Morning ALL,

I think infatuation is a natural part of falling in love, and I don’t think it’s something you can control.

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Been in love twice…praying it never happens again.

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Happy Friday

I love love….

I remember when I fell in love. I was head over heels. It’s one of the best feelings in the world and to have it recipricated is the ultimate.

Love will have you thinking about that person all the time. Reliving little moments that made you smile. Thinking about what you guys are going to do when you see eachother. Thinking about is he thinking about you.. Love what a wonderful feeling

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I can see myself putting my foot on their back to help them out *smh*

All I can say is “Oh my…Damn”. Seriously LMBO, But yep that is about right.

There is a saying that I cannot think of now, but it says something like “Love is a woman not wanting her man to leave the house, and the man can’t wait to get back to the house”. It’s something like that. I can’t think right now.

And yeah, I know for sure when you get with that special someone it will not be that way.

Now I must warn you, there just may be a day when you might just utter those words “get the hell out of my face/house/life” and then not let him leave.

I remember one time I pushed Mason out the door but wouldn’t let go of his shirt. LOL Lawd, lawd, love in action.

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Hmmm I will comeback for “Freaky Friday” it is to early for me to read all of this sappy…fairytale ish

Prof your are funny.. Embrace that love you have inside.. I know it’s in there!!!
lol

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Raqi…you are such a wise diva. Thanks for sharing so much on this blog.

Yes, starting with my first love in high school, I have fallen hard several times.Just a happy feeling that I am loved back. Thinking about him. Wanting to be with him and wanting to make him happy. I remember I worked with my HS love’s mom to give him a surprise going away to college party. He went to a different school half way on the other side of the country. We were young. We did things to hurt each other.

But life ALWAYS goes on.Through crumbling marriages, painful divorces, and renewed self-awareness of what I want, who I am what I am willing and not willing to accept in a person’s behavior. It is an ongoing learning process for me.
But I am a hopeless romantic and will always seek love: love of myself, of dear friends, of being open to nurturing relationships.
While I still find that when I fall for someone, I have those same “girlish” feelings of abandoment, I curtail those…and let time be the test of whether it’s really love or not.

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Hey Dream!

I love love too, really I do, but I am just not feeling the sappy stuff this early…sorry

Sometimes I wonder if love is really all we try to make it be? Or is it just an indication that we have studied and mastered the fairytales and love stories with have been told and made to believe. I believe in diversity and I love studying and learning about different cultures. With that said are we any better off choosing our mates? Can you really learn to care and love for someone? I just wonder about this kind of stuff that is all. This is on the opposite end of the spectrum, but during the liberation movement (women) a lot of women wanted their freedom bedlock vs. wedlock in a sense. Where they any better off leaving love and making away for themselves?

Do I want to share my hopes and dreams on a deep level with someone? Maybe. Do I want to jump through hoops to make it work? No. Will I settle for anybody with a deep voice and a tripod? Hell no. Am I a realist? Hell Yes

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Morning all,

Long time no see! Don’t want to hijack the topic but update a sista on any blog fireworks I’ve missed.

As for the topic, I’m pretty in control of my emotions, so I think I’m prone to make the “smart” choice. However, only time will tell how smart it is (or isn’t). You just have to make the best decision with the information you have at the time.

Morning all.

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If you can truly imagine the person walking out the door, never to return, what does life without them look like?

Yes, I definitely have loved before and life has felt empty without them. But sometimes a person isn’t in a position to love you the way you deserve to be, so you just have to push past the pain and hope that someone even better comes along.

You’re gonna have more loves then lifetimes with that special someone.

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And Professor, I seriously doubt that those women wanting to be “free” did not mean they wanted to leave love. Hell they were screwing just as much as the next housewife. They just wanted to not be boxed in depending on a man’s salary. Back then those women’s lives were limited to their husband’s earning potential.

My mom was a career woman. She taught school for many years, then she became a principal. But she was a very traditional woman in our house. She made her own money but she still loved my dad.

