himself in harm’s way. Occupation or not.
Mason has bungee-jumped and he has jump from a plane since we have been married, and I will tell you those were two of the most miserable days of my life. I told him if he die performing those stunts I will kill him.
My oldest son used to like watching the rodeos that would come on television every Sunday afternoon. He also liked to watch car racing.
I would cringe every time I saw those bulls throw those men off and attempt to trample them or stab him with their horns. And the same with those cars going 100’s of MPH into another rider or the wall.
I know the saying ‘you only live once’ but why purposely put yourself in a position to end your life before time.
I am thankful for those men and women who serve our country, state and city. And I know they all need love too, but I am not the one.
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
9:07 am
Started and deleted a couple of posts. Then decided, I have nothing of value to add to this discussion at this point.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
9:11 am
I can’t imagine how the anxiety level escalates waiting & worrying for your man.
Peachy I bet it could probably be compared with sitting in an emergency room looking at his lifeless body being kept ‘alive’ with a machine just waiting for the doctor to tell you the obvious.
If my husband was a soldier, policeman or fireman I would live everyday of my life with that feeling. I couldn’t do it.
I’m grateful for those individuals out there doing it but I don’t want it under my roof.
And besides most soldiers that have served in a war don’t come back quite the same. Or that’s what I have been told.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
9:13 am
I used to think that we all had a little dare devil in us until I started sharing my experiences and dreams with others and they would say, “I have never tried anything like that.” With that said, yes I am a dare devil and I have simmered down a lot, but there is still a good teaspoon full of it in me.
I never dated anyone in the military seriously. For some reason it had nothing to do with the danger, but everything to do with not wanting a long distance relationship.
Actually I have a question for the blog, but I want to think about it before I put it out there. I would hate to sound facetious.
Wishing everyone a wonderful Wednesday!!!
i'm swiss
November 18th, 2009
9:14 am
I wouldn’t really consider bull-riding or other dare-devil type activities to be a sign of courage so much as a sign of an adrenaline junkie. Military, firefighters, police, etc., yes. Bull-riding, sky-diving, race car driving, not so much.
Now, when you’re single, do whatever floats your boat, but personally, I would say that continuing to participate in dangerous recreational activities when you have a family counting on you being around is pretty selfish. The only reason I would ever intentionally put myself in harm’s way at this point would be to protect Mrs. Swiss (or any little swiss’s, if/when we have them). We’re a team & she’s counting on me being around, just like I’m counting on her being there for me for many years to come.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
9:28 am
Now my feelings that stem from a past experience does not mean I don’t like a man that take risk. Heck if that was the case I would not be with the one I am with. He is a business owner and he takes risk every day.
I just don’t like him throwing himself into mid air like he got some angels waiting to catch him.
We have done some things that I would call adventurous. I have snorkeled, parasailed and rock climb on a
small mountainlarge hill. When he goes down to his brothers they will get out the four wheelers and jump dirt mounds and race thru the woods and all that dirty man stuff. I have watched him surf several times. All that is enough manly stuff to watch for me to get my heat rising. LOLI need my husband here with me and my kids need their father.
Wonderwoman_woman down
November 18th, 2009
9:40 am
Morning All,
For some reason I admire the policemen, firemen, & military men/women. I see those as a duty to serve others, their community, thier country. But the bull-rider or other dare-devil “jobs” I see as somewhat unneccessary. I mean really why are they potential putting their lives at risk? Will it save a life, protect us? I don’t know, I was never really one into those sports that are life threatin, without purpose.
And yes a man in a uniform is such the turn, a weak at the knees when I see my fireman in his uniform! But really I admire the men and women that put their uniforms on and decide they will serve and proctect. I think it takes a lot of guts, combined with being able to think on their feet, and somewhat of a fearless ‘tude. I think thier brave!
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
9:40 am
I would say that continuing to participate in dangerous recreational activities when you have a family counting on you being around is pretty selfish.
Swiss that is true. In anger I called my husband a selfish pryck when I found out he went skydiving. I understand that is something he wanted to do for a long time and when the opportunity presented itself he did it. But his desire to fell that rush made him not consider how I worry about him.
He said he was only doing it once and getting it out of his system, yet still tried to tell me I was being paranoid and putting myself thru a worrying fit.
I reminded him of how he took my coffee maker and hid it when he found out my doctor said I had to stop drinking coffee. He exact words were “I will not be dying on his watch”.
After reminding him of his statement he promised he would not put me thru that type of anguish again. LOL
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
9:42 am
WiseDiva this topic makes my heart ache. LOL
I’ll be back later.
mytw♥cents - mytw♥tatas - d♥scentavos - Fallen Angel - Albino Tigress
November 18th, 2009
9:45 am
IGUANA. The Fiji is always in her season, ripe and ready for whatever come what may…
Are there any beloved lurker fam or even regular post-ers who are in those life endangering professions? I’m wondering if any of your potentials have told you they just couldn’t deal. (I kinda agree with SWISS, so) I also wonder your take on possibly switching careers if you wanted to start a family…
abc
November 18th, 2009
9:47 am
I equate the rodeo with the circus or even a carnival. It takes a certain character to be able to withstand that kind of lifestyle, and being a ‘daredevil’ doesn’t have much to do with it. Cops, firemen? I’ve no use for them, personally.
Not to cast aspersions or throw darts, but honestly, WD, your post makes you sound somewhat… uh, immature? Or shall I say, I’d expect that kind of hyperbole from a redneck trailer park queen?
mytw♥cents - mytw♥tatas - d♥scentavos - Fallen Angel - Albino Tigress
November 18th, 2009
9:52 am
WONDERWOMAN So you have a Fireman now? Are you pretty serious and if you get more serious would you reevaluate your admiration & support of his career? And can I go with you to the holiday mixer…
czBrat
November 18th, 2009
9:52 am
GM All!
LOL @ my2 first post!
SexyC c’mon girl. your comments always add value to the blog
Now, when you’re single, do whatever floats your boat, but personally, I would say that continuing to participate in dangerous recreational activities when you have a family counting on you being around is pretty selfish. so right swiss!
i’m not much of a risk taker, unless my driving counts
i do have several law enforcement officers in my immediate fam so i guess i’ve been conditioned to accept those career choices without worry from a very early age. i wouldn’t have a problem dating a man with a risky job, but i’ve just always ended up with corporate guys.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 18th, 2009
9:53 am
Morning Everybody
Raqi – my ex hubby went sky diving too. He is the type that really fears nothing. I didnt go with him, but after it was over he was like “it was okay, not as exciting as I though”. I dont remember being terrified but I couldnt believe he actually did it.
I have never dated anyone that had a ‘risky’ profession so honestly I dont know how I’d feel. As far as military men, I mostly agree with Professor. I dont WANT to do a long distance relationship. I also was very turned off of Navy men in college (apologies to anyone who is Navy) they didnt give a great representation at all!
Been Thru It All
November 18th, 2009
9:53 am
Enter your comments here
@abc…come on son…was that necessary…
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
9:54 am
Sorry TwoLincolns, I called you Peachy by mistake. For reason I thought I saw ImaPeach.
