Hurts So Good
There is nothing like the emotions you go through when you are falling for someone. I liken it to what I think falling out of an airplane would feel, but I haven’t skydived yet so I am speculating. You are taking a calculated risk. You have your parachute and your tandem partner that you trust completely.
You take the leap and you have an initial feeling of utter bliss and joy. The moment you fall out feels surreal and unbelievable. Then perhaps you look at exactly how high you are and maybe start to panic a bit. You hope that your rip cord works and that you and your partner won’t fall too badly because you know it will hurt if your parachute doesn’t open.
I know this makes falling in love sound terrifying and exhilarating all at once. That’s kind of the point, really. It can be the best feeling in the world when it’s good. When it’s bad? Ouch. It doesn’t matter how scary it is, most of us won’t stop chasing that feeling of being in love.
Have you ever been in love? How would you describe the emotions? How did you know that it was love and not lust? What about that infatuation phase? Is it a dangerous thing to mistake infatuation for love or is that a natural part of it?
What do men think when they feel that first surge of strong emotions about a woman? What if they aren’t prepared for it and it catches them by surprise?
Recently, singer Alicia Keys asked an interesting love question on Twitter: “In love is it better to go for the choice that is smart or the choice that has spark?”
I am not sure if the smart choice would be without spark, wouldn’t that make it the settling choice? What are your thoughts?
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ngoni
November 13th, 2009
8:42 am
Love is not something you can choose to do or not do…when it strikes it moves mysteriously.
BSandwich
November 13th, 2009
8:50 am
Morning ALL,
I think infatuation is a natural part of falling in love, and I don’t think it’s something you can control.
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
8:59 am
LOL You got me thinking back to when I first realized I was a goner. I would lay in bed sometimes and talk to myself.
“You are not supposed to be thinking about him. Why are you thinking about him?”
“What are you doing? You can’t do this.”
“You know that man loves you, just give in to it.”
”I promised myself I would not go there again. Love sucks.”
“OMG, I can’t…I don’t know…I…I…I just…I don’t know.”
“I can’t live without him. I simply just cannot live without him.”
“I hate him.”
“Lord…that man.”
No, I am not schizophrenic. LOL Love just caught me by surprise.
Nonya
November 13th, 2009
9:11 am
Been in love twice…praying it never happens again.
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
9:16 am
I knew it was love and not lust because lust is a hunger or desire to fulfill a need and my needs were already being met. LOL
Love makes you care for a person. It makes you concerned for their well being. Sometimes people say that they know they are in love because they want to spend all kinds of time with that person or they just feel XYZ when that person is near. But truth be told, those feelings are the same you get when in lust or infatuation. Love goes beyond those feelings.
Love makes you do for a person expecting nothing in return. Love makes you consider that person when making decisions. Love makes you do even when you say you are not going to do. Love is when you like that person.
I asked my husband how or when did he know I was the one. He said when he woke up one night and I was not there beside him. He felt empty because I was not there.
Wise Diva
November 13th, 2009
9:28 am
that is so true Raqi! My married friend told me about the “out the door” test. If you can truly imagine the person walking out the door, never to return, what does life without them look like? This is especially crucial to me because I battle indifference and apathy with men sometimes, not only can I picture them out the door, I can see myself putting my foot on their back to help them out *smh*
I am pretty sure (hopeful) that it won’t be that way when my (right) guy shows up.
Professor
November 13th, 2009
9:35 am
Happy Friday!
Hmmm I will comeback for “Freaky Friday” it is to early for me to read all of this sappy…fairytale ish
As for the Alicia Keys question, my response is this she should go for a single man, because Swizz beats wife came out because of the affair. I was just raised not to mess with married men so that is not my thing…stick with the single guys would be my answer to her.
I have loved and I really think that is all that matters. I will confess I have never understood the logic behind in love vs. love
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
9:40 am
Happy Friday
I love love….
I remember when I fell in love. I was head over heels. It’s one of the best feelings in the world and to have it recipricated is the ultimate.
Love will have you thinking about that person all the time. Reliving little moments that made you smile. Thinking about what you guys are going to do when you see eachother. Thinking about is he thinking about you.. Love what a wonderful feeling
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
9:44 am
Good morning!