When she was dying she told me that after we all got grown and moved out, she and my father had a renewed love affair. She had her freedom in the workplace but she had love at home.

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Morning All!

Professor – anyone that believes in fairytale relationships has never been in a real relationship! LOL! Like you, Im a realist. I knew going into my marriage that there would be some days when I would want to roll his azz down a flight of stairs. However I loved him enough to not want to go thru with it.

I agree with Raqi, love makes you care about the person, beyond them being in the same room with you. For me, I knew I was in love when I could let my guard down, when I was beyond comfortable with this person. And I know that sounds light or even predictable but its the truth. (And then when I let him read my magazine first and didnt chop his head off I KNEW it had to be something, lol!)

Hey ARed, how are you chica!

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I second Hopeless Romantic’s comment about Raqi. Your opinions seem to echo exactly what’s in my heart and I appreciate your thoughts. Thank you!

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Hi Leggs! Hi Mo! Just been busy as heck, but making sure I still carve out time for my favorite person, me.

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Hey ARED? How are things going at work? Hopefully everything will let up soon so that we can read you more frequently

Hey Professor. Yeah, me too. The end date on the contract keeps getting extended. And when I try to sneak on the blog, the link is “broken” half the time — I think they screwed with it! I know you are holding it down still!

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Well welll well Good Morning All.. Hey Leggs..

I need to write a book about it. Huh.

As far as Love… Thats a misunderstanding between two fools.. Just Kidding..

Love is love when it happens you least expect it and you cant control who you love.. So many times we as people think we can upset the balance of Fate or what God has for you but over and over again we get it wrong.. Im now on this.. Whoever she is will reveal herself to me and make it easy for me to love her.. I dont care what her background is or how many degrees she does or doesnt have.. Just as long as she meets the basic good person criteria..

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One thing I have to tbe thankful for is the fact that I was able to live both ends of the spectrum.

I lived in that fairy tale romance. Where you feel like a princess. Where anything you want your given. Him doing everything he can to make you happy. I truly loved it and I know that one day it is possible to have that “true love” again..

Then I’ve been on the opposite end, where you are just like “What the he!! amd I doing here”. Through that time I fought, I fought my azz off to keep the love that I had grown to relish in.

Love is not always going to be fun, simple, or predictable.
Sometimes you have to do some work and if you both are devoted to making it happen your work will pay off.

At the end of the day although my 5 year relationship is now done. I truly appreciate the good/bad times. They made me the woman that I am today and truly opened my eyes to what I’m worth. When I am able to open myself up to a new man… Let me just say he is going to be the luckiet man on earth without a doubt!!!

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Now enough of this malarchy… This ones for you Professor..

I like new like cause of the new booty.. Its nothing like finding out what gets your new boos motor running.. Then that all day new booty sex.. You know when you cant get enough of each other.. Come on with it.. This is freaky Friday and Im starting early.. What do you like your new boo to do to you to get the juices flowing, the motor running and the flame flaming?

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DK

I want him to explore every inch of my body…like the song go lick me up and down until I say stop, and know that my stop means keep going…have me squirming across the bed because I can’t take no more.

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morning –

Awww…love…You mean when God just do it! He just does it while you ain’t looking? Cause he’s in control anyway!

Or

Do you mean like when your cup runneth over when he says or does something that brings you to tears?…Or when you have a quarrel and you can’t stay upset cause guess what – You love ‘em.

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DK & Professor, i see yous guys are gonna have the Brat’s eyes burning before lunch.

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czBrat,

Hopefully DK and myself and the rest of the blog game will have this joint so hot and steamy that your eyes will not burn…visibility maybe bad due to the steam, but just hang on

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czBrat – I agree.

Happy Friday also, that’s to everyone.

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or..

When you’re in the bed and you “fall asleep” before he does and all of a sudden you feel his hand running over your newly lotioned skin…and you feel a light breeze over you b/c he just whipped the covers back and rolls you over nibbling your neck while he mounts you and well….. lmao!!! Oh the memories :green:

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Hi all

Raqi- Thanks for sharing your experience. You are breaking it down this morning. Its refreshing to hear someone, through their ups & downs are still happy in love. And not bitter and resentful. Where hope is lost, you’re making me believe it can still happen in this crazy world!