I need to put my contacts in. LOL
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
9:55 am
Come on Wise.. Two days in a row about this rodeo mess..
abc
November 18th, 2009
9:56 am
Just sayin. Rodeo, cops, firemen, a chick being impressed with physical risks of a guy’s job? Really?
Demi
November 18th, 2009
9:57 am
Started and deleted a couple of posts. Then decided, I have nothing of value to add to this discussion at this point.
LOL….I Do!!
Wait for it…wait for it…wait for it………………
czBrat
November 18th, 2009
9:58 am
Enter your comments here
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
9:59 am
…i like the Lurkers fan base also…Auh, Ms. Main a.k.a. Main Lurker – You got any prospects waiting in line?
Tigress The Fiji is always in her season, ripe and ready for whatever come what may…
hehehe…I can see your cute lil New Yorker hand on your left hip, and the other hand clutching that special ordered Monogramed L. Vuitton Speedy, while you say that…too funny!
IDK
November 18th, 2009
10:01 am
my last relationship was with a fireman. i would agree it takes a special woman to be with men in the “risk your life for others” business…and firemen KNOW they are hot..especially in their uniform. just be careful when dealing with folks who see death/destruction everyday..it does something not good to their mentals.
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
10:01 am
Good morning.
Dang, abc…so cutthroat!
I admire and applaud all those that risks their lives so we can be safe. Personally, I can’t live on the precipice known as anxiety dating a daredevil. The constant adrenaline rush they need scares me. It takes a strong woman to be able to deal with a fireman, police officer or even a judge (family members can get crazy). I’m glad there are men and women who can, because everyone needs to be loved.
NY2GA, Inc.
November 18th, 2009
10:01 am
With the level of violence that is in our society I think the probability of being hurt or killed is greater on the street today than suffering harm through one of these so called ‘dangerous’ activities. Considering that fact I don’t rule firefighters, policeman, military men, etc. out of the dating pool. Most men don’t even venture into those types of professions unless they have a true passion for it.
So, ride on Flint, Ride on-
Been Thru It All
November 18th, 2009
10:03 am
Enter your comments here
@abc…point taken…
Demi
November 18th, 2009
10:04 am
Mo…training update:
I am currently reading thru some techno bs…I get up to module 6…this Bish says…pulling up training module…1 of 60 pages!!!
OH, HELLLLLLLLLLZ NAW!!!!!
I have set and read 120 pages…plus testes…since 8am!!!!
And the shyt says: Approximate time to complete this module: 2 hours
pray for me
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
10:05 am
abc and Infamous come on yall, give the woman a break. She has to come up with stuff for this thing and this is a topic that we have never addressed on here.
Somebody out there likes those adrenaline rush seeking guys.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:06 am
An ex-girlfriend of mine is a Puerto Rican Plumber. Does that count?
I have to admit I’m a daredevil but I have slack off a little (Busa) due to my sons. However, I do want to skydive but Helicopter flying has quenched some of that thirst but Mo and Raqi can yall tell me what company they used to jump?
Demi
November 18th, 2009
10:09 am
Somebody out there likes those adrenaline rush seeking guys.
Yes…Oe’s and crazy women. I should know, I use to an adrenaline rush seekering dude…Maybe I am still am…I still ride bikes at a buck fifty
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:11 am
abc: While I understand your point but you are failing to realize that all women are immature when it comes to their likes, wants and love. I mean can you explain their attraction to musicans as anything other than immature?
Wonderwoman_woman down
November 18th, 2009
10:12 am
mytw- He is a good friend, that I’ve only seen pics of him in his uniform. I don’t think my admiration would change for him. If a man likes his job, I will support him, whether he puts his life in danger or not. I would be doin a lot of prayin though!!
Also for those dangerous jobs like policemen, firemen, and military, think about what they go through, the death, the crime, and destruction the see. They probably bring that work home, and have to deal with mental aspects of their jobs.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:13 am
Kym: News update…. Aren’t divorces suppose to be the end? I mean dayum when does it stop!!!!
http://finance.yahoo.com/focus-retirement/article/108174/his-her-benefits-getting-ex-social-security?mod=fidelity-livingretirement
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:14 am
Wonderwoman: I’m a professional picturetaker would you support me by posing for me? I can setup a pictureshoot real fast.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
10:18 am
omygah! I am crackin up at ForReal…
Wonderwoman_woman down
November 18th, 2009
10:18 am
Dang..IDK- I was just thinkin that bout that. My friend the firemen, some of the things he has seen, I’m like Wow! It’s definetly not like a 9-5er. A hard day for me is paper cut, people asking me to do to many things at once, someone breathin down my neck for a report, and dealing with ‘tudes. But to go to work and see death, people losing all their possessions, its different.
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
10:18 am
I was just going to say that life is full of risk. Just walking out your door, going to work on a Tuesday morning and driving down the street can be dangerous.
So, while I don’t necessarily go out adventure seeking, I am aware of the possibility that my accountant may not come home at the end of the day because of some random shooter, some angry ex-employee or some non-driving nut.
That awareness does not cause me to live in fear. Instead, it makes me appreciate each day, each moment, each kiss, each touch because it could be my last. I take none of it for granted. Gratitude is the theme of my life.
However, when we’re not having a good day…….well, you know…but still….
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
10:20 am
“I mean can you explain their attraction to musicans as anything other than immature?
????? For Real, that statement is unreal!
Wonderwoman_woman down
November 18th, 2009
10:20 am
ForReal- Aaaaaah NO!
Ms. Main
November 18th, 2009
10:21 am
Hey Cemeeli – Auh, Ms. Main a.k.a. Main Lurker – You got any prospects waiting in line?
I’m good
Wise Diva
November 18th, 2009
10:22 am
I love how abc starts a statement with “Not to cast aspersions or throw darts” then proceeds to do exactly that, LOL! It’s ok, everybody won’t enjoy every topic, I don’t take it personally at all.
NO harm no foul, Infamous. I could talk about Pro Bull Riding allllll week
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
10:22 am
Forgot to put on my
Professor
November 18th, 2009
10:22 am
Any news on the Black Friday sales? Do you all have your stores plotted? I am pretty much done with most of my Christmas shopping I have two gifts remaining no more than three. So I have the pleasure of treating myself to all of the things “me like” without feeling guilty!
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
10:25 am
I was just going to say that life is full of risk. Just walking out your door
SexyCool that is true, but after you have lost and buried one, it’s just hard dealing with having someone purposely put themselves in harm’s way.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
10:27 am
Legg hey…
For Real…Due to the state of our economy…my firm will charge only .23 cents per upload of nude or semi-nude pics…I am still looking for a web hoster for my site at this time.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
10:27 am
Unless you have kissed a trumpet player than you would not understand.
I think we all have our quirks and I will not say what is immature and what is not…big booty…little booty…a handful of breast…bought breast…lawyer…police…federal agent…mailman…W/NBA players. Things only make sense to us and it is not meant for everyone to understand just r.e.s.p.e.c.t it
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
10:29 am
Hi there, Demi…good to read you!