Naturally, my mind went somewhere else with the title, but falling in love is a wonderful, yes mysterious occurrence. I hope to one day experience it again. The peaks, the valleys, the whole nine (absent marriage). Ok, maybe not the whole nine!
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
9:45 am
I can see myself putting my foot on their back to help them out *smh*
All I can say is “Oh my…Damn”. Seriously LMBO, But yep that is about right.
There is a saying that I cannot think of now, but it says something like “Love is a woman not wanting her man to leave the house, and the man can’t wait to get back to the house”. It’s something like that. I can’t think right now.
And yeah, I know for sure when you get with that special someone it will not be that way.
Now I must warn you, there just may be a day when you might just utter those words “get the hell out of my face/house/life” and then not let him leave.
I remember one time I pushed Mason out the door but wouldn’t let go of his shirt. LOL Lawd, lawd, love in action.
BSandwich
November 13th, 2009
9:46 am
I like the feeling I get when I think about her. It brightens my day.
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
9:48 am
Hmmm I will comeback for “Freaky Friday” it is to early for me to read all of this sappy…fairytale ish
Prof your are funny.. Embrace that love you have inside.. I know it’s in there!!!
lol
M. (pronounced M dot)
November 13th, 2009
9:50 am
What do men think when they feel that first surge of strong emotions about a woman? What if they aren’t prepared for it and it catches them by surprise?
I think what men feel is a sense of excitement about the possibilities, the is this to good to be true and something is wrong with this woman I just dont know what….why is she still single? But also we have to battle with our internal logic of why this will not work out and to try to not compare this to our last endeavor and what we can do to make this one a success. That’s what’s swirling through our minds for the first 1-2 months. Our defenses are always up. I think dating is just like gambling. You can win or lose big!
@ Wise
So the guys you are dating now arent the Right Guy material?
Hopeless Romantic Diva
November 13th, 2009
9:54 am
Raqi…you are such a wise diva. Thanks for sharing so much on this blog.
Yes, starting with my first love in high school, I have fallen hard several times.Just a happy feeling that I am loved back. Thinking about him. Wanting to be with him and wanting to make him happy. I remember I worked with my HS love’s mom to give him a surprise going away to college party. He went to a different school half way on the other side of the country. We were young. We did things to hurt each other.
But life ALWAYS goes on.Through crumbling marriages, painful divorces, and renewed self-awareness of what I want, who I am what I am willing and not willing to accept in a person’s behavior. It is an ongoing learning process for me.
But I am a hopeless romantic and will always seek love: love of myself, of dear friends, of being open to nurturing relationships.
While I still find that when I fall for someone, I have those same “girlish” feelings of abandoment, I curtail those…and let time be the test of whether it’s really love or not.
czBrat
November 13th, 2009
9:58 am
GM All!
Yeah. I’ve been in love. It was aight. I will agree with BSandwich that infatuation is inevitable, even when it doesn’t lead to true love. Proceed with caution.
… not only can I picture them out the door, I can see myself putting my foot on their back to help them out *smh*
um. that kinda says it all for me too, WD
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:00 am
Hey Dream!
I love love too, really I do, but I am just not feeling the sappy stuff this early…sorry
Sometimes I wonder if love is really all we try to make it be? Or is it just an indication that we have studied and mastered the fairytales and love stories with have been told and made to believe. I believe in diversity and I love studying and learning about different cultures. With that said are we any better off choosing our mates? Can you really learn to care and love for someone? I just wonder about this kind of stuff that is all.
This is on the opposite end of the spectrum, but during the liberation movement (women) a lot of women wanted their freedom bedlock vs. wedlock in a sense. Where they any better off leaving love and making away for themselves?
Do I want to share my hopes and dreams on a deep level with someone? Maybe. Do I want to jump through hoops to make it work? No. Will I settle for anybody with a deep voice and a tripod? Hell no. Am I a realist? Hell Yes
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
10:07 am
Professor, but love is not the fairytale stuff. That’s usually along the lines of lust and infatuation.
Love is when you freaking care for a person. You care enough to tell them they are wrong and not sparing their feelings because it’s for their own good.
My husband says Love makes you build a home but like keeps you coming back. Love is when you like that person.
Yeah we all like to talk about those butterflies and all that because they are nice. I still get those butterflies.