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Well darn Dream_n – okay…

let’s see more “Or” ’cause you’re somewhere…lol…

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Raqi – you don’t need to add an “Or” maam, you’re just “in” it…but not Love though…you on “that stuff!”

hahaha

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“…rolls you over nibbling your neck while he mounts you and well…” I actually snorted reading that line!

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Ok, Professor, I’ll try to keep up with you.

@Dream_n, nothing to be scared of. It’s very exhilarating being bad in public!

@Elijah, you’ve been summoned before the court!

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Three Words Daily – God fixes things.

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STAMINA

I need stamina. I am an all nighter.. I’ll give you breaks but when the blood is flowing and the juices are running….. You have to be able to keep up.

It’s something almost exciting and exhilarating about S!X and the one you love.. It’s powerful I tell ya powerful.

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Dream_n, I say be bold and take it there. With the model homes usually the onsite agent will show you around, but if there are two or three model homes they will show you the first one and you are on your own with the other homes or just say we are going to check these last two homes out and we will stop by your office on the way out. Go in the master bedroom closet or bathroom…hell take the bed and do a quickie or some SUPER Heavy foreplay…

There is nothing like being freaky and bold while on vacation…

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Squirming, trying to get away is fun, even when you bump your head on the headboard!

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Prof – Speaking of being awakened.. There is nothing like being awakened to a cute set of lips around Desmond.. I tell ya.. Thats the quickest way to get some.. Like the little Boy Max said in Where the Wild Things Are “Let The Royal Rompus begin”..

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Hey there are erogenous zones all over the body and I study them on each person.. My favorite is the back of the knees.. H3ll I even like to bite ya booty a little..

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H3ll I even like to bite ya booty a little..

Well, right on man!

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I tell you what, one the biggest misuse of words is “making love” when referring to sexual intercourse.

Making love is thru deeds and actions that take place around the house, outside of the house, when you two are miles apart.

Getting between the sheets is just expressing gratitude for and sharing of the love that has been made elsewhere.

Elizabeth Adalyn is a product of our expression of love. LOL

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… when this is a written blog? Obviously you are not an English professor! And, you have no idea who I am, so please try not to equate me with your other “lame azz” acquaintances – it takes a real beotch to call someone to whom you are not acquainted a “bytch”.

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I actually don’t consider the married folks as living vicariously. I see them providing insight from the other side most often.

Because really, there is nothing so great to be vicariuosly lived through most of what we share. We’re kind of a humdrum regular kind of crew, some buppies, some BAPS, some all american girls and guys, our resident African, the expected white guy, the young ones, the old ones, the wise asses and me. ~giggling~

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Naw..

I like the term “making love”.

“That is a good one for me.. I like to see her get to where she wants to be and all that extra lube is all over me.. Face included..”

Well Dam!

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“I actually don’t consider the married folks as living vicariously. I see them providing insight from the other side most often.”

agree…

@ Mo – You got pop corn today?

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You know what I like too, is when He’s tasting the rainbow and it’s sooo good that you try to pull away to get your senses right, and he takes his hands grabs your hips and pulls you even closer to his mouth and just starts devouring you like it’s his last supper!! AAHHAHA!!!! I love it!

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SexyCool now you know don’t no married person know anything about dating. Hell I wouldn’t even know where to begin when it comes to talking about dating a man, learning what it takes to make a relationship bloom. Hell actually knowing what it takes to deal with a man on the daily and getting insight to how he thinks. Ain’t no married woman gone know anything about that. Didn’t you know that girl?

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Sexy – You know I like how you think.. Ummm Hmmmm

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Infamous Love is when I season that steak without the overload of salt and put it on the grill without dropping it first and serving it on a plate that has not been licked by a dog, even after that hardarse has acted like a jackarse.