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
10:31 am
@Professor – I went to that money vacuum place a.k.a. “Toys R Us” already to shop w/o crazies being mean!…and I got all the lil ones out of the way toys and games. They also got shoes from Payless during the Oprah promotion…so i’m done with clothes/shop for them. I have boxes of boots, scarves n’ gloves, Hello Kitty karaoke, HK CDBoombox, High School Musical blanket, HSM purse, Brazts, Disney Cars stuff, Board Games, Wii Games…just “stuff” all over my closet and storage.
I’m just glad my SO cain’t see the “damage” i’ve done before Black Friday…
I got my co-workers covered already too. I don’t like holiday mayhem…Thanksgiving is what i relish.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
10:31 am
I think we all have our quirks
Professor, that’s true because I am deathly afraid of military men and professional football players. LOL
Demi
November 18th, 2009
10:32 am
Leggs…same here…now back to work for me.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
10:32 am
Wisey???!!!
Is it Bull Riding u really want to know bout or u want to know more about their techniques so u can incorporate same in ur moves???
Its 2 days now u been talking about Bull riding and im really worried about ur intentions!!
well,good luck to the fella and back luck if hes stamine wont hold up to urs.
On topic!
She can take what ever proffession as long as we have enough insherence(sp) for her.
She go kaput?? Iam financially safe.
Mormning all!
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:35 am
Wonderwoman: Ahhhhh come now, I have a great porf, portifo, picturebook. You probably seen some of my work around town or on your car window when you leave the club. Hell 35% of all scrip club promos in Atlant is done by me and I got the flyer market cornered.
Demi: “my firm will charge only .23 cents per upload of nude or semi-nude pics” – Is your website formatted for cellphone picture takin?
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
10:35 am
Cemeeli, I will only be putting money into the vacuum for the son and the grandson. All the nieces, nephews and god churrin will get something to wear. Not only is clothing cheaper to buy they also are cheaper to ship when sending stuff out of state.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
10:38 am
Raqi Same here…I have read the horror stories of groupies waiting around the hotels. I know this guy that used to drive a tour bus for a major rock band and he talks about the young ladies beautiful in there 20s (he is about 50 with a beer belly and he is hairy) flashing him and saying I will do anything you want as long as you get me on that bus to meet the band. So if the bus driver is getting propositioned just imagine the “real stars.”
Cee Same here I am pretty much done. As for co-workers I discontinued buying them gifts…we do a party here at work where you bring a gift…I participate in that, though
Where is Melo?
Where is Lil Dream_n?
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
10:39 am
Raqi – Ok I get it but the rodeo aint that big of a deal especially since the Black Rodeo just left to not even a mention..
So come on with the jokes..
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:39 am
Raqi: I been meaning to ask you why you slept on the couch? Did you find another fiftted dollar bill in the wash and didn’t report it?
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:42 am
Am I the only that gets real lazy at work when the Holidays come around. I got all this work to do but for some reason I rather blog.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 18th, 2009
10:44 am
Professor – co-signing the trumpet player thing! May also be why Mo’ Betta Blues is my favorite movie!! WHEW!
For Real – I’ll ask ex hubby and see what company he used for sky diving
Demi – you got that god-awful training and Im stuck with nosey people wondering what Im going to do about being surplused. NUNYA GOTDAYUMED BIDNESS….nosey biddies! Hang in there Chocolate Baby!
Raqi – im not big on military dudes either
BriteEyez
November 18th, 2009
10:46 am
Good Morning All!
I am with those that have an inherent fear of dating people with certain occupations. Particularly, policemen and those in the military. I personally feel that if would be difficult at best, to turn off the aggression and mindset that it requires to do those jobs. And I won’t even go into the process that I’m sure it takes to deal with the things they see in their duties. As someone mentioned earlier, the effects of it have to be lasting and alter the persons way of thinking.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
10:48 am
Mo- the way they hold their lips in the mouthpiece gives them an edge on kissing. Shoot, let me stop spilling the beans…LOL ^^^^5 on Mo’ Betta Blues
Demi
November 18th, 2009
10:48 am
Yes…at .3 cents per uploads…we also have picture regenerating/reimaging software as well…to help with grainy cell pictures…shoot, we’re #1 for making beat-up puddy look like new puddy…which is good for Craigslist’s service providers…a lot of them tend to have worn looking puddies…per Melo, is not good for business.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
10:50 am
@ Raqi/Professor – I hate Toys R Us! “where a kid lose their mind” is what their slogan should be. It’s a set up. Bigman is gettin his as a family gift…he wants a Apple – Itouch and some program to go with it…i like that too. = “our” gift.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:51 am
Ummm Mo and Prof yall know yall just asking for it with all this talk about horn blowing but Imma let it pass.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
10:51 am
For Real – You know JCarter right.. Je and I went skydiving together, so give him a shout.. He used to set it up as a getaway deal back in the day.. In Tennesee somewhere I forget.. White Water Rafting too, the same day actually..
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
10:52 am
Co-Worker gifts…it would be better a.k.a more economical to do exchanges, but since i’ve been here we all give a gift to each other..its only 5 in my group.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:52 am
Awwwww Dayumm I can’t control it! Zipppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp!!!
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
10:54 am
Both my moms and my dad and uncles and a host of cousins were in the military while I was growing up. I even briefly considered it. (Looking back I’m gald I didn’t go because the recruiter was pushing me into a job to fill a quota as opposed to one that best fit my abilities.)
At any rate, my ex-husband was and is still military.
It was a part of my life growing up; so, dating/marrying a military dude was not a deal for me at all.
These days, I would give more thought to becoming involved with a military man because of the deployment potential.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 18th, 2009
10:54 am
Professor – Yeah, those oh-so-soft lips!
For Real – shaddup! LOL
Cemeeli – Im off this friday and I will finish Lil Mo’s shopping then. Err body else will be easy so they can wait.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
10:55 am
Demi: “grainy cell pictures” – Slow your roll bruh, ain’t none of my pictures grainy. I use the highest quality analog cellphones and walmart lamps for light.
DK: Preciate that bruh, Imma hit him up.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
10:55 am
@ Mo – You’re so wrong.
The lips…
Demi
November 18th, 2009
10:58 am
eek…eek..eeeeek
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 18th, 2009
11:00 am
Cemeeli – What can I say? My first high school boyfriend played trumpet…LOL!
Blondie
November 18th, 2009
11:00 am
I wish I would be around town this weekend… I would love to go see some hot cowboys!!! Have you ever seen REAL cowboys in their Wrangler???? Your loss if not ladies:)
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
11:03 am
My baby plays the trumpet! Read: my “baby”…he betnot put those lips on another girl right now.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
11:03 am
a lot of them tend to have worn looking puddies…per Melo
usa fool….
hey man,hw u been??
Whats for Thanxgiven? can i swing by,iam family…right?
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
11:04 am
ForReal the baby has an ear infection that seems to only bother her in the evenings, which the doctor says is quite normal. Every night for the past few days I have been up with her. I will get her to sleep and she would be back up in 20-30 minutes. I have been getting very little sleep. As long as she is up it seems to not bother her as bad.