But love is when you endure shyt. Ain’t nothing fairytalish about when you are not seeing eye to eye and you wondering “did I do the right thing marrying this person?”, but you choose to stay and work it out.
No fairytales in when you have to tell yourself this is where you want to be and not have to be. That shyt is real.
AmazonRed™ - greetings from 30,000 feet
November 13th, 2009
10:09 am
Morning all,
Long time no see! Don’t want to hijack the topic but update a sista on any blog fireworks I’ve missed.
As for the topic, I’m pretty in control of my emotions, so I think I’m prone to make the “smart” choice. However, only time will tell how smart it is (or isn’t). You just have to make the best decision with the information you have at the time.
Morning all.
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
10:10 am
Blogsville was jumping yesterday, but I had to leave early. I had to go back and finish reading how the day ended. All of you guys are bad to the bone!
@InfamousD ~ your description of a pretty honey pot pretty much caught everyone’s attention. Perhaps you and i’m swiss need to get together and write a book on the anatomy of a female.
@Ms.Main, yeah everyone need to have their fingers washed for the dirty typing we all did. However, I offer no apologies.
What list did Elijah put me on???
AmazonRed™ - greetings from 30,000 feet
November 13th, 2009
10:13 am
If you can truly imagine the person walking out the door, never to return, what does life without them look like?
Yes, I definitely have loved before and life has felt empty without them. But sometimes a person isn’t in a position to love you the way you deserve to be, so you just have to push past the pain and hope that someone even better comes along.
You’re gonna have more loves then lifetimes with that special someone.
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:15 am
Raqi
I guess we will have to agree to disagree, because it would only be my ego speaking if I said, “our love or definition of it is correct” and disregard other cultures. There are several types of love and I personally feel that love has been masked and romanticized to the point where it is not real and IMO demoted to the fairytale level.
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
10:16 am
And Professor, I seriously doubt that those women wanting to be “free” did not mean they wanted to leave love. Hell they were screwing just as much as the next housewife. They just wanted to not be boxed in depending on a man’s salary. Back then those women’s lives were limited to their husband’s earning potential.
My mom was a career woman. She taught school for many years, then she became a principal. But she was a very traditional woman in our house. She made her own money but she still loved my dad.
When she was dying she told me that after we all got grown and moved out, she and my father had a renewed love affair. She had her freedom in the workplace but she had love at home.
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
10:17 am
Good day, ARed.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 13th, 2009
10:19 am
Morning All!
Professor – anyone that believes in fairytale relationships has never been in a real relationship! LOL! Like you, Im a realist. I knew going into my marriage that there would be some days when I would want to roll his azz down a flight of stairs. However I loved him enough to not want to go thru with it.
I agree with Raqi, love makes you care about the person, beyond them being in the same room with you. For me, I knew I was in love when I could let my guard down, when I was beyond comfortable with this person. And I know that sounds light or even predictable but its the truth. (And then when I let him read my magazine first and didnt chop his head off I KNEW it had to be something, lol!)
Hey ARed, how are you chica!
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
10:19 am
Men and women both had to be liberated. Women free to make their own way…or rather be an equal part of making the way for a household. And men had to liberate their minds from thinking a woman working and making it does not take anything away from him being man and leading.
In some instances it works and in others it doesn’t.
$Bill
November 13th, 2009
10:22 am
I second Hopeless Romantic’s comment about Raqi. Your opinions seem to echo exactly what’s in my heart and I appreciate your thoughts. Thank you!
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:24 am
Hey ARED? How are things going at work? Hopefully everything will let up soon so that we can read you more frequently.
RaqiI seriously doubt that those women wanting to be “free” did not mean they wanted to leave love. Hell they were screwing just as much as the next housewife.
Have you decreased love to screwing? If so that is worst IMO than a fairytale
AmazonRed™ - greetings from 30,000 feet
November 13th, 2009
10:24 am
Hi Leggs! Hi Mo! Just been busy as heck, but making sure I still carve out time for my favorite person, me.
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
10:26 am
Professor romanticized is television and harlequin novels.
Yes romance does exist within the body of love, but true love is that enduring power. That perseverance. That this is where I want to be despite all else.