That’s love. Clean, healthy service with a smile. LOL

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…what a low class skank you must be! And your writing abilities “if you think English Professors are the only ones exist” – what the heck does that mean? I said you must NOT be an English professor – your reading comprenhension is lacking, too. Me thinks thou needs a new moniker under which to write since you have blown your cover using this one!

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Raqi – Love is me getting you where you need to be and fore going the getting me where I need to be.. Making sure youre good before me.. And thats sexually or whatever..

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Yep, Leggs ’cause too many out there having sex and love is no where to be found. Hell a bunch of them don’t even like each other.

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Raqi – And thats not love what you spoke off.. Thats a good upbringing because you do right in spite of..

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Making sure youre good before me.. And thats sexually or whatever..

Now that is spot on right there Infamous. Love is putting the other person needs before your own. Or at least right up there next to yours.

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M.

Some women try to get you where it’ll hurt the most and that’s in your pockets.

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Infamous – Love is when I don’t pocket that couple of twenties that fell out of your pocket in the wash. LOL I love you too much to steal from you.

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Honestly I only know one married person on the blog.. Well 2 if you count I wanna hit you right now Melo.. I like to hear Raq speak because its good to see her come froma bitter scorned chick to a housewife.. Its progression.. It gives me a staunch track shoes on runner from relationships that my sweet thang is out there.. I aint saying marriage but she is out there..

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Love is when I pat your booty while were talking to friends or family and we immediately have to go..

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@Cemeeli

True That!

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No it obvious I don’t put too much time in reading cowards…now kiss my azz you coward azz bytch that likes to slither in and change your moniker. Why not be upfront? Dang I forgot fear keeps you hidden behind your computer and you still change your name? Whew you are such a trashy punk…grow some balls even if they are blue.

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LOL Cemeeli. I think that man’s love for me and his money are running neck-and-neck.

Me: Mason, I found $40 in the wash, is it yo….

Him: Where is it? Give it to me.

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what it do…whats cracking in this piece today

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Whats up Rell, how do?

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Cee – No that wouldnt be right cause thats his money.. Now if you give it to him and he gives it to you cool.. but dont do it like that..

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WillieD, Ctha1, PoppaG, Raqi, Melo, Swiss, mqew…..all married, right?

Tazzee, JtJ…and i think Hef, are soon to be…

good mix.

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Infamous imma follow your lead.

Love is when we are sitting at the table having dinner at a friends house you subtly slide your hand halfway up my skirt.

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Although marriage is not the a venue I want to attend.

It’s great to hear everyones POV whether their married, stable relationships, or just dating.

I enjoy diversity and this blog gives me that on a daily basis..

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i love raqi..that women is real and learned from her setbacks…love her loyalty..keep spitting love this place would be boring without you and your honesty

@professor…i am putting out some good ones?

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i like putting on a coat or jacket and find some money you didn’t remember leaving. It’s like “gifting” yourself.

do it all the time.

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@Raqi ~ pure d LUST (12:04) wrapped with the silver lining of LOVE!

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Well, i don’t listen to Raqi – she’ll get cha pregnant. But we do make purty(pretty) babies…

lunchtime!

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Love is when I throw on leg out the bed in the morning attempting to start my and he catch me by other pulling back into his “loving” embrace.

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Love is a sweet kiss and a deep look into her eyes as we lay, while running my fingers thru her hair.. Or if she has a short cut one hand massaging that scalp, softly..

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Love is when your boo is standing in the line at some store and all the dudes are checking her out, while you casually stroll up and feel on her booty..

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Love is washing her hair in the sink and after rinsing the conditioner out pull her pants down to help let her hair air dry.. You know with all the heat of the hair dryer.. Heat non the less but without the dryer..

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without the heat of the hair dryer..

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Love is washing her hair. Period.

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Love is when he understands these words “Baby I am just tired tonight”, like I did last night. LOL

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love is… ensuring that all of your off spring have the same last name!!

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DK i do believe you’re an undercover sweetheart. i’m willing to forgive you for disliking flip-flops

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DK i do believe you’re an undercover sweetheart

czBrat we peeped his tenderness long time ago. LOL

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Mo, love is those unexpected compliments or that wink of approval.