Last night I took her downstairs and sat on the couch with her preparing to be up all night. While holding her upright against my chest she went to sleep with no problem. I got up to go upstairs she woke up. I sat back down, put her against my chest and she was back to sleep. I put my feet up on the coffee table, grabbed a blanket, and around 5am this morning I was waking up having slept all night. From about 11pm to 5am.
If that’s what I have to do until the infection is gone, that’s what I will do. She has a glider and ottoman in her room so maybe tonight we will try sleeping in there. However there is no television for me to watch my George Lopez and Rosanne reruns. LOL
Melo
November 18th, 2009
11:05 am
Where is Melo?
Where is Lil Dream_n?
we tgether….
Demi
November 18th, 2009
11:07 am
Not all Chinese’s knock offs are easy on the eyes bruh…Me eyes only accept quality pics…or else man hood is not responding.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
11:09 am
At home with Cee…..
Cee: Poo-snot you gettin real good with that trumpet baby
Poo-Snot: Taink you mamma. Eyes trys real hard to be good.
Cee: Well Poo-snot iffin you keeps to yo practicin you be good as satchmo.
Poo-Snot: Really ma! You taink I can be that good huh? Can I ask you quertion?
Cee: Sho baby what you wanna know?
Poo-Shot: Well dis girl name Mo at school said she like trumpet player cause…….. OW, OW, OW, MA!!!! WHYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!
Cee: You leave be, dem fast arse heffas!! Hearme, hearme….
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
11:11 am
im not big on military dudes either
Mo Military = Trained killer.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
11:14 am
Oh yeah ladies I have new love. LOL
If you are looking for the one thing that will make all matters better get you a bag of Cheetos Puffcorn. All your problems with be nonexistent…that is until you get to the bottom of the bag. LOL
And they are just $2 at your local Walmart.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
11:16 am
Hush-up! For Real!!
Demi
November 18th, 2009
11:17 am
baby has an ear infection…
I’ve notice most children have reoccuring ear infections during teething ages…I am I wrong?
Melo
November 18th, 2009
11:23 am
I’ve notice most children have reoccuring ear infections during teething age
yeah Demi,that issue is usually due to the parents fault.
U see,when the woman is prego,the man must do whats called,”cementing the baby’s immune”"
That means sexxing the woman,usually from the back,at least cpple times,few weeks be4 the lady gives birth.That nourishes the baby’s immune system,making baby stronger.
U slack on that,baby will be sick often,throat,ear,stoamck untill immune gets stronger.
Mason must have slackened a lil bit!
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
11:26 am
Melo, you are definitely warped.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
11:28 am
Mason must have slackened a lil bit!
Melo…knowing Raqi…she fired Mason for 8 months. LOL
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
11:37 am
SexyCool – It’s been a few days…how’s that water intake? I’m not doing AS well as i could…going to fill up rightnow.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
11:38 am
Demi, ear infections is very common for babies. Most will have one before the age of one. Reoccuring ear infections are said to be linked to upper respiratory infections which my baby has had. That’s an issue that happened when she was being born that I will not go into.
But yes ear infections are very common. You know pediatricians advise only feeding babies in an upright possible because with them lying down the milk has a tendency to run back into the ears therefore possibly aiding in infections.
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
11:47 am
Cem – I was just telling one of my bff’s that my massage therapist told me to drink half my weight in water ounces per day. (Um, dude, do you know how much water that is?)
Anyway, I’ve been doing it. And of course, this week, TSA is conducting random drug tests for its employees in the bathroom that is close by. So, I’ve been having to make a trek to get to the bathroom – once a dern hour.
(That shouldn’t be a complaint since it’s got me moving more than I ordinarily would and I am trying to lose weight……but still….)
Demi
November 18th, 2009
11:52 am
Raqi…thanks for that info…while we had a lot of death in my family these pass two month…a lot of new lives will be born in our family…The more info I know, the best
Naw Demi ain’t having no kids…I just enjoy said process
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
11:53 am
Yea, it’s going to melt off…jus keep it up…water does it.
The massage therapist are sometimes on “smokes”…lol..i kid. But i’ve heard from my doc as well..what’s a girl to do, hunh?
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
11:59 am
True – And I’m good with my workouts this week and have upped my fiber intake. I’m already feeling better – even though I wasn’t feeling bad. I should be down the extra 4 pounds plus another 5 in a month or so.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
12:04 pm
“drink half my weight in water ounces per day” – Dayum that’s 14 eight oz bottle of water for me. That’s doing this zipppp – pee – shake – put back – dry pants, 153 times in one day.
abc
November 18th, 2009
12:06 pm
WD, I don’t mean to throw rocks about it, really. Someone else could easily say, “not to cast aspersions, abc, but WTF with your stupidity”, just pointing out that I’m not getting something.
For Real, the attraction to musicians thing is an excellent comparison. No chick in their right mind should go for a musician who actively pursues an exclusive career. You gonna lose out to the music, baybee, most every time!
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
12:07 pm
cool…okay…that’s whats up.
KP (http://www.chatkafeonline.com)
November 18th, 2009
12:28 pm
Sup blog fam!
On topic…I have dated a police officer and it used to drive me nuts. She wasn’t a police officer when we first met, but made a career switch during the tenure of our relationship. Unfortunately, I wasn’t too happy about the career move and definitely voiced my concerns. However, she was passionate about pursuing her dreams and I eventually supported her.
Wise Diva
November 18th, 2009
12:38 pm
Yes, I get it abc, I can take criticism and feedback. It just tickles me when people frame their statement in that way, it’s the same as when people say “no disrespect but”.. then proceed to lob an insult or condescending statement, and you’re like, so THAT is no disrespect? Really? LOL
Melo
November 18th, 2009
12:45 pm
But WISE,a “But”,meaning I dissagree with u does not mean a “diss” in some cases,no wonder some pple say “NO DIS” 1st , coz u know, some small minds take criticism personally.
jus saying..like Cee wld say!
hey Cee
Professor
November 18th, 2009
12:58 pm
Melo…Y’all together. Tsk…tsk…tsk. Out of respect for Dream I am not going to crack an age joke so you got lucky that time.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
12:59 pm
Oh man Proff..she 19, i forgot that!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
1:22 pm
This is why i do this $hit.
I think they call this, uhm, venting
I think i’m scared of what the future holds.
I was wishing for some things and now am used to those.
Every girl i meet thinks i’m f-n groupie oes.
The honesty of my music has left me too exposed.
All my old friends think i got a new crowd.
And people seem to notice every time i do smile.
I guess that mean they come few and far between.
Even though am living out what you would call the dream
Don’t believe the lies.
Look me in my eyes.
Please don’t be scared of me.
Please don’t be scared of me.
I remember you.
This feeling isn’t new.
So please don’t be scared of me.
Please don’t be scared of me.
Oh oh oh oh oh uhh.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
1:30 pm
why is she not calling me…….angst.arggghhh. trning and tossing..??
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:31 pm
A Man without Fear: The man that took his 2 year old twin sons to the doctor’s office alone.
LOL
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:35 pm
Men Without Fear are men that are not afraid of commitment and marriage.
