In an attempt to understand the male psyche, I asked a few men the question that a lot of women have pondered. Why won’t men tell everything? I got a lot of great insight about this. Apparently, it’s one of those “be careful what you wish for” kind of things that we think we want but probably won’t like it.
What makes some men avoid telling it all is the reactions they think they will get once the disclose what they are truly thinking. It’s not about any fear (well not physical fear, hopefully) of women, but it is the dread of getting the cold shoulder, bad attitudes, and having the sex come to a screeching hault.
It takes a long time for some men to even trust their mate with their inner thoughts. During that time, he is observing how the woman responds to stress, disappointment, anger, etc. This tells him a lot about her character and maturity. Once they get that trust, often times they are more willing to share with you what they are thinking and feeling.
Guys, when do you feel that you can give full disclosure to the women you are dating? How can a woman show that she is trustworthy? Why are some men drawn to the type of woman they can’t trust fully and stay in a relationship with her?
Ladies, have you ever dated someone who told you everything? I am talking full disclosure and honesty about who he was, his intentions, etc. Was it a great experience? Did you find that you had to adjust to that type of honesty all the time?
When you are exploring a relationship, do you want to know everything about the person you are dating?