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Hurts So Good

There is nothing like the emotions you go through when you are falling for someone.  I liken it to what I think falling out of an airplane would feel, but I haven’t skydived yet so I am speculating.  You are taking a calculated risk. You have your parachute and your tandem partner that you trust completely.

You take the leap and you have an initial feeling of utter bliss and joy.  The moment you fall out feels surreal and unbelievable.  Then perhaps you look at exactly how high you are and maybe start to panic a bit.  You hope that your rip cord works and that you and your partner won’t fall too badly because you know it will hurt if your parachute doesn’t open.

I know this makes falling in love sound terrifying and exhilarating all at once.  That’s kind of the point, really.  It can be the best feeling in the world when it’s good.  When it’s bad? Ouch.  It doesn’t matter how scary it is, most of us won’t stop chasing that feeling of being in love.

Have you ever been in love? How would you describe the emotions? How did you know that it was love and not lust? What about that infatuation phase? Is it a dangerous thing to mistake infatuation for love or is that a natural part of it?

What do men think when they feel that first surge of strong emotions about a woman? What if they aren’t prepared for it and it catches them by surprise?

Recently, singer Alicia Keys asked an interesting love question on Twitter: “In love is it better to go for the choice that is smart or the choice that has spark?”

I am not sure if the smart choice would be without spark, wouldn’t that make it the settling choice? What are your thoughts?


402 comments Add your comment

Beautiful

November 13th, 2009
1:27 pm

**Love is not something you can choose to do or not do**

wow! someone actually understands what i’ve been talkin’ bout. thank you for posting this!

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:28 pm

Hurts So Good is when hours later you can still feel the grip of his strong manly hand from him gripping your thigh pulling you onto him and not letting go until you explode.

Leggs

November 13th, 2009
1:28 pm

Ok, was waiting for someone to actually take the title where it needs to go. Thanks, Raqi!

It hurts so good when that slap on the buttocks have you screaming Do It Again!

Come on Professor, I know you won’t disappoint!

SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.

November 13th, 2009
1:29 pm

Speaking of Swizzbeats and his tutorial on yesterday. Last night, I remember thinking through this haze of pure delight. “Has MND been reading the same ish Swiss has about them concentric circles?”

LAWD GEEZUS!!!!

Tazzee - Love being loved.

November 13th, 2009
1:30 pm

Afternoon folks!!!

I knew it was love when I got to the place when I couldn’t imagine my life without him. And trust, I was the queen of being able to picture men walking out the door. I think it was a defense mechanism – I kept that picture in the forefront. Now I hate when Sunday evenings come.

Sassy Me – it’s progressed to one of those convos.

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:31 pm

Hurts So Good is when you call into work the next day with a bogus excuse because “He blowed my back out” is not acceptable in the HR manual.

SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.

November 13th, 2009
1:32 pm

Hurts so good is when you feel him past the cervical mouth.

Dammit, why am I feeling you in my diaphragm? But……don’t stop.

MELO

November 13th, 2009
1:33 pm

Avoiding the wet spot.

Luv is when uall roll over again and again,on ur wet spots on the bed…just tearing and tiring each other out!

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:34 pm

Hurts So Good is when you got that bump on your head from hitting the headboard.

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:35 pm

Hurts so good is when you feel him past the cervical mouth

Makes you holla ‘get the f*** out of there’. All puns intended.

Willie Dynamite

November 13th, 2009
1:37 pm

Afternoon All,

I see you guys started the day wide open. I know summa yall had a helluva night.
On Topic – I knew it was Love when I started turning down new puddy in hand. I was a goner and didnt even fight it.

Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first

November 13th, 2009
1:39 pm

Hurts so good is when he’s deep inside you.. and the thrust becomes harder and harder and you feel your self about to reach that O and then he slows back down and you feel it slipping away, but he starts thrusting harder again and again and you’re about to get there, but he slows down again…. and then you slap the sh!t outta him…

Yeah that’s some good hurting…

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:40 pm

Hurts So Good is when you are fast asleep it feels like a baby kangaroo is kicking the floor of your pelvis.

I call it love trembles.

MELO

November 13th, 2009
1:40 pm

“Has MND been reading the same ish Swiss has about them

watch that boy SexxyCool!..is he hitting it evreyday??

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:43 pm

Hurts So Good is when you got rug burn.

Cemeeli

November 13th, 2009
1:46 pm

love is when the sound of his laugh makes your heart grin

love is in the quiet of the phone…our souls speak loud

love is when those souls collide…

Leggs

November 13th, 2009
1:46 pm

Ok, Dream_n I have to give that one to you. I laughed so loud the person walking in the hallway peeped in and asked if I was ok.

@SCool ~ I remember those hitting the back of the diaphram days.

Hurts so bad = Sweet Pain. It hurts so bad that while sitting at your desk you’re making sure your thighs don’t touch!

Ok, I think I’m fed up enuf (or backed up enuf) to actually get a maintenance man! Let me see…..

SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.

November 13th, 2009
1:46 pm

Yep. Er’day.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 13th, 2009
1:48 pm

LMBAO @ Raqi’s 1:31!! Aint that the dayum truth!!

Hurts so good when you are getting your ride’em cowgirl on and he tries to stop the groove by grippin your hips JUST RIGHT!

Elijah ....

November 13th, 2009
1:48 pm

Oh by the way when you truly love someone is something I call completing the cycle because now you take into accounts how your actions will affect your SO happiness! Unselfness, caring, being thoughtful and striving to make someone happy now become first in your life!