Heck forget riding on a bull for 8 seconds or dodging fiery missles in the desert, are you man enough to be mentally, emotionally, legally and financially joined to the same woman and relationship for the rest of your life under the same roof.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:38 pm
Men Without Fear are men that will change the poopy diapers.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:38 pm
Men Without Fear are the men who will go to Sunday dinner at your mom’s house to meet the family.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
1:39 pm
rest of your life under the same roof.???
RAQI??? who still does that?? Rest of ur lyfe???
this is 2009 soon to be 2010…
renewal,rejuvination,reinvigoration heck even reincarnation……
VIVA viagra!!
Viaaaagraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:39 pm
Men Without Fear are the men who will say “I Love You” and mean it.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:41 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will freely hand over his car keys to his woman.
LMBO
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:42 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will let his woman go in his wallet or handle his money clip.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
1:42 pm
auh…did Melo went and said “jus sayin”? Lol…yea that’s me “not-dissin”..or “no offence” like Seth did often in the movie.
Okay..okay because i kinda know the regulars of whom i blog with.
abc’s and Wise’s dialogue was tongue in cheek, i hope…after a while reading each other at some point we know some persona of the person beind the moniker…or, for some maybe not.
Case in point – We all know that Melo is an African-booty-scratcherpun intended…so on a good day hell spwe 5 sexual comments and leave it be…
…jus sayin’…
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:43 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will accompany his woman to the malls on Black Friday.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:44 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will walk down that aisle and pick up that box of tampons and proudly place it on the checkout conveyor belt.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
1:46 pm
DJ, please play another love song…
Demi
November 18th, 2009
1:46 pm
Men Without Fear are men that are not afraid of commitment and marriage.
Demi does not fear being committed to one woman…but dayum, divorces are a bit expensive nowadays…
cost of marriage license: $10 – $50…cost of a divorce: $300 – $150 million
Not including the mental angst you sometime go thru.
Melo…I am good…just needed a break from life.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:46 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will walk in a room where his lady is sitting crying.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:47 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will tell his woman “No”.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:49 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will not hide the fact that he is sprung from his potnahs.
czBrat
November 18th, 2009
1:49 pm
cost of marriage license: $10 – $50…cost of a divorce: $300 – $150 million
cost of being happily rid of the ex …. priceless!
Demi
November 18th, 2009
1:50 pm
Men Without Fear are the men that will let his woman go in his wallet or handle his money clip.
Yep…he be that Joe Blow on Jerry Springers…talking ’bout:
Bish got my money.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
1:53 pm
<i.cost of being happily rid of the ex …. priceless!
Only if there is no money/kids involved.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
1:55 pm
Men Without Fear will sleep with you mother, sister, and aunt on the same day.
i'm swiss
November 18th, 2009
1:56 pm
“Men Without Fear are the men that will walk down that aisle and pick up that box of tampons and proudly place it on the checkout conveyor belt.”
Melo
November 18th, 2009
1:57 pm
I am good…just needed a break from life
well,that aint a good look…
coz really if u that tired,u might as well go to the nearest pawn shop,buy a popo and point it to the side of ur head….
U that tired???
Maybe a good,excellent,offdachain,blow-ur-mind kinda bj might reinvigoirate u..watchuthink Alvin??
Demi
November 18th, 2009
1:58 pm
Men Without Fear will kill you and your whole family…and sit on the curb while waiting for the police.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
1:58 pm
Men Without Fear will sleep with you mother, sister, and aunt on the same day.
Demi that is not a man without fear, that’s a man with a death wish.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
1:59 pm
Men Without Fear will sleep with you mother, sister, and aunt on the same day
thats not a man without fear.
Thats a man with Stemeeeeena!!
Melo
November 18th, 2009
2:00 pm
Demi,send me an email..takpat78gmail..
wanna show u this pic and tell me watchu think….
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
2:01 pm
What’s so bad about that?
Swiss, I don’t know. I never understood men that have a problem with it. First, a period is just a fact of life. Second, if you are dealing with a woman that has passed pause you are dealing with that woman’s period. And third, there will come a time when a man that has a daughter will need to buy them.
i'm swiss
November 18th, 2009
2:02 pm
Melo are you peddling dirty pictures? If so, I wanna see, too!
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
2:15 pm
WiseDiva I’ve got a topic for you. The other evening my marido and I were listening to a radio show and the guy was talking about confidence. We got talking it and some way some how we ended up talking about this confidence that people claim to have in relationships.
Mase was saying how too much of the wrong kind of confidence can hurt you instead of help. Sometimes people can get so built up in themselves that they become lazy. They start to feel like they don’t have to work at the relationship because the got it under lock and key.
I brought the one thing I have said many times on here about how everyone should care with whom their mate spends time and interacts with. So many will say that they won’t bat an eye at their mate dealing and mingling with randoms individuals because they are “confident” and not the jealous type. He confirmed my sentiments. You better give a damn. When you don’t care you have become lazy. It’s not a matter of fighting for yours but a mere matter of caring.
He said the easiest person to cheat on is that person that too sure and complacent to the point where they stop paying attention to what’s going on around them.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:15 pm
Melo…nope…Some time it’s good to take a break and spend time enjoying you and do the things you enjoy doing. Even Jesus, as mighty as he was, needed to take a break from the changes and challenges life threw at him…but he never give up…just recuperated.
Most people who are alway do..do..doing, often turn bitter later in life. My life isn’t perfect…but there no reason for me to place a gun to my head or seek out ’sex’ to make me feel better.
Demi is getting a little to old for all that needless B.S.
Just a quite little vacation spot and a few good family and friends to kick it with time to time…I am good.
And when I return into the stream of things…Imma slap the ish outta life and be like…
BISH…….WHAT?!?
Da Man Right Chaaaaaaa
Da Man Right Chaaaaaaa
Here I Go!!!
For Real
November 18th, 2009
2:17 pm
Swiss: ORRRRR it could say “says 2 things: 1) Shaq is your boyfriend 2) You got a big azz hole in your arse.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:19 pm
Demi that is not a man without fear, that’s a man with a death wish.
Raqi…That’s all I am trying to say.
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
2:19 pm
“cost of marriage license: $10 – $50…cost of a divorce: $300 – $150 million”
Only if you roll like that!
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:26 pm
Melo…demigod33@yahoo.com
I am not at my desk
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:28 pm
Leggs…regardless…it starts at $300.00…That a dayum PS3!!!
For Real
November 18th, 2009
2:30 pm
A Man without Fear: The man that took his 2 year old twin sons to the doctor’s office alone. – To make sure they are his kids.
Men Without Fear are men that are not afraid of commitment and marriage. – It ain’t the commitment to women nor is it marriage that men fear, it’s the Judge we fear.
Men Without Fear are men that will change the poopy diapers. – Ain’t no thang, we use to stains in draws.
Men Without Fear are the men who will go to Sunday dinner at your mom’s house to meet the family. – Hell how is he going to get a hot meal for free.
Men Without Fear are the men who will say “I Love You” and mean it. – Hell and I love her and her too and I put that on everything I love.
Men Without Fear are the men that will freely hand over his car keys to his woman. – Better to let her drive than get a DUI.