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CZ – I can be a charming SOB specially when I want to do my duty and please that booty.. Afterall I am an Aquarius.. Float on playing in the background

I just like creative relations.. I like it to be interesting and not regular..

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I hereby appoint “SHE WHO IS LONG WINDED” queen of this here blog! all hail the queen!!!

*bowing*

*barfing*

and now *laughng*

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Love is when he puts his foot down and insists that he will not accompany you to another wedding or chick event but by the time you are ready to walk out the door he is standing there in that beautiful jet black suit looking all suave and debonair and smelling good ready escort like a king should.

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Although I would not call a lot of these post love (probably none of them) they do make for tender moments…

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WOW! i do have a weakness for the waterbearers DK.

now. with all this lustful chatter going on, how many ‘representatives’ are in the room today? i’m wondering if everyone would really put it down as they’ve claimed, or does this stuff just make ya *look* good in blogland???

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I think only a person’s partner can judge how well they put it down.

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If those folks don’t get here with our lunch imma go into a diabetic comma. LOL

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SMH @ your 12:42 Prof…. lol

Tender moments I do agree..

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Not sure of all the topics, but I see some tender moments here which made me go down memory lane and my heart smiled.

I will say this I have always been careful, and I have not had life to reside in my womb Arson I never saw myself with children by different men, being a single mother by choice or doing the blended family thing.

@ Dream…yea they are just tender moments, but the recipient may see it as love I just see gibber gabber

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Donde esta los hombres hoy????

I wanted to know when they knew they had fallen in love with their woman….

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Yea SCool,

I read Super H E A D’s book and she mentioned how her PSH was not pleasing to one of her partners…you really have to learn the person you are with.

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Good Afternoon Folks!

Hello Ms. Professor!
Hello Ms. Leggs!

I luv the ladies who are have spontaneous sexual combustion going inside and outside the bedroom! I get extra excited when I am performing like Mr. Swiss mentioned the other day and your eyes start rolling around and you are now exhausted from the continous O’ssss.

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It really doesn’t matter how sexually confident I am if it’s not pleasing to my partner.

SexyCool and Professor I agree with that. What’s the use of doing it if we both aren’t enjoying.

(Well there are times under special circumstances to do it, but that’s a topic for another day.)

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Prof

That’s so true.. Not everyone enjoys everything. What works for one may not work for the other. Gotta be careful with that one… it can be quite embarassing lol

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I get extra excited when I am performing

Why was that funny to me..

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Awww shucks now…all these tender moments have me misty eyed cuz I ain’t gots me no love! Really, J/K!

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Hi Elijah…pray tell, what list did you put me on? I like to know whose company I’m keeping.

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Love is when you get that text message that says “muah”.

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SCool – mail call chica

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@SassyMe, I said the same thing with my first post.

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“Hurts So Good” is when them dang hip and thigh muscles done got that workout and you are reminded with every step you take. Ride ‘im Cowgirl.

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Hurts So Good is when hours later you can still feel the grip of his strong manly hand from him gripping your thigh pulling you onto him and not letting go until you explode.

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Speaking of Swizzbeats and his tutorial on yesterday. Last night, I remember thinking through this haze of pure delight. “Has MND been reading the same ish Swiss has about them concentric circles?”

LAWD GEEZUS!!!!

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Hurts So Good is when you call into work the next day with a bogus excuse because “He blowed my back out” is not acceptable in the HR manual.

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Avoiding the wet spot.

Luv is when uall roll over again and again,on ur wet spots on the bed…just tearing and tiring each other out!

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Hurts so good is when you feel him past the cervical mouth

Makes you holla ‘get the f*** out of there’. All puns intended.

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Hurts so good is when he’s deep inside you.. and the thrust becomes harder and harder and you feel your self about to reach that O and then he slows back down and you feel it slipping away, but he starts thrusting harder again and again and you’re about to get there, but he slows down again…. and then you slap the sh!t outta him…

Yeah that’s some good hurting…

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“Has MND been reading the same ish Swiss has about them

watch that boy SexxyCool!..is he hitting it evreyday??