Leggs

November 13th, 2009
1:49 pm

Nawwwwww, can’t do it (LOL)!

Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first

November 13th, 2009
1:50 pm

Ditto Leggs!!!

MELO

November 13th, 2009
1:50 pm

It Hurts So Good when she stops u in ur tracks after going at it for some minutes,”hold on”,she withdraws,reaches for the cold glass of water on the night stand,”gulp,gulp, gulp”,she drinks, then checks back on the bed,in previous commando positon and proceeds to hold my warm, elongated,throbing and bulging “johnnie boy” by the throat,and dips him right back in position,muttering,”aaggghhhhh,phluck me”!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

November 13th, 2009
1:50 pm

Hurt so good is when you deep in the session and he hits that spot and you scream….but it’s a different scream and ERRTHING stops…..then he looks up/down at you and says “you alright?”…you mutter “yes” and he proceeds to tear that azz uuuuup!

Cemeeli

November 13th, 2009
1:51 pm

love is when you know you’re a goner and you don’t want to do a thing to change it…

love is when he plays the “soundtrack” when you need it most

love is when the kid wants a part of it…

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

November 13th, 2009
1:51 pm

Hurt so good is when you HAVE to wear a skirt the next day…underwear is optional.

SexyCool - 13 is my favorite number.

November 13th, 2009
1:53 pm

Or at least every day I see him which is at least three or four times a week.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

November 13th, 2009
1:53 pm

…it’s progressed to one of those convos.

Tazzee chirl this is like part two from yesterday…okaaay?!

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:54 pm

he tries to stop the groove by grippin your hips JUST RIGHT!

Mo, or you teasing him a little and won’t let him get control of your hips and he flips you onto the bed and takes it like he wants it and all you can you is grin and enjoy. Driving it hard, driving it deep.

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:58 pm

Hurts So Good is when he can’t take his shirt off on the court because of the claw marks in his back.

Geez, you guys do realize...

November 13th, 2009
1:58 pm

… that Raqi and the Professor (think Eddie Murphy in the Absent Minded Professor) are both well over 400lbs each – you couldn’t find their “Y” if they spotted you the X and the Z!

i'm swiss

November 13th, 2009
1:58 pm

Happy Freaky Friday Folks. See now, Wise, I cannot be blamed for today’s depravity. I see we’ve still got some h0rny peeps in blogville today… :lol:

“Speaking of Swizzbeats and his tutorial on yesterday…”

SCool — I think I should start my own cunnilingus self-help/motivational speaking tour. Anyone remember Tom Cruise’s character in Magnolia? I’m thinking along those lines, but with a different catch phrase: “WORSHIP the pdussy!” :lol:

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
1:59 pm

Hurts So Good is when you fall off the bed but don’t realize you hurt yourself until the next day.

Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first

November 13th, 2009
2:00 pm

Hurt so good is when he’s hitt’n it from the back (not anal) in deep concentration cause your butt is just popping and shanking and moving to every thrust he gives you. You start saying stuff that he can’t hear/understand then he BAM smacks your azz and tells you to talk louder and you get a little louder and he smacks you again and tells you to scream it…. and you scream some obscene sh!t he’s never heard before and he starts thrusting and smacking thrusting and smacking thrusting and smacking….. WHEW!!

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
2:00 pm

Hurts So Good is when the thought of him leaving makes you cry.

Willie Dynamite

November 13th, 2009
2:00 pm

Similac – I see you tryn to be good and all but ion thank they talking bout LOVE no mo.

i'm swiss

November 13th, 2009
2:01 pm

D@mn, Dream_n! That’s a lot to type with one hand:lol:

Cemeeli

November 13th, 2009
2:02 pm

love is when you know he’ll haunt your heart for the rest of your life

love is losing weight and gaining pieces to you heart

love is no starved hearts

Leggs

November 13th, 2009
2:02 pm

It hurts so good your toe nails hurts!

Leggs

November 13th, 2009
2:04 pm

Dream_n has moved up a few pegs!

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
2:04 pm

Love is when he goes to the store, comes back and says ‘I got you something’ and it’s a pint of your favorite Ben & Jerry’s.

Cemeeli

November 13th, 2009
2:05 pm

love was found at the residence of m.i.a.

Cemeeli

November 13th, 2009
2:05 pm

love is ….

MELO

November 13th, 2009
2:06 pm

he’s hitt’n it from the back (not anal) in deep

Dream_n, im actually watching a white hiusewife getting it from a black dude on megarotica…..mayne….her puddsy is making flpingg noises ……tetetete

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
2:06 pm

Love Is. Period.

Cemeeli

November 13th, 2009
2:07 pm

WillieD – Well see boss, i see it like this…

love is – not predicated according to what’s going on around me…

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
2:07 pm

Hurts So Good is when you wearing his hicky on your right inner thigh and left breast.

Dream_n (One action can change the course of your life forever..Be wise think first

November 13th, 2009
2:09 pm

Oh shoot I thought we were stilll on Hurt so Good… my bad

Love is wearing one of his t-shirts while blasting one of his favorites songs on the radio… getting ready for him to come home…

Raqi...Living love in progress

November 13th, 2009
2:10 pm

Love is wearing one of his t-shirts

Yep.

Willie Dynamite

November 13th, 2009
2:11 pm

Similac – gotcha, you got it bad dontcha? Thats cool as heyal!!