Men Without Fear are the men that will let his woman go in his wallet or handle his money clip. – Long as you don’t fugg wit the one in my trunk.
Men Without Fear are the men that will accompany his woman to the malls on Black Friday. – He just protecting what he loves?
Men Without Fear are the men that will walk down that aisle and pick up that box of tampons and proudly place it on the checkout conveyor belt. – Cause it’s a Jedi message to the other chicks that he is available for the next 3 to 4 days.
Men Without Fear are the men that will walk in a room where his lady is sitting crying. – May as well get it over with before the game come on.
Men Without Fear are the men that will tell his woman “No”. – SOP like the insurance companies.
Men Without Fear are the men that will not hide the fact that he is sprung from his potnahs. – And they say ain’t no future in frontin in front of your woman!
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:32 pm
For Real…per Supa Head……Shaq ain’t ‘bless’ per his height…which is why he married a 5 footer…in other to feel like ‘da man’.
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
2:35 pm
“… how too much of the wrong kind of confidence can hurt you instead of help. Sometimes people can get so built up in themselves that they become lazy. They start to feel like they don’t have to work at the relationship because the got it under lock and key.”
That needs to be said a second time. And when they find the relationship in the gutter they try to back paddling trying to fix things. You’ll learn one way or another that one should NEVER get too comfortable that they stop feeding the union!
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:36 pm
Cause it’s a Jedi message to the other chicks that he is available for the next 3 to 4 days
So true…Mayne, I miss going to New Birth…Panola’s Wal Mart after 11am service was the truth.
abc
November 18th, 2009
2:37 pm
You know, when you get right down to it, people who have no fear are missing a big piece of their puzzle. Fear is there for a reason, namely, self preservation. It serves an important role.
It’s not whether you have fear; it how you handle it that matters. If you don’t have fear of things you probably ought to be afraid of, I have to figure you kinda stoopid, or what?
Do you think that nerd on Jeopardy last night, with the bright yellow shirt and lime green suit, was unafraid of the criticism of his (ahem) sartorial splendor? How about the guy who wears a Harley jacket while driving his moped? Is it fearlessness that leads you to wear your Tech jersey and hat on the Georgia side of the stadium, or stupidity… or a death wish?
For Real
November 18th, 2009
2:38 pm
Raqi: That’s not over confidence, that called taking someone for granted. Over confidence only applies to yourself. not yourself as in you but yourself as in everybody including you.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:38 pm
other…order…blogging via cell sucks at times.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
2:39 pm
I been brainwashed to kill ‘em all
I think I should pass my own amendment
You frontin’ with glass all in your pen-dant
You ain’t livin’ rapper you never have been
You a has-been a gas station attendant
Your man is a turkey you with’ a liar
I’m clearin’ the air I’m a humidifier
I’m spittin’ fire
And gettin’ flyer
And what you plannin’ for this summer I did it prior
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
2:39 pm
@Demi ~ I’m sorry, as you can tell from my answer I didn’t understand the statement. Cost of divorce and alimony are two different things….carry on and I’ll continue napping.
For Real
November 18th, 2009
2:40 pm
Raqi: See abc’s 2:37 for prime examples of over confidence.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:46 pm
Fearlessness equals stupidity in my book, that the only explanation I can come up with.
Next on Oprah: Stupid men doing stupid things and the women that love them
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:48 pm
Leggs…All to the good beh, no biggie.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
2:49 pm
…that called taking someone for granted.
Some thing we humans seem to enjoy doing.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
2:52 pm
naw swiss, i aint peddling no pics…….
was in an intense meeting for an hr,what pics uall talking about>>
mytw♥cents - mytw♥tatas - d♥scentavos - Fallen Angel - Albino Tigress
November 18th, 2009
2:55 pm
Enter your comments here
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
2:56 pm
abc – I saw the nerd and the dude that won with the $20 wager.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
2:57 pm
ForReal, what we were talking about is confidence and how people use it, the word, as a means for them not caring or being concerned with who the mate deals with or who approaches their mate.
It’s like when you ask a woman “hey you don’t care that that woman right there is approaching your man” and the woman answers “no. I am confident in my relationship. I am not the jealous type.”
It’s the wrong place to use it. It hurts instead of helps. It’s no difference than when a person who is confident and built up in their working abilities to the point of not doing as well as they could or should therefore unknowingly creating a bad situation for themselves.
I think we all know at least one person that made the statement “ah man, she/he ain’t going nowhere” as a response to someone questioning their actions toward their mate or their indiscretions with another.
Yeah it could be looked at from one point as taking for granted but in this instance it’s a matter of using something where it doesn’t really belong. You have to put in the work and not get lazy. I don’t care how much you believe in yourself relationships take work. And concerned and showing it to a certain degree is part of that work.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
2:58 pm
All those pretty memories
I know you can hear me now
For the record I love you
All those pretty memories
I know you can hear me now
For the record I love you
Now that I’m on my own
I know that in time I’ll find somebody new
Who’ll treat me better than you
So now that I’m all alone without you
But I still love you
You know I’ll never live without you
All those pretty memories
I know you can hear me now
For the record I love you
All those pretty memories
I know you can hear me now
For the record I love you
I wish you’d change your ways soon enough
So we can be together
You just don’t understand the word love
But now all we have is memories
All those pretty memories
I know you can hear me now
For the record I love you
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
3:03 pm
Had to get that old school Mary J out there today..
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:05 pm
Anyone know where are all the free holiday deals? A food pantry.
2 families in need of that service….Yea guys, flood victims are still in need.
mytw♥cents - mytw♥tatas - d♥scentavos - Fallen Angel - Albino Tigress
November 18th, 2009
3:07 pm
Sartorial Splendor
CEE I feel the need for Speedy, yais Lawd. Tell DAN that’s a gift card I’ll gladly accept! Oh I think I just got knocked up listenin to Robin Thicke’s new song… Maybe the shower’s not for 1Cee… Woosah….
Now where’s our illustrious LORDV with my afternoon sunshine? I bet he & abc at a dinner party would be the biz…
Love, Beautiful
November 18th, 2009
3:09 pm
*singin’*
have a baby by me baby . . . be a millionaire!
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:11 pm
I need a big hemi type truck with all the fixins to pick up a t.v. and dvd player to deliver somewhere, not far.
anyone volunteering?
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:12 pm
Lawd!…1Cee issa mess!!
Tigress You need a Speedy alright.
Love, Beautiful
November 18th, 2009
3:13 pm
Mo’nique Show! have to give her ^5. love her passion for what she do. very moving to me. the set and the audience is beautiful. will make sure i visit early next year. seems like the place to be in atl.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
3:18 pm
mytw♥cents…how have you been?
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:25 pm
Love, Beautiful – I hadn’t seen Monique’s show…i gotta check it out.
Willie Dynamite
November 18th, 2009
3:25 pm
Afternoon All,
whats the topic, lets see.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:32 pm
WillieD – Aint nothing firing in the woods…anytime i’m eating cashews, and making nonbiz phonecalls, and killing the clock…it’s a slow day.
Demi
November 18th, 2009
3:32 pm
I am out!!!