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love is when the sound of his laugh makes your heart grin

love is in the quiet of the phone…our souls speak loud

love is when those souls collide…

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Yep. Er’day.

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Oh by the way when you truly love someone is something I call completing the cycle because now you take into accounts how your actions will affect your SO happiness! Unselfness, caring, being thoughtful and striving to make someone happy now become first in your life!

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Ditto Leggs!!!

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Hurt so good is when you deep in the session and he hits that spot and you scream….but it’s a different scream and ERRTHING stops…..then he looks up/down at you and says “you alright?”…you mutter “yes” and he proceeds to tear that azz uuuuup!

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Hurt so good is when you HAVE to wear a skirt the next day…underwear is optional.

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…it’s progressed to one of those convos.

Tazzee chirl this is like part two from yesterday…okaaay?!

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Hurts So Good is when he can’t take his shirt off on the court because of the claw marks in his back.

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Happy Freaky Friday Folks. See now, Wise, I cannot be blamed for today’s depravity. I see we’ve still got some h0rny peeps in blogville today…

“Speaking of Swizzbeats and his tutorial on yesterday…”

SCool — I think I should start my own cunnilingus self-help/motivational speaking tour. Anyone remember Tom Cruise’s character in Magnolia? I’m thinking along those lines, but with a different catch phrase: “WORSHIP the pdussy!”

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Hurt so good is when he’s hitt’n it from the back (not anal) in deep concentration cause your butt is just popping and shanking and moving to every thrust he gives you. You start saying stuff that he can’t hear/understand then he BAM smacks your azz and tells you to talk louder and you get a little louder and he smacks you again and tells you to scream it…. and you scream some obscene sh!t he’s never heard before and he starts thrusting and smacking thrusting and smacking thrusting and smacking….. WHEW!!

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Similac – I see you tryn to be good and all but ion thank they talking bout LOVE no mo.

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love is when you know he’ll haunt your heart for the rest of your life

love is losing weight and gaining pieces to you heart

love is no starved hearts

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Dream_n has moved up a few pegs!

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love was found at the residence of m.i.a.

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he’s hitt’n it from the back (not anal) in deep

Dream_n, im actually watching a white hiusewife getting it from a black dude on megarotica…..mayne….her puddsy is making flpingg noises ……tetetete

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WillieD – Well see boss, i see it like this…

love is – not predicated according to what’s going on around me…

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Oh shoot I thought we were stilll on Hurt so Good… my bad

Love is wearing one of his t-shirts while blasting one of his favorites songs on the radio… getting ready for him to come home…

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Similac – gotcha, you got it bad dontcha? Thats cool as heyal!!

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Love is picking up his used kleenex that he obviously did not even try to get into the trash can.

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Love is when he says “I love you”.

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@ WillieD – Yup.

love is – when you thinkin’ “damn dem ooooosss”.

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Love is thinking about how much I love the fact that today is Friday and I don’t have to work tomorrow.

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You’re right Sassy who cares about pretty much anything at that point lmao!!

Wise D

But if I’m not getting it, is it all that bad to think about it?? lol

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All I can say Eli is it’s Fridaaaay

It hurts so good your toe nails hurts!

Shyyyt….where they do that at?…

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everyone needs to go to church this weekend

Love is when you are singing his praises and you never made it out of bed to church.

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Eli

My mom would back hand you for putting tongues in the same sentence with sexing!!!

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Dream_n I get “to sleep in late on Saturdays”. Saturdays are his day to get up with her. Most of time he just go gets her and brings her into bed with us until he is ready to get up.

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Love is attentive intimacy

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but THANK YOU JESUS

LOL SexyCool. We have to be careful with that. Like the time he whispered in my ear while exploding, “Sweet Mutha of Jezuz”.

I was like Lord please forgive us both. LOL

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My mom would back hand you for putting tongues in the same sentence with sexing!!!