But yeah, let’s just agree to disagree.
But uh, just so you know ain’t nothing romantic about pulling back the covers to get in bed and get punched in the face with a cloud of funk. LOL
AmazonRed™ - greetings from 30,000 feet
November 13th, 2009
10:26 am
Hey ARED? How are things going at work? Hopefully everything will let up soon so that we can read you more frequently
Hey Professor. Yeah, me too. The end date on the contract keeps getting extended. And when I try to sneak on the blog, the link is “broken” half the time — I think they screwed with it!
I know you are holding it down still! 
czBrat
November 13th, 2009
10:30 am
my three words for today – Love is Faith
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
10:32 am
Well welll well Good Morning All.. Hey Leggs..
I need to write a book about it. Huh.
As far as Love… Thats a misunderstanding between two fools.. Just Kidding..
Love is love when it happens you least expect it and you cant control who you love.. So many times we as people think we can upset the balance of Fate or what God has for you but over and over again we get it wrong.. Im now on this.. Whoever she is will reveal herself to me and make it easy for me to love her.. I dont care what her background is or how many degrees she does or doesnt have.. Just as long as she meets the basic good person criteria..
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:33 am
ARed,
I am trying to hold it down, but there is nothing like having some backup! So hurry back!
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
10:34 am
One thing I have to tbe thankful for is the fact that I was able to live both ends of the spectrum.
I lived in that fairy tale romance. Where you feel like a princess. Where anything you want your given. Him doing everything he can to make you happy. I truly loved it and I know that one day it is possible to have that “true love” again..
Then I’ve been on the opposite end, where you are just like “What the he!! amd I doing here”. Through that time I fought, I fought my azz off to keep the love that I had grown to relish in.
Love is not always going to be fun, simple, or predictable.
Sometimes you have to do some work and if you both are devoted to making it happen your work will pay off.
At the end of the day although my 5 year relationship is now done. I truly appreciate the good/bad times. They made me the woman that I am today and truly opened my eyes to what I’m worth. When I am able to open myself up to a new man… Let me just say he is going to be the luckiet man on earth without a doubt!!!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
10:35 am
And treats me well and allows me to treat her well..
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
10:41 am
Now enough of this malarchy… This ones for you Professor..
I like new like cause of the new booty.. Its nothing like finding out what gets your new boos motor running.. Then that all day new booty sex.. You know when you cant get enough of each other.. Come on with it.. This is freaky Friday and Im starting early.. What do you like your new boo to do to you to get the juices flowing, the motor running and the flame flaming?
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:43 am
Raqi,
I say fairytale because some folks fell in love with something that was not true. Was the love still real for the adulteress lying next to someone’s husband? Do we really consider it real love when someone is punched in the face with a fist, and the perpetrator say I love you to death? Shall we consider and call all things dysfunctional love? If that is where we are I will say shyt on love.
I think we are all grown on this blog; therefore we should try to elevate our critical thinking skills by looking at our belief system and getting outside of the box. As a whole we are not doing to good with this “love” thing if you look at the divorce rates, and if you bring in factors such as blended families, etc. it took a lot of folks several times to get it right.
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:47 am
DK
I want him to explore every inch of my body…like the song go lick me up and down until I say stop, and know that my stop means keep going…have me squirming across the bed because I can’t take no more.
czBrat
November 13th, 2009
10:47 am
one thing i learned from my marriage …. LOVE ENDURES
Cemeeli
November 13th, 2009
10:48 am
morning –
Awww…love…You mean when God just do it! He just does it while you ain’t looking? Cause he’s in control anyway!
Or
Do you mean like when your cup runneth over when he says or does something that brings you to tears?…Or when you have a quarrel and you can’t stay upset cause guess what – You love ‘em.
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:48 am
Where is Elijah?
Like Leggs I went and read his post before my class…I have a bone to pick with him
czBrat
November 13th, 2009
10:48 am
DK & Professor, i see yous guys are gonna have the Brat’s eyes burning before lunch.
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
10:50 am
What do you like your new boo to do to you to get the juices flowing, the motor running and the flame flaming
Hmmmmm
I like being out somewhere public.. and he whispers in my ear what he wants to do to me. That hightened sense of awareness is soooooooo GREAT!