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
3:34 pm
Itchi Gitchi Ya Ya Da Da
Itchi Gitchi Ya Ya Here
Mocha-choca-lata Ya Ya
Creole Lady Marmalade
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Willie Dynamite
November 18th, 2009
3:35 pm
Similac – got it, you know me just peeking in and dippin back out.
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
3:36 pm
Hi, My name is SexyCool and I am a sugar addict. Today is my first day that I have not indulged my afternoon vending machine habit. I ask all those that know the words of prayer to please pray my strength. I think I’m experiencing withdrawal symptoms.
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
3:39 pm
I know some don’t like Michael Baisden, but listening to his show last night he said he see’s nothing wrong with an ex receiving a kiss on the cheek over the holidays in front of your SO or if you’re dropping the child off. Whatcha think? Personally, it is plain disrespectful to do that in front of your SO.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
3:39 pm
I got my toolbox, got my booster cables, and jack
I get where I’m goin, two quarts of oil will get me back
I got a brand new radiator
Rebuilt alternator
Detatchable tape player
But I gotta fix the fader
So I can have some music on the 6-10 loop
Maybe fit in with the L-Dogs, sedans, and coupes
Need to watch out for them laws cuz you know they gon watch ya
With their radar gun, look like they shootin as they clock ya
And the whole force know me
For years they been scopin
They walk up to my car and be like “hello Mr Copeland”
“Gimme some of that weed you got” sometimes they don’t ask for it
They know where I keep it, they reach right under my dashboard
And that really blows my high but hell I gotta keep pushin
Before I go home with the nut off of my seat cushion
I went looking for a trade-in but they called my $hit a bucket
Got back in that hoe, and cranked it up and said fcuk it
I’m rollin
Car not stolen
Probably never will be it’s much to old and
Smokin weed and feelin fine
In my Lacville 79
I’m rollin
Gas runnin low
But I try to keep it white and Vogue’s like foldin
Hopin freaks will get inside of my Lacville 79
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
3:39 pm
LOL SexyCool you are supposed to take it in strides to avoid that withdrawal syndrome.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:40 pm
now prayin your strength…:)
Melo
November 18th, 2009
3:40 pm
I think I’m experiencing withdrawal symptoms.
withdrawal symptoms….??
like a whiff of cold air coming in a gush ?? maybe,making ur spine tingle and ur back jerk back ?? is that the withdrawal symptom??
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
3:43 pm
Leggs, I think it’s disrespectful also. Why you got to be kissing on folks that you have had former relations with? I wonder if he thinks it’s also okay to be receiving kisses from a present crush in front of the S/O.
Either way it’s wrong. Being cordial can be pulled off without exchanges pecks.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:44 pm
@ Leggs – I depends…i don’t mind my ol’man givin her a peck, but lets not get to frequent. And i really don’t want my SO on me..but that’s cause i know where his intentions…nevermind.
Different folk, different strokes…
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:45 pm
type-o “i wouldn’t want my EX on my like that…not my SO…sorry.
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
3:47 pm
I heard Baisden’s show yesterday. I really hoped he was being tongue in cheek. Then that chick called in where her ‘babydaddy’ has called to see if he can come to dinner at her family’s house this year when he never wanted to while they were together. Her messy tail has said she is going to let him attend, talking about her current man ain’t ‘puttin’ it down.’
Triflin’ chicks make me sick.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
3:48 pm
Leggs
I will say this…some of that mess Michael Baisden say is not for the average man or the average wallet. I think a kiss on the cheek to your ex in front of your SO will get the average person
cursedcussed the hell out.If you are in that lifestyle eating tiny watercress sandwich…ginger sugar cookies and the butler is bringing you hot tea…GO AT IT, and do the kiss on the cheek, but if you just got the hook up on an EBT card and your greens are bubbling on the stove and you NOT the “help” is cooking the holiday meal you better leave that alone.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
3:50 pm
All I want to know is, what is the need for the kiss? What does it prove? What does it solve? Why?
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
3:51 pm
Praise the lord. All the powdered mini donuts are gone from the vending machine. The honey buns I can resist. That powdered sugar was calling me like the cocaine that it resembles. ~lol~
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
3:52 pm
SexyCool, Baisden is just a crap starter. George is the voice of reason. George be like “ah hell naw dude. that crap ain’t happening in my house.”
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:52 pm
lol…who da heck called me insecure?…Come on and say it again!?…
SexyCool – Lol…that’s some mess.
btw – to carve your sweettooth #1 – water, #2 Banana/fresh or chips #3 Grapes.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
3:53 pm
Baisden was saying that to attract urall attn…..
hes a good host…
If im kissing her that = im sexxing her….plain and simple..
Professor
November 18th, 2009
3:53 pm
Did Michael Basiden say the kiss showed confidence?
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
3:55 pm
You are right Melo. He loves to use the line “You mean to tell me….”. He knows half of the stuff he tries to convince people on he won’t tolerate himself.
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
3:56 pm
Baisden’s statement leads into Raqi’s Men Without Fear. A man kissing his ex in front of her new man may find himself pinned against a wall. I jest, grown folk don’t do things like that!
Melo
November 18th, 2009
3:57 pm
I wonder if he thinks it’s also okay to be receiving kisses from a present crush in front of the S/O.
hold up Raqi??
so if i get the kiss from EX when SO is not there,thats cool…??
oh,thank u raqi,thank u!
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
3:57 pm
Confidence in what, Professor? What the hell folks trying to prove kissing and accepting kisses from the exes? Even hugs for that matter.
I guess if the person is a feely touchy person like that it don’t really mean anything.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
3:58 pm
Was that directed at the one who said insecure?…If so, lemme help ya…
I’m talking to someone in paticular…Helped now?
Okay lurker, read it again…”Does it seem like a less secure person”?
maybe the word itself got caught in “not directed at you”…
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
3:58 pm
The unfortunate part of all that….some folk take that mess seriously. However, that is a result of their level of intelligence and immaturity and not the responsibility of Mike B.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
3:58 pm
Dayum Scool you are making me want some of those mini doughnuts.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
4:01 pm
Hell naw, Melo. It ain’t cool. It ain’t cool in the rain, it ain’t cool on a train. It ain’t cool with a mouse, it ain’t cool in a house. It ain’t cool here or there, it ain’t cool anywhere. I do not like Green eggs and ham, I do no like them Sam I Am.
SexyCool - Stays on Ready, Set.
November 18th, 2009
4:01 pm
I sowwy.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
4:03 pm
Leggs you are right. All that is just the ingredients to starting a mess.
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
4:04 pm
When you part ways all physical/intimate affection should cease.
Love, Beautiful
November 18th, 2009
4:04 pm
@Ceemee
you won’t be disappointed! the whole cast of Precious was on last night. there wasn’t a dry eye in the place or on my couch.
@Wise
my ex wore a uniform and his job is very dangerous. i used to always tackle him when he came home from work. i miss that.