Naw Dream not the “backhand”..lol. I mean he is kinda borderline blaspheming but he didn’t mean it. But on the real you know he has a valid question. I’m on your side Eli

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Cemeeli Don’t pay Willie Dynamite no mind, I’m loving your posts.

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@Dream_N it better me making you speak in tongue then World Changers (Mr. Dollar) teaching you how to speak in tongue! Did I just say that!

Short-out to all the shawty’s who are determined to receive Johnson like no other women in the world!

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love is taboo? yeah right!

love is “for sho’”

love is – why keep asking me?

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Love is…
Getting a phone call at work that he’s been arrested. Getting off work driving to the police station to get the keys to the truck to move the truck from a “no parking area” only to get to the jail and the officers are acting like a bunch of aholes and will not give you the car keys. Then driving to where the car is only to find out that someone has flattened 2 of his tires. Calling a tow truck to tow the truck to the back of his moms house. Panicking b/c I can’t get in touch with him to get more information. Calling my mom to pick up poo and take her to her house until everything is finished. Waiting for the tow truck to get there to tow the truck.. following the tow truck to his ma’s house. Going back up to the jail to get some info. Learning that he’s in ther over a missed court date for a traffic violation. Waiting until the next morning to see what his bond will be to get out (barely sleeping). Getting up to go to court having to hear about 25 diff cases before he finally comes out, learning that his bond was $750. Cursing at myself b/c I wanted to use that money for something else. Paying the bond and waiting almost 5-6 hrs for them to let him out… (i ain’t doing that ish again…

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Let it out Sassy that means when you are feeling good and happy, GOD comes to your mind! Let it flow! Let it flow!

Like IKD stated earlier it is my duty to please that booty and if you start shouting out the lord’s name, I know am pleasing dat booty!

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love is like a trip abroad, but you didn’t pack your heart – he keeps it at home

Cemeeli, I like that.

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Let it flow! Let it flow!

I did Eli….in more ways than one!!

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Love is when I tripped over his baggage and feel in love and he now helps me carry mine.

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If I don’t call God’s name at least one, he’s not doing it right.

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Love is understanding that his faults and mishaps shape him into the man that he is striving to be

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Love is being able to walk away….

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last but not least…

love is when you put your selfishness aside, and wait on God…

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Oh god! oh god! oh god!

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Elijah – Get it right its IDK not IKD cause I dont be Ike Turnering nobody.. I let Desmond do all the beating..

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DK

What you doin’ over there… Are you mocking the ladies??

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Paying the bond and waiting almost 5-6 hrs for them to let him out… (i ain’t doing that ish again…

Maybe not for the wrong one…but auh, love abounds.

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You just might be on to something Cee

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Raqi – “Love don’t pay the bills, but what love makes him do (get out and go to work) gets the bills paid.” Say it again chica

Love is going to watch him play basketball even after a long day at work and fighting traffic to get clear across town and seeing him smile at the sight of you.

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Love will have you wearing a diaper and driving 900 miles to get your man, despite the fact your dumbarse is married to sombody else.

I was watching the television the other day and they mentioned that astronaut. That wasn’t love, that was stalking and just plain crazy.

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Do I know you? No, really. ~laughing~

Bedroom talk is universal. Obviously.

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Love is going to watch him play basketball

Mo Yep and don’t even like basketball but I beez there with bells and whistles on being his biggest courtside cheerleader.

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Dream_n/Raqi – cause he just likes to know that you ARE his biggest cheerleader. On and off the court…

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Good one, Raqi….

Love is going to watch him play basketball even after a long day at work and fighting traffic to get clear across town and seeing him smile at the sight of you. Worth repeating!

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Love is him coming to watch you play softball after he’s been at the office all day. Arriving at the park still wearing his button down with the Polo sweater vest and khaki’s, carrying a to-go order of fried catfish from The Pearl.

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carrying a to-go order of fried catfish from The Pearl.

-checkmate!!!

love is ——————— when i find again i will let you know…right now i cant remember anything worthy to speak of…love is milkbox to me!