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:52 am
czBrat,
Hopefully DK and myself and the rest of the blog game will have this joint so hot and steamy that your eyes will not burn…visibility maybe bad due to the steam, but just hang on
Professor
November 13th, 2009
10:54 am
Dream,
I am with you a naughty text message or anything like that…
Doing it somewhere in public my ex and I broke in a lot of model homes…:grin:
Cemeeli
November 13th, 2009
10:54 am
czBrat – I agree.
Happy Friday also, that’s to everyone.
czBrat
November 13th, 2009
10:55 am
Doing it somewhere in public my ex and I broke in a lot of model homes…:grin: here we go!!!! lalalalalalalala
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
10:56 am
or..
When you’re in the bed and you “fall asleep” before he does and all of a sudden you feel his hand running over your newly lotioned skin…and you feel a light breeze over you b/c he just whipped the covers back and rolls you over nibbling your neck while he mounts you and well….. lmao!!! Oh the memories :green:
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
10:57 am
Prof
I haven’t tried the “public” avenue yet.. I’m a lil scarrredd lol
Wonderwoman
November 13th, 2009
10:58 am
Hi all
Raqi- Thanks for sharing your experience. You are breaking it down this morning. Its refreshing to hear someone, through their ups & downs are still happy in love. And not bitter and resentful. Where hope is lost, you’re making me believe it can still happen in this crazy world!
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:00 am
The mental picture I have knowing you’re about to pour honey, whip cream whatever you like and eat off me gets the engine roaring.
Cemeeli
November 13th, 2009
11:00 am
Well darn Dream_n – okay…
let’s see more “Or” ’cause you’re somewhere…lol…
Professor
November 13th, 2009
11:01 am
…there is nothing like being awakened by the tongue, instead of the alarm clock. That tongue needs to start at the neck and end at the Y
Disclaimer…please kindly skip my post if you don’t like the content, because for the next 30 minutes if not for the entire day I am going to go at it!
Cemeeli
November 13th, 2009
11:03 am
Raqi – you don’t need to add an “Or” maam, you’re just “in” it…but not Love though…you on “that stuff!”
hahaha
Professor
November 13th, 2009
11:03 am
I hear ya’ Leggs I am a full course meal…pour the chicken gravy on me if you have to…LOl
Where is Melo?
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:05 am
“…rolls you over nibbling your neck while he mounts you and well…” I actually snorted reading that line!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:07 am
Prof – Thats right.. Squirming is good..
Leggs – Well Damn.. Honey and Whip Cream?
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:08 am
Ok, Professor, I’ll try to keep up with you.
@Dream_n, nothing to be scared of. It’s very exhilarating being bad in public!
@Elijah, you’ve been summoned before the court!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:09 am
Im telling ya’ll pulling over in a parking garage and getting to it is the best.. Especially downtown at night, anything goes leaving peter st..
SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.
November 13th, 2009
11:10 am
Three Words Daily – God fixes things.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 13th, 2009
11:10 am
Here we go….
To get my juices flowing…kisses on ‘that spot’ on the back of my neck, rubbing the small of my back, whispering/kissing my ear, playing in my hair
Or
him being straight out of the shower fresh, catching him off guard (he’s watching the game but you CAN get his ahem, attention)
okay back on topic, I agree with Dream_n I like love. I dont expect it to be perfect but I do expect it to be genuine, selfless, respectful and reciprocated
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
11:11 am
STAMINA
I need stamina. I am an all nighter.. I’ll give you breaks
but when the blood is flowing and the juices are running….. You have to be able to keep up.
It’s something almost exciting and exhilarating about S!X and the one you love.. It’s powerful I tell ya powerful.
If this is a dating blog...
November 13th, 2009
11:12 am
…and I have been reading it for quite some time, why the F do we have all these married folks chiming in?
And Professor, you are one big tease, but I like your dream world! So, as Rod Stewart sang, “spread your wings and let me come (mispelled on purpose) inside”!
Professor
November 13th, 2009
11:13 am
Dream_n, I say be bold and take it there. With the model homes usually the onsite agent will show you around, but if there are two or three model homes they will show you the first one and you are on your own with the other homes or just say we are going to check these last two homes out and we will stop by your office on the way out. Go in the master bedroom closet or bathroom…hell take the bed and do a quickie or some SUPER Heavy foreplay…
There is nothing like being freaky and bold while on vacation…
SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.