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
4:07 pm
Dangit man…
Love, Beautiful – I’m going to go and see that Precious. Because i see now i’m not gonna finish the book Push…i’ve been slothful anyway.
thx.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:13 pm
Raqi, you will have to take these questions to the folks that partake in the kissing their ex in front of their SO
I really think Michael is #1 out for ratings (obvious) and #2 he knows dayum well that certain things you see and are tolerated with money are not tolerated without. I have seen this one rich guy former owner of a company I used to work for and he would say I have two wives and five kids to take care of. Well guess what he was divorced from his first wife for over 17 years and their two children were grown. His second wife always appeared cool with that statement, AND I have seen him compliment his first wife in ways that would make the average woman go upside his head, but wifey #2 would agree with him and they kept it moving.
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
4:13 pm
@Raqi ~ my thought as well. What’s the need for hello kiss. Can’t I just say hello? A kiss on the cheek shows respect or admiration for that person. I don’t respect nor admire my ex.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:15 pm
I did not like the movie “Precious” and “2012″ was good, but too long.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:15 pm
M Baisden just does his show for sex..
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:15 pm
Prof – My Bootleg copy of 2012 is super clear..
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:16 pm
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
4:17 pm
4.15 i agree…Is he really a swinger? I seen him in South Florida…diff person.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:18 pm
So he said to him
“I want you to be a father
I’m your little boy and you don’t even bother
Like “brother” without the R
And I’m starting to harbor
Cool and food for thought
But for you I’m a starver
Starting to use red markers on my work
My teacher say they know I’m much smarter
But I’m hurt
I used to hand my homework in first
Like I was the classroom starter
Burst to tears
Let them know he see us
Now I’m fighting in class
Got a note last week that say I might not pass
Kids ask me if my daddy is sick of us
Cause you ain’t never pick me up
You see what my problem is?
That I don’t know where my poppa is
No positive male role model
To play football and build railroad models
It’s making a hole you’ve been digging it
Cause you ain’t been kicking it
Since I was old enough to hold bottles
Wasn’t supposed to get introduced to that
I don’t deserve to get used to that
Now I ain’t asking you for money or to come back to me
Some days it ain’t sunny but it ain’t so hard
Just breaks my heart
When my momma try to provide and I tell her ‘That ain’t your job’
To be a man, she try to make me understand
That she my number one fan
But its like you born from the stands
You know the world is out to get me, why don’t you give me a chance?”
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:21 pm
DK,
I could have used a bootleg copy of that long azz movie I did not leave the theater until late…
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
4:22 pm
My bootleg copy of The Orphan was crisp as a newly minted dollar bill!
MsM
November 18th, 2009
4:22 pm
We are back to an ex is an ex… no need to hug/peck even if on talking/friendly terms (for the kids, otherwise he would never see my black a** ever again in life!).
I think my S/O would love to jam the ex up against a wall should he cross the verbal or physical line…
Raqi...Slept Like a Baby...on the couch
November 18th, 2009
4:23 pm
Leggs, I see it like this. Sometimes my husband will kiss me when he gets home. Or slap my behind. And some days just a mere hey, good evening, howz it going or whatever.
Those things show affection. We are a couple and we exchange affection. What business do a woman have exchanging the same affection with a man that she is no longer involved with, the same as she does with the one she is. It just ain’t right.
You all have a great evening.
And SexyCool stay strong, my sistah. If you feel yourself getting the twitch go get you ONE donut hole and eat it. It will do the job. Seriously it will.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:25 pm
MsM – you have to be careful not to get you SO beat up.. You know that thang can go either way…
Ya’ll ladies need to handle your biz when it comes to youer EX.. I should never have to deal with dude..
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:28 pm
Ready Or Not, Here I Come, You Can’t Hide
Gonna Find You and Take it Slowly
Ready Or Not, Here I Come, You Can’t Hide
Gonna Find You and Make you want me.
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
4:28 pm
@Raqi ~ I see it the same way. My ex has asked for a hug. WTF for. Won’t even grant him a church hug. There’s no award system here. No need to hug you for anything you do absent saving our child from harm’s way!
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:28 pm
Ya’ll ladies need to handle your biz when it comes to youer EX.. I should never have to deal with dude..
Whew…I am taking notes, but I am so happy I do not have to deal with the…ex…baby momma/daddy…kiss on the cheek drama
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
4:29 pm
Not touchy feely speaking again…like i said…i’m no Simon, and just cause i don’t do what he says…i’m the kast, as in oust. omygah!
This is pure Comedy!…tForget going to Uptown.
2012 is good Infamous. Let me call cuz, right now. But some movies you have to see on something bigger than the home front.
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:29 pm
I wouldnt spit on my EX is she was on fire let along hug her..
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 18th, 2009
4:30 pm
Cee- Those Flats with wide screen work well.. Trust me.. I got this thihng covered..
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
4:31 pm
@ Jamoca – I’ll holla…
Signing off with one of those felt pins from Frankie.
~Holllaaaa
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:31 pm
What about this: What if the ex came from another culture, would you be okay with the Frenchman kissing your girl, because that is his culture and gives the ex a kissy kiss?
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
4:33 pm
@ Infamous – I don’t like Plasmas…i have do LCDs…Anything bigger than 54″ infront, is dizzin’…
i’m good
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
4:33 pm
@InfamousD ~ I stomp on him in the hopes of putting the fire out!
Cemeeli
November 18th, 2009
4:34 pm
Oh! Walmart will have the HP-Notebook $298 with 250meg for Black Friday.
hmmm
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:35 pm
That was funny as hell after I got over the shock
MsM
November 18th, 2009
4:39 pm
Ya’ll ladies need to handle your biz when it comes to your EX.. I should never have to deal with dude..
You are so right! S/O doesn’t deal with him at all, they’ve only met once, two months ago (we’ve been together 3 years, so no need for them to interact) and all was cordial. Of course, neither myself or ex was try’n to hug/peck the other. Married and divorced after 19 years, believe me we know each other very well.
Melo
November 18th, 2009
4:43 pm
because that is his culture and gives the ex a kissy kiss?
Proffessor..as a zulu, i be happy to adopt that new culture
yeah right!!!,we lick ex’s pudsies over there as per culture!
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
4:46 pm
Ok, I’m not heartless…I wouldn’t stomp on him, but it would cross my mind!
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:49 pm
Melo, you are so nasty!!!
I am for real what if dude is like that is my culture that is how I was raised. BTW if your SO did kiss his ex would you show out right there or W8 until you got home?
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
4:56 pm
@Prof ~ that person without any class would show out right there.
A chick from the hood who’s still a diamond in the ruff would show out right there.
A man or woman that has mature and know how to sit back and wait will wait until 3-4 in the morning to bring that crap up.
Professor
November 18th, 2009
4:59 pm
Thanks Leggs,
I wanted to know if both of them got pimp slapped there or if it was a now&later or if you just waite until later. Maybe it is the “hood” in me, but I would rather dude show out on me there for kissing my ex, instead of waking me up out of my beauty sleep at 3-4 in the morning. Whew 3-4 in the morning that is cold-blooded!
Leggs
November 18th, 2009
5:00 pm
Good night everyone!
Experience is something you don’t get until just after you need it. ~ Just for czB.
Peace amongst you and your neighbors!
Professor
November 18th, 2009
5:02 pm
…stepping out.
Shout out to all my voyeurs out there peeping in and ish
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