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will

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Rell da retard….boy….you stoopit….

Check and Mate!!! Hilarious!!!

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@Rell, you don’t want the blue lights…sounds like you want the Red Light Special.

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Talking about Love got me wanting to go home and listen to some Luther this evening.

One look in your eyes and there I see
Just what you mean to me
Here in my heart I believe
Your love is all I’ll ever need
Holdin’ you close through the night
I need you, yeah

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Rell – you’se a fool dude!! LOL

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Love makes you just want to break out in song at random moments.

Love is when you let him use your bathroom. That’s for Professor

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Especially when the site of blood, pus and stuff like that makes your stomach turn.

Tazzee True indicator that you was a goner. LOL

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…stepping in for a moment.

Are we talking sappy or freaky?

Shoot let me check for Melo, Dream and a few other names and that will tell me. Hold on…let me see

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@Tazzee…dang I haven’t let one use my bathroom yet! LOL, but I believe you.

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Shucky darn….Eli – blushing again.
Just sharing the view from my window on the world.
As my boy on FB says, “It only has to make sense to you and Him.” And I’m finding that most of the time He and I are the only ones that it makes sense to anyways.

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Love is me asking him to leave “it” on my back. ~remembering~

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Seriously, love is not keeping tabs I hate when someone brings up what they have done for me. So love is giving from the heart without any motives…simply giving.

Now that was my nice thought of the day. I have spoken in tongues before and vice versa some of you guys are sopranos with all that screaming and yelling…

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Love is when you refrain from reaching thru the phone and chopping him in his throat when he calls to say he forgot to pickup the clothes from the cleaners and needs me to do it instead.

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Prof – I personally like a little screaming and yelling.. I dont bother me.. I like it when She gettin it and gettin it good and she acknowledges that.. It kills me when women will bite a hole in their lip and run all over the bed rather than let it out.. Babe look I can feel when I touch the bottom..

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Dreamin I was smiling until I saw that HIM…I guess between using my bathroom and mopping the floors I am doomed to enjoy tender-freaky-squeaky–pow-wow moments of slow brewing speaking in tongues clap-out moments of bliss.

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One of Hank Stewart’s FB status messages today said, “When you love someone you would give up everything for them, but if they love you back, they would never ask you to.”

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DK,

I heard that!

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“Damn Baby”

That will make us put in more work believe me!!!

Words of pleasurement will get you everywhere!!

okay I’m done for today..

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Love is when I tie him up and blindfold him and he does not know what I am going to do to him…

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Blindfolding/Choking are up in the air…
Never tried either, but both kinda scare me…

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I dont need to choke you. I told ya’ll I leave all the dirty deeds to Desmond.. He’ll choke the Ish out ya..

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Mo – Thats one of my biggest turn ons to see her get to where she needs to be.. Im gonna get mine.. Im there for her musical enjoyment..

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sight or use of the hands, but not both

Now that can be interesting MO

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Prof – and definitely no hand cuffs..

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Love is when we role play because I am every woman…

Not to mention playing “house”

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FA REAL MO…when is papa smurf letting you out to play.dayum…i will take my hands…lol

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Prof – I can do the blindfold but I aint getting tied up.. I dont trust anyone that much..

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…I am not into choking, though…just blindfolding and restraining you.

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@MO….you like to see the guys O face…..what is papa smurf namber…i am calling to see if you can come out and have a smurfy good time…..lol

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Rell – You stoopid! You know Papa Smurf doesnt know what goes on in my mushroom house!

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Well I am out too…

Hopefully it did not get to steamy in here.

Shout out to all my lurkers that like to read. I think us freaks call you all voyeurs

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I think Infamous and Dream_n are tied for the award!

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Have a good weekend all!

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Ahhh….choking one of WD favorite topics!

Who unleashed that inner freak in MO?

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No need for any quotes on this subject, but

“Hope everyone bust a knutt 2nite by any means necessary!”

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Ok… now THIS is hilarious.

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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves.”
– 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

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