November 13th, 2009
11:14 am
Happy love is a beautiful thing. I wish I knew more genuinely happy couples.
As to the topic – I’m kinda living this right now and er, um, well…my emotions are too jumbled up to speak clearly on it. Just picture me humming and smiling and raving unto the joy fantastic.
But more than anything, feel me being over the moon that we find ourselves moving to the same rhythm, at the same time, to the same depth of emotion. THAT is what is most magical.
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:14 am
Squirming, trying to get away is fun, even when you bump your head on the headboard!
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
11:15 am
Leggs
I just might have to try that one..
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:15 am
Prof – Speaking of being awakened.. There is nothing like being awakened to a cute set of lips around Desmond.. I tell ya.. Thats the quickest way to get some.. Like the little Boy Max said in Where the Wild Things Are “Let The Royal Rompus begin”..
Professor
November 13th, 2009
11:17 am
If you were verbally teased by me it means your sorry, lame azz did not meet the criteria and I was trying to let you keep some PRIDE! Stop changing your moniker and hiding out like a bytch it is not cute!
As for the married folks always talking…I will let them handle that.
Back to DK not peter street!
I remember there was so much traffic leaving the Prince concert and we were stuck trying to get out. We finally just made out and did a few things right there in the lot…
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:18 am
Hey there are erogenous zones all over the body and I study them on each person.. My favorite is the back of the knees.. H3ll I even like to bite ya booty a little..
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
11:20 am
@ Prof
I think I would be worried about someone coming in lol… I ain’t there yet… but it does sound exciting.
MsM
November 13th, 2009
11:20 am
H3ll I even like to bite ya booty a little..
Well, right on man!
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:21 am
@If this is…some of the married folks live vicariously through this blog. You know who the Chief is, right?
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
11:23 am
I tell you what, one the biggest misuse of words is “making love” when referring to sexual intercourse.
Making love is thru deeds and actions that take place around the house, outside of the house, when you two are miles apart.
Getting between the sheets is just expressing gratitude for and sharing of the love that has been made elsewhere.
Elizabeth Adalyn is a product of our expression of love. LOL
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:24 am
I also like to watch it release its love juices.. That is a good one for me.. I like to see her get to where she wants to be and all that extra lube is all over me.. Face included..
How could I have been "verbally" teased...
November 13th, 2009
11:24 am
… when this is a written blog? Obviously you are not an English professor! And, you have no idea who I am, so please try not to equate me with your other “lame azz” acquaintances – it takes a real beotch to call someone to whom you are not acquainted a “bytch”.
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:26 am
@Dream_n, when you do, it will be a memory forever etched in your memory.
I remember getting my groove on on my deck in the snow.
I’ve heard some names but never a “Desmond.”
SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.
November 13th, 2009
11:26 am
I actually don’t consider the married folks as living vicariously. I see them providing insight from the other side most often.
Because really, there is nothing so great to be vicariuosly lived through most of what we share. We’re kind of a humdrum regular kind of crew, some buppies, some BAPS, some all american girls and guys, our resident African, the expected white guy, the young ones, the old ones, the wise asses and me. ~giggling~
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:27 am
Leggs – Desmond the D is special..
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
11:28 am
Naw..
I like the term “making love”.
“That is a good one for me.. I like to see her get to where she wants to be and all that extra lube is all over me.. Face included..”
Well Dam!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:29 am
Raqi – Thats your version of love.. My version of love consists of High Heels, a apron and a home cooked meal.. The gratitude to be shown immediately after the meal.. Preferably on the kitchen table.. I’m just saying..
Cemeeli
November 13th, 2009
11:30 am
“I actually don’t consider the married folks as living vicariously. I see them providing insight from the other side most often.”
agree…
@ Mo – You got pop corn today?
SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.
November 13th, 2009
11:30 am
IDK – I like how you think.
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
11:31 am
You know what I like too, is when He’s tasting the rainbow and it’s sooo good that you try to pull away to get your senses right, and he takes his hands grabs your hips and pulls you even closer to his mouth and just starts devouring you like it’s his last supper!! AAHHAHA!!!! I love it!
Professor
November 13th, 2009
11:32 am
You are a stupid Bytch if you think English Professors are the only ones exist go study your GED book and let your lame azz lurk the rest of the day. If you were so real your dumb coward azz would not have to slither in here under a different moniker. Now enough of me playing with trash…I am back to teasing on Freaky Friday.
Oh yea I am a Bytch…that is how I ruffled your raggly azz feathers when you read me sucker!
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
11:33 am
SexyCool now you know don’t no married person know anything about dating. Hell I wouldn’t even know where to begin when it comes to talking about dating a man, learning what it takes to make a relationship bloom. Hell actually knowing what it takes to deal with a man on the daily and getting insight to how he thinks. Ain’t no married woman gone know anything about that. Didn’t you know that girl?
Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first
November 13th, 2009
11:34 am
How could I have been “verbally” teased…
Why all the hostility today?
It’s friday.. folks are going to enjoy the weekend… Get off on the blog posts and genuinely enjoy themselves… Join in
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:34 am
Sexy – You know I like how you think.. Ummm Hmmmm
MELO
November 13th, 2009
11:36 am
Where is Melo?
Taking notes honey..back to school again. With this MIA crowd u learn eveday.
Always a learner myself!
Carry On!
Morning!!
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
11:37 am
Infamous Love is when I season that steak without the overload of salt and put it on the grill without dropping it first and serving it on a plate that has not been licked by a dog, even after that hardarse has acted like a jackarse.
That’s love. Clean, healthy service with a smile. LOL
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:38 am
@Raqi, I feel the same way. Making love and sexing is not the same thing. I have said it many times!
Geez, Professor...
November 13th, 2009
11:39 am
…what a low class skank you must be! And your writing abilities “if you think English Professors are the only ones exist” – what the heck does that mean? I said you must NOT be an English professor – your reading comprenhension is lacking, too. Me thinks thou needs a new moniker under which to write since you have blown your cover using this one!
M. (pronounced M dot)
November 13th, 2009
11:40 am
@Raqi…Living love in progress
Great point. The dating game is always changing. People out of the game don’t really have a clue like someone who is out here in the game. What worked for someone in 1988 probably is irrelevant now.
@Blog
I have a question, what does love really have to do with anything? Does it serve as a blinder to reality in the dating game?
Its interesting because yesterday I attened a business mixer in midtown and had a great time. I met a guy who is a divorce attorney I asked what was the biggest divorce that he closed lately….He told me just last week, he closed a deal for a HNWI where she got 2 homes, 6 cars, and $55 Million! What happened to all the love and bliss and why did it cost him $55 million? The guy said M., I dont care what you have to do. Get a PRENUP!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:40 am
Raqi – Love is me getting you where you need to be and fore going the getting me where I need to be.. Making sure youre good before me.. And thats sexually or whatever..
SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.
November 13th, 2009
11:40 am
And to your question about what you like the new boo to do…..hell, at this point, all MND has to do is touch me most of the dern time.
But er, um…him putting hickies on my tummy right above my tattoo…Well, that’s why I just got to work at 11a.
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
11:40 am
Yep, Leggs ’cause too many out there having sex and love is no where to be found. Hell a bunch of them don’t even like each other.
Leggs
November 13th, 2009
11:41 am
Sure should have said some of them live vicariously. I say that to mean the stuff they say here they wouldn’t say to their mates. The married ones that flirt with other bloggers are in fact living vicariously on this blog. No doubt, they all offer a slew of insight. But vicariously, some of them are living!
THE INFAMOUS DK
November 13th, 2009
11:41 am
Raqi – And thats not love what you spoke off.. Thats a good upbringing because you do right in spite of..
Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 13th, 2009
11:41 am
Infamous – you are my dude!
sparking some memories, WHEW!
Dream_n – public places are a go chica! You just have to be at that point where you just dont give a phluck! TOTALLY co-signing that 11:31
Cemeeli – I keep popcorn on deck chica, you know we never can tell what may pop off in here!
Raqi...Living love in progress
November 13th, 2009
11:43 am
Making sure youre good before me.. And thats sexually or whatever..
Now that is spot on right there Infamous. Love is putting the other person needs before your own. Or at least right up there next to yours.